Why do women think that after they have their "One night of fun" things will all go back to normal, sorry lady but men don't work that way. And worst of all she did the one thing I absolutely loath, she accused him of being immature. when I was younger I had a girlfriend tell me I was being immature because I would not forgive her for her "Little mistake". She got blackout drunk at a party and slept with 2 men at the same time. One of the men later bragged that they DPed her. Ever since then when woman calls me immature for being jealous, I turn the tables on them and show them just how immature I can be.
You wouldn't take the time to think about why these feelings are suddenly brought to the surface? It's one thing to have fantasies and act on them, but when your partner tries to communicate with you about these fantasies and be ignored or belittled, it is another.
@@maureenclifford9783Yeah that’s understandable but you can communicate more and say “My needs are not being met, I will need to break up with you or find intimacy elsewhere if you can’t work with me”. You don’t have to lie and hide after claiming that “my needs weren’t getting met and you should have known from the way I acted/talked” when really it wasn’t directly said multiple times with a clear end result.
Why do people think that in an affair they are somehow special since they were “picked”? After you announce to someone you are married and if they continue to pursue you, they’ve shown you exactly what they think of you. Amazing how these idiots think this is going to last!
Helen was delusional. Faithful and good men DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE THEIR WIVES. She was obstinate in going out with Tommy Boy. As soon as she did, she broke the marriage vows and betrayed OP. OP's revenge plan was cunning. He exposed the affair to AP's wife Stella in real time. (Loved how she took him to the cleaners in their subsequent divorce!) Through the great work of the PI, OP found out this wasn't Tommy's first rodeo, but that he had affairs with several women in his office and broke up at least two other marriages. I love how he twisted the knife a little deeper in Helen's back each time he described his and Candy's sexcapades. He kept reminding her that going out on a date with her boyfriend Tommy Boy was a betrayal of the marriage vows, and he was wise in getting a post-nuptial agreement that was heavily in his favor. Loved the ending of how one of the betrayed husbands beat the crap out of Tommy Boy at a pub. (It was Douglas, the BH of Jennifer, with whom Tommy Boy was having an affair with.)
Helen actually betrayed her marriage some time before her date with Tommy. When she started having secret intimate conversations with Tommy, and kept it from POV, that was the initial betrayal. Everything else after that was just a continuation of that betrayal.
@@draconisdragonheart4248 he said he treated her like a queen, if that were true she wouldn't have done what she did, bet things were different from her perspective. not saying what she did was right though
For all that are reading comments 1st, he took her back after cheating. The story wants to paint him as getting even but it's too boring and typical. It's the typical weak husband who can't make a decision and ends up caving.
The marriage is over the second there's a declaration involving a third party. She stayed with him out of fear of being alone, not love. Why he took her back is beyond words.
What year did this take place? Ritz Carlton, for a $100 a night?I just looked it up and the average seems to bee around 400 a night for just the room.... no fees and taxes etc....
Eh, If this was like, in the 90s, than that might make more sense. In the 90s, there were vending machines that sold cans of soda for a quarter in my local Walmart. So it is possible, or at least plausible... Then again, I think this is clearly fiction, of based of of somewhat real events.
Ultimately, if they do not respect you, they don’t love you, because love contains and requires respect. You should not ever even date someone you do not respect. She would have eventually committed adultery, sure enough. The first step to going “out of love” is disrespect. Second one is too much proximity to a member of the opposite sex. Third one is CHOOSING and LOOKING for proximity to the member of the opposite sex. And then it’s just a matter of time. You can bank on it.
This is one of the things that happen when people marry too young & get pregnant too soon they start to realize they should've experienced life & people first.
That's why he should of just made sure all his stuff is protected file for divorce kicked her out got a restraining order on her changed the locks on your home protected your money frist option if you got kids get full custody of them so your kids want be staying with no other guy with your ex wife they be not allowed to be around him they only meet with they mom go out to eat look at a movie and back home keep them creeps away from the kids
Yes, she did commit adultery. I think the reason he didn't even talk to her after here request was because he knew she was no longer a faithful partner.
She, at minimum, cheated in her heart. That is where it started. She is thankless and defiled. And what Helen accused John of, being childish, weak, pouting, and a pushover, is actually her. Too late to ask forgiveness. John may forgive her in HIS time, but for his own peace of mind.
- This isn't a win for either of them. He will hate her for a very long time ad just about the time he starts to settle for what his new feelings are for her and settles, she will be getting over the relief of having him back and start to realize the complete life ofnear imprisonment levels of control ad resent and even despise him. With the way our society is going in terms of feminist politics and the cultural dissolving of anything even close to expectations of accountability its even likely that his treatment toward her will make him vulnerable to future legal action for emotional abuse and if she finds out Candi was a whore even frame it as a kind of assault to endanger her with potential STD's by bringing a sex worker into their marital bed. - They are poison to each other and its a chugg off now to see who downs the other first and all she really has to do is cry and say owie and the process of his destruction will begin. Since it sounds like he made the foolish decision to not make things transparent with his kids its also likely that any issues that arise later she will be able to run damage control and deny twist into a result of his manipulations and simply point to his malicious need and actions for revenge to make it sound plausible that he's always had a controlling and cruel side and she was lucky enough to appease him and hide it from the kids growing up ):
Smart to get a post nuptial agreement for suffering through the counseling for almost a month. But after another six months to a year just dumper ass! Neither of them will be able to forget the images they saw of their spouse with someone else, and no spouse wants to act like a parent instead of a partner. There can be no love without respect and they obviously don’t respect or trust each other anymore. Both are just prolonging their suffering, and should just end it with a divorce.
In my experience, I have found women say they are depressed when they are just bored.. find a hobby that isn't destroying families. Only after they realize they were just bored and that they destroyed the families involved is when the real depression kicks in.
i cheated once 3 months into our ongoing 17 year relationship. We're getting married this month. Once a cheater always a cheater is false. You can build a relationship back up over time.
He was a dog too because she didn't sleep with anyone in the house. She should have taken pictures of him in their house. He can't justify what he is doing in the house. He's no angel.
Finally one of these stories where the man is a man. They didn’t have sex, so that’s probably why he took her back. The only better story is the one where the husband is a hostage negotiator or something, that’s a great story
OP was alpha with men he works and interacts with, but a complete doormat with his wife. If he didn't spend 20 years being weak to his wife, none of this crap would have happened.
Million dollar landscaping business and $100 night at the Ritz Carlton is a big deal? When was this written in the 50's? At least he got some young tight cat 🐈
Ummm, it is a meDal, not metal of Honor. Metal is what cars and machinery are made out of. A Medal is an award for some act of courage or honor. pcguysoffgridcabin needs to purchase and learn to use a dictionary.
- They have been taught that even when they are married and in a partnership that they not just have complete agency to do as they please, but that also if its a decision made with the intention of getting what she wants it should also mean you are getting what you want as happy wife happy life.
@@Babidi111 well that's funny Last I checked if the husband isn't happy the wife isn't either, while the husband can be happy while the wife isn't. Still doesn't explain very well why they believe we will accept it.
@@DCD762 they were told by older divorced women and tumblr erotica of cucholdery and simp stories and its not generally out of line with their baseline behavior as previously single women. Most would or have already cheated who would think they could just tell their man that they are going to start operating that way anyway so its really just a slight bit further outside of what they usually get away with. - Some probably just can't resist trying to take it just that much further when some leather skinned divorced co worker sells her on the wisdom she garnered over 3 husbands and trust that they too can take back their power and have their man groveling at their feet if they just have the guts to insist upon it. Every bit of their experience on social media and Hollywood portrayals of husbands being pathetic buffoons and the stories of legions of Simps waiting for them to make an onlyfans page and make them millionaires, every toxic female therapist tells them they can have it all and be worshipped along the way, the entire family court system set up to reward them for violating their marriage contracts and encourage Single Motherhood and on and on it goes. There is no shortage of examples as well as their own experiences that all indicate to them that Men will accept that treatment.
The pure manipulation and gas lighting blame shifting by women break men ,this is what they do making men second third guess decisions especially wit kuds trifling this is what happens to guys . I woukd jyst be insulting to her all the time not infant of kids but it be making her cry all the time till she wanted to leave I'd stay till kids were out and have my fun still married but I would be so insulting.
its no wonder she found solace in another man, not saying what she did was right, but the fact the husband didn't know how she was feeling speaks volumes
@@ricardocamara7116 if you love someone, marry them, live with them if you don't know what makes them tick, understand them, be able to read them then you have a problem, i stand by what i said. people get too comfortable and maybe stop playing the attention that they used to, taking things for granted
It's eternally entertaining how many people will invest so much into an affair but so little into their marriage.
Why do women think that after they have their "One night of fun" things will all go back to normal, sorry lady but men don't work that way. And worst of all she did the one thing I absolutely loath, she accused him of being immature. when I was younger I had a girlfriend tell me I was being immature because I would not forgive her for her "Little mistake". She got blackout drunk at a party and slept with 2 men at the same time. One of the men later bragged that they DPed her. Ever since then when woman calls me immature for being jealous, I turn the tables on them and show them just how immature I can be.
Without respect for each other there is no marriage.
Been married since 1975 - if there is no respect for your spouse, there is NOT A MARRIAGE.
If you both signed the papers.. legally that is a marriage. Sadly
I wouldn't take her back
To me, the moment the thought of being with another man happened, she would be out of the door
You wouldn't take the time to think about why these feelings are suddenly brought to the surface? It's one thing to have fantasies and act on them, but when your partner tries to communicate with you about these fantasies and be ignored or belittled, it is another.
@@maureenclifford9783 That's what you tell yourself when you cheat?
@@maureenclifford9783Yeah that’s understandable but you can communicate more and say “My needs are not being met, I will need to break up with you or find intimacy elsewhere if you can’t work with me”. You don’t have to lie and hide after claiming that “my needs weren’t getting met and you should have known from the way I acted/talked” when really it wasn’t directly said multiple times with a clear end result.
Never beg, never cry in front of your wife or girlfriend. They will think you're weak and they walk all over you and think less of you.
Why do people think that in an affair they are somehow special since they were “picked”? After you announce to someone you are married and if they continue to pursue you, they’ve shown you exactly what they think of you. Amazing how these idiots think this is going to last!
Helen was delusional. Faithful and good men DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE THEIR WIVES. She was obstinate in going out with Tommy Boy. As soon as she did, she broke the marriage vows and betrayed OP. OP's revenge plan was cunning. He exposed the affair to AP's wife Stella in real time. (Loved how she took him to the cleaners in their subsequent divorce!) Through the great work of the PI, OP found out this wasn't Tommy's first rodeo, but that he had affairs with several women in his office and broke up at least two other marriages. I love how he twisted the knife a little deeper in Helen's back each time he described his and Candy's sexcapades. He kept reminding her that going out on a date with her boyfriend Tommy Boy was a betrayal of the marriage vows, and he was wise in getting a post-nuptial agreement that was heavily in his favor. Loved the ending of how one of the betrayed husbands beat the crap out of Tommy Boy at a pub. (It was Douglas, the BH of Jennifer, with whom Tommy Boy was having an affair with.)
Helen actually betrayed her marriage some time before her date with Tommy.
When she started having secret intimate conversations with Tommy, and kept it from POV, that was the initial betrayal. Everything else after that was just a continuation of that betrayal.
This is way too much text for a fake story, Jesus man
OPs wife was delusional!! She really thought OP would just accept her going on a date with another guy? That ending surprised me, thats for sure.
True, he treated her like a queen and she push it too far. She was an arrogant cheating idiot.
I would not have taken her back, his big mistake was agreeing to therapy.
@@davidbrown7589that's a free loyal 304 and much cheaper than divorce.
@@draconisdragonheart4248 he said he treated her like a queen, if that were true she wouldn't have done what she did, bet things were different from her perspective. not saying what she did was right though
If she wasn't happy she should have divorced him before cheating.@@greygreen5610
When in real life the man accepts the woman back, he must know that he will have a miserable and distrustful life.
For all that are reading comments 1st, he took her back after cheating. The story wants to paint him as getting even but it's too boring and typical. It's the typical weak husband who can't make a decision and ends up caving.
Hes a simp
Like a hopeful woman or the most forgiving cuck wrote this.
The marriage is over the second there's a declaration involving a third party. She stayed with him out of fear of being alone, not love. Why he took her back is beyond words.
What year did this take place? Ritz Carlton, for a $100 a night?I just looked it up and the average seems to bee around 400 a night for just the room.... no fees and taxes etc....
Eh, If this was like, in the 90s, than that might make more sense.
In the 90s, there were vending machines that sold cans of soda for a quarter in my local Walmart. So it is possible, or at least plausible... Then again, I think this is clearly fiction, of based of of somewhat real events.
Ultimately, if they do not respect you, they don’t love you, because love contains and requires respect. You should not ever even date someone you do not respect. She would have eventually committed adultery, sure enough. The first step to going “out of love” is disrespect. Second one is too much proximity to a member of the opposite sex. Third one is CHOOSING and LOOKING for proximity to the member of the opposite sex. And then it’s just a matter of time. You can bank on it.
She puts more effort into looking good for cheating than she does for him.
This is one of the things that happen when people marry too young & get pregnant too soon they start to realize they should've experienced life & people first.
This a interesting one Helen deserves it😂💯
"Her declaration of independence " 😂
That's why he should of just made sure all his stuff is protected file for divorce kicked her out got a restraining order on her changed the locks on your home protected your money frist option if you got kids get full custody of them so your kids want be staying with no other guy with your ex wife they be not allowed to be around him they only meet with they mom go out to eat look at a movie and back home keep them creeps away from the kids
I hear what you are saying, but please clean up your grammar and punctuation. Thanks!
She committed adultery even if she didn't have sex, her betrayal was beyond contempt!
Yes, she did commit adultery. I think the reason he didn't even talk to her after here request was because he knew she was no longer a faithful partner.
She, at minimum, cheated in her heart. That is where it started. She is thankless and defiled. And what Helen accused John of, being childish, weak, pouting, and a pushover, is actually her. Too late to ask forgiveness. John may forgive her in HIS time, but for his own peace of mind.
- This isn't a win for either of them. He will hate her for a very long time ad just about the time he starts to settle for what his new feelings are for her and settles, she will be getting over the relief of having him back and start to realize the complete life ofnear imprisonment levels of control ad resent and even despise him. With the way our society is going in terms of feminist politics and the cultural dissolving of anything even close to expectations of accountability its even likely that his treatment toward her will make him vulnerable to future legal action for emotional abuse and if she finds out Candi was a whore even frame it as a kind of assault to endanger her with potential STD's by bringing a sex worker into their marital bed.
- They are poison to each other and its a chugg off now to see who downs the other first and all she really has to do is cry and say owie and the process of his destruction will begin. Since it sounds like he made the foolish decision to not make things transparent with his kids its also likely that any issues that arise later she will be able to run damage control and deny twist into a result of his manipulations and simply point to his malicious need and actions for revenge to make it sound plausible that he's always had a controlling and cruel side and she was lucky enough to appease him and hide it from the kids growing up ):
Smart to get a post nuptial agreement for suffering through the counseling for almost a month. But after another six months to a year just dumper ass! Neither of them will be able to forget the images they saw of their spouse with someone else, and no spouse wants to act like a parent instead of a partner. There can be no love without respect and they obviously don’t respect or trust each other anymore. Both are just prolonging their suffering, and should just end it with a divorce.
In my experience, I have found women say they are depressed when they are just bored.. find a hobby that isn't destroying families. Only after they realize they were just bored and that they destroyed the families involved is when the real depression kicks in.
i cheated once 3 months into our ongoing 17 year relationship. We're getting married this month. Once a cheater always a cheater is false. You can build a relationship back up over time.
I wish he wouldn´t have begged her to not go. Other than that, it is one of the more entertaining novels.
The Ritz Carlton at $100 a night? How old is this story?
$400
$1,000
Lol! Exactly! 😆
Balmoral Edinburgh suite £2350 per night
Men don't care about emotional punishment but regret the physical punishment they meet up with 😂
Nice story....
He was a dog too because she didn't sleep with anyone in the house. She should have taken pictures of him in their house. He can't justify what he is doing in the house. He's no angel.
Damn brutal lol that was karma and than some lol loved it😂😂😂😂 flawless victory 😂😂
One of my favorites.
Finally one of these stories where the man is a man. They didn’t have sex, so that’s probably why he took her back. The only better story is the one where the husband is a hostage negotiator or something, that’s a great story
Ritz Carlton at $100 a night. Good story.
Holy shii that was savage 😂 Gaw dayum
If this is true, that woman is insane. Also, he's supposed to be her "friend", friends don't hold hands, rub body parts and kiss, among other things.
OP was alpha with men he works and interacts with, but a complete doormat with his wife. If he didn't spend 20 years being weak to his wife, none of this crap would have happened.
Million dollar landscaping business and $100 night at the Ritz Carlton is a big deal? When was this written in the 50's?
At least he got some young tight cat 🐈
Upgrade this guys man card to Metal of Honor.
Ummm, it is a meDal, not metal of Honor. Metal is what cars and machinery are made out of. A Medal is an award for some act of courage or honor. pcguysoffgridcabin needs to purchase and learn to use a dictionary.
@@perindne typo
Ritz Carlton $100 per night, evidently this story took place in the 1930s.
Why women now believe that if they tell us, agreeing or not is not cheating?
- They have been taught that even when they are married and in a partnership that they not just have complete agency to do as they please, but that also if its a decision made with the intention of getting what she wants it should also mean you are getting what you want as happy wife happy life.
@@Babidi111 well that's funny
Last I checked if the husband isn't happy the wife isn't either, while the husband can be happy while the wife isn't.
Still doesn't explain very well why they believe we will accept it.
@@DCD762 they were told by older divorced women and tumblr erotica of cucholdery and simp stories and its not generally out of line with their baseline behavior as previously single women. Most would or have already cheated who would think they could just tell their man that they are going to start operating that way anyway so its really just a slight bit further outside of what they usually get away with.
- Some probably just can't resist trying to take it just that much further when some leather skinned divorced co worker sells her on the wisdom she garnered over 3 husbands and trust that they too can take back their power and have their man groveling at their feet if they just have the guts to insist upon it. Every bit of their experience on social media and Hollywood portrayals of husbands being pathetic buffoons and the stories of legions of Simps waiting for them to make an onlyfans page and make them millionaires, every toxic female therapist tells them they can have it all and be worshipped along the way, the entire family court system set up to reward them for violating their marriage contracts and encourage Single Motherhood and on and on it goes. There is no shortage of examples as well as their own experiences that all indicate to them that Men will accept that treatment.
Shock treatment for her effected mind lol
Creative writing 😂
I heard this one but the ending was different he had ended up marrying candy
The pure manipulation and gas lighting blame shifting by women break men ,this is what they do making men second third guess decisions especially wit kuds trifling this is what happens to guys . I woukd jyst be insulting to her all the time not infant of kids but it be making her cry all the time till she wanted to leave I'd stay till kids were out and have my fun still married but I would be so insulting.
So… she won.
The second he begged it was really over,,, No way she wasn't going after that
Started out OK got stupid
its no wonder she found solace in another man, not saying what she did was right, but the fact the husband didn't know how she was feeling speaks volumes
Well, maybe she should've communicated directly instead of the bullshit monkey gymnastics all women seem to love.
No one can guess what the other thinks or needs if the other doesn't speak. Simple.
@@ricardocamara7116 if you love someone, marry them, live with them if you don't know what makes them tick, understand them, be able to read them then you have a problem, i stand by what i said. people get too comfortable and maybe stop playing the attention that they used to, taking things for granted
Speaks columes to the immaturity and horrible communication of women
Fefaile found 😁
These people are so messed up in the head. Divorce her now don't take her back
Candy won lol
A good doormat story. Trash story
Simp.
This fool learned something huh? He treated his wife like a queen??? Right how did that work out?
'once she makes up her mind there's no way to stop'
You're the women of your marriage lok