Been to AC a long time ago. Tell them what you want up front. Be honest. It will save you a lot of time & $. Don't spend a lot of time inside the bar. In and out. 1 lady drink, ask the question, pay and leave. Don't make things complicated.
lol... on that note: 1) Why shouldn't i ask a bargirl her age? Answer: She will lie to you 2) Why shouldn't i ask a bargirl how long she's been working there? Answer: She will lie to you.
Skip the drinks and small talk go into bar walk to the stage find one you like ask them "short time boom boom yes or no" ?. if yes pay the bar go boom boom, if no ask another girl on stage the same question or go to another bar repeat same process there.
Preparation, Preparation, Preparation: find the good STD testing clinic and REALLY strong stuff to cure, what you WILL get with this approach. Hell, happens even with normal girls in the EU, if you spread your seed around. Wear condom? NO, much worse than some oil and right hand....
This is the content foreigners need to know. You could put a whole curriculum together and sell it. How to survive SE Asia bar scene with ACE bachelor cool 😎
This content stands as a genuine gem, an exquisite decalogue crafted to guide those aspiring to succeed in the company of a "bar girl." Likewise, the appreciation for a straightforward explanation resonates, easing the assimilation and application of these wise teachings. An intellectual delight, to say the least. Cheers!
My rule is never ask a women anything you have no interest in the answer too. I just assumed that if a woman was working in a PH bar/club she was Bar-finable. My first Filipina was a dancer in a Go-go bar in Olongapo, on my first R&R, but experience taught me that I preferred the gals in the small hole in the walls over the larger clubs no matter where I went in the world.
Awesome INFO. Appreciate you posting this one. Can we do another INFO Vlog.. Topic: How to know a Filipina is a freelancer you see in Eclipse or Mega Dance ect. The Q & A to find out and how to move the Filipina from the club to the bed... Hope to see this one also soon.
If they look younger I would still want to know how old they are because even some of these clubs have been charged for underage girls. I wouldn't want to take the chance if you're not sure. IMO.
If they are underage they are not going to tell you that. Underage generally will tell you they are 20, not 18 or 19, because 20 is more believable. If they say 18, 18 is to close to 17, the costumer may see she looks young and possibly think underage, but if she says 20 then it's possible she just looks young for her age, makes it more believable to the costumer. I've seen this many times.
These videos are from another Angeles City. The one I went to, has bar girls who want a bf. Most bar fine to support their children or family, but they dream of a way out. After 2 weeks in Angeles and 1 failed bar girl gf experience, I fell in love with an 18 year old bar girl. She hated the random men and some bad experiences. I asked her what she needed per month to get out. She gave me a reasonable amount of $US 250. She had a young child and with work in a store and my supplement, she survived. We had a 5 year relationship where we only saw each other 6 weeks a year. I eventually saved enough money to buy a house and we live together in Tagaytay. In 10 years she never lied or tried to scam. This relationship started in 2013 when I was 50 years old. I was lucky to have a gorgeous woman to accept me and I made her life better. Maybe its different now. Seems unlikely.
Same now if you are looking for that. But if you followed the advice on this video you wont experience any of it. That's what people need to understand, what kind of experience do you want ?
Can one place trust in a bar girl? The concern lingers about the possibility of theft, deceptive maneuvers in the room, or the potential manipulation of drinks. Traveling solo intensifies these doubts, especially given the tendency to lower one's guard with the consumption of a second drink.
I read somewhere that bars are happy to overcharge foreigners for bottled water and Coke as well. Less disorderliness and a higher profit margin, while you get to keep your head on your shoulders. I plan to do that at least once or twice, because I'm certainly not there to drink.
Myself personally, I wouldn't even care about obtaining a phone number from any of them. However I did like the question about do you barfine. That will save a lot of time. When I was there in 1989, I never bar fined a girl. Back then they had regular clubs where you could buy drinks at regular price for the woman. They weren't gogo clubs. They were just regular dance clubs. I was there for like 45 days and didn't want to leave. I did get burned a couple of times and had to go to the medic on Clark Air Force base as a Marine for treatment. Do any of those regular clubs still exist there??
4:06 This has to be Aces best video !! The clock is ticking 😂get right into relevance 😊don’t waste time on lies and stuff that’ doesn’t matter 😊 age, where from, and how long 😅 😊 I like you, do you barfine?!! 😊
I guess i have been a invisible man for more years than i care to temember. There are many many advantages to kerping a low profile. This guy's advice on the crucial interview is the best advice since "Mo's guide to tipping" published about 20 years ago.
ACE - You should also be asking either the momma or the girl what is in the "lady's drink." that will tell you a considerable amount about the establishment and the girls intent. Many times it's just cranberry juice which means it's all about the volume of "drinks" they can get out of you.
I don't see the point of asking for Whatsapp before you even barfine the girl, more likely she will just give you a fake number. Did you use the one drink then go with the girls that bailed out on you? Buying a second drink might have been a better investment rather than being desperate to bar fine and ending up with a dud?
Questions I don't ask (any more): 1. Do you know a hotel that is okay with durian? The answer is always going to be no, so don't get her into the habit of saying no. 2. I know I can't bring durian back to the hotel, but what about sha...? You don't want her to finish this sentence for you. Or the bouncer. In fact, don't start this question. 3. Will you show me your Cenomar? However she responds, it's wrong. So don't do it.
I think if the girls cannot barfine that night they should wear a distinct red wrist band... I've been caught out with that "problem" before... We should know if we are barking up the wrong tree before we start spending...
If you ask her how long she has been working here, she will probably say it's only my first week. This increases her attractiveness.Then you think, oh, she doesn't have much experience yet, then I'll take her with me. That's the trick.
Terrible advice. Ace seems like he lives on a different planet from my experiences. I always ask the first 3 questions, and it is very important. For one, in certain areas the girls are known to have specific features, in other areas they have the opposite features so knowing where she is from is important. I really like Girls from Samar so I want to know if she is from Samar or not. Samar has a high concentration of Spanish influence and many, not all of those girls have incredible features will be hard to find in other areas. Ace likely has no clue about this, if he did then he'd know why asking where she is from is so important. The other thing is very important for guys to understand is, girls like to market themselves, so don't take it personal if the girl tells a little white lie about her age or how long she has been working in the bar. It is nothing more then marketing, trying to more bussiness for herself. Ace does the same thing when he calls himself, cool because he is, that is nothing more then marketing , happens everyday in every country, nothing wrong with it. But here is why this is so important for you to understand. By asking those first 3 questions and making a mental note of the answers as you get to know the girl she will come clean and clear the air by telling you the truth. It is things like this help you bond better with the girl and you now know you have a good girl wants to be more honest to you and she likes you. This happens to me over and over again and I go on to have absolutely incredible times with these girls. I would never ask a girl, how is your day going. By creating small talk asking the first 3 questions which are very important you can see how she answers those and see her personality and attitude. Never, ever, ever ask a girl, Do you barfine ? Ace is asking the wrong question and all that does is open up the possibility of being conned by the girl. If you consistently ask the wrong question eventually you will get bitten as we have seen Ace do many times. Kind of helps me understand why some people run into problems. The right question is, Is it ok if "I" pay your barfine ? See the difference ? By asking, Do you barfine, well the girl can easily answer "yes", she does barfine just not with you. That questions does not tell you if the girl will barfine with you. You need to be much more specific with the question. It is very, very important to ask a question being very specific regardless if you are talking to a girl for a barfine or a Filipino at the mall or in a restaurant. I see this over and over again with guys making this mistake and getting bad information then blaming the Filipino. You have to ask specifically what you want, not a generally question and then assuming the person will understand what you want. This is nothing more then life lessons 101. Never ask a girl for her what's app or messenger before going out with her and seeing how everything goes first. Why anyone would ask that before going out goes beyond any logic or simple common sense. Wait till the end of the barfine, then you can say something will be much more meaningful to the girl. Like, I really enjoy your company, and I want to see you again. How can you say that before going out. You may not care for the girl or the girl for you by the end of the first barfine. Absolutely no point in asking up front. ACE openly admits here in this video that girls have given him the wrong what's app number and wrong messenge, that is telling you something guys. The girl does not know you from anyone why would many of them give out that information before getting to know you ? Absolutely no logic to what Ace is telling you. And remember, your first impression is the biggest longest lasting impression so by asking up front with no prior experiences with the girl, the girl creates a picture of who you are, and many times t won't be a good picture. And what I'm talking about is these are the better quality girls that you are now creating a bad look for yourself. And that is also how you end up with lesser quality girls. Personally from my experiences you will create a better, stronger bond with the girl by waiting 2 or 3 barfines before asking. This will be much more meaningful to the girl and she will respect you more, as it shows her you don't give your infomation to any girl comes along at the drop of a hat, how meaningful is that ? You are telling her she is just another girl. By waiting 2 or 3 barfines is the better way to really build something more special with the girl who will treat you far better, and you are likely getting better quality girls as lesser quality girls don't care about anything but money. Then Ace wonders why he gets treated like he does by some girls. I've experienced this many, many times over, getting far better treatment then most guys. If you want to operate on a higher level you won't do it by taking this advice.
I agree 100% with this! It makes a lot of sense. When you get a chance go up and read my earlier comment to this vlog. Another thing I believe is that too many guys go there trying to find love out of a gogo bar. That's not my thing. Granted yes, I want to go have fun in one, but I'm not looking for love in one. This would be someone I met outside of a bar or who works at a mall or something to that degree. I'm getting out of a marriage after 22 years and that's the last thing I'm looking for anywhere in SE Asia. For one, I don't want to be responsible for taking care of anyone's entire family including their friends. Oh hell to the naw!! Once I get there or wherever I decide to settle, I'll just be known as a butterfly. No commitment to no one.
I really think it depends what is important to you, how much time you have to invest in the process and some self awareness of what about you would attract the girl/s. My biggest piece of advice though __ you should NOT be going to these places to find your next WIFE or LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. More times than not you will be asking for trouble if this is what you are looking for from these types of establishments. Now... on to my comments. Maybe you go there and you are more about personality and hanging out and vibing with the person before it escalates because you are with a group of friends and the nights just starting. Or, maybe you don't have the time and don't really care what's in her head as long as she's going to give you what's in her pants/skirt. These scenarios warrant different approaches. It also depends where you are and the type of bar. You have some where the females are overly aggressive and others where it's like you have to pry info out of them and they are told don't approach customers unless they are called for. So know your surroundings and any rules of the bar/club. Also.. it depends on you. Are you a good looking guy that these girls will want to be around/with simply because it helps them avoid the less attractive customers and it's free drinks... or are you a guy that was given the short end of the stick in terms of looks and know that the only language you can speak to these women that's going to get their attention is pesos and dollars? Self awareness is key knowing how to broker your experience.
I agree with you about not asking for a girl's contact info before barfining, but I disagree about waiting until after 2 or 3 barfines. Your approach implies you are looking for more than pay-for-play, in which case you are looking in the wrong place (and could end up being hurt or misleading and hurting the girl). Since I don't enjoy bars/alcohol, I would tell this to a girl with whom I had a good time and ask whether I might be able to contact her directly for her service next time.
It's the opposite for me. I love thinking about that. If I ever went to the Phillipines I would try to find an older girl with tattoos as he said since apparently those have the most miles on them. It's a huge thrill to think about her being with hundreds, thousands, maybe more than ten thousand men. It's my dream to marry a girl like that and open our own bar or brothel together. I'm sure I'm not the only one, too.
Ive seen guys buying all these ladies drinks, spending hundreds of pesos. I go up to mamasan and say I wanna short time with that girl. 9 out if 10 times they will go upstairs with me, unless its a steady customer for that girl. Repeat customer. Its the harah reality of the bar scene. .
So, don't ask a bar girl questions because she'll lie to you. LOL Give her a personality test instead. Wow, is that how you assess them? I stay away from them and would never buy lady drinks. How to be a jerk and enjoy yourself advice. Last time for your channel for me. The clock is ticking. LOL.
Sorry, but in my 25 years in SE Asia, I have never seen such bad information and misinformation. "Never ask the age, they're all in their 20s" Sorry just wrong, some girls working in the bar are under 18 years old, and will have ID's that says they're older. If an American tourist takes an underage under US Federal Law, it is 20 years in jail. You ask these questions to be able to judge the replies, and base upon body language you will learn everything you want. Could prove all your so-called points wrong, but really no reason to do so. The only thing that seems to really be unimportant is all the wrong information you post.
@@acebachelorcoolViews, Also provides proof of not following the laws here in the Philippines and or the terms of use for RUclips. Illegal Contain = Jail, deportation, RUclips Ban.
@@aaronkerrigan241 Not Toxic at all, just the truth. The information this guy is putting forward will get unknowing guys in trouble. Just another wantabee whoi thinks he knows what is going on but will end in a trainweck.
Been to AC a long time ago. Tell them what you want up front. Be honest. It will save you a lot of time & $. Don't spend a lot of time inside the bar. In and out. 1 lady drink, ask the question, pay and leave. Don't make things complicated.
Bingo! In and out, one drink. Choose one and bounce outta there
Wise man. Respektos
Why you're enjoying to stay there in AC if you don't want a bar girls
Unless she's a cherry girl, any bargirl who says she doesn't barfine is really saying "I don't want to barfine with YOU"!
lol... on that note:
1) Why shouldn't i ask a bargirl her age? Answer: She will lie to you
2) Why shouldn't i ask a bargirl how long she's been working there? Answer: She will lie to you.
Sometimes they really have mens ora foreigner bf
Skip the drinks and small talk go into bar walk to the stage find one you like ask them "short time boom boom yes or no" ?. if yes pay the bar go boom boom, if no ask another girl on stage the same question or go to another bar repeat same process there.
Preparation, Preparation, Preparation: find the good STD testing clinic and REALLY strong stuff to cure, what you WILL get with this approach. Hell, happens even with normal girls in the EU, if you spread your seed around. Wear condom? NO, much worse than some oil and right hand....
Nah. 1 drink to assess if she is going to be worth your time.
Question #4 When was the last time a swab was done on that peso happy gash.
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Remember the words "She will lie to you."
From now on, I will consider you are PROFESSOR COOL !
This is the content foreigners need to know. You could put a whole curriculum together and sell it. How to survive SE Asia bar scene with ACE bachelor cool 😎
Ace knows his topic!❤🎉
This content stands as a genuine gem, an exquisite decalogue crafted to guide those aspiring to succeed in the company of a "bar girl." Likewise, the appreciation for a straightforward explanation resonates, easing the assimilation and application of these wise teachings. An intellectual delight, to say the least. Cheers!
I wholeheartedly agree with your pontification about the delectable delights that await the aspiring gentleman visiting 'P---y Island'!
There really is a chemistry about the bar game which makes it fun and interesting, never ending game of what is gona happen
My rule is never ask a women anything you have no interest in the answer too.
I just assumed that if a woman was working in a PH bar/club she was Bar-finable.
My first Filipina was a dancer in a Go-go bar in Olongapo, on my first R&R, but experience taught me that I preferred the gals in the small hole in the walls over the larger clubs no matter where I went in the world.
Just found this channel and great content. He is a natural and skilled teacher!
Awesome INFO. Appreciate you posting this one. Can we do another INFO Vlog.. Topic: How to know a Filipina is a freelancer you see in Eclipse or Mega Dance ect. The Q & A to find out and how to move the Filipina from the club to the bed... Hope to see this one also soon.
This channel is improving. Good suggestions. Happy Thanksgiving.
Nice information Ace, thank you for this type of video
Keep the knowledge coming!!!! 👍
If they look younger I would still want to know how old they are because even some of these clubs have been charged for underage girls. I wouldn't want to take the chance if you're not sure. IMO.
If they are underage they are not going to tell you that. Underage generally will tell you they are 20, not 18 or 19, because 20 is more believable. If they say 18, 18 is to close to 17, the costumer may see she looks young and possibly think underage, but if she says 20 then it's possible she just looks young for her age, makes it more believable to the costumer. I've seen this many times.
@@mikemasters4382 ask for ID if she looks real young b4 you go anywhere with her ect..
@@emersongarcia2179 or Phuket
Spoken like a true pro, but most guys will still say the first 3 as a bad habit, till their 3rd trip or so
Thanks Ace. Informative and fun
This is a gem of a video. ❤🎉
You look great in that red shirt. Great job. Ty
You're absolutely right. I've been to AC several times recently.
These videos are from another Angeles City. The one I went to, has bar girls who want a bf. Most bar fine to support their children or family, but they dream of a way out.
After 2 weeks in Angeles and 1 failed bar girl gf experience, I fell in love with an 18 year old bar girl.
She hated the random men and some bad experiences. I asked her what she needed per month to get out.
She gave me a reasonable amount of $US 250. She had a young child and with work in a store and my supplement, she survived. We had a 5 year relationship where we only saw each other 6 weeks a year. I eventually saved enough money to buy a house and we live together in Tagaytay. In 10 years she never lied or tried to scam. This relationship started in 2013 when I was 50 years old. I was lucky to have a gorgeous woman to accept me and I made her life better. Maybe its different now. Seems unlikely.
Same now if you are looking for that. But if you followed the advice on this video you wont experience any of it. That's what people need to understand, what kind of experience do you want ?
You were 50 and she was 18?
@@reclused yep. pervert but i guess they both adults. she could have been 15. would not have mattered to him
Good video Ace spot on.
*Thx4share good info AceMon* 👍🇺🇲
Thank you for good info. I am cooming 1st time. New subscriber, cheers from Serbian brother.
Thank you pro very good advice 👍
Great addvice again Ace 😊 thanks buddy. Take care
Can one place trust in a bar girl? The concern lingers about the possibility of theft, deceptive maneuvers in the room, or the potential manipulation of drinks. Traveling solo intensifies these doubts, especially given the tendency to lower one's guard with the consumption of a second drink.
I read somewhere that bars are happy to overcharge foreigners for bottled water and Coke as well. Less disorderliness and a higher profit margin, while you get to keep your head on your shoulders. I plan to do that at least once or twice, because I'm certainly not there to drink.
@@profjeff9 yeah one lady drink is enough
Myself personally, I wouldn't even care about obtaining a phone number from any of them. However I did like the question about do you barfine. That will save a lot of time. When I was there in 1989, I never bar fined a girl. Back then they had regular clubs where you could buy drinks at regular price for the woman. They weren't gogo clubs. They were just regular dance clubs. I was there for like 45 days and didn't want to leave. I did get burned a couple of times and had to go to the medic on Clark Air Force base as a Marine for treatment. Do any of those regular clubs still exist there??
Wonder if General Schwarzkopf planned Desert Storm to this detail
He should have overseen the Afganistan withdrawal.
@@mikedoyle7300Afghanistan 2005 Operation Enduring Freedom. Camp Eggers. 🏕
@@acebachelorcool Nice. LBJ Ranch hand here.
He was a guy, so the evenings had this level of care!
4:06 This has to be Aces best video !!
The clock is ticking 😂get right into relevance 😊don’t waste time on lies and stuff that’ doesn’t matter 😊 age, where from, and how long 😅 😊 I like you, do you barfine?!! 😊
Ace got friend zoned by a bar girl 😂😂😂
I guess i have been a invisible man for more years than i care to temember. There are many many advantages to kerping a low profile. This guy's advice on the crucial interview is the best advice since "Mo's guide to tipping" published about 20 years ago.
Professor Ace! Class is in session! 😜
Typical Bar Fine 4k? And lets say 2 hours partying, and 2 hours back at my hotel and all goes well. Whats reasonable tip?
1K Pesos
ACE - You should also be asking either the momma or the girl what is in the "lady's drink." that will tell you a considerable amount about the establishment and the girls intent. Many times it's just cranberry juice which means it's all about the volume of "drinks" they can get out of you.
ive always wondered about the contact loophole. how easy it is to get away with it. cause i would think most grlz would be scared to do it
Yes,
Good video 👍
Whenever a girl asks what I'm doing tonight I just say you, works better than you would think.
I don't see the point of asking for Whatsapp before you even barfine the girl, more likely she will just give you a fake number. Did you use the one drink then go with the girls that bailed out on you? Buying a second drink might have been a better investment rather than being desperate to bar fine and ending up with a dud?
He says do you barfine but doesn’t explain what that is 🤦🏽♂️
hahahaaaaaaaaaaa!! I've been going to AC for the past 20 years. I only ask those prohibitive questions and it worked out okay. no problem.
Ace dropping gems 💎 as usial
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Questions I don't ask (any more):
1. Do you know a hotel that is okay with durian? The answer is always going to be no, so don't get her into the habit of saying no.
2. I know I can't bring durian back to the hotel, but what about sha...? You don't want her to finish this sentence for you. Or the bouncer. In fact, don't start this question.
3. Will you show me your Cenomar? However she responds, it's wrong. So don't do it.
Good Info
What you should be asking is how much for short time? How much your bar fine?
5:54 DO YOU BARFINE??!!! This is relevant buy her a lady drink pay the mamaSan and GO boom boom😅
America miss you ace
I think if the girls cannot barfine that night they should wear a distinct red wrist band... I've been caught out with that "problem" before... We should know if we are barking up the wrong tree before we start spending...
i would say i agree with your assessment except the info - usually thats for the next day or after your done - than ask for whats app or messenger
is the quality better at nightshift or there is no correlation?
There's cute girls every shift!
Ace is it ok to drink soda instead of beer or liqour in a bar in walking street ?
Yes
Lol I screenshoted it😂😂
They wear ID it says their birthday. If you really want look at it .
Agreed!
If you ask her how long she has been working here, she will probably say it's only my first week. This increases her attractiveness.Then you think, oh, she doesn't have much experience yet, then I'll take her with me. That's the trick.
I ask for their age and where they’re from all the time 🤣🤣 will keep on doing it too. If they lie to me it’s ok 👍🏼
I disagree with the three things you should never asks! You need to get with today’s time.
Isn't Wonderful we all have our own opinions! Thanks for Watching!
Terrible advice. Ace seems like he lives on a different planet from my experiences. I always ask the first 3 questions, and it is very important. For one, in certain areas the girls are known to have specific features, in other areas they have the opposite features so knowing where she is from is important. I really like Girls from Samar so I want to know if she is from Samar or not. Samar has a high concentration of Spanish influence and many, not all of those girls have incredible features will be hard to find in other areas. Ace likely has no clue about this, if he did then he'd know why asking where she is from is so important. The other thing is very important for guys to understand is, girls like to market themselves, so don't take it personal if the girl tells a little white lie about her age or how long she has been working in the bar. It is nothing more then marketing, trying to more bussiness for herself. Ace does the same thing when he calls himself, cool because he is, that is nothing more then marketing , happens everyday in every country, nothing wrong with it.
But here is why this is so important for you to understand. By asking those first 3 questions and making a mental note of the answers as you get to know the girl she will come clean and clear the air by telling you the truth. It is things like this help you bond better with the girl and you now know you have a good girl wants to be more honest to you and she likes you. This happens to me over and over again and I go on to have absolutely incredible times with these girls.
I would never ask a girl, how is your day going. By creating small talk asking the first 3 questions which are very important you can see how she answers those and see her personality and attitude. Never, ever, ever ask a girl, Do you barfine ? Ace is asking the wrong question and all that does is open up the possibility of being conned by the girl. If you consistently ask the wrong question eventually you will get bitten as we have seen Ace do many times. Kind of helps me understand why some people run into problems. The right question is, Is it ok if "I" pay your barfine ? See the difference ? By asking, Do you barfine, well the girl can easily answer "yes", she does barfine just not with you. That questions does not tell you if the girl will barfine with you. You need to be much more specific with the question.
It is very, very important to ask a question being very specific regardless if you are talking to a girl for a barfine or a Filipino at the mall or in a restaurant. I see this over and over again with guys making this mistake and getting bad information then blaming the Filipino. You have to ask specifically what you want, not a generally question and then assuming the person will understand what you want. This is nothing more then life lessons 101.
Never ask a girl for her what's app or messenger before going out with her and seeing how everything goes first. Why anyone would ask that before going out goes beyond any logic or simple common sense. Wait till the end of the barfine, then you can say something will be much more meaningful to the girl. Like, I really enjoy your company, and I want to see you again. How can you say that before going out. You may not care for the girl or the girl for you by the end of the first barfine. Absolutely no point in asking up front. ACE openly admits here in this video that girls have given him the wrong what's app number and wrong messenge, that is telling you something guys. The girl does not know you from anyone why would many of them give out that information before getting to know you ? Absolutely no logic to what Ace is telling you. And remember, your first impression is the biggest longest lasting impression so by asking up front with no prior experiences with the girl, the girl creates a picture of who you are, and many times t won't be a good picture. And what I'm talking about is these are the better quality girls that you are now creating a bad look for yourself. And that is also how you end up with lesser quality girls. Personally from my experiences you will create a better, stronger bond with the girl by waiting 2 or 3 barfines before asking. This will be much more meaningful to the girl and she will respect you more, as it shows her you don't give your infomation to any girl comes along at the drop of a hat, how meaningful is that ? You are telling her she is just another girl. By waiting 2 or 3 barfines is the better way to really build something more special with the girl who will treat you far better, and you are likely getting better quality girls as lesser quality girls don't care about anything but money. Then Ace wonders why he gets treated like he does by some girls. I've experienced this many, many times over, getting far better treatment then most guys.
If you want to operate on a higher level you won't do it by taking this advice.
I agree 100% with this! It makes a lot of sense. When you get a chance go up and read my earlier comment to this vlog. Another thing I believe is that too many guys go there trying to find love out of a gogo bar. That's not my thing. Granted yes, I want to go have fun in one, but I'm not looking for love in one. This would be someone I met outside of a bar or who works at a mall or something to that degree. I'm getting out of a marriage after 22 years and that's the last thing I'm looking for anywhere in SE Asia. For one, I don't want to be responsible for taking care of anyone's entire family including their friends. Oh hell to the naw!! Once I get there or wherever I decide to settle, I'll just be known as a butterfly. No commitment to no one.
Wow that’s some Deep stuff from a guy doing walking street 😂
I really think it depends what is important to you, how much time you have to invest in the process and some self awareness of what about you would attract the girl/s. My biggest piece of advice though __ you should NOT be going to these places to find your next WIFE or LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. More times than not you will be asking for trouble if this is what you are looking for from these types of establishments. Now... on to my comments. Maybe you go there and you are more about personality and hanging out and vibing with the person before it escalates because you are with a group of friends and the nights just starting. Or, maybe you don't have the time and don't really care what's in her head as long as she's going to give you what's in her pants/skirt. These scenarios warrant different approaches. It also depends where you are and the type of bar. You have some where the females are overly aggressive and others where it's like you have to pry info out of them and they are told don't approach customers unless they are called for. So know your surroundings and any rules of the bar/club. Also.. it depends on you. Are you a good looking guy that these girls will want to be around/with simply because it helps them avoid the less attractive customers and it's free drinks... or are you a guy that was given the short end of the stick in terms of looks and know that the only language you can speak to these women that's going to get their attention is pesos and dollars? Self awareness is key knowing how to broker your experience.
Not reading all this
I agree with you about not asking for a girl's contact info before barfining, but I disagree about waiting until after 2 or 3 barfines. Your approach implies you are looking for more than pay-for-play, in which case you are looking in the wrong place (and could end up being hurt or misleading and hurting the girl). Since I don't enjoy bars/alcohol, I would tell this to a girl with whom I had a good time and ask whether I might be able to contact her directly for her service next time.
The deal-breaker is, it makes me dizzy to think how many guys these bar girls have been with
It's the opposite for me. I love thinking about that. If I ever went to the Phillipines I would try to find an older girl with tattoos as he said since apparently those have the most miles on them. It's a huge thrill to think about her being with hundreds, thousands, maybe more than ten thousand men. It's my dream to marry a girl like that and open our own bar or brothel together. I'm sure I'm not the only one, too.
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I bet Gio is sitting at home hating Ace for giving away all this great information for free lol
You bet.
Sorry, who is Gio?
@@Re3iRtH@giointhephillipines
How long have they been in the bar.
In Thailand, everyone I met had worked there 3 months 😂
any woman bar or not worldwide "how old are you'? a no no.
Ive seen guys buying all these ladies drinks, spending hundreds of pesos. I go up to mamasan and say I wanna short time with that girl. 9 out if 10 times they will go upstairs with me, unless its a steady customer for that girl. Repeat customer. Its the harah reality of the bar scene. .
You don't think 29 yos enter the bar?
Professor ABC.
Ace, are the older fat ones cheaper than the young cherry girls? what is the peso difference
If you think she likes you, just bar fine her right there.
Haha, I'm guilty of all 3
You’re dumb 😂😂😂😂
How get dumped if have 40 dollar for trashed 🗑 women angles city philippines 🇵🇭
Only pervert sexpats go to Angeles City. The Police
Yeah, when did you go hygiene……..and how was that😮
You don’t lie to them?
Your much too loud voice is unbearable.
Thanks for Watching!
It is not informative! What does "bar fine" mean?
Paying the bar money to take the girl out of there.
Curious r u gay? U should put this out there if ur going to talk about heterosexual relationships.
I'm straight. I love Filipina Pssy! 😋
This is gross.
GQQD
So this is just buying women?
WELCOME to the real world. Sex was NEVER free for men and many times VERY expensive, like she took EVERYTHING man has owned...
Hiring
So, don't ask a bar girl questions because she'll lie to you. LOL Give her a personality test instead. Wow, is that how you assess them? I stay away from them and would never buy lady drinks. How to be a jerk and enjoy yourself advice. Last time for your channel for me. The clock is ticking. LOL.
Sorry, but in my 25 years in SE Asia, I have never seen such bad information and misinformation.
"Never ask the age, they're all in their 20s" Sorry just wrong, some girls working in the bar are under 18 years old, and will have ID's that says they're older. If an American tourist takes an underage under US Federal Law, it is 20 years in jail. You ask these questions to be able to judge the replies, and base upon body language you will learn everything you want.
Could prove all your so-called points wrong, but really no reason to do so. The only thing that seems to really be unimportant is all the wrong information you post.
Cool. Thanks for Watching! Views = Revenue. I'm Winning in the Philippines!
@@acebachelorcoolViews, Also provides proof of not following the laws here in the Philippines and or the terms of use for RUclips. Illegal Contain = Jail, deportation, RUclips Ban.
@@aaronkerrigan241 Not Toxic at all, just the truth. The information this guy is putting forward will get unknowing guys in trouble. Just another wantabee whoi thinks he knows what is going on but will end in a trainweck.
@@aaronkerrigan241 Your opinion but it happens to be wrong. Have seen many of these fools over the years adn it always ends badley for them.