Money Shame: The Silent Killer | Tammy Lally | TEDxOrlando

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024
  • We're conditioned to not talk about personal finances, but for many people, confronting their own personal money struggles can be a matter of survival. Tammy Lally, a professional money coach, shares her own family's story along with suggestions for how to confront one's own personal "Money Shame." As a Certified Money Coach and Financial Planner, Tammy Lally helps couples and individuals achieve financial health and freedom. Through a distinctive blend of financial knowledge, psychology, spirituality, and her personal experience and healing of money shame, Tammy teaches how to change what keeps people broken and broke - in their relationship with money, by digging in, questioning, and owning their money beliefs and behaviors and the impact they have on their financial, social, emotional and spiritual well-being.
    Tammy received her formal coach training and certification from The Money Coaching Institute and has over 16 years of experience in the financial industry. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 40

  • @thegayphilospher
    @thegayphilospher Год назад +16

    I cried so much watching this. Money shame has surrounded me for the last 20 years. It has destroyed me, especially with someone who has ADHD.

  • @iamwisecrowtarot8373
    @iamwisecrowtarot8373 5 лет назад +22

    Well this is the video i was hoping to find on shame and money. It fits what I have been dealing with since I was 3 years old. At 58 years of age..it still effects me emotionally and financially. Shame is a silent virus. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story.

  • @jamicheshire
    @jamicheshire 7 лет назад +20

    Not a quick fix but a slow wakeup, so powerful!! Thank you for waking me up today 💙

  • @robinfletcher6718
    @robinfletcher6718 2 года назад +4

    "If you have debt, you have not forgiven..." This statement hit me on the side of my head like a brick! Kudos to Tammy Lally to do the work and change the money-shame cycle.

    • @FrancescoGranieri
      @FrancescoGranieri Год назад

      I agree. That one statement sums up my 20+ years of battling a seemingly endless amount of petty debt. Now I get it...forgiving myself is the key to letting that ghost go.

  • @tundeakinrolabu9464
    @tundeakinrolabu9464 Год назад

    Hearing that story about your brother broke my heart and brought me to tears. I also have alot of shame around my finances, and I felt myself tense up when you explained that conversation with your brother and his wife around creating a budget. This talk has really brought to light how deep my shame around money is, and how it's time for me to heal it.

  • @ElyzaHalpern
    @ElyzaHalpern 7 лет назад +11

    More people need to see this. Thank you for this talk.

  • @sasasladic3354
    @sasasladic3354 6 лет назад +9

    Great talk! To be able to give such a powerful talk with all this pain inside of you... All i can say: thank you!

  • @Laura_Unmasked
    @Laura_Unmasked 2 месяца назад

    This is so powerful. Thank you so much! I am sorry for your loss, but you have made that loss something very healing for us all ❤

  • @amazjunelee
    @amazjunelee 2 года назад +1

    Wow this video is absolutely amazing. I can’t believe it didn’t go viral. What is happening here….

  • @elerindesign
    @elerindesign 4 года назад +1

    I'm the one in my family and not just money. It's a tough "job" but a much needed one :)

  • @FrancescoGranieri
    @FrancescoGranieri Год назад

    What a great presentation, spot on and seemingly directed at my decades' old inner money script. Thank you for sharing your story with us; I hope your brother's children are doing ok.

  • @DeniseSprung
    @DeniseSprung 6 лет назад +5

    So sorry for your loss

  • @BeverleyEllie
    @BeverleyEllie 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing. Sending love to all your family ❤

  • @teresaphillips8436
    @teresaphillips8436 7 лет назад +3

    Excellent talk, Tammy! Very insightful and thought-provoking.

  • @shememmanuel9586
    @shememmanuel9586 3 года назад +1

    I learned much from this vid...I hope to deal with me money shame, I may not be perfect , but Ill always try to be better. It was an amazing lesson on shame

  • @drakewilliams10dw
    @drakewilliams10dw 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your life experience and lessons. Such is what makes humanity so great. 🙏🏾

  • @fusionfitness7909
    @fusionfitness7909 6 лет назад +1

    So interesting that i never looked at it as shame shame. Thank you. Excited for our meeting today Tammy!

  • @6lu5ky86
    @6lu5ky86 Год назад

    Thank you for this story, I've built up a lot of debt from alcoholism. I'm finally on the right track, need to find a job and knock out my 5k of debt. Please pray for me. 🙏

  • @elerindesign
    @elerindesign 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this talk as well. Very moving. Love Brene Brown as well.

  • @selwynwarren1168
    @selwynwarren1168 2 года назад +1

    Excellent talk. Very moving

  • @SamuelAlder
    @SamuelAlder 7 лет назад +6

    great presentation, thanks for sharing your story even though
    what you went through was painful and personal...
    those are often the stories people need to hear to not feel alone.

  • @samkimani5426
    @samkimani5426 3 года назад +1

    Powerful testimony

  • @coachestonswaby
    @coachestonswaby 4 года назад +2

    Powerful message thanks for sharing

  • @LOAforBIZ
    @LOAforBIZ 2 года назад +1

    Wow...thanks for sharing! This is powerful.

  • @Hernameisseraphine
    @Hernameisseraphine 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. That was so brave

  • @AWayOfLiving84
    @AWayOfLiving84 11 месяцев назад +1

    Money shame. Where do you get your money from & how? Was it coming from a person with righteous ways? If it's not righteous do you try to make it?

  • @smmn722
    @smmn722 4 года назад +1

    Wow! This is intense

  • @delfinocarlin8624
    @delfinocarlin8624 5 лет назад +3

    AMEN. THE BIBLE HAS MORE THAN 2350 VERSES ABOUT MONEY! THANKS!!

  • @AWayOfLiving84
    @AWayOfLiving84 11 месяцев назад

    I will put up a clip to about money shame. I hope you like my point of money shame? It's hard to speak about loved ones. But if it helps you & others to speak about things. Then go ahead.

  • @FutoXar
    @FutoXar Месяц назад

    My God , angels, and ancestors save me from the society and families money believe system

  • @AWayOfLiving84
    @AWayOfLiving84 11 месяцев назад +1

    Don't drill me too hard as I'm a 🐣🦈? I like to think out of the box. Because if things aren't working in a lot of areas. We need to think outside the box. Why the continuous failures

  • @positivity5269
    @positivity5269 2 года назад

    4:50

  • @stuart6478
    @stuart6478 Год назад +2

    ha ha ends with shaming. perfect. always come to ted for comedy. I just want a house so I can take care of things. wtf is greed anyway? what do people do if all the things are being done? what do you do if the things you want to do cost money? tools, art? like, what? what?! this video solves nothing. does this person know people are wealthy beyond belief and could even solve all this. show me an alternative

    • @scsc-u9y
      @scsc-u9y 8 месяцев назад

      exactly what i came here to say

  • @mondliedwin4857
    @mondliedwin4857 11 месяцев назад

    Its easy if you put God above all else.

  • @AWayOfLiving84
    @AWayOfLiving84 11 месяцев назад

    ☯️🌏👣

  • @sanvecino
    @sanvecino 4 месяца назад

    Capitalism feeds of money shame