I’m almost convince that Ben Zulu is not from planet earth 😀, I give it to him, he always have answers to every relationship questions, what a man? May God bless your wisdom🙏🏻
"My Man keep getting mad every small thing" check when or how it started or what triggered it and start addressing it from there. There is something that may have caused it or maybe the language of communication you use affects his ego. Check and rectify. "Avoid two wives if you are a man " The girlfriend is sweeter when dating coz she is a forbidden element but once a wife that sweetness goes" True 100% Benjamin but some circumstances force such situations however distasteful it is-Druven that route by the first wife. "Disowning or criticising wife in front of children or public is wicked but the same applies to men too. It should be discouraged. "Prayerful man is best but some wives makes their men not to go to church together as a family-Living hell through embarrassments or jelousness or attitude. "When we got married, my husband used to pamper me, nowadays even lunch he doesn't take me, other men fills in the void ". Madam, marriage cannot be run by revenge and attitude but sobriety, understanding and compromises. Do not try to destroy your marriage by intimidation or level headedness or challenging him, instead trace the cause and together speak it out. That attitude you have can easily end your marriage in a huff. "Men fear difficult conversations with women of means....." Benjamin has ably put it in perspective. Don't fear engaging a woman with ssame frequency or higher intellectual capability as you in preference to ordinary mediocre ladies that will hardly speak from the same wave lengths as you......! That is full wisdom Benjamin, my man. You have killed it. Unknown to many many marriages die because men lost out on this aspect. They married a wife that hardly articulate any meaningful or tangible wisdom but still demands or wants the man to hear and implement her point of view. The difficulties in some low/mismatched couples is that a woman that came to a man that is already high in thinking capacity or level of intellectual capability thinks by virtue of being a legal wife, she MUST throw her ideas not as an idea or point of view but as a dictate for implementation safe the fact that that idea is good but not practical to consider given the position(Reasoning/thinking capacity) of the man. At the end, friction kicks in, conflicts start, cheating comes in and the end, every man is called a cheater/ a dog. Until and unless really causes of marriage disfuntions are addressed, the man(often silent) shall always be termed a dog safe the fact that, still ladies marry those dogs!
Inspiring,by the way men should stop asking we ladies if we're dating..aty first date umeenda tu hivi.. kwa table anakuuliza if you dating just present your case if we're not married, we're in the market present your case you being a man you can have what am looking for coz naeza kua kwa situationship na sijui.
Benjamin, where have you been? I have been trying to articulate this, I am perceived to be arrogant. Associate with your class because they are on their way somewhere and no jealousies, no strife,no stress there.
Dr. Benjamin Zulu and Joyce kindly may you tell us Why some people (men/women) in the name of marriage they revenge or whatever you called it asking for extra money 💰 from what he/she contributed . Example if he/ she bought food cost ksh 1,000/- or playing school fees. Used excuses 😂 is sick or blaah blah to get more money 💰 from partner or kids from.
At least someone said it😂 Guys need to be careful following his advice. If you're looking for a professional from a man's perspective look at "coach Greg Adams" on RUclips
@@TheExperiment1337 I know Greg Adams. That's the worst thing you can do. Red pill coaches like Greg Adams will seem to make sense but blindly following their advice will ruin your life.
@ Joe Rungi. How are you? I hope the year has been good for you so far. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Give Jesus a chance to love you unconditionally as your Lord and personal Saviour♥️
Joe I see you’ve been over dozing on that meditation 🧘♀️ stuff on RUclips from people who are searching for meaning in life , disregarding God while running back to the spiritual habit of connecting with supreme , divine authority who is essentially God ! It’s confusing I know but don’t complicate your life - pray through Jesus Christ to the ☝️ God . Simple
The authority of second third and even tenth wife (concubines) lies on the hands of first wife(queen)and not on the hands of husband(king) refer to Abraham Sarah n haggai story
@@alpnehir2971 it was not a wife but a person to give birth for him since sarah was old and according to her(human beings overall) she couldn't give birth since she was past menopause, and when hagai changed and started disregarding sarah,abraham gave the full authority to his wife How many Abrahams do we have today who stay by their wives without sleeping around n making their wives heart ache with pain
Margret karugah Abraham’s wife #sarah was impatient on waiting on God’s time and that’s why she pushed and pushed Abraham and eventually he impregnated his maid which wasn’t God’s plan but it was out of Sarah’s impatience.
Who is addicted to Benjamin Zulu like me, whenever I open you tube I watch one of his video advices b4 I do anything
I'm addicted too
I'm addicted too
Saaaaaaaaaaame 😅
Me! I am so addicted to him and Joyce. Full of insight. I love it🤩🙆
No lie.. whenever I see him, I stop to listen.
Dr Benjamin Zulu and Mrs Joyce Wahiga kindly create your RUclips channel just to discuss relationship and marriage life daily ,,,God bless you all
I echo this idea.
Write this in capital . I support you
I agree too
I agree...
I AGREE WITH YOU
I’m almost convince that Ben Zulu is not from planet earth 😀, I give it to him, he always have answers to every relationship questions, what a man? May God bless your wisdom🙏🏻
I love the way this guy brings out Bible principles. Want to be happy in your relationship, monogamy among other things must be employed
Wow this was amazing. Let’s give Benjamin his own show , the wisdom
You can't be careless after listening to Zulu.
Zulu you qualify all.
You deserve a Noble prize for real.
Benjamin Zulu we will one day snatch u to Uganda. U are so intelligent. Increase the volume PLEASE
Mirembe Stella no mirembe we will snatch him to South Africa . He is Zulu ..
Colleen Lunga hahahahahaaa.....
Snatch me with him.. IG name felix thatguy 😁
@@collenlunga8841 as long you dont make him shaka zulu we can led you for one week but no more than a week
Dnl kkkk his last name is Zulu and that’s why we are claiming him back to Zulu tribe , and yes we will be giving him Shaka’s spear lol
We hear with our ears and listen with our eyes! Love this phrase
This man Zulu, amazing stuff "as long as she is not married she's in the market" sisemi kitu! always insightful
this made my day also
You are a real man Benjamin. I like your advises.
Amen! That point of “prayer is where we vent, it’s where we get direction” is powerful! God bless us all and help us remain rooted in prayer.
Wa Leo Dr. Zulu amechapa looks mbaya😘😘
Wooow what a message whose listening!
This guy is always on fire but he was on FIRE TODAY YESS!👏🏽🔥🔥💯
Am learning so many thinks from you pple. I love everything
Benjamin Zulu please start your own RUclips channel
Wow Benjamin really knows how to dress. He is a good example of practicing what you preach
And I am always in love with Joyce's hair. #hair goals
Benjamin Zulu speaks facts. I just love the insights.
Benjamin Zulu deserves his own show
As long as she's not married, she's on the market.
Benjamin am really admired to see and know your wife introduce her one day any way you are chosen by God to help the society
Preach on brother. Such wisdom thank God there are men like this.
i always love the way Benjamin afvise wisely
That very true, it too romantic & caring for a husband to serve a wife.
Benjamin Zulu is on point as usual!!
I love Benjamin's outfit! Joyce also looks amazing!!
thank you so much!
Leo si umeoga Benjamin, wakunywe wote!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂🙌🙌
Am addicted to this show
😍😍😍 I love the way he laughs. Very informative.... Thank you ☺️
woo,I really love his dressing code today.
I just wish these episodes are downloadable and use it as reference
Download vidmate app.....wt it u can download these ones
You can download Snap tube APP
💛 Zulu u are wise(positive, embracing, kindly correcting, believing we can all do better) and urself( passionate, alive and honest).
Thanks Benjamin your a real inspiration to my life
This show has made me subscribe to switch tv... Love u Joyce
Super fan of Benjamin Zulu! 👌🏾🥰 Love this show, thank u Joyce 👏🏾👏🏾😍
Amaizing amazing information..kudos
Oh my God to this man is full of wisdom ❤️
Wow Benjamin you are a real motivator
"My Man keep getting mad every small thing" check when or how it started or what triggered it and start addressing it from there. There is something that may have caused it or maybe the language of communication you use affects his ego. Check and rectify.
"Avoid two wives if you are a man " The girlfriend is sweeter when dating coz she is a forbidden element but once a wife that sweetness goes" True 100% Benjamin but some circumstances force such situations however distasteful it is-Druven that route by the first wife.
"Disowning or criticising wife in front of children or public is wicked but the same applies to men too. It should be discouraged.
"Prayerful man is best but some wives makes their men not to go to church together as a family-Living hell through embarrassments or jelousness or attitude.
"When we got married, my husband used to pamper me, nowadays even lunch he doesn't take me, other men fills in the void ". Madam, marriage cannot be run by revenge and attitude but sobriety, understanding and compromises. Do not try to destroy your marriage by intimidation or level headedness or challenging him, instead trace the cause and together speak it out. That attitude you have can easily end your marriage in a huff.
"Men fear difficult conversations with women of means....." Benjamin has ably put it in perspective. Don't fear engaging a woman with ssame frequency or higher intellectual capability as you in preference to ordinary mediocre ladies that will hardly speak from the same wave lengths as you......! That is full wisdom Benjamin, my man. You have killed it. Unknown to many many marriages die because men lost out on this aspect. They married a wife that hardly articulate any meaningful or tangible wisdom but still demands or wants the man to hear and implement her point of view. The difficulties in some low/mismatched couples is that a woman that came to a man that is already high in thinking capacity or level of intellectual capability thinks by virtue of being a legal wife, she MUST throw her ideas not as an idea or point of view but as a dictate for implementation safe the fact that that idea is good but not practical to consider given the position(Reasoning/thinking capacity) of the man. At the end, friction kicks in, conflicts start, cheating comes in and the end, every man is called a cheater/ a dog. Until and unless really causes of marriage disfuntions are addressed, the man(often silent) shall always be termed a dog safe the fact that, still ladies marry those dogs!
Inspiring,by the way men should stop asking we ladies if we're dating..aty first date umeenda tu hivi.. kwa table anakuuliza if you dating just present your case if we're not married, we're in the market present your case you being a man you can have what am looking for coz naeza kua kwa situationship na sijui.
Be equally yoked on ALL levels. In thought, word or deed.
Hello Benjamin. I m enjoying the show. God bless you.
Benjamin...that's a real talk bro kudos..
Much love from Qatar, Doha
974 tuko ndaani bro
@@damah8431 follow me kwa Facebook @dancankhisa
Oh wow 💪 💪 💪 💪. Benjamin is so Amazing 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍. Thanks a lot. Eagles don't team up with chicken 🐔 💃💃💃💃💃
The best informative video I've watched all ages is this.. I love this man❤️🔥
Amazing ❤❤❤learning each day..thanks guys much love for the good Job 🙏
I wish every man cld listen to this thanks Benjamin
May my future husband as described by Zulu locate me in Jesus name.
Where are u
@@my_keygaucho2257 in kenya
Benjamin's outfit is dope
Benjamin, where have you been? I have been trying to articulate this, I am perceived to be arrogant. Associate with your class because they are on their way somewhere and no jealousies, no strife,no stress there.
As long as she's not marriage she's in the market preeeeeeeach #zulu
Benjamin you always make my day in relationship side 💐
I need to give Benjamin a call
I see Benjamin Zulu I click😊😊😊🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Problaby he is a Zulu descendant... mfecane times that is when people moved out from Zululand
That's me, even my friends say I sound like Benjamin Zulu 😂 when they come to me for relationship advice.
AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING. THANK YOU
Amen Amen today banja he is preaching
Am just addicted to you Benjamin!
I have learnt alot
Thank God i discoverd this channel.
Haaaaaa haaaaaa waa big up Benjamin na Joyce
Mr Zulu is on fire, preach.
Lukuuuuu imeweza mbaya! Mr. Zulu... this topic is toooo funny omg😁😁😁😁😁 am a go getter in a situationship, so it's truly hilarious how you've described
I give Amen to the title already
Haha its better not to get married so that we enjoy the love and care
Henrypaul from 9ja, thanks for this, and for not using swahili here.
😂😂😂
@@icequeen620 👑 ☺️
Absolutly!!
Take service as a pleasure
Fall in clubs fall in lodgings😂
she eagles oyeee
Preach!!!!!
🤣🤣🤣 miscles aki woyeeee 🙌🙌🙌🤣🤣🤣
I agree with you Ben, polygamous is recorded not commended.
Always on point
@ min 11:40;41 stuck my mind
Dr. Benjamin Zulu and Joyce kindly may you tell us Why some people (men/women) in the name of marriage they revenge or whatever you called it asking for extra money 💰 from what he/she contributed . Example if he/ she bought food cost ksh 1,000/- or playing school fees. Used excuses 😂 is sick or blaah blah to get more money 💰 from partner or kids from.
I have learned alot
Unaskia wewe apo una scroll. AS LONG AS YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, YOU ARE IN THE MARKET
Benjamin Zulu ke
Marry a woman who has the same frequency as you
Yeah don't get your differences out of the bedroom
Everything should start and end in the bedroom
😂😂😂😂 hapo kwa polygamy atlst i hv samthing to defend myslf now kwa hawa wanaume hushinda wakitorment madem aty bibile imesema..
Wow. Best advise ever to Fathers. "Read your bible to your children" It sticks for years
Too..many advert😡
👏👏👏👏
♥️
#situationships
You have a good show but it's spoilt by too many adverts, really off putting.
Adverts pay the bills ama ... They are trying to make a living by making your life better...
@@joycewan5106 Too many put off the same people you are trying to attract.
Great
Get a woman who has capacity
Ati as long as she is not married she is in the market? Haiya! 17:04
Min 15 is climax I think
You’ve put so many adverts in such a short clip it’s so annoying
You listen with your ears but eyes dont have looking at someone. 4:50 you claimed something not profound. The blind dont see but listen attentively
Thank you for trashing the 50_50 model used by pookies,I can never respect a man who expects me to contribute 50.
Simping is zulu's strength....I wish he was an expert
He's a professional psychologist.
At least someone said it😂
Guys need to be careful following his advice.
If you're looking for a professional from a man's perspective look at "coach Greg Adams" on RUclips
....and yet here you are... low vibing. 😟
There are many, go find one
@@TheExperiment1337 I know Greg Adams. That's the worst thing you can do. Red pill coaches like Greg Adams will seem to make sense but blindly following their advice will ruin your life.
Change the word prayer with meditation. Prayer implies religion, and not everyone is into religion.
@ Joe Rungi. How are you? I hope the year has been good for you so far. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Give Jesus a chance to love you unconditionally as your Lord and personal Saviour♥️
Joe I see you’ve been over dozing on that meditation 🧘♀️ stuff on RUclips from people who are searching for meaning in life , disregarding God while running back to the spiritual habit of connecting with supreme , divine authority who is essentially God ! It’s confusing I know but don’t complicate your life - pray through Jesus Christ to the ☝️ God . Simple
It's KK yes indeed. Well put
It's a Christian show
Very true.. Meditation is BS
The authority of second third and even tenth wife (concubines) lies on the hands of first wife(queen)and not on the hands of husband(king) refer to Abraham Sarah n haggai story
Sarah actually begged the husband, do u know any woman who has asked or begged for a second wife???
@@alpnehir2971 it was not a wife but a person to give birth for him since sarah was old and according to her(human beings overall) she couldn't give birth since she was past menopause, and when hagai changed and started disregarding sarah,abraham gave the full authority to his wife
How many Abrahams do we have today who stay by their wives without sleeping around n making their wives heart ache with pain
Margret karugah Abraham’s wife #sarah was impatient on waiting on God’s time and that’s why she pushed and pushed Abraham and eventually he impregnated his maid which wasn’t God’s plan but it was out of Sarah’s impatience.