I’ve been retired for 9 months now and one of my goals when I retired was to lose some weight. Being stressed at work and chained to a desk made it very hard for me to focus on changing my eating habits. I’m proud to say that I’ve now lost 43lbs. 😀
Congratulations! That is a great accomplishment. Losing weight is at the top of my list when I retire. I’m just too mentally and physically exhausted after work to do anything other than fix dinner and clean up.
I really have to stop the news . It's honestly affecting my daily life, and I feel stressed watching it. I will not save the world, but I can save myself .
I really believe if each person took care of the people in their immediate surroundings and control the variables they have control over, societal problems would be mitigated. I stay away from watching the news too!
I got off Facebook years ago, never been on twitter, Instagram etc had LinkedIn only for work type stuff. I’m the unpaid taxi driver for grandkids but time is mine now, I’d been in the road for 20+ years so governed by watch and meetings. A change to an office role I took my watch off for 8 years. Have only just started wearing it again
Nailed it! Retired just over a year. I rarely drive over the speed limit anymore since I give myself more time to get there safely. I choose not to spend time with people who don't respect or fulfill me, even if they are family. I don't buy much and really think about whether I need something before buying it. Sold my house and moved to an apartment (rental). Freed up equity to retire early, saves on home maintenance costs plus time and energy (no more snow shovelling!), and makes it easier to travel when I want to. Loving it!
I no longer bother with people I don't like, related to me, or not. Had enough of putting up with toxic people when I was working. Don't need the drama kings and queens; my mental health is Priority #1.
Here's a thing I started doing now that I'm retired: an after-dinner walk. Love it. Never ever had time or energy for it before, but now it's such a lovely way to end the day...a gentle walk around the neighborhood or parks, even when it's dark. I just love it.
I worked for 42 years and I retired at 60 eight years ago. I feel exactly the way you do. I love every moment of my retirement because I don't have to answer to anyone and I can do whatever I want when I want. When I'm tired, I can take a nap anytime I want. I can read books all day if that is what I want to do. I can daydream. I can see the sunshine every time it shines. I worked in huge concrete megalith in a cubicle. Couldn't see the sunshine all day. My blood pressure went down to normal levels after I retired. They took me off my high blood pressure medication. I'm finally living my life. I don't feel like a robot anymore. I can feel enjoyment every moment, not just when I can squeeze in a few enjoyable moments in between a very busy schedule. No schedule. In fact, a good month for me is when I don't have to write down any appointments on my calendar. lol!
I have stopped being our family's "Cruise Director". It's been a process, but I can't make everything magical anymore. It's time for me to quit worrying if "everyone is having a good time". Whew. Now I can relax and have some fun!
When I retired, my plan was to get rid of a little "junk" every day. Eleven months later, I'm still looking at most of it. It's a little overwhelming. I know I just need to get started. Here's a quote I need to remind myself, "Eat the elephant one bite at a time."
It really is crazy when I think about that being my everyday situation, sometimes having less than 30 minutes to eat; it is not normal!! but we often do it for years. Retirement is the normal life!
Im retired almost 2 weeks, and instead of what Im NOT doing, I find the one thing I AM doing is spending more time with and helping friends/family. When I worked, I couldn't offer help, as I just didn't have the time or energy. Now, Im happy to help a friend who is recovering from surgery and help my daughter with my grandaughter. Now, I have time and energy for relationships.
Cutting back on news. Stay low on weekends. I don’t hurry much anymore. It becomes a habit. It took me a few years to slow down. Your video really reminded me of how I was and now how I am getting to slow down.
I stopped going to parties and other social functions that I really did not want to attend. I used to go and have a miserable time. Now I very politely decline.
Take your time because you control your time. Is most important to me. When I schedule a doctor's appointment it's mid day, I'm not rushing to get up but do it at my leisure.
Retired with injury at 50, now 70... Great list ! I would add that looking at Church, or some avenue of spirituality, as a source of comfort, hope and companionship is a pleasure. Just making new friends can be the start of a new journey. Thank You, Julie...
Amen! I’m on the verge of Throwing in the towel and Telling my employer I quit , hello retirement . 780’days to go but not sure I’ll make it til then. Once a week I get rid of “stuff”( can’t believe I spent sooo much money on crap over the decades- I could be retired now if input that money in an ETF)
I had planned to work until 59 1/2, but I didn't make it! I just couldn't do it anymore. I also would be much better off financially if I had not bought so much stuff in my younger days. If only we could go back and tell our younger selves! 😄
I'm certainly looking forward to getting rid of my work uniform - not only will it clear space in my wardrobe but will hopefully get rid of some bad memories too.
Been retired 3 years, turning 60 in 5 months and like you, I don't do stuff that I don't want to. This week I have a cold so I used Walmart pick up to load up on meds and have kept to myself. Unlike the working days of feeling guilty for calling in sick for 1 day, not to mention 2 or even 3! It's been about a week of having a cold and I think I am just about over it by staying home and resting! Disconnecting from the news, especially last month was a huge weight off my shoulder and now my new life skill!
Me too. Actually at my job Mondays were my day off but l didn't enjoy it. I would worry about what mess l would have to clean up on Tues. I was a mail carrier and my substitute carriers usually didn't care about making mistakes or keeping my work station and delivery truck tidy. Not to mention l did not care for my work environment. I love retirement.
Probably the best retirement advice I've seen. But also just good general advice. We are all coerced and manipulated into so many useless and negative actions. Everyone needs to "free up".
One additional area I haven’t been doing most days is setting an alarm clock. I go to bed when I want and sleep until I naturally wake up. I feel like a much better version of myself due to quality sleep. I have so much more empathy for those who are rushing around like I used to. I definitely agree with the list you shared. My favorite is making plans on the week days and staying in Saturday and Sunday (other than church).
I agree! I've only had to set an alarm twice since I retired! Once for a dr. apt. and once to catch a flight! I also have been getting the best quality sleep! 😃
I love your video! I’m not yet retired but will be in 18 months. And I cannot wait! I’m counting down the days. I will not miss my alarm clock, emails, deadlines, office drama, and everything work related. I stopped buying work clothes years ago. Gosh, to have weekdays to do what I want to do will be heaven! Everyday will be Saturday! Thanks for this!
I no longer separate my washing into colors, or line dry "delicates" . Everything goes in the washer and dryer at the same time. The world hasn't exploded yet.
Love! I am trying to hurry less and declutter daily as part of my prep for retirement. Also, I don't use my time in places or with people that don't add value on some level.
The media today is all about what to think and not just reporting the facts anyways. Trust me, you’re not missing anything by not watching the news. I haven’t watched the news in ten years. Great video. I wish you well and enjoy your retirement. 🇨🇦💝🙏🥰🥂
Good video. A very polished delivery. I retired 13 years ago and my wife died 7 years ago(from a tick bite). I agree with most of your 5 things. I still take advantage of deals on antique tools and machines. They are my hobby and I will leave them to my son whom I am teaching to operate and repair the "treasures". If the economy goes like the late 1980s, having a side business can make life a lot easier. I found that after retirement my normal day shifted. I used to get up at 5:30 am and go until about 10:00 pm. Now I'm more often 8:00 am to 1:00 am with an hour long nap after lunch. I try to go back to the earlier schedule but, my body doesn't like it. Have fun. Good Luck, Rick
Thank you! I'm so sorry you lost your wife. Ticks are awful! I agree having a hobby that could potentially make money is a good plan. Sounds like a nice life! ☺
sorry for your loss I guess that's the other big thing when we get older we lose friends and family loved one,s people who are close to us thanks for sharing and good job for keeping on going for the remainder of your family ❤
This is the first video of yours I have watched. I knew before the halfway point that you were a teacher. I retired two years ago from teaching and agree with you 100% on all points!
@ yes but it was more of what you were saying because I identified with it so much! People have no idea how much stress teachers are under and how we really don’t have personal lives during the school year. Or at least that was my experience. I am so glad to be retired. Your Happy on Monday name is perfect!
1. NO MORE Rushing 2. STOP buying STUFF! 3. WEEKENDS are MINE 4. Don't say YES to others unless you really WANT TO! 5. Don't watch the News Channels...enrich your LIFE! I recently retired. I have DEFINITELY slowed down especially when driving and I've said "no" more often surprising EVEN me. You are CORRECT, it is now time to ENRICH MY Life. Thanks for a great video!
2-1/2 years into semi retirement (I still sub now and then at school)…. embracing the ‘slow living’ and more minimalist lifestyle more and more. I’ve found I don’t miss ANYTHING I’ve donated or thrown out 👍
I enjoyed your video. My husband and I both retired six years ago. I was 62, he was 68. We bought a small place in te mountains and moved a few months after we retired. Then the bottom fell out. My husband developed a diabetic ulcer on the bottom of his foot that would not heal. Ended up having his leg amputated below the knee. A couple years later open heart surgery to replace two heart valves. Then an ulcer and emergency surgery to stop the internal bleeding. And then there’s the never ending GERD symptoms. My husband pretty much sits in he is recliner most days and sleeps. I ‘m responsible for his care, all decisions and everything that has to be done day to day. I’m bitter and angry at how our retirement has turned out. It’s more work than any job I ever had. I’m desperately trying to find peace in what my life has become and let go of the bitterness and anger. I am thankful that I’m not having to deal with all of this and having to go to work at a job, too.
I am so sorry to hear about all of your husband's medical issues! That's just awful! He is very lucky to have you taking care of him. One of the reasons I retired early is the unkown about my health in the future. I hope you can find some help with taking care of him. And yes, it would have been awful if you were still working! 🙂
That’s sad for your husband. Sounds like you’re in good health, maybe a few days a week pay for a caregiver so you can at least have down time and walk some trails or whatever. God has a plan but it’s tough. Praying for both of you
Happy Birthday Julie! This resonates so much with us. Our home and property owns us, and we are so done letting it control our lives. We are starting the decluttering process. We are hoping we can break the habit of owning stuff. We absolutely fall in the camp about feeling selfish when we do anything for ourselves. Us relocating, we know a lot of people in our close circle think we are being selfish moving away from our family.
@@HappyonMonday That's what we keep trying to tell them. If we can retire 7 years earlier, it means we can spend more time with them then a few hours here and there.
Totally agree with the 'Stuff" I was lucky to move at 59. I got rid of so much stuff. I only have what I need now. And the news? The news ain't the news anymore. It's there ti piss you off. Don't need it.
Excellent video! I am 61 and have been doing those things since I retired in 2106. I worked 35 years, 25 in the Canadian Navy then 10 at a nuclear plant. It was enough. This biggest take away from your video is the news. I stopped watching during covid. It was too depressing. I went off Facebook in 2020 and was that ever the right decision for me. Thanks for a great video!
@@HappyonMonday I have noticed so many in our age group doing the same....many videos on here about that. Yours stood out, great job!, I subscribed as you have very interesting content.
Love this!!! I feel the same way! I let people go ahead of me in lines because they have children or appear to be in a hurry. Ty for summarizing things! This is sooo me! I have always been a pleaser according to my kids so, reclaiming my space has been a major accomplishment!
You recommend the boundaries book to me a while back. I found it so helpful! I think our culture encourages being “crazy busy” and productive. I’m ready to take some time to rest and reflect on what I want the rest of my life to look like. I feel like I’m a few steps behind you on the retirement journey. I’m sure many of us appreciate your insights and sharing what you’ve learned. Can’t wait for your next video!
I rarely use an alarm clock, I rarely drink alcohol, I try to plan ahead so as to not have to rush, I am still working on decluttering - seems to be neverending, haha
I'm 62 still working (4 more years) I've stopped caring what people think about me I've also learned to say no at work and at home I also have a sense of freedom at my age that I can't explain but it's wonderful. These videos help me when I retire thank you
Boy oh boy are you right. The news has been so depressing and anxiety inducing. My husband is watching it for hours. It does nothing but make him worry and get depressed
Julie you made me smile many times. I retired at 57 after 32 years of teaching high school English and loved it for the most part. I am still somewhat materialistic but it is waning. Who do I want to impress anymore? They all know I did well. I have planned every 3 years to do a nice trip but that is it. I still do weekly restaurants but less than before. Your videos are very similar to what I am learning about myself too. 😊
You are on the right track! I retired 3yrs ago (68) I am so much better for it! I haven’t started giving stuff away, I leave it for my 3 children to divvy up! Enjoy your retirement!😎👍🏻🍷
Happy Birthday Julie - love your channel - you have found your purpose in retirement - and I really resonate with you. In the process of getting rid of clutter and organizing what is left - it feels so freeing - makes cleaning so much easier! I almost feel like an adolescent in retirement - no more bosses - yay!! :-)
I just quit working at 59. No retirement payment even after 40 yrs in the psych ward. Tired and worn out physically. Have to wait fo 6 yrs to get the minimal payment, but my GOD how good it feels! Weekends are mine, days are mine. LIFE IS MINE! ❤️🇳🇴🙏🏻
I love doing what was weekend activity on the weekdays. Drive with fewer people on the roads, shop when fewer people are in the stores. I’ll be 60 in 3 months, been retired for 4 months.
Thank you so much for this! I am still working and am planning on semi-retiring in 5 years (finances require that). The points you spoke about have been an awesome reminder of some of the attitudes and ways of thinking that I can work on now in order to better enjoy my "wind down".
@@HappyonMonday I'm 72, and way ahead of you. Now if only family members would dispossess themselves of their seven storage lockers full of "stuff" so I don't have to go through the discard process ever again and again and again....... My hand is on the phone ready to dial the dumpster company right after the funeral service. Is that over the top? Not if you've had to handle an over the top full of junk estate, it's not.
I have only been retired for almost 4 months so I'm still learning. I worked 8/8 for almost 30 years for an unnamed company that counted milliseconds and we used to joke about not taking the time to sneeze or they would doc your pay. I wanted to help my wife more because she still works until 1pm m-f at a job she loves and doesn't want to retire just yet. I learned quickly that she did a lot and I was so production oriented that I felt like I had to get all the housework and our farm work done by 1. She finally set me straight, lol, 😅 and told me to stop stressing. I have finally learned that if I don't get it done today, it will still be waiting on me tomorrow.
I am LOVING your content, Julie! I'm 45 and hoping to early retire around the age of 47 or 48. You are a true inspiration and your videos keep me motivated. Enjoy your day! 🙂
I stopped doing all of the same 5 things as you. I laughed out loud when you said you like being ignorant. I do the same about not watching the news. I watching you as drive across the country. This is how I started watching you. Lastly, everyday is Saturday YAY❤❤❤❤
Great video. I don’t do all the things you mentioned anymore either. I live in metro Phoenix and surrounded by very large high schools, middle and elementary schools, I wait to go out and run errands after they are all safely tucked away in class and mommy and daddy have gotten to work. Then it’s my time. I haven’t gone out on the weekends in years. Not worth it.
I'm 10 months out from being able to retire. I drive an average of 70k miles a year for work and I'm stressed out! When you taked about being impatient and angry all the time, that really hit home with me. I'm sick of all the stress and know I'd be a much nicer human not having to deal with it all the time. I want to be happy again. "Everyday is Saturday, yay!"
What a wonderful video. Everything you stopped doing, are things that I'm working on as I approach retirement in six months. One thing that I'm coming to grips with is leaving the work world behind and have started putting closure on the person that I was (an employee) and looking forward to reinventing myself as a retiree. That said, I wish you the very best of retirements.
Great video ☺I agree with all of these points. I retired 3 months ago and my husband retired 8 months ago. We figured out the best days to go do grocery shopping and run errands and it's so nice to do midday walks/hikes when nobody else is around! Now that Winter is here we will be having a big clear out although we are fairly minimal in our possessions, it's still something that needs to be done regularly. I regularly forget what day of the week it is now and rarely look at my watch!LOL The best is not having to get up at a certain time and letting your body wake up naturally. This has done wonders for my mood and energy levels. I don't watch any sort of news or read any either. It's quite liberating and does wonders for keeping my anxiety levels down.
I’m 55 this year and plan on retiring at 60, these five things are brilliant and I’m going to incorporate them into my retirement. The one thing I’m looking forward to doing is being more involved in my church activities. Thank you!
I turn 59 in March, I retired at 51. I’m living life large. I’m just trying to make it to Social Security age to get some of that back they took from me! I hurry at times, I watch the news all the time, I’ve never done something not work related that I didn’t want to do. I buy things, lots of things from auctions and estate sales and resell them for tax free income and it’s fun. Everyday is a weekend now!
The last time I watched the news was April 20th, 1999. As a fellow public school employee maybe you understand why. It's one of the best decisions I ever made.
I’ve been retired for 9 months now and one of my goals when I retired was to lose some weight. Being stressed at work and chained to a desk made it very hard for me to focus on changing my eating habits. I’m proud to say that I’ve now lost 43lbs. 😀
Wow that's fantastic!! Good for you! That probably adds years to your life too! 😃
Congratulations! That is a great accomplishment. Losing weight is at the top of my list when I retire. I’m just too mentally and physically exhausted after work to do anything other than fix dinner and clean up.
@ Thank you! I went from a size 22 to a 16 and I feel great!
That is AMAZING! So excited for you!
@@Murphy-repellent Thank you so much!
"You're allowed to outgrow people. This includes past versions of yourself"...pure gold!
I love that quote! ☺
I really have to stop the news . It's honestly affecting my daily life, and I feel stressed watching it. I will not save the world, but I can save myself .
That's exactly how I felt!! 👍
I really believe if each person took care of the people in their immediate surroundings and control the variables they have control over, societal problems would be mitigated. I stay away from watching the news too!
Just tune in when you need some advice about your vote from opposing viewpoints.
Do it. YESTERDAY. I stopped more years ago than I can remember. I’m early 50s. I probably haven’t watched, or paid attention since the ‘80s.
@@r.joseph8911 That's awesome! ☺
Retired 2 years ago, I go to bed when I'm tired, get up when I'm rested.
It's the best! 😁
My favorite thing to do is _nothing_ and just _Be_ ~ as the saying goes, we are not Human Doings, we are Human *Beings*
I LOVE this! What a great saying! ☺
I stopped using an alarm clock when I retired. Make most of my appointments 11am or later. It's great to wake up naturally every day.
I agree!! I LOVE not waking up to an alarm clock!! 😀
I was stressed to the max when the eye doc said they could see me at 8:30am I am usually still sleeping at that time.
@@rbspiderI hear you. I absolutely don’t make any appointments before 9:30.
I still work but stopped using an alarm years ago. It's amazing that 99% of the time im up when I need to be.
I’ve stopped news, spending and got off Facebook. I’m so much happier. Life is a blessing. Love your videos.
That's awesome! Thank you!! ☺
Fake Book is a site where you can post photos of you with your mouth hanging open and show the world how much ease and pleasure is in your life.
I got off FB before the election to avoid all the drama. I don't miss it at all and it's a relief.
I got off Facebook years ago, never been on twitter, Instagram etc had LinkedIn only for work type stuff.
I’m the unpaid taxi driver for grandkids but time is mine now, I’d been in the road for 20+ years so governed by watch and meetings. A change to an office role I took my watch off for 8 years. Have only just started wearing it again
I so agree, no Facebook! People will argue about anything on that site, it’s so toxic!
Not rushing is the best thing about early retirement.
I agree!! 😀
"I even let people cut in front of me...especially if they look like I used to feel." Amen.
Yes, I see it on their faces! I know that feeling too well. 😕
I felt this statement as well.
That’s classic……🤪
Nailed it! Retired just over a year. I rarely drive over the speed limit anymore since I give myself more time to get there safely. I choose not to spend time with people who don't respect or fulfill me, even if they are family. I don't buy much and really think about whether I need something before buying it. Sold my house and moved to an apartment (rental). Freed up equity to retire early, saves on home maintenance costs plus time and energy (no more snow shovelling!), and makes it easier to travel when I want to. Loving it!
That's fantastic! I've been thinking that someday I might move out of my house to something with less maintenance. ☺
I no longer bother with people I don't like, related to me, or not. Had enough of putting up with toxic people when I was working. Don't need the drama kings and queens; my mental health is Priority #1.
Good for you! I agree that your mental health is #1! ☺
Me too! I had to tolerate nasty bosses at work if I wanted to have a paycheck. Not any longer.
Here's a thing I started doing now that I'm retired: an after-dinner walk. Love it. Never ever had time or energy for it before, but now it's such a lovely way to end the day...a gentle walk around the neighborhood or parks, even when it's dark. I just love it.
That's a GREAT retirement activity! So good for your health too! ☺
One word to describe this video. Inspirational!
Thank you! ☺
I worked for 42 years and I retired at 60 eight years ago. I feel exactly the way you do. I love every moment of my retirement because I don't have to answer to anyone and I can do whatever I want when I want. When I'm tired, I can take a nap anytime I want. I can read books all day if that is what I want to do. I can daydream. I can see the sunshine every time it shines. I worked in huge concrete megalith in a cubicle. Couldn't see the sunshine all day. My blood pressure went down to normal levels after I retired. They took me off my high blood pressure medication. I'm finally living my life. I don't feel like a robot anymore. I can feel enjoyment every moment, not just when I can squeeze in a few enjoyable moments in between a very busy schedule. No schedule. In fact, a good month for me is when I don't have to write down any appointments on my calendar. lol!
That's amazing! Thank you for sharing! It's crazy how much work stress can affect your health. I'm glad you're happy now! ☺
I have stopped being our family's "Cruise Director". It's been a process, but I can't make everything magical anymore. It's time for me to quit worrying if "everyone is having a good time". Whew. Now I can relax and have some fun!
That's GREAT!! Good for you! 😁
Wow I can really relate to your comment. Thanks for putting it out there so I don’t feel like the only one 😊
Truer words were never spoken ! I'm no longer the "cruise director" either , also now if I really really don't want to go or do I don't.
When I retired, my plan was to get rid of a little "junk" every day. Eleven months later, I'm still looking at most of it. It's a little overwhelming. I know I just need to get started. Here's a quote I need to remind myself, "Eat the elephant one bite at a time."
A little at a time is a great way to do it! Great quote!! 😁
It’s so nice to not watch the time or days of the week. What a blessing!
It really is!! 😁
No more 30 minute lunches to rush back to work.
That's so great!! You can actually take your time eating! 😀
It really is crazy when I think about that being my everyday situation, sometimes having less than 30 minutes to eat; it is not normal!! but we often do it for years. Retirement is the normal life!
@@jackiebowen6239 I agree!!
Im retired almost 2 weeks, and instead of what Im NOT doing, I find the one thing I AM doing is spending more time with and helping friends/family. When I worked, I couldn't offer help, as I just didn't have the time or energy. Now, Im happy to help a friend who is recovering from surgery and help my daughter with my grandaughter. Now, I have time and energy for relationships.
That's awesome! ☺
It feels so good when you can be a blessing to a family member or friend. I do the same thing and it makes me happy.
I've always wanted to go to restaurants, malls, parks, etc on the weekdays. Less people....more peace.Kudos! Love your videos.
It's the BEST!! Thank you! ☺
Me too, but 40+ years in a 9-5 makes it nearly impossible. Retiring soon and cannot wait to enjoy the weekdays.
@@Lulusvideos1 It's so great!! 😁
I don’t understand retired people who shop for groceries on weekends when they have ALL WEEK to shop, when it’s quieter!
Cutting back on news. Stay low on weekends. I don’t hurry much anymore. It becomes a habit. It took me a few years to slow down. Your video really reminded me of how I was and now how I am getting to slow down.
That's awesome! It is hard to slow down. It takes a conscious effort! ☺
No more rushing! can't wait I have about six weeks before I retire.
Yay!! You're so close!! 😃🎉
Congratulations! 🎉 I have ten weeks and I’m counting down.
@@Lulusvideos1 Yay!! 😀
I follow your retirement rules .I retired at 60 ,im now 86 .
That's awesome!! 😀
I stopped going to parties and other social functions that I really did not want to attend. I used to go and have a miserable time. Now I very politely decline.
Good for you! I actually did that too! 😀
Take your time because you control your time. Is most important to me. When I schedule a doctor's appointment it's mid day, I'm not rushing to get up but do it at my leisure.
Me too!! I hate early morning appointments! 🤭
Retired with injury at 50, now 70... Great list ! I would add that looking at Church, or some avenue of spirituality, as a source of comfort, hope and companionship is a pleasure.
Just making new friends can be the start of a new journey. Thank You, Julie...
Thanks! I agree!! But this was a list of what I DON'T do. ☺
Yes!
Amen! I’m on the verge of Throwing in the towel and Telling my employer I quit , hello retirement . 780’days to go but not sure I’ll make it til then. Once a week I get rid of “stuff”( can’t believe I spent sooo much money on crap over the decades- I could be retired now if input that money in an ETF)
I had planned to work until 59 1/2, but I didn't make it! I just couldn't do it anymore. I also would be much better off financially if I had not bought so much stuff in my younger days. If only we could go back and tell our younger selves! 😄
Don't quit! Tell them you are retiring! Leave on good terms. Maybe someone will throw you a retirement party? Best of wishes to you.
I'm certainly looking forward to getting rid of my work uniform - not only will it clear space in my wardrobe but will hopefully get rid of some bad memories too.
It was one of my favorite things I did right after I retired!! 😄
Been retired 3 years, turning 60 in 5 months and like you, I don't do stuff that I don't want to. This week I have a cold so I used Walmart pick up to load up on meds and have kept to myself. Unlike the working days of feeling guilty for calling in sick for 1 day, not to mention 2 or even 3! It's been about a week of having a cold and I think I am just about over it by staying home and resting!
Disconnecting from the news, especially last month was a huge weight off my shoulder and now my new life skill!
I totally agree about being sick when you're not working. It's so much easier to rest and get better faster! That's great! 😁
Love that line ". . . if they look like how I used to feel." Says a lot :)
@@johnc4789 Yes, I really empathize with people who are going through that! 🙂
I love Mondays now. ❤️
Yay! 😁
Me too. Actually at my job Mondays were my day off but l didn't enjoy it. I would worry about what mess l would have to clean up on Tues. I was a mail carrier and my substitute carriers usually didn't care about making mistakes or keeping my work station and delivery truck tidy. Not to mention l did not care for my work environment. I love retirement.
@@barbaraparker6996 Oh goodness, being a mail carrier is HARD work! I'm glad you are enjoying retirement now! ☺
@ Hi Barbara, Same here. Mondays were a mystery, phones, all the mail, and voice mails. I don’t miss it.
Probably the best retirement advice I've seen. But also just good general advice. We are all coerced and manipulated into so many useless and negative actions. Everyone needs to "free up".
Thank you - I agree!! 😁
One additional area I haven’t been doing most days is setting an alarm clock. I go to bed when I want and sleep until I naturally wake up. I feel like a much better version of myself due to quality sleep. I have so much more empathy for those who are rushing around like I used to. I definitely agree with the list you shared. My favorite is making plans on the week days and staying in Saturday and Sunday (other than church).
I agree! I've only had to set an alarm twice since I retired! Once for a dr. apt. and once to catch a flight! I also have been getting the best quality sleep! 😃
I am 75 and I agree with her 100%. She will be happy and enjoy her retirement.
Thank you!! ☺
I turned 59 last month! Happy Birthday Julie! Retirement is right around the corner
Thank you!! That's awesome! 🙂
No more Alarm clock to get up. Sleep as late as i want or stay up late at night. Much happier 😊
Yay! Me too!! 😁
I’ve been retired 6 months at the age of 63 and loving it. Agree with everything you have said.
Awesome - congrats!! 😁
I love your video! I’m not yet retired but will be in 18 months. And I cannot wait! I’m counting down the days. I will not miss my alarm clock, emails, deadlines, office drama, and everything work related. I stopped buying work clothes years ago. Gosh, to have weekdays to do what I want to do will be heaven! Everyday will be Saturday! Thanks for this!
Thank you! You're very welcome! Retirement is the BEST! ☺
I no longer separate my washing into colors, or line dry "delicates" . Everything goes in the washer and dryer at the same time. The world hasn't exploded yet.
Nice!! 😁
You've highlighted many important points! In retirement, time, not money, is the most valuable asset! Congrats again, and enjoy your retirement!! 🙏🏾
Thank you!! ☺
I’m 62 and retired at 57. This woman is spot on !
Thanks!! 😀
This is GOLD! 6 more fn years and I get to follow advice I wish I could follow today.
Thank you!! I wish I had started sooner. ☺
Number 1 is reason enough to watch the rest of the video. Appreciate your time and effort here. Love the video.❤
Thank you! ☺
I love being retired and enjoying a slower life style ! I enjoy your videos !
Me too! Thank you! ☺
Good for you, Julie! Everything on your terms for a change x
Thanks!! 😁
Agree 100% with everything you said, enjoy life no one knows how many tomorrows they have.
Absolutely!! 😁
Love! I am trying to hurry less and declutter daily as part of my prep for retirement. Also, I don't use my time in places or with people that don't add value on some level.
Thanks! Good for you - that's great! 😀
The media today is all about what to think and not just reporting the facts anyways. Trust me, you’re not missing anything by not watching the news. I haven’t watched the news in ten years. Great video. I wish you well and enjoy your retirement. 🇨🇦💝🙏🥰🥂
I agree! Thank you! ☺
Good video. A very polished delivery. I retired 13 years ago and my wife died 7 years ago(from a tick bite). I agree with most of your 5 things. I still take advantage of deals on antique tools and machines. They are my hobby and I will leave them to my son whom I am teaching to operate and repair the "treasures". If the economy goes like the late 1980s, having a side business can make life a lot easier. I found that after retirement my normal day shifted. I used to get up at 5:30 am and go until about 10:00 pm. Now I'm more often 8:00 am to 1:00 am with an hour long nap after lunch. I try to go back to the earlier schedule but, my body doesn't like it. Have fun. Good Luck, Rick
Thank you! I'm so sorry you lost your wife. Ticks are awful! I agree having a hobby that could potentially make money is a good plan. Sounds like a nice life! ☺
sorry for your loss I guess that's the other big thing when we get older we lose friends and family loved one,s people who are close to us thanks for sharing and good job for keeping on going for the remainder of your family ❤
This is the first video of yours I have watched. I knew before the halfway point that you were a teacher. I retired two years ago from teaching and agree with you 100% on all points!
That's funny! I have that "teacher voice" lol. Thanks! 😁
@ yes but it was more of what you were saying because I identified with it so much! People have no idea how much stress teachers are under and how we really don’t have personal lives during the school year. Or at least that was my experience. I am so glad to be retired. Your Happy on Monday name is perfect!
1. NO MORE Rushing
2. STOP buying STUFF!
3. WEEKENDS are MINE
4. Don't say YES to others unless you really WANT TO!
5. Don't watch the News Channels...enrich your LIFE!
I recently retired. I have DEFINITELY slowed down especially when driving and I've said "no" more often surprising EVEN me. You are CORRECT, it is now time to ENRICH MY Life.
Thanks for a great video!
I love this! It's now time to ENRICH your life! 😁
2-1/2 years into semi retirement (I still sub now and then at school)…. embracing the ‘slow living’ and more minimalist lifestyle more and more. I’ve found I don’t miss ANYTHING I’ve donated or thrown out 👍
That's awesome! Me too - I don't miss the stuff I donate at all! 🙂
I enjoyed your video.
My husband and I both retired six years ago. I was 62, he was 68. We bought a small place in te mountains and moved a few months after we retired. Then the bottom fell out. My husband developed a diabetic ulcer on the bottom of his foot that would not heal. Ended up having his leg amputated below the knee. A couple years later open heart surgery to replace two heart valves. Then an ulcer and emergency surgery to stop the internal bleeding. And then there’s the never ending GERD symptoms.
My husband pretty much sits in he is recliner most days and sleeps. I ‘m responsible for his care, all decisions and everything that has to be done day to day. I’m bitter and angry at how our retirement has turned out. It’s more work than any job I ever had. I’m desperately trying to find peace in what my life has become and let go of the bitterness and anger.
I am thankful that I’m not having to deal with all of this and having to go to work at a job, too.
I am so sorry to hear about all of your husband's medical issues! That's just awful! He is very lucky to have you taking care of him. One of the reasons I retired early is the unkown about my health in the future. I hope you can find some help with taking care of him. And yes, it would have been awful if you were still working! 🙂
Sending good thoughts to you and your husband. I hope you have some good moments. Bless you.
That’s sad for your husband. Sounds like you’re in good health, maybe a few days a week pay for a caregiver so you can at least have down time and walk some trails or whatever. God has a plan but it’s tough. Praying for both of you
Sorry to hear all of your troubles. The only thing I will say is that it could always be worse, much worse, believe me.
Happy Birthday Julie! This resonates so much with us. Our home and property owns us, and we are so done letting it control our lives. We are starting the decluttering process. We are hoping we can break the habit of owning stuff. We absolutely fall in the camp about feeling selfish when we do anything for ourselves. Us relocating, we know a lot of people in our close circle think we are being selfish moving away from our family.
Thank you!! Taking care of yourself is NOT selfish! You will probably be more available for your family being retired. There's always planes! ☺
@@HappyonMonday That's what we keep trying to tell them. If we can retire 7 years earlier, it means we can spend more time with them then a few hours here and there.
This is intelligent and practical advice....as well as fun and honest. You are wise.
Thank you so much! ☺
Totally agree with the 'Stuff" I was lucky to move at 59. I got rid of so much stuff. I only have what I need now. And the news? The news ain't the news anymore. It's there ti piss you off. Don't need it.
That's awesome! I agree! ☺
Happy to say, I've been watching for a while. I have 10 weeks and 2 days to left. February 14 is my last day. I like the way you think
Congrats!! 10 weeks isn't long at all!! Thanks! ☺
Congratulations! 🎉 Me too!! 02/14/2025 is my goal date! With holidays and PTO, I have 44 more working days.
@@Lulusvideos1 I'm so glad you get to retire soon! 😃
I did nothing today, and then I rested.
That sounds restful! 😄
Oh my word ! I just love this .Marvelous !
Excellent video! I am 61 and have been doing those things since I retired in 2106. I worked 35 years, 25 in the Canadian Navy then 10 at a nuclear plant. It was enough. This biggest take away from your video is the news. I stopped watching during covid. It was too depressing. I went off Facebook in 2020 and was that ever the right decision for me. Thanks for a great video!
Thank you! That's awesome - good for you! ☺
@@HappyonMonday I have noticed so many in our age group doing the same....many videos on here about that. Yours stood out, great job!, I subscribed as you have very interesting content.
@@Chris_Blackstock_Music Thank you! ☺
Dang, count all the times the word ‘do’ is used in this video! She is speaking truth in this video. 😊
LOL thanks! 😄
Happy Birthday Julie! 🎉 Can’t wait to retire and experience the down time!
Thank you!! ☺
Excellent content! You're living my dream! I am 56, already winding down.. won't be long now! Blessings! XOXO
Thank you!! ☺
My Monday sucks, and just turned 60. I do hear and believe everything your saying. Soon, very soon for me.
🤞Fingers crossed!
You’re so right about feeling rushed! I’ve noticed that a few years back and have started to try not to rush anymore!
@nikij.6058 It's hard to stop rushing! That's great you are working on it 👍 😊
Love this!!! I feel the same way! I let people go ahead of me in lines because they have children or appear to be in a hurry. Ty for summarizing things! This is sooo me! I have always been a pleaser according to my kids so, reclaiming my space has been a major accomplishment!
Thank you! That's awesome! Good for you reclaiming your space. ☺
You recommend the boundaries book to me a while back. I found it so helpful! I think our culture encourages being “crazy busy” and productive. I’m ready to take some time to rest and reflect on what I want the rest of my life to look like. I feel like I’m a few steps behind you on the retirement journey. I’m sure many of us appreciate your insights and sharing what you’ve learned. Can’t wait for your next video!
I'm so glad you liked the book! It really helped me too. Thank you! ☺
I rarely use an alarm clock, I rarely drink alcohol, I try to plan ahead so as to not have to rush, I am still working on decluttering - seems to be neverending, haha
The no alarm clock is the BEST!! 😄
I'm 62 still working (4 more years) I've stopped caring what people think about me I've also learned to say no at work and at home I also have a sense of freedom at my age that I can't explain but it's wonderful. These videos help me when I retire thank you
Good for you!! You're very welcome! ☺
I can’t wait until I can retire!!!! You added more fuel to my anticipation!!! Still a few years to go, though.
It's the best!! 😀
Great video! I Love to always be improving myself!!!
Thank you!! ☺
Happy birthday early Gen X! Love your channel💪
Thank you!! ☺
Boy oh boy are you right. The news has been so depressing and anxiety inducing. My husband is watching it for hours. It does nothing but make him worry and get depressed
It did me too. That's why I stopped! 🙂
Julie you made me smile many times. I retired at 57 after 32 years of teaching high school English and loved it for the most part. I am still somewhat materialistic but it is waning. Who do I want to impress anymore? They all know I did well. I have planned every 3 years to do a nice trip but that is it. I still do weekly restaurants but less than before. Your videos are very similar to what I am learning about myself too. 😊
Thank you! I'm glad I made you smile. ☺
You are on the right track! I retired 3yrs ago (68) I am so much better for it! I haven’t started giving stuff away, I leave it for my 3 children to divvy up! Enjoy your retirement!😎👍🏻🍷
Thank you!! I will! 😁
Happy Birthday Julie - love your channel - you have found your purpose in retirement - and I really resonate with you. In the process of getting rid of clutter and organizing what is left - it feels so freeing - makes cleaning so much easier! I almost feel like an adolescent in retirement - no more bosses - yay!! :-)
Thank you! That's awesome!! Yay! 😃
I have been retired 6 years now and pretty much follow these rules. I have one saying I use, " I will do it when I want to, if I want to."
That's a great saying!! 😁
I just quit working at 59. No retirement payment even after 40 yrs in the psych ward. Tired and worn out physically. Have to wait fo 6 yrs to get the minimal payment, but my GOD how good it feels! Weekends are mine, days are mine. LIFE IS MINE! ❤️🇳🇴🙏🏻
Congrats!! It's amazing isn't it? 😃
@ Yes it is!👍🇳🇴
Happy birthday 🎂 congratulations on reaching 11k. Love your videos.
Thank you so much!! ☺
I cannot hurry at all. I’m so glad
Nice!! 😀
I love doing what was weekend activity on the weekdays. Drive with fewer people on the roads, shop when fewer people are in the stores. I’ll be 60 in 3 months, been retired for 4 months.
Me too!! Congrats on your retirement! 🎉
Thank you so much for this!
I am still working and am planning on semi-retiring in 5 years (finances require that).
The points you spoke about have been an awesome reminder of some of the attitudes and ways of thinking that I can work on now in order to better enjoy my "wind down".
You are very welcome!! Yes, I should have stopped these things long before I retired! 🙂
Amen to all 5 on your list and more.
Yes!! 😁
@@HappyonMonday I'm 72, and way ahead of you. Now if only family members would dispossess themselves of their seven storage lockers full of "stuff" so I don't have to go through the discard process ever again and again and again....... My hand is on the phone ready to dial the dumpster company right after the funeral service. Is that over the top? Not if you've had to handle an over the top full of junk estate, it's not.
@@bluenetmarketing I agree! I still can't believe the amount of "stuff" my parents hung onto! 😳
So happy I found your channel...keep it up, but no stress!😍
Thank you!! I will! ☺
I have only been retired for almost 4 months so I'm still learning. I worked 8/8 for almost 30 years for an unnamed company that counted milliseconds and we used to joke about not taking the time to sneeze or they would doc your pay. I wanted to help my wife more because she still works until 1pm m-f at a job she loves and doesn't want to retire just yet. I learned quickly that she did a lot and I was so production oriented that I felt like I had to get all the housework and our farm work done by 1. She finally set me straight, lol, 😅 and told me to stop stressing. I have finally learned that if I don't get it done today, it will still be waiting on me tomorrow.
Wow that must have been a hard company to work for. Yes! What you don't get done today will be there tomorrow! 😁
I'm finding I'm quite happy to forget what day it is
It's the best! 😄
Nice video, thank for sharing !
You are very welcome! ☺
I am LOVING your content, Julie! I'm 45 and hoping to early retire around the age of 47 or 48. You are a true inspiration and your videos keep me motivated. Enjoy your day! 🙂
Thank you! ☺
I’m the opposite on #5. I like to keep informed…see what the other side is doing lol.
I would agree on the others though.
If it doesn't upset you then you should watch it! ☺
I’m not retired but I stoped watching the news a few years ago. I don’t miss the drama 😊
Me either! 😁
I stopped doing all of the same 5 things as you. I laughed out loud when you said you like being ignorant. I do the same about not watching the news. I watching you as drive across the country. This is how I started watching you. Lastly, everyday is Saturday YAY❤❤❤❤
😂 I do like being ignorant! The news is so depressing!
@ I agree
Ignorance is bliss!
Great video. I don’t do all the things you mentioned anymore either.
I live in metro Phoenix and surrounded by very large high schools, middle and elementary schools, I wait to go out and run errands after they are all safely tucked away in class and mommy and daddy have gotten to work. Then it’s my time.
I haven’t gone out on the weekends in years. Not worth it.
@@AmyGray-e2z That's awesome!! 😃
I'm 10 months out from being able to retire. I drive an average of 70k miles a year for work and I'm stressed out! When you taked about being impatient and angry all the time, that really hit home with me. I'm sick of all the stress and know I'd be a much nicer human not having to deal with it all the time. I want to be happy again.
"Everyday is Saturday, yay!"
I can so relate! I think I've become much nicer. ☺
What a wonderful video. Everything you stopped doing, are things that I'm working on as I approach retirement in six months. One thing that I'm coming to grips with is leaving the work world behind and have started putting closure on the person that I was (an employee) and looking forward to reinventing myself as a retiree. That said, I wish you the very best of retirements.
Thank you so much! It is a big change but it's a good one! ☺
Great video ☺I agree with all of these points. I retired 3 months ago and my husband retired 8 months ago. We figured out the best days to go do grocery shopping and run errands and it's so nice to do midday walks/hikes when nobody else is around! Now that Winter is here we will be having a big clear out although we are fairly minimal in our possessions, it's still something that needs to be done regularly. I regularly forget what day of the week it is now and rarely look at my watch!LOL The best is not having to get up at a certain time and letting your body wake up naturally. This has done wonders for my mood and energy levels. I don't watch any sort of news or read any either. It's quite liberating and does wonders for keeping my anxiety levels down.
Thank you! That's awesome! I just got home from a nice hike. Hardly anyone was around! ☺
I’m 55 this year and plan on retiring at 60, these five things are brilliant and I’m going to incorporate them into my retirement. The one thing I’m looking forward to doing is being more involved in my church activities. Thank you!
Thank you! That sounds like a great thing to look forward to! 😀
Love your perspectives! My husband and I are planning now to retire in a few years in our early 60s.
Thank you! That's awesome!! 😃
5/5 Julie! I could've written this! 6 months into retirement and on my way to a new and better me!😊
Thank you - that's great! Yay! 😁
I turn 59 in March, I retired at 51. I’m living life large. I’m just trying to make it to Social Security age to get some of that back they took from me! I hurry at times, I watch the news all the time, I’ve never done something not work related that I didn’t want to do. I buy things, lots of things from auctions and estate sales and resell them for tax free income and it’s fun. Everyday is a weekend now!
Sounds wonderful! I'm glad you're enjoying you life! 😁
The last time I watched the news was April 20th, 1999. As a fellow public school employee maybe you understand why. It's one of the best decisions I ever made.
That's awesome!! 😀
I’m retiring in 2 weeks, and I agree with you on the changes you’ve made during retirement.
Congrats!! 🎉and thanks!! ☺
I want to move from the city but I can't... I have to support my mentally ill sister. I'm 68. I hate my life! I'm happy you've found your freedom! 😊
I'm so sorry to hear that. But bless you for taking care of her! ☺