This person us wrong about disability law, & how its applied. He is responsible for everything that any of his personalities does. Many criminals have also tried this, & it never works. Besides if they accepted it, you'd go to a psych ward until you could be charged, & pay thr price for the crime. Just pay for your drinks, & they're yours if your body consumed it.
There are many forms of crazy. Mostly clashing religious and political world views. DID is a usualy a trama response to severe childhood trama/abuse. When it too much for one person to handle and the memories make usual survival methods Impossible. One person can only survive so much. For some of us it takes more.
We have a pretty strong buddy systems. And the one time we had a conversation we didn't remember. The moment it was brought to our attention . We had the missing memories.
GIRL I can't even imagine the crap people try to pull. And you seem like you are an amazing bartender with a lot of class. And a lot of calmness. Cuz I already would have knocked somebody out. Hopefully someday I will see you at your bar I'm not sure where you are but I know you're the kind of bartender that I like. You're doing a great job I know you already know that. You're doing an absolute amazing job.❤❤❤❤❤
I’m a part of a system and when an alter does something they shouldn’t, the whole system takes accountability. You can explain of course, but everyone has to take accountability, not throw the one under the bus to get out of apologizing, or in this case paying
Omg its an episode of "Split"!! 😂😂 I would respond "If you have multiple personalities, you can pay for all of them since all my multiple personalities require payment. Can't discriminate against my personalities." 😂😂
Split was far from an accurate representation of D.I.D. but you are not wrong. In D.I.D. there is a term called system responsibility. In a nut shell if one alter does something the whole system (aka collective of alters in one body) take responsibility for it. I have D.I.D. and I've found myself in similar situations where someone in the system got something to drink or eat but then they go back inside and someone else is "in the body". Well none of us ever said ow sorry another alter got that so I'm not paying. Heck no! Whoever is out when the tab comes is the one that pays. D.I.D. is not an excuse not to pay for something 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ Most systems would never even dream of using D.I.D. as an excuse. That is not ok and it just furthers stigma around it. Anyways, I hope you have a fantastic day and remember always that you are valid, valuable, unique, irreplaceable and you matter more than you know!
I hope that guy was making a stupid joke. As someone with D.I.D. (formerly known as: multiple personality disorder) that is something that we'd never ever do. There is such a thing as system responsibility (system being the term for the collective of all alters in one body). System responsibility basically means if any of us do something we all bare the consequences. Whether its paying for your tab (because we are all in 1 body) regardless of who drank what. The entire tab is the systems tab so it has got to be payed regardless of who is currently in control of the body. Also if there's a situation where one alter does something that upsets another person it's still the systems responsibility to apolagize and do whatever needs to be done. Cose you know what? As far as the world is concerned we are one person, and we do have to share this life so yeah take responsibility for what another alter did and don't you dare use multiple personality as an excuse. It's disgusting and most systems would never do this. I hope you have a great day and remember always that you are valid, valuable, unique, irreplaceable and you matter more than you know! take care 🥰
@@mesterygirlI've only met a few people with MPD (that's what it was, back the first time I was college... before I realized psych wasn't for me. NOT because of MPD just...I have PTSD. Anyway) Of the 5 people I've met with it, 4 were like this commenter. 1 tried to hit me. Then got mad when I hit back after the second swing at me, because he claimed he switched personalities again and a) wasn't responsible for the hits and b) that I - 1st year psych student - should have known he switched and stopped my reflexive protection of myself. The Dr I was shadowing called him on his BS and told my later it was common for that guy to do (and he wasn't a patient, he was there picking up someone else - they wouldn't accept him as a patient because he took responsibility for _nothing,_ always blaming a different personality... ) He was DEFINITELY the exception to the rule though.
We appreciate you accepting people like us without jumping to bad intentions. Watched 2 backtracked to 1 waiting for 3 And yes systems accountability is a thing. Who is fronting knows they are a system. Be different if they didnt know. Lets see what joe does in part 3
Funny! 😁 It’s only discrimination if you refuse to serve one of his personalities due to his condition. He’s a bs artist. That’s why he asked for an itemized receipt, so he could decline payment and claim discrimination for the expensive drinks.
This kinda happened in between a shift change at a local bar between me and my cousin “Jim”. We each had our cards on tabs and my name is “Jodi” so both were under J- Hafner (same last names). Well my cousin decides to leave and was paying for his and all his work buddies drinks. ANYWAYS after he left, I cashed out about 1/2 hour later. Mind u I was only drinking for myself and 2-drinks for a friend (maybe a 40.00 tab). I get my recipe and it’s 177.00!! They were putting most of his drinks/rounds of shots On MY TAB! He was wasted when getting there so I’m sure he didn’t truly realize it at the time. BUT of course the bar, him and I all figured it out the next morning with no worries! 😉 (small town love)
Whenever I have people with the same last names I ALWAYS make sure to check which tab I'm putting their stuff under. Sometimes I will even write in what color they're wearing or any other distinctive feature. I dont want to have to deal with any unnecessary bs.
Saw the first part and felt it as it’s hard to find bartenders who will vibe with super random drink changes sometimes as someone with DID, but with this shit, it’s all about accountability and that’s a huge thing within the system, dissociative, and multiple community. if one of us does something, we all own up to it, and no one externally gets the brunt of it.
Hello! I have Dissociative Identity Disorder and I just wanna tell you that guy was completely in the wrong, when an alter fronts and does something, whether it be good or bad, you still have to take accountability for it because you all share one body. You can't kill someone and then say "my alter did it! I can't control it!" System accountability is very important.
That's what I was saying! Number one, people with MPD/DID don't Go Announcing it in a Crowed Bar. The Whole point of it is Protection. Number two. You are Accountable for what the Body does whoever is at front, Just like Everyone else. Good Or Bad, Because That is Reality! No Excuses! It's not a Get out of Trouble Free Card!
That's not how it works, believe me.. I have the condition... I wish I had that much control! Plus we know that we are in the same body. It's much more complicated than that but if he is aware of his other personalities he is aware that they are all in one body. Plus he wouldn't have brought three drinks.
He mustve thought she was born yesterday lol asking a person to pay for the products they consumed isnt discrimination, its just the way it works. Lol!
Just a heads up, it is NOT called multiple personality disorder any longer. It is called D.I.D (dissociative identity disorder). I know you probably dont know so I’m just letting you know! Very good skit!!
No not illegal at all. There is a thing called "system accountability" which means the whole system is accountable for anything that happens. Even if it wasnt him that bought the drinks they are all in the same body there for all accountable.
Well let joe know that if you call the cops I'll let them know he was stealing and you and joe can figure out how the legal system wants to figure out your personalities.
I think they were called blackjacks when I was a kid. They were basically a leather handle with a little Lead brick on the end….Definitely helpful in reminding someone to not play around with someone else’s money. It was an old school Philly thing…prob don’t even make them anymore. Lol
Someone tried this at work so I called the mental health line and said someone was having a mental episode and was being dangerous 😄 go play with your momma not me
OMG I absolutely hate it when people use the excuse for disability like this its the same body with different personalities so that one physical human pays for their other uh personalities? I'm just baffled that this person tried to make this excuse
Try that next time you get pulled over, John. "Nah officer, wasn't me speeding.. I ain't accepting that ticket" 😂
Good idea. I'll let you know how it turns out😊
Then both Joe AND John will end up in jail! 😂😂😂
I'm only driving now cause he was hammered. 😂
This person us wrong about disability law, & how its applied. He is responsible for everything that any of his personalities does. Many criminals have also tried this, & it never works. Besides if they accepted it, you'd go to a psych ward until you could be charged, & pay thr price for the crime. Just pay for your drinks, & they're yours if your body consumed it.
That's what I was thinking your all in one body regardless
I truly thought this was going towards a “twin brother” type situation! WOW! That’s CRAZY!! 😳
Same 😮
There are many forms of crazy. Mostly clashing religious and political world views.
DID is a usualy a trama response to severe childhood trama/abuse.
When it too much for one person to handle and the memories make usual survival methods Impossible.
One person can only survive so much.
For some of us it takes more.
Stop tabs
If all your personalities have the same bank account then ima need that money!
I can tell you as someone with DID whatever one Alter does while fronting all other Alters are responsible
That’s really interesting!
@ yes we have an accountability rule that is needed to keep the system in check
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We have a pretty strong buddy systems. And the one time we had a conversation we didn't remember. The moment it was brought to our attention . We had the missing memories.
That would be the last time at that bar! He should have drank at home! Sounds like he had a party going on anyways!
GIRL I can't even imagine the crap people try to pull. And you seem like you are an amazing bartender with a lot of class. And a lot of calmness. Cuz I already would have knocked somebody out. Hopefully someday I will see you at your bar I'm not sure where you are but I know you're the kind of bartender that I like. You're doing a great job I know you already know that. You're doing an absolute amazing job.❤❤❤❤❤
I’m a part of a system and when an alter does something they shouldn’t, the whole system takes accountability. You can explain of course, but everyone has to take accountability, not throw the one under the bus to get out of apologizing, or in this case paying
Omg its an episode of "Split"!! 😂😂 I would respond "If you have multiple personalities, you can pay for all of them since all my multiple personalities require payment. Can't discriminate against my personalities." 😂😂
😂😂😂
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Split was far from an accurate representation of D.I.D. but you are not wrong. In D.I.D. there is a term called system responsibility. In a nut shell if one alter does something the whole system (aka collective of alters in one body) take responsibility for it.
I have D.I.D. and I've found myself in similar situations where someone in the system got something to drink or eat but then they go back inside and someone else is "in the body". Well none of us ever said ow sorry another alter got that so I'm not paying. Heck no! Whoever is out when the tab comes is the one that pays. D.I.D. is not an excuse not to pay for something 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Most systems would never even dream of using D.I.D. as an excuse. That is not ok and it just furthers stigma around it.
Anyways, I hope you have a fantastic day and remember always that you are valid, valuable, unique, irreplaceable and you matter more than you know!
You do no split is based on a real story
@@thatstoneroverthere4009it’s an insanely far from accurate portrayal of the disability though
I hope that guy was making a stupid joke. As someone with D.I.D. (formerly known as: multiple personality disorder) that is something that we'd never ever do. There is such a thing as system responsibility (system being the term for the collective of all alters in one body). System responsibility basically means if any of us do something we all bare the consequences. Whether its paying for your tab (because we are all in 1 body) regardless of who drank what. The entire tab is the systems tab so it has got to be payed regardless of who is currently in control of the body. Also if there's a situation where one alter does something that upsets another person it's still the systems responsibility to apolagize and do whatever needs to be done. Cose you know what? As far as the world is concerned we are one person, and we do have to share this life so yeah take responsibility for what another alter did and don't you dare use multiple personality as an excuse. It's disgusting and most systems would never do this.
I hope you have a great day and remember always that you are valid, valuable, unique, irreplaceable and you matter more than you know! take care 🥰
Surely as each has their own personalities some could have the douchebag personalities, or be super stingy with money etc, what happens then?
@@mesterygirlI've only met a few people with MPD (that's what it was, back the first time I was college... before I realized psych wasn't for me. NOT because of MPD just...I have PTSD. Anyway)
Of the 5 people I've met with it, 4 were like this commenter.
1 tried to hit me. Then got mad when I hit back after the second swing at me, because he claimed he switched personalities again and a) wasn't responsible for the hits and b) that I - 1st year psych student - should have known he switched and stopped my reflexive protection of myself. The Dr I was shadowing called him on his BS and told my later it was common for that guy to do (and he wasn't a patient, he was there picking up someone else - they wouldn't accept him as a patient because he took responsibility for _nothing,_ always blaming a different personality... )
He was DEFINITELY the exception to the rule though.
What do you mean as far as the world is concerned you are one person? You ARE one person, with brain damage.
We appreciate you accepting people like us without jumping to bad intentions. Watched 2 backtracked to 1 waiting for 3
And yes systems accountability is a thing.
Who is fronting knows they are a system.
Be different if they didnt know.
Lets see what joe does in part 3
Funny! 😁 It’s only discrimination if you refuse to serve one of his personalities due to his condition. He’s a bs artist. That’s why he asked for an itemized receipt, so he could decline payment and claim discrimination for the expensive drinks.
I love that one girl on the side! Wowww 😂
This kinda happened in between a shift change at a local bar between me and my cousin “Jim”. We each had our cards on tabs and my name is “Jodi” so both were under J- Hafner (same last names). Well my cousin decides to leave and was paying for his and all his work buddies drinks. ANYWAYS after he left, I cashed out about 1/2 hour later. Mind u I was only drinking for myself and 2-drinks for a friend (maybe a 40.00 tab). I get my recipe and it’s 177.00!! They were putting most of his drinks/rounds of shots On MY TAB! He was wasted when getting there so I’m sure he didn’t truly realize it at the time. BUT of course the bar, him and I all figured it out the next morning with no worries! 😉 (small town love)
Whenever I have people with the same last names I ALWAYS make sure to check which tab I'm putting their stuff under. Sometimes I will even write in what color they're wearing or any other distinctive feature. I dont want to have to deal with any unnecessary bs.
@@jordy8059smart you are.👌
@jordy8059 hope you're my bartender 1 day so I can tip you bc that's awesome. People truly don't realize what servers go thru.
He really pulled that move
Saw the first part and felt it as it’s hard to find bartenders who will vibe with super random drink changes sometimes as someone with DID, but with this shit, it’s all about accountability and that’s a huge thing within the system, dissociative, and multiple community. if one of us does something, we all own up to it, and no one externally gets the brunt of it.
😂😂 it was joe 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm crying 😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂
Hello! I have Dissociative Identity Disorder and I just wanna tell you that guy was completely in the wrong, when an alter fronts and does something, whether it be good or bad, you still have to take accountability for it because you all share one body. You can't kill someone and then say "my alter did it! I can't control it!" System accountability is very important.
That's what I was saying! Number one, people with MPD/DID don't Go Announcing it in a Crowed Bar. The Whole point of it is Protection. Number two. You are Accountable for what the Body does whoever is at front, Just like Everyone else. Good Or Bad, Because That is Reality! No Excuses! It's not a Get out of Trouble Free Card!
I need to see part 3 now please!!!🙏
Don't make her pull up "the tape" man. You don't want that😂😂
Ready for part 3!!!
That's not how it works, believe me.. I have the condition... I wish I had that much control!
Plus we know that we are in the same body.
It's much more complicated than that but if he is aware of his other personalities he is aware that they are all in one body. Plus he wouldn't have brought three drinks.
Daaang!! That’s a HOT lookin bandana outfit! ❤
I wouldn’t have the patience to put up with that BS.
Desperately waiting for pt 3 here
Your outfit is 🔥!
discrimination would be NOT making him pay for the drinks lmaooo
Her nails are so pretty
Omg can't wait for part 3!!!!
I need part 3, lol
i would say, since joe isn’t able to right now you’re gonna have to pay and get him to pay you back. 😂
whoa... I would love to be a fly on the wall for the rest of that interaction
I didn't even know jeans that low rise still existed 😂😂
I'm hoping this guy comes back with a police hat on 😂😂😂
omg that bandana top is so cute
And all the cops are gonna do is bring you to a mental hospital if you’re gonna legitimately play that card.
Bro I have DID and there’s no way in hell I would pull this. All alters are accountable when paying for things in public
😂 he's literally as insane as a police officer.
I need part 3 lol 😂
I wouldn't charging, but him and Joe would be bard both of them
The way you say Cassamigos is too cute
He mustve thought she was born yesterday lol asking a person to pay for the products they consumed isnt discrimination, its just the way it works. Lol!
Just a heads up, it is NOT called multiple personality disorder any longer. It is called D.I.D (dissociative identity disorder). I know you probably dont know so I’m just letting you know! Very good skit!!
THE CUSTOMER DID NOT JUST USE DID AS AN EXCUSE😭😭😭😭
No not illegal at all. There is a thing called "system accountability" which means the whole system is accountable for anything that happens. Even if it wasnt him that bought the drinks they are all in the same body there for all accountable.
So random but that top is SO cute!
I don't identify as that personality so in not responsible for what Joe orders. It's personality misidentification.
Fun fact: if you order something, it doesn't matter if YOU consume them. You ordered them, the bartender made them, you have to pay for them.
Where's part 3.. I'm dying to find out what happens..lol
That wasn’t me! That was Patricia! 😂
Mutiple personal disorder is not a by pass for your other personalities to not pay. It went down the same mouth and 1 stomach!
Hey, just a heads up, Multiple Personality Disorder isn't used anymore. It was switched to Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) 30 years ago
People still use MPD colloquially. Though most people with DID _don't,_ I've run into an older person with it who still uses MPD
So
The things you have to deal with!
I knew a few friends with MPD/DID all of them are like, "Ha! Nah doesn't work like that." Still amusing though.
Even as someone with DID. You gotta pay for what they cause and do. 😂
Waiting on part 3!!! 😂
Am i the only one taken away by that bandana shirt and cowgirl hat ❤
I love your outfit!💙
I need a part 3
It’s in your body. Your physical self drank it. Your physical self will pay
Everyone with d.i.d knows we don't refuse to take responsibility for the things we all do... this man is ridiculous
I'm speechless😂
This was an act. He was working the system. I hate this behavior.
Yeah 99% sure that's a fake one, he was for SURE faking it to get out of there without paying.
That’s not discrimination that’s consumption my dude
Can't wait to see part three
Its funny that we as a collective laid this guy out exactly the same we hold ourselves to a different standard for a reason
“john and joe still share the same body that consumed said alcohol, so i don’t care if your john joe steve bob whoever, you’re paying for your tab”.
CALL THEM
I know someone who has multiple personalities, and I know this person would not do this.
Hi Michelle, love the videos. When does part 3 of the multiple personalities video come out? Thanks and greetings from Michigan
Somebody watch split one too many times 😅
Well let joe know that if you call the cops I'll let them know he was stealing and you and joe can figure out how the legal system wants to figure out your personalities.
Lol be on the same page of all your personalities on what you're drinking that day then.
I think they were called blackjacks when I was a kid. They were basically a leather handle with a little Lead brick on the end….Definitely helpful in reminding someone to not play around with someone else’s money. It was an old school Philly thing…prob don’t even make them anymore. Lol
You have a right to be insane, but you don’t have a right not to pay a bill
Charge them with credit card fraud!😂
How that became the bar's problem is messed up.
Just so you know, this isn't called Multi-Personality Disorder, it is called DID, or Dissociative Identity Disorder. The more you know!
In my state, we can’t order three drinks at one time unless the people are there with us otherwise to drink limit per state law
U have to be kidding.. right!?
Maybe Joe has a separate card that can be used?
Part3!!
Hey Girl I love your videos so much
You can use my name Tess 💕
As someone diagnosed with DID this seriouslu pisses me off. No system acts like this. Only singlets pull this kind of shi
I mean DID isn't an excuse, you have responsibility for what your system does. This person is pulling a grift
Dang I WAS hoping it was remembering two old friends who passed away.
Me, too! 🤗
Bartender should have just said different personality same stomach you're still paying
It’s actually called Dissociative Identity Disorder and yes this can happen and no it doesn’t work like that.
Third part please
Oh god I hate people like this in the DID community they make us look bad
It’s the same card though 😂
Someone tried this at work so I called the mental health line and said someone was having a mental episode and was being dangerous 😄 go play with your momma not me
She is a North Carolina Crip...
Okay, dummies, it's the same person acting.This isn't a real deal situation
This is why we have cameras and video in bars
Bars serve bodies not personalities.😮
Where is part 3 😢😢
If you want you can use Katie Beth/kaitie
OMG I absolutely hate it when people use the excuse for disability like this its the same body with different personalities so that one physical human pays for their other uh personalities? I'm just baffled that this person tried to make this excuse