Why Is My Ex Gaslighting Me?

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  • Опубликовано: 1 июн 2022
  • Why Is My Ex Gaslighting Me?
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    Why is your ex gaslighting you? Is it possible that you are just losing your mind and not remembering things correctly? Or are they actually lying about things and distorting the truth? For some reason, this is where things get a little bit tricky and complicated.
    Please watch through to the end, because we're going to be talking about why this happens. And we're also gonna be talking about what you can do about it as well.
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Комментарии • 45

  • @nephtalijimenez3005
    @nephtalijimenez3005 2 года назад +8

    Literally perfect timing. This was happening with me but I decided to just block her for the time being. Very unsure if I want her back in my life but that’s ok I would rather be alone and ok then keep running back to her when she’s still stuck on someone else. She’s very selfish rn and completely different then when we dated. She even told me that she feels like she did nothing wrong in the relationship. So I think this is what’s best for me.

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 2 года назад

      100% dump her

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

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    • @WishesandWonder
      @WishesandWonder Год назад +1

      This sounds exactly like my situation. My ex is extremely selfish now and only talks about herself. She also never apologized for me for blaming me for her health problems when she broke up with me.

  • @AbianahAlmeida
    @AbianahAlmeida Год назад +3

    My ex used me for sex then accused me of using him for sex even though he is terrible in bed 😬🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @user-mu7bc7vv1i
    @user-mu7bc7vv1i 7 месяцев назад

    Makes sense but why didnt i know Gaslighting even existed? So upset so confused because he Always has a Jekyl and Hyde personality but Why?

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 года назад +2

    Pay attention to what you think and feel when dealing with a gaslighter. As one sign of gaslighting, is when they try to feed you with doubt about your own self-worth.
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    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

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      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

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  • @Dreamgirl224
    @Dreamgirl224 2 года назад +2

    Hey clay can you make a video about Meeting the first love again after more than 10 years? Especially when I was the one who broke his heart? He agreed on Meeting up . So since I screwed up I dont know how to talk to him at all.....without overwhelming him. HELP ME PLS !!! 😭

    • @Dreamgirl224
      @Dreamgirl224 2 года назад

      @@jesintatumba3956 how ? what did he say ?? where can I look it up? :)

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

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  • @yungxave
    @yungxave 2 года назад +2

    Extremely perfect timing. She's trying to act like we broke up in April. Not true, we ended in December. No contact for 3 mo nths, then tried friendship and didn't work out. In april we parted ways as friends. She says that was the official breakup. Completely false

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
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  • @KtuluLeaderRise
    @KtuluLeaderRise 2 года назад +1

    What if you broke up with her because she disrespected you by hanging out with another guy alone after you told her you weren’t okay with it but then you tried to get back and she said she wanted to do it slowly because she needed space but still wanted to work it out, but we’re already having problems where i would break up with her and come back and she would say yes for the past 2 weeks but this time she said no to work things out then I became needy and chased her for like 2-3 weeks and also saying I was going to give her full space and coming back a day or two later. I just recently told her this again because she asked for boundaries and I’m 2 days into no contact. Is there any hope ? And is going no contact a good choice. We’re both 22 and been together 6 years

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

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    • @raydiaz2772
      @raydiaz2772 Год назад

      Leave king I've been there no woman is worth your mental health. My ex went out with ex on a movie date and lied to me it took her brother calling saying she went out with her ex while I was at dinner with my parents.

  • @galatac7451
    @galatac7451 2 года назад

    I need help I’m so lost and confused me and her broke up in December and I really don’t know why and she didn’t want to talk about it and I was just dumb founded I didn’t see it coming I had fear of it but I didn’t see it actually going to happen because at the time she was going cold and distant and quiet after the break up I did no contact for a month not on purpose but because I was so confused and depressed I didn’t know how to talk to her afterwards and I just wanted time to regroup myself I didn’t even know what no contact was at this time about a week later I did find out what no contact was and kept doing it but then I found your channel and others telling me not to do no contact plus I really wanted to talk to her and she seemed kinda sad and lonely and yes we do go to school together so I would see her every day me and her would and still lock at each other I would catch her looking at me and she see me looking at her in class and in the hallways she rarely smiled that month so at the end of the 1st semester I finally mustered up the courage to talk her because I didn’t know if I would still see her again in the same class so walked up to her said something funny and her face just lit up like a Christmas tree big smile laughter face trim red and very nervous and shy and the following days i would walk with her to her next class and still do I remember we were talking about something that we both like and I had to go to my class or I’d be late as soon as I turned around she said please don’t go in the sweetest voice possible we sat on the wall kept on talking and we were very close to each other physically this kept on going going for a little bit she would want to work on projects with me and she would reach out to me outside of school we were reconnecting it was great and now we get to the now we still talk mostly at school and she still does sometimes reach out to me outside of school we still sometimes look at each other still she is a lot less nervous and shy we like to play jokes on each other I recently tried to break the touch barrier with so far very little pull back i put my head on net back and her arms I kinda held hands twice last week I would playfully take a pencil from her or try to we would fall into a handholding moment this had happened twice and also she had her leg on top of mine we both kept it like that and she would squeeze my leg with hers we look at each other in the eyes and make longe periods of it for 2-3 seconds or more and she talks to her sister about of what I heard this is all so great and fantastic but I don’t know what to do and what any of this means at all I’m completely lost and she goes hot and cold it’s this constant back forth dance like last week we were really close break go the touch barrier and now this week she is kinda distant and has been happening for the last 4 months sometimes we would go for a week without talking but never more than that because o start to miss her and i think she also misses me as I’d see her looking at me from a far again or she would reach out and get close again it’s just really confusing idk why this is happening or why it’s happening and now the school year ends next week and now I’m worried that I won’t get to talk to her again or if she will reach out at all i think she will because we had never gone more than a week without missing each other I think she does at least expect for when we broke up so I don’t know if this is it the last time I will hear from her all summer long or if this just what we need to come back to each other completely as we won’t be seeing each other every day and start realizing that we still love each other I really don’t know I need help anything at all she is my dream girl everything I ever wanted in a girl i am scared of the near future I just want her back and have that great relationship we once had I don’t understand on how we can have such a great relationship to breaking up and being distant and also the other day we spent the whole day together having a blast

    • @galatac7451
      @galatac7451 2 года назад

      Please help

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      What sapp him

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  • @carlathompson9308
    @carlathompson9308 2 года назад

    My ex told me we were just friends and c the relationship was all my perspective. b in sure that was gaslighting so he doesn't have to feel guilt

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      Hey friends are you trying to attract or manifest love?to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

      He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love

    • @antphroditettarot9159
      @antphroditettarot9159 2 года назад

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  • @kristina4395
    @kristina4395 2 года назад +1

    Dear Clay.... Its really important to tell you this... I have been subscribed since u started.. Your sound last weeks is really really distorted to the point of hard to watch videos, hurting ears and it can push a lot of people away, i dont understand how u didn't notice it (i saw some other peopt commented on it) bit i really want you to grow so please try to fix it, it sounds as when someone talks too close to the mic, even i who have been watching you for years have a hard time watching coz of the sound....wishing you the best! 🦋💯💯

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  2 года назад +1

      Hi Kris, thanks for letting us know. We will look into this. We truly appreciate your feedback. :-)

    • @kristina4395
      @kristina4395 2 года назад

      @@ClayAndrews ty, if you play your video 10months ago (in room not outside) and todays video i am sure you will notice what we mean, almost when someone is talking on a phone holding it too close altho that is not the case.. i love your channel, thank you so much! 🎶🎶🦋

    • @isahbalasalihu7354
      @isahbalasalihu7354 2 года назад

      @@kristina4395 I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.

    • @isahbalasalihu7354
      @isahbalasalihu7354 2 года назад

      @@kristina4395 I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago.He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem... 🏃‍♂🏃‍♂🏃‍♂

    • @isahbalasalihu7354
      @isahbalasalihu7354 2 года назад

      @@kristina4395 contact him right away ☝