I believe that the guy didn't know what it means, and it's more of a white person thing. Also him getting xoxo from a male friend for his birthday honestly doesn't mean anything. It's weird he's so fixated on that. It is odd for a guy to text that but I know some guys that just text that to everybody. Also the question about him being with a man involved him going to dinner with a guy? Who the hell cares? Doesn't mean anything. I've grabbed food with my guy friends, i don't get how that means anything.
She knew what he was doing. She made her own decision to stay. And she’ll probably stay with him after this. The card with xoxo and the text said it all. But she stayed. This is why blk men date and marry wht women, because they can get away with this mess, a blk woman would have made him history after the girl on the corner. I’m just saying. Most men are trifling, and that is why there’s so many single blk women. Cause we don’t put up with this mess. We stand strong.
@eleanorhardy683 I disagree. I see Black Women putting up with the same Bullshit . This Black vrs. White is ridiculous. Women should empower each other instead of talking about each other. Everything got to be a competition. This World is so divided. And like my Grandmother used to say. This world is going to Hell in a handbasket. I wish people would stop with the b.s . And just remember we are all human. We all have differen cultures. But we all been through this thing called life. We should uplift each other.
@@eleanorhardy683nah I know TOO MANY black women who take back sorry men just like I know plenty of men who take back sorry women. That’s not a one or the other thing at all. I know TOO many black women who have let men treat them any kinda way man. It’s sad. I don’t know many white women at all to say what they do or don’t do really but I know more black women than a little bit staying with men handling them any kinda way. If white women do that more than black women then ALL white women dang near must be being mistreated bc it’s a GANG of black women out here being mistreated that’s for sure!
Steve said so if you were with a man you're more bisexual, he started to say yeah and caught himself and stopped and said if that was the case then yeah but that's not the case 😂 sir, that in fact is the case 🤣
I dont feel bad for men being outed when they are in this situation. Staying or getting married when your on the dl, cheating, being on websites to find sex, building whole families is so cruel and heartbreaking and possibly life threatening. Its very selfish. If you aren’t ready to come out then stay single, wear condoms and get checked regularly!
Ummm the same goes for heterosexual people too. It applies to anyone in a relationship. If you don’t want to be monogamous stay single, wear condoms and get checked regularly
@@sapphirebrown3802nah it goes both ways but that’s a women imagine being with someone and you not even the gender they want but stay here and lied for years knowing they don’t even like you for being a woman just sat here and lied knowing you were gay
Everyone should be getting tested first of all I completely understand why bro is lying about it. We still live in a society where some people aren’t cool with gay. Which is messed up
I think what she was saying when she first came out is the name of some weed. But him being with men and denying it, is messed up. Just admit it and move on.
Bro definitely seems Bisexual. His response to Steve when he suggested it was very welcoming to it. He's just not able to be himself yet. I feel sorry for his wife and feel sorry for him too. I hope they're both much happier now.
@user-pe2xt7rj9h I wasn't asigning him a label. I was making an observation. I'm Pansexual myself. I've been calling myself Pansexual for 12 years. Before all this LGBTQIABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ123456789++++++++++++++++++++++++++ was a thing. Good for him if he's Bi. I made it clear at the end that I hope they're both happier now..? Why look to sink your teeth into something that isn't there? Why search to be offended? I'm as liberal as they come, lad. Nice try though.🤙
@@cryptidconn alr man you do you I never asked for your sexuality or your political stance but good to know 😎😎😎😎 I will never understand the need to label the need to be labelled but that’s just me my observation is why bother yourself with someone else’s sexuality, or anything really they just exist as they are and it doesn’t matter in my opinion and also in my opinion kinda weird to label oh yeah he’s def gay or bi or whatever ahahahhahaha sick talking to you though
You can tell when he reads them all at once when their the same answer and when he splits them up they get all hyped to be brought down to the fact that they lied
Once we get past making men feel small for living their life, these lies will stop before they start. If someone doesn't want you, you dont have to make them feel inferior for what they do want. Also, DONT CHEAT!
You could have just said the “don’t cheat” part though. That’s where all the issues come from. Of course a woman is going to be mad if the man they’re with turns out to be gay. It’s a pretty shocking thing to learn after the fact.
Society is not responsible for men not being able to handle their truth and deep dark secrets. The outcome of him being outed might lead to him being bu.llied by his brethren for being into men but behind closed doors, those same brothers are on the down low too but they worry about what other men will think about them if their secret lifestyle is exposed. No one is forcing d.l men to hide in the closet, they hide by choice. Perhaps d.l men care too much about what outsiders think about their lifestyle or maybe the d.l man is disgusted with himself for being into the same s 3 x so he hides it to avoid having to face himself.
Omg when she talked about the friend texting him that definitely sounded like drugs 😂 but I'm not all the way through the video we will see what happens lol
Terrance. oh sweet Terrance. you can deny all you want. but we know the truth. back in the day down at the Piggly Wiggly you were tearing up so much more than on that APP
My best friend of 45 years always says love you when we say goodbye on the phone and I say it back does not mean we are gay you just have mutual love and respect for each other
Yeah. Nothing wrong with that. Love & Sex are not the same! It's so annoying. Also Steve declares he doesn't know the results, but that's BS. Notice how the question was asked to. "HAVE U EVER had ANY sexual contact" ...that could have been something that happened when he was a child. That does NOT make someone bi, even. That should have been expanded upon & not exposed a potentially old maybe traumatic memory even ...wtf Steve. FAIL on the shows end.
Well the question was "Have u EVER HAD ANY sexual contact with a male" & that doesn't make him currently bi ...bc it was too broad. Children have curious natures, so it could have been something so minor that never happened again or during their marriage. So, they should have asked a more specific question. That unfortunately proved nothing, as a male could have touched HIM in a sexual manner when he was growing up. That being said. Deducing that he was risky/selfish enough to sleep with a prostitute, putting his wife in danger, even tho he was faithful for 4-5 yrs, that tells u he had been really selfish at a time he couldn't hold urges in. So it seems he wants to do good, but may have a deviant side.🤷🏼
😂😂I laughed so loud at this😂😂the results I mean,lol,aw jees it's been a while since I sat through a full one and this was so funny😂 STEEEEEEEEEEEEVE! ❤🌍❤️🌈
Either way, it's an open door to her getting STDs. Open relationships at least have both partners checking the test results of any potential matches. And closed circle poly groups all know they are clean and get regularly tested. But being with someone who cheats? That's not okay. The person being cheated on never consented to the risk of contracting STDs.
Y'all ever seen that key and peele skit ? 🤣🤣🤣( the one where the guy giving a speech and he mentions gays and the camera points straight guy and he keep tryna hide from the camera )
“& he’s been tearing it up for the last year on that app” 😂😂💀😩
😂😂 That Part 😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
I bet there was reindeer games on that app 🤣
steve is so stuck on that “xoxo” 😂he just can’t believe it
Tbh not everyone knows what it means. My mother doesn't even know
@@rojamillerover me too
@@rojamillerovermy grandma thought lol was lots of love at first I bet it was rather that then laugh out loud but you probably laugh out loud more😢
I just learned today😂
I believe that the guy didn't know what it means, and it's more of a white person thing.
Also him getting xoxo from a male friend for his birthday honestly doesn't mean anything. It's weird he's so fixated on that.
It is odd for a guy to text that but I know some guys that just text that to everybody.
Also the question about him being with a man involved him going to dinner with a guy? Who the hell cares? Doesn't mean anything.
I've grabbed food with my guy friends, i don't get how that means anything.
You know it’s bad news when Steve starts reading the test results out one at a time 😅
Rt! I caught that too!!
LITERALLY !!! I always know something about to come out 🤣
Yep dead giveaway 😂😂😂
Yep plus reads the women cheating part first to get it out the way
Lmao yeah once that happen it's over
It’s so upsetting when you find out you wasted your efforts on someone who preferred to keep lying to you.
Jazzy
I totally agree!!!
She knew what he was doing. She made her own decision to stay. And she’ll probably stay with him after this. The card with xoxo and the text said it all. But she stayed. This is why blk men date and marry wht women, because they can get away with this mess, a blk woman would have made him history after the girl on the corner. I’m just saying. Most men are trifling, and that is why there’s so many single blk women. Cause we don’t put up with this mess. We stand strong.
@eleanorhardy683 I disagree. I see Black Women putting up with the same Bullshit . This Black vrs. White is ridiculous. Women should empower each other instead of talking about each other. Everything got to be a competition. This World is so divided. And like my Grandmother used to say. This world is going to Hell in a handbasket. I wish people would stop with the b.s . And just remember we are all human. We all have differen cultures. But we all been through this thing called life. We should uplift each other.
17 years too man! Whew chile that’s a long time!
@@eleanorhardy683nah I know TOO MANY black women who take back sorry men just like I know plenty of men who take back sorry women. That’s not a one or the other thing at all. I know TOO many black women who have let men treat them any kinda way man. It’s sad. I don’t know many white women at all to say what they do or don’t do really but I know more black women than a little bit staying with men handling them any kinda way. If white women do that more than black women then ALL white women dang near must be being mistreated bc it’s a GANG of black women out here being mistreated that’s for sure!
"I have no gay bone in my body"
Because he's getting the extra bone from his buddy 😂 😭
Lmao😂😂😂😂😂😭
LMFAO
bruh 😂😂
A bone is a bone I won't judge🤤
Oh Lord,😅😅😅😅😅
Even Stevie Wonder knows that man has a little zest and the way he grins and quenches his lips tells the whole story.
😂😂😂❤
😂😂😂gn
😂😂😂
Even the face he made in the thumbnail says it. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Birthday cake is a type of weed. I am SCREAMING 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I mean she did say it was on his birthday, so he could've said he got his actual birthday cake..... and the weed lol
@@cmpkitty18 it's either an actual birthday cake, weed, or another dude's cake 🤣
@@gsxraiders lmao, he just wants all the cake and eat it too 🤣
Sounds like they were using weed terms to continue they’re “swag” lmao😂😂😂
And swag. I believe it 😂
Steve said so if you were with a man you're more bisexual, he started to say yeah and caught himself and stopped and said if that was the case then yeah but that's not the case 😂 sir, that in fact is the case 🤣
If you gonna get outed, best it be national tv haha
That made it official for me
That’s when we all knew 😂
Swag n bday cake is definitely weed talk
definitely
wedding cake
birthday cake kush
swag / schwag
these are all the strains i know lol
@@hellochristimbouttasinagaindont forget purple kush blueberry ice. I dont even smoke and i know then
Birthday cake also means eating ass 😂
no fr i shouted that when i heard her say that
At least I know that first set of texts is him trying to buy some gas ⛽️ 😂
I dont feel bad for men being outed when they are in this situation. Staying or getting married when your on the dl, cheating, being on websites to find sex, building whole families is so cruel and heartbreaking and possibly life threatening. Its very selfish. If you aren’t ready to come out then stay single, wear condoms and get checked regularly!
Ummm the same goes for heterosexual people too. It applies to anyone in a relationship. If you don’t want to be monogamous stay single, wear condoms and get checked regularly
what about when he cheated with the women? 😭 yall draw the line at him cheating with a man?
@@sapphirebrown3802nah it goes both ways but that’s a women imagine being with someone and you not even the gender they want but stay here and lied for years knowing they don’t even like you for being a woman just sat here and lied knowing you were gay
@@sapphirebrown3802sorry not sorry but it is way worse to be cheated on with a man!
Everyone should be getting tested first of all
I completely understand why bro is lying about it. We still live in a society where some people aren’t cool with gay. Which is messed up
I think what she was saying when she first came out is the name of some weed. But him being with men and denying it, is messed up. Just admit it and move on.
Lol birthday cake is a strain of weed 😂 it’s 🔥
I was thinking the same thing. Literally gave the man the benefit of the doubt bcus of that.
@@ameenavaughn9876”That fye, that birthday cake” 😂😂 had me about to buy on the show!
@@ameenavaughn9876I said that out loud to myself “girl he is buying weed” 🤣
@@Bidida I’m in tears but fr tho!! I had to hit the dispensary up later that day 😂😂😭
Steve holding the laugh after the results back is funny
He been tearing it up for the last year on this app 😂 Had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Denial is a river in Egypt, your husband is GAY” 😭
More like bisexual.
Evidence is that he is bi.
'Birthday cake, I got that fire' sounds like the weed plug, tbh 😂
That’s what I said lol
True lol
Deadass😂
Facts 💯💯💯
I was saying that too😂
men will say they’re “fighting demons” and the demons are just bisexuality
Faaacts
You're not lying😂
1000%
Lm@o!
Still a demon.. homosexuality is from the devil.. I just pray he finds peace with God
steve tryna be funny when he mentioned xoxo😭😭 TS KILLED ME
STEVE HAD ME LAUGHING FOR REAL. "DUDE YOURE SOOOOO LYING"
lol the way buddy jaw drop had me rolling 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“& he been tearing it up for the last year on that app” 😂💀🤣🤣
Notice how he stepped away from her, ready to run after Steve read the first question. He knew he was about to fail. 🏃🏻♂️
She needs to leave him alone before he gives her something she can’t get rid of. Ickk
Absolutely!! Like AIDS
Y'all need to grow up anyone can get aids TF not all gays has aids
And yes u can get something before it pops up in your system prep y'all so slow
He already did. Kids.
@@KamalasNotLikeUsbahahaha I am so stealing that!!
Always trust your intuition!!! Because it’s always correct! Been there…. I don’t understand why they always keep lying when the results come out
Ikr? Like, once the results come out, WHO'S gonna believe your story?
@@jonathansmith8672 no one is going to believe you once those results come out lmao!!
@@haleyfountain2779 👍😆😝
Intuition is not always correct. If you have an intuition look for evidence to back it.
@@drew2fast489yeah but women dont think like that 😂
He’d rather get outed on national tv than come clean to his wife😂😂
“I got that fire “ And “birthday cake on deck” are texts from the weed man. She snooping too hard 😂
I would have to leave!!! Any cheating is unexcusable!!!
Especially when his nasty ass is bringing a chocolate tide mark to bed
de Nile is a river in Egypt..
Ma'am, your husband is gay 😳
Awesome Comment ❤
@@antwantaylor3059 BAHAHAHA THANK YOU
He is gay and needs to live in his truth and go their separate ways good luck to the best of them
Bro definitely seems Bisexual. His response to Steve when he suggested it was very welcoming to it. He's just not able to be himself yet.
I feel sorry for his wife and feel sorry for him too. I hope they're both much happier now.
Oh nice dude how does it feel assigning someone with a label 😍😍😍
@user-pe2xt7rj9h I wasn't asigning him a label. I was making an observation. I'm Pansexual myself. I've been calling myself Pansexual for 12 years. Before all this LGBTQIABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ123456789++++++++++++++++++++++++++ was a thing.
Good for him if he's Bi. I made it clear at the end that I hope they're both happier now..? Why look to sink your teeth into something that isn't there? Why search to be offended? I'm as liberal as they come, lad. Nice try though.🤙
@@cryptidconn MF SAID NICE TRY
@@cryptidconn alr man you do you I never asked for your sexuality or your political stance but good to know 😎😎😎😎 I will never understand the need to label the need to be labelled but that’s just me my observation is why bother yourself with someone else’s sexuality, or anything really they just exist as they are and it doesn’t matter in my opinion and also in my opinion kinda weird to label oh yeah he’s def gay or bi or whatever ahahahhahaha sick talking to you though
@@гейййй-п2яwoah how dare you label them as a man. Why are you so obsessed with labeling people?
I didn't even know what XOXO meant til I watched this video😂😂😂
I didn't know up until a few years ago. I guarantee my three older brothers don't
I love this woman, she's smart
everything she said is word for word the same things my plug has said to me on a re-up at one time or another lol
You can tell when he reads them all at once when their the same answer and when he splits them up they get all hyped to be brought down to the fact that they lied
Ok but the birthday cake strand is fire as hell!!
The way the camera Crew chased them 😂
It’s nothing wrong with being gay/bi. He should just be honest with himself and his wife.
My "Gaydar" went off as soon as he opened his mouth. 📡📡📡
Once we get past making men feel small for living their life, these lies will stop before they start. If someone doesn't want you, you dont have to make them feel inferior for what they do want. Also, DONT CHEAT!
You could have just said the “don’t cheat” part though. That’s where all the issues come from. Of course a woman is going to be mad if the man they’re with turns out to be gay. It’s a pretty shocking thing to learn after the fact.
He should've just admitted he was gay the first time so he wouldn't be on national tv embarrassing his self
Society is not responsible for men not being able to handle their truth and deep dark secrets. The outcome of him being outed might lead to him being bu.llied by his brethren for being into men but behind closed doors, those same brothers are on the down low too but they worry about what other men will think about them if their secret lifestyle is exposed. No one is forcing d.l men to hide in the closet, they hide by choice. Perhaps d.l men care too much about what outsiders think about their lifestyle or maybe the d.l man is disgusted with himself for being into the same s 3 x so he hides it to avoid having to face himself.
@@kayla7562exactly
How about don’t ask a woman to marry you if you really want to be with men.
Its the pursed lips the whole segment for me 😭😭
I just wanna say for the record, 3irthday Cake is also a strain of weed. 😂😂
Why is it so unbelievable that someone did not know what xoxo means? I just learned why looking at this segment of the show.
Omg when she talked about the friend texting him that definitely sounded like drugs 😂 but I'm not all the way through the video we will see what happens lol
Secretly we are gay 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
He was for sure a weed dealer but that’d be even better😂
“birthday cake, i got that fire” my man talking to the plug 🤣🤣🤣
I just figured out what xoxo means lol
WHOOO BOY, regarding the "swag" texts she found on his phone, in the gay community swag means Secretly We Are Gay. Busted lol
Never knew that. I have swag.
WHAT 🤯 I ain’t never heard that before
7:10 Lie detector test results
He’s on Grindr lol
She should get tested, and divorce him A.S.A.P! 🤢
For sure!! AIDS is still out there!! Sad deal
8:19 and the ex worker should have been enough for you to leave. Gone mess around and catch something you can’t get rid of
The way she ran after him 😂😂😂😂
“I didn’t even know what xoxo meant”😭😭😂
I only found out last year lol
Terrance. oh sweet Terrance. you can deny all you want. but we know the truth. back in the day down at the Piggly Wiggly you were tearing up so much more than on that APP
I haven’t finished the video but the woman was mad at the plug 😂😂😂😂
"Mad at the plug"? What does that mean?
@@andrewvelonis5940plug= drug dealer
"is he your sweetheart?"
"Hehe.." *nervous face* " not at all!..." 😬
Poligraph him and ask if he knows what xoxo means.
LOL the way she went running after him! 😅😅😅
My best friend of 45 years always says love you when we say goodbye on the phone and I say it back does not mean we are gay you just have mutual love and respect for each other
Yeah. Nothing wrong with that. Love & Sex are not the same! It's so annoying. Also Steve declares he doesn't know the results, but that's BS. Notice how the question was asked to. "HAVE U EVER had ANY sexual contact" ...that could have been something that happened when he was a child. That does NOT make someone bi, even. That should have been expanded upon & not exposed a potentially old maybe traumatic memory even ...wtf Steve. FAIL on the shows end.
You're a girl
That swag pack
She knew something was up and I was actually surprised that it was men and not as much other women
Well the question was "Have u EVER HAD ANY sexual contact with a male" & that doesn't make him currently bi ...bc it was too broad. Children have curious natures, so it could have been something so minor that never happened again or during their marriage. So, they should have asked a more specific question. That unfortunately proved nothing, as a male could have touched HIM in a sexual manner when he was growing up.
That being said. Deducing that he was risky/selfish enough to sleep with a prostitute, putting his wife in danger, even tho he was faithful for 4-5 yrs, that tells u he had been really selfish at a time he couldn't hold urges in. So it seems he wants to do good, but may have a deviant side.🤷🏼
He ain't sleeping with the women's cuz he loved the men's😂😂😂😂😂😂
No, your bones may not be gay but they’re definitely bisexual 😂
Wow. Crazy. Sad. Run as fast as you can.
I didn't know what it meant!😂😂😂
Funniest one I've seen for ages hahaha
i had a vision "u are gay"
These two dont match. She looks like a soccer mom, and he looks homeless 😂😂
And she talks like a... well, I'd better not say it.
he up there doin all that hollering at first like he passed everything like boy sit down
😂😂I laughed so loud at this😂😂the results I mean,lol,aw jees it's been a while since I sat through a full one and this was so funny😂
STEEEEEEEEEEEEVE!
❤🌍❤️🌈
His weed man a freak boul 😭
The lip plucked says it all 🤭
to be fair i had no idea what xoxo meant either till wayyy into my adult life. i thought it just meant best wishes or something lol
I didn't no what it was until now lol
@@jerryon9367 thats very bad. not even joking.
All that plaque on the bottom teeth !! 🤢
The shot of the security and camera man chasing them is drop dead hilarious 😂
This dude realy wants hes bread buttered on both sides...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you didnt know what XO meant at first, once you DID find out you STILL didnt ask your male " friend" why he sent that?! Lmao
Even my 3 n a half year old son knows that xoxo or xxx or hug oooo means hugs +kisses
She has cheated, I has cheated lol
I caught that too 😆
He know he like men. Even Stevie can see it. And that man is blind
I'm almost 38 years old and I just learned what xoxo means from this video! So it's possible to not know.
I didn' know what XOXO meant until this show...
I starting laughing when the camera crew ran after him 😂😂😂
8:44 took me out Lmaoooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I just learned what xoxo meant! I learned what lol meant in 2007. I don’t believe this man is gay. Steve is wrong for how he’s playing with this man!
He suspect he learned it in prison. The lack of dental care.
I sniggled through this whole segment
The fact that I was truly shocked 🤣🤣
People routinely marry out of their culture or race to hide what would be obvious within the culture. He could also be a childhood victim of SA.
Years of generational buck breaking....
@@sweettexasteeYep
lol, you can see the zest from the picture hahaha
I thought she was mistaking wEEE-ED names for dirty talk 😂 I was wrong
I don't think she's not going to ever let that go. It's over
Even if he didn't know what XOXO meant, the person that sent it did and that says it all.
Lmao the man textin him bout weed 🤣🤣🤣
STEVE: And tell ur buddies no more xoxos put like some zzzzz… ZZZZs 😂😂😂
😅😅😂😂😂😂 that was my FAVORITE PART 😭😭😭😭🤣💯
@@SeJasLa 😂😂
I knew the answer was yes from just looking at the thumbnail 😂😂
I honestly didn’t know xoxo meant hugs and kisses. I thought it was love 😂😂😂
Same!
"If he cheated on me with a woman we can work it out. If he cheated on me with a man, its over" is some backward logic
Either man or female it’s curtains! But it will be worse to find out your husband cheated with a man.. sorry that will feel much worse
She values her homophobia more than her own self respect. That simple
Either way, it's an open door to her getting STDs.
Open relationships at least have both partners checking the test results of any potential matches.
And closed circle poly groups all know they are clean and get regularly tested.
But being with someone who cheats? That's not okay. The person being cheated on never consented to the risk of contracting STDs.
Y'all ever seen that key and peele skit ? 🤣🤣🤣( the one where the guy giving a speech and he mentions gays and the camera points straight guy and he keep tryna hide from the camera )
literally love that one lol sooo hilarious , that camera man had an eagle eye 😂
Everybody in my life knows I'm not gay, his wife knows him better then he knows himself.