Y'all. Her mother would give her minimal food and abuse her if she came out of her room. She was meant to stay locked away abused and neglected. The paper balls are to see if she opened the door or not. If they fell, it means she opened it. That means trouble.
Yet soo many men and at times women shame women who abort calling them a cum dumpster and trash, esp men like like to run their mouths and talk shit but don't bat a bloody fkn eye to kids in foster homes or who are abused, its infuriating cuz personally come across men and women who want to seem perfect also tlk shit abt women who abort kids, or single moms, its soo fked!
Unfortunately, that's not always a solution. We were using 3 different kinds of birth control when we had our first. Unlike this portrayed woman, I stepped up and am doing the best I can to give my children a childhood vastly different to mine.
@@warriormaiden9829 It's great that you were able to be a good parent for your kids. Not everyone would be. Which is why abortion needs to be an option.
I had an alarm and a lock outside my door. The alarm was to notify them if the lock broke. I wasn't starved, I was let out daily but every night that lock was locked and the alarm was set. I went to school and did chores, ate, showered, and did homework. I was given a radio...but then to me the worst punishment was when I would get in trouble I had to stand in the bathroom and point at myself for hours in front of the mirror and repeat "It's all my fault." I didn't think anything of how I was raised until I was in a group home and brought it up in group therapy. I thought it was completely normal to be treated like that. I was 10... I don't stand in front of mirrors longer than I absolutely need to, in fact I hate it... I rarely wear makeup just because I don't want to stand in front of a mirror 😒 Edit: thank you guys for the support but it happened a very long time ago. I'm an adult now with 3 daughters of my own and yes living a much better life now. I know others went through way worse than what I went through. My story has a lot more to it but this is as much as I will share. Again thank you all for the support. It's crazy how complete strangers can care more than the family you were born to.
The world is a mess.. On the other side of that there are parents who care so little they let their children do anything. Then those children go to prison or get into all sorts of various issues like having 3 children they need the parents to take care of etc. The lesson for me is having children needs to be a decision someone really really really thinks hard on. If they think they've thought it through enough, they haven't.
Ok so anyone who’s wondering, this girl got locked up in her room by her mother and her mothers boyfriend. They would lock her in her room for as long as possible and the cotton balls are for if she escaped from her room they would fall. One day she escaped and called 911 but out of fear she hung up and went back in her room. the abusers found out and got a belt and abused her a lot. It just got worse and worse until she decided to try to kill herself with the belt. (Around her neck) The closet rack ended up falling because of her weight. Her “mother” finally called help for her bc of the suicidal commit. She ended up being put up for adoption and she’s all safe with a family. I’m sorry for my false information, but she did try and call 911 while getting food bc I saw her vudeos
Quick correction she didnt try to call 911 she went to get food because they were starving her and after they got home they found her in her room but the paper balls fell so they knew she left
Wait but that’s false I think u got mixed up she never tried to call 911 and hang up instead she went to grab rod because she’s hungry and they starved her. And when the closet broke they got angry at her and abused her again and I forgot the rest-
To whoever has a child: Please don’t abuse them. They deserve you and you need to be nice to them. Your their only hope. Please. Be nice. Edit: Ty For All Of The Likes Edit 2: OK OK OK! Let’s get some stuff straight. I’m sorry if i came across as the bad guy. Also, I’m not expecting this comment to stop those parents from doing it. I expect it to show to those who are being abused that it’s ok because people are here and know what they are going through. It may sound like I’m being abused as a child, but im not. My parents aren’t abusing me please don’t say awful things in the comments, and if you have take them down. Thanks 🙏🏽
Exactly we parents are the only hope for the child. That is what i keep saying to my bf when he gets demotivated at work or in life. We've got to be fearless for our kids
Some things just cannot be gone like the memories but we can find love in our lives which won't hold us down to the past. They just memories , we become stronger and know who we are so that we will NEVER do it to others the way it was done to us.
@@melaniepaul8150 I agree with this. I'm 33 and met someone finally. Although it never lasted long unfortunately. (he was still dealing with trauma himself) I found a light at the end of the tunnel for the first time. Perhaps meeting your significant other who is healthy for you and makes you happy can heal past wounds. I have hope.
Really makes you think. You should never take anything for granted. Imagine how grateful she must've been just to eat..oh my god, I'm so sorry. You are so strong, sharing your story.
As a kid, abuse and neglet seemed normal. My mom would sell our stuff, food stamps, and use my child support for drugs. I'd go on her drug runs with her until I was 9, The state of Tennessee took me. I'm 14
i understand you and you know what? at your 18's you're free and you Will escape ! you will be happy!! unlike Other people who get abused.. but judging is bad, Isn't it? and using children's Stuff for evil and disgusting things Is also Bad.. i wish i was never born at all.. but im sure, One day you'll be free and Happy !! happier than now!! the most Happy Person in world! just don't die, okay?
@@S1L1C0N_BR41NZZare your new parents good to you? Do they treat you right? Because I hope so as someone whose deal th with more trauma in 7 months than the average 15 year old should than anyone should in their entire life. I understand what you went through and it’s awful to think about I hope everything is better and your ok
To the people who are saying: "sHeS sAyInG tHaT fOr aTtEnTiOn!!!" It's a serious thing some people go through so why would she lie about that??? Its not happening to me but my dad is making me, my brother, and my sister, be scared of talking to someone about how we feel, he gave me social anxiety, and I'm not lying about that, its serious, not all family's are happy and loving Edit: so many likes and it was only a day ago, tysm!, and one person said I'm faking it, what do i need to do, next time he's yelling at me do I grab my phone and start recording?? Cause I will if that's what you want
I’m sorry for you but it’s really hard to not think people are doing stuff like this for attention due to the rising amount of people who fake real and hard problems for likes and pity
To be fair, the average person doesn’t sit and think “I’m gonna make a tik tok reenacting my traumatic experience, hmm lemme set my camera up here, yeah this sad song goes well, now let’s make some edits, *post*”
Even if this didn't actually happen to the creator, the creator has said she is bringing attention to a common abusive situation. Many children suffer more in the summer without school there as a buffer.
@@-.unavailable.- It's nice to see you appreciating her.^-^. There is a very small mistake in your comment. You have written "blees".It will be "Bless". I know it might have happened accedently. Otherwise you are great :)
Its so sad how many people can relate to this. Parents need to care for their children more. This is such a bad thing that parents actually do. Like, parents, if you do this, don’t make a kid if you can’t care for them, love them, or even treat them like a normal kid. This is so traumatic for a lot of people. To all that have experienced this or something similar to this, you are in my prayers and thoughts. I love you all!
I feel so bad reading all these comments. I had a great childhood and felt like running away, meanwhile all these people are suffering! I am so sorry for what y'all had to go through 🙁
Yeah, I truly believe that our lived experiences our "relative" compared to others. Someone is always in a better or worse situation. I thought my childhood was questionable, but the day I became a Child Protection Worker, I became exposed to variety of events which were both dark and light. The lives people live vary and it is best described as a spectrum. I just wished we lived in a Society that if a child felt unsafe that they could be able to tell someone so that they could protect them.
The story: Basically when she was a child her parents locked her inside of her room and the paper balls are to see if she open the door and one day she opened the door and went to the kitchen to get food and she went back to her room thinking that everything was OK but it wasn't... Her parents then came home seeing the paper balls on the floor so they knew she opened the door so her stepdad went to beat her up with *HER* belt and left the belt with her and then she went inside the closet trying to *KILL HERSELF BY HANGING HERSELF WITH THE BELT* and she accidentally broke her closet then her mom heard the crash So she went to check. She saw the closet and her crying so she rush to grab her phone and called a mental hospital telling them what she's trying to do. And i don't know what happened next but she's probably living a better life with a new family..
thank you for explaining it thoroughly, but please put a tw for suicide at the very top! it can be extremely triggering to people if they don't know it's mentioned in the rest of the comment
😭😭😭 I hate to see people suffer and this video breaks my heart. I hope that this world could be a better place someday. These types of parents are horrible and shouldn't be allowed to have children. I love everyone and I hope everyone will be loved the same. Treat people how you want to be treated❤️. Have a good life guys, and don't waste it on doing it on stuff you don't want to do, Because remember, you only have one. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
As a mom, this absolutely breaks my heart. I could cry for hours just thinking about this. If i could only give people like you all that love i also give to my children. How terrible, I'm so sorry, truly!
It's sad that kids that are like 17 and under get abused every day and it's sad to say I was one of them but the thing we can do is help them recover and get them help
@@H1l_3ditz no. My mother overdosed late 2021, and my sister doesn’t have 5 years left. She is a skinny husk of a human addicted to narcotics. She will never leave that hole. That’s all she ever knew. A girl used up until she was gone by leeches.
@@h0ardRR I feel sorry for the people like me that are in pain and have never seen a clean or silent day in their lives. It’s not a pass or an excuse, it just is. I know I never ever ever have a silence. No peace in my heart. A family man as a mask. It can all burn to the ground. This is all fake for someone’s yacht. The issues compound and compound until you can’t be you anymore.
@@childofthevoid6854 That is a serious problem. I am beginning to notice that " I'm sorry " might not have been enough. I wish of you prosperity, for those who have troublesome lives at the beginning, will have a blessed death on the end, depending on how they dealt with their situation. Have a good day, night, evening afternoon or such, and I hope you heal mentally.
No one deserves to go through this. Not a single soul on this planet deserves to go through this. And-quick question Cass.- How is your mom now? I understand that she was scared of your step-dad, so is he gone? Thank you Cassie!
I will never forget the abuse I endured as a child from my dad locking me up all summer vacation while my other siblings got to play, beating physically, consistently, putting me down always being hungry . That happened from a baby to 13yrs old, until my mom got herself together and we finally moved out. I am now 42yrs old still remember like yesterday. Wow!!! i am here right now and soooo grateful🙏 i am stronger than ever, mentally. I have a 9yr old son and love him so dearly ❤️. The amount of time I put into this little boy from going to the beach and traveling on vacations , teaching him his school work.... I truly feel the love of being a parent/ mother 😌. Thank you God for not letting me make history repeat itself. 🙏 I KNOW WHAT LOVE TRULY ❤️ IS.
For everyone who dealing with this: I'm terribly sorry, you all need to stay strong, God will help you get through this! Don't forget that you're loved by people out there!
I remember when I was about 4-5, my parents favoured my older sister because she was more mature. So, they had no use for me and sent me to my room and locked the door. And a reminder that my sister WASNT RELATED TO ME! My own mother who birthed me and “loved me” neglected me until I started middle school. She says I’m a manipulator and I’m selfish. I wonder where I got that from. My mother also complains why I’m closer to my real father, well, if she’d payed closer attention to my trama and mental health, I would have gotten along with her more. My mother also abused me emotionally and mentally. Thanks to her I need therapy and I’m still trying to recover. Im glad my dad is here for me. I swear my father is the best Because he was there for me throughout these years of my life. No one can replace him. Oof, I got a little emotional there. Sorry if I made you cry 😅. Edit: oh my.. now that’s a lot of likes 😨
don't laugh it off its ok you can cry about it i just don't know what to do know i wish i could help u that time i am such a bad person i should have helped the poor but i couldn't😭
Someone explained the story in the comments, and Im actually crying rn. Thats so sad. I dont even know what to say honestly. I just can’t comprehend why any parent would do this. I love my dad to death, and could never see him doing this. And I could never see myself doing this to my future child. Im a Highschooler at the moment, and plan to have two children, after college, and after getting a good job. And I would never do this to my child. No matter if the child’s my biological child or not (Im a Trans male. If I have a gf, she can get pregnant from a donor or whatever, or I could adopt) or even if it was just my foster kid. Could never
It's all from generational trauma and nobody respecting their child while asking to receive some themselves, and because the aren't parenting with understanding. It goes I'm circles because of unresolved trauma. It really sucks, but the cycle is breaking. Slowly buy surely. The reason people would do it after being treated that way is for negative attention towards revenge
I was 3 or 4 and locked alone in apartment while mom was at work, my brothers at school and dad at work. She said ste did It because she had no one who could take care of me. I remember crying, screaming, banging on the door and no one coming. One time I threw up all over the floor and had to wait for her to come and clean It up. She said she is surprised I remember that because I was so little. Please dont do this to your toddlers.
This is just as bad its like u could even question urself did this happen am I exaggerating? So u end up torturing urself . These abusers are so insidious I hope u are doing ok in life now x
You mean that they, both of your parents, did it because they didn't have another choice. Childcare is so complicated in societies without appropriate communities.
For the people who don't get it, I'll try to explain it. Basically her mother ( I think) was Basically trapping her in her room and giving her food every so often. If I'm wrong please tell me.
I relate. This is so heartbreaking. I was locked in a room everyday by my grandmother. Abused, neglected and starved... I have such severe trauma to thus day and a horrible eating disorder. 😪 sending you ❤️
I was also abused by my grandmother. She wouldn't lock me in my room but if I was anywhere near her she'd start physically and verbally abusing me. So I stayed in my room to avoid confrontation with her. She would make lunch for my brother and sister but not for me. Fortunately after lunch she would take a nap so that's when I'd leave my room to eat whatever I could. This was from the age of 10 to 14 so I didn't know how to cook. So I'd eat anything I could and I tried to be as quiet as possible because if she heard any movement in the kitchen she'd come after me. And my parents telling me that it was probably because of something I did. That I somehow brought this on myself. They' d go off to work and leave us with her. This was convenient for them so it didn't matter that this woman traumatized me for years and the people that should have been protecting me did nothing to stop it because they needed her to babysit us. When I was 10 I had to spend an entire summer outside because we lived in a military housing complex and my parents were afraid someone would report us if they heard any screaming or yelling. They would wake me up early and I'd hang out all morning at the playground, at lunch my father would come home give me lunch and then I'd have to spend the rest of the afternoon back at the playground. So of course I grew up thinking I was a piece of shit and to this day I have to convince myself that I was a child and didn't deserve that kind of treatment. And even though I know this is true there's still a little piece of me that keeps believing that I somehow deserved this. My parents have no idea the damage this did to me. It has affected every decision I have made because I have no self-esteem and have exhausted all my energy. First because I needed to survive what I was going through and then because I've had to consistently convince myself that I deserve better. I have constant PTSD and feel like I will never be good enough.
@•CataleyaTheUnicorn• #RoadTo200 Yeah it was awful and has affected my whole life. That whole song and dance where people want to make you believe that events like these have made you stronger and whatever is all BS. It hasn't made me stronger at all. I was on survival mode for a long time but all that trauma finally caught up with me and no matter how much therapy I do it's always going to be there.
@@marypoppins7687 OH sweetie, I'm so sorry 😞 Big hugs from me to you. Abuse comes in so many forms and the one thing many abusers have in common is making us feel like we actually deserve it. We don't. You are amazing and strong and you deserve to be loved and appreciated. Sadly we didn't have the influence to help us understand this growing up. You are SO valuable! I love you! ❤️
@@willismushrush9656 her parents should have put her up for adoption well before that incident. No child deserves the torture and trauma from anyone, a "parent" no less.. she seems to have made the best of her life but she didn't deserve to get there in such a terrible way.
Try to not spend the second half of your life getting over the first half. Your trauma needs to be recognized and validated but outside of that it's already stolen enough from you. Don't let it steal more by over staying it's welcome in your thoughts. Recognize if a specific thought keeps replaying over and over and if it is tell it out loud. I remember, I did the best I could with what I knew at the time. I forgive myself and others and I deserve to move past this and not wallow in it. Then purposefully think of the positive changes you have made in your life now that your an adult and have control over it. If your not happy with how your life is going don't beat yourself up over it. Recognize what parts or behaviors are from your abuse and change it so you do like it. You spent a lot of time with someone making your life be miserable, don't be the person that does it to you now. You are worth it. Spread positiveness, just be sure to start with yourself first : ) I wish you well
My father tends to get drunk on the weekends and one day my father once screamed so loud in my ear i could not hear anything for over an hour. i was around the age 3 and have a really good hearing.I remembered the way i screamed,Cryed like my lugs were dying and i could not fall asleep.My mother couldn’t take me to the hospital because we were kinda poor. The reason’s sometimes parents are like this is because there parents were like that.Some just did not learn that that’s not a healthy relationship.
@@asyaflowers6714 hey. I know you heard a lot of bad stories about dads but not all are bad! Personally I had a bad experience with my dad but not all are bad. 😊
When I see videos like this, it makes me feel grateful for my parents, even though they are abusive, they aren’ this bad. I at least get fed! They occasionally hit me, and they scream at me everyday, but I feel so grateful that I get fed everyday. My friends want me to tell someone because of what my parents have said, but I’m worried I’m going to be taken away from them, because they are still my parents, and they are nice sometimes! I love them too. Now I know that when I have kids, I know how NOT to treat them. (Not that I would ever abuse my children or purposefully neglect the, in any way). Edit: thank you for all the likes and support😭💞 I hope whatever you guys are going through gets better
Honestly, your response doesn’t sound healthy. Just because your abuse isn’t as bad as what she went through, doesn’t mean you are affected any less by the trauma you already suffer from. But if being grateful for what you have helps you through this, then I’m not one to judge. I hope you are able to get out of that situation soon, and once you do please don’t ever let your abusive parents convince you that it “wasn’t that bad,” because it is THAT BAD. As a person you should be treated with decency and basic respect. If you aren’t able to leave yet, know that you are important and deserving of so much more. … To add, I know each person is complicated and so are your parents. If you eventually leave, you can *love* them and also acknowledge how they chose to withold love from you and inflict pain instead. They need to change if they want any *respect* from you. I feel strongly about this bc I have family trauma that’s been passed down to me and I know what it’s like to have someone care for you but also disrespect you, it’s confusing and hurtful but there’s always the possibility to work on fixing that behavior and mending struggling family relationships.
@@isthataspider7410 thank you so much😭 i hope your family trauma gets better too, sorry for not writing a lot btw, considering you wrote me a whole frickin essay😭💞
Please stay safe and strong, if it gets worse try and leave as soon as you can. I'm 41 now, my mum even beat me up in my 20s and she's still verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive towards me. I'm trying g to stay no contact as much as possible. That shit scars you for life, I'm 41 now and struggling with suicidal thoughts since maybe 10, please look fir support and fi d someone nice that can be there for you
@@AlissaSss23 oh my goodness i really wish you the best some parents really do not deserve children i really hope u have someone to count on and if u did, im glad u got away from her
@@isthataspider7410 This is the best I've ever seen someone deal with another person saying "it isn't that bad" because it truly is, but they can't necessarily see it. But you still are able to tell them but not judge at the same time. You are truly an amazing person
My mother used to neglect me, she would slamm my fingers in the door, she would starve me if I didn't do something right. She would barge into my school playground and drag me by my hand because she thought I stole her stuff. I dealt with her saying I was an accident all the time One day she snapped and tried to kill me, she was drunk, I ran away from the house and waited for my big brother to say it was alright to come home. He called the cops, and my mother was sentenced to prison for three years. My mother is out of jail now and at first she begged for forgiveness, but I neglected it, now she doesn't even care and isn't even around to visit, I wish I forgave her. Because I really want a mom
I'm sorry that people are like this, nobody should ever go through what you went through. At least you can talk about it and help spread awareness though!
Can I vent? My childhood: I have a very fucked up parents My father is an alcoholic/abusive And my mother is a horrible neglecter In my childhood They would abuse me and neglect me while they treat my sister nicely and give her everything she wants She's a spoiled brat Once I was 12 I started to have suicidal thoughts and you guess it I tried to h*ng myself but my brother stopped me I'm suicidal btw Im living with my brother now (we moved out)
I'm sorry. Really really sorry. I understand how you feel and you are not alone. I'm sending so much love your way. You'll never forget and it takes along time to heal and for me it still hasn't happened yet. You are wanted and your life is extremely important. What I did when I had those thoughts or thoughts about hurting myself I tore up so much paper. Sometimes I'd write what I was feeling or what was done to me or what I'd want to do to myself and then ripped it to Itty bitty pieces. And it really helped. Even tho I am a complete stranger I'm going to tell you, you are worth everything, and you are priceless.
I'm glad your ok but dw you deserve to live not kill yourself your a wonderful person "and you are you and your special"-my bf I wish you happiness and a good long life have a good day my friend
I remember seeing a similar short like this earlier today and people were straight up saying very hurtful and rude things about a sensitive topic- it’s disgusting how some people are on the internet and how hurtful they can be-
From one survivor to another I admire your strength and your courage. Even after years of therapy i can’t bare even thinking of what I went threw yet alone tell the world. You are inspirational I hope one day to find the strength you have.
So I know a person that got abused (my best friend) So technically, my best friend was abused when she was little... Her brother's father was very abusive and her mother would get hit by him.. So then her mother was done with all that trama and decided to leave his a$$ but without telling him... And when they tried to drive away her brother's father was looking at them and he got a statue and through it at the back of the car but the window was very strong and they kept driving away from him and there she meet her childhood home ! She has suicidal thoughts (so do I) and she would cut herself... I would always try to stop her but she kept doing it... (I don't cut myself) So please know that your not the only person that was abused In your life!..
I know that I'm late to comment but please even if I'm a random person on the internet I wish you and your bestfriend a happy and good luck. Me and my best friend have been raised in a good environment but have been abused mentally. Me and my friend decided to help each other with our trauma. I hope you take care of yourself and don't forget that everyone including you and your bestfriend is very special. (Sorry if my grammar is bad. I'm from Mongolia! 😅)
I was the third born out of 5 siblings and my birth mother hated me and she tried to lock me in my room and said the only time I could leave was to eat and go to the bathroom and I straight up told her if she did that I would scream out my window for help and if she locked the window I would break it or kick the walls and alert the neighbors. She said “you better not” and I said that I will, She didn’t lock me in my room after I said that becuz she was scared of the cops. She was so mad that I had that power.
I went through almost the same thing it gets easier with time but please work through you're emotions bottling them up will make them last longer. I hope you heal from this ❤❤
I relate to this. I was forced to stay outside in a camper without running water or plumbing with my brother who brought friend over who were very sexual to me. They would give us food but my brother would keep it from me. I had to keep water in jugs and drink from a water hose and pee outside. I rarely had bowl movements because I didn't eat. I wasn't allowed inside the house. It got so hot in there that I often opened the door just so I could feel a breeze but that was rare in the summer.
i be thinking bout my childhood n then see videos of others experiences and realize mines not even a knick of anything :/ im sorry to anyone whos had to experience such pain growing up❤️
please don't invalidate your struggles and compare them to that of others abuse is still abuse and should be taken seriously life is not a competition of who has it worse
Abuse is no joke. Thank you for making this. As a victim of abuse I know how this feels videos like this are made to make people aware yet, people think these videos are just for fame and content. Please be safe out that and don't abuse. It's not a good thing it's terrible
Casandra you really didn’t deserve any of this like you were homeless and then your childhood was horrible and you got starved and abused I can’t imagine what that would be like! I’m very proud of you. Now you are much better and not addicted and not abused either you are finally safe.
That's a really terrible thing that happened, it really is horrible what happens to kids in the world. I hope you're doing better in life and I think it's great you're sharing your story!
@Norepublicants why would someone make this up? she made this video for awareness. some person you are for saying that bs. she also wants people to know that if your going through something your not alone.
@@isa_vevaa Attention. Literally read the comments dude, the story varies wildly from comment to comment about what was supposedly happening. Also, parents detaining and abusing children DON'T call the police, ambulance, etc, especially not for their kids and especially not for a suicide attempt. That's why those kids are always found with their sibling's corpses.
This is the second version of this I have seen today, I wonder if all the abusive parents wonder who would take care of them when they get old, or if they had an terrible accident, who do they think would care for them and love them after treatment like this to their children, fkN sad!
The sad thing is they have no accountability and get away with the abuse. If you live with family, you'll be the scapegoat for calling out their bs. More likely than not, they will have people near them till their last dying breath, but a scapegoat... probably won't
Well with abortion not being easily accessible most countries it's very often unwanted children, but there's also so little we are told about being a parent. It's an extremely hard task even when the baby is very much wanted. I think there should be mandatory training.
😢I'll always love my children and this story Please let us help our family members including any kids My heart burns out looking at this I was never treated like this I know I am 7 years old But every holiday I would go out for dinner or go on a trip I'm so so sorry you have been through this 💔 😢 I hope you are well now
to anyone who says that she is posting about this for pity, shut up and go somewhere else. she’s posting for awareness to this abuse and neglect. she’s also posting this to let other people going through this, that they’re not going through this alone. if you said that she’s posting for pity, go to hell. wtf is wrong with you?
When me and my sister were younger, it didn't matter what time of the year it was, we would be locked out when we got back from school. It was rare our mother was in. She was always out gambling or getting laid... My sister started leaving a window open so we could get in. But there was no food, no hot water, no electricity... Some people really don't deserve children.
I wish I could hug you and be a mom to you. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I grew up abused and did everything I could to ensure that didn't happen to my daughter. What I went through wasn't even close to as bad as what you went through. I hope you can someday find wholeness and healing no child should be neglected the way you were, ever. My heart goes out to you.
I had to call cps and a girl who had her daughter locked like Harry Potter under the stairs, living in her own filth. The first time I saw her, she came out from under the stairs so say "I'm so thirsty." At the time I was visiting the house because my friend was staying there to avoid being homeless and the mother of the child was a family member, my friend knew she has a kid but had thought she was still in care and the fist time she saw that little girl in that house was in that moment. The mom promptly scooped her up with a look or rage and told her to never come out of the room if she can hear people in the house, before plopping her in the storage room again. She laughed and said she gets curious when people come around, I asked her her name and my friend answered for me. I said if she thirsty I could order us all some food. She said yes but only have me the list of food for what she wanted from McDonald's so I just ordered her daughter a happy meal. When me and my friend went up in her room she started to cry and told me about the situation. She told me she was terrified that she had no clue how long she was keeping her daughter in the home and that she thinks something is seriously wrong. I did too, from what I saw and how the mother/my friends family member seemed like she was holding back her anger with the child made me scared for her. Scared what it was like when no one was home. My friend wanted to call cps and knew she'd lose the house for it but didn't care. She wanted to stay in a shelter to keep that baby safe. So I'd hold her I would help her. I started recording on my phone while I held it like I was texting and proceeded downstairs with my friend to get the McDonald's waiting at the front door. Mum was in the living room downstairs and came to the door when I grabbed the food for her share, she ordered a drink and large fries with a big Mac. She seemed to be picking out small fries for her daughter and to eat and this was a red flag to me because I had a feeling she'd feed her the bare minimum even tho her daughter was thirsty from what I herd, so I walked straight over to the storage closet and opened it, I could see her mom in my side vision staring at me with almost a poised stance. The little girl just stared at me and I could then see the inside or the storage closet. It had a half empty box of pull ups in there with a bunch of dirty ones in a pile in the corner. A lot of 711 food wrappers, a hair brush and garbage all over, and a dog bed with a my little pony in it. I was honestly shocked and almost didn't know what to say. So I just pulled her toy out of the happy meal box for her and she looked so happy. I gave her the food and opened her milk for her and just told her to enjoy but she was staring at her mom and looked really scared. I was shaking at that point because ofcorse I knew how bad this was now. I nudged the milk into her hand and she immediately drank it and slowly shut the door. I stood up and tried not to look at her mom right away as I knew I would probably be obviously angry looking and if I'm being completely honest. I was trying to hold myself back from doing worse then look at her. "Isn't she just a cutie?" I said she was as she walked back to her spot in the living room. When my friend saw me shaking while I walked up the stairs, she asked me what was wrong. Thankfully I was carefully recording the intire thing. Every step I took up those stairs made me want to cry because only her and her mom knew how long she'd been down there and I was just walking over her. I showed her the video. And we'll. It didn't even take a day for foster care to take her away. It turned out that she'd had a problem with dr*gs and had neglected her before. The father's family took temporary custody untill she got sober. She had done treatment and was back at it the second she got her daughter back and that little girl had to live there ever since. The ministry believed that she had a a room for her daughter to stay but that room was the one my friend was renting and apperently she thought she could make some money like that while her little girl lived in worse then a prison. My friends mom actually ended up adopting her. But this video reminded me alot of what happened that day and I honestly don't think I was responsible for her having her happy ending. But I was happy to give her whatever care I could. Even tho it feels like there was nothing I could do besides what I did.
@Goofy ahh uncle productions 8.0 okay I see why your saying this and it’s wrong for them to being say8ng that shit, but I didn’t read it as much either, my reasoning is that there was way too many words for my eyes to process and it became overwhelming to read.
Bro puts more effort into this comment than I did in my final exam. But in all seriousness, this is such a sad story. I hope she’s ok now, no child should ever have to live in such terrible conditions. That woman really learned her parenting skills from Harry Potter.
"sHe'S jUsT sAyInG tHaT bEcAusE sHe JuSt WaNtS aTtEnTiOn" She isn't, I used to suffer from this too, but I managed to escape my suffering from my old abusive parents.
When i was younger my parents locked me in my room for days and only fed me bread and water so i felf this deeply Edit: to everyone saying it’s fake it baffles me how you can try and tell me something in my own life that I’ve lived through didn’t happen and think I’m saying it for clout or attention I don’t give a fuck about attention I was simply stating a thing that happened in my traumatic past so mind your own business when questioning other peoples pasts 🤦♂️
It's just awful, no kid should go through this. No kid should starve, no kid should be locked away for no reason, no kid should get be@t up, and no kid should have to think that death is the only way out. I hope the best for all those who are going through a hell like this one. I truly hope that no one else goes through this, or ends up being like the parents.
The sad thing is my mom has cps as her job and she has to see nasty disgusting ratty shit stuff like this everyday she has to go to court and protect kids all while working on helping them find families and taking care of her kids pets and other things all day and cleaning the house aswell I have never been more thankful for a mom
You need to call for help. I’m so sorry this happens to you and I know you may be scared to leave whoever you live with but you don’t deserve that. Sneak out, get help, give signals just do whatever you have to do to get the life you deserve. Please this comment broke my heart and even worse that broke my heart was that no one commented on this saying you should go get help. If your being abused even in the slightest go tell someone. Please. Seriously I’m going to cry if I know that you aren’t getting the help you deserve.
I was abused by my aunt , grandparents, Cousins In my childhood it seems that they love my cousin more i used to eat in my bedroom one day it was my birthday they forgot i had enough so I ran away to my mom's grave and sat there crying a cop saw me and took me to the station for answers i told them and they took me in as their own now i am officer working for my step dad (Never give up)100 likes for pt 2
i always say i wish i had a better mom or i didn’t like her but i remember people have it much worse then me. my heart goes out to anyone who’s getting neglected
I’m sorry you went through this, I can’t imagine what that was like. Thank you for sharing, and hopefully motivating others to get help. No child deserves to go through this, your mother was a monster.
This kind of stuff is so sad. Anybody going through anything like this, I am so so sorry. Please know you are not alone, and stay away from things/people causing you trouble. u got this ily 💕
The tension never really leaves, but god damn it gets easier when you find someone who loves you and cares about you. Also therapy is nice, not always super helpful but getting a person fully on your side w resources and experience, telling you your absolutely justified in being angry, tired, scared.
I’m sorry that that happened to you, there’s nothing else that i can say expect that i hope you never go through this again. It’s a horrible thing. Sorrys wont fix anything but a bunch of people here are supporting you.
This is almost like how in lived. My parents would fight a lot and called the police 3times to stop the fight, evrytime this happend I locked myself in my room and cried,I would always say in my mind “I just want peace 😢”.all my other friends had perfect lives and where always happy.sometimes I had breakdowns and cry a lot at school, that’s when my OCD started,I kept thinking about my future more then what’s happening now , and that’s all !spread love everyone!❤❤❤
@@chung4256 yes, and if a child is acting cruel, it’s parents fault. Children come to world completely clueless and learn everything from their parents, it’s never child’s fault at the first place, it usually means that the parent did smth wrong
@@nemotheghost9196 One children don’t learn everything from there parents, surely you would know that. Many elements contribute to a child’s growth and actions. The parents are there guardian that’s there role. School is for education and that is where the children learn. They also learn from other sources too like social media. See when a child is bad and cruel is it the parents fault? In most cases no. But what most contribute to a child’s attitude is the influence of there friends and social media. Parents aren’t to blame for everything that happens to a child. Parents already have to do everything behind the scene they take care of children and give children The necessities that you need to thrive in this world. I believe parents can contribute to a kids actions but other children contribute more. Edit: and social media
Sometimes I think I take how I was treated as a child for granted because I was never abused or neglected and I think when I realize that having a good childhood is a privilege I hate having to face the fact that I was lucky. I don’t want to say that either because not everyone got that and that is sad and just not ok to me to have to think about. Prayers and love to all.
"All children deserve parents... but not all parents deserve children. "
-A wise person.
Not a wise person but every real human
You copied it in facebook
@@user-cherryrasp Bruh i dont even have FACEBOOK-
But they wouldn't be a parent if they never had a child and didn't deserve one. 🧠
@Your Dad parents*
Y'all. Her mother would give her minimal food and abuse her if she came out of her room. She was meant to stay locked away abused and neglected. The paper balls are to see if she opened the door or not. If they fell, it means she opened it. That means trouble.
ohhh thanks for explaining
@@cloudiifog4013 no problem. Folks who haven't gone through it don't know and that's ok. I'm glad they don't 💙
Ok thx for explaining
That’s horrible!!
Is her mum in jail
A wise man once said
"Don't make a baby if you don't know how to keep it"
He shall be named wise
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he is very wise😳
Are you sure a wise man said that you just need common sense to know that
Someone once told me “Don’t have a child if you don’t want it”
Yet soo many men and at times women shame women who abort calling them a cum dumpster and trash, esp men like like to run their mouths and talk shit but don't bat a bloody fkn eye to kids in foster homes or who are abused, its infuriating cuz personally come across men and women who want to seem perfect also tlk shit abt women who abort kids, or single moms, its soo fked!
Unfortunately, that's not always a solution. We were using 3 different kinds of birth control when we had our first.
Unlike this portrayed woman, I stepped up and am doing the best I can to give my children a childhood vastly different to mine.
@@warriormaiden9829that's good that your trying. Not all parents do sadly 😢
@@warriormaiden9829 bro that is The most responsible thing you could’ve done
@@warriormaiden9829 It's great that you were able to be a good parent for your kids. Not everyone would be. Which is why abortion needs to be an option.
I had an alarm and a lock outside my door. The alarm was to notify them if the lock broke. I wasn't starved, I was let out daily but every night that lock was locked and the alarm was set. I went to school and did chores, ate, showered, and did homework. I was given a radio...but then to me the worst punishment was when I would get in trouble I had to stand in the bathroom and point at myself for hours in front of the mirror and repeat "It's all my fault."
I didn't think anything of how I was raised until I was in a group home and brought it up in group therapy. I thought it was completely normal to be treated like that. I was 10... I don't stand in front of mirrors longer than I absolutely need to, in fact I hate it... I rarely wear makeup just because I don't want to stand in front of a mirror 😒
Edit: thank you guys for the support but it happened a very long time ago. I'm an adult now with 3 daughters of my own and yes living a much better life now. I know others went through way worse than what I went through. My story has a lot more to it but this is as much as I will share. Again thank you all for the support. It's crazy how complete strangers can care more than the family you were born to.
This is so problematic!!!! I'm so sorry you had to go through that!!You don't deserve it!!!I hope you're fine now!♥️
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I hope you're safe and happier now and that you have good people looking out for you in your life.
I so sorry to.hear this. Are you ok
The world is a mess.. On the other side of that there are parents who care so little they let their children do anything. Then those children go to prison or get into all sorts of various issues like having 3 children they need the parents to take care of etc. The lesson for me is having children needs to be a decision someone really really really thinks hard on. If they think they've thought it through enough, they haven't.
Ok so anyone who’s wondering, this girl got locked up in her room by her mother and her mothers boyfriend. They would lock her in her room for as long as possible and the cotton balls are for if she escaped from her room they would fall. One day she escaped and called 911 but out of fear she hung up and went back in her room. the abusers found out and got a belt and abused her a lot. It just got worse and worse until she decided to try to kill herself with the belt. (Around her neck)
The closet rack ended up falling because of her weight. Her “mother” finally called help for her bc of the suicidal commit. She ended up being put up for adoption and she’s all safe with a family.
I’m sorry for my false information, but she did try and call 911 while getting food bc I saw her vudeos
Quick correction she didnt try to call 911 she went to get food because they were starving her and after they got home they found her in her room but the paper balls fell so they knew she left
They didn’t call help for her in the end btw, they took her to the hospital and left her there
She can’t have called the police, even if you hang up, they’ll immediately trace the call and come to your home to check what happened
Ur comment is false in my opinion-
Wait but that’s false I think u got mixed up she never tried to call 911 and hang up instead she went to grab rod because she’s hungry and they starved her. And when the closet broke they got angry at her and abused her again and I forgot the rest-
To whoever has a child:
Please don’t abuse them. They deserve you and you need to be nice to them. Your their only hope. Please. Be nice.
Edit: Ty For All Of The Likes
Edit 2: OK OK OK! Let’s get some stuff straight.
I’m sorry if i came across as the bad guy.
Also, I’m not expecting this comment to stop those parents from doing it. I expect it to show to those who are being abused that it’s ok because people are here and know what they are going through.
It may sound like I’m being abused as a child, but im not. My parents aren’t abusing me please don’t say awful things in the comments, and if you have take them down.
Thanks 🙏🏽
People who are abusive to their children are already monsters.
But to anyone who sees abuse, say something. You may be the only person who does.
Exactly we parents are the only hope for the child. That is what i keep saying to my bf when he gets demotivated at work or in life. We've got to be fearless for our kids
Children deserve parents, but sometimes the parents don’t deserve the children.
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@@TakumiDX Ok smart Aleck.
“Kids need parents, but sometimes Parents don’t need kids”
-A wise person
All her vids are fake
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So many of us adults are still living, with our inner wounded child's heart.
Hug that inner child daily and say, I Love You. And always will!
Some things just cannot be gone like the memories but we can find love in our lives which won't hold us down to the past. They just memories , we become stronger and know who we are so that we will NEVER do it to others the way it was done to us.
@@melaniepaul8150 I agree with this. I'm 33 and met someone finally. Although it never lasted long unfortunately. (he was still dealing with trauma himself)
I found a light at the end of the tunnel for the first time.
Perhaps meeting your significant other who is healthy for you and makes you happy can heal past wounds. I have hope.
You got me there
Really makes you think. You should never take anything for granted. Imagine how grateful she must've been just to eat..oh my god, I'm so sorry. You are so strong, sharing your story.
She probably has an eating disorder. Abuse of that kind almost always lead to ED of some sort..
@J P EXACTLY
@J P I think they meant just be grateful for what you have and never take it for granted. Many kids don’t have the luxury that they have.
accepting the very bare minimum is not being grateful. You should get basic human rights no matter what, ungrateful or not.
@J P Yet unfortunately many children aren’t.
Reading the comment section just makes me feel very grateful towards my parents. I hope all those suffering, will be okay. Stay Strong❤
Ik even though I have an Asian mother who's kinda strict but a silly dad who tries to make a smile on my face everyday, I can agree
Agreed
I dont give a shit
Look at the top comment
@@Iambrokebruv3 what does the top comment have to do with this
As a kid, abuse and neglet seemed normal. My mom would sell our stuff, food stamps, and use my child support for drugs. I'd go on her drug runs with her until I was 9, The state of Tennessee took me. I'm 14
im 13 and the fact what hour Mother did Is the same as someone did to my cousins..
i understand you and you know what? at your 18's you're free and you Will escape ! you will be happy!! unlike Other people who get abused.. but judging is bad, Isn't it? and using children's Stuff for evil and disgusting things Is also Bad..
i wish i was never born at all..
but im sure, One day you'll be free and Happy !! happier than now!! the most Happy Person in world! just don't die, okay?
@@0vxnnyyy thx man, and, im adopted now so im safe now haha
@@S1L1C0N_BR41NZZare your new parents good to you? Do they treat you right? Because I hope so as someone whose deal th with more trauma in 7 months than the average 15 year old should than anyone should in their entire life. I understand what you went through and it’s awful to think about I hope everything is better and your ok
@@BlackFlames999 yeah im fine now my mom cant see me anymore and i'm living with my dad :D. Are you alr?
I was locked in my room as a kid too. Good thing my mom wasn't smart enough for paper balls
Oh my I'm so sorry
Mine used tape when I was like grounded and stuff
@@therealinvisible me not grounded, just locked in my room until I was about 6 or so
@Sofia Lorin Pellejera ok but what does that have to do with a person being locked in their room
Can I ask why she locked you?
To the people who are saying: "sHeS sAyInG tHaT fOr aTtEnTiOn!!!"
It's a serious thing some people go through so why would she lie about that??? Its not happening to me but my dad is making me, my brother, and my sister, be scared of talking to someone about how we feel, he gave me social anxiety, and I'm not lying about that, its serious, not all family's are happy and loving
Edit: so many likes and it was only a day ago, tysm!, and one person said I'm faking it, what do i need to do, next time he's yelling at me do I grab my phone and start recording?? Cause I will if that's what you want
I'm so sorry.
@@ishwaridanekar Dont apologize, it's not your fault
I’m sorry for you but it’s really hard to not think people are doing stuff like this for attention due to the rising amount of people who fake real and hard problems for likes and pity
To be fair, the average person doesn’t sit and think “I’m gonna make a tik tok reenacting my traumatic experience, hmm lemme set my camera up here, yeah this sad song goes well, now let’s make some edits, *post*”
Even if this didn't actually happen to the creator, the creator has said she is bringing attention to a common abusive situation. Many children suffer more in the summer without school there as a buffer.
This shakes me to my soul. As a mother, i just can't understand...many people don't deserve to have children or in this case to breathe.
God bless u
@@-.unavailable.- bless*
@@takafulmaster7651 blees*
@@Raiden0944 bless*
@@-.unavailable.- It's nice to see you appreciating her.^-^. There is a very small mistake in your comment. You have written "blees".It will be "Bless". I know it might have happened accedently. Otherwise you are great :)
Its so sad how many people can relate to this. Parents need to care for their children more. This is such a bad thing that parents actually do. Like, parents, if you do this, don’t make a kid if you can’t care for them, love them, or even treat them like a normal kid. This is so traumatic for a lot of people. To all that have experienced this or something similar to this, you are in my prayers and thoughts. I love you all!
"care for their children" PERIOD
I feel so bad reading all these comments. I had a great childhood and felt like running away, meanwhile all these people are suffering! I am so sorry for what y'all had to go through 🙁
Same:(
Very much feel you
@@Butterfly-zs4uj what?
@@auroralebovits1436 Nothing you don’t get itt
Yeah, I truly believe that our lived experiences our "relative" compared to others. Someone is always in a better or worse situation. I thought my childhood was questionable, but the day I became a Child Protection Worker, I became exposed to variety of events which were both dark and light. The lives people live vary and it is best described as a spectrum. I just wished we lived in a Society that if a child felt unsafe that they could be able to tell someone so that they could protect them.
“No child deserves this, no one deserves this.” -a human
why do you people quote everything for no reason
@Joi jellybean bro that fact doesn’t change anything
@@septikkvoid agreed
@@septikkvoid 😂
@Spid4rsw3bz just bc they had a bad past doesnt excuse the fact they are abusing their children, lives they are responsible for.
The story:
Basically when she was a child her parents locked her inside of her room and the paper balls are to see if she open the door and one day she opened the door and went to the kitchen to get food and she went back to her room thinking that everything was OK but it wasn't...
Her parents then came home seeing the paper balls on the floor so they knew she opened the door so her stepdad went to beat her up with *HER* belt and left the belt with her and then she went inside the closet trying to *KILL HERSELF BY HANGING HERSELF WITH THE BELT* and she accidentally broke her closet then her mom heard the crash So she went to check. She saw the closet and her crying so she rush to grab her phone and called a mental hospital telling them what she's trying to do.
And i don't know what happened next but she's probably living a better life with a new family..
@adventures with kimmy and chase no no her stepdad abused her.
@@Noone-jx2pk no it was the mom too
thank you for explaining it thoroughly, but please put a tw for suicide at the very top! it can be extremely triggering to people if they don't know it's mentioned in the rest of the comment
@@user-kn6vo8pt1r 🤓
Oh wow
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I hate to see people suffer and this video breaks my heart. I hope that this world could be a better place someday. These types of parents are horrible and shouldn't be allowed to have children. I love everyone and I hope everyone will be loved the same. Treat people how you want to be treated❤️.
Have a good life guys, and don't waste it on doing it on stuff you don't want to do, Because remember, you only have one.
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As a mom, this absolutely breaks my heart. I could cry for hours just thinking about this. If i could only give people like you all that love i also give to my children. How terrible, I'm so sorry, truly!
ok
It's sad that kids that are like 17 and under get abused every day and it's sad to say I was one of them but the thing we can do is help them recover and get them help
@@Thatonelesbiangirl you're right
For a second I thought your pfp was hank schrader from breaking bad
@@sexualintercourse9709 perhaps I'm Hank Schrader in Drag 🙃
I remember my little sister looking at me saying “I’m hungry” while my mother was high in a bed for 10 years. I know your pain.
I'm sorry
@@H1l_3ditz no.
My mother overdosed late 2021, and my sister doesn’t have 5 years left. She is a skinny husk of a human addicted to narcotics. She will never leave that hole. That’s all she ever knew. A girl used up until she was gone by leeches.
@@h0ardRR I feel sorry for the people like me that are in pain and have never seen a clean or silent day in their lives. It’s not a pass or an excuse, it just is. I know I never ever ever have a silence.
No peace in my heart. A family man as a mask. It can all burn to the ground. This is all fake for someone’s yacht. The issues compound and compound until you can’t be you anymore.
OMG WHAT IS WRONG WITH PARENTS THESE DAYS IM SO SORRY
@@childofthevoid6854 That is a serious problem. I am beginning to notice that " I'm sorry " might not have been enough. I wish of you prosperity, for those who have troublesome lives at the beginning, will have a blessed death on the end, depending on how they dealt with their situation. Have a good day, night, evening afternoon or such, and I hope you heal mentally.
No one deserves to go through this. Not a single soul on this planet deserves to go through this. And-quick question Cass.- How is your mom now? I understand that she was scared of your step-dad, so is he gone? Thank you Cassie!
kid named hitler:
@@stinkyboy6933 IM ADOLF HITLER THE COMMANDER OF THE THIRD REICH LITTLE KNOWN FACT ALSO DOPE ON THE MIC
@@stinkyboy6933 ok yes lol
When I was younger I didn't understand this video but know I'm older and it just broke my heart 😢
I will never forget the abuse I endured as a child from my dad locking me up all summer vacation while my other siblings got to play, beating physically, consistently, putting me down always being hungry . That happened from a baby to 13yrs old, until my mom got herself together and we finally moved out. I am now 42yrs old still remember like yesterday. Wow!!! i am here right now and soooo grateful🙏 i am stronger than ever, mentally. I have a 9yr old son and love him so dearly ❤️. The amount of time I put into this little boy from going to the beach and traveling on vacations , teaching him his school work.... I truly feel the love of being a parent/ mother 😌. Thank you God for not letting me make history repeat itself. 🙏 I KNOW WHAT LOVE TRULY ❤️ IS.
you are amazing!!! i hope your boy knows how much you love him
God bless you and your boy.. you're His masterpiece... 🙏❤🙏❤
@@audreyheart2180 thank you 😊 🙏 💓
Thats said i went to Florida hope u ok
Y would your father lock you up and, let other siblings be??
For everyone who dealing with this:
I'm terribly sorry, you all need to stay strong, God will help you get through this! Don't forget that you're loved by people out there!
Thankyou 💛
I’m not not dealing with this thank god
God/Allah
@@Armyblink-en2zh thank you
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I remember when I was about 4-5, my parents favoured my older sister because she was more mature. So, they had no use for me and sent me to my room and locked the door. And a reminder that my sister WASNT RELATED TO ME! My own mother who birthed me and “loved me” neglected me until I started middle school. She says I’m a manipulator and I’m selfish. I wonder where I got that from. My mother also complains why I’m closer to my real father, well, if she’d payed closer attention to my trama and mental health, I would have gotten along with her more. My mother also abused me emotionally and mentally. Thanks to her I need therapy and I’m still trying to recover. Im glad my dad is here for me. I swear my father is the best Because he was there for me throughout these years of my life. No one can replace him. Oof, I got a little emotional there. Sorry if I made you cry 😅.
Edit: oh my.. now that’s a lot of likes 😨
I'm so sorry ❤
stay strong!
don't laugh it off its ok you can cry about it i just don't know what to do know i wish i could help u that time i am such a bad person i should have helped the poor but i couldn't😭
Stay strong 💪❤️❤️❤️
This is almost the same with me:(
I feel like my own grandma loves me more;(
I don’t understand people who could do this to their kids. I have 2, one with some intense behavioral needs. I could NEVER. I still cry when they cry.
Someone explained the story in the comments, and Im actually crying rn. Thats so sad. I dont even know what to say honestly. I just can’t comprehend why any parent would do this. I love my dad to death, and could never see him doing this. And I could never see myself doing this to my future child. Im a Highschooler at the moment, and plan to have two children, after college, and after getting a good job. And I would never do this to my child. No matter if the child’s my biological child or not (Im a Trans male. If I have a gf, she can get pregnant from a donor or whatever, or I could adopt) or even if it was just my foster kid. Could never
If all people thought like that, the world could really change, my bf is also not interested in having kids, so I suggest him on adopting
And people say trans folks would make bad parents. I think you'll all be some of the best.
@@robindebenk7915 Thank you so much 😊❤️
@Leah That’s so cool!
It's all from generational trauma and nobody respecting their child while asking to receive some themselves, and because the aren't parenting with understanding. It goes I'm circles because of unresolved trauma. It really sucks, but the cycle is breaking. Slowly buy surely. The reason people would do it after being treated that way is for negative attention towards revenge
I was 3 or 4 and locked alone in apartment while mom was at work, my brothers at school and dad at work. She said ste did It because she had no one who could take care of me. I remember crying, screaming, banging on the door and no one coming. One time I threw up all over the floor and had to wait for her to come and clean It up. She said she is surprised I remember that because I was so little. Please dont do this to your toddlers.
This is just as bad its like u could even question urself did this happen am I exaggerating? So u end up torturing urself . These abusers are so insidious I hope u are doing ok in life now x
hope you’re well💗
Oh my God. 🥺😭😭
You mean that they, both of your parents, did it because they didn't have another choice. Childcare is so complicated in societies without appropriate communities.
Definitely could have ended badly. But at least she was at work and not at the club partying.
For the people who don't get it, I'll try to explain it. Basically her mother ( I think) was Basically trapping her in her room and giving her food every so often. If I'm wrong please tell me.
Your correct
You forgot one part tho, the paper balls also play a role. If they were on the ground that means she opened the door, she wasn’t supposed to.
And the paper balls where to see if she came out of her room or not
Yeh her mom and step mom the story is on her chanell
Channel
‘Every child deserves a parent but, not every parent deserves a child.’
- very wise person on the internet
its parent not adult
@@bushv1bes sorry, I fixed it for ya 🙂
I relate. This is so heartbreaking. I was locked in a room everyday by my grandmother. Abused, neglected and starved... I have such severe trauma to thus day and a horrible eating disorder. 😪 sending you ❤️
How are you now?
I was also abused by my grandmother. She wouldn't lock me in my room but if I was anywhere near her she'd start physically and verbally abusing me. So I stayed in my room to avoid confrontation with her. She would make lunch for my brother and sister but not for me. Fortunately after lunch she would take a nap so that's when I'd leave my room to eat whatever I could. This was from the age of 10 to 14 so I didn't know how to cook. So I'd eat anything I could and I tried to be as quiet as possible because if she heard any movement in the kitchen she'd come after me. And my parents telling me that it was probably because of something I did. That I somehow brought this on myself. They' d go off to work and leave us with her. This was convenient for them so it didn't matter that this woman traumatized me for years and the people that should have been protecting me did nothing to stop it because they needed her to babysit us. When I was 10 I had to spend an entire summer outside because we lived in a military housing complex and my parents were afraid someone would report us if they heard any screaming or yelling. They would wake me up early and I'd hang out all morning at the playground, at lunch my father would come home give me lunch and then I'd have to spend the rest of the afternoon back at the playground. So of course I grew up thinking I was a piece of shit and to this day I have to convince myself that I was a child and didn't deserve that kind of treatment. And even though I know this is true there's still a little piece of me that keeps believing that I somehow deserved this. My parents have no idea the damage this did to me. It has affected every decision I have made because I have no self-esteem and have exhausted all my energy. First because I needed to survive what I was going through and then because I've had to consistently convince myself that I deserve better. I have constant PTSD and feel like I will never be good enough.
@•CataleyaTheUnicorn• #RoadTo200 Yeah it was awful and has affected my whole life. That whole song and dance where people want to make you believe that events like these have made you stronger and whatever is all BS. It hasn't made me stronger at all. I was on survival mode for a long time but all that trauma finally caught up with me and no matter how much therapy I do it's always going to be there.
@@marypoppins7687 OH sweetie, I'm so sorry 😞 Big hugs from me to you.
Abuse comes in so many forms and the one thing many abusers have in common is making us feel like we actually deserve it. We don't. You are amazing and strong and you deserve to be loved and appreciated. Sadly we didn't have the influence to help us understand this growing up. You are SO valuable! I love you! ❤️
@@marypoppins7687 I agree. I haven't wanted to exist since I was 10. People don't truly understand unless they live it and feel it.
Oh my mom heart hurts!!! If anyone was treating my babies like this I would lose my sh**.. I want to give young you a hug and bring you home. 😭
She later hung herself in her closet but the beam broke and she survived where she went to a mental hospital and got adopted by a good family
@@willismushrush9656 her parents should have put her up for adoption well before that incident. No child deserves the torture and trauma from anyone, a "parent" no less.. she seems to have made the best of her life but she didn't deserve to get there in such a terrible way.
My grandpa got angry at me for getting low grades so as punishment didn’t let me eat for days, only drank water and coffee, so glad he’s in urn now
Dis your parents knew?
@@squeakysadventures405 bruh
@@EmpireAngels dis ur parents onew
The design is very Asian
@@EmpireAngels ????? It was just a typo the s and d are very close to each other probably why it said "dis"-
So what is the "bRuH" for?
Try to not spend the second half of your life getting over the first half. Your trauma needs to be recognized and validated but outside of that it's already stolen enough from you. Don't let it steal more by over staying it's welcome in your thoughts. Recognize if a specific thought keeps replaying over and over and if it is tell it out loud. I remember, I did the best I could with what I knew at the time. I forgive myself and others and I deserve to move past this and not wallow in it. Then purposefully think of the positive changes you have made in your life now that your an adult and have control over it. If your not happy with how your life is going don't beat yourself up over it. Recognize what parts or behaviors are from your abuse and change it so you do like it. You spent a lot of time with someone making your life be miserable, don't be the person that does it to you now. You are worth it. Spread positiveness, just be sure to start with yourself first : ) I wish you well
This is INCREDIBLE!!
My father tends to get drunk on the weekends and one day my father once screamed so loud in my ear i could not hear anything for over an hour.
i was around the age 3 and have a really good hearing.I remembered the way i screamed,Cryed like my lugs were dying and i could not fall asleep.My mother couldn’t take me to the hospital because we were kinda poor.
The reason’s sometimes parents are like this is because there parents were like that.Some just did not learn that that’s not a healthy relationship.
That's why I don't wanna have a dad like I don't have one that's why I'm glad
@@asyaflowers6714 I wish I didn't have a dad
@@H0sh13_starfan my dad is good
@@asyaflowers6714 hey. I know you heard a lot of bad stories about dads but not all are bad! Personally I had a bad experience with my dad but not all are bad. 😊
@@gyutarofan4979my dad has emotionally abused me and now I say sorry to absolutely everything 🙃
When I see videos like this, it makes me feel grateful for my parents, even though they are abusive, they aren’ this bad. I at least get fed! They occasionally hit me, and they scream at me everyday, but I feel so grateful that I get fed everyday. My friends want me to tell someone because of what my parents have said, but I’m worried I’m going to be taken away from them, because they are still my parents, and they are nice sometimes! I love them too.
Now I know that when I have kids, I know how NOT to treat them. (Not that I would ever abuse my children or purposefully neglect the, in any way).
Edit: thank you for all the likes and support😭💞 I hope whatever you guys are going through gets better
Honestly, your response doesn’t sound healthy. Just because your abuse isn’t as bad as what she went through, doesn’t mean you are affected any less by the trauma you already suffer from. But if being grateful for what you have helps you through this, then I’m not one to judge. I hope you are able to get out of that situation soon, and once you do please don’t ever let your abusive parents convince you that it “wasn’t that bad,” because it is THAT BAD. As a person you should be treated with decency and basic respect. If you aren’t able to leave yet, know that you are important and deserving of so much more.
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To add, I know each person is complicated and so are your parents. If you eventually leave, you can *love* them and also acknowledge how they chose to withold love from you and inflict pain instead. They need to change if they want any *respect* from you. I feel strongly about this bc I have family trauma that’s been passed down to me and I know what it’s like to have someone care for you but also disrespect you, it’s confusing and hurtful but there’s always the possibility to work on fixing that behavior and mending struggling family relationships.
@@isthataspider7410 thank you so much😭 i hope your family trauma gets better too, sorry for not writing a lot btw, considering you wrote me a whole frickin essay😭💞
Please stay safe and strong, if it gets worse try and leave as soon as you can. I'm 41 now, my mum even beat me up in my 20s and she's still verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive towards me. I'm trying g to stay no contact as much as possible. That shit scars you for life, I'm 41 now and struggling with suicidal thoughts since maybe 10, please look fir support and fi d someone nice that can be there for you
@@AlissaSss23 oh my goodness i really wish you the best some parents really do not deserve children
i really hope u have someone to count on and if u did, im glad u got away from her
@@isthataspider7410 This is the best I've ever seen someone deal with another person saying "it isn't that bad" because it truly is, but they can't necessarily see it. But you still are able to tell them but not judge at the same time. You are truly an amazing person
My mother used to neglect me, she would slamm my fingers in the door, she would starve me if I didn't do something right. She would barge into my school playground and drag me by my hand because she thought I stole her stuff. I dealt with her saying I was an accident all the time
One day she snapped and tried to kill me, she was drunk, I ran away from the house and waited for my big brother to say it was alright to come home. He called the cops, and my mother was sentenced to prison for three years.
My mother is out of jail now and at first she begged for forgiveness, but I neglected it, now she doesn't even care and isn't even around to visit, I wish I forgave her. Because I really want a mom
I'm so sorry.....
@@ser_v1 it's ok ❤
@@megumi7124 hope you're doing ok :)
Hugs! I'm so sorry you had to go through that 💔💔💔💔
@@ser_v1 I'm kind of doing ok, sorry for taking so long to reply ❤
“All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.”
I'm sorry that people are like this, nobody should ever go through what you went through. At least you can talk about it and help spread awareness though!
Fake
Can I vent?
My childhood: I have a very fucked up parents
My father is an alcoholic/abusive
And my mother is a horrible neglecter
In my childhood
They would abuse me and neglect me while they treat my sister nicely and give her everything she wants
She's a spoiled brat
Once I was 12 I started to have suicidal thoughts and you guess it I tried to h*ng myself but my brother stopped me I'm suicidal btw
Im living with my brother now (we moved out)
I feel that girl. I hope you are healed from it all. I’m working on it. ❤️
Hope you're okay...sending good vibes your way ✨
I'm sorry. Really really sorry. I understand how you feel and you are not alone. I'm sending so much love your way. You'll never forget and it takes along time to heal and for me it still hasn't happened yet. You are wanted and your life is extremely important. What I did when I had those thoughts or thoughts about hurting myself I tore up so much paper. Sometimes I'd write what I was feeling or what was done to me or what I'd want to do to myself and then ripped it to Itty bitty pieces. And it really helped. Even tho I am a complete stranger I'm going to tell you, you are worth everything, and you are priceless.
dang bro that sucks 😂
I'm glad your ok but dw you deserve to live not kill yourself your a wonderful person "and you are you and your special"-my bf I wish you happiness and a good long life have a good day my friend
I remember seeing a similar short like this earlier today and people were straight up saying very hurtful and rude things about a sensitive topic- it’s disgusting how some people are on the internet and how hurtful they can be-
Agreed people are very rude
I hate toxic ppl but idk why but someone called me toxic for no reason at all.
But not everyone knows that it's a true story. People think it's some skit or scripted. I thought it was a skit until I opened the comments 😅
Everyone has different opinions so stop complaining
@@sanidhyasuresh5288 fr
Seeing this video makes me grateful for my parents. I hope people that are in pain stay safe 😢
“If they don’t treat you well,
They don’t deserve the success u will get “
- me
From one survivor to another I admire your strength and your courage. Even after years of therapy i can’t bare even thinking of what I went threw yet alone tell the world. You are inspirational I hope one day to find the strength you have.
So I know a person that got abused (my best friend)
So technically, my best friend was abused when she was little...
Her brother's father was very abusive and her mother would get hit by him..
So then her mother was done with all that trama and decided to leave his a$$ but without telling him... And when they tried to drive away her brother's father was looking at them and he got a statue and through it at the back of the car but the window was very strong and they kept driving away from him and there she meet her childhood home !
She has suicidal thoughts (so do I) and she would cut herself... I would always try to stop her but she kept doing it... (I don't cut myself)
So please know that your not the only person that was abused In your life!..
Dang-
Has she tried therapy or mental place?
I know that I'm late to comment but please even if I'm a random person on the internet I wish you and your bestfriend a happy and good luck. Me and my best friend have been raised in a good environment but have been abused mentally. Me and my friend decided to help each other with our trauma. I hope you take care of yourself and don't forget that everyone including you and your bestfriend is very special. (Sorry if my grammar is bad. I'm from Mongolia! 😅)
I was the third born out of 5 siblings and my birth mother hated me and she tried to lock me in my room and said the only time I could leave was to eat and go to the bathroom and I straight up told her if she did that I would scream out my window for help and if she locked the window I would break it or kick the walls and alert the neighbors. She said “you better not” and I said that I will, She didn’t lock me in my room after I said that becuz she was scared of the cops.
She was so mad that I had that power.
Good on you!! This made me smile. I love that you were able to shut it down with her. You must’ve been a super brave kiddo!! Hugs friend!!!!
my dad was a narcissist and would abuse me and my siblings, im glad were kinda out of it now, to anyone struggling keep trying, get help, ❤️❤️❤️
I went through almost the same thing it gets easier with time but please work through you're emotions bottling them up will make them last longer. I hope you heal from this ❤❤
Same here, much love & healing 💛💛💛
@@malisalott8336 Bro let’s switch :)))))
Lmao deserved 😂😂😂
I relate to this. I was forced to stay outside in a camper without running water or plumbing with my brother who brought friend over who were very sexual to me. They would give us food but my brother would keep it from me. I had to keep water in jugs and drink from a water hose and pee outside. I rarely had bowl movements because I didn't eat. I wasn't allowed inside the house. It got so hot in there that I often opened the door just so I could feel a breeze but that was rare in the summer.
Poor girl...
Are you doing better? This was not okay.
Are you okay now dear?
Oh my good lord you had to face this dear...Are you alright now??
Poor baby. I'm sorry. Were they your step parents? Or real parents? I hope you are doing better now
i be thinking bout my childhood n then see videos of others experiences and realize mines not even a knick of anything :/ im sorry to anyone whos had to experience such pain growing up❤️
please don't invalidate your struggles and compare them to that of others
abuse is still abuse and should be taken seriously
life is not a competition of who has it worse
Abuse is no joke. Thank you for making this. As a victim of abuse I know how this feels videos like this are made to make people aware yet, people think these videos are just for fame and content. Please be safe out that and don't abuse. It's not a good thing it's terrible
Casandra you really didn’t deserve any of this like you were homeless and then your childhood was horrible and you got starved and abused I can’t imagine what that would be like! I’m very proud of you. Now you are much better and not addicted and not abused either you are finally safe.
That's a really terrible thing that happened, it really is horrible what happens to kids in the world. I hope you're doing better in life and I think it's great you're sharing your story!
i’m so sorry this happened to you
@Norepublicants yeah it did don’t think it didn’t this needs more awareness if you ask me how I know she made another video on it
@Norepublicants why would someone make this up? she made this video for awareness. some person you are for saying that bs. she also wants people to know that if your going through something your not alone.
Don’t feel bad for her she is a criminal that robbed a jewelry store and she is flexing it in a previous video
@Norepublicants image being this dumb
@@isa_vevaa Attention. Literally read the comments dude, the story varies wildly from comment to comment about what was supposedly happening.
Also, parents detaining and abusing children DON'T call the police, ambulance, etc, especially not for their kids and especially not for a suicide attempt. That's why those kids are always found with their sibling's corpses.
Thank goodness my parents are the best a person could have.
This is the second version of this I have seen today, I wonder if all the abusive parents wonder who would take care of them when they get old, or if they had an terrible accident, who do they think would care for them and love them after treatment like this to their children, fkN sad!
The sad thing is they have no accountability and get away with the abuse. If you live with family, you'll be the scapegoat for calling out their bs.
More likely than not, they will have people near them till their last dying breath, but a scapegoat... probably won't
Sometimes I don’t understand this like if your going to abuse and neglect your child then why have one…
Well with abortion not being easily accessible most countries it's very often unwanted children, but there's also so little we are told about being a parent. It's an extremely hard task even when the baby is very much wanted. I think there should be mandatory training.
@@GardensOfChina you are right but it doesn’t justify any abuse (not that you are saying that or anything like that)
“Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.”
Philippians 2:3
i agree, u shouldn't need to impress anybody, but why think of others as better than urself?
😢I'll always love my children and this story
Please let us help our family members including any kids
My heart burns out looking at this
I was never treated like this
I know I am 7 years old But every holiday I would go out for dinner or go on a trip
I'm so so sorry you have been through this 💔 😢
I hope you are well now
to anyone who says that she is posting about this for pity, shut up and go somewhere else. she’s posting for awareness to this abuse and neglect. she’s also posting this to let other people going through this, that they’re not going through this alone.
if you said that she’s posting for pity, go to hell. wtf is wrong with you?
This comment needs to be pinned
When me and my sister were younger, it didn't matter what time of the year it was, we would be locked out when we got back from school. It was rare our mother was in. She was always out gambling or getting laid...
My sister started leaving a window open so we could get in. But there was no food, no hot water, no electricity...
Some people really don't deserve children.
Im so so sorry that happened to u
If she was gonna be in the streets having sex she should have at least made something out of it and gotten paid for it smfh
So sorry this happened
I wish I could hug you and be a mom to you. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I grew up abused and did everything I could to ensure that didn't happen to my daughter. What I went through wasn't even close to as bad as what you went through. I hope you can someday find wholeness and healing no child should be neglected the way you were, ever. My heart goes out to you.
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
I had to call cps and a girl who had her daughter locked like Harry Potter under the stairs, living in her own filth. The first time I saw her, she came out from under the stairs so say "I'm so thirsty." At the time I was visiting the house because my friend was staying there to avoid being homeless and the mother of the child was a family member, my friend knew she has a kid but had thought she was still in care and the fist time she saw that little girl in that house was in that moment. The mom promptly scooped her up with a look or rage and told her to never come out of the room if she can hear people in the house, before plopping her in the storage room again. She laughed and said she gets curious when people come around, I asked her her name and my friend answered for me. I said if she thirsty I could order us all some food. She said yes but only have me the list of food for what she wanted from McDonald's so I just ordered her daughter a happy meal. When me and my friend went up in her room she started to cry and told me about the situation. She told me she was terrified that she had no clue how long she was keeping her daughter in the home and that she thinks something is seriously wrong. I did too, from what I saw and how the mother/my friends family member seemed like she was holding back her anger with the child made me scared for her. Scared what it was like when no one was home. My friend wanted to call cps and knew she'd lose the house for it but didn't care. She wanted to stay in a shelter to keep that baby safe. So I'd hold her I would help her. I started recording on my phone while I held it like I was texting and proceeded downstairs with my friend to get the McDonald's waiting at the front door. Mum was in the living room downstairs and came to the door when I grabbed the food for her share, she ordered a drink and large fries with a big Mac. She seemed to be picking out small fries for her daughter and to eat and this was a red flag to me because I had a feeling she'd feed her the bare minimum even tho her daughter was thirsty from what I herd, so I walked straight over to the storage closet and opened it, I could see her mom in my side vision staring at me with almost a poised stance. The little girl just stared at me and I could then see the inside or the storage closet. It had a half empty box of pull ups in there with a bunch of dirty ones in a pile in the corner. A lot of 711 food wrappers, a hair brush and garbage all over, and a dog bed with a my little pony in it. I was honestly shocked and almost didn't know what to say. So I just pulled her toy out of the happy meal box for her and she looked so happy. I gave her the food and opened her milk for her and just told her to enjoy but she was staring at her mom and looked really scared. I was shaking at that point because ofcorse I knew how bad this was now. I nudged the milk into her hand and she immediately drank it and slowly shut the door. I stood up and tried not to look at her mom right away as I knew I would probably be obviously angry looking and if I'm being completely honest. I was trying to hold myself back from doing worse then look at her. "Isn't she just a cutie?" I said she was as she walked back to her spot in the living room. When my friend saw me shaking while I walked up the stairs, she asked me what was wrong. Thankfully I was carefully recording the intire thing. Every step I took up those stairs made me want to cry because only her and her mom knew how long she'd been down there and I was just walking over her. I showed her the video. And we'll. It didn't even take a day for foster care to take her away. It turned out that she'd had a problem with dr*gs and had neglected her before. The father's family took temporary custody untill she got sober. She had done treatment and was back at it the second she got her daughter back and that little girl had to live there ever since. The ministry believed that she had a a room for her daughter to stay but that room was the one my friend was renting and apperently she thought she could make some money like that while her little girl lived in worse then a prison. My friends mom actually ended up adopting her. But this video reminded me alot of what happened that day and I honestly don't think I was responsible for her having her happy ending. But I was happy to give her whatever care I could. Even tho it feels like there was nothing I could do besides what I did.
That's such a sad story. I hope they have a better life now.
That's so sad...
@Goofy ahh uncle productions 8.0 okay I see why your saying this and it’s wrong for them to being say8ng that shit, but I didn’t read it as much either, my reasoning is that there was way too many words for my eyes to process and it became overwhelming to read.
That story is sad and at least I could read it all
All of that reading payed off
Bro puts more effort into this comment than I did in my final exam.
But in all seriousness, this is such a sad story. I hope she’s ok now, no child should ever have to live in such terrible conditions. That woman really learned her parenting skills from Harry Potter.
I feel so bad for you, i cant imagine the pain, your honestly a very strong woman ❤
"sHe'S jUsT sAyInG tHaT bEcAusE sHe JuSt WaNtS aTtEnTiOn"
She isn't, I used to suffer from this too, but I managed to escape my suffering from my old abusive parents.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I’m glad you’re okay now.
@@lifebehindreins9104 it's ok it's over now
@@Nikko401 u okay?
@@lifeissad9193 yes I'm ok thanks for asking
@@lifeissad9193 just a few injuries but I'm ok
I am happy that you are now free from all that torture , God bless you ❤️🙏
When i was younger my parents locked me in my room for days and only fed me bread and water so i felf this deeply
Edit: to everyone saying it’s fake it baffles me how you can try and tell me something in my own life that I’ve lived through didn’t happen and think I’m saying it for clout or attention I don’t give a fuck about attention I was simply stating a thing that happened in my traumatic past so mind your own business when questioning other peoples pasts 🤦♂️
why tho
@@tay3656 are you serious.
@@stuckonaname4182 Literally just asking why they would do smth like that
@@tay3656 do i need a reason
@@ICDemonsI was just curious. Sorry if i offended u :(
It's just awful, no kid should go through this. No kid should starve, no kid should be locked away for no reason, no kid should get be@t up, and no kid should have to think that death is the only way out.
I hope the best for all those who are going through a hell like this one. I truly hope that no one else goes through this, or ends up being like the parents.
The sad thing is my mom has cps as her job and she has to see nasty disgusting ratty shit stuff like this everyday she has to go to court and protect kids all while working on helping them find families and taking care of her kids pets and other things all day and cleaning the house aswell I have never been more thankful for a mom
Honestly I’m glad people work as cps though. I couldn’t imagine a world with no child protection.
Its so sad she even has to see these things happen.
whoever's going through this... just know i asked God to bless you ❤
I get abused too 🥺
👉💔👈
You need to call for help. I’m so sorry this happens to you and I know you may be scared to leave whoever you live with but you don’t deserve that. Sneak out, get help, give signals just do whatever you have to do to get the life you deserve. Please this comment broke my heart and even worse that broke my heart was that no one commented on this saying you should go get help. If your being abused even in the slightest go tell someone. Please. Seriously I’m going to cry if I know that you aren’t getting the help you deserve.
I was abused by my aunt , grandparents, Cousins
In my childhood it seems that they love my cousin more i used to eat in my bedroom one day it was my birthday they forgot i had enough so I ran away to my mom's grave and sat there crying a cop saw me and took me to the station for answers i told them and they took me in as their own now i am officer working for my step dad (Never give up)100 likes for pt 2
Lived through similar events. Glad you are healing now.
i always say i wish i had a better mom or i didn’t like her but i remember people have it much worse then me. my heart goes out to anyone who’s getting neglected
I never knew she would go through so much trauma, poor thing.
I saw a older video the things on the door are Paper Balls her mom and her moms boyfriends used to see id she left the room or not
Not really
People call me Nat
@@ballet_me I meant not sorry
I’m sorry you went through this, I can’t imagine what that was like. Thank you for sharing, and hopefully motivating others to get help. No child deserves to go through this, your mother was a monster.
I think I the mother actually cared but her boyfriend forced her to there why the mother called for her
I hope you are safe and well now, sending all my prayers. 🙏❤️
This breaks my heart God bless you and your mother I hope your mother has learned.
This kind of stuff is so sad. Anybody going through anything like this, I am so so sorry. Please know you are not alone, and stay away from things/people causing you trouble. u got this ily 💕
Every kid should be treated by care every kid deserve's to have a good life😭
Im so sorry for you. i have tears streaming down my face just watching, and i could not imagine going through this.
I have childhood trauma and I get emotionally abused by my father my own father! This is a really good video to make awareness
omg nobody deserves to go through this. I am praying dor you and hoping that you are living with a better family
"every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
"Why have a child if you won't love it?"
Wise Person...
I’m so terribly sorry this happened to you. What kind of parents should ever do that
The tension never really leaves, but god damn it gets easier when you find someone who loves you and cares about you. Also therapy is nice, not always super helpful but getting a person fully on your side w resources and experience, telling you your absolutely justified in being angry, tired, scared.
I’m sorry that that happened to you, there’s nothing else that i can say expect that i hope you never go through this again. It’s a horrible thing. Sorrys wont fix anything but a bunch of people here are supporting you.
It didn't happen, she literally robbed a jewelry before irl and got support for it, you think she wouldn't do this?
@@shh1707 did she?
@@somebodythatyouusedtoknoww yes, and she literally made a video on it, as if it was a good thing
@@shh1707 can u send the link rq
@@somebodythatyouusedtoknoww can't, just check her shorts videos
This is almost like how in lived. My parents would fight a lot and called the police 3times to stop the fight, evrytime this happend I locked myself in my room and cried,I would always say in my mind “I just want peace 😢”.all my other friends had perfect lives and where always happy.sometimes I had breakdowns and cry a lot at school, that’s when my OCD started,I kept thinking about my future more then what’s happening now , and that’s all !spread love everyone!❤❤❤
‘Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child’
All children deserve parents, not all parents deserve children 🙁
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False not all children deserve parents and not all parents deserve children. Don’t be so one sided.
@@chung4256 what?
@@idotmonke_AmericANA I think it’s pretty self explanatory do you think all children deserve parents?
@@chung4256 yes, and if a child is acting cruel, it’s parents fault. Children come to world completely clueless and learn everything from their parents, it’s never child’s fault at the first place, it usually means that the parent did smth wrong
@@nemotheghost9196 One children don’t learn everything from there parents, surely you would know that. Many elements contribute to a child’s growth and actions. The parents are there guardian that’s there role. School is for education and that is where the children learn. They also learn from other sources too like social media. See when a child is bad and cruel is it the parents fault? In most cases no. But what most contribute to a child’s attitude is the influence of there friends and social media. Parents aren’t to blame for everything that happens to a child. Parents already have to do everything behind the scene they take care of children and give children The necessities that you need to thrive in this world. I believe parents can contribute to a kids actions but other children contribute more.
Edit: and social media
" All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids... "
By-some wise person
u literally copied a comment
I didn't even see a comment like that bro-
@@Helena-sx9bv well its from Leviluvsu scroll down -,-
@@preppywkayleet it’s literally a quote multiple people use.
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"Don't make love to someone, unless if you don't want a baby" - words by a kind hearted person-
All my respects I can imagine what you have bin through 😞
😢 I fell so sorry no one should get treated like this
“Children deserve parents, parents don’t deserve children.”
-Someone
Sometimes I think I take how I was treated as a child for granted because I was never abused or neglected and I think when I realize that having a good childhood is a privilege I hate having to face the fact that I was lucky. I don’t want to say that either because not everyone got that and that is sad and just not ok to me to have to think about. Prayers and love to all.