Unironically, this video gives me hope as an autistic girl. I normally get worried because I’m often told that im too much or too weird for people. Seeing other autistic girls being wanted like this really does give me a new perspective on my own brain and how people will perceive that, thank you.
Autistic man here, I feel you. I really struggle with the idea that I might look like a loser or an unfun person to be around if I talk too much about my personal interests. I think all autistic people just want to date someone who understand them. I'll take anyone that just gets me, man or woman.
Other autistic girl speaking. I have been told the exact same in the past and it seems that it is a common occurrence and theme with us. The repeated awful treatment from those around us will forever shape us, but this video also gives me hope😔😔
I think Britney might be avoiding contact on purpose, and that should be respected. While it might hurt, it’s hurting her worse to have to hear this and be tormented by her own internal thoughts and guilt. Coming from an autistic woman, this kind of thing is a tad bit scary. You, I promise, Are more than your relationship with her. She is also her own person and needs to be respected. Finding someone who values and wants to be with you is vastly healthier and more important than chasing the idea of a relationship you thought was healthy.
@ it’s not just that we are emotionally unavailable, we just experience the world differently and that can be hard to articulate and may come off as being emotionally cold or indifferent. It’s a struggle, that’s for sure, but I can assure you the vast majority of us crave emotional intimacy, it’s just hard to connect most of the time.
coming from an autistic person, those were some keen observations on autism and i could tell you understand how, generally speaking, we perceive the world. you must have really loved her to understand that much. that being said the solution is not to keep chasing when it sounds like she would have let you back in a long time ago if she wanted to. it’s possible i don’t have enough context to make a judgement but contacting her parents to get to her is bordering creepy behavior. and if you really love her you don’t want to give her that burden. you ARE something without her, even if that doesn’t exist yet, you will build it. you are worth more than being just a person in someone else’s life. go to therapy.
Best comment, because with situations like this women are often villainized for not forgiving, and as difficult as it is on the receiving side (trust I know I have anxious attachment style lol) she’s hard to reach because she doesn’t want to be, she’s setting a difficult boundary. But this was such a thoughtful gesture, I hope one day to be loved like this despite context
I’m an autistic woman! :D But I want to say that what you said near the end isn’t true. You are not ‘nothing’ without her. She didn’t complete you. You were already whole to begin with. And if you don’t feel that you are whole right now, make yourself feel whole! Take care of yourself and love yourself, even when it’s not easy. Do the things in life that make you feel fulfilled. Find the things that make you happy in the long term. If you have people around you, contact them. Build hobbies. Do what brings you joy. And I know this might hurt to hear, but that means letting go, too. Don’t look for ways to move on with other women, and definitely don’t look for ways to get back with her. Fulfilment comes from yourself, not anybody else. I truly believe knowing how to be happy while single is necessary to being happy in a relationship. I really hope you find that happiness :)
I dont see enough ppl telling him to leave brittney alone. If you have to try to find her through her parents YOU NEED TO STOP. She does not want to talk to you. Im neurodivergent and theres this one guy I used to date that i can only avoid 5 /7 days and every time he sees hes trying to talk to me and/or get back together HES GOING OUT OF HIS WAY TO FIND ME .THAT. IS. CREEPY. If i wanted to talk to him I would have a long time ago. Theres a reason she wont talk to him.😠
This was sweet until you dropped two years bro. She’s gone, and continuing to pine and reach out after this long is scary. I’m autistic and I had an ex pull this for seven years; made me feel like he saw me as an object more than anything else he could have said or done. Autistic women are dope, but we’re not emotionless trophies you can earn, fumble, and earn back
My partner has autism and suspects I have it too on some level. We met on a Simpsons Forum in 2014, she came all the way from Canada to visit me in Northern Ireland while I was still at Uni in May of 2015 (Which is where we officially count from as the beginning of our relationship as a couple and not just friends). We did the long distance thing for the better part of a decade with very sporadic visits back and forth when money would allow for it. I finally moved to Canada near the end of June this year, and we got married on the 29th of September. I consider myself the luckiest bastard on the planet for having someone as amazing as her that stuck by me all those years. Wishing you the best of luck, Diki.
Damn i hope the end is some kinda of weird joke i don't get. But 2 years of attempting contact is just being scary. You gotta forgive yourself for fucking it up and stop living in the past it's not healthy for anyone. If you can't do it by yourself please seek therapy
DAMN i hope you find peace bro, people come and go and it sucks but don’t let that stop you from making new connections. like think of it this way, spiderman is great but if you actively looked for a “spiderman” in every other franchise you consumed you wouldn’t have enjoyed demon slayer. or i thinking of tyler’s albums, if you started listening to flower boy hoping it would sound like goblin you wouldn’t have been able to actually listen and enjoy,,, you will never find someone who is the same as another person, just like you aren’t the same as another person, hell you’re probably not even the same you you were 2 years ago, so let go bro. let go, and enjoy the new types of people you can meet and will meet without putting them through a filter hoping to feel the same emotions nd see the same person because even she is probably not the person she was before. do it for you, for her, and for every other girl you will hurt if you don’t let go
My brother is autistic. He thinks saying things or people are dying is the funniest shit ever. A character will get hurt in a video game and he'll say that it died and burst out laughing like he just told the funniest joke of his life. I genuinely wonder if he's on a different plain of reality sometimes
as an autistic person myself, that 1st half rly hit deep. however that 2nd half. i can understand feelin like someone completes u n all. but if she dont want nothin to do w u then u gotta move on. it might feel like u can but u gotta dude, its not healthy to keep obsessin over someone whos not interested in u. ive been in a similar situation in which i was worried when i friend in a dangerois situation siddenly stopped txtin me and blocked me. i left it be until i realized we were in a forgotten gc together still and messaged them to see if they were ok, in which they said that they wanted nothin to do w me and told me i was toxic for likin anime(in this case specifically BNHA, which they also liked too) and then left w out sayin good bye. i feel like itd be a similar situation w u, where if u somehow manage to get into contact w her she'd break ur heart and then leave. its best to grieve, and move on
Maybe actually go into what you did instead and maybe you should've treated her well in the moment instead of just going "I want that experience back" essentially. That is a whole thinking feeling person that you obviously hurt. If she wanted you back in her life she probably would've shown that by now. Can you apologise instead of expecting anything more? Instead of expecting even forgiveness? Sometimes you have to digest the consequences and move on. I also think that while its good to appreciate the positives of autism, it feels to me that its somewhat being romanticised and projected because you are seeking what you found in one individual. I dont recommend doing that. I don't recommend seeking somebody in somebody else overall because it is bad for both parties. I do think you should talk about all this with a therapist.
1:33 as an neurodivergent girl, I will have to say there’s an exception for that: autistic girls who specifically want to live with a prince/fancy guy who can buy them frilly clothes and nice tea.
Hey bestie! Maybe leave Britney alone. As a fellow autistic person, I'd be freaked the fuck out if someone suddenly made a video on autism in hopes I'd watch it just to confess their undying love for me after I'd presumably either rejected them or the friendship fell apart. I'd also be really creeped out if someone tried going through my parents just to talk to me, and I'd also be freaked out if I'd presumably been avoiding someone for over two years and they haven't left me alone. That is creepy, stalker-ish behavior, not romantic. Please leave Britney alone. EDIT: After looking further into the channel, I think, I _hope_ this is satire. Still, the amount of people calling it "romantic" or "inspiring" is really disturbing. Repeatedly trying to contact someone who has actively been avoiding speaking to you for over TWO YEARS is creepy as shit, and trying to go through THEIR PARENTS just to talk to them is beyond crossing a line, that is flat-out stalker behavior. I pray that those who think it's romantic will realize just how fucking creepy shit like this is.
Let go of the girl man, you’re being creepy if after two she didn’t contact you that means you need to move on, otherwise someone should keep an eye on you tf?? Move. On.
It made me feel better to hear I'm not alone in going through something like this but I agree he needs to get busy with something also just so you know I don't think telling someone to " move on" necessarily shakes them out of how they're feeling... It's a type of grief, so appropriate behavior permitting ofc, being sympathetic is more likely to help someone grow wise and make peace with and acknowledge and move through and in their feelings rather than just telling them to "move on " we're all human, yk?
Yea as an ND person with massive waves of social burnout,,, i've disappeared socially (gc's, most dms, some calls, etc) for weeks to months at a time. Luckily my friends understand I just need space. But several people also feel like if they try enough they'll "get through to me" which just stresses me out big time because i genuinely dont have it in me to give people the quality of attention I feel they deserve. Even if their breakup/falling out wasnt bad(assuming it wasnt a joke) just let her be. No one knows her train of thought except her He needs to become his own person (which is easier said, ik) and let her be. Eventually find that same kind of love for himself. Take a break from dating because rn all hes doing (subconsciously) is a casting audition to fill her role
im a Neurodivergent woman, i appreciate this so much oh my days THANK YOU for giving me hope for ever finding a romantic partner ! Im pretty insecure about my neurodivergency and i appreciate this :3
I can relate heavily to this feleing too, as an autistic man! I feel like I can relate soo much easier to the experiences autistic women have! It's always been much smoother of a conversation with an autistic vs NT woman in my experience, just easier to connect.
Although I love the premise of this video of how it’s accepting towards autistic people like myself, it gives off the vibe of putting people with autism in a box again. Although I get that this is supposed to be a positive video, I just get a weird vibe from it. It’s like those guys on RUclips who try to say what all women are like when you can’t really speak for all women because you can’t be and never will be all women. It’s the same with women with autism: this video only really refers to one specific girl with autism. Let me give you an example of myself: I’ve been officially diagnosed with autism, but I’m someone who is honestly kind of picky when it comes to looks. I won’t just date any random Joe Smoe off the street, you know? And I’m not even that conventionally attractive myself it’s just that, for some reason, I’m just really picky when it comes to it and find imperfections easily. Then again, I think some of this has to do with my own commitment issues. This video was right about me when it comes to the fact that sometimes I’ll say things very bluntly and people will find it funny, but that may not be the case for all autistic people. To the person who made this video: I feel like, sadly, you need to move on for your own sake. There’s other fish in the sea, and although I get your pain, I just feel like you’re going to hurt yourself through trying time and time again to contact someone when it’s really not getting you anywhere. I say detach and give it up for now and focus on yourself, and if she’s meant to come back, then she will. If not, then you’ll find another girl to be with who’ll treat you well, and you deserve it :)
I just want love. Most of my friends hate me and the rest don’t talk to me so I don’t know. The first girl I dated was incredible but she had issues and made me feel horrible. The second one stayed for a couple of days and then left. In between those two have just been failures. I feel detached for all of my peers. I feel detached from most things in life and almost everything reminds me of that. Every feeling I have, every second of small talk, every mixed signal and every one sided emotion reminds me that this world is not made for people like me. I love those who I hope love me. I love those I know now hate me and those who just don’t care. The love I feel takes away more than it gives.
@@theguy7710 Thank you for understanding and it’s not too tough to answer. They started ignoring me. They never talk to me. They walked away from me so I left them but one day I wanted to go back. I started hanging out with them again and before I left, we had made some plans to hang out on Halloween. I asked if I was still allowed to hang out on Halloween and yeah.
I was with you until you said you're nothing without her. If her family isn't talking to you either, she probably has a good reason. You can't move on from someone if everything you do to get over them is also used to prove you've changed. You can't move on if you want what was in the past MORE than you want to see a future without being stuck tied to her. You don't need to live your whole life in comparison to that time. Your mind might say you dont deserve to move on and live better and free, but you do. Practice thinking about that experience as the past rather than something you're currently still losing, because if you do that, eventually your brain will come to terms with it. It's not a bad thing. It is a neutral thing.
These words resonated, but they helped me understand that a woman is more than her autism, and the one I left was certainly just keeping me around to boost herself, and I'm that context I couldn't love myself. Love yourself first, everything else will fall into place
this was normal back then when this platform was beginning in 2000s if u think this sht is new that's probably cuz u are 15yo or something. This video is a little bit weird tho but looking at the other videos in his channel I think that is scripted like almost everything that is uploaded on social media right now, its fake.
@@Diabolikka and?? even if it's 2024 if you are old enough to know that happened in the past u can just take as normal to see someone venting in social media, even if it's not the norm now, and it's not something bad because everything here is so fake that I appreciate hearing some venting even if it's problematic as fuck cuz it's easy for the viewers to take action if the person is doing some bad things (like counseling, cancel, discuss about thing that need to be discuss or even stop someone to do ilegal sht o report).
Dude, respectfully you need to leave her alone. 2 YEARS is an insane amount of time to try to contact someone who doesn’t wanna speak to you and trying to contact their parents is creepy. Let her go
As another autistic person all I have to say is that sometimes a love you long for is sometimes not plausible life is just like that had a similar pase experience back in the day but I want you to think look at your channel and think about what you said in this video you are someone someone that needs to heal taking a step back might be the best option appreciating from a distance they'll be fine and that'll make the love sick happy
man i miss my autistic girl too. i think it was all fake at the end but there was something about her that i haven't found in any other girl, i don't know if we were to reconnect and talk to each other again she would still like me because i think i have changed so much, but i can assure you i would be so much more happy if i had what we had again. she was like the female version of me
@@BlackpilledSaihara you just observed… that autistic women… are also bpd… do you know what those terms mean? 😧 like do you have any kind of background in psychology? whatsoever?
Autistic woman here. This gives me hope. And I can vouch that I value someone who understands me and appreciates me for who I am rather than how they look. My friend from a social group is a year older than me and is engaged to a nice man… that’s honestly isn’t too good looking yet he’s very understanding and calmly goes along with whatever she says. They’re good together and I’m gonna be her bridesmaid next summer. And for that shift, listen bro, I know it’s hard without her but you are something without her. It’s hard to move on, but we can’t let our lives dictate a moment in time. I lost my father and my former dog this year alone. trust me it’s easier said than done but I know it’s not healthy to stay in the past. I hope you find happiness in the future.
Trust me i get what you're feeling where when somethings special (even moreso when you are both autistic and have that same world perception) with someone it feels like its a story that can never be repeated and a story that cannot progress without them, but my man if things ended, nothings to say you cant start a new game a new journey, there will always always be someone you can connect with again and feel that same bond.
Damn bro, what did you do to Britney? Ngl sounds like something major, we autistic girls usually have the patience of steel with people we like, so you must have messed up real bad my dude
I wish I could hug you, dude. Only if you want one, obviously, and by no means do I think that it could make losing contact with someone like that okay, but I still wish that i could
Nothing could have prepared me for that shift
fr that last part f*cked me up bro
Its Britney bitch 😂
Unironically, this video gives me hope as an autistic girl. I normally get worried because I’m often told that im too much or too weird for people. Seeing other autistic girls being wanted like this really does give me a new perspective on my own brain and how people will perceive that, thank you.
Autistic man here, I feel you.
I really struggle with the idea that I might look like a loser or an unfun person to be around if I talk too much about my personal interests.
I think all autistic people just want to date someone who understand them. I'll take anyone that just gets me, man or woman.
@@elfrangofritoreal honestly, I too have no preference when it comes to man or woman either, just someone who is kind and understanding of me.
Other autistic girl speaking. I have been told the exact same in the past and it seems that it is a common occurrence and theme with us. The repeated awful treatment from those around us will forever shape us, but this video also gives me hope😔😔
@@KiidClawz you’re welcome
Imo, people NEED to have a hyper-fixation. Like wtf we supposed to talk about and do otherwise?
This video took an unexpected and deep turn
Nah, dude just has a “oneitis” and needs to get over it😂
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Yeah, definitely
@@臣広-q5t this is so true lol. If you mess up, it's rare that it ever goes back to normal
I think Britney might be avoiding contact on purpose, and that should be respected. While it might hurt, it’s hurting her worse to have to hear this and be tormented by her own internal thoughts and guilt. Coming from an autistic woman, this kind of thing is a tad bit scary. You, I promise, Are more than your relationship with her. She is also her own person and needs to be respected. Finding someone who values and wants to be with you is vastly healthier and more important than chasing the idea of a relationship you thought was healthy.
And autistic people tend to be emotionally unavailable alot so it's just better to find a person who can understand your wants and needs.
@ it’s not just that we are emotionally unavailable, we just experience the world differently and that can be hard to articulate and may come off as being emotionally cold or indifferent. It’s a struggle, that’s for sure, but I can assure you the vast majority of us crave emotional intimacy, it’s just hard to connect most of the time.
@@Traveleronthelamb i dont think “emotionally unavailable” is the right term, as the first reply said
He’s a fucking stalker, I’m glad somebody caught that just like I did because what the actual fuck is wrong with men !!!!!
like I really hope that second half was just a bit because-
Nga hit me with like comment and subscribe like he ain’t just drop mad lore 😭
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@@martaleszkiewicz5115 he forged it on his anvil
@@cas.made.it.that big ass emoji
coming from an autistic person, those were some keen observations on autism and i could tell you understand how, generally speaking, we perceive the world. you must have really loved her to understand that much.
that being said the solution is not to keep chasing when it sounds like she would have let you back in a long time ago if she wanted to. it’s possible i don’t have enough context to make a judgement but contacting her parents to get to her is bordering creepy behavior. and if you really love her you don’t want to give her that burden.
you ARE something without her, even if that doesn’t exist yet, you will build it. you are worth more than being just a person in someone else’s life. go to therapy.
This is good advice imo, well written comment and damn true.
echoing this. literally could not have said it better myself
Best comment, because with situations like this women are often villainized for not forgiving, and as difficult as it is on the receiving side (trust I know I have anxious attachment style lol) she’s hard to reach because she doesn’t want to be, she’s setting a difficult boundary. But this was such a thoughtful gesture, I hope one day to be loved like this despite context
thank you for saying my thoughts word for word and bar for bar
honestly as an autistic girl i was very flattered. and then very sad because that got HEAVY.
I’m an autistic woman! :D
But I want to say that what you said near the end isn’t true. You are not ‘nothing’ without her. She didn’t complete you. You were already whole to begin with.
And if you don’t feel that you are whole right now, make yourself feel whole! Take care of yourself and love yourself, even when it’s not easy. Do the things in life that make you feel fulfilled. Find the things that make you happy in the long term. If you have people around you, contact them. Build hobbies. Do what brings you joy.
And I know this might hurt to hear, but that means letting go, too. Don’t look for ways to move on with other women, and definitely don’t look for ways to get back with her. Fulfilment comes from yourself, not anybody else. I truly believe knowing how to be happy while single is necessary to being happy in a relationship.
I really hope you find that happiness :)
Peace and prosperity for one autism haver to another
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THIS. Exactly 💯
Girl, don't circlejerk him, he clearly did my girl Britney dirty and you coddle him. Let him be a man and take responsibility for what he's done.
I dont see enough ppl telling him to leave brittney alone. If you have to try to find her through her parents YOU NEED TO STOP. She does not want to talk to you. Im neurodivergent and theres this one guy I used to date that i can only avoid 5 /7 days and every time he sees hes trying to talk to me and/or get back together HES GOING OUT OF HIS WAY TO FIND ME .THAT. IS. CREEPY.
If i wanted to talk to him I would have a long time ago. Theres a reason she wont talk to him.😠
this is a subtle nod to the conversations i have with myself at night
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Man that second half better be a joke shit is terrifying if true
literally thats stalker behavior CONTACTING THEIR PARENTS?????
@@sospup wdym? If they were dating its normal to also have contact with their parents. We do not know every detail of their story...
This was sweet until you dropped two years bro. She’s gone, and continuing to pine and reach out after this long is scary. I’m autistic and I had an ex pull this for seven years; made me feel like he saw me as an object more than anything else he could have said or done. Autistic women are dope, but we’re not emotionless trophies you can earn, fumble, and earn back
"like comment subs-" BRO YOU NEARLY GOT ME CRYING WHAT THE HELL
This setting is so much better than the tub
Nah the tub is fire
My partner has autism and suspects I have it too on some level. We met on a Simpsons Forum in 2014, she came all the way from Canada to visit me in Northern Ireland while I was still at Uni in May of 2015 (Which is where we officially count from as the beginning of our relationship as a couple and not just friends). We did the long distance thing for the better part of a decade with very sporadic visits back and forth when money would allow for it. I finally moved to Canada near the end of June this year, and we got married on the 29th of September. I consider myself the luckiest bastard on the planet for having someone as amazing as her that stuck by me all those years.
Wishing you the best of luck, Diki.
Damn I should go on Simpsons forums more often.
Also congrats bro
@@YehudiNimol don't blow up the spot
i’m not hatin but meeting on a simpson forum is crazy lmao
@@YehudiNimolwrd
>We met on a Simpsons Forum in 2014
Yeah you have it.
Damn i hope the end is some kinda of weird joke i don't get. But 2 years of attempting contact is just being scary. You gotta forgive yourself for fucking it up and stop living in the past it's not healthy for anyone. If you can't do it by yourself please seek therapy
I was laughing cause it was funny at first but then we got crazy lore outta nowhere 😭🙏 hope you find whoever or whatever your after bro
DAMN i hope you find peace bro, people come and go and it sucks but don’t let that stop you from making new connections. like think of it this way, spiderman is great but if you actively looked for a “spiderman” in every other franchise you consumed you wouldn’t have enjoyed demon slayer. or i thinking of tyler’s albums, if you started listening to flower boy hoping it would sound like goblin you wouldn’t have been able to actually listen and enjoy,,, you will never find someone who is the same as another person, just like you aren’t the same as another person, hell you’re probably not even the same you you were 2 years ago, so let go bro. let go, and enjoy the new types of people you can meet and will meet without putting them through a filter hoping to feel the same emotions nd see the same person because even she is probably not the person she was before. do it for you, for her, and for every other girl you will hurt if you don’t let go
Your comment needs to be pinned❤
Straight up
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yhis is such a good perspective on life
Feel like I just heard something I wasn’t supposed to hear, my skins crawling, best luck to you, and even more luck to Brittany
Real niggas know this a reupload
damn i was not tripping
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Got to the end of the vid nd shed a tear this nigga is so real
Youre not a nigga commenting this 😂 how come you can say nigga but i cant say cracker? Make it make sense
@@chayo4537CAUGHT HIM
Im gonna be thinking about that Britney part all day🚶🏾♀️
Can't even cap, I been afraid to say it but Neurodivergent women really got that shit On
why would you Be afraid
idk if i laugh or cry
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I did not expect that plot twist wth. Hope things get better man
3:48 Pull back my guy! You overstepping
Eh,pretty standard to tell ppl to like comment and subscribe
He was oversharing more before that but it hit hard
The joke u explained at the start is my EXACT humour lmao
My brother is autistic. He thinks saying things or people are dying is the funniest shit ever. A character will get hurt in a video game and he'll say that it died and burst out laughing like he just told the funniest joke of his life. I genuinely wonder if he's on a different plain of reality sometimes
He is, we are living in our own reality with certain commonalities.
as an autistic person myself, that 1st half rly hit deep. however that 2nd half. i can understand feelin like someone completes u n all. but if she dont want nothin to do w u then u gotta move on. it might feel like u can but u gotta dude, its not healthy to keep obsessin over someone whos not interested in u. ive been in a similar situation in which i was worried when i friend in a dangerois situation siddenly stopped txtin me and blocked me. i left it be until i realized we were in a forgotten gc together still and messaged them to see if they were ok, in which they said that they wanted nothin to do w me and told me i was toxic for likin anime(in this case specifically BNHA, which they also liked too) and then left w out sayin good bye. i feel like itd be a similar situation w u, where if u somehow manage to get into contact w her she'd break ur heart and then leave. its best to grieve, and move on
LMFAOO wtf was that second half LMAOOO this man a genius
LOL
He tryna go viral for Brittany
I have been through girl, after girl, after girl and none of them are like you.
Maybe actually go into what you did instead and maybe you should've treated her well in the moment instead of just going "I want that experience back" essentially. That is a whole thinking feeling person that you obviously hurt. If she wanted you back in her life she probably would've shown that by now. Can you apologise instead of expecting anything more? Instead of expecting even forgiveness? Sometimes you have to digest the consequences and move on. I also think that while its good to appreciate the positives of autism, it feels to me that its somewhat being romanticised and projected because you are seeking what you found in one individual. I dont recommend doing that. I don't recommend seeking somebody in somebody else overall because it is bad for both parties. I do think you should talk about all this with a therapist.
This reads on paper like a crime lol
1:33 as an neurodivergent girl, I will have to say there’s an exception for that: autistic girls who specifically want to live with a prince/fancy guy who can buy them frilly clothes and nice tea.
Hey bestie! Maybe leave Britney alone. As a fellow autistic person, I'd be freaked the fuck out if someone suddenly made a video on autism in hopes I'd watch it just to confess their undying love for me after I'd presumably either rejected them or the friendship fell apart. I'd also be really creeped out if someone tried going through my parents just to talk to me, and I'd also be freaked out if I'd presumably been avoiding someone for over two years and they haven't left me alone. That is creepy, stalker-ish behavior, not romantic. Please leave Britney alone.
EDIT: After looking further into the channel, I think, I _hope_ this is satire. Still, the amount of people calling it "romantic" or "inspiring" is really disturbing. Repeatedly trying to contact someone who has actively been avoiding speaking to you for over TWO YEARS is creepy as shit, and trying to go through THEIR PARENTS just to talk to them is beyond crossing a line, that is flat-out stalker behavior. I pray that those who think it's romantic will realize just how fucking creepy shit like this is.
this might be one of the funniest videos I've seen in a long time
💀💀💀
most if not all my friends are neurodivergent, kinda epic
I know some people who have SLD or a little cognitive delay
same ;)
On sum real shit.. good luck bro
Let go of the girl man, you’re being creepy if after two she didn’t contact you that means you need to move on, otherwise someone should keep an eye on you tf?? Move. On.
YES.
This^^
It made me feel better to hear I'm not alone in going through something like this but I agree he needs to get busy with something also just so you know I don't think telling someone to " move on" necessarily shakes them out of how they're feeling... It's a type of grief, so appropriate behavior permitting ofc, being sympathetic is more likely to help someone grow wise and make peace with and acknowledge and move through and in their feelings rather than just telling them to "move on " we're all human, yk?
Yea as an ND person with massive waves of social burnout,,, i've disappeared socially (gc's, most dms, some calls, etc) for weeks to months at a time.
Luckily my friends understand I just need space. But several people also feel like if they try enough they'll "get through to me" which just stresses me out big time because i genuinely dont have it in me to give people the quality of attention I feel they deserve. Even if their breakup/falling out wasnt bad(assuming it wasnt a joke) just let her be. No one knows her train of thought except her
He needs to become his own person (which is easier said, ik) and let her be. Eventually find that same kind of love for himself.
Take a break from dating because rn all hes doing (subconsciously) is a casting audition to fill her role
Keep playing! When Brittani’s album drops this gonna be the interlude
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I can’t fuckin beathe
That autistic rizz hit different
gl man, that talk felt real genuine so ik she lucky to have someone caring like u
“Caring”? Didn’t he just admit to fumbling her 😭
@@wonderofu230 yea I think he did, but he trying to fix it❤️
This is making me feel hopeful and like crying, thank you
I... can't tell if the last part is an act or for real.
I'm also autistic!
im a Neurodivergent woman, i appreciate this so much oh my days THANK YOU for giving me hope for ever finding a romantic partner ! Im pretty insecure about my neurodivergency and i appreciate this :3
I can relate heavily to this feleing too, as an autistic man!
I feel like I can relate soo much easier to the experiences autistic women have! It's always been much smoother of a conversation with an autistic vs NT woman in my experience, just easier to connect.
much love to you from us autistic girls
Although I love the premise of this video of how it’s accepting towards autistic people like myself, it gives off the vibe of putting people with autism in a box again. Although I get that this is supposed to be a positive video, I just get a weird vibe from it. It’s like those guys on RUclips who try to say what all women are like when you can’t really speak for all women because you can’t be and never will be all women. It’s the same with women with autism: this video only really refers to one specific girl with autism.
Let me give you an example of myself: I’ve been officially diagnosed with autism, but I’m someone who is honestly kind of picky when it comes to looks. I won’t just date any random Joe Smoe off the street, you know? And I’m not even that conventionally attractive myself it’s just that, for some reason, I’m just really picky when it comes to it and find imperfections easily. Then again, I think some of this has to do with my own commitment issues.
This video was right about me when it comes to the fact that sometimes I’ll say things very bluntly and people will find it funny, but that may not be the case for all autistic people.
To the person who made this video: I feel like, sadly, you need to move on for your own sake. There’s other fish in the sea, and although I get your pain, I just feel like you’re going to hurt yourself through trying time and time again to contact someone when it’s really not getting you anywhere. I say detach and give it up for now and focus on yourself, and if she’s meant to come back, then she will. If not, then you’ll find another girl to be with who’ll treat you well, and you deserve it :)
These titles outta pocket bro 😭😭😭
I wish you the same too and thank you ❤
The last part woah..
I feel like i shouldn’t be watching this 😳 bro wtf
rooting for u n brittany !!
damn that torso square🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦
I just want love. Most of my friends hate me and the rest don’t talk to me so I don’t know. The first girl I dated was incredible but she had issues and made me feel horrible. The second one stayed for a couple of days and then left. In between those two have just been failures.
I feel detached for all of my peers. I feel detached from most things in life and almost everything reminds me of that. Every feeling I have, every second of small talk, every mixed signal and every one sided emotion reminds me that this world is not made for people like me. I love those who I hope love me. I love those I know now hate me and those who just don’t care. The love I feel takes away more than it gives.
I feel you on some type of level and I know this might be a little tough to answer but why do some of your friends hate you?
@@theguy7710 Thank you for understanding and it’s not too tough to answer. They started ignoring me. They never talk to me. They walked away from me so I left them but one day I wanted to go back. I started hanging out with them again and before I left, we had made some plans to hang out on Halloween. I asked if I was still allowed to hang out on Halloween and yeah.
Turn gay or smt idk
Some things are meant to end. Love yourself first and foremost
i think if they dont wanna talk to u u jus gotta let them be my guy, im sorry for ur loss
Oh...Now I wanna cry
please never take this down bc these words resonated
I love myself too
You’re awesome for this video 🩷
I was with you until you said you're nothing without her. If her family isn't talking to you either, she probably has a good reason. You can't move on from someone if everything you do to get over them is also used to prove you've changed.
You can't move on if you want what was in the past MORE than you want to see a future without being stuck tied to her.
You don't need to live your whole life in comparison to that time. Your mind might say you dont deserve to move on and live better and free, but you do.
Practice thinking about that experience as the past rather than something you're currently still losing, because if you do that, eventually your brain will come to terms with it. It's not a bad thing. It is a neutral thing.
I recently got left due to being called too difficult for my mental health/situation this is comforting to see
"in every girl that i see, i'll look for you" damn man 😭😭
These words resonated, but they helped me understand that a woman is more than her autism, and the one I left was certainly just keeping me around to boost herself, and I'm that context I couldn't love myself.
Love yourself first, everything else will fall into place
Man... Please tell me she saw this and maybe, just hopefully, she got in contact with you. My heart goes out to you.
Damn this a sad ending bro.
i feel like the 'because they died' in a neutral tone was not her intention lolz,, sometimes its hard to say something in the right tone 😞
thanks bro I appreciate it
This man sees the truth I see.
i hope he feels this way about me
Ong tho
This was a beautiful video. May you two connect back again. ❤️🩹
I can’t believe you actually posted this video on a public platform
this was normal back then when this platform was beginning in 2000s if u think this sht is new that's probably cuz u are 15yo or something. This video is a little bit weird tho but looking at the other videos in his channel I think that is scripted like almost everything that is uploaded on social media right now, its fake.
@ notice how the year is 2024? Notice how this MIGHT have been okay almost 25 years ago? And I’m not 15 I’m almost 25, roughly the same age as him 😐😐😐
@ and its definitely not fake my guy, the way men having been crashing out over women ??? Yeah okay
@@Diabolikka and?? even if it's 2024 if you are old enough to know that happened in the past u can just take as normal to see someone venting in social media, even if it's not the norm now, and it's not something bad because everything here is so fake that I appreciate hearing some venting even if it's problematic as fuck cuz it's easy for the viewers to take action if the person is doing some bad things (like counseling, cancel, discuss about thing that need to be discuss or even stop someone to do ilegal sht o report).
@ girl…idk why you’re trying to justify this shit as if it’s okay ??? I reallllly hope you don’t have sisters or any daughters
“We love you too!”
We all say in unison
bro i started playing a roblox game with sad music and it fitted extremely well
God speed brother
Nothing beats a dash of the 'tism✨ :)
(Spoken from a sunny wacky non-binary autistic person)
Hope you find your love! And keep spreading it! 💛
I hope she sees this! ❤ Very sweet 😊
Dude, respectfully you need to leave her alone. 2 YEARS is an insane amount of time to try to contact someone who doesn’t wanna speak to you and trying to contact their parents is creepy. Let her go
squishmallows, flower boy poster, demon slayer poster, septum piercing, spiderman shirt
this man has immaculate taste
This the energy I need
As another autistic person all I have to say is that sometimes a love you long for is sometimes not plausible life is just like that had a similar pase experience back in the day but I want you to think look at your channel and think about what you said in this video you are someone someone that needs to heal taking a step back might be the best option appreciating from a distance they'll be fine and that'll make the love sick happy
I’m not crying my eyelashes are just taking a shower rn
I’m an autistic woman and all of my exes have begged for me back. Once you got one of us, cherish it
man i miss my autistic girl too. i think it was all fake at the end but there was something about her that i haven't found in any other girl, i don't know if we were to reconnect and talk to each other again she would still like me because i think i have changed so much, but i can assure you i would be so much more happy if i had what we had again. she was like the female version of me
Girls NEVER think the same about ND men it's over
She just mirrored you like a fool
I think you have a misogynistic bias towards autistic women despite you having autism @@BlackpilledSaihara
@@Belisonte-dl4gd I don't have autism, just observed that autistic women are also BPD
@@BlackpilledSaihara you just observed… that autistic women… are also bpd…
do you know what those terms mean? 😧 like do you have any kind of background in psychology? whatsoever?
4 minute 15 second manic pixie dream girl movie
Autistic woman here. This gives me hope. And I can vouch that I value someone who understands me and appreciates me for who I am rather than how they look.
My friend from a social group is a year older than me and is engaged to a nice man… that’s honestly isn’t too good looking yet he’s very understanding and calmly goes along with whatever she says. They’re good together and I’m gonna be her bridesmaid next summer.
And for that shift, listen bro, I know it’s hard without her but you are something without her. It’s hard to move on, but we can’t let our lives dictate a moment in time. I lost my father and my former dog this year alone. trust me it’s easier said than done but I know it’s not healthy to stay in the past.
I hope you find happiness in the future.
2:18 Damn… really felt that shit
ngl i almost cried at the end
IDK how I feel with that turn but this got me feeling something. Love is a difficult thing. We all eventually get there to moving on. Maybe. IDK. 😭
This is so real man, I hope you're able to find that reconciliation soon. Take care
I don’t have anything to say as an autistic girl but I noticed you have Tyler, The Creator in the background
Trust me i get what you're feeling where when somethings special (even moreso when you are both autistic and have that same world perception) with someone it feels like its a story that can never be repeated and a story that cannot progress without them, but my man if things ended, nothings to say you cant start a new game a new journey, there will always always be someone you can connect with again and feel that same bond.
Damn bro, what did you do to Britney? Ngl sounds like something major, we autistic girls usually have the patience of steel with people we like, so you must have messed up real bad my dude
i aint gonna watch this rn im just gonna like and subscribe cuz i like ur vibe
I wish I could hug you, dude. Only if you want one, obviously, and by no means do I think that it could make losing contact with someone like that okay, but I still wish that i could
thank you hehe i’m flattered and proud to be the 444th comment ❤❤❤
Keep running into this guy.
Last part real asf
Brother, I'm not even an autistic woman. The frick is this doing in my recommended?