Miguel j It's not only "BLACK WOMEN" who choose to go back to an abusive relationship. All races do that! It's human nature know the facts before you make an ignorant comment.
People -and i include men here too - go back to their abusers for many reasons. One is a psychological condition called "trauma bonding", another is "codependency" and theres also "Stockholm Syndrome" (named for a bunch of white people (men too!) held hostage for weeks and so terrified by their terrorist captors their minds went haywire and they began to think of the terrorists as their friends) These are very real mental problems. I know from the outside it looks like they are just being stupid & I'm not saying these are ALL the reasons (some are economic) but these are USUALLY the ones. YT has tons of stories about how survivors broke out of these mental prisons and were finally able to do what their INTUITION knew to do -which is leave the abuser. There are therapists who specialize in this problem to help people free their minds and find healthy mates. It takes work to reprogram the brain.
LadyMarmalade A. For you maybe. I mean if your living right now he gotta be doing something. I’ll never understand how people live without god. I pray I never become that slow.
Everyone needs to recognize the red flags and know when they're dealing with a cold hearted narcissist. Those types of people are evil personified. They are wolves in sheep's clothing.
Yeah sometimes it doesn't happen like that. They start off so wonderful charming sweet so fucking wonderful to the point where u DONT see the red flags. Men like this come into your life out of NOWHERE. ITS usually when u are the most weak and vulnerable. We dont realize how evil they are until we are deeply in love and isolated. When u realize who they are it's too late and it's hard to leave. Once u leave u feel like you are going to DIE. so u go back n the cycle begins. N sometimes women cant leave or they will die.
God has a strong plan for her . She survived and is able to live and tell her story . That demon boyfriend of hers tried to take her out this world and God said NO !!
*Abby TV Creations GOD HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT NIGGA WAS A LOUSY ASS SHOT THATS ALL HE NEEDS TO GO TO THE FIRING RANGE AND BRUSH UP ON HIS SKILLS HE COULDN'T HIT THE SIDE OF A BARN EVEN WITH THE GUN PRESSED AGAINST THE BARN.😒*
God has no has nothing to do with why this young lady survived, and everything to do with the amazing work the hospital staff provide it for her especially the trauma surgeons
everybody is asking why she dated a thug like the men seen as squares don't do this type of thing too..lol..certain individuals on this planet no matter upbringing, race, or ideals are psychopaths just waiting on their chance to prove it..smh
anybody is capable no matter how they come off that's people problem because they have a certain perception they put shhhh past people who don't look the part a school shooter is a perfect example murder or crazy don't have a certain look
I will never understand when I see these young, beautiful, graduated females that have their lives & programs together, let some no-good, life-sucking thugs into their life!!!! And I say thug because what he did was thuggish!!!! Those men see these young ladies happy, full of life and promise and will do anything to contol or hang on!!!!
🙄 u dont understand cuz u havent been through it. . . He could've been a totally different person in the beginning and switched up on her. Which more than likely happened.
That has to be the best father on the planet. He keep is cool cooler than Alaska. Salute that brother because i could not have pulled that off so smoothly.
Ladies: When people say dude “how you get her”...it is NOT a compliment.. it’s low key saying you don’t deserve her..she’s too good for you Improper grammar “how you get her” was to emphasize my point 😶
Unapproved Truth What does white people = You know the ones that came to this land back in 1492 that brought with them Racism, Rape, Murder, Hate, Wars, Massacres, Violence and Unjust to Righteous People Stealing Everything they can get there hand on? I'll wait......
She will be stupid to take him back or accept his apology. He deserves to die. I had a crazy mf like him and they always apologize after then do it again. Luckily when he used to pull guns on me he never pulled the trigger but if I had stayed in that toxic relationship who knows I probably wouldn't be here to tell the story. Stay safe ladies.
Prayers to this family, hope she is still on ber road to a full recovery. 💜 I noticed this was 2yrs ago, plz tell me that he was caught & is facing justice for this horrific crime? I will never understand the younger generation who so quickly runs & gets a gun but refuses to face the responsibility behind using that same gun.
This woman is beautiful. Could have any man she want. Why choose this man? And why stay with him? This couldn't have been the 1st incident of abuse....so why stay and put up with that shit? I'm a woman and could NEVER be with a man that abused me. Verbally, mentally, emotionally, and for sure no physical abuse! I'll never understand why smart beautiful women stay with men like this.
Honestly you never know what you would tolerate until you are in the situation. Many women are abused covertly and manipulated until the abuse becomes more overt therefore ensuing a vicious cycle in which she tries to end things.... have you ever seen a man snap? I mean unravel to the point of no return? I think not. Until you've walked in those shoes with a man you loved and trusted for years you will never know the science behind how and why this happens.
This pisses me off... Why would she even answer the PHONE!! I'm mad for 2 reasons one he shot her and 2 because i lost my Big sister to domestic violence her husband stabbed her to death in front of her children and beat her eldest son. I HATE DOMESTIC violence. It's better to just leave or walk away then to be hurt or hurt someone else.
What can you say. How could one not be vengeful and bitter Would anyone really expect any less MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY May Your Beloved Daughter recover completely. 🙏
adoretay a 40cal...man please... Ain't no way in the Sam hell... Makes no since to me.. None..I don't give a fuck bout nothing else.. Why you answering the phone..I CRAZY
GWOS man you just trying to pick a fight.. ain't nobody on that...man chill...everyone has an opinion just because it's not the same as yours you gotta do all that...smh
GWOS you sound very stupid because you are speaking on the way we talk and everything, but not about what happened. Maybe your dumbass should stay on topic.
OHHH MY GAAWWWDDD THE NERVE OF HIS TRYFLYIN ASS!!!! ARE YOU KIDDIN ME!!!!! SHE IS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL I HOPE SHE IS MAKES IT AND HE GETS CAUGHT AND HIS ASS GETS PROSECUTED AND PUT UNDER THE DAM JAIL!!!!!! MY PRAYERS GOES OUT TO THIS BEAUTIFUL LADIES FAMILY AND FRIENDS ...🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Condolences goes out to the family 🙏 God will help the family fight justice like Bob Marley Get up Stand , stand up for your rights Get up stand up don't give up the fight. I pray the gunman will get life without parole🙏🙏
Wow if that was my father he would not be talking about this that guy would be in serious trouble.... thank God she made it I would not answer a call from him!!!
I pray this young lady pulls through its so infortunate how these young boys feel as if they are God taking the lives of others. i cant call them men because harming another for no reason is a for sure aign of immaturity. Smh stay strong beautiful queen.
Thank God she survived...👏
Shamone B hey
Miguel j It's not only "BLACK WOMEN" who choose to go back to an abusive relationship. All races do that! It's human nature know the facts before you make an ignorant comment.
People -and i include men here too - go back to their abusers for many reasons. One is a psychological condition called "trauma bonding", another is "codependency" and theres also "Stockholm Syndrome" (named for a bunch of white people (men too!) held hostage for weeks and so terrified by their terrorist captors their minds went haywire and they began to think of the terrorists as their friends)
These are very real mental problems. I know from the outside it looks like they are just being stupid & I'm not saying these are ALL the reasons (some are economic) but these are USUALLY the ones. YT has tons of stories about how survivors broke out of these mental prisons and were finally able to do what their INTUITION knew to do -which is leave the abuser. There are therapists who specialize in this problem to help people free their minds and find healthy mates. It takes work to reprogram the brain.
Wow Amen !
Miguel j smh im black and this is true
He shot her and left her to die. He was calling because she did not die.
Serious 1 ExaCTLY
Serious 1 I don't understand why the dad is so hurt by this. It's not like the suspect is white. Black lives matter!
The Angry General That was an ignorant thing to say.
bailey1950 you don't like what I say take your fingers out of your ass and stay off RUclips!!!!
Samantha Wilson it's the truth. Something that you are far too weak minded to handle!!!
That man is a coward. Thank God she survived!!!
The devil works hard but God works harder💖
seouled so true! 💯
Ahmen yesss baby he does ✨✨🌺🌺
seouled amen!
GOD DOESN'T DO SHIT
LadyMarmalade A. For you maybe. I mean if your living right now he gotta be doing something. I’ll never understand how people live without god. I pray I never become that slow.
Just went threw this myself. God bless you and I’m glad you made too
Fairy Mom praying for you be strong it hard but I cross the same path in 2005
God bless you
Awww.. sorry, Sis. 😢
Sending my blessings
God bless
Everyone needs to recognize the red flags and know when they're dealing with a cold hearted narcissist. Those types of people are evil personified. They are wolves in sheep's clothing.
The best and safest thing to do.....stay single!
Yeah sometimes it doesn't happen like that. They start off so wonderful charming sweet so fucking wonderful to the point where u DONT see the red flags. Men like this come into your life out of NOWHERE. ITS usually when u are the most weak and vulnerable. We dont realize how evil they are until we are deeply in love and isolated. When u realize who they are it's too late and it's hard to leave. Once u leave u feel like you are going to DIE. so u go back n the cycle begins. N sometimes women cant leave or they will die.
TheKing's Daughter you still can end up with someone obsessive
@@AtlantisMoon616 exact description
Exactly
God has a strong plan for her . She survived and is able to live and tell her story . That demon boyfriend of hers tried to take her out this world and God said NO !!
*Abby TV Creations GOD HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT NIGGA WAS A LOUSY ASS SHOT THATS ALL HE NEEDS TO GO TO THE FIRING RANGE AND BRUSH UP ON HIS SKILLS HE COULDN'T HIT THE SIDE OF A BARN EVEN WITH THE GUN PRESSED AGAINST THE BARN.😒*
*Diamone Fowler YOU KNOW HOW TO SPELL DING, GA, LING.*
Abby TV Creations Amen! God has a plan for her!
God has no has nothing to do with why this young lady survived, and everything to do with the amazing work the hospital staff provide it for her especially the trauma surgeons
George Bradford God created the staff and gave them wisdom to be the good surgeon that they are! So yes God blessed her and she is a miracle
girls pls stay away from this thugs it's not funny.
allllll mf livessss matterssss
*Queen A NOW, NOW, CALM DOWN THERE LITTLE MOMMA NO NEED FOR THAT KIND OF LANGUAGE.😣*
Queen A he’s a thug because he shot someone what a stupid comment
*Pamela Jeffries S.T.F.U!*
Queen A you shoot & nearly KILL someone, you are a thug!!!
everybody is asking why she dated a thug like the men seen as squares don't do this type of thing too..lol..certain individuals on this planet no matter upbringing, race, or ideals are psychopaths just waiting on their chance to prove it..smh
Curly Crown right
anybody is capable no matter how they come off that's people problem because they have a certain perception they put shhhh past people who don't look the part a school shooter is a perfect example murder or crazy don't have a certain look
ted bundy Do you date men!?
Most ignorants want people to think that only bad boy types kill women. Yet the majority of murders against women are committed by white collar men.
Curly Crown “No matter their geometric shape”
I hope she stays away from him after she is all healed up
That's how abusive people are, they put on the crocodile tears when they've done something wrong.
Yup n when u take them back they do a whole 360.
omg.the dad is calmer than i would be.
Ann Margareet right smh I would be after him!
He was trying to be calm for the camera
That is the reaction of a man that knows God!!!
That's cause dad's trying to talk the shooter into coming around so he kin slam dunk his sorry behind
Say no to thugs
ray hanes
Take your meds and get some rest
Jessie James u a bitch
ray hanes yup especially the ugly ones like this ninja 🙄
Jessie James What is wrong with you she was innocent bitch!!!! May you rot in the worst part of hell with Hitler
My Father thank you for sparing this beautiful child of Yours. It's very clear that You are not done with this sister, she has more to accomplish
We as woman need to stop dating men with mommy issues this is what happens to us we cant love or fix no broken man
Micheal Henry a punk with mommy issues
I will never understand when I see these young, beautiful, graduated females that have their lives & programs together, let some no-good, life-sucking thugs into their life!!!! And I say thug because what he did was thuggish!!!! Those men see these young ladies happy, full of life and promise and will do anything to contol or hang on!!!!
That's why I'm single
@@vcovington623 .....me too.
Tawanda Parker
That I want to save them mentality and or they want a project.
@@mlmlsmith2505 Unfortunately, it never works!
🙄 u dont understand cuz u havent been through it. . . He could've been a totally different person in the beginning and switched up on her. Which more than likely happened.
That has to be the best father on the planet. He keep is cool cooler than Alaska. Salute that brother because i could not have pulled that off so smoothly.
I know he was to cool calm and collect for me my husband son and brother would be out looking for him no time to talk to news
He did not mean to hurt her because he meant to kill her‼️
Wow that’s crazy. Wishing the young lady a full recovery. I hope justice is served for this family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thankful that she survived. Sending well wishes for a speedy recovery.
I’m glad she’s Ok
Ladies: When people say dude “how you get her”...it is NOT a compliment.. it’s low key saying you don’t deserve her..she’s too good for you
Improper grammar “how you get her” was to emphasize my point 😶
mlml smith people aren’t bad or good based on their use of grammar
THISSSSSSSSSSSSSS...from a narcissistic abuse survivor. They are bottom feeders but I blame myself for trying to save him. NEVER AGAIN!
THE NERVE OF THIS GUY HE MEANT TO KILL HER....I HOPE HE IS CAUGHT! .....
He should *DELETE* himself and classify himself as *OBSOLETE!*
What's the update with this case? How is she doing? Was the shooter caught?
forget you left me, shit you shot me....
I'm so happy this beautiful girl survived, as for this punk I hope his ass gets locked up for good in the pit of hell
The father has a level of calmness that is unbelievable! I would be looking for that dude immediately.
damn "call ur mother tell her u love her" this is a message to all yall that are disrespectful parents... nigga was a SAVAGE..
she so beautiful. I hope she pulls through smh
CANTTRUSTASOUL yep and then you wash the make up off and take that fake shit off ya head! Still pretty?
Black people = 666
Why are you guys being so racist and hateful. It sickens and hurts me. Everyone is beautiful no matter what even you guys.
Unapproved Truth What does white people = You know the ones that came to this land back in 1492 that brought with them Racism, Rape, Murder, Hate, Wars, Massacres, Violence and Unjust to Righteous People Stealing Everything they can get there hand on? I'll wait......
Unapproved Truth you a damn dummy boy
Shes beautiful
*little nick YOUR OPINION NIGGA*
*jacktheripped SHE PROBABLY GOT SOME NEW THUG DICK*
*I AGREE😣.*
@Evette Robinson 😒🖕
The blood of Jesus
She will be stupid to take him back or accept his apology. He deserves to die. I had a crazy mf like him and they always apologize after then do it again. Luckily when he used to pull guns on me he never pulled the trigger but if I had stayed in that toxic relationship who knows I probably wouldn't be here to tell the story. Stay safe ladies.
She was such a pretty girl why would you go out with that ewww but I hope she’s ok
Courteney Campbell she is*** she still alive
plz young beautiful black sister get out...I am in tears for u been there.love u sis
4 times with a 40 caliber gun is insane
I hope they have caught him, he needs to be LOCKED UP for a long time.
Prayers to this family, hope she is still on ber road to a full recovery. 💜 I noticed this was 2yrs ago, plz tell me that he was caught & is facing justice for this horrific crime? I will never understand the younger generation who so quickly runs & gets a gun but refuses to face the responsibility behind using that same gun.
WHAT TYPE OF DUDES THESE WOMEN BEEN GETTING WITH? WTH??
I REALLY HOPE HE GETS WHAT HE DESERVES.
Thank you so much God for giving her another chance💕
That's Tuff love calls a person after you shoot them Four times
This woman is beautiful. Could have any man she want. Why choose this man? And why stay with him? This couldn't have been the 1st incident of abuse....so why stay and put up with that shit? I'm a woman and could NEVER be with a man that abused me. Verbally, mentally, emotionally, and for sure no physical abuse! I'll never understand why smart beautiful women stay with men like this.
Storybooks & Serenades beauty is in ACTIONS not LOOKS! She probably a fuck Girl! Plenty out there!!!
She chose him maybe because she can't have any man she wants. All men aren't that easy. Some guys have standards just like women.
Honestly you never know what you would tolerate until you are in the situation. Many women are abused covertly and manipulated until the abuse becomes more overt therefore ensuing a vicious cycle in which she tries to end things.... have you ever seen a man snap? I mean unravel to the point of no return? I think not. Until you've walked in those shoes with a man you loved and trusted for years you will never know the science behind how and why this happens.
His eyes gives me “I’m crazy” vibes
Demonic eyes...
I'm glad she survived. I hope she stays away from him. I hope he goes to prison for at least 40 years.
That's truly sad man wow
The only thing he's sorry about is she gets to move on with another man while he rots in jail
God stepped in ..no weapon formed against me shall prosper
Wow I didn't hear about this. I hope she's okay this happened 10 months ago oh my goodness. You cannot trust nobody forget about it. So sad
He didn’t call to say that he was sorry, he called to see if she was dead....
This pisses me off... Why would she even answer the PHONE!! I'm mad for 2 reasons one he shot her and 2 because i lost my Big sister to domestic violence her husband stabbed her to death in front of her children and beat her eldest son. I HATE DOMESTIC violence. It's better to just leave or walk away then to be hurt or hurt someone else.
Wow this is unbelievable smh
Wow, this is a sad story. She looks just like her Daddy... Hope she's ok.
He only called her crying because she survived. Thankfully she survived and the Lord protected her.🙏🏾
Never turn Yourself over to the enemy on a murder charge let them catch You
Thank you Lord for blessing her...
What can you say.
How could one not be vengeful and bitter
Would anyone really expect any less
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
May Your Beloved Daughter recover completely. 🙏
Get well queen..stay strong.. God's not finished with u..🙏🙏🙏🙏
He wants to finished what he started. He has No Remorse! Daddy you're too calm! You find him.
Omg this story upsets me alot of these women need to stop going after abusive men like this smh 😩😩😩😩
Wow!!! Crazy shit foreal & sad😔. I pray she has a speedy recovery & justice is served for what he did to the beautiful girl he left there to die.
What! Wow! So Sad!
She can call him when he spends the rest of his life in prison.
Omg 😲 that just so sad
make better choices don't wait till they hurt you. you can't expect low life to treat you like a queen..
God was on her side!
Why would you want to talk to someone who just shot you 4 times?? Unless the police were recording it. it dont make sense
You left me... You left me... how bout YOU SHOT ME... YOU SHOT ME....I wonder why she answered his call?
adoretay a 40cal...man please... Ain't no way in the Sam hell... Makes no since to me.. None..I don't give a fuck bout nothing else.. Why you answering the phone..I CRAZY
adoretay I SAID THE SAMMMMEEEE THING...HOW HE KNOW U BLACK.. LMMFAOOO.. Assumptions..
GWOS man you just trying to pick a fight.. ain't nobody on that...man chill...everyone has an opinion just because it's not the same as yours you gotta do all that...smh
GWOS you sound very stupid because you are speaking on the way we talk and everything, but not about what happened. Maybe your dumbass should stay on topic.
Omg truly sad & tragic
Ladies, leave the thugs alone.
What’s the update on this case?
She got back with him and got shot again
What a beautiful sista! I hope she's doing well now.
In the black community women call that kind of man (strong and masculine)....
Many Blessings to the Family 👣
Hope she recover 🙏🏽💔
No life behind his eyes. Just pure evil & demonic
Wow..
Sadness smh ..
You mean money for the family
So Sad
Danielle McKinney El I think your right the samething happens with me only with my mouth then when I realized it's to late
Out he cared he wouldn't have shot her🤦🏽♀️
He called so that he can get a lighter sentencing
God is good baby girl survived, now I hope they catch this heartless punk and throw him in jail.
that news anchor looks creepy thank God this young lady is still alive
That's it! Im staying single for the rest of my life.
down2 earth, you don’t have to be single for the rest of your life...just give Me a chance and I’ll show that Us Real Men, still exist???🤔🙏🏾💍💐🌻?
@@abdulatheemmuhammad4975 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@NovaNova Nobel 😂😂😂😂
That’s sick af
I wonder what was on the phone.
Yeah, it's too late to say sorry now.
NOBODY'S daughter deserve that treatmeant
why are people so rude nd disrespectful
someone is dead
remember that GOD is always watching even in the comment section on RUclips
*Teardropangel30 ahhhhhh!!! SHAAAAT!! UP!!!!*
Please stfu with your ugly ass white girl friend
She didn't die
*Renee Jewell FUCK YOU.*
she is not dead.🤔
Omgoshh are you serious 😩😩😩😢😢
Oh god 2017 is the worst year ever too much going on
Crystal Watson ...AND THE WORST IS YET TO COME!!
3 years was he arrested and sentenced. Cannot find any information.
OHHH MY GAAWWWDDD THE NERVE OF HIS TRYFLYIN ASS!!!! ARE YOU KIDDIN ME!!!!! SHE IS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL I HOPE SHE IS MAKES IT AND HE GETS CAUGHT AND HIS ASS GETS PROSECUTED AND PUT UNDER THE DAM JAIL!!!!!! MY PRAYERS GOES OUT TO THIS BEAUTIFUL LADIES FAMILY AND FRIENDS ...🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Why didn't they call a social worker or Le Bron James?
Condolences goes out to the family 🙏 God will help the family fight justice like Bob Marley Get up Stand , stand up for your rights Get up stand up don't give up the fight. I pray the gunman will get life without parole🙏🙏
Wow if that was my father he would not be talking about this that guy would be in serious trouble.... thank God she made it I would not answer a call from him!!!
this is sad so sad
Thank god she is alive I pray she make a full recovery
I pray this young lady pulls through its so infortunate how these young boys feel as if they are God taking the lives of others. i cant call them men because harming another for no reason is a for sure aign of immaturity. Smh stay strong beautiful queen.