She Planned to Have Her 3 kids Fed by Her Date but It Backfired
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
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She thought it would be a good idea to ask her date to pay for her kids dinner as well, but it didn't go as expected as he wasn't expecting that for his date.
The obvious answer is..............NEVER date a single Mom.
Facts though. A single mom with ANY number of kids is a red flag. There's a reason she's single and it's not just because of the baby daddy. It means that ALL guys she's tried to bag never stuck around. You'll always have to wonder exactly why all these men left and how exactly they're all "narcissists" as she calls them.
In other *_facts,_* water, in its liquid state, is wet.
She didn't care about him to begin with. He was a FREE meal for her and her kid's. That was a foodie date.
That was not merely a foodie date … but the penultimate foodie date …
Penultimate means next to last. Next level foodie call!
@@penguinvic9892 Pretty sure it was the last date
@@ultrademigod In this instance it was surely the last date … but no matter how careful one is there is always the the mega foodie date lurking around the corner waiting to attempt to bankrupt some guy … !!
Yep I would have gotten up, paid for the bill up until that point and left. And blocked her. The waitress agreeing with her should be fired.
That food was not for the kids, but for the other guy that was blowing her back out later after she got back.
Very probable a most so called single moms have a jobless sponge that they keep around.
Ugh.
There it is !
BINGO!!!!!!
OMG this is true! The kids got one order and he got the other!
The 2 linguine meals weren't for the kids. It was for her and Chad when he came round to hook-up later.
I went on a date with a Single Mom. She was nice and attractive. She never asked me to get her a free meal for her son. We never went on a second date, and I am fine with that. She was sweet and nice. Some single parents know how to be respectful.
Lol speak for yourself she probably never went on a second date with you because you didn't pay just cause she didn't ask doesn't mean they don't expect
@@sheff-eb6jb Sure... believe what you want. I am quite sure you were there.
@@gawarlock4148 I'm saying speak for yourself as in that's good for you in your situation most us men don't go through that they try use you and dip why you think there's so many videos about it
@@sheff-eb6jb OHHHH. my apologies. I am not against dating a single mother. However, there is so much baggage and consideration to take into account. Yesterday, I had a woman "gaslight" me on telling me that I was not "learning" from my past relationships. The woman literally asked me questions about past relationships and then said, "You are brining up issues that I did not even ask about." LOL
One date….you can’t base her behaviour on that one experience not to mention she brung her child to that date and you tolerated it which makes you look a bit desperate tbh
Trust me the clock is ticking and at some point you would be expected to pay
Friends do not tell friends to date single 304's?
lol
She got two plates, one for her and 1 for her man for date nite later 🤣🤦🏾♂️
He acted like a simp. She may or may not like him but she got her free food for the kids. The women's Sprinkle Sprinkle movement.
No woman who is genuinely interested in a man is going to ask him to pay to feed another man's kids. Stands too high a chance of chasing the man off.
Lesson learned : Dont date a single mom. Youre gonna be playing Daddy by funding their grocery bill and nothing else.
Thanks for the lesson, All Single Moms! Your strong independent voices has been heard loud and clear; You will not be asked out on dates from here in out.
False. The world is full of simps who will kowtow to a woman, no matter how checkered her past.
But men are gaining self respect. I was once a simp but now I don't tolerate their crapp.
It is so disgusting to watch somebody eating and talking at the same time. So rude
He was very decent to her. He didn't ask to pay half of their date. How is already paying for her children? I'm so glad I'm single. The man is respectful and she still took advantage of him. He was right to stop dating her.
She was probably acting super attentive and interested so he'd be more likely to say yes
As soon as she asked for him to pay for the kids, he should have known he was going to ghost her. Instead of buying the meals, he should have said sorry .. I am broken until payday .. lets talk after I get paid .. then ghosted her.
Well, some guys would have made a dine and dash and leave her with the whole check. I would have just said to the waiter/waitress, 'my date is over and I'm leaving how much is my meal only'. I'm not a Foodie Call. F that! And if I was her transportation...Get an Uber Heaux.
The disrespect is high in these single mothers, so repay it with the same energy.
This doesn’t make sense. She’s going to get home at like 10pm or something and her kids hadn’t eaten?
shame on the waitress for sticking her nose into the customers business she's serving
Did you not catch the part about the takeout being 2 nice (not kid-like) dinners? She had him buy dinner for her meetup with Chad later..
That Waitress would have found herself fired for adding the fuel to the fire by doing what the prozzy told her and ignoring the PERSON with the means to pay and tip Guess she is going to be mad with that no tip from him
No I sugget you dont date a single mom. Then again I would suggest you go on a coffee date with any woman you have interest in dating. If she is really into you she will have no problem with it. Consider it a test to see if you are compatible and if she is truly down with you. I am sure people will say oh you a brokie. Nope I wantnto see if you are a person I want to get to know better. Only a idiot shells out 400 bucks to learn they have nothing in common with the person they had interest in.
Yeppers !! I’m a great believer in coffee dates, too. These are a great way to weed out the foodie calls.
Being deceitful is never a good idea.
If she had been up-front with the guy.
He might have helped.
Maybe have a pizza delivered to them.
Or bring Popeye's chicken home to them.
If I liked the woman, I would have done something like that.
But, to wait for the guy to go to the bathroom to be the chance
for her to order meals behind his back is just wrong.
I’m not arguing with lady. I’m going up to waitress asking for separate checks paying mine and leaving. If you can’t feed your kids no need to be out on a date and trying to finesse me. If we in a relationship I signed up for it but on a first date gtfoh
Why even date? Dudes are thirsty af.
I’d never go on a date with a single mom but if I did by mistake and she demanded I buy her 3 kids food I would say let me use the restroom pay for my dinner only and bounce
Those 2 meals were for her and her dude
If I'm hitten it and don't plan to stay then it don't matter how many kids she has. But if we be going for keeps then zero is the number.
Sex worker saving doesn't pay.
Why do so many people post videos while they are eating. It's gross.
He bought her bd dinner.
Stay home guys
🤦🏼♂️
So if you are dating a single mom and it becomes serious, you’re gonna be paying for the kids anyway if you move in. So this would be good practice.
Gentlemen avoid baby mamas
I'm already paying for other people through my INCOME TAXES.
That's all you're gonna get.
Not my kids?
Not my problem.
Since he paid for her, I think it would be fair if she paid for her kids.
Thank you. Exactly. I already paying people for nothing.. why in the world would I pay for a kid that isn't mine.. Ludicrous
Not my Circus, not my monkeys
This right here. She's already leeching off him through welfare programs that they give to single mothers. Yet the leeches never have a problem with eating, only when it comes to paying.
they'll take more from you to support weak dependent women
Men and women are 'equal' until the check comes,,,,,,,,,,,,,
And until there is a draft, somone is in danger, etc.
Why is a single man dating a single mother. It is a waste of his time, money, and emotions.
Because they’re stupid, desperate, simps, beta and feel lonely.
Guy probably had no experience with single moms and doesn't know about the dangers they bring. Hopefully he learned a major lesson out of this date
@@gabem6863 Very true…
Sitch#1- The kids werent hungry..Thats bs..She asked for 2 dinners because Chad will be expecting food when he shows up at 2 am to clap them cheeks...
This 100%
You know it
It might be Jody doing the clapping.
One dish was for her kids, the other one was for her FWB.
Yep
Simps get what they grovel for.
The moment she fixed her mouth to say, “You OWE me.” She would have gotten cussed out‼️ 🤬
Her responsibility to pay for her children, not his
That female waitress gets no tip for commenting. She should have stayed neutral.
In addition, Id have had a talk with her Manager, to put her back in line.
I, too, asked my husband and he said: "Why would anyone date a woman with three children? She's not looking for romance, she's looking for a payday. She's already had plenty of romance."
That commenter said she asked her husband, has a simp for a husband. Good thing she's thinking clearly!
When going on a first date always ask for separate checks
Oh yeah, absolutely not. There is zero chance Id be paying for people i have no responsibility to. Go to the bathroom and leave the restaurant
Some single mothers do this, some don't. Only advice is to not deal with them in the 1st place and get a woman that DOESNT have another man's kids to feed
He was dating a single mum. That was the bigger mistake. Also, that waitress should be fired for her unprofessionalism. She should NOT have got herself involved in the conversation.
Perhaps she is single mother too
She is abusing his good nature. Cook and feed the kids at home.
That would be the end of the relationship not because of the money, but because of her character.
Exactly, it's the principle. I used to spend a lot of money on women until I realized they feel entitled to men's money, use men, disrespect men, and don't show gratitude. I am done with them.
To the Aussie woman wanting to know if the number of kids matter. I agree that depends on how financially responsible they expect the man to be. But it also depends on if the kids have different baby daddies or one baby daddy. Since single mothers have to deal with Ex's and you are now dating the mother, that means you will have to deal with the Ex's. No Thank You!!
I would told her that she was paying for her kids meal and then said good-bye and block her.
Don't waste your time and money and stupid dates, be selfish and get rich.
I was a single mom of 3. When I dated I always made sure my kids were already bathed and fed before I went out on a date. Another thing. I stopped letting the men I went out with meet my kids. I didn’t want them to get attached. I did a couple of times and it hurt my kids when the relationship ended. It was easier for them. Believe it or not. Many men wanted to meet them. I never expected a date to be responsible to feed them. It was my responsibility as their parent to do that not some stranger. I also let my dates know that we are dating and not looking for anything permanent. They ask me out they pay. I ask them out I pay. Shocked them. Hey, nothing wrong with enjoying another person’s company. It worked for me. I did eventually meet someone for me. It was great! I feel for the young people of today. Dating has such unrealistic expectations on both sides.
I bet he asked you out most of the time so of course women like that concept of the person asking out pays. How convenient to women.
i asked a few girls i know who are or were at one pt a single mother, and they say women like this piss them off so much! my one friend has been dating this one guy for 3 yrs, and he has never paid for her kid a single time for anything...she wont let him
Some will even try to badger/ guilt trip you into buying the food.
Tell her to stop or pay for her own meal. Shut that down.
She wasn't ordering steak for her kids. She was ordering steak for the kids daddy. Guess who was going to be the lucky one that night?
stupid mistake
dating a single mom
You lost me at, “As he should…”.
That’s cute.
And wrong.
As you elucidate the reason in the very next breath and described how he gets used as a meal ticket x4.
Get a clue.
Muppet.
[I should just accept being a foody-call and just hand over my wallet as a nice guy to get nothing in return from a 1st date! Not gonna happen! She prolly plans on feeding the boody-call when she gets back to the Streets! Born at nite, but I wasn't born last nite!✌🏼😂😂]
3 kids? The meals were probably for her live in boyfriend and close girlfriend she shares everything with
this is why you should bring cash on the first date. at this point, inform the waitress that you are not approving any of that for the bill that he is expected to pay for, and if there are any problems, just finish your plate, give the waitress the money, and walk away. she can figure out her own way home, and you havent provided them your credit/debt cards for them to run up later. and make sure the manager see you handing them the cash. if they have cameras, show it the bills/denominations that cover your bill, and hand it to them. CYA. and blacklist that resturant.
She got 2 more meals for her and her baby daddy to share
If she also had the linguini for dinner that night, then the 2 additional meals were not for her kids, they were for her. She wanted to take it home and eat it again.
At one foolish time in my life, I dated a single mother. We talked on the phone for like a month.. but only physically went out a few times, as she was busy with school. One our last outing... she told me her daughter needed diapers, and she Demanded that I buy them. I refused, and she went utterly insane. Even her step father agreed that she was crazy... and wished me well.. as we parted. She tried at least two more times to contact me... and try to get me back in her life. She never once apologized, either. Also, on her last attempt... she claimed she had an abusive BF. Not saying anything about breaking up with him... made it seem like she just wanted something "On the Side" with me. Either way... I wasnt about to get involved with that Mess, ever again.
Women need to stop calling it going on dates and call it for what it is, Free Meals. Do you think women ever take themselves to a 5 star restaurant? Tinder Diet.
Well I will not date a single mom but if I was asked this, we will be stopping off a Mickey Ds and that's it.
Initially, the account should have been divided between the two of them, since the interest in going out together is both of them, if she is not responsible for her part that is strange. If she also asks you to pay for her children's food, it means that she does not take you into account, nor is she responsible for her own children. In that second it is confirmed that she is an ordinary, abusive woman, without education or feelings for you, and you should not go out with her again. If you didn't realize that while chatting with her over dinner, then there's something wrong with you, and you should go see a psychologist before you continue dating anyone else.
Nobody was getting the food was for Chad or Tyrone
Thats the time to split the check and she can pay for her meal and Chad's.
She left her kids without feeding them first?
As for the last question, it also depends if the children are all from the same father and the reason he is no longer in her life (what if she is a widow, but has 3 kids from the same guy). Obviously the financial point is a big factor.
"Men I have a question for you. If you were to date a single mom..."
Let me stop you right there
LOL right?!?
The woman had no right to order the dinners for her kids, and expect him to pay for it. That mom needs to pay for her own kid's meals. I wouldn't of done that. I would of said that I am bringing my kids some dinners back after my date, and I need a separate bill. This mother needs to set a good example and grow up.
I’m a great believer that the inviter pays … but only what was agreed upon initially.
Being stung for a couple of kids’ meals later on would NOT be part of the deal.
Walk!
Single mom = red flag! Only he had his own red flag waiting! Good job, dude!
First one up!....................Guys when are y'all going to realise you are just a meal ticket! I would have suggested she contact baby Daddy and wire the payment through!
I would have asked her "you didnt feed your kids before our date?"
wait for her to stutter some self-defensive nonsense
then say, "sorry but I buy food only for people I have met"
DO NOT PAY FOR HER KIDS FOOD UNTIL YOU ARE IN AN INTIMATE AND/OR COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP
and if she starts to ask some type of way. pay for your meals, leave her 20 or 40 dollars for a taxi and leave
At that point, she should have just taken the kids with them on that date. When you go out with a single mother, there is baggage that comes with that deal. If you are not ready to lug that weight around, don't go out with her. What she did was wrong. What he did was out of ignorance of that situation. Now he knows. If I did not make that kid, there is no reason for me to carry that kid. That is a choice each man has to make based on what he wants. If a single mother has respect, personality, and her head on straight, then she may be ready for a real relationship. If not... nope. Just as a man has to understand that a single mother comes with baggage, a single mother has to understand that getting into a relationship comes with expectations that men require as well.
What you are really saying is that single mothers should not be allowed to date. Good point!
@@lazarus381 The way most single mothers are, pretty much. They are too intent on caring for "Chads" baby instead of forming a real relationship with the guy she should have been with from the start. Single mothers get the short end of the stick, literally, since it is so difficult for them to provide what a guy is looking for in a relationship.
@@moderndatinghere Me too. Simp city there.
I think the first date is a bit too much to expect him to pay for them. They don't know each other yet.
I'm a woman, and I wouldn't date a single mother. I warn our grandson about these women, all the time, and send him these videos. A date should never be asked, to pay for food for children. It's rude. He should have told her, "that's rude to ask me, to pay for food for your children". No. Get up and leave her there.
That woman in the video, announcing, "you owe me that", is rude. The man should get up and pay as quickly as possible, leaving her there. She is not getting to know him. She is just using him.
First of all, don't date single moms. But if so, I would have asked "do you want money for the babysitter too" and when she would have gone "awww, really?" I would have said "nah, what's wrong with you, I paid for the date, pay for your children yourself or make your baby daddy pay for them" and left.
The waitress jumping on the woman's side is crazy. I would have immediately called for the manager and told them that their waitress is trying to help that woman scam me out of my money.
Why don’t these dudes just pay for his food, & then leave. Stop arguing with these 304
To the Aussie single mom. You chose to jump into the fun only barrel with all the other single moms. It's a BIG barrel.
I was a single mom when I met my husband 26 years ago and to this day, I can't fathom him feeding MY son when we went on our first date. How disrespectful can you be to pull a stunt like that?!
Wow!! That's proper cheeky! Also that means they had to stay for the kid's food. Imagine that awkward conversation during the wait.
My question is why is he arguing with her about buying food for her kids? All you have to do is get up and walk away. y’all need to stop allowing these women to use you like this. U have the right to have standards and to enforce them. You don’t have to please and be polite to everybody, specially the people that are trying to abuse you have some fkn balls man!!! walk away.
I would never date a single mother full stop. If a guy does, he will always come last. She will always put her kids first. Guys, dont do it!
Call Child Protective Services if she didn't feed her kids before she went on the date,.
He never should have agreed to pay for the food for her kids. He should have told her that if she wants to get some food for them he is more than willing to allow her the time to do so but that SHE would be paying. You do not go on a date with a man and before you go home con him into paying for food for everyone back at the house. She might live with her elderly mom. Surely she would want to take food to her. And the three kids. And Uncle Joe has been living there. Can't forget him. NO! What if she wanted him to stop at the store to stock up on food for the family. Should he pay for that just because she condescended to go out to eat with him? NOPE. He should have told her no to the kids. Yes, the kids need to eat but they are HER responsibility, not his.
It's sad to see society conditioned into thinking that dating a single mom is a " Preference "
Fellas, why you think is OK to continue with someone else's saved game?
The young man could not say NO at that time, because children were involved, but if he doesn’t want to do this anymore, do not call her again.
Women tell us that men shouldnt speak for women, yet women never stop speaking for men on top of insulting us.
If women didnt have double standards, theyd have no standards.
I went out with a chick to Fogo. It was a lot left over she was eating off my plate it was good. We took doggie bags a couple weeks later I saw her out. She was back with her ex she spoke he says man that food was good with a smirk! I said you didn’t tell him he looked at her and she looked at me. I said yeah she took my food but it’s ok she was eating off my plate anyway. She called me the next day saying that ended it for good lol? She told him it was really good when he took it from her and started eating it!😏😎😭
Being a nice guy simp will get you taken advantage of. First mistake was going out with a SM of 3
Well, at least she asked. I've seen videos wherein the date orders extra food while the man was in the restroom, expecting him to pay without asking.
Life is already complicated enough without taking on a single mother - the more kids she has the more the complication - and no matter what these kids will be a financial drain step daddy.
By her admission/claims the father is a dead beat, your really want kids around that share his genes.
She knew what type of guy he was when he bought her flowers on the first date. Women scan Men and size them up within seconds of meeting Men. Once they have done that, they know what they can and can not get away with. And a large portion of Men are completely clueless to this fact.
Kira needs to be fired.
The dude is paying for both meals but, he decides if he wants to pay for the kids.
The single mom does not decide over his wallet
TF?!
I'd act disgusted that she left her kids without food. Paid and left.
I would've said we can drive through and get them a couple of happy meals and ghosted her.
The fact that other single moms found her actions to be out of line says it all. She definitely took advantage of the guy. Regardless of whether he agreed or not, he should move on and forget about her.
That woman in second clip trying to order food on his dime is fake...they are couple and doing this kind of videos as satire on todays dating...dont be harsch on her its all staged
Fellas you need to know when to walk away, why is he even talking to her. as soon as she brought that up with the guys gotta just get up and walk away tell the waiter do not bring anything for her unless she’s gonna pay for and walk away, gotta stop man! holy shit.