I stopped dating in my 30's. Risks were infinite and rewards where nil. Retired at 55. No family, everyone is gone. Not bored or lonely. Healthy, Happy and Wealthy. And I thought this podcast was going to be about vintage stereo equipment.
I knew when I was three years old that I wanted to live alone. Yes, I also knew that I would have to work and be a part of society per se, have retirement income, etc. That said, I'm almost 71, maybe miss the family idea, but for the most part I count my blessings that I live alone. Not lonely, but happy alone.
As a kid, I always thought it was weird that there was so much societal pressure on people to pair up. I wasn't sure that was what I wanted. Turns out, I prefer being single -- and even friends of mine who are couples may choose to maintain separate residences. In some cases, that's probably one of the things that accounts for the longevity of their relationships! There is no all-purpose blanket "solution" that works for all people, and some of the loneliest people I've ever known were married. You can say that individuality is overrated, but so is conformity.
Is that a Pioneer SX-580 Receiver behind you? If so, that was my first receiver that I bought with money from a paper route back in 1980 from The Federated Group in Canoga Park, California.
Definitely an interesting topic. It's not just men going it alone, women are too. I'm guessing many just haven't found "the one". Definitely a challenge to navigate life as a single nowadays.
Yeah I'm marching to the beat of my own drummer but it does weigh on me, until I start dealing with people again and I can't wait to get back to my solo retreat. Perhaps I shall build a wall of vintage amps as well.
Dear Rosie, you got it. This society wants to get rid of normality. We are forced to deal with technology even if we don't want to. We actually do not live as our parents and grandparents did and this is the reason why we became sort of isolated and self centered. We barely see "the others". This is the reason why we don't want to share anymore our life with another human being. Oh well, soon they will sell robots so we won't be "alone". Sad ... really ❤
Hey Rosie! Great video & so true. Even though I have been married for 34 years I can see exactly what you are saying through my adult sons. It seems to me along with taking God out of schools breaking up the family unit has been something the ppl who lean towards Socialism & Communism have been working on for 50 + years now; once these two things are accomplished everything else they want us to conform to will b easy. I remember learning this at my Catholic School & at the time it was difficult for me to understand however these days it's quite clear that the above is correct. Take it easy! 😊
I appreciate your insights because this is an important subject. So here are my thoughts about the issue of loneliness in the older generations. There's so much loneliness for older people living by themselves. But for some, they've experienced disappointment, hardship, loss, etc., so the concept of dating to potentially find a partner/spouse is overwhelming, and they ask themselves about the risk/reward of it all. For me, single at 62, I ask these questions of myself all the time. I want to spend the rest of my life in love, comfort, health, surrounded by family and friends that I trust and can depend on; however, bringing all that together takes time. I've learned to appreciate the value of constantly re-inventing my life. In some instances, 1 (person) + 1 equals much more than 2; both parties are better for it; and we should always be striving for it! I think most people want love and companionship, but finding lasting love and compatibility is challenging, and as we continue aging, it becomes harder and harder. That's my two cents on just one of the issues that you brought up in the video - your commentary's always thought provoking. Sorry about my long comment - I tried my best to shorten it!
Nice haircut, Rosie! Yes, times were so different in the 1960s… Such a different mindset. My mom dropped out of UCLA at age 20, to marry my dad (he was 4.5 years older) & become a “housewife”, while my dad was the “breadwinner.” Then, she became a stay-at-home mom & housewife, until I was 10, when my parents got separated (they ended up getting divorced). My mom got a full-time job right away, & my sister & I had childcare after school, which sucked.
Solitude is better than drama. Many people prefer to live alone. In my country "Singapore", we have more than 150,000 single household (one person living). Since most of us here are living in apartments, these apartments are near to shops and food. So it is rather convenient.
Being a single Mom, after several years of marriage to an alcoholic was very difficult, yet, my daughters & grandchildren were & still are the lights of my life. Life was made more difficult by the inequality in pay. So many men seem to think it’s OK to sleep around & ignore their responsibilities, that women are sometimes afraid to get married and have children. My story is not uncommon. As a society, we need to raise our children to avoid drugs & overconsumption of alcohol & accept responsibility. I am very proud of my daughters, who worked throughout college, graduated, one with a Masters degree. It was financially difficult, but I wouldn’t change anything, except that their father died in his forties as a result of the alcohol dependency. Alcoholism is a disease. No one asks for it, but anyone who craves alcohol should take that as a warning that it can destroy lives. Take care & God bless all.
You've pointed out the paradox with women. Women choose who they will date or sleep with. Women are increasingly choosing the men that will cheat on them because they tend to be the higher status men - either because of income, physical characteristics or becasue they are the bad boys that give them the tingles. Young women especially are increasingly happy to sexually share a high-status man with other women and forgo marriage - and won't even consider the lower value men - men which tend to be more faithful because they don't get as many opportunities. Men can't fix this problem. Only women can.
Thank you Rosie this was interesting and I being 66 and single like yourself has become a fact of life for me. So much to say but not here! But you certainly got me thinking! Love ya tons!❤
62yo divorced man w/no kids here in the US. I've been alone a long time and I'd like to find some good woman so we can be alone together. haha. I think it is good that women have their own resources and can make their own choices. I think by mid-life most women who have made their mark and or perhaps have not like to control the relps they are in rather than enjoy a mutuality, but I may be wrong about that. For example, your wall of sound which I find amazing would be a total no go for most women unless it was out in the garage or basement. They'd maybe allow one unit in the living room provided it gave them some enjoyment.
Like many things, it depends. Some people have the temperament to go it alone, others don't. I had my share of women, good times and bad. Even if I was married with a 2nd income, I'm convinced that I wouldn't have been able to retire debt free at 55. Consumerism seems ingrained in women's psychology. Bigger homes, new cars, upgraded kitchens and baths, etc...
Gosh Rosie; it’s so wonderful to hear you do these thoughts on life! I so enjoy them! I have a lot I’d like to say, but I’ve watched this twice and I’d like to watch it again before I comment. What would be very interesting to see is comments from the different generations. Things are majorly different from my Grandparents (RIP) my parents (RIP), myself, and my Gen Z kids that have small children! There was a shift every single Generation that effectively changed how we lived and who we became. Excellent, Rosie! Bravo!!!! ❤
Well, you are spot on Rosie.. At 48 years old, it is shocking to me how inflation has shredded the bottom line in 5 years..I feel for the folks that live a simpler life just trying to get by..Inflation has choked off their dreams.. Maybe, you could start a mobile bicycle repair business, you got the van for it… Hehehe.. Have a day Rosie.. WIOOOOO😂❤️
This is a great topic it is soo different today , i think we are ment to be paired up as long as we are Compatible hold the same Values and such . As we age it get's more important to have a partner everyone needs someone to be able to count on . Exactly Rosie we all need family unit ❤ Even if it's friends 🤗
This isn’t just a realization today Rosie - people have the accomplishments mentality like you and I or they don’t Most don’t ? That should not compromise those who have paid their dues
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I stopped dating in my 30's. Risks were infinite and rewards where nil. Retired at 55. No family, everyone is gone. Not bored or lonely. Healthy, Happy and Wealthy. And I thought this podcast was going to be about vintage stereo equipment.
I am very happy to be single. No price you can put on peace, freedom and quiet.
I knew when I was three years old that I wanted to live alone. Yes, I also knew that I would have to work and be a part of society per se, have retirement income, etc. That said, I'm almost 71, maybe miss the family idea, but for the most part I count my blessings that I live alone. Not lonely, but happy alone.
Retiring at 50 is worth infinitely more than having some three way legal contract with a woman and the state.
As a kid, I always thought it was weird that there was so much societal pressure on people to pair up. I wasn't sure that was what I wanted. Turns out, I prefer being single -- and even friends of mine who are couples may choose to maintain separate residences. In some cases, that's probably one of the things that accounts for the longevity of their relationships! There is no all-purpose blanket "solution" that works for all people, and some of the loneliest people I've ever known were married. You can say that individuality is overrated, but so is conformity.
You will see as you get older...
Is that a Pioneer SX-580 Receiver behind you? If so, that was my first receiver that I bought with money from a paper route back in 1980 from The Federated Group in Canoga Park, California.
You have an awesome vintage stereo receiver collection.
The wall of vintage receivers is impressive. Music/Audio is just one passion that makes single life amazing. Women are jealous of their own shadows.
Definitely an interesting topic. It's not just men going it alone, women are too. I'm guessing many just haven't found "the one". Definitely a challenge to navigate life as a single nowadays.
Yeah I'm marching to the beat of my own drummer but it does weigh on me, until I start dealing with people again and I can't wait to get back to my solo retreat. Perhaps I shall build a wall of vintage amps as well.
Very thought provoking subject.
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definitely thought provoking
Rosie,you are so right-and everything is falling....
I have noticed my married/ relationships male friends are more lonely and have less of a social network than the single ones.
Dear Rosie, you got it. This society wants to get rid of normality. We are forced to deal with technology even if we don't want to. We actually do not live as our parents and grandparents did and this is the reason why we became sort of isolated and self centered. We barely see "the others". This is the reason why we don't want to share anymore our life with another human being. Oh well, soon they will sell robots so we won't be "alone". Sad ... really ❤
Hey Rosie! Great video & so true. Even though I have been married for 34 years I can see exactly what you are saying through my adult sons. It seems to me along with taking God out of schools breaking up the family unit has been something the ppl who lean towards Socialism & Communism have been working on for 50 + years now; once these two things are accomplished everything else they want us to conform to will b easy. I remember learning this at my Catholic School & at the time it was difficult for me to understand however these days it's quite clear that the above is correct. Take it easy! 😊
its get old ,being single,tho
Agree!
Gets older dating a psychotic lying narcissist.
You can always meet someone
Never
I appreciate your insights because this is an important subject. So here are my thoughts about the issue of loneliness in the older generations. There's so much loneliness for older people living by themselves. But for some, they've experienced disappointment, hardship, loss, etc., so the concept of dating to potentially find a partner/spouse is overwhelming, and they ask themselves about the risk/reward of it all. For me, single at 62, I ask these questions of myself all the time. I want to spend the rest of my life in love, comfort, health, surrounded by family and friends that I trust and can depend on; however, bringing all that together takes time. I've learned to appreciate the value of constantly re-inventing my life. In some instances, 1 (person) + 1 equals much more than 2; both parties are better for it; and we should always be striving for it! I think most people want love and companionship, but finding lasting love and compatibility is challenging, and as we continue aging, it becomes harder and harder. That's my two cents on just one of the issues that you brought up in the video - your commentary's always thought provoking. Sorry about my long comment - I tried my best to shorten it!
Well said, very true..👌
@@dannymcnally6211I agree!
@@dannymcnally6211I agree ! Well Said
@@dannymcnally6211I agree well said !
“The juice ain’t worth the squeeze “
Nice haircut, Rosie! Yes, times were so different in the 1960s… Such a different mindset. My mom dropped out of UCLA at age 20, to marry my dad (he was 4.5 years older) & become a “housewife”, while my dad was the “breadwinner.” Then, she became a stay-at-home mom & housewife, until I was 10, when my parents got separated (they ended up getting divorced). My mom got a full-time job right away, & my sister & I had childcare after school, which sucked.
There's not much dating in the teens and 20s because Chad and Tyrone occupy the girls time until 30 - 40 years old.
Solitude is better than drama. Many people prefer to live alone. In my country "Singapore", we have more than 150,000 single household (one person living). Since most of us here are living in apartments, these apartments are near to shops and food. So it is rather convenient.
Being a single Mom, after several years of marriage to an alcoholic was very difficult, yet, my daughters & grandchildren were & still are the lights of my life. Life was made more difficult by the inequality in pay. So many men seem to think it’s OK to sleep around & ignore their responsibilities, that women are sometimes afraid to get married and have children. My story is not uncommon. As a society, we need to raise our children to avoid drugs & overconsumption of alcohol & accept responsibility. I am very proud of my daughters, who worked throughout college, graduated, one with a Masters degree. It was financially difficult, but I wouldn’t change anything, except that their father died in his forties as a result of the alcohol dependency. Alcoholism is a disease. No one asks for it, but anyone who craves alcohol should take that as a warning that it can destroy lives. Take care & God bless all.
You've pointed out the paradox with women. Women choose who they will date or sleep with. Women are increasingly choosing the men that will cheat on them because they tend to be the higher status men - either because of income, physical characteristics or becasue they are the bad boys that give them the tingles. Young women especially are increasingly happy to sexually share a high-status man with other women and forgo marriage - and won't even consider the lower value men - men which tend to be more faithful because they don't get as many opportunities. Men can't fix this problem. Only women can.
there can be no high standard of living without a labor shortage. labor will not be valued unless it is scarce like anything else.
Thank you Rosie this was interesting and I being 66 and single like yourself has become a fact of life for me. So much to say but not here! But you certainly got me thinking! Love ya tons!❤
62yo divorced man w/no kids here in the US. I've been alone a long time and I'd like to find some good woman so we can be alone together. haha. I think it is good that women have their own resources and can make their own choices. I think by mid-life most women who have made their mark and or perhaps have not like to control the relps they are in rather than enjoy a mutuality, but I may be wrong about that. For example, your wall of sound which I find amazing would be a total no go for most women unless it was out in the garage or basement. They'd maybe allow one unit in the living room provided it gave them some enjoyment.
You always put up such thought provoking content Rosie; good food for thought!!
Yeah, you’re never lonely will all that hi-fi equipment.
Like many things, it depends. Some people have the temperament to go it alone, others don't.
I had my share of women, good times and bad. Even if I was married with a 2nd income, I'm convinced that I wouldn't have been able to retire debt free at 55.
Consumerism seems ingrained in women's psychology. Bigger homes, new cars, upgraded kitchens and baths, etc...
not true with all woman ,tho
Gosh Rosie; it’s so wonderful to hear you do these thoughts on life! I so enjoy them! I have a lot I’d like to say, but I’ve watched this twice and I’d like to watch it again before I comment. What would be very interesting to see is comments from the different generations. Things are majorly different from my Grandparents (RIP) my parents (RIP), myself, and my Gen Z kids that have small children! There was a shift every single Generation that effectively changed how we lived and who we became. Excellent, Rosie! Bravo!!!! ❤
Well, you are spot on Rosie.. At 48 years old, it is shocking to me how inflation has shredded the bottom line in 5 years..I feel for the folks that live a simpler life just trying to get by..Inflation has choked off their dreams.. Maybe, you could start a mobile bicycle repair business, you got the van for it… Hehehe.. Have a day Rosie.. WIOOOOO😂❤️
This is a great topic it is soo different today , i think we are ment to be paired up as long as we are Compatible hold the same Values and such . As we age it get's more important to have a partner everyone needs someone to be able to count on . Exactly Rosie we all need family unit ❤ Even if it's friends 🤗
This isn’t just a realization today Rosie - people have the accomplishments mentality like you and I or they don’t Most don’t ? That should not compromise those who have paid their dues
Money is the problem
Oh no I better watch this 😂❤
If youre in touch with the source, youre never alone.
Currahee!
Don't dry out that acoustic guitar.
👍
I'm trying my best to find another husband!
Amanda he's out there,and when you meet it will be ❤ !!!!
You never know when it comes, but it will when you least expect it. Life is filled with mystery.
if your single you get a cat - done.
Your're 66?!!!
You look really great Rosie 66 you have a very youthful look.😊
Rosie you just holla you know my family is 25k strong 😁❤️
Yet married men lives 5-12 yrs longer. It takes 2 . More like 4 😅