My dad was a drunkard and a very violent man, beating us and our mother together..you could not tell when you were wrong or right BUT never at one time did our mom lead us to disrespect him...we respect him to date cause mom would always remind us that he is our father.I thank God our family was not torn apart.😢😢😢😢😢
This man should be enjoying his old age, not fighting over land, homes and titles. It really breaks my heart. Even if he made mistakes, he still educated his kids and made sacrifices for them to get where they are. May God fight for him 🙏
We want to hear the other side of this story. He has painted himself like a saint. We want to know what that wife and children experienced from this man.
That curse direct, hio hakuna shortcut, and. It will follow their generation and generation to come, I have my dad brother who used to insults my grandfather, it never affected the parents but the kids huko kunakuanga kama kwa hutu na tusi, watu waache kucheza na wazazi
Exactly that's a curse direct from earth to heaven from parent to God the children will suffer till 4th generation woiii and their generation will be innocent but coz of their father they will suffer woiii God have mercy bring peace and forgiveness in this family for the sake of the future generations
Whether mzee is right or wrong, children should love their father, He carries your blessings, he educated you. Children, seek forgiveness from your father, otherwise you are cursed...
Jeremy,Alice Njeri Muya was my classmate in Mercy/Eldama Ravine Girls.Her father was a very caring Father and infarct did everything to see them succeed..Alice please,talk to your brothers and sisters to mend this stitches b4 is too late.
Men really hate their wives, and they openly bring up the fights watoto wakiona. The kids grow up seeing it all, but helpless. When these kids mature, they already know who to side with, and the men get bitter when that time comes. Hapa kuna mbegu alipanda, ikaanguka on fertile soil. BUT DESPITE ALL THAT, RESPECT YOUR PARENTS
Is good the Mzee separate himself for his sanity and safety no need to stay in a toxic environment relationship or anything find a way out life is short enjoy while you are alive uko tunaenda hatujui kama kuna popcorn 🍿 soda 🥤 na movies kama hii 😂😂
I witnessed the neighbour of my aunt hugging him self because of such situations,the children abandoned him and supported their mother alone ,may God give us wisdom ,we should love both parents no matter what.
The father sold his property to take them to America. They shud have.bought that hithii, Nissan, and as well built rentals fir the.dad.he sacrificed so much for them. They are si many in America fir th😮em to agree to attract such a curse from their Dad. May God talk to them before its too late.
This man is speakong the truth,Alex was my school mate at Mona primary school and this Dad has suffered too much every one in our neighbourhood knows it.Respct to our parents is vwry important.
So sorry, Dad, is ready to forgive you , do it now the moment he is alive visit him and help him even you can buy him a new house if you want your children to do as you did to your dad. That's is what the Bible says. My dad was just like your dad but we used to love him, God has blessed us plus our grandchildren, and he changed . God is there for us again blessings comes from Dad's. Please take care of your dad he educated you and took care of you. Have peace in God we will continue trusting God all will be well. God have mercy of this family. 😊
The Bible says that it's a woman who builds her home with her two hands and the foolish woman destroys with the same hands. The truth is, a woman can be able to bring her children together by showing them how to love their father since he's the one who carries their Blessings. Every woman must zip her mouth while talking to her children not to talk anything against their father whether he educated them or not, whether he catered them or not.......May God give women wisdom in Jesus Name
Sad story,material possessions have no value when one is cursed! Value, love & respect your parents,what goes around comes around,the mother should be wiser????
This is how we children invite curses in our lives.Just because you despise your father, dosent mean you take him through hell and high water. If you are one of those ,am not God,but I know you have a direct curse from God.Just wait and see your life,.you think you are powerful and smart now,you will pay with your life. Micie ni ndogo.May God bless this father and keep him strong. To alice hugs and keep your head up..
This story holds no water till we hear from other parties . I don’t judge anyone, but I know there is no way a child can hate a parent for no apparent reason. Period. Something happened somewhere.. so huyu aache kutafuta huruma. And I am speaking from experience. This fathers behave like the kids just woke up and start hating them, they are absent till their kids make it in life then they show up saying their kids are not supporting them. JD, tafuta the kids we hear the other part of the story.
Wewe wacha kuleta your trauma here.This Father was present for his children including educating them and selling hisprime properties to take them to USA...five of them...This is quit a fit.Truth be said the wife is Toxic and predatory and managed to sell the same toxicity aganistthe father to her dimwit children.Anyways the wife has lived her life but the children will bear the blunt of a debilitating curse..Let them beg forgiveness from the Father...Kiburi mingi haitawasaidia...
Sad indeed n fact that he even took them abroad is a big plus. The so called children should not come between their dad and mother.He may not be the best dad but he carries ua baraka. lord Jesus have mercy on this family. may they find peace
Huyu baba hata kama anaoa wanawake wengi au nini, ukweli nikwamba aliwalea nakuwasomesha anafaa kumupea heshima, mama Yao ni selfish nataka kukula matunda ya watoto peke take, but wanawake wengi hufanya hivio, watoto wakikua wakubwa Hana haja na bwana Tena mungu atusaidie sisi wamama
JD.. you have resilience, listening and attending to a lot of issues... You deserve a recommendation for alternative dispute resolutions.. This is awesome 😎..
Av some issues unatupa watoto unao bb na others kid but uas u can't help after they grow u start curse bible say inyui ciana respect ua parent na inyui aciari mutikairie ciana ngoro,u av falled ua part ad it's good u call them bila dat bitterness u forgive one another
@@PeterKaranja-n2fthose are not children but spoilt,,, mtoto Sio damu Siku hizi....guthukio by their mam. The dad fought for them mpaka they went to USA...
I think this man is being genuine.He is against any injustice done by the sons to the daughter.He is willing to forgive those who have wronged Him.This is the love of a father to His children.wenye wametajwa mtafuteni kabla ya kesho tafadhari.Muchiari ni Ngai wa Keri.
Muya is my friend and he narrated to me many stories about his life,he was my childhood neighbour,this day he was being arrested I was just from primary school,I found like 20 police in hi home.
It doesn't matter whether the coin has two sides but respect to the parents. Parent maybe toxic but my opinion ni kumkaa mbali and also sometimes silence is the best option.
Men,,,, when we're in marriage and you hurt us frequently, with mipango ya kando or not being responsible fully, we women take time to revenge. But it's good to be human sometimes, children plz take care of your parents irregardless
I suspect that this man had affairs & spent most of his money on this women while the kids were growing up, so when the kids grew up & started making money they could not trust their dad with the money lest he plunders it with other women instead of their mom
Mzee,when i listen to your story, it reflects with what Mrs Kiama of metha ya kagoni says... the way you treat your wife when your kids are young, it comes back to you at old age... make peace with your children. Kirumi gia ûtûrîka ona ngai ndetîkîrîte
This men are too abusive ,me I love mum so so much ..I feel like hateful to my dad ..abusing my sick mother dictator even when my child is there he don’t mind . God give me grace coz I feel like I will take my mum with me and forget I had dad
I personally loved my dad but for sure I’m bitter ….I feel like if mom happes to die to say I will never send any support to him…he’s too much he has been too much before I wouldn’t mind coz my mum was strong but now my mom is cancer patient and dad can’t give her a break ..I’m praying God to give me patience coz it has reached a point I decided not to keep quiet again ..😢ata kama ni quet ..ata mum akiuliza mfanyi kazi chumvi anatusiwa na ni mm nimeandika mfanyi kazi
@@ruthwanjiku3495do you live near or you are away? If your mom is healing from cancer, get her away from there for her last days to be peaceful.may God give you guidance and peace
I think there's a lot that we don't know about this man.he seems to be a very bitter person who is not happy to see his wife receiving support from the children.
Children should never interfere with their parent's relationship. The interviewer should understand that it's the gentleman's pain and the children should be the ones to ask for forgiveness. We are obligated to respect our parents regardless of their short comings. They had a great dad. Some people had abusive parents and yet, they still respect and honor them.
There are blessings that belongs to our parents,no matter how wrong they are,we should always respect them,Even your pastor can't bless you,before your parents,this children should take care of this man and let bygones be bygones,mzee has struggled to bring them in USA,love your parents with their weakness
Let not anger or bitterness dictate the direction of our life and those around us. Forgiveness is important. Very sad turn of events. Again children should not involve themselves in their parents affair.
This is to all men to learn to respect their wives. If you beat your wife before children and choose concubine you kill your relationship with children as they grow. The pain of this father is coming from loosing a good wife and seeing her live well at old age. 10 children walisomaje na mshahara ya catechist
Oky it's true bt iyo ni maneno ÿa wazazi watoto wajitafutie baraka juu ata kama baba walikua na vita na mathy none of your business though hamuezi jiangalilia akiuawa lazima mpige duru instead ya kumpiga na kumtusi baba die ako na baraka acheni mchezo na laana its real wajukuu dio wako na shida
This is so wrong, children aren't supposed to favour or rely on any side, muciari ni muciari ata kama ni mbaya aje, na niwe Ngai ya keri, praying for peace amongst them all, may God intervene & restore back this family. It's a family that I know 😢
I live in boston with lots of kenyans and this is not the first time i have seen this? every time older couples or parents move here they end up fighting or seperating
They have to come down & ask for forginess, our grandpa used to have three wives, but wen guka call them they refuse d to go. He said if I don't have children wen am alive, Even wen I die. Our guka died 1995 by 2000.No.body was remaining. I pity dem.
Let's stop your arguments. These children who have been cursed by a father with a reason,are under a curse. Unless they come to the father 'augukwo' undo what he has cursed.
What I Have Learnt, Kids Should Never Get In Between The Parents. There’s No Other Father You Will Ever Get, Like Your Dad. He Is An Amateur God On Earth. Jeremy We Too Need To Hear From The Mother Too, Right Of Reply Please. Two-Sided Story.
No no, before we conclude let's get to the bottom of the matter, did francis muya marry a second wife,? Was he not a catechist? A man of GOD? People be honest, let the family talk, don't rush to conclusions, be honest
Am not convinced that this mzee dint beat his wife regularly kulingana na vile anaeleza..children hurt much when the mother is mistreated. Revenge inakujanga hivyo. Despite all, children should respect fully their parents, help them and show them love just the way they provided. Muciari ni Ngai ya kerì. My opinion.
I agree, there are extremely toxic parents who make a permanent mark on their children's lives. However bitter they make you feel try to avoid them and don't answer them back because many look for chance to curse you, and hide there failures and the mistakes they did when the children were growing up. If possible support them from a distance. Trust God coz he only has a true version of the whole truth
Painful lord sooth this Mzee heart please. This bitterness of dad against kid's was in our house but we kid's swallowed pride we helped our dad out until his death he died a happy man and blessed us all. The issue is some men take advantage of kids for there gain kids when they realise parents become bitter. We paid endless loans of our dad that he can't be accounted for so parents don't take your kid's for your gain. God help us for sure
Their mother is a wicked woman! She should call the children and pray and talk to their father…please children go back to your father without that you are CURSED
😂😂😂😂 how did they got there? Every reaction is a response to an action….. families ziko na mambo……. If you want to live well, love everyone from far….. if you can, never inherit anything from your family….. this will protect your children from many things. These children would not wake up one day and hate their dad……
Don't JOKE with mzee, huyu amebeba blessings, l can remember my sister inlaw akitusi her dad wakiwa na bro yake , he cursed them na akaniita vile huyu mzee ameita Jeremy, hawakusikia wala kuoba msamaha. After his death , No more peace
Imagine I have had such stories where once the children are successful and goes abroad they sideline their Father who has toiled to take them abroad. To all mothers this is not right at all.
Men live their prime ages hating their wives.in old age,they become vulnerable and start putting blame on their wives when children come through for their mothers.he is married to another woman awachane na first wife
@@teslamumo1396 he now wants his children from his 1st hse to help him raise 2nd hse children? When he was tesaring them +their mother he didn't know one day they will grow & he may need their helping hand? Akae kando na ukali yake
Man remember these are adults,dont treat your grown family like kids. Enda chini pia,do not dictate,you are a dictator please. The other thing,you are a narcissist.!!!and you don't know it. Seems you mistreated the kids and your wife wakiwa wadogo. If you mistreated your family,you pay in old age. If you want healing and to enjoy your old age,bring your family together.
Pole so much baba as am sure all that havoc n chaos hv bn caused by Ur former lady ie wife am also married to a family of ever bitter chaos so heavily ALMIGHTY GOD to lead n guide u stll stray children to lower their guts.
Men have to come out and speak out on injustices they face in old age so that different families learn and make the right choices. I have come to realise many children want to separate their parents maybe because of hardships they faced growing up but i think no matter what a couple goes through if they decide to stick together its not the childrens business to try to initiate separarion of the two.
Life have taught me never to judge until I hear the other side of the story . Parents should also respect their children be a good parent respect your children and respect would come automatically.
Ngai if they know the importance of a dad in the family just go and talk with him.My lovely dad pssed in 2months ago.may his soul rest in peace he was wise dad.He did all to make sure ten of us we will live in peace even in his absence.Dads is the one who can bless no matter what aki.the battle between parents should not involve the kids.wise kids please up with ua dad as quickly as possible
Ngai naniguo mena baba wina ngoro njega na uretikira kuohera naihenya iwish ni my dad ni mheshimu all days of my life Ngai he muthuri uyu thayu na ugima wa mwiri
I'm a woman but we are the big contributers of division between fathers and children especially when the children are blessed. Whether this man has another family or not ....those kids should respect their father coz the mum moved on with her life... May God grant them wisdom to seek blessings from the father for they might not be affected by the fathers pain but their generations can be greatly affected.
Please Jeremy ask for the other side of the story. Out of ten children plus their mum one of them will tell us the other side of the story because it seems to have some gaps
A loving father should never curse his children. The children often side with the weaker person... He was hostile to them and their mother... However the children must honour their parents to be blessed...
Please let's respect other Peaple's opinions. Nobody in this platform has 100% correct information concerning the situation being discussed. Lets leave judgment to God. He who is always just
Thankyou Jeremy for airing this story,its just sad how parents fights and children take sides,its sad what this man is going through ,may God intervene in this case.
Navile mm huuliza mbona babangu alikufa aki nikiwa vry young ..life without a Dad isn't easy It's soo sad, kuona huyu mzee akiwa na hii pain juu ya watoto wake...Angehinga ritho umuthy..niguo mungemenya Baba efata....
This is a sad story but a common one among families in diaspora. Children despite how grown you think you are respect your parents and never sow a seed of discord among your parents.
These children were influenced by their mother. A wise woman builds her home and a foolish one breaks it with her own hands. I pray that they will reconcile with their dad who carries their blessings. God bless you JD.
Do not blame the mother...some men are narcists and can really mistreat the wife..think about it...if the woman could give forth to 10 children...there must have been a reason she switched off...it is not easy to bring up 10 children with such a difficult man...umeskia kalisema gatingiathwo she must have passed thru hell..kazee kanakaa wale wazee wa kutembea tembea.. Na hawa watoto alikua anasomesha na akina mama wa 'mwaki'...from tha way he is narrating..he is a crooked man..a dictator...bitter...alijishanganya na tuchungwa...sasa anavuna mavuno...be weary of soft spoke self sanitizing man..😂..alikua ameweka wanawake kado kado...hes is only bitter on the wife...coz she is happy...Jeremy.. mama akuje aseme pande yake....😅😊haka kamzee ni ka dictator...mara watoto...mara madugu...mara bibi...kanisa akapewa retire yaani kufukuzwa...huyu ako na maneno zake...hata huyo bibi ako naye ataeda..ni ka dictator turia tuteragwo....ni tu kaburu turia twa south africa always right and narcistic...blaming others on everything...them perpetualy good and everlasting right....nonsece...bitterness itakuua mzae...jirudie ujue ulikosea wapi...utubu dhabi zako...
@francisnjane3912 yes Francis...hako kamzae ni subua...hata kanisa ni kufukuzwa juu ya mabibi za wenyewe na watoto wa catechism...lazi ni kuzalishabtu usikaone ivo vile kamekauka...ni kana baana
Apologies resolve conflicts without violence, repairs divisions between nations and restores balanced to personal relationship. A lot of people are too scared to appear weak but apology is a gesture of goodwill and humanity. The parties need to talk as a family and not let pride rob them of their relationship
No matter how your parents are, never disrespect them. Never support one parent against the other. And women, always remember the carrier of your children's blessings is their father. So if you make them dishonor him, you have succeeded in ensuring they live under a curse. God's order is supreme no matter how right one thinks she is.
I took my time and i gain alot and i learned from this ...... and its not a walk in the park as usual 😢hapa the children should come running to seek for forgiveness coz only the man can bless 🙌 🙏 now tht he's open to forgiveness .
My mum aliachana na my dad 1981 nikiwa 3 months.. Vile tulikuwa wakubwa tukiwa na sis na bro wangu alianza kututafuta.. But my dad akawa ana demand sana..tukanza kumuodokea pole pole sasa hivi huwa ana blame mamangu kila kitu kama vile unaskia huyu mzee.. Huyu mzee anakaa ku demand pia na ile shinda iko aliowa bibi mwingine.. watoto huwa wanaona kama wanasaidia baba yao pesa ikikuliwa na mama mwingine.. huyu mzee ako na shinda why saa hii after kuzaa watoto kumi na bibi yake wakwanza?? Nī mùkora areda atůmagīrwo beca akīrīaga maraya ma townie 😅😅😅😅 Nīatige kwenderia ciana guoya wakīrumi but ile kitu nimemuheshimia nikwamba alifanya juu chini watoto wake wakue na maisha mema. I salute 🫡 him for that..
This man is not like your dad,amesomesha watoto wake wote,na wako ngambo,aliuza Mali yake ndio watoto wasone,plz don't compare him to your dad who did nothing but came back to demand,listen the story well
I salute this man ,he is stressed by the wife for refusing to transfer the plot to daughter who bought it but , it registered to his brother who didn't contribute even a single cent
Their Mother has a Big problem... Even if the father is doing what it's her obligation to remind them he's theirs father.But another q is ,are these children under age ,if someone is mature to the extent of getting married why don't you challenge the NEGATIVE LOOKING PARENT.THEY ARE OF THEIR AGE AND KNOWING EVERYTHING,I HATE THE MOTHER 😮
Children, it doesn't matter whether you are over eighty years, as long as your parents are arrive or dead, please, please respect and honor them, so that you may live long.
If he was a catechist, i wonder what he was teaching if he could curse his children. Please make peace with yourself to live a long life. The children will see their mistakes and will come to you and bless them. To err is to human but to forgive is divine.
He has given them an opportunity to come for reconciliation. Even God whom we serve says, if we repent our sin, we will be forgiven. Even those children have a choice.
Nothing in this world is as important as your parents and your children so compromises are important,children respect your parents and they will bless you especially your father regardless of what!!
If I was one of his children I will go alone to apologize to my father for the sake of my self n my children. Something like this happened to my older 3 sisters but 2 went back differently to apologize to our father n he forgive them but the 1 didn't after my father died she became miserable she was in abroad but she lost everything n her children inherited the curse too. The way they live i can't even wish my worse enemy. Your parent carry blessings n curses it you as a child you choose.
A man who sold his properties to better his kids life at USA shows he is a good father,but unfortunately the kids decided to take sides because of their parent misunderstanding,The good thing they can do is they shouldn't argue with the dad but seek forgiveness to avoid generation curse,😢
Being in Dementia Care and seeing how everything is vanity changed how i view life. I have seen accomplished people humbled in death. No point in carrying bitterness in your life.Live for the day and enjoy what comes with that day. Parents cursing children who like everything else, are gifts from God is not good. Let go and let God in everything - is my motto. Lord keep reminding me that this world is not my home and am just passing by🙏
It’s so sad I can’t even listen more please daddy give heart to your 3 children bless them tell them not to follow poured water Alice , Tony and the girl will be blessed by you and they will do much better
My dad was a drunkard and a very violent man, beating us and our mother together..you could not tell when you were wrong or right BUT never at one time did our mom lead us to disrespect him...we respect him to date cause mom would always remind us that he is our father.I thank God our family was not torn apart.😢😢😢😢😢
That is exactly my story and I am abroad and I make sure dad has money because when he says God bless me I know everything will be ok with me
Families has messes that is hard to come to terms with. Saw it all ruth.
Same with us 😢
Same as our story, though mum passed away and we love Dad so much
My father was drunked ,ad he was beating my mother ,bt my mum could not let us to interfear with my father
This man should be enjoying his old age, not fighting over land, homes and titles. It really breaks my heart. Even if he made mistakes, he still educated his kids and made sacrifices for them to get where they are. May God fight for him 🙏
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We want to hear the other side of this story. He has painted himself like a saint. We want to know what that wife and children experienced from this man.
That curse direct, hio hakuna shortcut, and. It will follow their generation and generation to come, I have my dad brother who used to insults my grandfather, it never affected the parents but the kids huko kunakuanga kama kwa hutu na tusi, watu waache kucheza na wazazi
Ngai ti mukigu nionaga, gutiri kirumi,, Ngai niari kihoto akorwo baba wanyu nimwega cokeria😂Ngai ngatho
Exactly that's a curse direct from earth to heaven from parent to God the children will suffer till 4th generation woiii and their generation will be innocent but coz of their father they will suffer woiii God have mercy bring peace and forgiveness in this family for the sake of the future generations
Mūciari niwe Ngai wa kerī, nimethe ithe wao nowe ūngimarathima.
Tutiagiriirwo ni ngutia aciari tondu tu niega notondu nio maturehire thi riria utemenyaga magikorwo ho niundu waku twagiriirwo nikumatiya onatwaga kumahe onaki.
@@lucyguldstrom5483ya kutukana na kupiga mzazi ipo direct.... whether he is toxic or not. People should be extra careful
Its painful, wherever the children are, come and apologize before its too late. sorry dad for what ever your going through.
and so should be your fellow saint; the mommy
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There is more to this story than meets the eye.
Alice you are a good daughter. You are blessed for acknowledging and honouring your father.
Whether mzee is right or wrong, children should love their father, He carries your blessings, he educated you. Children, seek forgiveness from your father, otherwise you are cursed...
Fathers also should not annoying the children
It's the 5th commandment.
@@puritywambui9145 commandment with a promise nasi tafadhali
@@alicewangoi9512yes but regardless of how much parents annoy them, the children have no right to beat and disrespect them.
@@alicewangoi9512 your reasoning is very unwise.
Jeremy,Alice Njeri Muya was my classmate in Mercy/Eldama Ravine Girls.Her father was a very caring Father and infarct did everything to see them succeed..Alice please,talk to your brothers and sisters to mend this stitches b4 is too late.
Men really hate their wives, and they openly bring up the fights watoto wakiona. The kids grow up seeing it all, but helpless.
When these kids mature, they already know who to side with, and the men get bitter when that time comes.
Hapa kuna mbegu alipanda, ikaanguka on fertile soil.
BUT DESPITE ALL THAT, RESPECT YOUR PARENTS
Very well stated.
Both my parents went to be with the lord. I wish this children should know the importance of parents
Me too I do not have my parents they don't know what they are missing
Weehe I know what you and me are lacking but God is faithful.
Is good the Mzee separate himself for his sanity and safety no need to stay in a toxic environment relationship or anything find a way out life is short enjoy while you are alive uko tunaenda hatujui kama kuna popcorn 🍿 soda 🥤 na movies kama hii 😂😂
'Kikuyus: Always a Kikuyu' should definitely be a reality show! Get your popcorn ready! 🍿 #KikuyuWomen #BossLadyVibes"
I witnessed the neighbour of my aunt hugging him self because of such situations,the children abandoned him and supported their mother alone ,may God give us wisdom ,we should love both parents no matter what.
Lord we surrender this family unto You. May they KNOW and Experience Your Love ❤ that endures forever. In Christ's Name we pray, Amen.
Amen.
The father sold his property to take them to America. They shud have.bought that hithii, Nissan, and as well built rentals fir the.dad.he sacrificed so much for them. They are si many in America fir th😮em to agree to attract such a curse from their Dad. May God talk to them before its too late.
This man is speakong the truth,Alex was my school mate at Mona primary school and this Dad has suffered too much every one in our neighbourhood knows it.Respct to our parents is vwry important.
@@annenjuguna3457 please try get Alex talk to him to know his dad's status needs them back for their blessings & love at most.
Iknow how mom's buy the children's minds especially wakipata doo
Very true,i really feel this dads pain ,
There are two sides of a story. You can't be holier than thou we need the woman's side nkt!
True, this man seems arrogant amd bitter he thinks curses work. Anadhani hizi mali za dunia atazibeba akikufa nkt ataziwacha hapa hapa duniani.
The beauty in this dad is that he is willing to forgive his children.
So sorry, Dad, is ready to forgive you , do it now the moment he is alive visit him and help him even you can buy him a new house if you want your children to do as you did to your dad. That's is what the Bible says. My dad was just like your dad but we used to love him, God has blessed us plus our grandchildren, and he changed . God is there for us again blessings comes from Dad's. Please take care of your dad he educated you and took care of you. Have peace in God we will continue trusting God all will be well. God have mercy of this family. 😊
Muchiari niaheo Gitio ee mwega kana ee muru.
@@lufapavifapavi6277 ndirerorera uria baba uyu anyorokete ,magego maiyurite kanua,kwoguo konimaikaraga metekuhitania na mutumia uria angiri muthaka,
Forgive what. There are two sides of a story
May peace prevail....Let the children apologize to their father.
The fact remains mzazi ni mzazi no matter the mistake they do or they did they have a blessing or a curse 🤔 waheshimiwe
The Bible says that it's a woman who builds her home with her two hands and the foolish woman destroys with the same hands. The truth is, a woman can be able to bring her children together by showing them how to love their father since he's the one who carries their Blessings. Every woman must zip her mouth while talking to her children not to talk anything against their father whether he educated them or not, whether he catered them or not.......May God give women wisdom in Jesus Name
Sure
@@ruthkamau2998 I second you
Sad story,material possessions have no value when one is cursed! Value, love & respect your parents,what goes around comes around,the mother should be wiser????
exactly. you have said everything commenters especially femeos are pretending not to see here
That's a very unwise Woman for a Wife and Mother.
This is how we children invite curses in our lives.Just because you despise your father, dosent mean you take him through hell and high water. If you are one of those ,am not God,but I know you have a direct curse from God.Just wait and see your life,.you think you are powerful and smart now,you will pay with your life. Micie ni ndogo.May God bless this father and keep him strong. To alice hugs and keep your head up..
This story holds no water till we hear from other parties .
I don’t judge anyone, but I know there is no way a child can hate a parent for no apparent reason. Period. Something happened somewhere.. so huyu aache kutafuta huruma.
And I am speaking from experience. This fathers behave like the kids just woke up and start hating them, they are absent till their kids make it in life then they show up saying their kids are not supporting them.
JD, tafuta the kids we hear the other part of the story.
Wewe wacha kuleta your trauma here.This Father was present for his children including educating them and selling hisprime properties to take them to USA...five of them...This is quit a fit.Truth be said the wife is Toxic and predatory and managed to sell the same toxicity aganistthe father to her dimwit children.Anyways the wife has lived her life but the children will bear the blunt of a debilitating curse..Let them beg forgiveness from the Father...Kiburi mingi haitawasaidia...
Exactlly am a witness ad also judging kids thy don't assist ad even those kids are not financially stable
Weather dad is wrong this kids need to sort peace while there dad is alive. I have seen a family falling in pieces juu ya kukosa dads blessings
Remember a child can't bless a parent even if he or she wets the chest But a blessing come from parents period
Even if this man is mad and bites them the fat remains Childers obeyed ur parents if they are mad or not respect respect respect ur parents
Until we hear the other side of the story,I won't take any side
I know Mr. Muya. He was a catechist in Molo Catholic Church way back. He took his children abroad years back May peace prevail.
Yes i know him too he was a catechist kwa church yetu Molo... A very sad story it is😢😢
He is in so much pain 😢 😫
Sad indeed n fact that he even took them abroad is a big plus. The so called children should not come between their dad and mother.He may not be the best dad but he carries ua baraka. lord Jesus have mercy on this family. may they find peace
Haki God of justice will stand a mother soo evil, Ngai see Alice through, keep helping her baba, Ngai help this family
Huyu baba hata kama anaoa wanawake wengi au nini, ukweli nikwamba aliwalea nakuwasomesha anafaa kumupea heshima, mama Yao ni selfish nataka kukula matunda ya watoto peke take, but wanawake wengi hufanya hivio, watoto wakikua wakubwa Hana haja na bwana Tena mungu atusaidie sisi wamama
That mzee has a right to curse or bless! Those children will never know peace if they don't look for their dad ad ask for forgiveness I felt that mzee
Wish you new the truth
Judgement is the preserve of God
dukimie hau
JD.. you have resilience, listening and attending to a lot of issues...
You deserve a recommendation for alternative dispute resolutions..
This is awesome 😎..
Av some issues unatupa watoto unao bb na others kid but uas u can't help after they grow u start curse bible say inyui ciana respect ua parent na inyui aciari mutikairie ciana ngoro,u av falled ua part ad it's good u call them bila dat bitterness u forgive one another
You respect your father and mother as your second God
Also parent don't make your children sad or mistreating them ndiyo wasiwadharau
Efessians 6;;?
@@PeterKaranja-n2fthose are not children but spoilt,,, mtoto Sio damu Siku hizi....guthukio by their mam. The dad fought for them mpaka they went to USA...
And you dont provoke your children
Si juangi watoto hutoa wapi nguvu ya kubishana na waxaxi, ukiwa mtoto unge pigwa na hunge ongea ama uede,
I think this man is being genuine.He is against any injustice done by the sons to the daughter.He is willing to forgive those who have wronged Him.This is the love of a father to His children.wenye wametajwa mtafuteni kabla ya kesho tafadhari.Muchiari ni Ngai wa Keri.
True 😢I feel his pain
May those children know importance of their father ther will regret later in life
What God has joined together don't separate them . Knowledge is very important
Muya is my friend and he narrated to me many stories about his life,he was my childhood neighbour,this day he was being arrested I was just from primary school,I found like 20 police in hi home.
It doesn't matter whether the coin has two sides but respect to the parents. Parent maybe toxic but my opinion ni kumkaa mbali and also sometimes silence is the best option.
Men,,,, when we're in marriage and you hurt us frequently, with mipango ya kando or not being responsible fully, we women take time to revenge. But it's good to be human sometimes, children plz take care of your parents irregardless
I suspect that this man had affairs & spent most of his money on this women while the kids were growing up, so when the kids grew up & started making money they could not trust their dad with the money lest he plunders it with other women instead of their mom
Mzee,when i listen to your story, it reflects with what Mrs Kiama of metha ya kagoni says... the way you treat your wife when your kids are young, it comes back to you at old age... make peace with your children. Kirumi gia ûtûrîka ona ngai ndetîkîrîte
@@skinnyzebra8626don't be stupid n emotional..he sold plots for the children to study abroad..listen to the story b4 being unreasonable
@@jenniferkiarie3877 well said
The comment I've been wanting to see@@jenniferkiarie3877
This men are too abusive ,me I love mum so so much ..I feel like hateful to my dad ..abusing my sick mother dictator even when my child is there he don’t mind . God give me grace coz I feel like I will take my mum with me and forget I had dad
We should respect them despite their shortcomings
I personally loved my dad but for sure I’m bitter ….I feel like if mom happes to die to say I will never send any support to him…he’s too much he has been too much before I wouldn’t mind coz my mum was strong but now my mom is cancer patient and dad can’t give her a break ..I’m praying God to give me patience coz it has reached a point I decided not to keep quiet again ..😢ata kama ni quet ..ata mum akiuliza mfanyi kazi chumvi anatusiwa na ni mm nimeandika mfanyi kazi
@@ruthwanjiku3495do you live near or you are away? If your mom is healing from cancer, get her away from there for her last days to be peaceful.may God give you guidance and peace
Mimi sitaongea but story yako inafanana n yangu 😢😢😢
I think there's a lot that we don't know about this man.he seems to be a very bitter person who is not happy to see his wife receiving support from the children.
Children should never interfere with their parent's relationship. The interviewer should understand that it's the gentleman's pain and the children should be the ones to ask for forgiveness. We are obligated to respect our parents regardless of their short comings. They had a great dad. Some people had abusive parents and yet, they still respect and honor them.
Very true
There are blessings that belongs to our parents,no matter how wrong they are,we should always respect them,Even your pastor can't bless you,before your parents,this children should take care of this man and let bygones be bygones,mzee has struggled to bring them in USA,love your parents with their weakness
Let not anger or bitterness dictate the direction of our life and those around us. Forgiveness is important. Very sad turn of events. Again children should not involve themselves in their parents affair.
This is to all men to learn to respect their wives. If you beat your wife before children and choose concubine you kill your relationship with children as they grow.
The pain of this father is coming from loosing a good wife and seeing her live well at old age. 10 children walisomaje na mshahara ya catechist
To me the woman brainwash the kids,to gain everything
But the kids should not beat their father
Parenthood isn't who has money. It's team with common goal. If the goal is not common, you end up with different results.
Oky it's true bt iyo ni maneno ÿa wazazi watoto wajitafutie baraka juu ata kama baba walikua na vita na mathy none of your business though hamuezi jiangalilia akiuawa lazima mpige duru instead ya kumpiga na kumtusi baba die ako na baraka acheni mchezo na laana its real wajukuu dio wako na shida
Respect is a must to a parent.This man educated them.
Exactly ijarishi ni dictator or not this Mzee needs respect
tell the mommy
Educating kids is parents duty
Very painful
@@lucyguldstrom5483 nashangaa hapa watu huongea as if mtoto hutuma application ya kuzaliwa na respect is earned not given for free alaa
This is so wrong, children aren't supposed to favour or rely on any side, muciari ni muciari ata kama ni mbaya aje, na niwe Ngai ya keri, praying for peace amongst them all, may God intervene & restore back this family. It's a family that I know 😢
We need to hear from the mother too,but kids should not disrespect any parent
This one of the most complicated story on earth 🌎 I have had. May almighty God intervene.
There are so many cases in molo of children fighting parents especially dads for property. What's the problem 😮
I live in boston with lots of kenyans and this is not the first time i have seen this? every time older couples or parents move here they end up fighting or seperating
What. Can be the reason?
Children respect parents
Ephesians 6:4: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
@@4custaywithme the woman brain washed the children na uchawi.
Woiye Na Ni rich people God have mercy upon this family
And parents do not provoke children
Wewe Jose, apologizing is no weakness wacha kiburi@@MyJOSE2013
They have to come down & ask for forginess, our grandpa used to have three wives, but wen guka call them they refuse d to go. He said if I don't have children wen am alive, Even wen I die. Our guka died 1995 by 2000.No.body was remaining. I pity dem.
Mzee akafunga macho watajua hawajui.
@@jacklinengigi2250 , exactly 💯
Let's stop your arguments. These children who have been cursed by a father with a reason,are under a curse. Unless they come to the father 'augukwo' undo what he has cursed.
their father worked hard to an extent of taking them to USA and this is how they repay him?? there's God in heaven and he watches
What I Have Learnt, Kids Should Never Get In Between The Parents. There’s No Other Father You Will Ever Get, Like Your Dad. He Is An Amateur God On Earth. Jeremy We Too Need To Hear From The Mother Too, Right Of Reply Please. Two-Sided Story.
True
True
No no, before we conclude let's get to the bottom of the matter, did francis muya marry a second wife,? Was he not a catechist? A man of GOD? People be honest, let the family talk, don't rush to conclusions, be honest
So catechists doesn't need love
But he remarried after the wife left him
Respect matters hata kama..kwani alipeleka watoyo wake US kama hawapendi Surely?
True try this is….. children cannot be taught to hate their good and a loving father.
Am not convinced that this mzee dint beat his wife regularly kulingana na vile anaeleza..children hurt much when the mother is mistreated. Revenge inakujanga hivyo. Despite all, children should respect fully their parents, help them and show them love just the way they provided. Muciari ni Ngai ya kerì. My opinion.
Dictatorship reloaded.
It's only the victims who can tell.
Wisdom is the key.
Why should the head of the family expose his flock😢
The man has bitterness towards his children maybe by by speaking he will find healing
Many pple will not see that,they are culturally brainwashed.
He is also suffering...the Family needs healing and a family therapy.
I agree, there are extremely toxic parents who make a permanent mark on their children's lives. However bitter they make you feel try to avoid them and don't answer them back because many look for chance to curse you, and hide there failures and the mistakes they did when the children were growing up. If possible support them from a distance. Trust God coz he only has a true version of the whole truth
Parents like playing victims 🙄🙄Theirs always 2 sides to the story we need to hear the children side🤷🏽♀️
Painful lord sooth this Mzee heart please. This bitterness of dad against kid's was in our house but we kid's swallowed pride we helped our dad out until his death he died a happy man and blessed us all. The issue is some men take advantage of kids for there gain kids when they realise parents become bitter. We paid endless loans of our dad that he can't be accounted for so parents don't take your kid's for your gain. God help us for sure
Their mother is a wicked woman! She should call the children and pray and talk to their father…please children go back to your father without that you are CURSED
If you don’t have the inside story, wisdom is not saying anything.
This man has revealed who he is by his curses. Wait to hear what the wife has to say before heaping insults.
😂😂😂😂 how did they got there? Every reaction is a response to an action….. families ziko na mambo……. If you want to live well, love everyone from far….. if you can, never inherit anything from your family….. this will protect your children from many things.
These children would not wake up one day and hate their dad……
Children should never side with any parent. Blessings are from a father.
what blessing?
😂😂😂😂😂😂 uko na akili ingine ama ni hiyo peke yake 😅😅😅
Don't JOKE with mzee, huyu amebeba blessings, l can remember my sister inlaw akitusi her dad wakiwa na bro yake , he cursed them na akaniita vile huyu mzee ameita Jeremy, hawakusikia wala kuoba msamaha. After his death , No more peace
Imagine I have had such stories where once the children are successful and goes abroad they sideline their Father who has toiled to take them abroad. To all mothers this is not right at all.
No no no that is bad and evil in the eyes of God
Men live their prime ages hating their wives.in old age,they become vulnerable and start putting blame on their wives when children come through for their mothers.he is married to another woman awachane na first wife
Exactly he is married to another wife but still bitter with a woman he left 20 years ago
@ wangeci huyu mzee haha kakitu anataka mchango. Niatugithie. Hawa old wazee tunawajua. Wakiwa young strong kazi ni wanawake
Kikuyu women! Let me leave it here
What do you expect being left out for over ten years, he is a man and for him to come back to gis sences he should have a companion...thats life
@@teslamumo1396 he now wants his children from his 1st hse to help him raise 2nd hse children? When he was tesaring them +their mother he didn't know one day they will grow & he may need their helping hand? Akae kando na ukali yake
Man remember these are adults,dont treat your grown family like kids.
Enda chini pia,do not dictate,you are a dictator please.
The other thing,you are a narcissist.!!!and you don't know it.
Seems you mistreated the kids and your wife wakiwa wadogo.
If you mistreated your family,you pay in old age.
If you want healing and to enjoy your old age,bring your family together.
No abusive parent can pave a bright future for his 10 good children never...abusive parent dont even care where or how the children grew.. pole mzeeee
Pole so much baba as am sure all that havoc n chaos hv bn caused by Ur former lady ie wife am also married to a family of ever bitter chaos so heavily ALMIGHTY GOD to lead n guide u stll stray children to lower their guts.
Jeremy,if you know our women parents how they are, especially if the children are well up,you can understand that man easily.
Very true
Very true
Noway children should respect their parents
Men have to come out and speak out on injustices they face in old age so that different families learn and make the right choices. I have come to realise many children want to separate their parents maybe because of hardships they faced growing up but i think no matter what a couple goes through if they decide to stick together its not the childrens business to try to initiate separarion of the two.
Listen to children and wife this family might be going through past bitterness with their father. His story has contradiction and past abuse
He sounds like he was a womaniser
This man is intelligent,he didn't give out everything... right now he would be dead without savings
Life have taught me never to judge until I hear the other side of the story . Parents should also respect their children be a good parent respect your children and respect would come automatically.
Like seriously...this man is so bitter and I think he respects them coz he is willing to forgive them...
People should learn not to get in between fights of parents. Unless they are killing each other, let them resolve their issues between themselves
Ngai if they know the importance of a dad in the family just go and talk with him.My lovely dad pssed in 2months ago.may his soul rest in peace he was wise dad.He did all to make sure ten of us we will live in peace even in his absence.Dads is the one who can bless no matter what aki.the battle between parents should not involve the kids.wise kids please up with ua dad as quickly as possible
Respect your parents no matter what, this man needs respect,he educated her kids and even sold his properties, you go and ask for forgiveness
Ngai naniguo mena baba wina ngoro njega na uretikira kuohera naihenya iwish ni my dad ni mheshimu all days of my life Ngai he muthuri uyu thayu na ugima wa mwiri
I'm a woman but we are the big contributers of division between fathers and children especially when the children are blessed.
Whether this man has another family or not ....those kids should respect their father coz the mum moved on with her life...
May God grant them wisdom to seek blessings from the father for they might not be affected by the fathers pain but their generations can be greatly affected.
Please Jeremy ask for the other side of the story. Out of ten children plus their mum one of them will tell us the other side of the story because it seems to have some gaps
Differentiate love and expectation. Honor is bibilical but respect is earned with time and not demanded. How did he lose it??
A loving father should never curse his children. The children often side with the weaker person... He was hostile to them and their mother...
However the children must honour their parents to be blessed...
Don't conclude coz you don't know the wife. Women and Satan are very close.
U shout ua mouth, nonsense dd u sikiza huyo mzazi vizuri,, ama wewe ni wale awananga heshima kwa wazazi nugu
Please let's respect other Peaple's opinions. Nobody in this platform has 100% correct information concerning the situation being discussed. Lets leave judgment to God. He who is always just
Thankyou Jeremy for airing this story,its just sad how parents fights and children take sides,its sad what this man is going through ,may God intervene in this case.
Navile mm huuliza mbona babangu alikufa aki nikiwa vry young
..life without a Dad isn't easy
It's soo sad, kuona huyu mzee akiwa na hii pain juu ya watoto wake...Angehinga ritho umuthy..niguo mungemenya Baba efata....
Me to aki vile saa hii angependa kumueka vizuri but he left 20yrs ago
Nîweega gûtîa mûciari, na thoguo nîwe ûkuîte kîrathimo kîanyu.
Ûthiî gwî thoguo na theenge na horio yaayo kîhembe kîa ûûkî, ûhooe ûrekeri.
Naawe awa ûtige gûîtia rûracio, tondû rûtirandûragio.
This is a sad story but a common one among families in diaspora. Children despite how grown you think you are respect your parents and never sow a seed of discord among your parents.
I know this family,they are my neigh bors
These children were influenced by their mother. A wise woman builds her home and a foolish one breaks it with her own hands. I pray that they will reconcile with their dad who carries their blessings. God bless you JD.
Do not blame the mother...some men are narcists and can really mistreat the wife..think about it...if the woman could give forth to 10 children...there must have been a reason she switched off...it is not easy to bring up 10 children with such a difficult man...umeskia kalisema gatingiathwo she must have passed thru hell..kazee kanakaa wale wazee wa kutembea tembea.. Na hawa watoto alikua anasomesha na akina mama wa 'mwaki'...from tha way he is narrating..he is a crooked man..a dictator...bitter...alijishanganya na tuchungwa...sasa anavuna mavuno...be weary of soft spoke self sanitizing man..😂..alikua ameweka wanawake kado kado...hes is only bitter on the wife...coz she is happy...Jeremy.. mama akuje aseme pande yake....😅😊haka kamzee ni ka dictator...mara watoto...mara madugu...mara bibi...kanisa akapewa retire yaani kufukuzwa...huyu ako na maneno zake...hata huyo bibi ako naye ataeda..ni ka dictator turia tuteragwo....ni tu kaburu turia twa south africa always right and narcistic...blaming others on everything...them perpetualy good and everlasting right....nonsece...bitterness itakuua mzae...jirudie ujue ulikosea wapi...utubu dhabi zako...
Very true
😅😅😅yes he has sanitized himuselfu 😅😅😅 clean man and holy … hata hana clear complain
Even if he is on the wrong those harsh words towards the kids is dangerous!! Kids should try be wise vile wata sanitise hii grudge hizo harsh words
You seem to know him for a long time.
@francisnjane3912 yes Francis...hako kamzae ni subua...hata kanisa ni kufukuzwa juu ya mabibi za wenyewe na watoto wa catechism...lazi ni kuzalishabtu usikaone ivo vile kamekauka...ni kana baana
Apologies resolve conflicts without violence, repairs divisions between nations and restores balanced to personal relationship. A lot of people are too scared to appear weak but apology is a gesture of goodwill and humanity. The parties need to talk as a family and not let pride rob them of their relationship
Wow, No matter how your dad and your mom are, Please they will remain your parents!
No matter how your parents are, never disrespect them. Never support one parent against the other. And women, always remember the carrier of your children's blessings is their father. So if you make them dishonor him, you have succeeded in ensuring they live under a curse. God's order is supreme no matter how right one thinks she is.
Please children love your parents and give respect is a second God.😢😢
Wooi this is very painful,Dany please look for peace with dad ,baba shiku deskmate
Jeremy don't fight this battle it is so deep lord bless you
It's very very difficult this one 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I took my time and i gain alot and i learned from this ...... and its not a walk in the park as usual 😢hapa the children should come running to seek for forgiveness coz only the man can bless 🙌 🙏 now tht he's open to forgiveness .
My mum aliachana na my dad 1981 nikiwa 3 months..
Vile tulikuwa wakubwa tukiwa na sis na bro wangu alianza kututafuta..
But my dad akawa ana demand sana..tukanza kumuodokea pole pole sasa hivi huwa ana blame mamangu kila kitu kama vile unaskia huyu mzee..
Huyu mzee anakaa ku demand pia na ile shinda iko aliowa bibi mwingine.. watoto huwa wanaona kama wanasaidia baba yao pesa ikikuliwa na mama mwingine.. huyu mzee ako na shinda why saa hii after kuzaa watoto kumi na bibi yake wakwanza?? Nī mùkora areda atůmagīrwo beca akīrīaga maraya ma townie 😅😅😅😅
Nīatige kwenderia ciana guoya wakīrumi but ile kitu nimemuheshimia nikwamba alifanya juu chini watoto wake wakue na maisha mema.
I salute 🫡 him for that..
Umesikiliza vizuri hii story,he is not like your dad he educated all and even sold his plot for them to go abroad.
This man is not like your dad,amesomesha watoto wake wote,na wako ngambo,aliuza Mali yake ndio watoto wasone,plz don't compare him to your dad who did nothing but came back to demand,listen the story well
why are you quick to comment without listening to the full story.jifunze kusikiliza kabla uongee
I salute this man ,he is stressed by the wife for refusing to transfer the plot to daughter who bought it but , it registered to his brother who didn't contribute even a single cent
Their Mother has a Big problem... Even if the father is doing what it's her obligation to remind them he's theirs father.But another q is ,are these children under age ,if someone is mature to the extent of getting married why don't you challenge the NEGATIVE LOOKING PARENT.THEY ARE OF THEIR AGE AND KNOWING EVERYTHING,I HATE THE MOTHER 😮
Jeremy is good that you do such interview we in America we learn alot from what you does this is so sad indeed
Haki how i loved my dad till now he is gone i miss him badly
Children, it doesn't matter whether you are over eighty years, as long as your parents are arrive or dead, please, please respect and honor them, so that you may live long.
If he was a catechist, i wonder what he was teaching if he could curse his children. Please make peace with yourself to live a long life. The children will see their mistakes and will come to you and bless them. To err is to human but to forgive is divine.
But the bible gives the power to the father to bless or curse .
@@francisnjane3912yes it has said father not Christian ,muslim or whatever religion
He has given them an opportunity to come for reconciliation. Even God whom we serve says, if we repent our sin, we will be forgiven. Even those children have a choice.
@@galicia1559Well said
He's bitter coz of the children's disrespectful character.
Thanks Jeremy,for your work . thanks mr.
Nothing in this world is as important as your parents and your children so compromises are important,children respect your parents and they will bless you especially your father regardless of what!!
If I was one of his children I will go alone to apologize to my father for the sake of my self n my children. Something like this happened to my older 3 sisters but 2 went back differently to apologize to our father n he forgive them but the 1 didn't after my father died she became miserable she was in abroad but she lost everything n her children inherited the curse too. The way they live i can't even wish my worse enemy. Your parent carry blessings n curses it you as a child you choose.
A man who sold his properties to better his kids life at USA shows he is a good father,but unfortunately the kids decided to take sides because of their parent misunderstanding,The good thing they can do is they shouldn't argue with the dad but seek forgiveness to avoid generation curse,😢
Please watch that video again and comment
@@Bro-y8r i couldnt have commented without not have listened to the end
Imagine the sacrifices of this old man. It's not fair
But there is so much contradictions. The Mzee is a bit confused
Especially the property issue .
Being in Dementia Care and seeing how everything is vanity changed how i view life. I have seen accomplished people humbled in death. No point in carrying bitterness in your life.Live for the day and enjoy what comes with that day. Parents cursing children who like everything else, are gifts from God is not good. Let go and let God in everything - is my motto. Lord keep reminding me that this world is not my home and am just passing by🙏
Children love your parents and give respect is a second God.
and parents should not provoke children,should love the children equally and show respect to their children....it's a two way traffic!!
It’s so sad I can’t even listen more please daddy give heart to your 3 children bless them tell them not to follow poured water Alice , Tony and the girl will be blessed by you and they will do much better