yeah, but if they are telling the truth but everyone thinks theyre lying that would be sad. but if their sure they are lying the liar should face legal consequences like you said.
I think it’s funny when I see people who claim to have “alters”. I have been medically diagnosed and when I see these people fake these disorders, I just find it amazing how they think they can “act”. You don’t just have alters that you can craft yourself and just chose when they show up. They show up when you need it, or switch out with you when they think you’re in danger. ALSO I find it funny that their alters like being on camera a lot since- not a lot of alters like being filmed because it dehumanizes them (at least for us).
i see a lot of these people that fake DID with alters that are real people or characters from a franchise. i assume this isnt possible for someone with DID, but please correct me if im wrong. /gen
yes this! also to my knowledge please educate me if i’m wrong but isn’t there a bit of a disconnect and inability to be aware of the alters at times? especially in more traumatic or vulnerable moments?
And, for myself, they don't even know how to use a phone 😭 we can't talk easily, and yeah they're coming like when i'm on bad period ( taking not care of me, or just act dangerous... Or yeah, when a situation is actually blocking me, they come ( and not all the time ))
It's actually disgusting how people have turned a serious disorder into a trend/joke! (I didn't say joking about your own trauma was bad/ you can't do it)
@UCXvSkG2Ucmbl0E1vTBqMIWQ exactly. Don’t joke about it if you dont really have it, that’s basically exploiting what others actually go through for money and views and it’s gross.
As a teen who witnessed their dad physically abused their mom for most of their life, this is honestly fxcking sickening. Trauma is not a thing to joke about. As for the ones who actually dealt with trauma or SA, or witness others trauma in your lifetime, I hope you are doing alright
This is disgusting to me. As someone, specifically a man, who is the victim of SA, this is extremely insensitive. I am all for exposing your abuser as an SA victim, but faking SA for clout and ruining an innocent person's life is so wrong. In a case like that, the person who fakes the SA should face charges.
I totally agree!! It's so sick. I am a victim of SA almost all my life and those videos just make me want to throw up. It makes me so angry and sad. I hope you are better now.
@@amor7886 maybe they added their gender because most men are not believed? Maybe to point out that SA doesn't only happen to women? What is your Problem?
@@amor7886 because there are cases where men get raped and people are like "it was you're fault" or "get over it" and they think they are faking it for clout
I feel so bad for people with ACTUAL traumatic experiences . it must hurt to watch people act them out , when they have no idea the pain that comes with it , just fo a tikok. like how messed up can u get??!
It's always the ones who hide their faces that feel so confident "exposing" others. What you did to CrazyCae was way out of line and you owe her a genuine apology. Do your due diligence before publicly attacking someone's name.
The people faking D.I.D is so disgusting, my best friend struggles with it and it’s so awful. it can even give you massive headaches/having ur head just hurt so much trying to not let them out while having a conversation, faking it is not funny. it’s actually hard to go through. faking any disorder/trauma isn’t funny.
Agreed. I constantly have headaches from trying to stay present when I need to be. My protector can help, but my head hurts a lot, especially trying to keep a certain headmate at bay, cuz it tries to hurt us. It’s NOT fun.
@@StanChunghaOrGoHome that doesn’t cut it they will very much continue accusing other people unless there’s a prison sentence. Murderers can get sued for wrongful death however every victim would feel like they need to spend time in prison
As someone who's been sexually assaulted and molested by an older cousin this really pisses me off....because people are wasting time on time helping a fake victim when they can use it helping an real one!!! LIKE I HAVE REAL ISSUSES BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED TO ME AND SHE THINKS IT'S OK TO JOKE ABOUT THINGS LIKE THIS 🤬
As a teenager with DID (diagnosed by a professional) this disgusts me. Severe childhood trauma is no joke and not something to be taken lightly. This video upset me so much with people faking these horrible events that I and so many people have gone through. I am disappointed in humanity sometimes.
Hi can you explain to me how it work? Like do you feel it coming ? Is it dangerous? The difference between the personalities?😊 I'm very curious... if it doesn't bother you can you explain it?😊(also I'm french so tell me if I spelled right😅)
@@alimitededition2176 I’m not who you’re asking but I’m also part of a DID system so I can answer your questions (if you don’t mind) - every system is different on how to tell when a switch is coming. For example, us, we usually feel our shoulders and arms feel like we’re getting pulled back. For a switch, we feel getting pushed back and then we switch. - it can be dangerous, especially if you let a persecutor in the front (persecutors are not bad). Persecutors try to harm the system and body. Persecutors 99.9% of the time have a reason for this - it depends on the system. For us, majority of us like the same things and if we don’t, we’re neutral and sometimes we don’t like it. We also have different political ideas, sexualities, genders, etc. Please note that this is from experience, and any other system can be different
@@tiredaugust6454 @Akau thanks for answering my questions 😄if you don't mind I have others ones... the personalities change is very often or rare for you? What do you mean for persecutors?like people who force it / you to do it ? There is something that can ''declanche'' it ? I already said this but I'm very curious... I prefer go to talk so someone directly than google it 😅
@@alimitededition2176 No problem. - the personalities don’t change usually, for us anyway. Our alters have different personalities and such, and the others can’t really influence them to change. Of course, influencing can happen, for example, the alter in the front may be extremely angry, but then another alter influences them and they become indifferent. - persecutors don’t force themself to do stuff. I’m a mental persecutor myself and we believe it’s how the system should progress. some persecutors are more violent then others. - I don’t know what you mean by “declanche” it, but I’m guessing you mean changing the system, or a persecutor’s role. The system can definitely be changed, and it can even join into one part with therapy. Of course, they can split again. Persecutors can recover from what they’ve felt and change into another role. For us, we had 4 persecutors who have done this and they’re now under the protector role. I hope this answers your questions.
I am beyond happy that you made a video DRAGGING all of these clout chasers who fake any illness. I am 24 and I have 4 mental illnesses. thank you for speaking up for a community that people have trouble understanding. you are truly a QUEEN
Yes I have been SAd and my coworker falsely claimed I did that because I got her fired and had proof she faked it thankfully she had done that to a bunch of people so God forbid she actually does and nobody believes her.
This type of alter exist it’s when you can too much relate with the person (or character if it’s a fictif) because they have same history/trauma and they seems to deal better with it then you so that’s how factif are created
As a PDID (Partial Dissociative Identity Disorder) system (medically recognized), we have alters that are known as Introjects or fictive. Introjects are known as copy alters, or alters that are based off of real people or fictional characters. Fictives are known to be characters that are based off of real people, objects (like a plushie you’re attached too) or fictional characters, but never identify as the person, object or character they’re based off of. These types of alters are valid. But it is still disgusting to me (the host) to see people faking this disorder.
Truthfully as someone who's had trauma for LITERALLY my whole life I feel like these people should stop making jokes out of such things. Using trauma as something to become famous isn't a good thing cause it can make other people accuse people with actual trauma.
IKR? I am literally SO done with ppl faking disorders. They have NO idea how difficult and stressful it is for some ppl to just go to school sometimes. As a person with diagnosed ADHD and anxiety, this just makes my blood BOIL. Why can’t they just stick to their tik Tok dances and not make it harder for other teenagers who actually have disorders to get diagnosed. 😡
don’t even get me started. as someone who has been diagnosed by a professional for TS (Tourette Syndrome), people who do this are absolutely disgusting. It puts a bad label on me and others with my disability and I hate seeing people who do it for clout.
@@callmehchanel7532 You go Girl! Thx for actually saying something. I may no be a tictok girl but now i have evidence that good human exist . I was beginning to think that they died with the dinosaurs by now due to tiktok.
People with DID can actually control the switching between personalities. But this only possible when being aware of the disorder and being under actual treatment of an psychologist.
@Aesthetic Emily SATANIC CULT? LMAOOO are you still in those 2013 conspiracy theories babes?? do u still believe lady gaga and beyonce are in the illuminati 🥺🥺 u do not know anything about britney so maybe you should just back off cause she is a nice girl.
As a girl diagnosed by a professional with mental illnesses(i dont wanna say im so sorry), it hurts to see how the people on tiktok think its "quirky" to have a mental illness without understanding the suffering behind it. Disgusting
As someone who experienced being sexually assaulted when i was only 5 yrs old, this is just so wrong and disgusting. I hope there's a punishment or something for these people. People are just doing everything for fame. Damn.
0:51 I made two TikToks on this girl and the situation is quite complex. There's no evidence she gave that proves the man did SA her, but she spoke with me and she sent me some pictures of 'him and her' and claiming she really does know him. She said she used that photo from online because the man is not on social media and that is the only picture she could find of him. She also told me she has the police documents, but I personally never asked to see them because that is personal stuff. Since the situation is so complex I think it's best to be held offline and with the courts, because at the end of the day we do not have a legal background and it is not in our position as viewers to be the legal judge.
How can she have pics of him and her and also not be able to find pics of him bc he doesn’t have social media? If that’s the case, why not post a TikTok with those photos???
people can fake evidence online and get fake documents too. like Sandra asked, why use a stock photo from google instead of the photo she had with him? Liars tend to complicate things when they're trying to be believed.
My cousin has something VERY similar to D.I.D almost exact and I am just so FURIOUS that people fake it! There has been many tears over his disorder and there is no cure. It is a life long problem he will have. It’s very severe for him to the point where he can’t control his body. Please whoever is doing this. Stop.
My sister was sa and she has been suffering from anorexia and depression for 8 years now. Her life has been literally ruined by this piece of shit. People who fake those kind of traumas are unbelievably disgusting, disrespectful and so much more.
I have a friend with DID and these people really piss me off. She was severely abused from age 3 to 16. I’ve seen her change personalities and it’s heartbreaking. One thing I’ve noticed is these people can choose when they change personalities. With my friend she has no control when certain personalities come out. That’s how I can tell someone is faking it. Mental illness is not something to joke about.
As a teenager with ADHD and Severe Social Anxiety (professionally diagnosed) seeing people pretend to have these two disorders, make me mad. Cause then people think I’m some hyperactive, childish and socially inept. People doing this to me and others like me is absolutely horrible. And doing shit like this, is disgusting.
@@aeonbear3307 It's not offensive at all, it's a really good question. My parents where the ones that started to realize that I may have ADHD. It started in elementary school, I always had a hard time focusing, my attention span was really bad, my memory was not the best, I always made careless mistakes in school work and listening to instructions was almost impossible. I could never sit still, I constantly fidgeting, I had a hard time keeping on tasks and I always acted before thinking. There were many other signs of course but I was too young to notice them myself. My parents started suspecting it because I was and I still am very hyper and my symptoms had become worse over time, I got medication after going to the child psychiatrist.
@@_.Bubblegum._7295 oh… congratulations on getting tested for it when you were younger… I really don’t know if what I’m saying is offensive! I mean it as in its probably better growing up knowing that you could or do have it rather than worrying about whether you have it as you get older
@@_.Bubblegum._7295 I couldn’t imagine how frustrating that would be to have ADHD… I struggle a lot with focusing on a daily basis, especially during the first two years of high school I couldn’t focus at all but I’m just like that, so to have that struggle constantly but be super annoying 🥺 I got called out for it by my annoying English teacher (he gives out detentions for the stupidest things) for scraping the colour from my pen and I didn’t realise he was staring at me 😭 it really embarrassing especially when I realised the whole class was staring too… ah, good times 😭🤣 I don’t know how easy things are for you, I heard that ADHD can cause a lot of problems and be frustrating or upsetting to handle, so if you are struggling, I hope things will be okay :)
Guys let's remember even though there are people who make allegations of any kind, SA is still very common, overlooked, and more common than false accusations. Stay safe everyone. 🙏
@@mercuree5932 IN EVERY COMMENT HE/SHE REPLIES SOME STUPID ASS THINGS-💀 Like i swear she/he even said “nothings wrong about faking disorders and traumas" like it's annoying
i suffer from PTSD due to many incidents that occurred when i was young. sometimes i've even had panic attacks from it. seeing these they/them pronoun, clown makeup wearing sickos mocking something that affects mine and others lives DAILY is ENRAGING.
As a survivor of domestic abuse and SA this bs just enrages me so damn much.. these pathetic people are using someone's nightmare..someone's trauma to get view.. it just makes me sad..
Fr, as someone who was actually SA’d at a very young age, it sickens me to see all these kids and young adults faking it for mere TikTok views and likes
My ex use to say she was violented by a man in an alley way to get a reaction out of me. She use to say stuff like "He got me pregnant and I'm scared to terminate it" I would comfort her and tell her everything was fine, and that the guy would be caught and justice would be served. She lied about being raped,and didn't want to admit that she had cheated on me. Edit: Spelling
I don't get what makes women think they can falsey accuse men of a crime they have never commited just because of a issue they have got between eachother. And women who falesy accuse men of a crime they have never commited should get the same sentence. As an sa victim this is really disrespectful.
That’s how I feel about people claiming to have bipolar disorder. And being “manic” is quirky and cute. It’s not sometimes it’s impulsive decisions that you really don’t care what and who is affected by those decisions. Or it’s a blind rage or sadness or anger. For me personally. I don’t speak for all. But it’s honestly been like I have to constantly babysit myself to make sure I don’t feel like the smallest things are going to set me off. It’s not cute. It’s not fun. It’s something I have to live with the rest of my life. And it definitely should not be a trend.
My mother was BP. And not only did she refuse to take her meds, she actively made it worse by taking drugs instead. She was the angry manic I guess. Sure felt like it when she tried to suffocate me for "smiling" during one of her punishments. (I actually wasn't even smiling, I'm just a happy person so the corners of my mouth are always upturned naturally)
Ana took the words out my mouth,just because that girl was dumb to accuse an innocent man of sa,doesn’t mean it’s ok to not believe people who’ve actually been abused….
As someone with actual diagnosed D.I.D, this trend has screwed up my medications and such, as so many psychiatrists think I'm just faking it so they don't want to give me the medications that I've been on for years now, or they take me off them. So this trend is so damaging to people that have been actually diagnosed with this disorder thanks to years of trauma. It's sucks man, no one should fake this sort of thing, it's not something I'd wish on anyone. It makes it so hard to live my life.
You can have a dissociative disorder that is caused by severe trauma that does not present as someone having multiple personalities. You can dissociate and literally make yourself forget your trauma or even huge chunks of your life and even shut off your feelings.
It's disgusting how people can fake a disorder for clout and frame. As a girl who got r_ped, I am mad about a girl who faked r_ped for clout. I have truma, it's disgusting how a girl who wants clout and a confusion. I have truama, sizeures,anxiety, social anxiety, and I never met a person who fakes a mental disorder for clout. I hate this kind of people who fakes a disorder for clout and frame, it's just disgusting.
Honestly, these clout chasers make me feel really sad for them. Like, how unhappy does someone have to be in their real-life to look for validation from strangers on the internet by lying about things that a lot of people actually struggle with? Mental illness, S.A., and abuse are not trendy or cool. It affects how people live their lives every day. Faking it makes a mockery of someone else's very real pain and trauma.
@@amor7886 That's part of the problem. We don't know unless it's blatantly obvious like when Trisha Paytas claimed to suffer from D.I.D. and made a video introducing their "alters". It's always best to believe someone is being honest about their struggles until proven otherwise, but lying about trauma or an illness takes away from actual survivors and it's a really crappy thing to do.
5:23 as someone who was once in the dsmp fandom I can say for a fact not everyone in the fandom is like this. Not even majority. Only a few thousand liek every other fandom ever.
It makes me disgusted that some people can falsey accuse someone of sa , this is why there is alot of innocent men in jail for a crime they have never commited. And it was just 4 days ago another innocent man finally got released after 16 years in jail because a women falsey accused him of rape. This is really disrespectful to the actual rape victims. I really hope the man that got falsey accused gets his justice he deserves , nobody deserves to get falsey accused for a crime they have never commited. So if yall know any of his social media please tell me so I can help him get his justice thank you ❤❤❤
People who lie about trauma make it difficult for people who are trying to be open about the experience they faced. We are automatically deemed liars because of this whole trend.
I don’t even talk about my life experiences anymore in fear of being labeled as “one of those people”. Meanwhile I’m 6 months into therapy for C-PTSD and working hard and doing really well now.
Being someone who has suffered through trauma , this is not okay it makes it look like people are not telling the truth when they truly are , I really hope this gets better , please don’t ever fake something this serious.
faking trauma is wrong straight up ! these people should know better than that . trauma also takes a huge toll on people mentally , physically & emotionally & it takes them a long time for them to move on from the trauma they experienced .
As a person who’s been SA and molested along the years and so has my fiancé by his ex this is extremely insensitive and disrespectful. I felt like I could speak on my story on tiktok and I got so many hateful comments from men saying I was lying so I just shut up and never spoke out about it. No one should ever lie about something so serious.. also lying about mental illness is disgusting. People who actually suffer from DID and every other mental disorder go threw so many struggles in life. Mental illness shouldn’t ever be a trend but it seems like these individuals just want the attention and validation from others and get the likes and views. I’m not sure why faking and about something like that would be worth it but it’s taking away people’s trust from others who actually have the disorder and are being treated for it from them.
@@amor7886 invest in saving up money to go to the hospital cause your hair is falling down like wild.. u might have bald spots already so dont talk and get out JOCELYN. 🥰
People always think I lie when I say I was professionaly diagnosed with anxiety at age 8. And diagnosed with OCD at 10 . And honestly it sucks . And it is not fun having anxiety and OCD it is horrible.
ikr right i was diagnosed with adhd when i was 12 and anxiety when i was 13 and they literally make my every day life harder than it needs to be, especially because depression comes with adhd like a 2 for the price of 1 package. people are now romanticizing mental disorders and it makes me feel so dumb because people think i’m just trying to be a quirky 14 year old.
I was diagnosed with ocd at age 12, and honestly it makes me absolutely sick when people fake it. "omg I'm so ocd!! line up those books correctly!! 🤪🤪" makes me want to jump off a roof
Agreed people don't believe me sometimes. The worst things I have rn are anxiety adhd and a hereditary disease. I have been diagnosed with ptsd and depression but those aren't really up high on the list rn and some more I can't remember. And on top of all that Autism. So that's fun
as someone who dresses alternative, it’s a huge bummer that pretty much everyone who fakes these disorders dresses similarly to me because now a bunch of perfectly wonderful alternative people are lumped into this group of fakers.
My girlfriend deals with DID on a daily basis and she has shared with me how hard it is to manage from times to times. It makes me sick that these teens are faking these disorders to gain fame and popularity. As someone who suffers from mental illnesses as well (I dont have DID) I dont like making videos or tik toks about it much because I dont want people to assume Im faking for attention etc. DID is very rare, only a small percentage of people have it and it is caused by severe childhood trauma. This is why most people who do have it dont get diagnosed until they are an adult.
i have D.I.D…this is disgusting and not even how alters work. D.I.D is so much more then just having having alters and multiple personalities it is very hard to deal with and it can be diagnosed at a younger age too like i was, but the only reason i ever got diagnosed was because my mother was diagnosed with it and children with parents that have D.I.D are more likely to develope it. It just upsets me so much to see people faking this mental illness and making it look cool when it is a battle and hard to keep in control, people with D.I.D tend to want to hide it and keep it from people…ive gotten questions like “can one of your alters try to kill me” after opening up to people about my mental illness and its not easy to hear that and see that people actuallly get concerned, even i myself was concerned when i first got diagnosed because i had heard of D.I.D it even made me doubt myself and fear myself since i wasnt aware that i had it or of how it worked and what it all meant. I just want everyone to understand that what is portrayed in those tik toks are nowhere near what people with actual D.I.D go through and people that make tik toks like that are actually one of the reasons why people get concerned when they hear D.I.D as it portrays it as being able to just develope whatever alters we want (like one that wants to kill or cause harm) when its not the case at all alters are actually the pieces of us that we disociate from when traumatic things happen and or figures we create in our brains to protect us from our trauma thats how some alters end up being older then us ourselves actually. Furthermore, its not even recomended to talk about our alters specifically describing them as it can cause more alters to develope and or trigger individuals that might have D.I.D to develope the same alter they are being told about. Overall, this is very wrong.
I feel so bad for all of y'all dealing with this while a teen fakes this to be 'cool and quirky'. I hope you and your mom are doing well. Sending love 💖
Honestly. The people faking this type of stuff make people look at the LGBT+ community as even more of a joke. Like people already slander the community, the 12 year olds on tik tok ain't making it any better for the normal people in the community.
This is absolutely disgusting.. This actually makes me so sad because I've been in therapy for 17 years in order to deal with my mental disorders and become a better person, at times wishing, just begging to have just one day without it meanwhile these people fake it for cloud. Disgusting.
as someone who has actually experienced trauma from my ex attempting to well take advantage of me this is disgusting as shit... like not only did the girl fake having this trauma but also she put an innocent man in danger.. I would never want to do that cause I know that all men aren't bad people.... and I would want to separate the good men and the bad men.... and because this trauma literally makes me have like mental breakdowns... didn't happen that long ago.... making a trend out of this while it can help catch bad people it.... for me is just triggering....
i have not experienced any of the traumas mentioned but have experienced a trauma that many people use for clout its honestly annoys me how they use it for clout moreover they even stereotype us in ways that aren't even how we are irl, generally i understand some people do this due to their own personal reasons (growing up neglected/bullied etc. etc.) but it really disappoints me that whenever i open social media i have to find someone faking a trauma i myself experienced or just making a joke about how we're "overreacting" so please whenever someone actually thinks of doing something like this put yourself in someone's shoes who actually experienced and think.
everyone in my family suffera from either depression, OCD or anxiety and i have recovered from depression and am still battling with anxiety. it sucks man :/ our issues (people who suffer from mental health/illness) are seen as ways to get online attention and ignore the fact that we actually struggle. I hate it here
It is absolutely horrible. I'm so sick of people who seek for attention when they're faking SA, as an SA survivor myself, I completely agree that False SA accusers should be punished.
It’s really sad when I see people doing this. These are serious disorders, and this is a bit off topic but, you know the first girl she mentioned faking being s/a? The person in that video looked to be in around the same sub culture/ aesthetic thing I’m in called alt or alternative. (Might’ve been pastel goth or something else along the lines of that tho) and I’ve noticed a lot of people dressed like this do this type of stuff. And then, in turn, it puts terrible labels on the entire alternative sub culture and then the actual good people in the sub culture get all the backlash for it. (I am so so so so so sorry if this sounds insensitive to the video I’m not good with words but just know it’s not my intention and I am so sorry if it comes off as that.) anyway thank you for coming to my Ted talk and again i am terribly sorry if this comes off as insensitive.
my partner has been questioning if he has DID for a while now and while they also aren't able to get actually diagnosed because his parents wouldn't believe him, he's at least not just full out saying that he has a system like most undiagnosed people on the internet. They also dont have control over their alters like how some people on tiktok seem to. He's said sometimes someone can ask a certain alter to front, but they cant just do it fully on command. Sadly though we've had some people who are actually pretty close to us fake DID, and not in a very convincing way either. One of them always said they were questioning if they had a system but then sometimes would just completely say they are one and they gave their alters names themselves when thats not how it works and if you have alters they tell you their names and you dont decide them. The other one had only a few alters but never really showed any difference when most of her alters were said to have very different personalities from eachother, and there would also be some times when someone would ask who was fronting for her and she'd say she wouldnt know, which could be possible if you had an alter that just didnt have a name, but if that were the case a more logical thing to say wouldve been "im new i dont have a name". She also faked getting sa once by this account that my partner made that he made an entire kind of character for but who wasnt actually real and then when she was called out for lying she just said "yeah well ive been sa by a bunch of other people too" which yeah if that actually happened you should tell someone but i doubt if someone had actually been sa by multiple people that theyd just say it out of nowhere to try and defend themself from being called out for lying about something. Yeah we're not close to her that much anymore.
The first girl was able to somewhat prove that he actually assaulted her. She showed a pic from years ago with him (a bit skinnier) with the same shirt on. She said she used that pic as it was a lot clearer n more up to date. I found this by looking into it for like 5 mins. She deleted her account because she was still getting hate
As someone who has friends with heavy trauma, its not something to fake because it can leave someone emotionally damaged for life. Faking trauma it stupid and selfish and can get innocent people into trouble.
On another note, people harass and call people with wheelchairs liars for standing up out of their wheelchairs, because almost everyone out there assumes you don't/can't use one unless you can't walk. It's horrible. I can walk, but it's literally dangerous for me, and quickly causes pain. The last time I tried speedwalking, I slipped and fell, ended up in the er with minor nerve damage to my back from the inflammation (nothing bad happened, but my back has been worse since) It's one reason why I have a wheelchair for public use besides the fact I can't make it a full store trip while walking. Yet I get dirty looks if I get up, or in the rare case I forget my wheelchair at home and use those god awful store electric carts just because I look like every other healthy 16 year old. So my point is that wheelchairs aren't exclusively used for people who can't walk whatsoever.
The mental health one got me , i was diagnosed with bipolar and multiple personality disorder by the age 7 and it's not so easy during the switch between the personalities
this behavior on tiktok is truly disgusting and i hope that all the people who faked/made fun of DID get banned/emabrrassed. Thankyou for educating others Anna
I have ADD and Autisum and the amount of tik toks i see with people claiming to have it when they obviously don't is kind of insulting cause they act dumb or do something "quirky" just for attention and I find it so disrespectful
I honestly hate how people on Tik Tok portray anxiety. I was diagnosed with chronic anxiety disorder when I was still in 5th grade and it is horrible to live with. I can barely do anything without having a panic attack
It takes a lot of therapy to even know your alters because there is so much amnesia when u switch. Also it's beyond intense for your brain to try to comprehend what the hell is even going on therefore other people like therapist can assist and understand what's happening
This is so sad. It's shud not be created like a joke. I srsly wanna find them and give them a nice big slap. The people who have trauma I feel so bad for them cause these people just want clout. It's srsly stops people from believing real victims. So sad.
Bruh for the last tik tok i was so sure the person was going to include wilbur soot in the video. I could of sworn. Its genuinely fucked up of ppl to do this.
As someone who has ADHD, anxiety (general and social), depression, and PTSD it bothers me so much that people make mental illnesses a trend. My mental illnesses affect me every day and make life harder. I wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy. A lot of times when I tell people I have these things I’m not believed because so many people fake it and they think I’m faking.
*Educational comment, please do not harrass* We don't normally tell people about the host and their DID unless we know we can trust them completely. And sharing it online is even a huge step, but I (Tyler) was given permission by the host themself to be able to talk about it to trusted people and to help educate people. I think it's sick to see so many people faking such a traumatic disorder. That is why it is labeled as a DISORDER. We aren't specifically linked to DID, but OSDD-1b. The difference between the two is more about the amount of trauma and the amount of memory you have if it. In OSDD-1b, we are more known to not be as forgetful, but still fairly forgetful, versus those who have DID itself. People with DID instead of OSDD-1b or OSDD-1a experience a lot more gaps in their memory than the rest of us. And we do know that switching can't just happen at will. Sometimes, we switch in the middle of driving, which can be scary when we're going 70 on the highway. Plus, when we dissociate, sometimes those moments can make us relive the trauma we experienced or that the host has experienced. I'm not speaking for all systems since every system us different in their own way, from alters, to how they all act. There are also times where a system member might try to commit unalive because of all the pressure being out on them. It's scary going into front to see a blade and pills on the floor of the bedroom without knowing I anything had happened. It's not as fun as people on TikTok make ime. But it's also not as bad as they make it either. There are goods days, and there are bad. But again, I don't speak for every system since they are all different. Please do take thus comment as education and not hate. I wouldn't hate those who fake such a disorder like this. It is not worth it to put so much into someone faking, especially because it will just give them more clout to use. Anyway, I hope everyone is having a great day, fellow systems, singlets, beardos and weirdos (Credit to OneTopicAtATime), and everyone else in between. Stay positive and don't let fakers/clout takers ruin your mood. Love you all! -Tyler
Thank you for addressing this!!!! I myself have got caught in tik tok drama and it was horrible and these people also decided to fake DID and multiple different other disorders to get clout and attack me for something I didn’t do. These people need to be exposed and taught about what DID actually is and what it can do to you because they are making up things along the way.
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ANDDDDD this is why I believe that someone who falsely accuses another person of sexual assault, should have to face legal consequences.
They do. They literally do.
yeah, but if they are telling the truth but everyone thinks theyre lying that would be sad. but if their sure they are lying the liar should face legal consequences like you said.
It also stops people who have actually been SAed from being believed.
@@grillpaneddymsp7716 they don’t face any consequences there are laws set in place for false accusations however they aren’t actually excesized
@@carliedaniel7667 just like there are laws for rape, but rarely EVER exercised. Or for sexual harassment.
I think it’s funny when I see people who claim to have “alters”. I have been medically diagnosed and when I see these people fake these disorders, I just find it amazing how they think they can “act”. You don’t just have alters that you can craft yourself and just chose when they show up. They show up when you need it, or switch out with you when they think you’re in danger. ALSO I find it funny that their alters like being on camera a lot since- not a lot of alters like being filmed because it dehumanizes them (at least for us).
omg true!
i see a lot of these people that fake DID with alters that are real people or characters from a franchise. i assume this isnt possible for someone with DID, but please correct me if im wrong. /gen
yes this! also to my knowledge please educate me if i’m wrong but isn’t there a bit of a disconnect and inability to be aware of the alters at times? especially in more traumatic or vulnerable moments?
And, for myself, they don't even know how to use a phone 😭
we can't talk easily, and yeah they're coming like when i'm on bad period ( taking not care of me, or just act dangerous... Or yeah, when a situation is actually blocking me, they come ( and not all the time ))
@@stars444_sp00ky there are fictives but they are rare
It's actually disgusting how people have turned a serious disorder into a trend/joke! (I didn't say joking about your own trauma was bad/ you can't do it)
nothings wrong with joking ab ur trauma
@@Skittles26518 so joking about ur own trauma is making others feel their trauma isn’t valid? do u hear urself rn?
@@Skittles26518 I had an aneurism reading that
@UCXvSkG2Ucmbl0E1vTBqMIWQ exactly. Don’t joke about it if you dont really have it, that’s basically exploiting what others actually go through for money and views and it’s gross.
@@Skittles26518 this is why we stay in school kids🥶👩🦲
As a teen who witnessed their dad physically abused their mom for most of their life, this is honestly fxcking sickening. Trauma is not a thing to joke about. As for the ones who actually dealt with trauma or SA, or witness others trauma in your lifetime, I hope you are doing alright
This is disgusting to me. As someone, specifically a man, who is the victim of SA, this is extremely insensitive. I am all for exposing your abuser as an SA victim, but faking SA for clout and ruining an innocent person's life is so wrong. In a case like that, the person who fakes the SA should face charges.
I totally agree!! It's so sick. I am a victim of SA almost all my life and those videos just make me want to throw up. It makes me so angry and sad.
I hope you are better now.
First of I want to say I'm so sorry what happened to you and stay strong and I'll send a lot of love and support towards you
@@amor7886 maybe they added their gender because most men are not believed? Maybe to point out that SA doesn't only happen to women? What is your Problem?
@@amor7886 because there are cases where men get raped and people are like "it was you're fault" or "get over it" and they think they are faking it for clout
@@depresso639 but we’re talking about women so him bringing it up implies that women should be silenced because it happens to men too
Im a SA survivor, and THIS IS DISGUSTING! I’m really gross out, having trauma isn’t a trend. I feel bad for ppl have it. So they need to stop.
Right
I feel so bad for people with ACTUAL traumatic experiences . it must hurt to watch people act them out , when they have no idea the pain that comes with it , just fo a tikok. like how messed up can u get??!
which ain’t you obviously
I've been sa'd when I was younger and this makes my blood boil.
@@amor7886 it aint you too obviously, miss jocelyn.
@@blooxylips that Lyn user is almost in every single video Anna posts and they usually spit out bs so don't waste ur time 😔😔
@@raism1949 ikr shes a racist btw (my video for proof)
It's always the ones who hide their faces that feel so confident "exposing" others. What you did to CrazyCae was way out of line and you owe her a genuine apology. Do your due diligence before publicly attacking someone's name.
The people faking D.I.D is so disgusting, my best friend struggles with it and it’s so awful. it can even give you massive headaches/having ur head just hurt so much trying to not let them out while having a conversation, faking it is not funny. it’s actually hard to go through.
faking any disorder/trauma isn’t funny.
same energy as ; my friend is black so i can say the n word 😟
Agreed. I constantly have headaches from trying to stay present when I need to be. My protector can help, but my head hurts a lot, especially trying to keep a certain headmate at bay, cuz it tries to hurt us. It’s NOT fun.
@lun what r u confused ab
@lyn you have a problem SHES just saying that she has seen it first hand so it affects her a lot when people fake it for clout
@@amor7886 what the fuck?.? Go away lol
As a part of the alternative community it makes me SICK TO MY STOMACH seeing people completing ruin and rot out community
I’m gonna say it “FALSE RAPE ACCUSATIONS SHOULD BE PUNISHED!”
Yeah they deserve jail.
@@azrael-ng1rf same amount of time as whatever they were trying to get
I agree, they need to be imprisoned
They can be sued for defamation
@@StanChunghaOrGoHome that doesn’t cut it they will very much continue accusing other people unless there’s a prison sentence. Murderers can get sued for wrongful death however every victim would feel like they need to spend time in prison
As someone who's been sexually assaulted and molested by an older cousin this really pisses me off....because people are wasting time on time helping a fake victim when they can use it helping an real one!!! LIKE I HAVE REAL ISSUSES BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED TO ME AND SHE THINKS IT'S OK TO JOKE ABOUT THINGS LIKE THIS 🤬
I’m so sorry this has happened to you, I hope people stop making these videos and I wish you all the best
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that
I'm so sorry that happened to and and I also hate people who lie about sa
It’s disgusting that ppl use literal ABUSE TO GET CLOUT. I actually believed this and it’s sick and disgusting.
as an actual Domestic abuse, rape, assault, abuse survivor...I am at such a loss for words...
I feel sick
Oh no.. I'm sorry for that trauma you have to deal with :( I hope you're okay now
I have issues to. I'm do sorry im Hella offended
Same❤
As a teenager with DID (diagnosed by a professional) this disgusts me. Severe childhood trauma is no joke and not something to be taken lightly. This video upset me so much with people faking these horrible events that I and so many people have gone through. I am disappointed in humanity sometimes.
agreed. i hope you’re getting the right treatment and are dealing with the trauma slowly day by day🤍🤍
Hi can you explain to me how it work?
Like do you feel it coming ? Is it dangerous? The difference between the personalities?😊 I'm very curious... if it doesn't bother you can you explain it?😊(also I'm french so tell me if I spelled right😅)
@@alimitededition2176 I’m not who you’re asking but I’m also part of a DID system so I can answer your questions (if you don’t mind)
- every system is different on how to tell when a switch is coming. For example, us, we usually feel our shoulders and arms feel like we’re getting pulled back. For a switch, we feel getting pushed back and then we switch.
- it can be dangerous, especially if you let a persecutor in the front (persecutors are not bad). Persecutors try to harm the system and body. Persecutors 99.9% of the time have a reason for this
- it depends on the system. For us, majority of us like the same things and if we don’t, we’re neutral and sometimes we don’t like it. We also have different political ideas, sexualities, genders, etc.
Please note that this is from experience, and any other system can be different
@@tiredaugust6454 @Akau thanks for answering my questions 😄if you don't mind I have others ones... the personalities change is very often or rare for you? What do you mean for persecutors?like people who force it / you to do it ?
There is something that can ''declanche'' it ?
I already said this but I'm very curious... I prefer go to talk so someone directly than google it 😅
@@alimitededition2176
No problem.
- the personalities don’t change usually, for us anyway. Our alters have different personalities and such, and the others can’t really influence them to change. Of course, influencing can happen, for example, the alter in the front may be extremely angry, but then another alter influences them and they become indifferent.
- persecutors don’t force themself to do stuff. I’m a mental persecutor myself and we believe it’s how the system should progress. some persecutors are more violent then others.
- I don’t know what you mean by “declanche” it, but I’m guessing you mean changing the system, or a persecutor’s role.
The system can definitely be changed, and it can even join into one part with therapy. Of course, they can split again.
Persecutors can recover from what they’ve felt and change into another role. For us, we had 4 persecutors who have done this and they’re now under the protector role.
I hope this answers your questions.
I am beyond happy that you made a video DRAGGING all of these clout chasers who fake any illness. I am 24 and I have 4 mental illnesses. thank you for speaking up for a community that people have trouble understanding. you are truly a QUEEN
I can't believe these people are real!🤢
Frrrr-
Yes I have been SAd and my coworker falsely claimed I did that because I got her fired and had proof she faked it thankfully she had done that to a bunch of people so God forbid she actually does and nobody believes her.
Frrrr
They arent all real
. Ikr
the person that faked DID and named their "alters" after youtubers has me absolutely screaming
I was stunned 😧
I thought they were just making ACTUAL content about the youtubers
This type of alter exist it’s when you can too much relate with the person (or character if it’s a fictif) because they have same history/trauma and they seems to deal better with it then you so that’s how factif are created
As a PDID (Partial Dissociative Identity Disorder) system (medically recognized), we have alters that are known as Introjects or fictive. Introjects are known as copy alters, or alters that are based off of real people or fictional characters. Fictives are known to be characters that are based off of real people, objects (like a plushie you’re attached too) or fictional characters, but never identify as the person, object or character they’re based off of. These types of alters are valid. But it is still disgusting to me (the host) to see people faking this disorder.
Truthfully as someone who's had trauma for LITERALLY my whole life
I feel like these people should stop making jokes out of such things.
Using trauma as something to become famous isn't a good thing cause it can make other people accuse people with actual trauma.
i mean we can tell you’ve gone through years of trauma off your profile pic alone
@@marammol What if they actually have trauma? Then what? Also, there is nothing wrong with liking K-pop.
Period
@Aesthetic Emily You can understand that they have trauma because they listen to Kpop. What?💀
To the people replying on this comment HER LISTENING TO K-POP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER COMMENT LEAVE HER ALONE
IKR? I am literally SO done with ppl faking disorders. They have NO idea how difficult and stressful it is for some ppl to just go to school sometimes. As a person with diagnosed ADHD and anxiety, this just makes my blood BOIL. Why can’t they just stick to their tik Tok dances and not make it harder for other teenagers who actually have disorders to get diagnosed. 😡
don’t even get me started. as someone who has been diagnosed by a professional for TS (Tourette Syndrome), people who do this are absolutely disgusting. It puts a bad label on me and others with my disability and I hate seeing people who do it for clout.
I hope people understand that trauma isn’t a trend for clout and and fame :/
Trauma ruined my life so much, I barely talk about it because I really want to move on from it.
oh my god thanks so much ghandi 😍😍😍😍
Fuck yeah!🤯 Finally someone who has common sense!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@@berryjo1143 Material girl💅
@@callmehchanel7532 You go Girl! Thx for actually saying something. I may no be a tictok girl but now i have evidence that good human exist . I was beginning to think that they died with the dinosaurs by now due to tiktok.
People with DID can actually control the switching between personalities. But this only possible when being aware of the disorder and being under actual treatment of an psychologist.
As Britney Spears said 'I choose my own destiny'
Not fake it.
Did you comment just because you felt the need to comment? Because your comment is definitely tacky
okay
Sis really thought she did something🥺
@@Baby.Annihilation jy like soos 50 jaar oud.
@Aesthetic Emily SATANIC CULT? LMAOOO are you still in those 2013 conspiracy theories babes?? do u still believe lady gaga and beyonce are in the illuminati 🥺🥺 u do not know anything about britney so maybe you should just back off cause she is a nice girl.
As a girl diagnosed by a professional with mental illnesses(i dont wanna say im so sorry), it hurts to see how the people on tiktok think its "quirky" to have a mental illness without understanding the suffering behind it. Disgusting
As someone who experienced being sexually assaulted when i was only 5 yrs old, this is just so wrong and disgusting. I hope there's a punishment or something for these people. People are just doing everything for fame. Damn.
As someone with D.I.D and was almost a victim to r@p3, this just disgusts me to see people do this.. just for fame or clout?.
0:51 I made two TikToks on this girl and the situation is quite complex. There's no evidence she gave that proves the man did SA her, but she spoke with me and she sent me some pictures of 'him and her' and claiming she really does know him. She said she used that photo from online because the man is not on social media and that is the only picture she could find of him. She also told me she has the police documents, but I personally never asked to see them because that is personal stuff. Since the situation is so complex I think it's best to be held offline and with the courts, because at the end of the day we do not have a legal background and it is not in our position as viewers to be the legal judge.
How can she have pics of him and her and also not be able to find pics of him bc he doesn’t have social media? If that’s the case, why not post a TikTok with those photos???
people can fake evidence online and get fake documents too. like Sandra asked, why use a stock photo from google instead of the photo she had with him? Liars tend to complicate things when they're trying to be believed.
My cousin has something VERY similar to D.I.D almost exact and I am just so FURIOUS that people fake it! There has been many tears over his disorder and there is no cure. It is a life long problem he will have. It’s very severe for him to the point where he can’t control his body. Please whoever is doing this. Stop.
My sister was sa and she has been suffering from anorexia and depression for 8 years now. Her life has been literally ruined by this piece of shit.
People who fake those kind of traumas are unbelievably disgusting, disrespectful and so much more.
I have a friend with DID and these people really piss me off. She was severely abused from age 3 to 16. I’ve seen her change personalities and it’s heartbreaking. One thing I’ve noticed is these people can choose when they change personalities. With my friend she has no control when certain personalities come out. That’s how I can tell someone is faking it. Mental illness is not something to joke about.
this is one of the lowest things a person could do
@@marammol that’s why i said lowest, not “most criminal”
As a teenager with ADHD and Severe Social Anxiety (professionally diagnosed) seeing people pretend to have these two disorders, make me mad.
Cause then people think I’m some hyperactive, childish and socially inept. People doing this to me and others like me is absolutely horrible.
And doing shit like this, is disgusting.
ofc ur childish and hyperactive u clearly are a 11 yr old.
I don’t want to pry, how did you start to realise you have ADHD? I’m sorry if this is offensive in any way!
@@aeonbear3307 It's not offensive at all, it's a really good question. My parents where the ones that started to realize that I may have ADHD. It started in elementary school, I always had a hard time focusing, my attention span was really bad, my memory was not the best, I always made careless mistakes in school work and listening to instructions was almost impossible. I could never sit still, I constantly fidgeting, I had a hard time keeping on tasks and I always acted before thinking. There were many other signs of course but I was too young to notice them myself. My parents started suspecting it because I was and I still am very hyper and my symptoms had become worse over time, I got medication after going to the child psychiatrist.
@@_.Bubblegum._7295 oh… congratulations on getting tested for it when you were younger… I really don’t know if what I’m saying is offensive! I mean it as in its probably better growing up knowing that you could or do have it rather than worrying about whether you have it as you get older
@@_.Bubblegum._7295 I couldn’t imagine how frustrating that would be to have ADHD… I struggle a lot with focusing on a daily basis, especially during the first two years of high school I couldn’t focus at all but I’m just like that, so to have that struggle constantly but be super annoying 🥺
I got called out for it by my annoying English teacher (he gives out detentions for the stupidest things) for scraping the colour from my pen and I didn’t realise he was staring at me 😭 it really embarrassing especially when I realised the whole class was staring too… ah, good times 😭🤣
I don’t know how easy things are for you, I heard that ADHD can cause a lot of problems and be frustrating or upsetting to handle, so if you are struggling, I hope things will be okay :)
Guys let's remember even though there are people who make allegations of any kind, SA is still very common, overlooked, and more common than false accusations.
Stay safe everyone. 🙏
okay
@@amor7886 finally you became nice-💀
@@amor7886 Nicest thing you said lol
@@suzannerlo9640 am I missing something 💀
@@mercuree5932 IN EVERY COMMENT HE/SHE REPLIES SOME STUPID ASS THINGS-💀
Like i swear she/he even said “nothings wrong about faking disorders and traumas" like it's annoying
i suffer from PTSD due to many incidents that occurred when i was young. sometimes i've even had panic attacks from it. seeing these they/them pronoun, clown makeup wearing sickos mocking something that affects mine and others lives DAILY is ENRAGING.
As a survivor of domestic abuse and SA this bs just enrages me so damn much.. these pathetic people are using someone's nightmare..someone's trauma to get view.. it just makes me sad..
Fr, as someone who was actually SA’d at a very young age, it sickens me to see all these kids and young adults faking it for mere TikTok views and likes
I'm so sorry
“Sometimes Gen Z really has me questioning my faith in humanity… ANYWAYYYYS” I felt this😭😂
My ex use to say she was violented by a man in an alley way to get a reaction out of me. She use to say stuff like "He got me pregnant and I'm scared to terminate it" I would comfort her and tell her everything was fine, and that the guy would be caught and justice would be served. She lied about being raped,and didn't want to admit that she had cheated on me.
Edit: Spelling
I don't get what makes women think they can falsey accuse men of a crime they have never commited just because of a issue they have got between eachother.
And women who falesy accuse men of a crime they have never commited should get the same sentence. As an sa victim this is really disrespectful.
@lun so because most women are victims of sa they should falsey accuse an innocent man for rape. As sa victim and a women that's not an excuse.
@lun Bull
@@destinymai7688 Yes
Wtfff that's so messed up
That’s how I feel about people claiming to have bipolar disorder. And being “manic” is quirky and cute. It’s not sometimes it’s impulsive decisions that you really don’t care what and who is affected by those decisions. Or it’s a blind rage or sadness or anger. For me personally. I don’t speak for all. But it’s honestly been like I have to constantly babysit myself to make sure I don’t feel like the smallest things are going to set me off. It’s not cute. It’s not fun. It’s something I have to live with the rest of my life. And it definitely should not be a trend.
I agree it’s a constant battle with myself
My mother was BP. And not only did she refuse to take her meds, she actively made it worse by taking drugs instead. She was the angry manic I guess. Sure felt like it when she tried to suffocate me for "smiling" during one of her punishments. (I actually wasn't even smiling, I'm just a happy person so the corners of my mouth are always upturned naturally)
Ana took the words out my mouth,just because that girl was dumb to accuse an innocent man of sa,doesn’t mean it’s ok to not believe people who’ve actually been abused….
As someone with actual diagnosed D.I.D, this trend has screwed up my medications and such, as so many psychiatrists think I'm just faking it so they don't want to give me the medications that I've been on for years now, or they take me off them. So this trend is so damaging to people that have been actually diagnosed with this disorder thanks to years of trauma. It's sucks man, no one should fake this sort of thing, it's not something I'd wish on anyone. It makes it so hard to live my life.
You can have a dissociative disorder that is caused by severe trauma that does not present as someone having multiple personalities. You can dissociate and literally make yourself forget your trauma or even huge chunks of your life and even shut off your feelings.
It's disgusting how people can fake a disorder for clout and frame. As a girl who got r_ped, I am mad about a girl who faked r_ped for clout. I have truma, it's disgusting how a girl who wants clout and a confusion. I have truama, sizeures,anxiety, social anxiety, and I never met a person who fakes a mental disorder for clout. I hate this kind of people who fakes a disorder for clout and frame, it's just disgusting.
Honestly, these clout chasers make me feel really sad for them. Like, how unhappy does someone have to be in their real-life to look for validation from strangers on the internet by lying about things that a lot of people actually struggle with?
Mental illness, S.A., and abuse are not trendy or cool. It affects how people live their lives every day. Faking it makes a mockery of someone else's very real pain and trauma.
how do y’all know some are faking ?
@@amor7886 That's part of the problem. We don't know unless it's blatantly obvious like when Trisha Paytas claimed to suffer from D.I.D. and made a video introducing their "alters". It's always best to believe someone is being honest about their struggles until proven otherwise, but lying about trauma or an illness takes away from actual survivors and it's a really crappy thing to do.
5:23 as someone who was once in the dsmp fandom I can say for a fact not everyone in the fandom is like this. Not even majority. Only a few thousand liek every other fandom ever.
It makes me disgusted that some people can falsey accuse someone of sa , this is why there is alot of innocent men in jail for a crime they have never commited. And it was just 4 days ago another innocent man finally got released after 16 years in jail because a women falsey accused him of rape. This is really disrespectful to the actual rape victims.
I really hope the man that got falsey accused gets his justice he deserves , nobody deserves to get falsey accused for a crime they have never commited.
So if yall know any of his social media please tell me so I can help him get his justice thank you ❤❤❤
and what about women
@@amor7886 ig they meant women too?
Do yall know the women who falsey accused the man's tiktok username
So I can go attack.
@@destinymai7688 she deleted her tiktok
@@amor7886 There's no a lot of innocent women in jail for SA considering how uncommon it is. But there's probably a few here and there
It’s so sad how DID has become a trend. To all the poor souls out there who actually have to deal with DID I’m so sorry :(
People who lie about trauma make it difficult for people who are trying to be open about the experience they faced. We are automatically deemed liars because of this whole trend.
I don’t even talk about my life experiences anymore in fear of being labeled as “one of those people”. Meanwhile I’m 6 months into therapy for C-PTSD and working hard and doing really well now.
exactly
Being someone who has suffered through trauma , this is not okay it makes it look like people are not telling the truth when they truly are , I really hope this gets better , please don’t ever fake something this serious.
imagine how many other tiktokers fake their stories
It’s sad that people fake DID because people with ACTUAL DID may not be believed! It’s disgusting and sad.
faking trauma is wrong straight up ! these people should know better than that .
trauma also takes a huge toll on people mentally , physically & emotionally & it takes them a long time for them to move on from the trauma they experienced .
you’re stating the obvious 💀💀💀
Amazing deductive reasoning...😐
@@amor7886 i'm sorry , is there a problem ?
@@candzjordann yes
@@amor7886 what is the problem ? cause ion see one . & the last time i checked faking trauma for clout is wrong PERIOD !
As a person who’s been SA and molested along the years and so has my fiancé by his ex this is extremely insensitive and disrespectful. I felt like I could speak on my story on tiktok and I got so many hateful comments from men saying I was lying so I just shut up and never spoke out about it. No one should ever lie about something so serious.. also lying about mental illness is disgusting. People who actually suffer from DID and every other mental disorder go threw so many struggles in life. Mental illness shouldn’t ever be a trend but it seems like these individuals just want the attention and validation from others and get the likes and views. I’m not sure why faking and about something like that would be worth it but it’s taking away people’s trust from others who actually have the disorder and are being treated for it from them.
Important note: While people with mental illness and trauma may be drawn to similar aesthetic, mental illness and trauma are not an aesthetic
katie your forehead is 50% of your pfp… invest in bangs babe 😕
@@amor7886 babe who hurt u
@@amor7886 your insecurities are screaming right now
@@amor7886 Lmao
@@amor7886 invest in saving up money to go to the hospital cause your hair is falling down like wild.. u might have bald spots already so dont talk and get out JOCELYN. 🥰
one of my besties has this, and the fact that people fake this is frankly unbelievable. Humanity is literally devolving.
People always think I lie when I say I was professionaly diagnosed with anxiety at age 8. And diagnosed with OCD at 10 . And honestly it sucks . And it is not fun having anxiety and OCD it is horrible.
ikr right i was diagnosed with adhd when i was 12 and anxiety when i was 13 and they literally make my every day life harder than it needs to be, especially because depression comes with adhd like a 2 for the price of 1 package. people are now romanticizing mental disorders and it makes me feel so dumb because people think i’m just trying to be a quirky 14 year old.
I was diagnosed with ocd at age 12, and honestly it makes me absolutely sick when people fake it.
"omg I'm so ocd!! line up those books correctly!! 🤪🤪"
makes me want to jump off a roof
Agreed people don't believe me sometimes. The worst things I have rn are anxiety adhd and a hereditary disease. I have been diagnosed with ptsd and depression but those aren't really up high on the list rn and some more I can't remember. And on top of all that Autism. So that's fun
as someone who dresses alternative, it’s a huge bummer that pretty much everyone who fakes these disorders dresses similarly to me because now a bunch of perfectly wonderful alternative people are lumped into this group of fakers.
I have did
(Medically diagnosed after 12 years )
And this trend makes it hard for me to even talk about my condition from embarrassment
What is d I d
@@selenaqxklairaw3059 dissociative identity disorder formally known as multiple personality disorder
@@mooni5316 thank you
My girlfriend deals with DID on a daily basis and she has shared with me how hard it is to manage from times to times. It makes me sick that these teens are faking these disorders to gain fame and popularity. As someone who suffers from mental illnesses as well (I dont have DID) I dont like making videos or tik toks about it much because I dont want people to assume Im faking for attention etc. DID is very rare, only a small percentage of people have it and it is caused by severe childhood trauma. This is why most people who do have it dont get diagnosed until they are an adult.
i have D.I.D…this is disgusting and not even how alters work. D.I.D is so much more then just having having alters and multiple personalities it is very hard to deal with and it can be diagnosed at a younger age too like i was, but the only reason i ever got diagnosed was because my mother was diagnosed with it and children with parents that have D.I.D are more likely to develope it. It just upsets me so much to see people faking this mental illness and making it look cool when it is a battle and hard to keep in control, people with D.I.D tend to want to hide it and keep it from people…ive gotten questions like “can one of your alters try to kill me” after opening up to people about my mental illness and its not easy to hear that and see that people actuallly get concerned, even i myself was concerned when i first got diagnosed because i had heard of D.I.D it even made me doubt myself and fear myself since i wasnt aware that i had it or of how it worked and what it all meant. I just want everyone to understand that what is portrayed in those tik toks are nowhere near what people with actual D.I.D go through and people that make tik toks like that are actually one of the reasons why people get concerned when they hear D.I.D as it portrays it as being able to just develope whatever alters we want (like one that wants to kill or cause harm) when its not the case at all alters are actually the pieces of us that we disociate from when traumatic things happen and or figures we create in our brains to protect us from our trauma thats how some alters end up being older then us ourselves actually. Furthermore, its not even recomended to talk about our alters specifically describing them as it can cause more alters to develope and or trigger individuals that might have D.I.D to develope the same alter they are being told about. Overall, this is very wrong.
I feel so bad for all of y'all dealing with this while a teen fakes this to be 'cool and quirky'. I hope you and your mom are doing well. Sending love 💖
@@lizpacker 🙏🏻💘
I’m so sorry, I can’t believe people would actually be sick enough to make such horrible and offensive videos
Whats DID?
@@lexity3270 dissociative identity disorder is what it stands for i don’t want to explain my knowledge tho bc I might not be right
As a person with bipolar disorder it's sickinig to see people faking mental illnesses !
Honestly. The people faking this type of stuff make people look at the LGBT+ community as even more of a joke. Like people already slander the community, the 12 year olds on tik tok ain't making it any better for the normal people in the community.
This is absolutely disgusting.. This actually makes me so sad because I've been in therapy for 17 years in order to deal with my mental disorders and become a better person, at times wishing, just begging to have just one day without it meanwhile these people fake it for cloud. Disgusting.
Anna is such a “*normal influencer*” she doesn’t act like she’s above anyone fdd
Sure sure
she literally drags down TEENAGERS and she’s literally a grown adult
she's the definition of a hypocrite
as someone who has actually experienced trauma from my ex attempting to well take advantage of me this is disgusting as shit... like not only did the girl fake having this trauma but also she put an innocent man in danger.. I would never want to do that cause I know that all men aren't bad people.... and I would want to separate the good men and the bad men.... and because this trauma literally makes me have like mental breakdowns... didn't happen that long ago.... making a trend out of this while it can help catch bad people it.... for me is just triggering....
As a person who does have DID i find this very disgusting... it is not easy to live with this illness and when people fake it.. i feel mocked.
When you go high pitch it actually hurts my ears a little 😂🤣 I'm still watching lol. I have sensitive ears. I wish I could hit a high note lmfao!
TRUAMA isn’t a joke
AS SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT HAVE TRUAMA AND ONE OF ANNAS VIEWERS HAS TRUAMA
What?
@@g1na730 -_-
Idk I’m just dumb-
@@SP1D3RSF4NGS so quirky......
@lun *then 😭
@lun np
5:33 Wilbur soot? Honey, what the hell? CORPSE HUSBAND??? WHAT??? whos gonna tell them DID doesn't make you mcyts??
Ya
Honestly the fact that lots of people think they will get popular for this is very absurd and dumb. People should STOP faking these serious things!
i have not experienced any of the traumas mentioned but have experienced a trauma that many people use for clout its honestly annoys me how they use it for clout moreover they even stereotype us in ways that aren't even how we are irl, generally i understand some people do this due to their own personal reasons (growing up neglected/bullied etc. etc.) but it really disappoints me that whenever i open social media i have to find someone faking a trauma i myself experienced or just making a joke about how we're "overreacting" so please whenever someone actually thinks of doing something like this put yourself in someone's shoes who actually experienced and think.
I love how Anna explained her thoughts so calmly and kindly because if that were me id yell my voice box off
2:27 I had a similar rumor spread. Someone started a rumor about how someone SA’ed me and it almost ruined mine and the other persons life
everyone in my family suffera from either depression, OCD or anxiety and i have recovered from depression and am still battling with anxiety. it sucks man :/ our issues (people who suffer from mental health/illness) are seen as ways to get online attention and ignore the fact that we actually struggle. I hate it here
It is absolutely horrible. I'm so sick of people who seek for attention when they're faking SA, as an SA survivor myself, I completely agree that False SA accusers should be punished.
It’s really sad when I see people doing this. These are serious disorders, and this is a bit off topic but, you know the first girl she mentioned faking being s/a? The person in that video looked to be in around the same sub culture/ aesthetic thing I’m in called alt or alternative. (Might’ve been pastel goth or something else along the lines of that tho) and I’ve noticed a lot of people dressed like this do this type of stuff. And then, in turn, it puts terrible labels on the entire alternative sub culture and then the actual good people in the sub culture get all the backlash for it. (I am so so so so so sorry if this sounds insensitive to the video I’m not good with words but just know it’s not my intention and I am so sorry if it comes off as that.) anyway thank you for coming to my Ted talk and again i am terribly sorry if this comes off as insensitive.
my partner has been questioning if he has DID for a while now and while they also aren't able to get actually diagnosed because his parents wouldn't believe him, he's at least not just full out saying that he has a system like most undiagnosed people on the internet. They also dont have control over their alters like how some people on tiktok seem to. He's said sometimes someone can ask a certain alter to front, but they cant just do it fully on command. Sadly though we've had some people who are actually pretty close to us fake DID, and not in a very convincing way either. One of them always said they were questioning if they had a system but then sometimes would just completely say they are one and they gave their alters names themselves when thats not how it works and if you have alters they tell you their names and you dont decide them. The other one had only a few alters but never really showed any difference when most of her alters were said to have very different personalities from eachother, and there would also be some times when someone would ask who was fronting for her and she'd say she wouldnt know, which could be possible if you had an alter that just didnt have a name, but if that were the case a more logical thing to say wouldve been "im new i dont have a name". She also faked getting sa once by this account that my partner made that he made an entire kind of character for but who wasnt actually real and then when she was called out for lying she just said "yeah well ive been sa by a bunch of other people too" which yeah if that actually happened you should tell someone but i doubt if someone had actually been sa by multiple people that theyd just say it out of nowhere to try and defend themself from being called out for lying about something. Yeah we're not close to her that much anymore.
The first girl was able to somewhat prove that he actually assaulted her. She showed a pic from years ago with him (a bit skinnier) with the same shirt on. She said she used that pic as it was a lot clearer n more up to date. I found this by looking into it for like 5 mins. She deleted her account because she was still getting hate
OmG what?
So just because she was with him a year ago it doesn't mean she didn't lie about him sa her.but she might be telling the truth as well.
As someone who has friends with heavy trauma, its not something to fake because it can leave someone emotionally damaged for life. Faking trauma it stupid and selfish and can get innocent people into trouble.
On another note, people harass and call people with wheelchairs liars for standing up out of their wheelchairs, because almost everyone out there assumes you don't/can't use one unless you can't walk. It's horrible. I can walk, but it's literally dangerous for me, and quickly causes pain. The last time I tried speedwalking, I slipped and fell, ended up in the er with minor nerve damage to my back from the inflammation (nothing bad happened, but my back has been worse since)
It's one reason why I have a wheelchair for public use besides the fact I can't make it a full store trip while walking. Yet I get dirty looks if I get up, or in the rare case I forget my wheelchair at home and use those god awful store electric carts just because I look like every other healthy 16 year old.
So my point is that wheelchairs aren't exclusively used for people who can't walk whatsoever.
The mental health one got me , i was diagnosed with bipolar and multiple personality disorder by the age 7 and it's not so easy during the switch between the personalities
People should never fake trauma for clout trauma is not a joke
this behavior on tiktok is truly disgusting and i hope that all the people who faked/made fun of DID get banned/emabrrassed. Thankyou for educating others Anna
parents: what does anna oop teach you?
me: nothing. literally nothing.
If you don't like her why are you in her video? Why bother watching?
@@oook-k1r it was a joke i just need tea
@@ariellasubs right
The way anna talks give me serotonin boost.😭❤
I have ADD and Autisum and the amount of tik toks i see with people claiming to have it when they obviously don't is kind of insulting cause they act dumb or do something "quirky" just for attention and I find it so disrespectful
I honestly hate how people on Tik Tok portray anxiety. I was diagnosed with chronic anxiety disorder when I was still in 5th grade and it is horrible to live with. I can barely do anything without having a panic attack
Who came up with "when a woman said she was SA'ed, always believe them?"
@Sara khalaf.. Exactly
@lun.. You do until someone you know and love gets blamed for something they didn't do like the man in this video here.
My dad got SA by a girl when he was just a child, he was so pissed when he heard people were faking being SA.
I bet those Tik Tokers don’t even know what D.I,D stands for
It takes a lot of therapy to even know your alters because there is so much amnesia when u switch. Also it's beyond intense for your brain to try to comprehend what the hell is even going on therefore other people like therapist can assist and understand what's happening
This is so sad. It's shud not be created like a joke. I srsly wanna find them and give them a nice big slap. The people who have trauma I feel so bad for them cause these people just want clout. It's srsly stops people from believing real victims. So sad.
shud
@lun No,over people that's faking it.
@lun tons people these days take depression as a joke, so id say social media in general.
@lun these people are faking it for clout
@@amor7886 jocelyn, drop the whole ass obsession, okay? thanks jocelyn!
Bruh for the last tik tok i was so sure the person was going to include wilbur soot in the video. I could of sworn. Its genuinely fucked up of ppl to do this.
TikTok itself was a mistake. Change my mind.
@UCwwKbQhaXkGeE2y4NkQhZ_g The app itself IS the mistake. Not just the people.
pls trump come back 😭
no i love tiktok sm
I agree.
@@josueveguilla9069 And the content 😭
As someone who has ADHD, anxiety (general and social), depression, and PTSD it bothers me so much that people make mental illnesses a trend. My mental illnesses affect me every day and make life harder. I wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy. A lot of times when I tell people I have these things I’m not believed because so many people fake it and they think I’m faking.
*Educational comment, please do not harrass*
We don't normally tell people about the host and their DID unless we know we can trust them completely. And sharing it online is even a huge step, but I (Tyler) was given permission by the host themself to be able to talk about it to trusted people and to help educate people. I think it's sick to see so many people faking such a traumatic disorder. That is why it is labeled as a DISORDER. We aren't specifically linked to DID, but OSDD-1b. The difference between the two is more about the amount of trauma and the amount of memory you have if it. In OSDD-1b, we are more known to not be as forgetful, but still fairly forgetful, versus those who have DID itself. People with DID instead of OSDD-1b or OSDD-1a experience a lot more gaps in their memory than the rest of us. And we do know that switching can't just happen at will. Sometimes, we switch in the middle of driving, which can be scary when we're going 70 on the highway. Plus, when we dissociate, sometimes those moments can make us relive the trauma we experienced or that the host has experienced. I'm not speaking for all systems since every system us different in their own way, from alters, to how they all act. There are also times where a system member might try to commit unalive because of all the pressure being out on them. It's scary going into front to see a blade and pills on the floor of the bedroom without knowing I anything had happened. It's not as fun as people on TikTok make ime. But it's also not as bad as they make it either. There are goods days, and there are bad. But again, I don't speak for every system since they are all different. Please do take thus comment as education and not hate. I wouldn't hate those who fake such a disorder like this. It is not worth it to put so much into someone faking, especially because it will just give them more clout to use. Anyway, I hope everyone is having a great day, fellow systems, singlets, beardos and weirdos (Credit to OneTopicAtATime), and everyone else in between. Stay positive and don't let fakers/clout takers ruin your mood. Love you all! -Tyler
As someone with d.i.d. people who fake it are sick tbh
Anna gurl ur hypocrisy is showing😍😍😍
@@marammol FR
Wait what happened
Thank you for addressing this!!!! I myself have got caught in tik tok drama and it was horrible and these people also decided to fake DID and multiple different other disorders to get clout and attack me for something I didn’t do. These people need to be exposed and taught about what DID actually is and what it can do to you because they are making up things along the way.
they really had to use minecraft youtubers as there alters 😩