5 CBT Exercises For Anxiety

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  • Are you struggling to navigate life with daily anxiety?
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    ☀️☀️CHAPTERS☀️☀️
    0:00 Intro
    1:04 CBT summary
    6:19 Exercise 1
    8:26 Exercise 2
    10:05 Exercise 3
    11:36 Exercise 4
    13:04 Meditation
    14:35 Exercise 5
    15:45 OCD
    16:13 Understand this about anxiety

Комментарии • 513

  • @ingrid3578
    @ingrid3578 9 месяцев назад +82

    We suffer much more in imagination than in reality. I try to keep that in mind at all times especially when my thoughts begin to spiral.

  • @IkamiLog
    @IkamiLog 2 месяца назад +110

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 2 месяца назад +7

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 2 месяца назад

      Yes, dr.sporessss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 2 месяца назад +3

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 2 месяца назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 2 месяца назад

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

  • @vyseerx
    @vyseerx 5 месяцев назад +24

    Anxiety is universal emotion, but when out of control causing symptoms and impairment, needs management. 1. Meditation ( S K Y breathing ) thwarts all the symptoms of anxiety, and costs nothing. 2. Daily indoor exercise (stationary bike) helps relieve anxiety. 3. Medication SSRI once daily helps sleep well, once you sleep well -anxiety would be a thing of past. 4. Regular interactions with live people / friends / relatives helps decrease anxiety 5. Usage of debit card (instead of credit card) helps decrease anxiety as well as credit seems to be the biggest stress causing agent.

    • @mo777-
      @mo777- День назад

      take magnesium glycinate instead of a medication. but always check with your doctor first and get a blood test, because if you have too much magnesium it could harm you.

  • @latinabeauty6503
    @latinabeauty6503 9 месяцев назад +261

    I just found you Barbara. I deal wit daily anxiety and depression for the past 5 years. To the point I am unable to take care of my family. Listening to you seems to help me so much than on my own. I am so grateful for you and I just wanted to tell you your amazing for doing this. Real live super hero in my heart❤️🙏🏻

    • @anatino
      @anatino 6 месяцев назад

      We need progesterone cream. Check Barbara Hoffman.

    • @christianfernandez4285
      @christianfernandez4285 4 месяца назад +14

      Have you checked your vitamin D levels? They should be atleast 50-70

    • @lalhruaikimachinzah9165
      @lalhruaikimachinzah9165 4 месяца назад

      @@christianfernandez4285hi i have anxiety and depression right now i am at my worst

    • @lalhruaikimachinzah9165
      @lalhruaikimachinzah9165 4 месяца назад

      @@christianfernandez4285i have just done a test and my vitamin D result is 19 does this low level have anything to do with my anxiety??

    • @jackoftrades6282
      @jackoftrades6282 4 месяца назад +7

      Less Vitamin d also cause anxiety?

  • @DonnHowes
    @DonnHowes Месяц назад +38

    I could remember several years ago after losing my dad, I suffered severe anxiety and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with OCD. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

    • @NicoleCtirad
      @NicoleCtirad Месяц назад

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @Bastianbishops
      @Bastianbishops Месяц назад +3

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

    • @SusanaGomez-mp8sk
      @SusanaGomez-mp8sk Месяц назад +3

      YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @BrownGeorge-pw2xo
      @BrownGeorge-pw2xo Месяц назад +1

      Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!

    • @Wimruther-hk4zn
      @Wimruther-hk4zn Месяц назад +1

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @haleyhawk3365
    @haleyhawk3365 4 месяца назад +5

    My anxiety always starts with physical symptoms and then my mind starts going bc I feel so shakey and nerved up sometimes it can even make me experience derealization ty for this video

  • @palliaskamen5722
    @palliaskamen5722 4 месяца назад +37

    I feel for everyone commenting here. I've been dealing with anxiety and panic for many years.
    OCD? I was recently fixated on my blood pressure for a month. It's fine but I was taking a reading 25 times a day!
    To reduce my anxiety, I've tried stimulating my parasympathetic nerve by massaging pressure points in my ears, and running cold water over my face and head.

    • @chetan9533
      @chetan9533 4 месяца назад +9

      Bhramari pranayama helps a lot as well. Inhale to the count of 4, then exhale to the count of 6 with mouth closed and saying "hmmm". Repeat 5 to 15 times.

    • @TheLiberaceTheory
      @TheLiberaceTheory 3 месяца назад +5

      Interestingly enough, that breathing technique also helps stimulate the vagus nerve! The ends of the vagus nerve are in the diaphragm, so breathing out for 6 count relaxes the diaphragm and sends safety signals to the parasympathetic system. There are also branches of the vagus nerve in the throat, so when you “ommmm”, you’re vibrating on that nerve, which again sends safety signals!

    • @yolandaruiz5805
      @yolandaruiz5805 3 месяца назад +2

      Hi I have have severe anxiety and was recently diagnosed with high blood pressure too! I'm on Losartan and I've been getting more panic attacks. Have you found a medicine that works with no side effects?

  • @angel.heart007
    @angel.heart007 3 месяца назад +63

    Been dealing with anxiety for about 12 yrs now. And last night I had a dizzy spell. That’s all it took for me to spiral. I’ve been learning all about CBT but sometimes at the moment when I’m panicking it’s so hard to shift to everything I’ve learned. I understand what’s going on but my mind is in control of me in an awful way. And this health anxiety is taking a toll. I’m exhausted 😩 Thank you for your video🙏🏼

    • @TheLiberaceTheory
      @TheLiberaceTheory 3 месяца назад +11

      I’ve had anxiety all my life too, and what really got me to start trying to treat it was the dizziness and vertigo. That’s one of my least favorite parts of anxiety X) if you want help specifically with the dizziness, I recommend looking up The Steady Coach on RUclips. Her career is in working with people at the specific intersection of anxiety and dizziness, and it’s been helping me a lot!

    • @angel.heart007
      @angel.heart007 3 месяца назад +7

      @@TheLiberaceTheory thank you so much! Yes the dizziness is one of my triggers and worst part too. I suffered a positional vertigo about 13 yrs ago and that’s what caused my anxiety. So anything to do with dizziness/imbalance feeling, it destroys me for a day or two. It’s awful. I’ll def look into the steady coach. Hope you’re doing well!

    • @FerintoshFarmsPhotography
      @FerintoshFarmsPhotography 2 месяца назад +5

      Hugs

    • @KickingIt-In-the-Kitchen
      @KickingIt-In-the-Kitchen 2 месяца назад +7

      Just know you are not alone. Many people feel symptoms when they are worried. Just allow yourself to feel and don’t judge your thoughts. Know that growth takes time, some time longer than others. You’ll be healed in Jesus’ name. Amen!

    • @angel.heart007
      @angel.heart007 2 месяца назад +3

      @@FerintoshFarmsPhotography thank you. Hugs back🩶

  • @adriancaldwell
    @adriancaldwell 4 месяца назад +18

    Anxiety is a good thing, it’s telling you to get out of that toxic relationship, leave that mind numbing job, get out of your office cubicle and get outdoors and so on, instead of learning ways to suppress anxiety we should embrace and listen to it and act

    • @nykelley42
      @nykelley42 3 месяца назад +15

      This is terrible advice. Yes, Anxiety is important and necessary, similar to pain, fear, etc. But for people who have Anxiety disorders, it is no longer a just a biological safeguard, it becomes a hindrance of daily life. It is though our minds and bodies are telling us "emergency!!" when there is no reason to be alarmed. It's chronic, it's scary, it feels awful and irreversible. Videos like these provide information to what treatments exist for those suffering. Consider yourself lucky you are unaware of what this condition feels like.

    • @alphasiera1757
      @alphasiera1757 3 месяца назад

      The problem with pathological anxiety is the trigger of anxieties is illogical. Imagine getting anxious about flying while flying is the most safest mode of transportation, and such examples

    • @adriancaldwell
      @adriancaldwell 3 месяца назад +1

      @@nykelley42 fair enough apologies but there’s obviously rational and irrational anxiety, I was referring to rational anxiety. The problem I think these days is we’re all being fed a stream of self help to eradicate anxiety and creating a culture of victim hood. Respect though to those where it’s a serious mental
      Illness

  • @robbiesmoonmusic
    @robbiesmoonmusic 4 месяца назад +38

    This was the most comprehensive explanation of CBT and all of its components I’ve ever watched. As an MSW psychotherapist student who also has an anxiety disorder of my own, this was such a God send. Thank you so much

    • @vivienlee610
      @vivienlee610 3 месяца назад +2

      Totally agree with you.

  • @meeks516
    @meeks516 10 месяцев назад +40

    During the lockdowns, I lost trust in doctors. After finding your video's, I've been able to work through things with your help. Just wanted to thank you.

  • @michelleveloni1329
    @michelleveloni1329 6 месяцев назад +30

    YES! Please do a video on OCD Anxiety. Thank you.

  • @Weewendyhouse123
    @Weewendyhouse123 19 дней назад +2

    The control thing is such a big issue for me. I didn’t know I was in a relationship with a narcissist for many years so the only thing I had control over was my thoughts. And my way to control them was to switch them off. But now I don’t know how to deal with my emotions anymore and I’m catastrophising every situation that comes along.

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani 10 месяцев назад +26

    I feel my anxiety anger reduced when I started loving everybody ❤I love everybody is my new affirmation for personal use and I learned it through martial arts to not think of anyone as an enemy but try to love everybody thanks for all your great videos I love them

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  10 месяцев назад +12

      LOVE this. Thank you so much for sharing. Yes, when we come from a place of love, we feel safer (and vice versa probably). An aspiration to walk through the world with an open heart :)

    • @stevenkovler5133
      @stevenkovler5133 10 месяцев назад +6

      My anxiety is 1000% due to financial issues caused by being unable to break free from a narcissist who has taken everything from me! If I could get over my money issues , I know I would be cured !!

    • @anatino
      @anatino 6 месяцев назад

      @@stevenkovler5133absolutely! I am the same! It’s all about the financial situation.

    • @OhhCharliee..
      @OhhCharliee.. 4 месяца назад

      @@stevenkovler5133you have to shift that thought- if you change the feeling first (make it positive- how you will feel when it’s resolved), the issue will resolve itself faster than waiting for the issue to resolve itself before you feel better.
      If that makes sense.

  • @trishf2184
    @trishf2184 4 месяца назад +1

    Starts with sick stomach--think about a time I got SO VERY sick---this MUST be that again---now I'm completely freaked out waiting for THE absolute worst to happen---rush to prove I must be right. 🤢🤯🤯🙄

  • @BroccoliRocks
    @BroccoliRocks 5 дней назад

    For several years I read every book on CBT I could get my hands on. I was that interested in it. As a self help tool I got some value out of it.
    I was disappointed when I went to my first professional CBT session.
    I was extremely upset. I was sobbing my car both before and after the session.
    The therapist was so cold and distant. Her reply to everything was to fill out xeroxed forms.
    It reminded me of being in an emergency room with an injured hand and being forced to fill out a form with that injured hand to get help.
    I never went back to that therapist and she never called to make sure I was okay.
    This video reminded of why I do not like professional CBT. It just comes off as COLD, which makes my issues worse.
    I don't need help thinking and I don't think most people do either.
    I think CBT would be more effective if it was more like a normal conversation. A patient could vent, feel heard, feel validated, be encouraged, and when the time was right in the conversation new thoughts/beliefs could be introduced in a natural way.

  • @johndehavenii2015
    @johndehavenii2015 Месяц назад +1

    Hello Barbara,
    I would love for you to make a video on OCD anxiety. I believe I suffer this the most. I sometimes get to where I cannot move forward. I cannot think straight when a particular mental and emotional distortion happens. It’s like I am put in the back seat and told to shut up and not interfere. I have learned to manage it to a point where I can survive, but it’s the thrive that is affected.
    Really enjoying your videos. I agree with the meditation. I have experienced the observer and the separation of thoughts and feelings to this observer.

  • @princepeterwolf
    @princepeterwolf 3 дня назад

    This is going to be a really random observation but I just wanted to say I love the way you style your hair!

  • @cyrusromeo
    @cyrusromeo 4 месяца назад +13

    I have been in such severe flight or flight. Today, a big oiece of that “paused” and now I’m having… rolling panic. A nurse a while ago told me she suspected high stress hormones and that really, really makes sense. Now, I’m struggling to sleep, eat right… I have a chronic illness that is kicking my ass at the same time. So, I have everything to learn. Thank you so so much for this gift!

    • @memequeen1004
      @memequeen1004 3 месяца назад +1

      I hope you are doing much better

    • @cyrusromeo
      @cyrusromeo 3 месяца назад +2

      @@memequeen1004 no. I’m so absolutely in hell I’m looking into ketamine treatmemrt.

    • @memequeen1004
      @memequeen1004 3 месяца назад +2

      @@cyrusromeo oh no :( I really hope you get much better im very sorry things are going terrible I pray that whatever is troubling you, that you will eventually overcome it

    • @cyrusromeo
      @cyrusromeo 3 месяца назад +2

      @@memequeen1004 thanks, this is when I love the internet. When we support one another.

    • @memequeen1004
      @memequeen1004 3 месяца назад +2

      @@cyrusromeo I fully agree 🩷

  • @hywong1546
    @hywong1546 3 дня назад

    Thank you!

  • @johnorkutcopero8656
    @johnorkutcopero8656 2 месяца назад +5

    Barbara ,thank you for existing! ❤

  • @tripurasantoshi5848
    @tripurasantoshi5848 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @user-wt3uf5cs2g
    @user-wt3uf5cs2g 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Barbara

  • @haileymitchell607
    @haileymitchell607 5 месяцев назад +27

    I needed to hear this tonight, thank you so much for your wise words🙏🏼

  • @skionen1781
    @skionen1781 5 месяцев назад

    Excellent stuff. Thanks

  • @CulturalArtNews
    @CulturalArtNews 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love this!

  • @user-vc6vp4cw4w
    @user-vc6vp4cw4w 8 месяцев назад +3

    BRILLIANCE! Thank you, Barbara!

  • @byousefin
    @byousefin 2 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @yassy9938
    @yassy9938 4 месяца назад

    Thank you barbara love this❤ really helpful

  • @eyebutterfly
    @eyebutterfly 6 месяцев назад +4

    Your videos are so concise and helpful, thank you ❤

  • @user-qw5bk1sg6d
    @user-qw5bk1sg6d 6 месяцев назад

    thank you

  • @aosorachan
    @aosorachan 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much!🙏🙇‍♀

  • @yoppysoleman9758
    @yoppysoleman9758 3 месяца назад +8

    Dear Prof. Barbara Heffernan. Thank you so much for sharing very valuable, in-depth and useful knowledge 🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍. GB.

  • @oussamabensaidi9838
    @oussamabensaidi9838 4 месяца назад

    love the exercises thanks !

  • @marisstellajacob3623
    @marisstellajacob3623 2 месяца назад

    This is so helpful, thanks Barbara😊

  • @jessicaT12345
    @jessicaT12345 3 месяца назад +1

    you are heaven sent. thank you!

  • @Amfortas
    @Amfortas 5 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for this Dr Babara ❤

  • @mousmouloooo
    @mousmouloooo 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are wonderful! Great content , thank you

  • @jasoncolap
    @jasoncolap 5 месяцев назад

    This is great thank you

  • @dulcecarvalho5376
    @dulcecarvalho5376 7 месяцев назад +3

    Excellent video, thank you Barbara👏

  • @patrizia5248
    @patrizia5248 14 дней назад

    Thank you very clear and useful ❤

  • @nikkininedoor1480
    @nikkininedoor1480 5 месяцев назад +2

    That was a lot of valuable information and useful techniques. Thank you Barbara!

  • @heidiuridge1584
    @heidiuridge1584 Месяц назад

    Thank you for information ❤

  • @nielsdahl2022
    @nielsdahl2022 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for a great video 🙏🏻

  • @babycakes8434
    @babycakes8434 3 месяца назад +5

    Great info. I subscribed.
    In my last job I had stomach pain for hours due to my job, or rathet bosses. Once I started to work there I would get excruciating stomach aches, that would not go away without pain reliever. I didn't have any thoughts that were causing it, but my bosses were not my kind of people, not vety soothing or genuinely friendly. It lasted for few months. Once it started, I would get these stomach pains caused by other things and stressfull situations.

    • @sanjana4219
      @sanjana4219 Месяц назад

      I am sorry to hear this.Pleaae do yoga for anxiety and meditation regularly.You will be fine.

  • @jaspreetnandra
    @jaspreetnandra 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so much from bottom of my heart!

  • @DbbieDeverall
    @DbbieDeverall 23 дня назад +1

    I am very interested in OCD. Please continue

  • @maskedcat8808
    @maskedcat8808 9 месяцев назад +18

    Please do a series on OCD. Awesome videos!

  • @markmark35
    @markmark35 3 месяца назад

    Great video. Thanks

  • @edgarfausto4907
    @edgarfausto4907 3 месяца назад +4

    I don’t know you but for some reason everything you said it’s what I’m feeling. I really felt a connection and felt so better about what you talked about. I’m so relieved now. I keep going to the doctor and they don’t understand my feelings but I’m so pain free now. Thank you so much❤❤❤

  • @ellekay852
    @ellekay852 5 месяцев назад +1

    Truly incredible video. Thank you so much

  • @sheri6089
    @sheri6089 10 месяцев назад +11

    I really think that hearing (some of us need to hear them over and over) harsh realities is the most helpful.

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  10 месяцев назад +6

      I agree…. Thank you for acknowledging that!

  • @leilamoon5879
    @leilamoon5879 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much iam happy I find you exactly what I feel

  • @ambrosesalangkan6707
    @ambrosesalangkan6707 6 месяцев назад

    Good info for me tangks very much

  • @sherrifarris7312
    @sherrifarris7312 5 месяцев назад +3

    I have been in therapy through the VA for years and what I love is that this short video helped to incapsulate so much if my counseling. Validation for what I've been shown and doing. And good reminders of what to emphasize moving forward.

  • @stacyburrell13
    @stacyburrell13 5 месяцев назад +4

    I applaud you for saying that!! The hardest thing to admit is feeling powerless but now I feel validated and liberated ❤. Thank you soooooo much!!

  • @instigatorbear9250
    @instigatorbear9250 7 месяцев назад

    Thank youn

  • @twinklesal889
    @twinklesal889 16 дней назад

    I just love the way you explained about anxiety❤❤❤

  • @woodman2269
    @woodman2269 5 месяцев назад +9

    Best explanation about anxiety EVER !!!...... Thank you for making this..

  • @Mommabearslots
    @Mommabearslots 4 месяца назад +1

    This really helped thank you

  • @luvwings
    @luvwings Месяц назад +1

    I needed this thanks

  • @babygonda1226
    @babygonda1226 7 месяцев назад +8

    You are talking to me🥲 iim fed up, tired, helpless.. trying to think of positive thoughts but negatives keep on coming.. i said to myself STOP... GOD🙏 please give me strength.. my stomach goes acidic and my. digestive system goes hand in hand... partners in crime.... having constipation/diarrhea

    • @Whogivesafuck79
      @Whogivesafuck79 6 месяцев назад +2

      Don't worry everything will be ok, try to talk with your loved ones .

  • @Jarl_egbert
    @Jarl_egbert Месяц назад

    Best explanation of CBT ive heard, thank you.

  • @gawapawa
    @gawapawa 3 месяца назад

    This video helped me so much. Thank you.

  • @natet5959
    @natet5959 4 месяца назад +5

    Thanks! This really helped me today. It made me realize that anxious thoughts are just thoughts.

  • @lalithakrishnamurthy9663
    @lalithakrishnamurthy9663 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this valuable insight on this topic I really needed it!thanks for sharing!

  • @urbanfireblade
    @urbanfireblade 3 месяца назад

    This was really helpful to listen to. Thanks

  • @aliveslice
    @aliveslice 5 месяцев назад +4

    4:28 6:49 8:30 11:50 14:40

  • @CampfireStorieswithUncleJake
    @CampfireStorieswithUncleJake 4 месяца назад

    Man! Awesome! Thank u

  • @smiley1958
    @smiley1958 4 месяца назад

    Wow thank you for this...just came across this channel!❤

  • @annettenoga6182
    @annettenoga6182 6 месяцев назад +21

    Wow! You put it into context with two words certainty and control. What has helped me is to look at my thoughts and sit with the emotion because it does pass, but in that moment you don't think it will. Mediation, a deal breaker, journaling, putting down your thoughts has really helped. At the end of the day, trying to just live in the Now moment is what I'm trying to achieve and not worry about the "what if's".🤗💖

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  6 месяцев назад +2

      thanks for sharing what has helped you, which will help others! ❤

    • @lily_m3538
      @lily_m3538 3 месяца назад +2

      Completely identify with that.

    • @s.d.a.d.r8538
      @s.d.a.d.r8538 2 месяца назад

      That is 100% correct...live this moment...🙂🙂🙂

  • @feliciamski4328
    @feliciamski4328 3 месяца назад +2

    I battle CD and I am struggling to break this behavior. I really like what you have to say. You explain to were I can understand .

  • @ivebel3966
    @ivebel3966 3 месяца назад +3

    this video made me feel the most calm i’ve felt in a while. thank you so much! i wrote your advice down and i can’t wait to put it in practice!❤

  • @cynthiaberen442
    @cynthiaberen442 25 дней назад

    Wow, powerful stuff and so needed! Thank you! 🙏🙌 😍

  • @gardenialeeman4932
    @gardenialeeman4932 5 месяцев назад +5

    Excellent explanation! So logic! Yo made me feel at easy. You are telling me that I have control over this! I never thought it that way! It absolutely makes sense! Thank you very much Barbara! God Bless you!

  • @nikhilpawar7648
    @nikhilpawar7648 5 месяцев назад

    You are the best....

  • @megblackwolf5470
    @megblackwolf5470 4 месяца назад +4

    I really appreciate you. Thank you for making these. It's immensely helpful for someone who struggles a lot of anxiety.

  • @RP-mm9ie
    @RP-mm9ie 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks 😮

  • @VictorCanilang-xr7yp
    @VictorCanilang-xr7yp 4 месяца назад

    Very good explanation thanks be to God

  • @sukhmanicambridge
    @sukhmanicambridge 4 месяца назад +3

    Brilliant advice! Loved this so much. Helpful, real, informed. Thank you ❤

  • @michaeltmike
    @michaeltmike 4 месяца назад +2

    Yes definitely needed this! I’m wanting to do so much in the entertainment business and I’m realizing some things about myself.

  • @soniadodson6173
    @soniadodson6173 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much you have helped me see the causes. Thank you, ⚘ ❤

  • @paramedicchrisbookseries
    @paramedicchrisbookseries 2 месяца назад

    Really helpful, thank you

  • @lily_m3538
    @lily_m3538 3 месяца назад +4

    Very logical and makes sense. So right about the lack of control and worrying about something that can't be controlled. You really verbalised anxiety exactly.

    • @annettenoga6182
      @annettenoga6182 3 месяца назад +1

      Hope u tried some techniques , but be patient because it takes time , effort and persistence. Anxiety can rob us from living. Good luck!

  • @richardroyster405
    @richardroyster405 Месяц назад

    I could watch this five times and learn something every time. Thank you!

  • @krutibhavsar9534
    @krutibhavsar9534 5 месяцев назад +2

    Bless you Barbara 😢
    My eyes started dripping as I was watching this. Its really hard...

  • @rolandovillareal4385
    @rolandovillareal4385 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Barbra! This episode was very helpful!

  • @hyperskygirl
    @hyperskygirl Месяц назад

    Interested in the ODD one and ty so much for helping us ❤

  • @kasicoleman1012
    @kasicoleman1012 3 месяца назад +1

    Glad I came across this video. I will definitely be looking at your other videos.

  • @michellehill8336
    @michellehill8336 5 месяцев назад +6

    Barbara, PLEASE do a video on anxiety around OCD please . I need it for help with a family member. Thank you

  • @jibraeelkhandurrani1237
    @jibraeelkhandurrani1237 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you. It was really helpful 😊

  • @Ginny77
    @Ginny77 3 месяца назад

    Yes very interested in OCD anxiety!

  • @rebranded1248
    @rebranded1248 2 месяца назад +2

    Love the format when you explain things. Very clear and easy to follow. You use great examples
    that are easily relatable to the viewer to get your point across. Excellent.

  • @geralldus
    @geralldus 3 месяца назад

    This is really difficult to imagine doing but sounds very helpful... thank you.

  • @chrissyj9712
    @chrissyj9712 8 месяцев назад

    All I can say is.. THANK YOU!

  • @shahba2020
    @shahba2020 5 месяцев назад +2

    Love your style, just found you… when I went through my worst depression and Anxiety period, I did that box trick, it really helped, now I make my brain like you said think of a happy place, and what really helped me pretending like the Anxiety is a person and dear him/ her to beat me in my feelings, hey I will never let anyone win 😁

  • @lynnkandola6220
    @lynnkandola6220 5 месяцев назад +2

    I think you found me !amazing. I deal with this constantly
    You explain this so well❤️

  • @BobZombie8806
    @BobZombie8806 9 месяцев назад +7

    My problem is “what if”. It hijacks all my attempts to calm myself. “Yeah, it’s probably not cancer. Cancer is very unlikely. But what if it is?”

    • @Arrasel
      @Arrasel 7 месяцев назад +3

      Same for me
      While depressed people wish to die, we worry we may die

    • @Let785
      @Let785 15 дней назад +1

      What if it isn’t?

  • @stacielivinthedream8510
    @stacielivinthedream8510 2 месяца назад +1

    This was actually immensely informative! I'm saving as a reminder! Thank you, Barbara! 💎

  • @jineshera3328
    @jineshera3328 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ma'am for effective session 😊😊😊