Bravo sis! Only strong women like us can stay single and live alone. I love my single life. I isolate myself from the Hmong community so I can live life peacefully and love myself fully without Hmong toxic words. God bless you and continue to stay strong!
Ntuj os teb.....cov viv ncaus kuv es yuav ib zaug txiv xwb twb txaus lawm. Raug cov dev lwj kas no tsim ib zaug xwb txaus lawm. Kuv dim plaws kuv niag txiv dev ces kuv yeej tsis ntsia ib tug txiv neej los Tau 10 tawm xyoo no lawm os. Thaum kuv dim plaws kuv muaj 28 xyoo xwb nawb..nim no kuv muaj 43 xyoo los kuv yeej tshem tsis tau txoj kev ntxub txiv neej li. 😢 pom txhua tus txiv neej hmoob mas zoo li tus dab lwj kas rau kuv xwb.
Good job sis! You picked yourself up and became independent. I rather be single than be with a cheater or a lazy bum. Marriage is a partnership that helps you carry the weight. If your partner holds you back or becomes dead weight, better to kick him off and keep moving forward. 👏
Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncau yus nyob yus kaj siab dua os kuv ces lub neej yeej zoo tsis txawv koj li lawm dhuav dhuav txiv neej heev lawm thiab os
I am twice divorced. Lub npe pujnrauj yeej ua rua yug nyuajsab kawg. Txawm tsi xaav tau los tau lawm. Tseem nrauj 2 zag lawm hab. Ib tim puab 2 tim yug. Txawm tsi muaj leejtwg yuav kuv lawm lov kuv yuav tsi tu sab lawm hab. Yug laug2 lawm yug yuav hloov tsi tau rua lwm tug lawm. I'm set in my ways too far and too deep. It just irritates me now. Raising my 7 grandkids is ENUFF for me...head ache txaus lawm os. I don't want to worry my parents anymore either....but sov tej laug tes yeejj tseem naj nub myuaj sab rua yug le os. Nub kws yug qe hlo qhov muawg tsi ncu txug nplajteb tej kev nyuaj sab lawm txha le yog nub dlim lawm xwb os.
👏🏻 Tus Viv ncaus aws, I'm heading to the same path as you soon. In my 40s now and I am not built to be a nyaab and I do not have the patience to start over into another in-laws family. Good to know women like this exists rau qho tsis yog yus ib leeg thaj le xaav le nuav xwb os.
Love this life story! Very inspiring. Marriage life ain't for me anymore as well. Life is so much better & stress-free without a husband & in laws etc. Love ourselves sisters! We can do anything without a husband as well! ❤❤❤
Hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua yus lub neej thiaj li kaj siab tsis nco mob siab lwj siab li cov muaj tug nawb mog ib tsoom me viv ncaus. Kuv twb yog ib tug nkauj nrab los tau 6 lub xyoo no kuv tseem kaj siab dua muaj tus txiv nyob ntawd twb tsis hlub tsis pab os..nco qab ntsoov tias yus khwv tau them tau nuj nqi yus nyob tau yus ces yus xum nyob yus xwb zoo dua nawb mog..txhob cia ib tug txiv neej twg los cem yus hais lus saib tsis taus yus os tsoom me viv ncaus. ❤
koj xav yog lawm os tus sister aw. Xav kom peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm thiab muab lub siab tawv es ntxawj hlub lawv tus keej li koj hlub koj thiab os. Thov kom koj tau ib lub neej zoo siab thiab rog kev hlub rau ib tug es hlub hlub koj thiab cov me nyuam os.
My sister, you are a very smart woman , I’m proud of you. As one of you brothers, my wife has been through the same situation with her X. She went back to school after her divorce and got her masters as a nurse practitioner. We both are working, her field is medical, and my is law enforcement.
Niam lau aw ca kuv txoj kev nyuaj siab txij nkawm tsi pab yuav zoo nkaus li koj thiab os luag tus txiv pab2 luag ce luag twb tsibnkag siab yus txoj kev xav li os
Nyob li ko thiaj Kai siab os me muam vim koj Yeej coj Yog lawm tab sis koj tseem Yuav los rau Tom ntej no os mog Txhob qaug zog thiab Txhob tag kev cia Siab nawj💖💖
Sorry for the lady in the story to have had this terrible experience. Glad she was able to remove herself from those unfortunate circumstances. There are still good Hmong men out there. Don't let a few bad apples generalize us. Moreover, a good lesson here is to pick a good partner before marrying them. That's critical!
Kuv tuaj tim nplog tuaj xyoo2022 txoj kev xyaum tsheb kuv ib hli kuv tu txiv coj kuv mu xyaum ob peb zaug xwb thaum paub kiag tia kuv yuav mu xeem tshuav ib hli ntawv ce kuv tu txiv g kam coj kuv mu xyaum g pub kuv tshav tsheb li kuv lo kuv mu xeem g tau kuv daim license nw cem kuv rúm g muaj ruam xwb permit tag sij hawm ce cia li g tau mu xeem ntxiv lawm nij hnub no kuv tu txiv twb g kam coj kuv mu khib permit ntxiv lawm tu siab tshaj
We all desire a good man or woman, but don't know what that is. Reflect on yourself. What is it that you enjoy doing that is not self destructive? Look at your good habits, and the bad habits you want to rid yourself of. From there, you can clearly prevent undesirable individuals from coming into your life.
I’m so proud of you, sister ❤ you are such a strong and independent woman. I’m glad you stood up and fight! Stay strong and yes!! Love yourself ❤ Thanks for sharing this inspiring story 😊
Vim txiv neeg zoo li no, peb thiaj tsis xav yuav txiv li lawm. Everything is you, kids los you li sov li lau. If you can do everything yourself, then you dont need that useless man. They thought they brought you to be their moneypocket. SMH. Show them, MEN, what we got! 😎
Koj xaiv yog lawm os vim koj thiab kuv ces tsis muaj hmoo yuav tau tsawg tus los zoo li qub xwb yus nyob yus thiaj tsis muaj neeg cem yus os cia yus hlub yus xwb txhob tos lwmtus hlub yus
Txaus siab kawg pov khawv kawg nkaus lawm lau leej twg yuav ua pojnrauj lub siab yuav tsum loj los loj tawv los tawv heev los heev li tus sister no mas kuv tsuas hais tias pov khawv kawg no nawb vim kuv twb yog ib tug ntawm ntawd thiab kuv tshwm sim tuaj nyob lub tebchaws miskas no kuv twb 3 tug txiv lawm tiag tab sis tsis tau muaj ib tug txiv es yuav cev ib phav rau kuv sab tes li nawb ib phav mas yog qhov ntau 500 twb tsis tau txais los ntawm ib tug txiv na es tsuas yog tau nws niag yob xwb na yog li kuv ham tsis ua kiag li tus sister no zaj los mas lawv
txiv neej hmoob 1975 ces uas dabtsi los tsi haum lawv siab li os ntse ib zaug los ntxub ruam ib zaug los lawv ntxub cia rau cos niam mos ab muab lawv tsim thiab zoo xwb
unbelievable, no husband is better than having a great husband. You must think about yourself, how much, how well you are. Remember that Earth 🌎 is building humans as a couple of families.
vim hais tias yus pheej xaiv tus yus nyiam ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus liam liam yus pheej xaiv tus yus hlub hlub ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus tub nkeeg li qub.
Best to be single and be independent on your own! Who needs these lazy and cheating men! Good for you for realizing you’re worth more than that & will never settle for less again.
Lub neej nim no yus khwv tau txaus yus thiab yus tub yus ki lawm ces tus txij nkawm uas TSIS los ntxiv tsuas los rho xwb ces tsis need li lawm os. Ntov ntoo, txiv nyom, kho vaj tsev, kho tsheb, ua luag (bodyguard) muaj ntiav pawg lug. Nyiaj ntiav ces services tiav. Tuag ces kawg faus los hlawv, nyiaj txog ces tiav. Zoo tshaj muaj niag txij nkawm lwj kas
Koj thiaj li ua yog ho, kuv kiag los yog luaj tsis hlub kuv mas ib nrauj 10 zaus los kuv yeej nrauj li nawb. Kev nrauj no twb tsis yog nrauj tus zoo tawm ne, nws yog tshem tus neeg phem tawm ntawm yus xwb nawb. Ib yam li kev ua hauj lwm ne, hnub no koj ua tsis tau company txoj hauj lwm rau company lawm ces lawv rho koj tawm es nrhiav tus tshiab los ua xwb.
Bravo sis! Only strong women like us can stay single and live alone. I love my single life. I isolate myself from the Hmong community so I can live life peacefully and love myself fully without Hmong toxic words. God bless you and continue to stay strong!
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Ntuj os teb.....cov viv ncaus kuv es yuav ib zaug txiv xwb twb txaus lawm. Raug cov dev lwj kas no tsim ib zaug xwb txaus lawm. Kuv dim plaws kuv niag txiv dev ces kuv yeej tsis ntsia ib tug txiv neej los Tau 10 tawm xyoo no lawm os. Thaum kuv dim plaws kuv muaj 28 xyoo xwb nawb..nim no kuv muaj 43 xyoo los kuv yeej tshem tsis tau txoj kev ntxub txiv neej li. 😢 pom txhua tus txiv neej hmoob mas zoo li tus dab lwj kas rau kuv xwb.
Viv ncaus aw!!! Nrog koj zoo siab os. Koj yog ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm heev li. Thov qhua koj os mog.
Good job sis! You picked yourself up and became independent. I rather be single than be with a cheater or a lazy bum. Marriage is a partnership that helps you carry the weight. If your partner holds you back or becomes dead weight, better to kick him off and keep moving forward. 👏
Yog laim os ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Love this story. You speak for all of us! ♥️
Koj hai yog lawm o
👍👍👍👍👍
❤❤❤❤❤
Yes ! We love an independent Hmong queen!!! Thank you for teaching our Hmong women that we are worth it!
Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncau yus nyob yus kaj siab dua os kuv ces lub neej yeej zoo tsis txawv koj li lawm dhuav dhuav txiv neej heev lawm thiab os
Good job 👏 ❤🎉!!! I’m proud of you as a single Hmong woman who has become strong for yourself and your children. Wishing you all the . Best!!
One strong lady…standing up for herself! Bravo!!!
Hais yog kawg li os
I am twice divorced. Lub npe pujnrauj yeej ua rua yug nyuajsab kawg. Txawm tsi xaav tau los tau lawm. Tseem nrauj 2 zag lawm hab. Ib tim puab 2 tim yug. Txawm tsi muaj leejtwg yuav kuv lawm lov kuv yuav tsi tu sab lawm hab. Yug laug2 lawm yug yuav hloov tsi tau rua lwm tug lawm. I'm set in my ways too far and too deep. It just irritates me now. Raising my 7 grandkids is ENUFF for me...head ache txaus lawm os. I don't want to worry my parents anymore either....but sov tej laug tes yeejj tseem naj nub myuaj sab rua yug le os. Nub kws yug qe hlo qhov muawg tsi ncu txug nplajteb tej kev nyuaj sab lawm txha le yog nub dlim lawm xwb os.
👏🏻 Tus Viv ncaus aws, I'm heading to the same path as you soon. In my 40s now and I am not built to be a nyaab and I do not have the patience to start over into another in-laws family. Good to know women like this exists rau qho tsis yog yus ib leeg thaj le xaav le nuav xwb os.
Being single is great, no one to tell u what to do, u can do whatever you like. The only bad thing is when u are old you will be lonely.
We love a strong, independent woman! 👏🏻
Love this life story! Very inspiring. Marriage life ain't for me anymore as well. Life is so much better & stress-free without a husband & in laws etc. Love ourselves sisters! We can do anything without a husband as well! ❤❤❤
Never give up searching for a good man. He's out there some where.
That good doesn’t have to be Hmong!
Bravo niam laus
Wow! What a strong woman you are! Kudos to you. A Nurse Practitioner, it is!!
This story hit me hard
That's right, people who don't work are people who don't have responsibility.
I prouded to you girl be happy for yourself.
Hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua yus lub neej thiaj li kaj siab tsis nco mob siab lwj siab li cov muaj tug nawb mog ib tsoom me viv ncaus. Kuv twb yog ib tug nkauj nrab los tau 6 lub xyoo no kuv tseem kaj siab dua muaj tus txiv nyob ntawd twb tsis hlub tsis pab os..nco qab ntsoov tias yus khwv tau them tau nuj nqi yus nyob tau yus ces yus xum nyob yus xwb zoo dua nawb mog..txhob cia ib tug txiv neej twg los cem yus hais lus saib tsis taus yus os tsoom me viv ncaus. ❤
Stay strong sister- sometimes being single is better then a unhealthy marriage
Yg lm poj niam thiaj nkag siab xb o❤❤
Wow! I’m a man myself and I like your thinking
Yog tshaj
Kuv txoj kev ces zoo li koj hais ko mi niam tais ua lub neej tuag tsis tu siav es tuag tsi lwj xwb os mog😂
Love yourself, our lady. Being single is healthy. If you love yourself enough, you dont need to be a man who keeps abused .
koj xav yog lawm os tus sister aw. Xav kom peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm thiab muab lub siab tawv es ntxawj hlub lawv tus keej li koj hlub koj thiab os. Thov kom koj tau ib lub neej zoo siab thiab rog kev hlub rau ib tug es hlub hlub koj thiab cov me nyuam os.
Yup thats my thinking.
Amen sister! I have the same mind thinking like you. ❤
Kuv Kuj yog ib tug ua lub neej zoo li koj lub thiab tsis yog yus ib leeg xwb..
True
No more stressful 😣
Life is bills
No working hard
No money
Peb cov poj niam yeej raug tsim li no
Tus viv ncau kj lub neej ces zoo ib yam kv lub thiab os
Koj paub txog peb poj niam zoo kawg li lawm os
Koj ua Yog kawg li lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw. Yog Kuv los yeej ib yam nkaus thiab.
My sister, you are a very smart woman , I’m proud of you. As one of you brothers, my wife has been through the same situation with her X. She went back to school after her divorce and got her masters as a nurse practitioner. We both are working, her field is medical, and my is law enforcement.
I feel you sister. Everything you say is correct. I tell my husband everyday that an independent Hmong women don't need a man.
Niam lau aw ca kuv txoj kev nyuaj siab txij nkawm tsi pab yuav zoo nkaus li koj thiab os luag tus txiv pab2 luag ce luag twb tsibnkag siab yus txoj kev xav li os
Totally can relate to the bills part…I feel you….stay strong…thanks for being a good role model
Nyob ko thiaj g mob hlwb os..tiam tshiab no g nuaj txiv zoo lawm os
I'm glad you living for your own happiness.
Good story ❤
Sister aw yuav qhov yus muaj nyiaj xwb thiab yus kaj siab xwb muaj txhua yam zoo xwb.
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Hlub yus tus kheej kom ntau ntau thiaj li tsis mob
Yog koj nqhis nqaij ces tuaj peb mus noj tom Lab👍hais raug siab tiag koj ua yog lawm Thanks for sharing
Good story!!
Tus txiv lim hiam zoo li no tsis tas yuav li os
Zoo kawg qhov koj nrauj tau lawm thiab koj ua yog tshaj plaws lawm.
Yus nyob yus kaj siab khwv nyiaj coj yus cov menyuam mus vacation xwb kaj siab tshaj os !
Nyob li ko thiaj Kai siab os me muam vim koj Yeej coj Yog lawm tab sis koj tseem Yuav los rau Tom ntej no os mog Txhob qaug zog thiab Txhob tag kev cia Siab nawj💖💖
So proud of you. You're an inspiration.
There is nothing wrong with being a single independent woman. Life is less stressful without all the bs from horrible toxic men.
Zoo kawg !!! Nyob li koj xwb thiaj kaj siab niam Sayao!
Cas zaj dab neeg no yuav zoo li yus lub neej thiab os
Good job girl!👍👍👏👏❤❤❤
Good for you lady..learn to love and respect urself..forget the pathetic hmong culture and beliefs..we need more people like u
Tus Viv ncuas ib tus txiv neej Zoo li koj xwb ces txob nyob lawm os
Dayam! Love ur final message to the Facebook troll!!! ❤😂
So true! Good for you for showing those people who you are, and standing up for yourself!
Koj yog tshaj plaws li os viv ncaus aw!❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
Sorry for the lady in the story to have had this terrible experience. Glad she was able to remove herself from those unfortunate circumstances. There are still good Hmong men out there. Don't let a few bad apples generalize us. Moreover, a good lesson here is to pick a good partner before marrying them. That's critical!
You’re my role model!
Kuv tuaj tim nplog tuaj xyoo2022 txoj kev xyaum tsheb kuv ib hli kuv tu txiv coj kuv mu xyaum ob peb zaug xwb thaum paub kiag tia kuv yuav mu xeem tshuav ib hli ntawv ce kuv tu txiv g kam coj kuv mu xyaum g pub kuv tshav tsheb li kuv lo kuv mu xeem g tau kuv daim license nw cem kuv rúm g muaj ruam xwb permit tag sij hawm ce cia li g tau mu xeem ntxiv lawm nij hnub no kuv tu txiv twb g kam coj kuv mu khib permit ntxiv lawm tu siab tshaj
If you don't ever walk into her shoes, you'll never know. Keep on going, sister, loving yourself and your babies.
We all desire a good man or woman, but don't know what that is. Reflect on yourself. What is it that you enjoy doing that is not self destructive? Look at your good habits, and the bad habits you want to rid yourself of. From there, you can clearly prevent undesirable individuals from coming into your life.
muaj peev xwm npaum kom. koj haig yog kawg.tug thuam2 koj kom. tsw ntev tau ua yawg nrauj mas 😂😂😂
Sister yus 2 lub eyeballs zoo li cas ces yeej xaiv tus zoo li niag qub xwb os.
Tus zoo niam tsev kuv yog txiv neej. Tab sis kuv thov tuaj tog vim koj ua tau zoo heev lawm
I’m so proud of you, sister ❤ you are such a strong and independent woman. I’m glad you stood up and fight! Stay strong and yes!! Love yourself ❤ Thanks for sharing this inspiring story 😊
Sounds like you’re telling my life story. 😢
Vim txiv neeg zoo li no, peb thiaj tsis xav yuav txiv li lawm. Everything is you, kids los you li sov li lau. If you can do everything yourself, then you dont need that useless man. They thought they brought you to be their moneypocket. SMH. Show them, MEN, what we got! 😎
Happy for you sis ❤
Koj yog ib tug Muam zoo, tu siab koj ntsib cov yawm yij tsi kib cuab.
Tu me niam laus aw....ca kj yv hais yg tshaj plaws li os kv ce xav li koj hais thb o kv ce g k txiv neej lm thb o
Sweet story. I can relate to you.
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Koj xaiv yog lawm os vim koj thiab kuv ces tsis muaj hmoo yuav tau tsawg tus los zoo li qub xwb yus nyob yus thiaj tsis muaj neeg cem yus os cia yus hlub yus xwb txhob tos lwmtus hlub yus
Txaus siab kawg pov khawv kawg nkaus lawm lau leej twg yuav ua pojnrauj lub siab yuav tsum loj los loj tawv los tawv heev los heev li tus sister no mas kuv tsuas hais tias pov khawv kawg no nawb vim kuv twb yog ib tug ntawm ntawd thiab kuv tshwm sim tuaj nyob lub tebchaws miskas no kuv twb 3 tug txiv lawm tiag tab sis tsis tau muaj ib tug txiv es yuav cev ib phav rau kuv sab tes li nawb ib phav mas yog qhov ntau 500 twb tsis tau txais los ntawm ib tug txiv na es tsuas yog tau nws niag yob xwb na yog li kuv ham tsis ua kiag li tus sister no zaj los mas lawv
Ua cas thaum yus nrhiav ib tu poj niam zoo zoo ces yuav nrhiav tsi pom tsi tau ua cas thiab no kuv ho tsi myaj mloo tau ib tu hlub hlub yus
txiv neej hmoob 1975 ces uas dabtsi los tsi haum lawv siab li os ntse ib zaug los ntxub ruam ib zaug los lawv ntxub cia rau cos niam mos ab muab lawv tsim thiab zoo xwb
unbelievable, no husband is better than having a great husband. You must think about yourself, how much, how well you are. Remember that Earth 🌎 is building humans as a couple of families.
Facts! 💯
vim hais tias yus pheej xaiv tus yus nyiam ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus liam liam yus pheej xaiv tus yus hlub hlub ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus tub nkeeg li qub.
Koj twb tsab ntse diam cas koj ho mloog niam pog txiv yawg, niam tais yawm txiv, neej tsa lawv hais ?
Tsis hais txiv neej los sis pojniam tus neeg liam ces txawm koj yuav muab pes tsawg zaus chance los nws yeej yuav hloov tsis tau los ua neeg zoo hlo li, nkim koj lub sijhawm xwb ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb.
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Best to be single and be independent on your own! Who needs these lazy and cheating men! Good for you for realizing you’re worth more than that & will never settle for less again.
Viv ncaus cas koj thiab kuv cas zoo ib yam kiag nas lo tsis muaj neeg pab li yus khwv rau yus noj xwb luag yeej tsis pab li nawb
So true I'm agree with you sis...!!! I'm in ur shoe.
Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for your own actions and life. Only you can live your life.
Sister Muaj txij nkawm zoo dua hos….but you can be whoever you want that’s your choice
Lub neej nim no yus khwv tau txaus yus thiab yus tub yus ki lawm ces tus txij nkawm uas TSIS los ntxiv tsuas los rho xwb ces tsis need li lawm os. Ntov ntoo, txiv nyom, kho vaj tsev, kho tsheb, ua luag (bodyguard) muaj ntiav pawg lug. Nyiaj ntiav ces services tiav. Tuag ces kawg faus los hlawv, nyiaj txog ces tiav. Zoo tshaj muaj niag txij nkawm lwj kas
Tus txiv dev zoo li tu no ma said phem kawg txiv dev xwb os
Ntshe yuav tau ua zaj no lawm xwb os
Hais yog tshaj is sister kuv regret hais tias ua cas kuv tsis ntxov nrauj xwb
Koj thiaj li ua yog ho, kuv kiag los yog luaj tsis hlub kuv mas ib nrauj 10 zaus los kuv yeej nrauj li nawb. Kev nrauj no twb tsis yog nrauj tus zoo tawm ne, nws yog tshem tus neeg phem tawm ntawm yus xwb nawb.
Ib yam li kev ua hauj lwm ne, hnub no koj ua tsis tau company txoj hauj lwm rau company lawm ces lawv rho koj tawm es nrhiav tus tshiab los ua xwb.
Tus txiv neej ntawv ces ntshe nqs yog ib tug yawgneauj tab koj tsi paub nws xwb os..