This story is a great lesson learn for our Hmong women. I’ve heard most of May stories and it’s mostly about how the husband mistreat them and how the husband does not do any chores around the house. An advice to our Hmong women, your husband will only behave in a certain way if you allow him to. If you allow him to leave the toilet seat up, he will continue to do so. So please train him to be a grown man and clean up after himself. As a Hmong husband, I can assure you my wife and I do 50/50 of the house duties. I cook, clean, do laundry, try to fix car, attempt to diy fixing anything broken in my own home and take care of my kids. Also to our Hmong husband, do not do all the chores around the house, this can lead to your wife becoming dependent. This is vice versa.
We women have to change the way Hmoob men think of us. Don't let them disrespect and treated us the way they do. We have to do the changing, it is up to us.
Koj nyuab siab ua dab tsi os nkauj hmoob aw tseem tshuav peb nawb peb yeej txawj hlub poj niam ib yam thiab os los sis peb tseem txawj dua koj tus txiv dev ntawd os.
Ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nrog ib tug poj niam ces yeej yog zaj no xwb los mas me koj niam aw, cov neeg pheej muaj muaj phooj ywg zoo ces lawv yeej txeeb yus tus txiv ntag hos.
Nyob zoo os tus me niam tsev siab zoo aw, tsis txhob tu siab mog thaum mloog koj lub neej neejneeg no tag kuj pab hlub koj kawg nkaus nawb, ntau yam koj hais yeej yog lawm, pab hlub koj kawg nawb mog, tabsis txiv neej tsis yog phem tag tus mog, thaum txivneej hais kom koj ua li ub li no koj tsis kam ua ces nws thiaj li fav siab vim nws raug dab lawm ned, tsis yog txiv tub kom tsis txhob mus tua dais ua ke no los sav? tsis txhob ntseeg koj tus phoojywg tas2 no ned? pab hlub koj heev mog, tshuav Vajtswv tseem hlub koj laiv...
It has nothing to do with friends. It’s the guy. If he didn’t insert, penis wouldn’t/wont enter. A person who has no intention to do wrong will never talk to, meet or see another woman or men alone. No matter how much other party call or try to meet, his or her spouse will always there with him.
Muab luag tej lub neej lod ua kev kawm os ... peb cov poj niam tsis txhob xyaum ntxeev siab rau peb poj niam/phooj ywg, txiv neej thiaj ua tsis tau li no rau peb nawj.
That’s why I don’t keep friends. And never trust your spouse 100%. I’d also report her for trespassing. Of course an unwanted person comes into your house you have every right to “protect” yourself. 🤷🏻♀️ But ultimately I’d get rid of that dog and his flea. I find that being alone is the best thing ever! No one to complain to you, nor do you have to cook or clean after someone else, no other persons bullshit.
Girl, me, too! Friends are nothing but trouble! I don't have any friends and I like it like that. Trust? Hubby? Nope. Always one foot in the inside and the other foot on the outside. You can never be too cautious.
Ceev faj yus tus phooj ywg zoo2 ntawm yus ib sab twb yog yus tus yeeb ncuab, txav kom deb2 li deb tau txawm tus phooj ywg muaj txiv thiab tsis muaj txiv los txhob qhia lub siab kom tas2 nawb cov mi niam tsev aw
A lesson to be mindful of your “friends.” Always check his phone, your bank accounts and everything. Your intuition is always right. You let him know there’s the line and if it’s crossed this is exactly what’s going to happen. If he cheats - make sure you are the nicest person to him, get everything in your name, take all the money than leave him in the dust before he knows. He’s already gone when he betrays you. No need to stick around and share him with anyone.
Girl, install Spyware on that bish! Keep a joint account AND your own account. Most couples are against hiding anything but dayum! Keep that single account and it's money hidden for rainy days! (Or you could withdraw money from the joint account to keep in your single to save in case he cheats.)
No man or woman is worth chasing after. It's better to explore others than staying with a cheater and betrayal. Life is too short. Don't chase fake people.
You are too Kind! I would've kicked him to the curb! Your pojlaib friend was never your friend, just a Homewrecker!!! You better not take him back! Love & Respect yourself, Hmong sister!!!
Why do some dads complain that our moms are old and no longer good? Do they not look at themselves in the mirror? Do they brush their teeth with their eyes closed? Hello?! Use mirrors to look at yourselves before you start judging our moms.
Peb ua neeg nyob tus es yuav ua mob yus tshaj plaws ces yog tug yus pab tshaj plaws. If she was already that sad she should know her boundaries but she didn’t respect you and hates you that she have to ruined your life. Paub neeg tsis paub siab.
Tu niam tsev lub qab ntuj no ca tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub taus yus li os. Tsuas muaj yus thiaj li hlub tau lawv xwb vim yus txoj kev tsuav lawv nqi os
My best friend is my husband’s younger’s wife she cheated with my husband, now is my ex-husband. I left him.. I moved on remarried and much much happier. Why take your husband back when he left you for dead for another woman.
That's crazy! So happy you didn't put up with that shit and moved on. I wish you nothing but happiness. You deserve way better. He will miss you. Wish our mothers and some sisters would be stronger and stop tolerating all the abuse and cheatings.
Peb nyob lub teb chaw mekas no lawm tsis yog txiv neej thiaj ua tau xwb os. Poj niam yeej ua tau ib yam. Tsis muaj ib tsa cai tug hais tias poj niam ua tsis tau.
haib tshaj plaws li kuv mas luag luag tsis paub xaus li poj niam kuj heev thiab tab sis kuj heev tsis kawg thiab hos txiv neej ces thaum poj niam lwm tus cev tes kov lawm ces kawg tuag li tus thaub no. kuv ces tau qhov luag thaum kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no txog tav nov lawm ces ua ib siab ua niam 1 niam 2 mas lid
My hubby knows that if he cheats, I'm gonna do it right back so he doesn't dare. He knows he's got a pojniam nyaum, pojniam heev heev. Lol. I could treat you like a king and I can bring you down like a slave. You choose.
Honestly I love having girlfriends. They are fun and make you feel wholesome. But this is the reason why I don't want to keep friends. You never know who is going to backstab you and how..... The saying is "Keep your friends close, your enemies closer". It's sad, have to pick one or the other.
Koj taug txoj kev no txhua hnub mus hauj lwm ces koj yeej txawj dhuav txoj kev ntawv. Kev niam txiv pw ua ke kuj zoo ze li no tib yam nkaus rau ob leeg thiab. Yog li ntawv thaum tus txiv tig ua hluas lawm ces tus niam thiaj tsis kam zam txim thiab nws thiaj plhws pob tw ntshis npaj yuav ua pauj.
Phoojywg ntxeev siab, never trust those who are closes to you because they want your life your love to be theirs. Hate people like that, lessons learned never ever trust someone next to you and closes to you.
Once a cheater always a cheater. That is the person you do not want to have in your life. You can not trust anyone, not even the person who are really close to you.
Koj nyuab siab dab tsi txhua hmo neb 2 leeg sib hloo nto muab khoom ua neej khwb nws qhov ncauj ces tau kiag nws txoj kev ntshaw ces nyoos tsis txob ntau tus lawm mas
Tos peb cov Txiv Neej Pheej yuav Niam yaus lo yog tim peb poj Niam thiab leeg twg teeb txoj cai tias Txiv neej muaj cai yuav niam yau thiab tham hluss nkauj no maj
My hmong men don't need wifes to treat and feed like feeding cats and dogs if any woman who feeds the husband likes feeding cats and dogs and you women think that's very lovefully care you treating your husband that's wrong men don't think that way. But hmong lady who ever treats and feeds your husband like feeding cats and dogs and later on complains that hmong man treats you like slave that was you own fault no body ever made you to do that hmong men mostly we are not lazy we are very independent we cook and take care good of ourselves unless the wife offers to help do something.
Nej cov poj niam pheej ua mov nqa mus thawj rau nej cov txiv noj li pub miv pub aub xwb es yog tim nej cov poj niam li teeb meem xwb ua neeg nyob niam muaj niam hauj lwm txiv muaj txiv hauj lwm nyias yuav tau ua kom tag nyias qhov peev xwm xwb es nej cov poj niam tsab2 ntse xwb es nej pheej yuav los complained tias nej cov poj niam ua txiv neej qhev no mas tsis yog lawm nawb mog.
Ntuj aw cas peb cov mhoob es yog muaj tej teebmeem no qias neeg lim hiam ua luaj no.os mhoob aw. Tus txiv tsev.thiab tus poj nrauj no puas yog neeg na lawv.
Niam laus a nrog koj tu siab thiab mob siab heev os.😭😭😭😭😭
Kav tsij ua kom koj zoo2 nkauj os nawb koj thiab li tsi muaj kev nyuaj siab os niam laus a.
Saib xyuas qhuas khav kj Tus kheej zoo tshaj thisj zoo txin txisj zoo mog
This story is a great lesson learn for our Hmong women. I’ve heard most of May stories and it’s mostly about how the husband mistreat them and how the husband does not do any chores around the house. An advice to our Hmong women, your husband will only behave in a certain way if you allow him to. If you allow him to leave the toilet seat up, he will continue to do so. So please train him to be a grown man and clean up after himself. As a Hmong husband, I can assure you my wife and I do 50/50 of the house duties. I cook, clean, do laundry, try to fix car, attempt to diy fixing anything broken in my own home and take care of my kids. Also to our Hmong husband, do not do all the chores around the house, this can lead to your wife becoming dependent. This is vice versa.
Cas koj zaj dab neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj li os
Kuv nkag siab koj zoo os niam laus. Yus hlub nws kav nws tsis hlub yus lawm. Lub neej lwj siab ces tsis yuav lawm. Twb yog koj siab zoo kawg.
We women have to change the way Hmoob men think of us. Don't let them disrespect and treated us the way they do. We have to do the changing, it is up to us.
Koj nyuab siab ua dab tsi os nkauj hmoob aw tseem tshuav peb nawb peb yeej txawj hlub poj niam ib yam thiab os los sis peb tseem txawj dua koj tus txiv dev ntawd os.
Ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nrog ib tug poj niam ces yeej yog zaj no xwb los mas me koj niam aw, cov neeg pheej muaj muaj phooj ywg zoo ces lawv yeej txeeb yus tus txiv ntag hos.
Ntxub cov pojnm ntxeev siab li ko kawg
Ruam tshaj.
Nyob zoo os tus me niam tsev siab zoo aw, tsis txhob tu siab mog thaum mloog koj lub neej neejneeg no tag kuj pab hlub koj kawg nkaus nawb, ntau yam koj hais yeej yog lawm, pab hlub koj kawg nawb mog, tabsis txiv neej tsis yog phem tag tus mog, thaum txivneej hais kom koj ua li ub li no koj tsis kam ua ces nws thiaj li fav siab vim nws raug dab lawm ned, tsis yog txiv tub kom tsis txhob mus tua dais ua ke no los sav? tsis txhob ntseeg koj tus phoojywg tas2 no ned? pab hlub koj heev mog, tshuav Vajtswv tseem hlub koj laiv...
That’s the ultimate betrayal of friendship
It has nothing to do with friends. It’s the guy. If he didn’t insert, penis wouldn’t/wont enter.
A person who has no intention to do wrong will never talk to, meet or see another woman or men alone. No matter how much other party call or try to meet, his or her spouse will always there with him.
And marriage.
Txiv neej hmoob ces yeej npab nauj os mog me viv ncaus
Xuaj tshaj. Thats why you keep your circle small and dont trust anyone but your family.
Tim nej cov poj niam ntsaw luag tej txiv zoo nraug siab dawb ne, thiaj muaj2 niam yau.
Muab luag tej lub neej lod ua kev kawm os ... peb cov poj niam tsis txhob xyaum ntxeev siab rau peb poj niam/phooj ywg, txiv neej thiaj ua tsis tau li no rau peb nawj.
That’s why I don’t keep friends. And never trust your spouse 100%.
I’d also report her for trespassing. Of course an unwanted person comes into your house you have every right to “protect” yourself. 🤷🏻♀️
But ultimately I’d get rid of that dog and his flea. I find that being alone is the best thing ever! No one to complain to you, nor do you have to cook or clean after someone else, no other persons bullshit.
Girl, me, too! Friends are nothing but trouble! I don't have any friends and I like it like that. Trust? Hubby? Nope. Always one foot in the inside and the other foot on the outside. You can never be too cautious.
@@bchang227 👍👍👍
Thank you for your story. Hope we women learned a lesson.
Ceev faj yus tus phooj ywg zoo2 ntawm yus ib sab twb yog yus tus yeeb ncuab, txav kom deb2 li deb tau txawm tus phooj ywg muaj txiv thiab tsis muaj txiv los txhob qhia lub siab kom tas2 nawb cov mi niam tsev aw
Yog lawm txhob muaj py zoo dua nawb
A lesson to be mindful of your “friends.” Always check his phone, your bank accounts and everything. Your intuition is always right. You let him know there’s the line and if it’s crossed this is exactly what’s going to happen. If he cheats - make sure you are the nicest person to him, get everything in your name, take all the money than leave him in the dust before he knows. He’s already gone when he betrays you. No need to stick around and share him with anyone.
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Girl, install Spyware on that bish! Keep a joint account AND your own account. Most couples are against hiding anything but dayum! Keep that single account and it's money hidden for rainy days! (Or you could withdraw money from the joint account to keep in your single to save in case he cheats.)
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nawm tos kuv xum tsis muaj phooj ywg zoo zoo los zoo li no ntag os txaus ntshai kawg li neeg lub siab mas cov phem yeej phem tiag tiag li os lawv aw
สะใจค่ะ
Tus py no mam ntxim ntxub tshaj plawv li. Poj niam siab dev.
It’s always someone you know.. That’s how things get started.. So sad! That’s not what a true friend is like….
May aws... kuv ntsav siab dhau lawm os xav ntau neeg lawm xwb
No man or woman is worth chasing after. It's better to explore others than staying with a cheater and betrayal. Life is too short. Don't chase fake people.
Mloog zaj dab neeg no hnov meem txom heev
I never trust a friend an never consider any of my friends best friend. Just friend. Never gave all the love to ur friends
thov kom lub ntuj txiav txim rau kj tus phooj ywg ces ntuj mam txiav txim rau nws xwb mas lov
Cov txiv neej hmoob uas tsis txawj fwm lawv lub neej ces thaum kawg nyob qab choj xwb tiag
You are too Kind! I would've kicked him to the curb! Your pojlaib friend was never your friend, just a Homewrecker!!! You better not take him back! Love & Respect yourself, Hmong sister!!!
thov qhua tus niam tsev no muaj peev xwv kawg
Phooj twg ntxeev siab
Why do some dads complain that our moms are old and no longer good? Do they not look at themselves in the mirror? Do they brush their teeth with their eyes closed? Hello?! Use mirrors to look at yourselves before you start judging our moms.
Niam NtsuabTeev neb mus saib niag Xyooj pov hais txog neb tej history naj
Don’t trust anyone even your sister in law and best friends
Yeap true
Even nieces..sisters...ive heard to many stories..
I dont even trust myself lol
Strongly agreed 👍
Hai tau zoo mloog kawg
Dayum! Ultimate betrayal!
Ua cas e zaj neej neeg no e tseem txaus ntshai tshaj dab neeg dab na los cov phooj ywg zoo li no na👹👹
Txoj neej ntsi ua li xw os
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When are we as Hmong woman going to wake up and stop allowing this type of abuse.
kj hai yog lm os niam ntshuab teev
Tos li kuv lub neej kuv yeej tsis toob kas ib tug phoojywg zoo zoo tas zog li ko ntag lau. Kuv tej phoojywg tsuas yog phoojywg tas mab das xwb.
Cov poj niam thiab txiv neej twb yog txij nkawm lawm es pej nyiam muab txoj kev ua nkauj ua nraug hauv txaj hauv chaw los uasi no ces 99% lub neej niam txiv txij nkawm kawg puas ov. 🙅♂️🙅♀️
Nej cov txiv xwb os peb mas noj tas los yeej pab poj niam 2 leeg sib pab nroos mab
Zoo tsaj
Nw tsi yog phooj ywg na nw yog yeeb ncuab xwb na tsi ta hu ua phooj ywg li os
Cas tsis xuas riam ua kom tuag kiag na.
Peb ua neeg nyob tus es yuav ua mob yus tshaj plaws ces yog tug yus pab tshaj plaws. If she was already that sad she should know her boundaries but she didn’t respect you and hates you that she have to ruined your life. Paub neeg tsis paub siab.
Tu niam tsev lub qab ntuj no ca tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub taus yus li os. Tsuas muaj yus thiaj li hlub tau lawv xwb vim yus txoj kev tsuav lawv nqi os
Yeah is true story about Hmong old people men 😩
Pog rog qias neeg aw, cas koj mob covid 19 lawm sub, nyiaj RUclips mas muaj nqis kawg yom dag noj tsis ntev yuav quaj2 nawb
Leej twg hais rau nej tias py es yuav ntseeg thiab zoo 100% na sister aww txhob muaj py zoo dua nawb mog thiab txhob ntseeg leej twg os..nyib twj ywm py ces yog yus tus txiv thiab yus cov me nyuam yus niam yus txiv xwb nawb mog
What a screwed up relationship?!
Omg this story makes me heated 😤😤
You got to have a limit to everything. You have to draw a line to every relationship.
Niam tais aws koj tsawm Thaum txiv neej hmoob, twb yog koj ruam dhau thiab muab hlub koj tus txiv thiab phooj ywg dhau lawm xwb.
👍👍👍😍😍👍👍❤❤👍
Txhua tus txiv neej Hmong tsis zoo li koj tus
Kv yg ib tus ua raug cov teeb meem ko thiab tiag
My best friend is my husband’s younger’s wife she cheated with my husband, now is my ex-husband. I left him.. I moved on remarried and much much happier. Why take your husband back when he left you for dead for another woman.
That was even worst n cruel when family do to one another. Maybe you should share your story with May lol
That's crazy! So happy you didn't put up with that shit and moved on. I wish you nothing but happiness. You deserve way better. He will miss you. Wish our mothers and some sisters would be stronger and stop tolerating all the abuse and cheatings.
Can u share your story too.
Tsi yog phooj ywg zoo os poj dab xwb
This story boils my blood still! Someone would've gotten hurt. Why are there even ppl like this on earth 🤬
This is why I have trust issues with friends.
And why I don’t trust my husband 100%% gotta leave that 10%
tsi txus
Peb nyob lub teb chaw mekas no lawm tsis yog txiv neej thiaj ua tau xwb os. Poj niam yeej ua tau ib yam. Tsis muaj ib tsa cai tug hais tias poj niam ua tsis tau.
haib tshaj plaws li kuv mas luag luag tsis paub xaus li poj niam kuj heev thiab tab sis kuj heev tsis kawg thiab
hos txiv neej ces thaum poj niam
lwm tus cev tes kov lawm ces kawg tuag li tus thaub no.
kuv ces tau qhov luag thaum kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no
txog tav nov lawm ces ua ib siab ua niam 1 niam 2 mas lid
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You’re so beautiful may 🥰🥰🥰
My hubby knows that if he cheats, I'm gonna do it right back so he doesn't dare. He knows he's got a pojniam nyaum, pojniam heev heev. Lol. I could treat you like a king and I can bring you down like a slave. You choose.
Same here. Once that door is open, its all fair game.
I always tell my husband if he do that get will get it double back ...
Agree!!!
Honestly I love having girlfriends. They are fun and make you feel wholesome. But this is the reason why I don't want to keep friends. You never know who is going to backstab you and how..... The saying is "Keep your friends close, your enemies closer". It's sad, have to pick one or the other.
Koj taug txoj kev no txhua hnub mus hauj lwm ces koj yeej txawj dhuav txoj kev ntawv. Kev niam txiv pw ua ke kuj zoo ze li no tib yam nkaus rau ob leeg thiab. Yog li ntawv thaum tus txiv tig ua hluas lawm ces tus niam thiaj tsis kam zam txim thiab nws thiaj plhws pob tw ntshis npaj yuav ua pauj.
Phoojywg ntxeev siab, never trust those who are closes to you because they want your life your love to be theirs. Hate people like that, lessons learned never ever trust someone next to you and closes to you.
Zoo li heev tsawv thiab tabsis cas ho ntiab tsis taus nkawv tawm tsev thiab na...txaus luag dhau os
I got play like this lady, too.
Tus nov ce zoo nkau li kuv tus txiv ntag lau
That’s why I don’t keep any close men friends or woman friends or not too close to them
Lwm haiv neeg tseem muaj cov txiv neej phem tshaj peb hmoob ntau heev li os tus niam tsev aw...tus txiv twg ua hluas muab pov thoob khib nyiab xwb..li no txiv neej thiaj hwm nej xwb os
Ua cas nom pov ho muab neb ib niam txiv ces ne lov yog ua cas
Hais muaj ceem ua luaj thaum kawg tsis muaj dab tsis tseem Nyob tos hniag txiv dev thiab
oh yau nws tuaj ntawm koj tsev tuaj thab plau koj tua lo yeej tsis txaum loj li os twb tsis yog koj mus tom nws tsev na sister aw
What a evil friend you have. Just kick both of them out of your house and your life. Let them met their karma.
Once a cheater always a cheater. That is the person you do not want to have in your life. You can not trust anyone, not even the person who are really close to you.
I think the man got do what the man got do.
Koj nyuab siab dab tsi txhua hmo neb 2 leeg sib hloo nto muab khoom ua neej khwb nws qhov ncauj ces tau kiag nws txoj kev ntshaw ces nyoos tsis txob ntau tus lawm mas
Tos peb cov Txiv Neej Pheej yuav Niam yaus lo yog tim peb poj Niam thiab leeg twg teeb txoj cai tias Txiv neej muaj cai yuav niam yau thiab tham hluss nkauj no maj
Viv ncaus muab nrauj es muab nkawv laib tawm tsev kiag xwb mas mam mus yuav ib tug tshiab zoo dua tus qub os mog
Cov phooj ywg zoo li ko mas Tua tau yus
Best to block for life
Cov poj laib txeeb luag txiv li tus koj piav ko ntsej muag tuab heev..
My hmong men don't need wifes to treat and feed like feeding cats and dogs if any woman who feeds the husband likes feeding cats and dogs and you women think that's very lovefully care you treating your husband that's wrong men don't think that way. But hmong lady who ever treats and feeds your husband like feeding cats and dogs and later on complains that hmong man treats you like slave that was you own fault no body ever made you to do that hmong men mostly we are not lazy we are very independent we cook and take care good of ourselves unless the wife offers to help do something.
Agree. They trained their spouse that way. Why complain. Lol.
Yes, I would reported her for trespassing and protect myself.. I would never let this woman inside my house in the first place.
Nej cov poj niam pheej ua mov nqa mus thawj rau nej cov txiv noj li pub miv pub aub xwb es yog tim nej cov poj niam li teeb meem xwb ua neeg nyob niam muaj niam hauj lwm txiv muaj txiv hauj lwm nyias yuav tau ua kom tag nyias qhov peev xwm xwb es nej cov poj niam tsab2 ntse xwb es nej pheej yuav los complained tias nej cov poj niam ua txiv neej qhev no mas tsis yog lawm nawb mog.
Ntuj aw cas peb cov mhoob es yog muaj tej teebmeem no qias neeg lim hiam ua luaj no.os mhoob aw. Tus txiv tsev.thiab tus poj nrauj no puas yog neeg na lawv.
Hais txij li koj tus txiv xwb os. Peb cov txivneej Hmoob tsis tub nkeeg tsis tau zoo laiv. Lawv mas khwv tshaj plaws qhov phem qhov nyhav yog lawv tag nhro xwb. Peb cov pojniam ua qhov sib ntau xwb.
Tus txiv tsis hlub yus lawm nws thiaj muaj lub siab mus muaj taus lwm tus. Txhob khuvxim txhob seev txog tus neeg tsis hlub yus. Txhob nkim yus lub kuamuag.
There u go girl
Tus thaub hu ua xpn talk show
Tej tug poj nrauj no cas tsi paub txaj muag li g txawj xav kiag
That's why I never have friends
Tej tug pog coj li no tsis yog koj phooj ywg os mog. She is your worst enemy.