bilkul kiya hai face...and even karti hu..... not in frnds circle but in in laws family main feel karti hu.... frnd circle to sath m gathering karte hai but in laws main gents alag baithe hai aur ladies alag.... kyu bhai kyu baithna hai alag... this is really betuki baatein....
Aisa kafi baar hota hai in conservative families par there should be a time when men can talk separately and women separately too and a time when all are sitting together also bilkul alag alag toh nahi baithana chahiye
I am from India. I haven't seen these things in my circle of family and friends. I am glad that i didn't came across such thing. I think it was your husband's fault. He could have support you by supporting your view.
Yes Mamta, You are absolutely right, mix sitting arrangements is more comfortable then separate, I love mix gatherings but sometimes we should ignore it.
Very lovely narration. I agree with your point of view. Mamta g, please tell me how do you make your video. Do you have cameraman or do you have special camera. How do you take the video. Please do let me know or you can have a separate program on this to educate us. Thank you.
Very true Mamta it has happened with me twice and yes I did prove my point of view to my husband it is very betuka chalan in our society and also becomes very odd specially when we stay out of India
I felt that you became emotional during this video.Sorry may be you didn't but i just felt so i mentioned. So,please forgot that day mamata and enjoy your life. But yeah i know it's not that easy but you was not wrong at that time. Nice video👍😘
Aap ka soch trek tha ,Sabhi AAP ke jaise sochete hain,madam, Lekin us samai tak,bad men bhuljana chahiye, o yadon Ko yad karte karte man Ko shanthi nahi hota isehi sochenese India men 90 percentage Biwi alag husband alag divorce lekar gumte rahenge ,bat chodo AAP apka Beti husband ke saath 100 sal Jio.
Come on dont worry...itni choti baat ko sochna bhi nahi chaihye...u know ir ryt..but one thing sure..jo alag bethe bethne doo...but unko mat kaho as thy get reason..hard to change ppl mentality...my partnr does not mind if i talk to anybdy...but its individual choice...aap buri mat bano...attemd karo n khisko😅
I think ajkal koi alag alg nai bethte ap purani baat kr rhe ho but han jub cocktail chal rhi hoti hai tb gents alag hote hai... Bcoz gents comfortable nai hote... Bcoz biwiyan mana krti hai kam piyo n all isliye boys shadi ya parties mai alg rhete hai n pine ke bad grp mai a jate hai i think baki log b mujhse agree karege
Robin J, We live in USA and everyone is qualified in our circle, but once at a birthday party, my husband was sitting with me and another girl's husband pointed out and said it seems you guys recently got married thats why he is sitting with his wife. So the point I want to convey is there are still people present in society who are close minded and have stupid thinking. Offcourse time is changing but society is still full of such people.
मेरे साथ तो ऐसा हमेशा ही होता है कारण यह की अगर पत्नी देखना चाहेगी तो भी दूसरी लेडीस अपना अलग ग्रुप बना कर बैठ जाते हैं तो मजबूरन उसे भी उनके बीच में ही बैठना पड़ता है और हम पुरुष अकेले-अकेले राजनीति की बातें लेकर टाइम पास करते हैं क्योंकि परिवारिक बातों का विषय औरतों का होता है हम लोग क्या बोलें
Mamtaji u r right but the thing is that in mixed way sitting kind of situation people starts to flirt with each other or sometimes start saying negative about their wives just to impress other women I noticed these things in my life however ur point is correct but India is far too behind specially mens mentality so at the end anyway wives mood went off after listening things about her through husband or watching your husband flirting with anyone else
From a Western view point I totally agree with what the presenter is saying. However, it appears this lady was back in India and should have respected her home countries etiquette!! When in Rome do as the Romens do!!! Madam. It's my observation that people from the subcontinent when they live in the west they become more western than the west!! May be we suffer from an inferiority complex. So for me it was not a big deal to be seated separately. .
Mam your all opinions and the situations are always connected to every single person in India . We all face such type of problems due to the mindset of our typical ancient culture which hurts a lot to evergone living in 21st century. You are coming out as a socialreformer. Hatsoff to u mam.
Yes you r 100%right mamata ji our society is still so backward .im happy rhat people like you atleast try to change the things like this story .thank tou
You cannot bring changes that easily! Stay strong..as you said your husband felt odd as well... so you need to first change the mind frame in your comfort zone and then try to change others! I completely agree with you.. we live in USA and whenever I go to India I see socio cultural variation there a lot.. it makes me sad, mad, uncomfortable but i do what I feel is right for me with limitations and do not bother much and my hubby is there for me too.. If I were you instead of suggesting .. I wd have gone or ask my hub to sit next to me...
Indian society bahot ajib hay. I live in Qatar or yaha pe I never felt ki may ak larki hu mujhe ye nahi karna hay wo nahi karna hay. Per kab v india jati hu mujhe bus rona aata hay. Peheli ki baat kuch or thi. Mere father 10 years tak london reh chuke hay mere ghar me koi kapre pehen neki ya larko se milne ki koi v restrictions nai thi. Per mere sasural me bus pucho mat. Her baat pe to society ek aysi chiz hay jise to vagban se v zada importance diya jata hay. Society na mujhe khilata hay na hi pilata hay. Fir v woha pe jao to bus suru ho jati hay rules and regulations ki mahabharat.
Mamtaji, U r 10000% correct , since my wife is also working & try 2 do some good in society function , lots of eyebrow r raised ,I support my wife to last extent, no matter what people think .From my opinion U should be bold & front in your decision & lastly I can only tell we can only lament to be in IndiA.
Aaj ke aurato ko ye patahi nahi hai kya salman khan ko dekha kar chipak jYengi har chij ki sima hini chahiye nahi to har insN bhuka hai ek dusare ki aurato ke sath hi jayenga aur science bTata hai ki aurat aur mard ek dusare ke karib atract hota hai.
Sorry di i dont agree with u... Our group is very much different we have a group of 8 couples and sub sath baithte h and ek dusre ka hasi majak chalta hai.. Nd starting me hum wifes log b alag baithte the coz hum comfortable nd gel up ho jae husband k sath toh we stay together always but kisi or se thoda time lagta hai.. Jab hum wifes log b ache se samajne lage sub ko and friends ban gae tab se we party together... But for that level apko thoda comfortable hona padta hai dusro k sath. As u said apko bore feel ho raha tha. Ap apna point of view toh de sakte ho kisi b chiz me. And har ladies wale group me gossip ni hoti h
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Mamta Its really nice to know about your life history I am really touched May God Bless You Every happiness and Prosperity in life
आपकी बात बिल्कुल सही थी लोग उस समय सोच नही पाए वहां पर पुराने ख्याल के लोग थे इसलिए ऐसा हुआ आपके साथ ,,
I agree with you mem. We should be open minded.
I like your comments. I also married person it's my mind and my wife also appreciated above video.
bilkul kiya hai face...and even karti hu..... not in frnds circle but in in laws family main feel karti hu.... frnd circle to sath m gathering karte hai but in laws main gents alag baithe hai aur ladies alag.... kyu bhai kyu baithna hai alag... this is really betuki baatein....
Aisa kafi baar hota hai in conservative families par there should be a time when men can talk separately and women separately too and a time when all are sitting together also bilkul alag alag toh nahi baithana chahiye
Kya bt boli h mam apne kash is duniya me sbki soch apke jaisi hoti...I am impressed..
I'm totally agree with you madam 👍👍
ur thoughts r ur strength...it makes u unique... Love u maam
बहुत अच्छा लगता है आपका विडियो । इस विडियो में हम सबसे मन की बात share करके दिल हल्का हो गया होगा । धन्यवाद ।
I am from India. I haven't seen these things in my circle of family and friends. I am glad that i didn't came across such thing. I think it was your husband's fault. He could have support you by supporting your view.
VERY VERY NAIS MAM I LIKE YOU
Yes I feel.. I agree with u👍
Hi, i am fully agree with you. You are absolutely right
I totally agree with you🤝💯
You’re husband was thinking what others think. 🤔
I'm agree with you sis 💐
Bahot sahi bat boli hy apne mam💯 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Ma'am I love your thoughts and and simplicity..We all love you..😘😘..Respect..
बहुत बढ़िया ममता जी आपने सबकी आँखे खोल दी है। weldone 👍👍👌👌।अक्सर india में ऐसी ही सोच वाले है। वक़्त के साथ अपग्रेड जरुरी है। धन्यवाद्।
Hi Mamta...how are you doing...I started watching your videos & liked them a lot.
Loads of love from Abu Dhabi
Good topic. I too agree with you. Your wish is a very simple one that should be addressed.
I love the way you narrate the story ma'am I can visualize the whole scenario😂.
Shweta sunar I know 😉
Very true
VERY NICE MAM.I LIKE YOU
Very nice video.this is very common situation .but to change it repeated efforts required
You are a very good hearted lady. Your story is most inspirational for our society. Thank you
But this is not a big deal guys and girls equally need that me time....And it's okay if your partner gets time to spend with his friends as well.
Well....... Your videos are much informative. Thanks....
God blesses u more n ur family....
I agree with uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu mam 😚😫👍
Yes Mamta, You are absolutely right, mix sitting arrangements is more comfortable then separate, I love mix gatherings but sometimes we should ignore it.
Very lovely narration. I agree with your point of view. Mamta g, please tell me how do you make your video. Do you have cameraman or do you have special camera. How do you take the video. Please do let me know or you can have a separate program on this to educate us. Thank you.
Ur a such a brave girl
U r amazing just amazing
Very true Mamta it has happened with me twice and yes I did prove my point of view to my husband it is very betuka chalan in our society and also becomes very odd specially when we stay out of India
I totally agree with you mam love you mam
U r always right
And always with you
Stay happy 😊😘😘😍😍😍
You are right
कोई इंसान गलत या सही नहीं होता है ।
जैसा देश वैसा वेश ।
U r OK.love u
Hi mumta
This is Fahim shakoor from Pakistan. I saw your videos.these are very help full for all the Asians.good job keept up.
You addressed this correct & essential issue. Hope it will motivate some of Orthodox to transform.
I completely agree with you Mamta.
Very true
Very nice advice stay blessed
Nice
I felt that you became emotional during this video.Sorry may be you didn't but i just felt so i mentioned. So,please forgot that day mamata and enjoy your life. But yeah i know it's not that easy but you was not wrong at that time.
Nice video👍😘
Me also
Aap ka soch trek tha ,Sabhi AAP ke jaise sochete hain,madam, Lekin us samai tak,bad men bhuljana chahiye, o yadon Ko yad karte karte man Ko shanthi nahi hota isehi sochenese India men 90 percentage Biwi alag husband alag divorce lekar gumte rahenge ,bat chodo AAP apka Beti husband ke saath 100 sal Jio.
True dear
I think aap ko RJ hona chahiye tha . I really like your topics
The way of speaking and using words is awesome.
Really like your broad minded thinking 👍
Offo....
you are correct
I totally agree with u...Good dat among us catholics we are quite open minded
We Must Respect Our wives.
And We support This issue.
You have raised a very good point.
May God bless you and your entire family.
Best Regards
Come on dont worry...itni choti baat ko sochna bhi nahi chaihye...u know ir ryt..but one thing sure..jo alag bethe bethne doo...but unko mat kaho as thy get reason..hard to change ppl mentality...my partnr does not mind if i talk to anybdy...but its individual choice...aap buri mat bano...attemd karo n khisko😅
Understanding is crucial....
Your nature, thinking and your way of talking is so so so incredible...You were absolutely ri8..
You are telling true time to time every things become change
I think ajkal koi alag alg nai bethte ap purani baat kr rhe ho but han jub cocktail chal rhi hoti hai tb gents alag hote hai... Bcoz gents comfortable nai hote... Bcoz biwiyan mana krti hai kam piyo n all isliye boys shadi ya parties mai alg rhete hai n pine ke bad grp mai a jate hai i think baki log b mujhse agree karege
Indian RUclipsr - Lovely You true
Indian RUclipsr - Lovely You ...hi ur rt
Indian RUclipsr - Lovely You .yes agry
Robin J, We live in USA and everyone is qualified in our circle, but once at a birthday party, my husband was sitting with me and another girl's husband pointed out and said it seems you guys recently got married thats why he is sitting with his wife. So the point I want to convey is there are still people present in society who are close minded and have stupid thinking. Offcourse time is changing but society is still full of such people.
Superb lovely..... Touching heart touching
Jitni mrzi tarakki krley india... But thinking of ppl will never change
मेरे साथ तो ऐसा हमेशा ही होता है कारण यह की अगर पत्नी देखना चाहेगी तो भी दूसरी लेडीस अपना अलग ग्रुप बना कर बैठ जाते हैं तो मजबूरन उसे भी उनके बीच में ही बैठना पड़ता है और हम पुरुष अकेले-अकेले राजनीति की बातें लेकर टाइम पास करते हैं क्योंकि परिवारिक बातों का विषय औरतों का होता है हम लोग क्या बोलें
Nyc thought yr
Very nice topics ma'am ....I really appreciate...
Mamtaji u r right but the thing is that in mixed way sitting kind of situation people starts to flirt with each other or sometimes start saying negative about their wives just to impress other women I noticed these things in my life however ur point is correct but India is far too behind specially mens mentality so at the end anyway wives mood went off after listening things about her through husband or watching your husband flirting with anyone else
Happy new year mem ji
Hnji same ada he hunda athy,
Really heart touching story mam ,I really love your thought
mam ne kaha ladko ladko ke table pe sharab serve ho rahi😂😂😂hamare pe nahi
Yes mam u r right nice thinking mam .god bless you n take care mam.
Ma'am mere school me hamesha hota hai
You are right but it's almost impossible to change other's views
India me ajib si soch hai mam
aap jaise log or hote to kb ka hamara india USA ke similar ho Chuka hota....
aap ke thinking ko salam karta hu......
Ur thinking level is so well and top level mam......😊❤️😘
Mam pls is topic pe Vidio banao aap
Mamta, aapko hans aur kauvvwe ka farak pata hai? Ab aap hans ho....
👍
Mam you are so right ' I 100% agreed with you ....stay blessed !
👍
i agree with you
From a Western view point I totally agree with what the presenter is saying.
However, it appears this lady was back in India and should have respected her home countries etiquette!!
When in Rome do as the Romens do!!! Madam.
It's my observation that people from the subcontinent when they live in the west they become more western than the west!!
May be we suffer from an inferiority complex.
So for me it was not a big deal to be seated separately. .
Mam your all opinions and the situations are always connected to every single person in India . We all face such type of problems due to the mindset of our typical ancient culture which hurts a lot to evergone living in 21st century. You are coming out as a socialreformer. Hatsoff to u mam.
AMIT G 80 % RIGHT BCZ SOCIETY MOULD IS MAN ,
Yes you r 100%right mamata ji our society is still so backward .im happy rhat people like you atleast try to change the things like this story .thank tou
Nice
You cannot bring changes that easily! Stay strong..as you said your husband felt odd as well... so you need to first change the mind frame in your comfort zone and then try to change others! I completely agree with you.. we live in USA and whenever I go to India I see socio cultural variation there a lot.. it makes me sad, mad, uncomfortable but i do what I feel is right for me with limitations and do not bother much and my hubby is there for me too..
If I were you instead of suggesting .. I wd have gone or ask my hub to sit next to me...
Mai to apne nikah k baad b apne husband k pass ni baithe ...ye log ye society uff...we always regret that ....photos b ni ai sath album me 😞😞😞😞
My World Blame your family not the society.
Mere husband to family ke samne b nhi bolte mujhse
Bahut bar face kiya h ki Akeley baithe rho
Surbhi Gupta oh so sad ....
nageen Nageen appne kabi apne husband se baat ni ki is topic ko le kar
Right. Nothing wrong. Well explained.
Indian society bahot ajib hay. I live in Qatar or yaha pe I never felt ki may ak larki hu mujhe ye nahi karna hay wo nahi karna hay. Per kab v india jati hu mujhe bus rona aata hay. Peheli ki baat kuch or thi. Mere father 10 years tak london reh chuke hay mere ghar me koi kapre pehen neki ya larko se milne ki koi v restrictions nai thi. Per mere sasural me bus pucho mat. Her baat pe to society ek aysi chiz hay jise to vagban se v zada importance diya jata hay. Society na mujhe khilata hay na hi pilata hay. Fir v woha pe jao to bus suru ho jati hay rules and regulations ki mahabharat.
Kasturi Mukherjee I am agree with You,aap ne sahi kaha
Kasturi Mukherjee please wanted to be friendly with you..... moiragthemdayananda19@gmail.com
Right mam... I am agree with you
I think so because we are living in male Dominant society that's y they
Thinking about it
Nishi 19 trueji
Indian MOM In Australia when we will the change the mind set of people
Tab yeahh Sab nhi hoga.......
Mamtaji, U r 10000% correct , since my wife is also working & try 2 do some good in society function , lots of eyebrow r raised ,I support my wife to last extent, no matter what people think .From my opinion U should be bold & front in your decision & lastly I can only tell we can only lament to be in IndiA.
Mam agar koi married ho or interview ke time wo show kre single to kya airlines ko pata chal jata h ki nahi ????
Nahi Pata chalta
Yaaa I always think about it.. U r absolutely Right.
I agre with you mam Indian people thinking is very very narrow
u r doing very good job tnks waching from dubai.
Appko mai apni sister manta hu
But mere hisab se apke husband. Ko jo acha lga o kea
Sayad. Aapke lea he kea ho
Aap ki voice quality bhut achhi hai mam,koi video singing per bhi bnao👍👍
Aaj ke aurato ko ye patahi nahi hai kya salman khan ko dekha kar chipak jYengi har chij ki sima hini chahiye nahi to har insN bhuka hai ek dusare ki aurato ke sath hi jayenga aur science bTata hai ki aurat aur mard ek dusare ke karib atract hota hai.
Yes i faced it ..u r right
Sorry di i dont agree with u... Our group is very much different we have a group of 8 couples and sub sath baithte h and ek dusre ka hasi majak chalta hai.. Nd starting me hum wifes log b alag baithte the coz hum comfortable nd gel up ho jae husband k sath toh we stay together always but kisi or se thoda time lagta hai.. Jab hum wifes log b ache se samajne lage sub ko and friends ban gae tab se we party together... But for that level apko thoda comfortable hona padta hai dusro k sath.
As u said apko bore feel ho raha tha. Ap apna point of view toh de sakte ho kisi b chiz me. And har ladies wale group me gossip ni hoti h
Right
Aapki sab bate bahot achi aur corect hi hoti hai.... I realy like u... Lve u mam
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