SPEND A FULL NIGHT WITH A NEWBORN! *10 DAYS OLD* newborn night routine 2022 | exclusively breastfed

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @Peachykeen_13_
    @Peachykeen_13_ 2 года назад +625

    Such a gorgeous video, but the Snuggle Me and the Dock-a-Tot both carry huge suffocation risk. Neither are approved for sleep. Many babies have died sleeping next to their parents in these cushioned loungers. They’re banned in some countries because they’re so dangerous. Please consider transitioning your gorgeous boy to a flat mattress and only using the Snuggle Me when baby is being observed closely. Parents think they’ll hear a baby struggle but suffocation is silent and only takes a few seconds to be fatal.
    Perhaps you could also put a disclaimer on your videos so other parents can be informed of the risk of infant suffocation using these products?
    Xoxo

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +170

      I’ll pin your comment for others to see 😊 appreciate you taking the time to mention this! I’ll be sure to put a disclaimer in my caption🫶🏻

    • @Peachykeen_13_
      @Peachykeen_13_ 2 года назад +17

      @@MadelieneVanMarter thank you! That’s very kind of you.

    • @snehaadithya3423
      @snehaadithya3423 2 года назад +2

      I am also young mom

    • @camposwifey8905
      @camposwifey8905 2 года назад +14

      @@MadelieneVanMarter they’re also banned in Canada !

    • @cassiem3893
      @cassiem3893 2 года назад +138

      See, folks! This is how you have a civil conversation, even if you don’t agree on things. So nice to see! 😊

  • @kabwem.trozzi3614
    @kabwem.trozzi3614 2 года назад +605

    For anyone who’s a first time mom struggling through the newborn stage. It gets better! I’m a first time mom of an almost 4 month old and life is way easier now .

    • @thembelihledunjana
      @thembelihledunjana 2 года назад +16

      Great to know💖 thank u

    • @kabwem.trozzi3614
      @kabwem.trozzi3614 2 года назад +26

      @@thembelihledunjana yeah no problem! I remember feeling like I was drowning for the first two months… but it forsure gets easier as they get older

    • @merryladdo6556
      @merryladdo6556 Год назад +25

      Glad to know... because I miss sleep

    • @Nita-zf3eq
      @Nita-zf3eq Год назад +11

      and it gets worst again when they are teens xd

    • @kabwem.trozzi3614
      @kabwem.trozzi3614 Год назад +5

      @@merryladdo6556 I’m sleeping better now but not as good as I used to before baby

  • @katiep3027
    @katiep3027 2 года назад +175

    I just delivered my first and she is 3 weeks and 3 days... Some nights look like this, others include Cluster feeds. It's all so exhausting, getting maybe 4-6 hours of sleep in a day (of course not all at once) exclusively breastfeeding while trying to take care of ourselves too because our bodies just went through the most it has ever done (hello 2nd degree tear). Plus the anxiety that comes with visitors, or driving with the baby, wanting to be in public like a normal person but being overstimulated, the hotflashes, the physical and emotional healing. The days are long but the weeks are short. As hard as it is, getting to know the human I grew in my womb, smelling her head all day, watching her grow so fast, crying because her stump fell off lol, watching my boyfriend be the sweetest dad, it's all so perfect.

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +5

      We just hit a bump in the road a couple days ago where he’s cluster feeding a ton and very gassy 😵‍💫😪 I couldn’t explain life with a newborn better!🥰🥰

    • @kyciarelli3847
      @kyciarelli3847 2 года назад +2

      Wow this comment perfectly sums up motherhood. I’m a first time mama … just 3 days postpartum and hearing that I’m not alone in everything that I’m feeling, is so validating. Motherhood is the best, I wouldn’t change it for anything!

    • @artsyweirdo
      @artsyweirdo 5 месяцев назад

      Ditto girl. Ditto.

  • @GraceCreatesLivingSpace
    @GraceCreatesLivingSpace 2 года назад +36

    I saw maybe a few hours of sleep and that is the most realistic of these videos I have ever seen. I can’t get baby to sleep in her bassinet for more than 20 minutes. We’ve had a couple times where it was two hours but I can’t turn my brain off and every noise I sit and wait for it to become crying and cannot stop myself. Sleep is rare and I’m constantly exhausted beyond words.

    • @untamedocean
      @untamedocean 4 месяца назад +2

      That happened to me a lot too, I know that phase is hard

  • @cathykrueger4899
    @cathykrueger4899 Год назад +44

    I’m an old grandmother and I really enjoy your videos. I love all the new things available to make it easier to be a mother and a baby. Your voice and your graceful demeanor are a blessing to your children. Please tell your husband what a lucky man he is!

  • @MaryHoberg
    @MaryHoberg 2 месяца назад +3

    I love that you show all you do with your babies. A lot cook, exercise, and put on makeup during most of their videos. So, I thank you.

  • @katieelogann
    @katieelogann 2 года назад +38

    These night are the hardest but yet the sweetest moments. Knowing you are so exhausted to wake up but yet so much excitement to cuddle a new little one 😭 praying for you always mommas I hope everyone is doing amazing!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +2

      you're the best katie 💗🥹 I know i'm going to miss it one day😭 so just pushing through! & were doing much better than last week!

    • @katieelogann
      @katieelogann 2 года назад

      @@MadelieneVanMarter I’m so glad to hear! He’s just the chunkiest little man 🥺

  • @FCUK-
    @FCUK- Год назад +16

    I'm 34 and watching ur video I realize I'm still not ready for that kind of life yet. I'm glad you make these. Its so hard for me to function with no sleep and I felt ur exhaustion through the screen. Idk how u mamas do it. It looks extremely hard can't imagine how it feels day after day. I know it gets better but oof I bet it feels like an eternity in the moment.

    • @ColeLe684
      @ColeLe684 4 месяца назад +2

      It's incredibly tough, but we all manage to do it by adapting. None of us think we’re capable of what we accomplish. Having a good partner is helpful, too!

  • @KendraKjolseth
    @KendraKjolseth 2 месяца назад +3

    I know people say the newborn stage is the hardest, but it’s what I’m looking forward to the most. 🥰

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 месяца назад

      @@KendraKjolseth in my experience it’s been the best🫶🏻 toddlers are wilddd 😂

  •  2 года назад +12

    I always wanted to be a mom. I’m not pregnant or anything. But caring for a new born looks kinda hard. Im glad that you are receiving support with him and the other babies.😊

  • @missnicthomas
    @missnicthomas 2 года назад +28

    Thank you so much! I’ve watched this countless times. I’m pregnant with my first child, due April 2023. This video truly is a great comfort. Your babies are adorable. ❤

    • @noelleaf1288
      @noelleaf1288 Год назад

      How is the first month with your baby so far ❤

    • @evadnerock4269
      @evadnerock4269 Год назад

      Much blessings to you, congratulations on your new baby! God bless you!

  • @Angelica-yr9tj
    @Angelica-yr9tj 2 года назад +82

    I'm 39 weeks and two days with my first baby and seeing how precious Lincoln is and what a strong mom you are help me to keep pushing through pregnancy lol. Oh and I have also had a cold so it's nice to know I'm not the only one going through this sick! Thanks for posting!!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +3

      Oh my gosh a cold while full term is not for the weak! The last couple weeks can feel sooo long haha. Hang in there mama!!🫶🏻 I’m so glad my videos help!

  • @rachelcombs5102
    @rachelcombs5102 Год назад +6

    I'm pregnant with my first baby right now and watching videos like this helps ease my anxiety about the future. Thank you for sharing!

  • @untamedocean
    @untamedocean 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for your honesty, it really helps other moms mental health in those similar situations, we know we are not alone ❤

  • @erinkoerper3232
    @erinkoerper3232 2 года назад +86

    I loved this video! Lincoln is precious!! I found out I’m pregnant with our first not long ago and I’ve been so scared and nervous, but your videos calm me and make me excited to be a mom! You’re so amazing, keep it up❤️

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +12

      awee congratulations!💗 I felt the exact same way with my first but once they're in your arms everything changes🫶🏻 im so happy my videos help!

    • @leannepayne4081
      @leannepayne4081 2 года назад +5

      @@MadelieneVanMarter Just a peice of friendly advice for a new mother. Take it as you wish, but when I was a new mom I new nothing about putting my baby on much if a schedule. I did try to do a basic feeding schedule, but other than that I didn't know much. My baby was three months ond when I was talking to my sister about her kids and she told me the schedule she had done with her kids, and I tried it. It was amazing! I had scheduled naps, and bedtimes and basic feeding times etc. Things were smoother during the day because I could better predict why my baby was sad. He also slept better through the night. I know a set schedule isn't for everyone, but it helped me. There are many out there and you can find what works for you.

  • @jotce7025
    @jotce7025 2 года назад +75

    I'm due in about 2 weeks and watching you two feels so emotional! Can't wait to hold my baby boy ❤

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +4

      Awe you’re so close! Congrats 🥰

    • @Soph-ts9yb
      @Soph-ts9yb Год назад +3

      How did it go?! I’m due 2 weeks and petrified

    • @jaseyraeTV
      @jaseyraeTV Год назад +1

      Same feels. I still have 8 weeks to go but I’m already teary-eyed. I will be having a boy as well and I already love him so much.

  • @charusharma9650
    @charusharma9650 2 года назад +9

    Something so difficult can be peaceful too.. your videos capture that essence and calms me down❤️

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 2 года назад +46

    I love all his little newborn noises he is so cute 💕

  • @len4891
    @len4891 2 года назад +63

    im also a young mom, and i am so happy i stumbled upon your channel, i have one boy and oh motherhood is really tiring 😳 but fulfilling! seeing you do the work for all your boys makes me think you're really a super mom. 💗 i see you momma!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +5

      awe thank you Cait! it's 100% tiring no matter how many littles you have! I feel like I was more tired with my first baby than I am now hahaha. I think feeling tired is my new normal 😂

    • @சிரின்
      @சிரின் 2 года назад +1

      What's your age sister?!♥️

    • @len4891
      @len4891 2 года назад +1

      @@சிரின் me? i am 22 years old with a 1 year old kid. 😊

    • @pbf2681
      @pbf2681 Год назад

      Pushing his wind out like that was incredible! I’ve never seen that done before

  • @kimvuong217
    @kimvuong217 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for sharing your daily life. I'm pregnant with my first into the 6th week and this is very helpful and calming . 💜❤️

  • @jannaj9598
    @jannaj9598 2 года назад +6

    Aww this reminds me of when my son was born this year in May. I was extremely tired and it was hard having to wake up at night etc. but babies are the perfect gift.
    This vid bought tears to my eyes 🥰

  • @paridoesupcycling
    @paridoesupcycling 2 месяца назад +1

    thank you so much for this video! i'm now 5 months pregnant and still have no idea what to expect when the newborn arrives! this video shows me exactly what to do and what i need! God bless you!

    • @animalsaroundus2
      @animalsaroundus2 Месяц назад +1

      This is so exciting!! Are you six months now? I’m 35 weeks with my first and getting really nervous lol 😂 but I’m so excited. Are you having a baby boy or girl?

    • @paridoesupcycling
      @paridoesupcycling Месяц назад

      @@animalsaroundus2 yes!!! OMG congratulations for you future mama! i'm very excited as well, mixed feelings between nervous for the life changing moment, it is also my first😁mine is a boy! we're in this together sis!

  • @marmccown3537
    @marmccown3537 Год назад +3

    Cute video but Any thoughts on the baby sleeping in the lounger? I’ve heard this isn’t good and can increase risk of SIDS. I’m a mother of a 2 month old and I’ve been told this, so curious on your thoughts.

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  Год назад +1

      I personally let him sleep in it until he could move. So around 8-12 weeks. He doesn't roll or turn the first 3 months so I had no issue doing so. but that's just my personal opinion!

  • @toniweeks8026
    @toniweeks8026 2 года назад +10

    So sweet! Congratulations to your family. I'm 25 weeks with my baby boy. I'm super excited, and anxious. Your videos are definitely calming, and they have helped me with my nesting as well. 💕

  • @zeniawelch4606
    @zeniawelch4606 2 года назад +3

    8 more weeks🎉 motherhood is hard but it’s beautiful and as I’m seeing you tend to your cute lil baby all I can say is I appreciate my mom so much n all the moms out there❤

  • @nyasworld8025
    @nyasworld8025 2 года назад +8

    I’m glad I came across this cause I’m expecting my first child in April so this is helpful so I can see what’s going to happen as a first time mom

  • @dearcole123
    @dearcole123 Год назад +1

    Omgosh…..I’m 13 weeks pregnant and a redhead. This is making me feel some kind of way….watching this video. Thank you for sharing.

  • @giselleogeer6522
    @giselleogeer6522 Год назад +3

    I used the snuggle me as well despite knowing the risks and it turned out great. My son is 9 months now and life is a breeze.

  • @valentineramey6851
    @valentineramey6851 2 года назад +17

    I’m 28 weeks with my second child (another boy 🎉) my son is 5 so I’m watching these videos mentally preparing myself and this video was great !! His little roots were so cute 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @jodichannells9446
    @jodichannells9446 2 года назад +5

    Watching this as my first son is 10 days old. I had a caesarean so the past few days have been hard with the pain, as well as getting the hang of just not getting any sleep. My boy likes to sleep all day and keep mummy on her toes at night

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +1

      Awee wishing you all the best and a speedy recovery🫶🏻🫶🏻 those late nights are tough 😞

  • @chavin3
    @chavin3 Год назад +8

    Hi, first time dad here. My son is almost 1 week old and its been a challenge our nights. I cried yesterday in desperation lol. My wife is having trouble breastfeeding so baby is pretty cranky since no milk is enough. Thanks for your video :)

    • @nyrea8163
      @nyrea8163 5 месяцев назад +2

      Breast feeding is great but if you’re having trouble producing maybe switch to formula. There’s nothing wrong with formula and consulting a lactation professional. A fed baby is a happy baby no matter how it is that they get fed

    • @hellonomasonto
      @hellonomasonto 3 месяца назад +1

      @@nyrea8163Exactly! I couldn’t agree more. People act like feeding a baby formula is giving them poison 🙄. Just feed the baby! The first priority is that the baby is fed and is FULL. That’s it. Feed the baby!

  • @marymansbridge9327
    @marymansbridge9327 2 месяца назад +1

    A very realistic video ,brings back beautiful memories.

  • @sandracruz6540
    @sandracruz6540 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing…. It was so soothing and I learned something new with the stuffy nose.. I currently have a 1 month old and the nights can be rough… I know it does get better.. this is my second baby. Sending much love ❤️

  • @oksanabeall5866
    @oksanabeall5866 2 месяца назад

    Omg, ur so sweet and seem like a wonderful mom. I appreciate this cause I have a 10 week old, who was preemie and extra challenging 😢for awhile so far. Trying to get my other babies adjusted has been hard with her being such a difficult one. I hope to keep seeing more advice and ur journey 🎉❤

  • @anaveragelifeinwashington
    @anaveragelifeinwashington 2 года назад +5

    These past few videos have been great! I am a brand new subscriber and your videos are so informative! I am currently 20 weeks pregnant with our first baby and these videos give me sooo many helpful ideas for what I need/don't need to buy, what to expect, etc. Thank you :)

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      I'm so happy they can help in some way! & congratulations! 🫶🏻

  • @sakarutala
    @sakarutala 2 года назад +2

    same here with my 23 days newborn! hope my sunshine will be as healthy as his growth, xoxo!

  • @Bilisjourney
    @Bilisjourney 2 года назад +6

    thanx for sharing this, how precious specially for parents that have no clue what to expect!! 👌

  • @Helensche
    @Helensche Год назад +2

    I got 4 more weeks to go i cant waiiiiittttt! Thank you for sharing! So peaceful 😊

  • @nothingsimpossible3508
    @nothingsimpossible3508 2 года назад +3

    You are so beautiful inside and out! I’m 35 weeks and I’m so amazed at how calm Lincoln is! He is so at peace and adorable! I co-slept with my kids when they were babies too! You’re such a great mom and prayers and blessings to you and your family!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      He has been very easy so far! He’s a lot like Darin when he was as a newborn ☺️ congrats!!

    • @animalsaroundus2
      @animalsaroundus2 Месяц назад

      Ok so I’m actually so curious about this because I’m a first time
      Mom, about to have my baby in the next month, and I want to co sleep but I AM SO NERVOUS! like what if I squish my baby? How do you guys do it? I really need any pointers I can get

  • @mimi_j
    @mimi_j 2 года назад +2

    What a little squish 🥰🥰 he’s living his best life. God bless you all and thanks for sharing

  • @madisonblake2428
    @madisonblake2428 2 года назад +9

    I found your channel when I first found out I was pregnant and now i’m in the hospital waiting to have my own little boy! love your channel, congrats on another cute baby boy 💙

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +1

      Awe congratulations!! I hope everything goes smoothly for you and baby💙 & thank you🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @elinthess2053
    @elinthess2053 2 года назад +1

    You're doing great mama! I can't believe you have 4 kids, I have 2, my yongest being 7 months old and i'm exhausted. You're such an inspiration! ❤

  • @heatherr55655
    @heatherr55655 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for this video:) I am 38 weeks with my first, so kind of due anytime now. Trying to watch lots of these videos to prepare my expectations lol. You have a beautiful family!

  • @staceyjohnson5184
    @staceyjohnson5184 Год назад +1

    You are an amazing mom! Keep up the good work..definitely hard day and nights but just know,God doesn't give you anything you can't handle! God bless you and your beautiful family!!

  • @storieswithanne
    @storieswithanne 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for sharing an honest video of your evening, I am a first time Mom-to-be in August so just mentally preparing myself for this...

  • @Rose-pj1fg
    @Rose-pj1fg Год назад

    Mothers are amazing! I can't even imagine staying up all night every day to take care of someone.

  • @kimuhiffy
    @kimuhiffy 2 года назад +2

    thank you for this! i’m due in less than 2 weeks with my first and this really was a comfort bc i’m panicking, lol. ❤

  • @rosegoldcreates
    @rosegoldcreates 2 года назад +3

    Ah this makes me want to have another baby!!! I have a 4, almost 3 and 7 month old. I miss those precious newborn days ♡ you go momma!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      The first year goes by so fast 😥

    • @rosegoldcreates
      @rosegoldcreates 2 года назад

      @Madeliene VanMarter it really does! That new born stage is gone way too fast!!

  • @katherinebuterbaugh8470
    @katherinebuterbaugh8470 Год назад +2

    You're such a great mom. I may have watched this one already but not sure. I don't know how you do it with that many little ones but your doing a fantastic job. Love and Prayers to you all. Keep up the great work with all your kids and husband.👍❤️🙏

  • @Natoshade
    @Natoshade Год назад

    Years from now you will
    Be so glad you made this I love it it’s real

  • @Loveandkindness33
    @Loveandkindness33 2 года назад +9

    I just had my baby girl 5 days ago and I will say we have very similar routines and setups! Our babies look identical too, especially with the hair. I’m not a young Mom, I’m 38 and boy do I feel it!!
    I LOOVVEEE my Haaka too. I seem to be producing more since using it. It’s like it helped open more ducts. Well done Momma on this video!
    Love from another Momma in Orange County, California!❤

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +1

      Awe congratulations!! & yes I completely agree about the Haaka!

    • @esrafamily3459
      @esrafamily3459 2 года назад

      I had a baby girl 40 days ago and 39 years..😁

  • @gwilliams3239
    @gwilliams3239 2 года назад +17

    Those little baby farts were adorable. I’ve got approximately 6 weeks until my little man arrives. My first, so this video was really helpful. Also, feeling better about my snuggle me purchase. Great video ❤

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +2

      Congratulations!! You’re almost there!🫶🏻 so happy to help, and the snuggle me is one of my favorite newborn products!

  • @jazpoop7976
    @jazpoop7976 Год назад +1

    The tiny fridge idea is perfect!

  • @riaa-c
    @riaa-c Год назад +1

    I remember the first 3mos of taking care of my baby. Not easy. The first month, I was sleepless. It only started to get better by the 2nd month and from sleep training with swaddles

  • @christinatelfer3196
    @christinatelfer3196 2 года назад +1

    You are doing the best job such a good mama❤️. I’m 15 weeks pregnant with baby no 2 and your videos make me so excited🥰

  • @aldrinsmithson
    @aldrinsmithson Год назад +2

    The gas part was so funny! I loved your video I am due in July and can't wait to meet my baby boy!

  • @paigezamora
    @paigezamora 2 года назад +5

    You inspired me to start my own channel. Thank you 🤍 I’m kinda nervous on starting a vlog channel but I think it’ll be a fun hobby, I’m a stay at home mom with 3 boys certainly pregnant with our 4th boy, I’m 29 weeks pregnant. Super excited for him to get here. Love your videos 🤍 xo

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +4

      love to see another boy mom on here! let me know when you post your first video, ill watch it! 💗 I cringe at my old videos but practice makes perfect and everyone starts from somewhere. starting my channel was the best thing I ever did. i genuinely enjoy the creative process and it gave me something outside of being a mother

    • @DarlingKaya
      @DarlingKaya 2 года назад +1

      i subbed :)

    • @darlenebatts5115
      @darlenebatts5115 2 года назад +1

      I Subscribed to your channel. Good Luck.

    • @paigezamora
      @paigezamora 2 года назад

      @@MadelieneVanMarter thank you so much, I literally sit and just binge watch your videos. I love them, they are so so relatable to my life. I LOVE a real mom, this would be my 3rd time trying to start my channel I just need to have faith in myself and show my real life, being a mom is so hard sometimes I feel like I lose myself, I feel like this would help me feel that way as well. 🤍

    • @paigezamora
      @paigezamora 2 года назад

      @@DarlingKaya thank you so much 🤍 I subscribed back ❤️

  • @loretta2539
    @loretta2539 2 года назад +1

    currently 37 weeks and 5 days, I'm getting nervous as I get closer to meeting my little girl (the good kind of nervous) and I feel unprepared to how I will take care of her despite having family to help and been watching alot of videos. I really like your video and seeing that is was made very recently gives me sense of secure because most of the videos I've seen were from 6+ months ago or over a year ago.

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      Your natural instincts will kick in! 💗 I’m glad my videos help!

  • @tinarina4747
    @tinarina4747 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing....my due date was on January with my first..i found this video makes me more confident ❤️❤️

  • @BananaRussell
    @BananaRussell 2 года назад +8

    You're a wonderful mommy! Congrats again and welcome to the world, Lincoln!

  • @DarlingKaya
    @DarlingKaya 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this im gonna try to enjoy being 26 weeks pregnant and not having to do this yet :p i so want the pregnancy to be done but this is a good reminder how my nights will be. I feel soooo sorry for you to be so tired i just feeelt it when u were sitting nursing with your eyes closed ugh so hard❤ ur doing so great!

  • @zylieeeee
    @zylieeeee Год назад

    i'm 22 & a first time mom, i can't seem to relax & i spend almost 90% of my time fussing over my newborn. i eye him even when she sleeps and fuss over every sound she makes. hopefully i get my life arranged like all these youtube moms making everything look so organized & aesthetic. 🥹🫶🏻

  • @WoojooB23
    @WoojooB23 Год назад +1

    I’m 29weeks (will be 30w in 2 days) and this video makes me tear up knowing that I’ll be doing the same thing very soon. Thanks for the video. Lincoln is so cute 💖

  • @flowerpower18100
    @flowerpower18100 2 года назад +1

    this makes me miss when my daughter was a newborn.. glad I have another one on the way :)

  • @himanginaik2682
    @himanginaik2682 Год назад

    Of.all the RUclips videos with newborn routine, this one is closest to one I had with both babies. Co- sleeping, baby change setup in bed. Also mini fridge for milk. One thing I would like to suggest is getting head board, so that you always some back support while feeding.

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  Год назад

      We just moved into our house the day before Lincoln was born so none of our furniture was set up😅 then we realized our bed was too high and the bassinet was too low

  • @lesliegalindo7692
    @lesliegalindo7692 2 года назад +13

    These are exactly what my nights looked like as a first time mom. My respect for mommies has grown so much more since having my baby. She is now almost 2 months old and I miss my baby being so little.

    • @nor-ainataala7111
      @nor-ainataala7111 Год назад

      Me too now may little boy is one month and 4 days ❤️ they say time flies when you have child and that's true🍼

    • @anaabrt
      @anaabrt Год назад +1

      Does it get better as they hit 1/2 months old ?? Bc I feel so stressed and tired from the sleepless nights bc sometimes it’s hard putting the baby down.

    • @lesliegalindo7692
      @lesliegalindo7692 Год назад +1

      @@anaabrt It definitely does. My baby now only wakes up about 2/3 times a night for her diaper change and to eat. However I do cosleep so I’ve found that it helps me a ton, especially right now that nights are cold. But it will get better as your baby grows because they tend to create a schedule for themselves.

    • @lesliegalindo7692
      @lesliegalindo7692 Год назад +2

      @@anaabrt What I also suggested is feeding your baby and holding him/her for about 30ish minutes after they fall asleep until you hear their breathing super soft so you know they’re in a deep sleep, then put him/her down. I used to struggle a lot before when I would put her in her bassinet because I would lay her down during her light sleep so she would wake up almost immediately after I set her down.

    • @anaabrt
      @anaabrt Год назад

      @@lesliegalindo7692 thank u for the advice, I do my baby is a week old and he has his days where he would sleep quickly and some days it would take like an hour to put him back asleep even though I fed and changed him.

  • @alliehusky5138
    @alliehusky5138 Год назад +1

    You are a rockstar mom!!!!!!!! Wow, you are an inspiration.

  • @cdobrin89
    @cdobrin89 Год назад

    You are so calm! And organised! I know this was awhile ago but I got a few tips and inspiration from watching. I have 3 kids and would like a 4th possibly so it's nice to see what you do with 3 kids and a baby. Keep up the great work, love the vids!

  • @kiwikixo
    @kiwikixo Год назад

    Thank you so much for these videos! I’m a first time mom going to give birth to a girl any day now and this is so extremely helpful! 🥰💕

  • @seanna262
    @seanna262 Год назад +2

    I can't wait for this again🥺🥺❤️ such an awesome video mama. Love it!

  • @hammettgirl
    @hammettgirl 2 года назад +2

    You are a super mom and have the cutest baby ever!! Congratulations on your 4 beautiful boys 💗

  • @andreaa.1393
    @andreaa.1393 2 года назад +6

    He is adorable, God bless your family❤️Love your channel☺️

  • @fizawhipnexus
    @fizawhipnexus Год назад +2

    Loved it! Thank you so much for sharing it with the new mothers like me, who don't know what the heck they are doing.

  • @emmy1916
    @emmy1916 2 года назад +8

    You’re doing such an amazing job! Love your videos ❤

  • @BloodSweatandFears
    @BloodSweatandFears 2 года назад +2

    I’m such a nerd over here taking actual notes 😂❤ 9 weeks to go for me and I appreciate all the great info you provide! Thank you from NJ!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +1

      No that was literally me when I was pregnant with my first hahhaa. Had a little notebook and everything 🤣

    • @BloodSweatandFears
      @BloodSweatandFears 2 года назад

      @@MadelieneVanMarter Yes! Me too 😂

  • @yukinoOoO
    @yukinoOoO 2 года назад +1

    I wish my newborn was like yours! She was one of those babies that didn't want to sleep and the only way she would sleep was in our arms or after nursing while laying on the side. I was so tired for months!

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      We’ve been having a rough week since this night 😵‍💫😂 but I feel like that’s always how it goes! Things are easy one second and then not the next hahah. I love nursing and laying but you are literally a statue all night. I wake up so stiff some mornings!

  • @chcltsailor11
    @chcltsailor11 Год назад +1

    Good job Mama..🥰 this was nostalgic to watch...I have 2 boys..a 10 year old and a 19 year old ( who is now in the Navy)....over the years I've always told my 19 year old that he taught me how to be a Mama 🥰.. I had to remember how I handled him in every situation when it came to my now 10 year old when he was a newborn...I'll tell you this..cherish these moments 💙...

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  Год назад

      Awe y love that🥹💗 my brothers sun the navy! He just graduated basic!

  • @lindseybrown4637
    @lindseybrown4637 2 года назад +2

    I can so relate to this. My son is 7 weeks old and some nights he wakes every 2 hours. That's pretty brutal! However the nights where he sleeps in 3 and 4 hour stretches are like heaven...... Hang in there, thank goodness this stage doesn't last forever.

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      Yess that extra hour or two really makes a difference! 😅

  • @malikaturner4420
    @malikaturner4420 2 года назад +6

    Such a super mommy ❤I just wanted to tell you that you are doing a great job 🥰

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      Thanks girl🥰

    • @priscilarivas4920
      @priscilarivas4920 Год назад

      No lo carguen simplemente deslen el pecho y no se anden lebantandono q se lebantan a andarls paseando la noche no es para andar bpseando tiernitos

  • @mamajacquelinebts9776
    @mamajacquelinebts9776 2 года назад +31

    I love co sleeping with my boys too. Feels so much more secure hearing them breathing next to you. He's beautiful hun,huge congratulations. My 2nd is currently 4 months,my eldest is almost 12 years old,so feels so lovely having the baby snuggles again 😊 lots of luv. 💕

  • @silentsavage8226
    @silentsavage8226 2 года назад +2

    I'm due in February, I'm very ADHD so I just hope my nights could resemble some kind of order like this 😅 Landon is so cute. 💙

  • @allypotts79
    @allypotts79 2 года назад +2

    New here and your little man is gorgeous 🥰 my little girl is 8 weeks,she's my lucky last as I have older children,my oldest daughter is 26 and no grand children yet,can't wait to watch more of your videos when I'm up at night feeding also🌟♥️♥️
    Congratulations mumma

  • @michellemcneill9292
    @michellemcneill9292 2 года назад +2

    So peaceful ❤️❤️ Lincoln is so sweet

  • @KaycieeCupcake
    @KaycieeCupcake 2 года назад +11

    Love this! First time momma a month ago so can relate to a lot of this. ❤️

  • @hollybradley4849
    @hollybradley4849 2 года назад +1

    Lincoln is so sweet. Our third and last baby will be turning a year in a month. Your videos with Lincoln make my heart ache a bit it's all so fleeting especially the newborn days. All the best to you ❤️

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      Thank you Holly💗 I know it’s so bittersweet 🥹

    • @LucasiaOfficial
      @LucasiaOfficial 3 месяца назад

      Do not say your “last baby”, you never know what happens, and you shouldn’t reject it!

    • @hollybradley4849
      @hollybradley4849 3 месяца назад

      @@LucasiaOfficial mind your business 😀

  • @meaghancolella4394
    @meaghancolella4394 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video, I'm having our first baby in 10 days!!

  • @saramuresan9305
    @saramuresan9305 Год назад

    This is such a precious video! Such a sweet family, thank you for sharing☺

  • @ChristinaGisele
    @ChristinaGisele 2 года назад +5

    Such a nice realistic night routine. Thanks for sharing with us. I just found your channel and been enjoying watching. I put the snuggle me on my registry. He is such a cute lil newborn💙

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      thank you💗 The snuggle me is one of my essentials for newborns! I hope you and your baby love it!

  • @camillelutali
    @camillelutali 2 года назад +2

    Just had a newborn too!! ❤️. My 3rd, I have a 2 year old & a one year old as well so I totally understand 😅 . Loooove your channel 💖 God bless!!

  • @zyhritoyoko8201
    @zyhritoyoko8201 2 года назад +1

    I mean I’m 26 so I wouldn’t call myself a young mom necessarily but I am a first time mom 33weeks pregnant and your videos have helped me so much ❤ I know nothing will make me 100% prepared for when baby comes but your videos do help me feel a bit more prepared ❤

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад +1

      I’m so happy to hear that! Videos like these helped me feel prepared too when I was first pregnant 💗 congratulations!🫶🏻

    • @zyhritoyoko8201
      @zyhritoyoko8201 2 года назад

      @@MadelieneVanMarter well thankyou so much for sharing your life with us❤️ we appreciate you🥰🥰 and congratulations on your new baby ❤️❤️

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      Thank you!!💗🥰

    • @samanthab5006
      @samanthab5006 2 года назад +2

      I'm 33 and at 5 weeks with my first. From my perspective you are a young mom 🙂. I wish now that I would've started younger but unbelievably happy (though still worried) to be pregnant now. I wish you a healthy safe delivery for you and your baby!

    • @zyhritoyoko8201
      @zyhritoyoko8201 2 года назад

      @@samanthab5006 Congrats in your baby and I’m sure we will both do great❤

  • @chelseabrehm4519
    @chelseabrehm4519 4 месяца назад

    Love this! Thank you for posting videos like this. Definitely helps! 😊 music is very relaxing as well.

    • @chelseabrehm4519
      @chelseabrehm4519 4 месяца назад

      May I ask how u got him to fart so much? lol just pushing his feet into his belly??

  • @janinenussbaumer3936
    @janinenussbaumer3936 2 года назад +1

    You are such a sweet mum❤️ love all of your videos

  • @lizz3104
    @lizz3104 Год назад +1

    He is soooooo cute 🥰Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m due towards the end of April.

  • @Natalie-qi3yl
    @Natalie-qi3yl 2 года назад +2

    I do miss this newborn stage ❤ Your doing amazing btw x

  • @jaquezgordon4698
    @jaquezgordon4698 Год назад

    you are a great mother and teacher i will be giving birth in two more months and i have learned alot from you this is my first baby and i hope god bless you and your family........

  • @sadicr7
    @sadicr7 2 года назад

    Awh Congratulations! I dont know how you do it 🙈 your an inspiration to many.. lotsa love from the UK ❤️

  • @cassiem3893
    @cassiem3893 2 года назад +1

    I have 4 sons as well. They’re all big now but this brings back memories. 🥰 Nice to see another mom of 4 boys, it’s actually pretty uncommon where I am. 😊

  • @Jennifer43238
    @Jennifer43238 2 года назад +7

    LOVED this video!! Lincoln is so adorable 🥰💙 these kinda videos are making me so excited to have my daughter soon 🙊💖 xx

    • @MadelieneVanMarter
      @MadelieneVanMarter  2 года назад

      Awe congratulations💗🥰 I’m so glad you like it, thank you!!

  • @rosiesaints9138
    @rosiesaints9138 Год назад

    I want to congratulate and celebrate the honesty. My daughter is a first time mom and suffered mastitis from improper latching. Honestly our insurance carrier is atrocious. Don’t get Kaiser Permanente for health insurance due to the lack of support from lactation specialists. My daughter had a C-section and they basically told her on the second day she was discharged. She wasn’t even allowed to request more time to get a better hold on it. When I asked if they offered one on one she said that they were outside providers who charge from 275-400 depending on the time. Which isn’t covered. My daughter has seen all these videos telling her that she would have time for makeup and hair. Honestly with a newborn baby you barely have time to sleep if you have help. To all you wonderful mamas out there please don’t be hesitant to ask for help. As a grandma I am so there. I take up night feedings to let my girl sleep for the best of both her and my grand baby

  • @Sham33rah
    @Sham33rah Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us, I’m a new subscriber, I stumbled across one of your videos today and was really touched by it! ❤