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  • @TheQueerKiwi
    @TheQueerKiwi  3 месяца назад +57

    FREE ADULT TOYS OR GIFT CARDS FOR TOYS! Everyone who signs up to my giveaway with Bellesa wins something! www.shopbboutique.co/vibe/thequeerkiwi-yt

    • @virginiakirkland8229
      @virginiakirkland8229 3 месяца назад +9

      I was so excited until I realized that you can only win a glorified coupon. It gives you 50% off if you get the “gift card” which is the sale they already have going on on their site for pride month. If you spend more you get more taken off, like a coupon would work.

    • @acelibrarian
      @acelibrarian 3 месяца назад +6

      Not free. It's a coupon. You have to spend far more than I think is worthwhile to get a discount on your order. Nothing is given for free. This is false advertising, aka lying. I'm extremely disappointed that you'd say this without looking into it. :-(

    • @commandercorl1544
      @commandercorl1544 3 месяца назад +6

      Isn't this false advertising? Not everyone who signs up "wins" if they have to spend money to get the "free" item.

    • @acelibrarian
      @acelibrarian 3 месяца назад

      @@commandercorl1544 that's exactly what it is.

    • @irrelliusspamticon4566
      @irrelliusspamticon4566 3 месяца назад +1

      Seems to be a 40% off coupon,

  • @oldgus01
    @oldgus01 3 месяца назад +103

    "Pregnant women: if you are menstruating, don't use a hula hoop."
    Whoever wrote this, if a pregnant woman is menstruating, choice in exercise equipment is the least of her worries.

  • @justozzy5559
    @justozzy5559 3 месяца назад +802

    As a trans man, I got rid of my nipples when I got top surgery. If anyone asks why I don't have nipples, I like to shrug and say "well I wasn't using them."

    • @elainakingery5839
      @elainakingery5839 3 месяца назад

      You should say a beaver bit your nipples off. If you don't know, look up the comedy skit lol

    • @CalliNightmare
      @CalliNightmare 3 месяца назад +40

      That's amazing dude 😎

    • @haylene7521
      @haylene7521 3 месяца назад +13

      Awesome.

    • @Lunar994
      @Lunar994 3 месяца назад +20

      Honestly, fair enough

    • @JamieAndTheBag
      @JamieAndTheBag 3 месяца назад

      No nip gang!! I can't wait to tattoo over my smooth nice chest

  • @ThatOneOtherFangirl
    @ThatOneOtherFangirl 3 месяца назад +204

    Can confirm as a woman who works at a sex shop: men just think they're sex gods and don't need our stores. Like, if you say you can do the things this wand can do, I think you need to see a doctor 😅

    • @ryanap8396
      @ryanap8396 3 месяца назад +30

      That puts a disturbing image in my head

    • @07Flash11MRC
      @07Flash11MRC 3 месяца назад

      Lol, I'm sure they all think they have vibrating genitals...

    • @2ndperky
      @2ndperky 3 месяца назад +28

      I worked at a Spencer's Gifts for awhile. I'd just nod my head and say "absolutely, totally" just to sell them something they think they needed. It's not like they'd accept my advice despite me having to awkwardly educate myself on sex toys for guys and girls for a long time just to help customers find what they're looking for. Nah, they knew what they needed, or rather they thought they did. But I sold something, and that's what really mattered in the end. I tried.

  • @rosieg6989
    @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад +380

    4:20 This husband is just selfish, he doesn't want to spend the minimal effort to make his wife (the person he should love more than just about anyone else) experience pleasure, but he expects her to give him pleasure.

    • @heartofthewild680
      @heartofthewild680 3 месяца назад +77

      And then he’s complaining that it’s “too hard” and “takes forever” to give her pleasure, but I’m pretty sure he’s just bad at sex, and that’s not gonna change if he doesn’t practice

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад +36

      @@heartofthewild680 Yup, if he just asked her or listen to her he'd be able to do it likely fairly easily.

    • @rosiebowers1671
      @rosiebowers1671 3 месяца назад +47

      @@heartofthewild680 I don't even think it's necessarily a skill issue, it's worse: he doesn't tolerate spending any effort at all on her. He feels that any effort spent on her is wasted because it's not spent on himself. Source: have been with this type before.

    • @Shane-hx4xp
      @Shane-hx4xp 3 месяца назад +26

      @@heartofthewild680 the worst part is even if it were “hard work” it’s really fun work and worth “taking forever”

    • @2ndperky
      @2ndperky 3 месяца назад

      Turning on your partner should turn you on imo. To me, it feels like he doesn't actually like his wife sexually. There's nothing wrong with not being sexually interested in your partner, but if you're in a monogamous relationship and you're both interested in sex, it definitely helps to be sexually attracted to your partner.

  • @plantmutual9482
    @plantmutual9482 3 месяца назад +19

    It's so bewildering when men say it's a lot of work to get a woman to climax, I have the opposite problem with my partner. I go from 0-climax in 30 seconds I have NO CLUE what he's doing down there but he's plugging in the Konami code or something

  • @alaz3766
    @alaz3766 3 месяца назад +81

    The same people that look at women/celebrities and point out features that “prove they are a man” are the same people that refuse to use the correct pronouns of a trans person. If it is because of these random details like belly button height but a trans person has that feature, they are “not a real man or woman”

    • @marvelous971-j6m
      @marvelous971-j6m 3 месяца назад

      Literally skull shape thing but against transpeople.

  • @Clowninchuckle
    @Clowninchuckle 3 месяца назад +19

    9:23 to add to this my grandma went in to get checked out (this was when she was like 40 or 50) and they said “well maybe it’s just your period” cause she had a lot of abdominal pain. It was cancer. They didn’t even think of that as a viable option until she brought up concerns and basically forced them to check. She luckily got better though.

  • @KittenJune96
    @KittenJune96 3 месяца назад +112

    Oh yes I remember like it was yesterday. I was sixteen and then all of a sudden my ovaries spawned out of nowhere.

  • @triciad4100
    @triciad4100 3 месяца назад +59

    Are the Terflock Holmes people just forgetting about Hilary Duff being very publicly pregnant several times? 🥴

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад

      They have crazy conspiracies about how women who have had kids are still trans women. They just are crazy people.

    • @SkyeSoleil
      @SkyeSoleil 3 месяца назад +3

      That was my immediate thought 😖

    • @Lizard_Ri
      @Lizard_Ri 3 месяца назад +2

      Terflock Holmes is an hilarious name, I'm stealing it

  • @viiranen
    @viiranen 3 месяца назад +53

    12 seconds in and my hopes have both been raised and crushed. for a second there i thought adult toys meant stuff like a teddybear that is two meters tall or some cool lego sets

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +9

      OMG ME TOO! I was thinking horror movie themed LEGO sets and stuff! I wish people would come out and say sex when they mean sex and alcohol when they mean alcohol and just be more direct in general. Since when is a sexual device the default definition of "toy" with no modifiers and no context? If the sign outside a building just said, "Toy Store," with nothing else to indicate what was inside, nobody would assume they were walking into a sex shop.

    •  3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@ttintagel, you bastard, I had no idea that I needed a horror movie themed LEGO set until you mentioned it! ;-)

    • @Percy_Of_The_Sea
      @Percy_Of_The_Sea 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@ttintagelhorror themed lego sets would be sick! I definitely need them! 😂

  • @lemurenkoenigin3509
    @lemurenkoenigin3509 3 месяца назад +8

    When men say anything about p*netrating the cervix during sex.. yikes, the pain I felt when getting my IUD was so insane, and they literally just push a tiny tube throught the cervix during that procedure.

  • @ronna2027
    @ronna2027 3 месяца назад +20

    The comment about body hair, tattoos, and rainbow hair to keep gross misogynist men away, gold. I stopped shaving my legs and armpits years ago much to my mother and sister horror (bonus), and as of recently now keep very short, partially green hair and have my first 2 tattoos. My mom cries that I need to lower my standards and "be more feminine" so I can catch a guy but the way I look will scare them away, and I am like "good, they weren't worth it."

    • @CATmetchu
      @CATmetchu 3 месяца назад +3

      Imagine being that big of a coward that green hair scares you. That sounds like a trip to the therapist's office if that's genuinely the case. But we all know it's not an actual crippling pants pissing fear of green hair follicles. I can think of way scarier things like being lost of the forest at mid night. Who knows, maybe there is a guy out there who has ptsd from being trapped in a field of greenery that seeing green hair gave him a trauma response.

  • @viiranen
    @viiranen 3 месяца назад +71

    bellybutton being higher just makes your legs look longer. nothing to do with gender, rather beauty expectations which have always been crazy

    • @rachael5300
      @rachael5300 3 месяца назад +1

      I thought it gave the impression of a toned stomach?

  • @ronna2027
    @ronna2027 3 месяца назад +16

    The losing weight comment by doctors hits even harder in China where they don't understand different body types. I am very big boned and enjoy weight lifting, so I am not small by any stretch of the imagination, but healthy. I weigh about 88kg at 165 cm and feel great, maybe lose 8 kg if I feel like it. At my skinniest, I was 65kg and looked absolutely awful, almost borderline anorexic, did not suite my body type at all. Anyway, doctors here in China like to insist that I am unhealthy and should be 57kg...what do you want me to do? Cut off a leg? Even in the military I didn't go below 78kg and would get measured every 2 months to make sure I was "healthy".

    • @jmarshal
      @jmarshal 3 месяца назад +1

      I have this exact problem. Even at my absolute smallest where I was borderline anorexic and looked so awful, I was still 68kg. I’m also 165cm so yeah, apparently my healthy weight is 60ish kg. It’s insane. I always felt best at around 80-85.

  • @mska8667
    @mska8667 3 месяца назад +45

    My endocrinologist told me that my depression would probably go away if I just lost some weight. Spoiler alert: it didn't go away.

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +3

      Weight loss and/or gain can be caused BY depression!

    • @mska8667
      @mska8667 3 месяца назад +5

      @@ttintagel Yes, it can be. But in this case it was implied that depression was caused by weight gain and not the other way around. Depression is a hell of a beast to tackle and usually requires more work than losing weight

  • @TristynCarpenter
    @TristynCarpenter 3 месяца назад +5

    6:58 Tell me you're a "transvestigator" without telling me you're a "transvestigator"

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 месяца назад +17

    Happy Pride Month 🌈
    Here’s to learning by learning from the best worst people featured on a subReddit lol

  • @mmwolf503
    @mmwolf503 3 месяца назад +4

    I hate that the transphobes stole the term transvestigator. I, as a nonbinary person, would of loved to call myself that when doing recerch on stuff or looking into trans stuff. Like haha im a trans investagator, a transvestigator. But that has been ruined.

  • @acelibrarian
    @acelibrarian 3 месяца назад +4

    BUYER BEWARE. That so called "voucher" is a dollar off coupon. You have to spend a ton of money to get a discount on your order. It's not a "free" anything. I'm frankly surprised how many otherwise upstanding RUclipsrs I follow continue to peddle this lie and be so boldly dishonest to their viewers. It sucks.

  • @miniz1038
    @miniz1038 3 месяца назад +5

    in my school district we barely had sex ed, but it was always split by sex

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад

      We had one 40-minute class period of sex ed, focused on STDs, in Grade 12 (final year).

  • @prettyevil6662000
    @prettyevil6662000 3 месяца назад +3

    21:25 Worth noting these were not advertised as douches to 'freshen' your lady bits in the way we think of today. Feminine hygiene was all coded talk so they could put out this info in public. It was about not getting pregnant and how men can become distant if they have to think even a second about family planning themselves. So it's on the woman to squirt horrifyingly acidic and toxic products inside herself so that he doesn't have to worry about it! (People at the time absolutely knew this was a yeast infection risk and was not about being less stinky; it was a risk that was calculated for unwanted pregnancy though.)
    It's still awful, but this was also a time before wide spread and effective birth control. So awful but a necessity for many desperate women who didn't want or couldn't afford extra babies.

  • @EVIE_ASH
    @EVIE_ASH 3 месяца назад +10

    Happy pride month, everyone🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
    Stay safe and get some rest

  • @pedroff_1
    @pedroff_1 3 месяца назад +1

    while I don't have a cervix to speak for myself, a quick way of knowing how it feels to have one "stretched" is asking anyone who has an IUD how it felt. I assure you most answers won't be positive at all

  • @user-96yippieeee
    @user-96yippieeee 3 месяца назад +1

    This has taught me one thing: DO WHAT YOU WANT PEOPLE WILL BE MAD ANYWAY :)

  • @kingdomgnark
    @kingdomgnark 3 месяца назад +3

    "monumental effort"
    that's a skill issue, my guy

    • @Megnan.143
      @Megnan.143 2 месяца назад

      My genuine reaction to his complaining..
      Womp wompity womp womp womp wimpity wompity skill issue + L Rizz + -68,000,000,00 aura

  • @GhostlyArtistAj
    @GhostlyArtistAj 3 месяца назад +19

    I got here early!! :D also guys i cant tell if im nonbinary, transmasc, or if im just girboyiling too hard

    • @sheersternfeld1914
      @sheersternfeld1914 3 месяца назад +4

      This is literally me

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +3

      You'll figure it out in your own time. In the meantime, you're awesome.

  • @saskiakraft
    @saskiakraft 3 месяца назад +1

    Most of my strechmark developed from like 11-14 i think🤔🤔🤔

  • @Zaddy-Lu
    @Zaddy-Lu 3 месяца назад +1

    In the United States, a lot of states don't have s*x ed at all. Many of the ones that do teach abstinence only and focus on all the reasons you shouldn't have premarital intimacy. Very few states/school districts have actual health classes. And yes, a lot of them separate health classes by s*x assigned at birth.

  • @CaasiIsaac
    @CaasiIsaac 3 месяца назад +2

    while reading the desc i thought that they where normal toys 😭😭 (anyways nice vid)

  • @finn_20
    @finn_20 3 месяца назад +17

    Happy pride month yall! I love all of you no matter who you are! Spread love and positivity this month and all year!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🤍
    Also, please pay attention to your partner(s) during intimacy unlike this first man lol😂

    • @ninjawizard
      @ninjawizard 3 месяца назад +3

      Happy pride! 🏳️‍⚧️

    • @izzyded9207
      @izzyded9207 3 месяца назад +1

      As a trans man with two loving partners...I view a job well done if I have to tend to myself because they have lost the want to move.
      Always pay attention to your partners in the quiet moments. Or not so quiet lol

  • @Fruityflootloops
    @Fruityflootloops 3 месяца назад

    2:00 THE MORSE CODE THING OMG. Like patterns are cool but like some of them are so weird seriously. This joke absolutely sent me lol

  • @viiranen
    @viiranen 3 месяца назад +9

    men's nips do have a purpose. sort of. they can ALSO lactate. it's rare, usually result of some illness or hormone imbalance, but it can happen. and apparently can also happen if the man's partner is pregnant/has given birth, so it can also happen as a sympathetic reaction. so yeah, men can lactate

  • @andrewkoster6506
    @andrewkoster6506 3 месяца назад

    That Lysol ad goes crazy...

  • @finelyhigh7623
    @finelyhigh7623 3 месяца назад +6

    six minutes late does not fly w me

  • @flamingpaxtsc
    @flamingpaxtsc 3 месяца назад +3

    Happy pride month. I’m gonna eat so many rainbow goldfish

  • @reneejones4263
    @reneejones4263 2 месяца назад

    One time at the doctor I was having horrible cramps (I got cramps years before my period started). I hadn’t even gotten my first period yet and I was 12-13 and a virgin. The nurse said they had to get a urine sample to make sure I wasn’t pregnant.

    • @Megnan.143
      @Megnan.143 2 месяца назад

      Why couldn’t they just believe you? Bro do they actually think an 11 year old is getting around 💀

    • @reneejones4263
      @reneejones4263 2 месяца назад

      @@Megnan.143 apparently yes.

  • @hippiemetalhead
    @hippiemetalhead 3 месяца назад +3

    HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈🏳‍⚧

  • @chey1666
    @chey1666 2 месяца назад +1

    For the “if your father is a certain race then you are only that race” comment, guess what? My dad’s black and I look 100% white. And yes we got a paternity test.

  • @transmascdruid77
    @transmascdruid77 3 месяца назад

    I feel like it's a very Western construct that breasts are seen as sexual. Or should I say, American. In other countries, topless women are not sexualized nearly as much.

  • @emmablack1230
    @emmablack1230 3 месяца назад +1

    24:32 sadly I never really got any of that kind of education (I'm afab). Just a tiny about periods and body hair in grade 7 as well. A bit about birth control and STDs in high school.

  • @Cup1d036
    @Cup1d036 3 месяца назад

    no cause Docters will latterly blame everything but the issue for women's health issues. like my mom almost died because Docters didn't believe she was sick. they kept telling her it was all in her head and blamed it on her anxiety. turns out she had a massive cyst in her leg that was causing really bad blood clots. if she waited a year or so to see the doctor that took her seriously, she would have died. like its actually so sad have little Docter's trust women.

  • @vixyn_
    @vixyn_ 3 месяца назад

    8:19 - the pregnancy question kinda makes sense in this case imo bcs some medicine is not made for pregnant women but i really dont get the period one. i have been asked those questions in very irrelevant situations before tho

  • @SadSav
    @SadSav 3 месяца назад

    I love how healthy my bfs and my sex life is. We both love foreplay and he loves making me feel good. And he is genuinely incredible at it. He can get me off really quickly and multiple times! And it’s all because we communicate! Communication is incredible!

  • @HeckMurr
    @HeckMurr 3 месяца назад

    Jaw dropped the entire video

  • @okayolek
    @okayolek 3 месяца назад +4

    6:10 body shaming is out, transvestigating is in. lol. lmao even.

  • @calliecrunks
    @calliecrunks 3 месяца назад +1

    Who wants morse code????

  • @Shane-hx4xp
    @Shane-hx4xp 3 месяца назад +1

    22:30 I’m a man and that sounds horrible even to my small man brain 😂

  • @Anya2014
    @Anya2014 3 месяца назад +1

    That first story of the husband saying it's so difficult to make a woman orgasm obviously isn't putting in any effort - apparently anything above "nothing" is a lot?? 😂 It's so fricken easy man, my husband gets me so fast it's embarrassing 🤣 not to say it never takes time, but it's nowhere near as difficult as some men make it out to be. They're just too selfish to learn what makes their partner tick. (Obviously I'm specifically referring to het straight, which is the category I fall into - I realize this may not apply across the board 🙃 )

  • @hmmmmnothanks
    @hmmmmnothanks 3 месяца назад +1

    8:04 thumbnail 😭

  • @blehblehblehdracula
    @blehblehblehdracula 3 месяца назад

    I met a trans-conspiracy theorist in real life not too long ago. It was as weird as it sounded.

    • @Megnan.143
      @Megnan.143 2 месяца назад

      My school is filled with them. Apparently, I’m a man because I have short hair and I have like 2 grams of muscle on my bones 💀🙏

  • @tamar7065
    @tamar7065 3 месяца назад

    I'm cis. My trans friend and I share a shoe size.
    However much you think you can "tell", I promise, you can't tell. There is no magical anatomy cue that lets you do this. Sorry.

  • @Themakeupchair15
    @Themakeupchair15 3 месяца назад

    what is the sex shop work meant to do with that note you dont have sex in the shop its just toys?????????????????????????????///

  • @sarahthomas8670
    @sarahthomas8670 3 месяца назад

    If you can’t get a woman to O then I have some sad news for you buddy

  • @ToomekvRaven
    @ToomekvRaven 3 месяца назад

    There is a myth of women being better communicators. Women will not tell a guy they sleep with how they would like to get off. They expect the guy to magically know...

  • @johnthumble5154
    @johnthumble5154 3 месяца назад

    Lol none of you even know what a woman is 😂

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад +2

      Someone born with the female gender identity who identifies as such throughout life.

    • @johnthumble5154
      @johnthumble5154 3 месяца назад

      @@rosieg6989 😂 that's the equivalent of a woman is a woman except you've replaced woman with female, you've also gone against your own narrative by saying "female gender" sex and gender are supposed to seperate..... Remember? So now you've backed yourself into a corner you can explain what "female gender" is ... Go on this will be entertaining.
      Proved me point.

    • @johnthumble5154
      @johnthumble5154 3 месяца назад

      ​@@rosieg6989Lol that's the equivalent of a woman is a woman 😂 there's no such thing as a "female gender identity"
      proved my point

    • @johnthumble5154
      @johnthumble5154 3 месяца назад

      @@rosieg6989 lol that's the equivalent of a woman is a woman 😂 proved my point perfectly

    • @johnthumble5154
      @johnthumble5154 3 месяца назад

      @@rosieg6989 lol proved my point.

  • @timtsai9285
    @timtsai9285 3 месяца назад +378

    "if a woman has leg hair shes probably trans" as if were not out here religiously shaving our legs multiple times a week

    • @07Flash11MRC
      @07Flash11MRC 3 месяца назад

      I think it's about time for women to stop shaving altogether. If all of them did it, men could no longer pretend it isn't natural.

    • @lucitheredemptiveberry8795
      @lucitheredemptiveberry8795 3 месяца назад +8

      Omg fr 🤣

    • @treznorfan
      @treznorfan 3 месяца назад +36

      literally like why does he think womens razors exist??

    • @EroticInferno
      @EroticInferno 3 месяца назад

      I’m a cis woman but I don’t shave

    • @claratalbot7613
      @claratalbot7613 3 месяца назад +10

      Fr. Like, what does someone having leg hair or not have to do with their gender identity? Someone people shave and some don't. It varies from person to person

  • @ArinellSnap
    @ArinellSnap 3 месяца назад +569

    Med student here! One reason people ask about pregnancy in a hospital setting even when it might not pertain to the injury or condition is because certain medications or tests can affect fetuses. It’s basically to make sure doctors don’t accidentally cause harm they could have otherwise avoided if someone was unknowingly pregnant. But the way it is asked is really weird, I agree

    • @trillionbones89
      @trillionbones89 3 месяца назад +44

      Also X-rays despite their diagnostic usefulness have risks associated with them. And the more your cells will divide in your future, the worse the damage can be. And a fetus needs to do a lot of growing.

    • @Shoot4AlarmFire
      @Shoot4AlarmFire 3 месяца назад

      And the timing of the question! They're so quick to get it out of the way, before assessing anything else, usually.

    • @arthurspils2565
      @arthurspils2565 3 месяца назад +19

      Yeah I was thinking isn't that just a thing they need to check to make sure they don't cause any potential damage with certain drugs/dosage/etc
      Like I have to bring up my medications for the same reason so 🤷‍♂ - assume it can be a weird question sometimes tho lol

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +28

      Is that why I've been given so many pregnancy tests since my hysterectomy? The one I've told every medical provider about before they ordered the tests? The one that's right there in my list of surgeries at the same hospital where most of the tests were ordered? I'm just amazed that the same insurance company that paid for the surgery keeps paying for the tests. Or maybe the hospital writes them off, IDK. I sure as hell wouldn't pay for them if they tried to make me.

    • @hannahwells9397
      @hannahwells9397 3 месяца назад +30

      I understand but I'm a Trans woman (no uterus) and not sexually active and I've had to take 10 pregnancy tests in the last 4 years " Just in case you're wrong"

  • @charliedeegan1598
    @charliedeegan1598 3 месяца назад +421

    As someone who has had their cervix bruised, thay is not a flex.
    That shit hurts 😂

  • @locallance1529
    @locallance1529 3 месяца назад +170

    i don't buy sex toys, but i love it whenever kiwi sponsors them because 95% of the time it's on a video about people who would absolutely *hate* someone promoting sex toys on a video about them

    • @skrunklycreationz
      @skrunklycreationz 3 месяца назад +5

      YES THATS WHAT IT IS LOL it feels so smug i love it

  • @ryanap8396
    @ryanap8396 3 месяца назад +282

    And even “male” nipples are capable of lactation

    • @silentvalley1395
      @silentvalley1395 3 месяца назад +31

      yes, however, if you're a male and you lactate you may have breast cancer (because while they *can* they *shouldn't* be. nobody should be lactating unless they are actively pregnant or nursing as far as I know)

    • @ryanap8396
      @ryanap8396 3 месяца назад +41

      @@silentvalley1395 not exactly what I was talking about, it is technically possible for a cis man to breastfeed a baby.
      Slightly off topic, babies will suck on anyone’s nipples

    • @ambunt
      @ambunt 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@silentvalley1395you can use lactation supplements even as a cis male/any amab not taking hrt and they will work just fine

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад +33

      @@silentvalley1395 If you are a cis male, yes. But trans women taking estrogen and maybe prolactin are able to and it is safe. Prolactin is the same stuff some adoptive mothers of new borns take to be able to breast feed, or a lesbian partner who wasn't the one to carry the baby.

    • @annabelledrake2027
      @annabelledrake2027 3 месяца назад +16

      ⁠@@silentvalley1395I think they moreso mean that you could, in theory, induce lactation in a man the same way you can with some women.

  • @Toaster-draws
    @Toaster-draws 3 месяца назад +116

    I also hate the "have you tried losing weight?" question. I had a seizure in December and my dad assumed it was because I gained weight. 😐

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +21

      Yeah, it's amazing how much more seriously my doctors took the exact same health conditions I have now, back when I was thinner. It's like, this inflammation was even worse back when I weighed thirty pounds less; what makes you think it would go away if I lost the thirty pounds again?

    • @commandercorl1544
      @commandercorl1544 3 месяца назад +8

      I mean, I guess there's technically a possible correlation? But you'd have to meet a lot of specifics for it to be specifically that, not reasonable to just assume it's weight gain.

    • @anitanielsen1061
      @anitanielsen1061 3 месяца назад +7

      As a chronically fat person with epilepsy who tried and failed many diets, that is a stupid question, I agree

    • @Bee-ys6kt
      @Bee-ys6kt 3 месяца назад +1

      Damn what a sucky reply from your dad! ❤ hope you’re doing okay dude

  • @MintyFreshCupcakes
    @MintyFreshCupcakes 3 месяца назад +50

    People "transvestigating" are so wild. Once on Facebook I defended a trans person and someone commented on MY looks saying make-up can't hide my masculine bone structure and they know I'm really a man.(In my pfp I had long hair and was wearing a cocktail dress) Like sir I am AFAB but love being seen as androgynous and I'm closeted Gender-Fluid. So you played yourself. Twice

  • @parker4340
    @parker4340 3 месяца назад +401

    Happy pride month everyone! Remember to stay hydrated and have a snack. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

    • @Kai_The_Kai
      @Kai_The_Kai 3 месяца назад +9

      I’ve actually done a good job of staying hydrated this week so far :) Happy Pride Month! 🎉

    • @parker4340
      @parker4340 3 месяца назад +4

      @@Kai_The_Kai WELL DONE 🎉

    • @galaxychill9578
      @galaxychill9578 3 месяца назад +5

      looks like Peter's having a snack as well ;)

    • @USSAnimeNCC-
      @USSAnimeNCC- 3 месяца назад +8

      Remember Vivian was always trans and Venus and Saturn are Yuri/lesbian they got censored in US to being cousin also their was also a pink color saturation in the US version i dont know why

    • @flamingpaxtsc
      @flamingpaxtsc 3 месяца назад +3

      Yeeeeaaaah happy birthday rainbow people

  • @jefferyjones8399
    @jefferyjones8399 3 месяца назад +77

    This whole "we can tell, anatomy does not lie" is like modern day phrenology

  • @FoxGameCZ
    @FoxGameCZ 3 месяца назад +99

    I had some man trying to tell that breast are sexual because if they weren't they would grow only once you get pregnant.
    Dude clearly don't know how long it can take to breast to grow. Also the satrech marks.

    • @2ndperky
      @2ndperky 3 месяца назад +14

      If the real reason why women had breasts was a snake, it would have bit him. He was so close when he mentioned pregnancy, but somehow still got it wrong.

    • @jeffersonclippership2588
      @jeffersonclippership2588 3 месяца назад +8

      Starch masks

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад

      Breasts show not be viewed as sexual. They feed children, and men get to show theirs off with usually no consequences.

  • @0rchid6lues
    @0rchid6lues 3 месяца назад +170

    happy pride! i don’t know if this was purposeful or not, but showing your natural skin made me smile. as someone who struggles with acne, its always so comforting to see other people normalizing real skin! (your makeup is always on point too!)

    • @AW-uv3cb
      @AW-uv3cb 3 месяца назад +12

      i had the same thought!

    • @Hana_H
      @Hana_H 3 месяца назад +5

      This isn’t the first time she did that but I agree it’s really nice!

  • @HoneyBoom
    @HoneyBoom 3 месяца назад +64

    my friend went into the ER for a foot injury the other day and was asked if she could be pregnant. that was one of her goals as a trans woman haha

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 месяца назад +9

      That’s great! (Not the injury part)

    • @_allegra
      @_allegra 3 месяца назад +6

      "No, but we've been trying really hard"

  • @viiranen
    @viiranen 3 месяца назад +64

    having seen some of those razor ads and how the ladies in those always look like they are shaving fuck all, i wouldnt be surprised if some men thought that women were buying razorless razors. for you know. the fun of it

  • @teetimedolls807
    @teetimedolls807 3 месяца назад +19

    the whole stretchmark from doggy thing... my brother in christ, my boobs move and shake way more walking DOWN THE DAMN STAIRS WHAT DO YOU MEAN??? 💀💀💀💀

  • @galaxychill9578
    @galaxychill9578 3 месяца назад +106

    Also that last guy seems to think American is a Race instead of a Nationality

  • @elialexandra730
    @elialexandra730 3 месяца назад +45

    IMMUNITY!? Does he think women become immuned to orgasms if we have them too much a certain way

  • @kaya7661
    @kaya7661 3 месяца назад +36

    It's so ridiculous how important BMI is for doctors. Some dude made this scale once and it doesn't tell you anything. It's just the weight, completely disregarding how much is fat, how much is muscle and many more factors that would actually matter x_X

    • @cayreet5992
      @cayreet5992 3 месяца назад +8

      Not to mention that the dude made the scale from checking 19th-century miners, a group of people well-known for not being the healthiest or best-fed.

    •  3 месяца назад +5

      Yeah, my ex was a bodybuilder and according to BMI she was obese when she stepped on stage... ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

  • @AceOfSpades455
    @AceOfSpades455 3 месяца назад +28

    6:32 I'm a pre-everything trans guy who has all of those anatomy features, so I guess I'm officially a man by this person's bizarre requirements LMAO

  • @May-nt3ow
    @May-nt3ow 3 месяца назад +22

    Breasts being sexual is also cultural. A friend went to Guatemala from the US & stayed with a Mayan family for a little bit as part of cross-cultural. Breasts are for feeding the baby; it doesn't matter who else is in the room. Normal just like people seeing your arms.
    But hips are sexual, & do NOT show your ankles. Serious taboo on ankle showing.
    Also nice to see someone else not bother to shave leg hair. I got nobody to impress. Why do the work?

    • @ninjawizard
      @ninjawizard 3 месяца назад

      I cant tell if “serious taboo on ankle showing” is sarcastic

    • @May-nt3ow
      @May-nt3ow 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ninjawizard It's not. It's a major deal.

    • @ninjawizard
      @ninjawizard 3 месяца назад

      @@May-nt3ow are you a time traveler from the 1600s “oh good heavens, she’s showing her ankles” get real. the only thing inherently sexual is sex, bodys arnt sexual there bodys. If you think that bodys are always sexual you are weird

  • @thatonebab7351
    @thatonebab7351 3 месяца назад +14

    Men can actually lactate and chestfeed as well, and I don't mean trans men that have gone without a mastectomy. Anyone with nipples and breast tissue, even the small amount of breast tissue present in cis perisex men, can be induced to lactate with enough regular stimulation. Pregnancy makes it easier but is not a prerequisite.
    Edit: saw in another comment that yes, you should be wary of randomly milking as a cis man, because that can be a sign of breast cancer. I am talking specifically about the ability to intentionally induce lactation.

    • @ninjawizard
      @ninjawizard 3 месяца назад

      Yep we all have the same nipples

    • @jmarshal
      @jmarshal 3 месяца назад

      So many men also don’t know that they can get breast cancer. Because they “don’t have breasts”. Guys, check yourselves, too! It’s important!

  • @viiranen
    @viiranen 3 месяца назад +31

    that comment about children being mini clones of their father, reminding me of that one greek philosopher whose name escapes me rn, saying the exact same thing over 2000 years ago. some people really out here reinventing the wheel on the regular

    • @marvelous971-j6m
      @marvelous971-j6m 3 месяца назад +2

      In reality the kid is different from the parents due to metosis.

    • @tauntingeveryone7208
      @tauntingeveryone7208 3 месяца назад

      To be fair the idea of seeing children as their own entity and not as a mini adult is a relatively new thing. It does not mean it is correct but for most of human history children were believed to be just as capable as adults.

  • @TheGhostieZone
    @TheGhostieZone 3 месяца назад +28

    So I'm aspec and trans masc and when I went in to get top surgery I literally had like 3 people ask if I was pregnant and I declined the pregnancy test because like I knew I wasn't pregnant and they still did it. Just? Why because I have a uterus?

    • @michellerhodes5477
      @michellerhodes5477 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes, because they "can't trust us" when we say no, I am not pregnant or they don't believe people when they say they don't have penetrative sex with someone with a penis. 🙄

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +8

      I've had so many pregnancy tests done without them even asking or telling me first. Never mind the fact that I've had a hysterectomy/oophorectomy. And never mind the fact that I'm intersex and could never have conceived even before the surgery. And also never mind the fact that I was honest about being ace and not sexually active.

  • @catrakitten
    @catrakitten 3 месяца назад +28

    Happy Pride Month! Here's some snacks for everyone. 🥳 🏳️‍🌈🍟🥨🍰🥧🍦🎂🧁🍭🍬🍫🍨🍩🍪

  • @ttintagel
    @ttintagel 3 месяца назад +28

    Douching with Lysol was also used as a DIY contraceptive by many women. The company never officially advertised it that way, but you can read between the lines with the bit about "organic matter." I did a research project about the history of Lysol advertising campaigns for my rhetoric class at university.

  • @RPGLover87
    @RPGLover87 3 месяца назад +25

    Describing it as anatomy just made me think of Repo the Genetic Opera, so all I could think of during the ad read was "Bellesa comes in a little glass vial. A little glass vial? A little glass vial."
    also don't say that mens nipples are purposeless - they are fully plumbed into mammary glands just like female-presenting breasts are, it's just those glands don't normally activate because it takes a very extreme circumstance for a male pituitary gland to start producing prolactin.

  • @Eclipse210
    @Eclipse210 3 месяца назад +25

    6:49; These men have been watching too much battle Shounen and think that's how all women's bodies look like.

  • @Cinnamoncakepops
    @Cinnamoncakepops 3 месяца назад +23

    That last one hurt my brain omg. Using the same logic; the egg has always been there! The sperm is just an external ‘agent’. Plus the mitochondrial DNA is only(mostly) inherited by the mother. Misogynistic stupidity is the worst kind of stupidity 😂

  • @ChronicallyOnlineTeacher
    @ChronicallyOnlineTeacher 3 месяца назад +8

    8:18 i literally have gone to the doctor for a cold, sneezing and sore throat, and will still get the “when was your last period, is there a chance you could help pregnant” questions. And I even asked if the questions were related to medicines to give me, and they said “no, we just like to rule that out first”. What kind of pregnancies have they seen that give people common cold like symptoms

  • @Wildfire201X_LIVE
    @Wildfire201X_LIVE 3 месяца назад +41

    15:20 seems like bro was excited cause he figured out how to do it?? It's kinda sweet in a sad, really awkward way?? Like, "I made my partner feel good! I must tell the world of this discovery!!"

  • @lavenderdasillykitty
    @lavenderdasillykitty 3 месяца назад +17

    25:10 whats pretty interesting is that, according to some anthropology studies, this is the origin of monagamous families! originally, property was passed down to sisters or the woman's children because obvs thats way easier to prove {proving who the mother is}, but eventually with the advent of private property men wanted to be able to pass down to their kin, so legally {complicated} made women their husband's property etc, so that their property would pass down to their kin.
    source: origin of the family, private property and the state by Friedrich Engles

  • @charminharlan9081
    @charminharlan9081 3 месяца назад +7

    8:10 Actually I want to go to grad school to study prejudice against trans people (and queer people in general) and I think this would be a fascinating study! My thoughts are that it probably stems from gender essentialism, misogyny, and/or Western beauty standards. If I actually manage to get my PhD I’d love to conduct studies like this.
    edit: Happy pride!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

  • @trillionbones89
    @trillionbones89 3 месяца назад +13

    Emergency rooms (physicians in general) have to ask about a possible pregnancy. Because X-raying a child in the womb is not good. It's an awkward question to ask and an even more awkward question to answer, i get that. Especially in a CT scan there is a lot of radiation. A human who is done growing is not as much in risk as a child who is still growing (dividing cells are more prone to cancer). The quicker the doctor can shove the patient into the X-ray, the really earlier they can be treated accordingly.

  • @kayleescruggs6888
    @kayleescruggs6888 3 месяца назад +9

    I am a trans woman and I have very nearly no leg hair. Even before hormones, back when I thought I was a cis man, very little leg hair.

    • @Joe-iq1bu
      @Joe-iq1bu 22 дня назад

      @kayleescruggs6888 and? What’s your point my guy?

  • @its-hannaH
    @its-hannaH 3 месяца назад +12

    That last one killed me - this man thinks his sperm cells are fully formed microscopic babies that just need to incubate to grow bigger 😂😂😂

  • @SassyGirl822006
    @SassyGirl822006 3 месяца назад +9

    The only reason being pregnant could effect things like being shot in the arm, is what kind of pain meds can be given and other medications if surgery is needed.
    But these shouldn't be the first questions!

  • @royalibis42
    @royalibis42 3 месяца назад +7

    we have a family friend with some serious **genetic** health issues that doctors constantly blame on their weight, worst part is they are on the heavier side because of those issues, not the other way around :/

  • @martianpudding9522
    @martianpudding9522 3 месяца назад +6

    Idk I find diagram man kind of endearing. I read him as a neurodivergent man who is woefully inept at understanding social propriety or how women work, but is making a genuine effort of figuring put how to please his partner in his own very weird way 😂. Like I don't read it as him having a messive ego to share it, more like someone who is genuinely baffled and this was the closest person he could think of that might understand his plight. He was wrong obviously but I do at least feel like he is really making an effort at learning

  • @sunnyside_up445
    @sunnyside_up445 3 месяца назад +7

    As a certified medical assistant(the person who asks you questions before the nurse or doctor comes in) Asking about pregnancy is important because if they give you certain medications, it could seriously disfigure or even end the life of the baby. Hence why they ask before X-rays. They’re absolutely terrible for pregnancies.

  • @elliottmoller8006
    @elliottmoller8006 3 месяца назад +7

    16:16
    Yeah, "Stretched Her Cervix" sounds like a Cannibal Corpse song

  • @brassbrass8278
    @brassbrass8278 3 месяца назад +9

    My girl bestie has maaaad pit hair & uses it maliciously & I fucking LOVE IT!!!

    • @skrunklycreationz
      @skrunklycreationz 3 месяца назад +5

      using pit hair maliciously is such a funny phrase thank you

    • @brassbrass8278
      @brassbrass8278 3 месяца назад +3

      @@skrunklycreationz she always raises her arms more around people that say anything about it and takes so many selfies with intentional fuzz... Like you really can't tell 90% of the time. 🤣

  • @natalie022
    @natalie022 3 месяца назад +15

    AroAce person cringing at Heteros for 28 minutes 10 seconds

  • @mbtisey
    @mbtisey 3 месяца назад +13

    Happy pride, month also I love how you switch up the plushies in the back leebit,wolf Chan, & jiniret 🙂‍↕️

  • @xg2513
    @xg2513 3 месяца назад +5

    I just have to say. Instagram reels are horrible. The comments are so atrocious. It’ll be any woman and the top comment will be “that’s a male” and they’re wrong 100% of the time.

  • @baka_yu9343
    @baka_yu9343 3 месяца назад +4

    I blame the fact that women are expected to not breastfeed in public (if they even do, since the formula industry is trying it's best to make every woman, not just those that need it, use those instead) for the fact that men completely forget that breasts are not just for their pleasure.