Dan + Shay - How Not To (Official Music Video)
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- Опубликовано: 15 янв 2017
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Hey friends! Be here to chat in a sec. Gotta post the video on Instagram! Hope y'all are digging it so far!
DanAndShay of course we are so amazing like seriously in love with this love you guys thank you❤️😍😩
DanAndShay this video is so good!!! I'm so proud of you boys!!!💛
DanAndShay Im in love with the message it sends!!
DanAndShay You guys are amazing
DanAndShay of course we're diggin it!😍 it is amazing!
Country songs really hit different when you’re heartbroken
Hahaha yes! I usually refuse to listen to country music, however, this heartbreak feels better listening to country 😅
It does💕💕
Yes!
Facts
Yup......
Drinking a beer while watching this. Idk how to stop
Me too 😢😢
Getting sober from heavy drug use for 10 years hardest thing I've ever done
Katu Walley but you did it ♥️
2 years ago I fell in love with an alcoholic and took on his lifestyle of alcoholism 3 days ago he cheated on me 3 days ago I left him and flew home 8 hours away 3 days ago I took a pledge of sobriety 3 days ago was the first time I heard this song it's been 3 days since my last drink and I can definitely say I'm proud of myself and this really hits deep...
sengler17 How are you doing now?
How are you doing?
I left my addict boyfriend a week ago. A week ago I found this video. Its been rough.
You are now doing what is best for you! You'll find love again; this time for the better! That takes so much courage. I truly wish you all the best
😭😭😭❤️
thank u . both for this song.. my mom, bless her. she's been sober for 17 years. She is gone now. been one year.
Sorry for your loss Melissa. Xo.
DanAndShay , oh my. wow.. im talking to u both. Ty
Gid Bless u both. for this song. there's alot if people out there fighting their battle. beautiful song
Thank u
I am SO sorry for your loss Melissa. May your Mom rest in peace and may you find comfort knowing that her struggle and pain is gone. Take care and God bless!!
Ty, Naomi
After my husband lost his mother, he did not know how to handle her death(1998), so he turned to drinking trying to deal with it. He said that it helped to make him forget for a while. It just got worse. Finally, I told him he had to make a choice, drinking or me and our children. He said there was no choice, me and our children. He stopped drinking in 2009. He died unexpectedly in 2016. I have thought many times in the past 11 months that if it could help ease my pain, why not. But that would make me a hypocrite to do what I worked so hard at getting him to stop doing. Every once in a while I will drink a beer and that's it, one and no more. Just have to deal with the fact that LIFE SUCKS without my best friend/husband.
you broke my heart honey. I wish you all the best and good for you that you are not a hypocrite. Life is so merciless sometimes :(
I don't know you and I know you posted this like a year ago but I sincerely hope that you are doing well!!! I wish you ALL the best!!!
370 days sober and everyday is worth it. My relationship with Jesus is EVERYTHING.
I truly hope you are doing well!
Sometimes it takes two broken souls to come together to build a wonderful life :)
Rob Heckman true! w God's guidance it can be done
You would think so me and my ex lost our precious 22 year old son in a fatal car accident and it brought us back together after 20 years of divorce but he treated me so horrible so now I'm alone with nothing. But I still have God
@@l.christinejones8164 Amen.
@@pamelamason4334 I'm so very sorry, God will always be with you to love and comfort you. Sending you a hug and saying a prayer for you wherever you are in this world ❤
True but it can also be a disaster
This song sounds like Rascal Flatts, or is it just me that thinks that?
Scott H i also thought it's RF 😁
I was just wondering who else thought that
That's what I thought the first time I heard "From The Ground Up" by Dan & Shay.
Scott H Yeah they both sound similar..
you're not alone.
It's been 3 years since we broke up and I'm still healing
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It’s ok, you will get over that guy one day, I don’t know your situation but I know you’re going to be ok
I just realized why my dad listens to this song, it’s about my mum
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I hope your mom’s better
Yall please pray for my mom. Currently I don't live with her but my brother does. She's not healthy right now. Her and my Step dad is always arguing and my mom turns to alcohol. Just please pray for her to get healthy. God bless you all!!
sammie akridge
I hope your mom is okay
I'm praying for you friend! God has a plan for your life. Don't let family distract you from it. Lean on Christ and ask Him for His will to be done in your life. He loves you so much!
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Sammie Akridge may God shine on you! You deserve all the happiness in the world. I hope that all your dreams come true! God Bless!!!!
I'm so glad there's still country artist that aren't afraid to make real music and be bold. Something that can touch someone and help them instead of going to bars and parties. Love this song and these artists!
Shout out to every one going through something that it feels like no one understands.
dan and shay: sings "how not to"
me: hears "HOW NATU"
NATU???
I can relate so much to this video. My dad is 7 years sober tomorrow.
Congrats to him! Xo.
Congrats :) best of luck in the future
congrats, 6 years and my dad is still battling to be sober. It's a hard thing to watch it take control of someone the way it does. How much harder is it for them....Keep on fighting the battle everyone.
Your dad is a CHAMPION !!!!!!! :D
God bless you
I got 46 days clean and this hit home. I have been listening to it over and over while crying. lol
Cori Howell: Congratulations!!
Cori Howell good job!! It'll be okay
Cori Howell I'm four days clean and that's hard as hell for me. I can't tell you how proud I am of you. I hope I can make it that long. Addiction is a hard thing and it hits everyone in some way.
Hey you don’t know me, but I believe in you. :)
I believe in you. You can. 😊
Listen to this song while I’m trying to open a bottle of jack Daniels, thinking wat will happen
This song hits different to me. Lmao 😭
And I thought it was Rascal Flatts this entire time! !
Me too
+Michelle D that's what I thought too
Amandaa Vg same here, i was trying to search it and finally shazamed it and was like "whoa"
same here
Also thought this is Gary singing from rascal first time I heard it.
Noami and Ely's no kiss list anyone?? Amazing video and song :)
yessss! I love that film!
Kate Gaffey omg yes!
Kate Gaffey I love that movie! He was also in The Assault👌🏾
I was trying to place where I've seen this guy xD
He is also on the Bold and the Beautiful.
The yelling and screaming sounds like the people who live upstairs
12 years sober
I love how the phrase "How not to think about you when it's late at night and quiet" not only refers to their feelings towards each other but also the addiction towards alcohol. It created a powerful message
DanAndShay
I TOTALLY agree with you Elizabeth!! It's good to know someone else can see it the way I do.
Naomi I thought I was the only one!
Elizabeth Napier .
I didn't catch that, but now that you mention it, I see it.
This is great. Thank you
Freya de Tonnancour sober saturday night is about sobriety, too!!!
:)
yes!, isn't it a miracle. 😲
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3 months sober!!!
If you're drunk listening to this...you matter.
Wish I could believe that
Whoever Noah is....he's gorgeous. Good God...
LAdwv7495 Actor Pierson Fodé
Hes pretty good looking...
@@aliyahsalomon48 Thank youuuuu hehehehehe
I've been sober now for 2 week's and this video is such an inspiration! I've always have loved this song! please make a video for lately!!! Best song ever.. Thank you so, so much DAN + Shay! 💖💯💖💯
Eric Eaker I applaud ur sobriety. one day at a time sometimes one moment at a time. May you find peace my friend in your sobriety. God bless.
i have 6/1/2 months sober and never felt better congrats dude its so worth it
Eric Eaker dry
Eric Eaker congrats on your 1 yr sobriety!!!!!
Eric I'm sure it's been a year for you now always remember two steps forward keep up the good work
0:57 me in every serious situation.
Those who are fighting to get sober just remember that you do have people that love you and will be your side through it. Sending love and prayers
good thing is. the lamp still works.
Billy Law Hahahs!!
Billy Law I was watching that like "I hope that thing doesn't catch on fire" 😂
im praying at some point ill be celebrating my mom being 1 year sober hopefully next dec/jan
Dan and Shay: How not to
Me: How not to what
I had someone tell me that I needed AA I was like I've already have car. insurance he said no THAT'S AAA I was like ole. 😂
😂😂😂😂🤣
I am a recovering alcoholic. I’ve been sober for over 2 years. What a gut wrenching video. So true to the life and path that we choose. I finally decided to change what the outcome of my life was going to be. I wanted something different from what my grandparents, my father and my uncles lives were and ended on. I decided to take control and ask for help from my loving Heavenly Father.
Congratulations!! Isn't it amazing the difference that God can make?? So proud of you! ❤
I just came here for Katie Stevens
Same.
DanAndShay But it is a cool video srsly.
I couldn't help it when the camera first showed her I went *gasp* "It's Karma!!" 😂
2021 babes were ya at
Imagine meeting the love of your life at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting though
“I don’t know how not to think about you when it’s late at night and crying” wow that hits hard
when the girl is yelling at the guy right before she breaks the lamp, isnt that the deaf guy from the tequila video?
ay yo. No one who drinks and smokes to the point of needin to be in AA is that ripped. haha
99% sure that's karma from faking it
Paola Cardenas it is! lol
Was wondering why she looked so familiar..
who else thought this was rascall flats when they first heard it?
I saw RF when they were opening for Toby Keith in 2003, the day after I went out and bought every album they had, loved them ever since.
When I watch this video I just see how angry alcohol made me, and can make someone.
I got the picture of my mom and dad doing this and now I am crying 😢.
The beginning reminded me of The Fault In Our Stars where they sit in the heart of jesus.
Rt 7 haha right
Rt 7 with the guy and testicular cancer and depression is a side affect of dying
The “literal” heart of Jesus.
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Shit up cringe
This was honestly the best music video Ive ever seen. I never would have thought to incorporate alcoholism into this song, but now I see how well it fits. The taking scenes also fit in so well with the music. Seriously such a good video!
The best music video you have ever seen really, its was good but not great
@@matthewrinderle1846 to you it wasn’t “great” but to someone else it just might be, so suck a dick.
This video is a buzzkill while I'm watching vids while drunk. xd
is it me or breakup country music is the best lol make you wanna break up with your girl just to make up
Watching this and concentrating on the lyrics brought back some VERY painful memories. If you've lost someone you love due to complications of alcoholism, this will affect you like it did me...
In 1975 the first love of my life and I split up after being together for four years, then thirty one years later we reconnected. Throughout that time he ended up in Utah and I in Pennsylvania. We both moved back to Montana in 2006 where we were originally from and started a new relationship picking up where we left off. With all the time that had passed, we never stopped thinking about each other nor did our love die. With that reconnection I knew he drank, but not as heavily as what he did. I adjusted to his addiction/disease and loved him for who "he" was. It was a difficult walk to follow and yes I'll be honest, there were times I felt I needed to walk away. The love I had for him was SO strong that I just couldn't and wasn't going to do it!! Thank God there was no violence whatsoever like this video shows...it was the pain of watching him slowly destroy and kill himself knowing there was nothing I could do that hurt so deeply. The demon ( which he called alcohol) controlled him he couldn't control it. I walked every painful step of the way with him doing what I could to help fight that Demon...We were together for two and a half years, married for one year and six days when he left me. His heart could no longer withstand the damage alcohol was doing to it and passed from a massive heart attack. God took him home to Heaven on March 31, 2009 freeing him from the pain and agony he was in. As for me...I'm doing the best I can to live without him and taking one day at a time as it comes to me.
That is a very powerful story. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what it's like to want to help someone that doesn't want help. That feeling of helplessness... I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Awwww
4 years ago and this video is still sending chills down my spine
Same
I am 32 days sober. This song definitely has a deeper meaning to me.
Not just alcohol .... This hurts 😞
Did anyone else think while watching this video think, "well did they work it out," "how are they doing now," "what's the future like for them?" I feel invested in their lives now.
Sara Wolpert cv
Ok so im not the only one. Video 2? Lol. I swear some of these music videos are so great they should be long movies.
KATIIIIIE
spashleyormalex great actress and great singer. She's amazing in this video.
spashleyormalex ahh what is she in? I can't think for the life of me what she's in!
She was in that tv series Faking it.
who is it? I recognized her
spashleyormalex omg sanvers tho
Am I the only one who thinks this should be a movie????
I played this song when I was on my way to my first AA meeting. Alcoholism is my biggest enemy and hope to come out sober.
sage wimsett I’m working on it as well. Drinking is a bitch.
Literally this is my life atm... just got over liver failure to. Kidneys, jaundice, yellow eyes and finger nails. Swollen legs and hands !! Pancreatitis to! I was 23! I’m only 24 now... still not where I need to be but man this hits home
Wish I could stop thinking of you. Quit sleeping at night because of the quietness. Song is amazing.
Stop cutting the onions, people 😭
Lmao nothing like a good 13th step 😂
so not what I was expecting but SOOOO GOOD!
Tried to push the envelope!
YOU DID THIS SO WELL IM JUST IN LOVE WITH IT!!!!! Sorry for fangirling again... I just I love you guys and this was so well done
DanAndShay I cry almost Every time I hear the how not to and from the ground up I love u guys and my aunt at her wedding danced at this song and I cried I love all of ur songs they are amazing like u
it was your hungry puss that clicked when you saw the thumbnail aint it
Sometimes it takes two people to show what life Has to offers.
THAT'S RIGHT, DANIEL
I just don't know how not to stop listening to this song but I know I ought to be the one who is strong and just moves on
I thought it was funny...
my name is joe momma,i have been adicted to r/dankmemes for 6 months now
Daw!!! This is beautiful! Gave me goosebumps when they walked into their 1 year sober party together :)
1-24-19 1 year sober.
10 people don't know how not to appreciate good music
My mom barely let's me eat candy's in the morning and this lady is drinks alcohol as her daily coffe
It took me just now to realize that this video was uploaded on my 19th birthday six years ago. But regardless, I still love this song back then and now.
Alcohol Addiction is one of the worst diseases to die from..lost my brother 2 years ago. It was painful watching him go in and out of coma in his last days of his life...prayers to all the people trying to quit drinking...🙏
Ive been trying to quit for a long time
@@joshh7663 You get one, precious life. Don’t let alcohol steal any more moments. Quitting is worth it and life is beautiful. Here, take my hand, sobriety is the first step to self-love.
Dan + Shay are the new equivalent to Rascal Flatts?
I listen to this song roughly once per week knowing that I need to get help but to ashamed and afraid to find it.
I fell in love with an alcoholic he beat me only when his son was asleep he left me for someone else when I went to jail for 10 days because of something he did. To this day it still hurts like hell but I'm slowly getting over it.
Who all got reminded of Eminem's "When I'm Gone" by this starting??
Love this So much
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This song came out and I sent it to my sister who this song fit so well and after 4 years she finally walked away from him
Good thing posting the ig of the actors... Hahaha😂
I absolutely loved it. I love how you incorporated the song into the alcoholism issue. What a beautiful video. I think this will be an absolute hit and will win a lot of awards! Love you guys!!
Thanks Jade! Proud of it. Ptracy created another masterpiece. Xo.
DanAndShay he always ALWAYS does. Much love!
DanAndShay yall are amazing keep going
+Xtera Atkins j
When they walked in the door together I lost it and started bawling my eyes out
Thanks for a great song 🎶 Dan and Shay💕 The most significant love of my life is a recovered alcoholic. I always dreamed one day he would be the guy in the AA meeting, and we’d have our happy ever after. I don’t remember the terrifying times as much now. I remember the good times. He’s got a Shack Up Susie now. She didn’t like that the last time I called, we talked for three hours. We each tried to hang up several times. Then he’d say: But wait, one more thing…
I’m not allowed to have his new number. I have to write if I need him. It’s hard to let go. Abusive men are most dangerous when you try to leave. I know I’m lucky to be alive. And I’m glad he’s not drinking now. Anyway, great song💗 Love y’all💟
everytime I fancy a drink I make a shandy takes the craving away
Going through the same thing with me and my girlfriend right now. Our best friend died last august who was her boyfriend. We fell in love afterward and have slipped down the road of alcohol and are actively working on getting better together. Thank you for this inspirational song that I relate to right now. 2 more weeks and shes out of rehab
Hang in there it's going to be okay good days are coming ❤🤲💫
When I was in my second year of college, I met the love of my life. She was all I've ever dreamt of in a woman and more. We were together for nearly 2 years. We had a beautiful relationship. I can confidently say that the time we were together was the happiest we have both ever been in our entire lives.
She is such a beautiful person, inside and out. You can get lost in her eyes. She is hands down the most caring and generous person I have ever met. The way she cares for her parents and her sister. I could not name a single flaw with her even if I had a gun in my mouth. The way she always cared for me and planned to make sure that I would be ok. How madly in love she was with me.
She helped me to become a person that I never knew I could be. Helped me realize my full potential.
She was the only one I could ever be vulnerable around, the only one I confided in, the first person I went to whenever I had to make a decision in life. Even though I was only 20 years old. I was confident that I wanted to marry her. Our love was so strong. Yes, there were bumps along the road as this was our first serious relationship. However, I always told myself that no matter what happens, we would always work on it and always bounce back. Problems are inevitable in life and I believe that time does heal even the deepest of scars.
In October of 2020, I messed up big time. I will man up and own my mistakes. I started to lose focus and I did some things that I absolutely hate myself for. I will never forgive myself for the things I did.
It is now January 10th of 2020, and she had decided to end our relationship yesterday.
She stayed for nearly 3 months after. I did everything and more in order to prove I really was a changed person. I am 10 times better now than the version of me she first fell in love with.
Do you know how painful it is to hear "I don't want this to work anymore" from the person you want to marry, the person you love the most in life? to hear them say that them being around you makes them feel worthless?
I know people will say that I believe time heals, so that time can heal my broken heart. I can't help but wonder about all the things we could have done if I didn't mess it up. All the things I planned.
I had planned to graduate this summer and propose to her the same summer. She loved sunflowers, I planned to take her to a sunflower field in the summer and propose to her as I pretended to take a picture of her looking into the sunflowers.
We talked about our future, jobs, family, goals. We wanted to have 2 children. Zayn and Zara were names that we had in mind.
I threw that all away because I was selfish and pathetic.
We believed in soul mates. I still do, there is no doubt in my mind that she is the one for me.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to move on. I don't want to think of anyone else or look for anyone else. I can't accept it.
Losing the love of my life coupled with facing dismissal from my college program for a false accusation of cheating is a nice combo, isn't it?
I hate myself So much. So much guilt. I don't deserve to even be alive.
To you young guys with new relationships, stop letting your hormones control you, don't have wandering eyes. Loyalty and discipline are so admirable in relationships.
She always loved trying new things. After a few calls with her, found out that she was 18 and had never tried hot chocolate. So when I asked her to be my girlfriend, I used a cup of hot chocolate from Dunkin to write down my message for her.
I doubt she will ever find this comment. If she somehow does, keep drinking hot chocolate, please. I will always be in love with you honey.
Im sorry to hear that . I mean I hope you guys get back together that’s all I have to say. Well that and I hope for your happiness
@@kiloxoxo847 thank you very much. I’m hoping for that too.
That really was a great joke. So when I say lol, I truly mean it this time.
Am I the only one who thinks Dan and Shay sound just like Rascal Flatts
If this video doesn't win a ton of awards or at least get nominated for a ton this year and/or next, that'll be a shame. Fantastic job to all involved especially Katie, her on screen love interest, and to D&S!
This song is so raw for me. Been sober for 9 months and have lost the man I love because of the addiction. This song signifies not only the addiction but losing the love of my life.
3 days. I’ve been listening to this song and finally had the courage!
Love the song , love the video. I came from a relationship just like this. She left me for another drunk military man and had 2 kids with him. I see them here in town 10 years later and I am so happy she left.
Sounds like Rascal Flatts.
Yeah this definitely hits home probably too hard. Especially the parts where the guys are fist fighting. The physical stuff (not just with men hitting their women but also goes with siblings and parents, in laws) is soo true. You don't have to be an alcoholic yourself for this song to hit your nerves, just live with them as well.
I know of a friend thats struggling right now with drugs and i think he needs to see this video
I was in love with the song for a while. I found this video and now I'm more obsessed with the song, obsessed with the video, and obsessed with Pierson Fodé
Did anybody ask?
how can he be an alcoholic with thta kind of hot body, tell me boy how not to
It's not all about looks...
Mac Monroy I LOVE YOUR ICON PIC! PARAMORE FO LIFE
I can not express enough how much i feel from this. Im crying like a baby and watching this on repeat. Its all over now but i could go back and put the bottle down i would. I love this so much. It hurts but its healing at the same time.
I hear you! This is real! I loved it as well. I hope this finds you doing well.
Was a heroine addict for 4 1/2 years, almost died, got clean for a year and a half, then relapsed been 8 days clean as of today. Have this song on repeat its been a rough week.
I like how in their videos there is always a story to tell unlike most artists videos
Their videos are mini movies