The Heart Wants What It Wants- Selena Gomez REACTION from Narcissist Survivor

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
  • I have always found this song relatable in my experience with a narcissist I dated. Immediately, when this song came out I was on RUclips watching the music video and watching her perform it on an award show where she cried on stage and I'm sure I was crying while watching too. This song spoke to me and it's nice to know that I'm not alone in this experience and heartache and trauma. It's powerful and also heart wrenching.
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Комментарии • 19

  • @michellelasorsa5889
    @michellelasorsa5889 Год назад +3

    You win when you decide to walk away!!

  • @lilamaria4046
    @lilamaria4046 3 года назад +21

    there is a extend version of the intro, you shoud watch it

  • @Sarah-nw6su
    @Sarah-nw6su 3 года назад +34

    I loved you reaction and analysis so much! Selena went through so much sh!t during all these almost 10 years of relationship with that guy (who we all know who he is). All the psychological abuse, being cheated on every time, apologizing him over and over again, she developed depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, and had her confidence broken, her love for herself, and on top of that she had lupus and a kidney transplant.... As someone who has been a fan of hers for 12 years, I am so relieved, so proud of her, to have gone through all of this, to be alive, to use her voice to talk about mental health, to sing about recognizing that you are rare, that you matter. Her recent interviews are so good because now she knows she deserves better, she deserves someone who treats her better than he does. I know she still has a long way to go, to improve her confidence back, to increase her self-love, her self-respect, but I am already proud of her. Unfortunately, the internet still bodyshames her, still tries to put her as a crazy ex-girlfriend, as someone who is exaggerating, or is lying. But I hope she will ignore them now.

    • @CaitlinMaharg11
      @CaitlinMaharg11  3 года назад +9

      Thank you! I relate to Selena so much and I have for years. I could tell her and I had similar experiences based on her music and interviews for years. And she seems so at peace these days! Definitely proud of her as well.

  • @magicgirl2484
    @magicgirl2484 3 года назад +25

    I feel you’re describing her song “Kinda Crazy“

    • @CaitlinMaharg11
      @CaitlinMaharg11  3 года назад +3

      I can definitely relate to that song too! I'll have a reaction to it up in the next week or two

  • @benjamins.1714
    @benjamins.1714 3 года назад +30

    React to Kinda Crazy by her, another song to analyze. It’s basically her realizing she’s not the one that’s crazy!
    great reaction

    • @CaitlinMaharg11
      @CaitlinMaharg11  3 года назад +7

      Oh my goodness, I remember when I had that revelation haha! I'm definitely checking out that song

  • @Gametesteur12345
    @Gametesteur12345 3 года назад +13

    Your story made me cry so much.
    I hope you’re in a much better place right now. Sending so much love

  • @melda2277
    @melda2277 3 года назад +6

    this video broke my heart

  • @magicgirl2484
    @magicgirl2484 3 года назад +20

    React to Lose You To Love Me

    • @CaitlinMaharg11
      @CaitlinMaharg11  3 года назад +7

      I did! One of my first reaction video
      ruclips.net/video/T5ldCccOczY/видео.html

  • @isabellebrito4281
    @isabellebrito4281 3 года назад +8

    you should react to Cut You Off is her realizing this person was never good for her

  • @maryyarger8647
    @maryyarger8647 2 года назад +3

    I just came across this video. Did you know that when she released this song during an interview she was asked what JB thought of it and she said, He was mad about the male model in the video and wanted to know who he was. That says a lot about him. I don’t care about your feelings or what you are trying to say. I only care about my feelings of who you were close to in that video and I’m pissed. She dodged a bullet for sure

  • @zionroberts6592
    @zionroberts6592 6 месяцев назад +1

    Everyone say walk away but it to hard cause idk what she gonna do to herself. I feel trapped 😢🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @tatsumi2388
    @tatsumi2388 2 года назад +1

    Omg yeah. You explaining the call part is so relatable 😣 Then omg yeah, the gaslighting. I relate so much. It feels nice to relate to someone on this level. Idk if you’ve reacted to traitor by Olivia Rodrigo, but that song is relatable af too. The lyrics are so powerful. (Nvmd I see you have, gonna watch that now. 🙈)

  • @ibegtosaythat
    @ibegtosaythat 2 года назад +1

    im a narcissist and when i HAD started to change myself then a month LATER my girl and I broke up, i was changing myself alot tho

  • @hadilturkay5240
    @hadilturkay5240 3 года назад +2

    💙💙💙