SUMMARY: 0:31 You Always On Phone 1:16 Your Walk 1:41 Not Looking in Eyes 2:20 Space Invander 2:44 Handshakes/Keep Out Of Mouth Ad: Pete & Pedro Nails Clippers 3:57 Asking Hug From Girls 4:33 You Smell Bad • Your Breath • Down There • Cheap Fragrance/Scents Ad: Pete & Pedro Powder 7:04 Fight 7:33 Sitting 8:25 Smiling 9:04 Don’t Dress Horribly
SUMMARY GUY HERE: 1. Frequently checking your phone 2. Not having a confident walk 3. Not maintaining eye contact 4. Invading others' space 5. Having a bad handshake 6. Having hands in your mouth 7. Hugging for too long 8. Not having good hygiene (ad) 9. Sitting with a hunch 10. Not having open body language (smile, don't cross arms)
sh!!!t, first timer here, couple videos in and i just need to say, i love what you're doing. Spitting facts, and portraying an actual alpha type guy. not degrading, not telling people to start fights and belittle people, all just personal shit you cando in your own life that will progress you in the right direction. You have my respect and my sub.
I started watching at 13 yrs old I’m 22 years old now and I’ve become such a high valued man who’s starting to build business , relationships and finding my way in this crazy thing we call life. Step by step, brick by brick I will construct a foundation that will elevate me to where I see myself and everything else will follow. I Can’t wait to have this conversation with you in person alpha thank you from a lost boy who’s now a found man with purpose.
All my respect goes out to the people on the spectrum who find a lot of these points very difficult, but muscle through it anyway! As someone on the spectrum myself, it took me quite a few years to stand up straight and actually look people in the eye.
I’ve been watching these videos sense they came out and it’s changed how I live. On the fragrance not, I subscribe to the rebel and my girl absolutely loves it and I’ll never stop buying it.
Been watching Alpha since the start up, and it's just so smooth how he pitches an item towards you (in this case the finger nail set) awesome vid as always!
I hear ya - Malone! Thanks. Great tips - by alpha m! And speaking of Body Language… Watch 007 movies, and see it in Action. Just observe James Bond, study him, watch his every move - and see how he carries himself, how he talks, how he moves, and how relaxed he is in any situation… Takes notes if you have to, because once you have this whole “body language” thing down - no one will look at you the same way again! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Yo Alpha, i started watching you few months back, changed my daily hygiene routine, buyed a few new sets of clothes with your advice, and asked few sassy girls for their number on the street, and they have actually given it to me, i am an introvert, so the change of my confidence thanks to you is actually game changing, i am dating my maybe to be first GF, also i am 23, so i want to thank you dude! Your Awesome, keep it up!
I love this man and I'm a woman! Hope you continue to grow and reach the masses with this valuable information. One of them might just cross my path!?😚😍💖
TL/DR: 1. Being on your phone constantly 2. Your walk (is wack!) 3. Not looking people in the eye 4. Not giving people their personal space 5. Improper handshake (hand care) **ad** 6. Overly "huggy" (hug etiquette) 7. How you smell (body and breath) 8. Fighting/too aggressive 9. Seat posture 10. Not smiling enough! (flash that alpha grin!) 11. Don't dress horribly (I might have added one, oops)
Facts. PLUS he gets to the point perfectly without any nonsense - i relate also with speaking firmly & sometimes a little rapidly possibly a NY thing on my end though lol
Great tips! And speaking of Body Language… Watch 007 movies, and see it in Action. Just observe James Bond, study him, watch his every move - and see how he carries himself, how he talks, how he moves, and how relaxed he is in any situation… Takes notes if you have to, because once you have this whole “body language” thing down - no one will look at you the same way again! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Advice for Young Men: Had a bad day? Think about how you’ll laugh back on this day when you write a book on your life. It’s barely going to be 2 sentences out of 400 pages. Keep growing.
LOL!! Where has this guy been my whole life?!?! Kinda binge watching and liking it. Totally true. Today I went back to my college to get some swag and noticed some of the girls checking me out. I was walking with confidence because I knew I was in the top 10% of the guys there. They’re so young and didn’t know themselves, trying to figure things out… I’d go up and ask the hottest girls where the store was(I knew where it was). Give them a high-five and walk away. This guy is good!
I have CP, my walk is Definitely Wack lol. I have used the line, "you think I move differently vertically, just imagine horizontally!?" That always got a giggle, sometimes more lol
Look away when they look away, look when they look, and smile. Neutral staring makes people uncomfortable. I used to struggle with that and still struggle with other social things, but improvement is possible and totally worth it 👍
Discovered you thru a reaction video by my woman Kat Blaque. As a woman who loves men, I genuinely dig your work. When people ask me for an example of positive masculinity (as opposed to toxic) I point to you. In the aughts, guys had Queer Eye to teach them how to be real men. And that show did a good job, IMO. Nowadays, they've got you and you're doing a great job. Also like Queer Eye, a lot of your life advice is good for everyone, not just men.
PS Soooo true about the too-long hug. I used to know a guy who would hug me a little too hard and then press his knuckles into the middle of my back and give me this totally unwanted, frankly gross, little back massage. This would have been a totally turn-off in a dating situation but this guy was a co-worker of my HUSBAND. So awkward and gross. Guy was a creep.
Did anyone one else find this one extra funny or just me😂😂 all of his moving, randomness flap you in the face do better kind of energy and uncle barry🤣
I'd just like to put out there that eye contact is incredibly tough for some people, such as those with mental conditions such as Asperger's or just people who aren't comfortable with eye contact
If you walk past someone don't make eye contact where you have to turn your head to keep looking at them or if you have to move your eyes. Distant eye contact only or if you are approaching someone directly
I'm 40 and back into college. Gen Z dresses weird, sloppy and seem proud of it. At least in computer science course. I feel out of place and almost wanting to wear swat pants, flip-flops and dying my hair green lol
ok this guys at first seems like those “alpha dogs” but some of these are actually really good tips and just seems like a good guy in general. Very pleasantly surprised!
Key points: - Avoid Phone Distractions: Engage instead of checking your phone during conversations. - Confident Walk: Walk upright, eye contact, avoid short or overly fast steps. - Respect Personal Space: Keep an arm's length distance; firm, proper handshakes. - Maintain Hygiene: Fresh breath, control body odor, moderate fragrance use. - Open Body Language: Good posture, avoid crossing arms, smile frequently.
SUMMARY:
0:31 You Always On Phone
1:16 Your Walk
1:41 Not Looking in Eyes
2:20 Space Invander
2:44 Handshakes/Keep Out Of Mouth
Ad: Pete & Pedro Nails Clippers
3:57 Asking Hug From Girls
4:33 You Smell Bad
• Your Breath
• Down There
• Cheap Fragrance/Scents
Ad: Pete & Pedro Powder
7:04 Fight
7:33 Sitting
8:25 Smiling
9:04 Don’t Dress Horribly
Thank you, man!
Thank you!
Another one having mouth open along with looking down to the floor
I have mental problems and I haven’t seek help so it’s difficult
Appreciate this bro!
SUMMARY GUY HERE:
1. Frequently checking your phone
2. Not having a confident walk
3. Not maintaining eye contact
4. Invading others' space
5. Having a bad handshake
6. Having hands in your mouth
7. Hugging for too long
8. Not having good hygiene (ad)
9. Sitting with a hunch
10. Not having open body language (smile, don't cross arms)
Thanks!
Thanks man
11. Don't dress horribly.
thank you
@@rolandhunter Dont wear sunglasses indoors and when talking to people. Looks like they have something to hide.
This man made me into the best teen version of myself, all respect to this dude!!!! 🙌
Facts
Yo this guy is a loser and your problem is self esteem GET SOME, BE YOURSELF AND UNAFRAID TO FAIL all the rest is irrelevant.
If I would have had his advice as a teen I would have been killin it! We had no idea what we were doing so very wrong.
Same 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
True
I love this guy! Not just because of his advice, he’s freaking hilarious 😂
😂😂 same
Seriously he's too good
ayiiieee
Yes
I flat out laughed at uncle Barry. 😂😆🤣
sh!!!t, first timer here, couple videos in and i just need to say, i love what you're doing. Spitting facts, and portraying an actual alpha type guy. not degrading, not telling people to start fights and belittle people, all just personal shit you cando in your own life that will progress you in the right direction. You have my respect and my sub.
And he's funny, don't shake uncle Barry's hand
This guys advice is good and delivery is funny at the same time 😂
I started watching at 13 yrs old I’m 22 years old now and I’ve become such a high valued man who’s starting to build business , relationships and finding my way in this crazy thing we call life. Step by step, brick by brick I will construct a foundation that will elevate me to where I see myself and everything else will follow. I Can’t wait to have this conversation with you in person alpha thank you from a lost boy who’s now a found man with purpose.
Aaron, jose and alex costa are the best teachers for us men.
This man is a true alpha respect 110%
All my respect goes out to the people on the spectrum who find a lot of these points very difficult, but muscle through it anyway! As someone on the spectrum myself, it took me quite a few years to stand up straight and actually look people in the eye.
I always looked eye and was a great communicater but had other weak points, soldier through this guy is a jackass but maybe he helps some people.
You got me
How much I hope I could thank you face to face. Been learning your teaching every now and then. Just want to express my appreciation to you. Aaron
The fact that you are giving this advice and people really need it is mind blowing 🤦♂️
I’ve been watching these videos sense they came out and it’s changed how I live. On the fragrance not, I subscribe to the rebel and my girl absolutely loves it and I’ll never stop buying it.
Appreciate this info, bc i do love colognes & im def going to order Rebel very soon
The Top 3 Ways to Help Avoid Ruts in Self Improvement: ruclips.net/video/dEUNknjgrfI/видео.html&t
Been watching Alpha since the start up, and it's just so smooth how he pitches an item towards you (in this case the finger nail set) awesome vid as always!
“A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life”
-Charles Darwin
Ah I need loyal fans like you! Come check my content out man
I’m Just a young mexican stoner tryna make it out the hood by smoking weed on my RUclips channel💯💯
I hear ya - Malone! Thanks.
Great tips - by alpha m! And speaking of Body Language…
Watch 007 movies, and see it in Action.
Just observe James Bond, study him, watch his every move - and see how he carries himself, how he talks, how he moves, and how relaxed he is in any situation…
Takes notes if you have to, because once you have this whole “body language” thing down - no one will look at you the same way again!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 💯
@@malone4735 thanks! I appreciate it.
it feels like im in a big class with my best friends(all of u here),waiting for the most cool teacher to educate our minds!
#"alpha class" time!
Yes Alpha
You are right on the money for all of these points.
You win or lose your audience before you even open your mouth.
I always love the fact you insult us during the videos and at the end you give us the nice compliment🤣🤣
Aaron- You’ve been knocking it out of the park lately. Keep it up brother.
I've been watching your videos for years now, thank you for your amazing videos they really helped me personally.
I love this guy, he's the definition of a stud!
"Maybe not uncle Barry" lmao I love you Alpha you're Awesome! You're the cool uncle I wish I could've have growing up
When Alpha M posted a video I click cause his advice is worth the time.
Yo Alpha, i started watching you few months back, changed my daily hygiene routine, buyed a few new sets of clothes with your advice, and asked few sassy girls for their number on the street, and they have actually given it to me, i am an introvert, so the change of my confidence thanks to you is actually game changing, i am dating my maybe to be first GF, also i am 23, so i want to thank you dude! Your Awesome, keep it up!
Ayo
How it is going now man? Need an update
💪🏻
@@ibrpwtw Yo man, doing great i am with my girlfriend for half a year,my first ever girlfriend. And so far everything is just amazing.
I love this man and I'm a woman! Hope you continue to grow and reach the masses with this valuable information. One of them might just cross my path!?😚😍💖
TL/DR:
1. Being on your phone constantly
2. Your walk (is wack!)
3. Not looking people in the eye
4. Not giving people their personal space
5. Improper handshake (hand care)
**ad**
6. Overly "huggy" (hug etiquette)
7. How you smell (body and breath)
8. Fighting/too aggressive
9. Seat posture
10. Not smiling enough! (flash that alpha grin!)
11. Don't dress horribly (I might have added one, oops)
Have a look at the body language panel. This will help you guys. Much love from the UK ❤️
I enjoyed listening to you Sir... Keep it up..
you gotta love this dude bro
Alphas videos are more entertaining than Netflix
The little skits he does in btw is literally chefs kiss 💋
3:36 i like the way how did u ad the sponsor 😂
I already do all of these thanks to watching your vids prior to this… thank you
I love this man's energy mannn
U got a new subscriber u should be at 20 million subs already. U put a lot of effort in your vids. Stay motivated.
Facts. PLUS he gets to the point perfectly without any nonsense - i relate also with speaking firmly & sometimes a little rapidly possibly a NY thing on my end though lol
The Top 3 Ways to Help Avoid Ruts in Self Improvement: ruclips.net/video/dEUNknjgrfI/видео.html&t
I wish more men would take notes on personal hygiene
I skipped gym today & your arms are making me feel bad about it 😫
You did a really great job again！👍😄👏
謝謝分享, thanks for sharing！
Alpha is hilarious and informative, greetings from Zambia, being following you for years
Great tips! And speaking of Body Language…
Watch 007 movies, and see it in Action.
Just observe James Bond, study him, watch his every move - and see how he carries himself, how he talks, how he moves, and how relaxed he is in any situation…
Takes notes if you have to, because once you have this whole “body language” thing down - no one will look at you the same way again!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Thats fine and all but does James Bond powder his booty crack?
Lmfao dude i want to see you channel James Bond talking to people thats gotta be some funny shit
The Top 3 Ways to Help Avoid Ruts in Self Improvement: ruclips.net/video/dEUNknjgrfI/видео.html&t
Thank you, Alpha.
I Wish I knew about this guy earlier... but It's OK another of progress can still be made...STAY MOTIVATED😁😁
Ha! The classic "close talkers" are a funny deal.
Hard to shake sometimes.
This man is funny and osem.. 😂😂 I love this guy... God bless you alpha keep up the good work. Such a good help for generation .
Advice for Young Men:
Had a bad day?
Think about how you’ll laugh back on this day when you write a book on your life.
It’s barely going to be 2 sentences out of 400 pages.
Keep growing.
That makes sense , thnks
Alpham congratulations
I really love ur speech ❤️
Been watching your videos for awhile and you have definitely help me become more of a man. Thank you. Love the great work, keep it up!
You are the one who transformed me to alpha Sir. You really inspired me a lot
Shared with my 3 sons, love it.
Love the energy 😂
He looks better ina white tee than I do in a navy blue suit!
MARKETING GENIUS !
The way he introduces sponsor is SO smooth he gets me every time
LOL!! Where has this guy been my whole life?!?! Kinda binge watching and liking it. Totally true. Today I went back to my college to get some swag and noticed some of the girls checking me out. I was walking with confidence because I knew I was in the top 10% of the guys there. They’re so young and didn’t know themselves, trying to figure things out…
I’d go up and ask the hottest girls where the store was(I knew where it was). Give them a high-five and walk away. This guy is good!
High fives? 😂
I always wait for the ending in your videos Aaron!
I have CP, my walk is Definitely Wack lol. I have used the line, "you think I move differently vertically, just imagine horizontally!?" That always got a giggle, sometimes more lol
I have Asperger’s so eye contact is a bit harder for me. I just gotta force myself.
Look away when they look away, look when they look, and smile. Neutral staring makes people uncomfortable. I used to struggle with that and still struggle with other social things, but improvement is possible and totally worth it 👍
As someone coming out of a horribly abusive relationship your really bringing me back. Now I'm just getting back out there.
Who thought that we’d be learning how to do a handshake…. Yeah these times. Crazy af
Alpha you're the best ✊🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼
Always appreciate your content brother
Discovered you thru a reaction video by my woman Kat Blaque. As a woman who loves men, I genuinely dig your work.
When people ask me for an example of positive masculinity (as opposed to toxic) I point to you.
In the aughts, guys had Queer Eye to teach them how to be real men. And that show did a good job, IMO. Nowadays, they've got you and you're doing a great job. Also like Queer Eye, a lot of your life advice is good for everyone, not just men.
PS Soooo true about the too-long hug. I used to know a guy who would hug me a little too hard and then press his knuckles into the middle of my back and give me this totally unwanted, frankly gross, little back massage. This would have been a totally turn-off in a dating situation but this guy was a co-worker of my HUSBAND. So awkward and gross. Guy was a creep.
Bruh that polo shirt!! 👀🔥🔥
@alpha m. the "swamp ass" and the little walk you did after was so fucking funny i busted a gut.
Just found the channel. This guy rocks.
Did anyone one else find this one extra funny or just me😂😂 all of his moving, randomness flap you in the face do better kind of energy and uncle barry🤣
“It’s a birthmark” you would think people will finally get it after all the years and the numerous times Aaron has mentioned it
Amazing video 💎😃
Fans from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰❤️😃
Alpha thanks for making me who I'm today...and i got a beautiful girlfriend rn just because of you
Ah I need loyal fans like you! Come check my content out man
Ball references are on point
The walking styles amazed me...
Excluding the powder argument, this dude is right.
Love his content! Did you see how he carries that muscular physique! His biceps in this video!
this guy deserve my subscribe
I'd just like to put out there that eye contact is incredibly tough for some people, such as those with mental conditions such as Asperger's or just people who aren't comfortable with eye contact
My Uncle Diddle’s love a firm handshake 🤝
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love how one of the steps is always an ad 😁
If you walk past someone don't make eye contact where you have to turn your head to keep looking at them or if you have to move your eyes. Distant eye contact only or if you are approaching someone directly
Finally I decided to smash the subscribe button after all the tips I secretly acquired
Love this dude! Always makes my day! 😆
Wow you boosted my confidence ✊😲
Dude I don't even care about the advice, ur just solid entertainment.
Almost pissed myself watching this guy go, he's really 👍👍
This man rockssss
I'm 40 and back into college. Gen Z dresses weird, sloppy and seem proud of it. At least in computer science course. I feel out of place and almost wanting to wear swat pants, flip-flops and dying my hair green lol
Thank you so much sir
The energy love ths guy⚡
Started ball powdering less than a year ago and it has changed my life 🌰🌰
This was actually funny 🤣🤣
Want to see more uncle Barry ASAP
you really changed my teen life to
hahaha, uncle Berry
This dude is fantastic
There is only one happiness in life
to love and to be loved.
Alpha m , the bro of an entire generation
ok this guys at first seems like those “alpha dogs” but some of these are actually really good tips and just seems like a good guy in general. Very pleasantly surprised!
@ 2:41 wow wow wow 😲 lmao 😂
2:41 what was that😅😅😅
short king!!!
Wow-wow dude, easy! Why are you literally yelling at me?
Key points:
- Avoid Phone Distractions: Engage instead of checking your phone during conversations.
- Confident Walk: Walk upright, eye contact, avoid short or overly fast steps.
- Respect Personal Space: Keep an arm's length distance; firm, proper handshakes.
- Maintain Hygiene: Fresh breath, control body odor, moderate fragrance use.
- Open Body Language: Good posture, avoid crossing arms, smile frequently.