We don’t owe anyone consistency with our past selves! We can reinvent ourselves at any point without explanation to the people around us. Thank you for this!
Love this, never understood the majority’s obsession with being consistent. I can’t count the times people stopped trusting me because I stopped viewing something in a consistent manner.
finally a youtuber who doesnt scream or shout and set unrealistic expectations or just beating the shit of the person to tell them to do better. keep up the good work girl
🪻🪻💜💜💜💜💜 Thank you so much. I struggled to see myself as successful until now. I took your advice and layered it with examples of times when I had felt truly successful and it not only worked but I felt relieved because I could feel the release of the energy it took to keep myself feeling unsuccessful! 🎉
Takeaways: -you have to embody the person you want to be, just like a great actor becomes the role. -In order to move into the new identity, you have to allow the old one to die, which can be painful. -It is important to be consistent with your new identity, aligning your actions with the new you. -To facilitate the shift, practice being the bold new you in public places where no one knows you.
It all starts with an identity shift. Get clear on your identity. Change the identity and your habits will align. No rebirth without death Let go Anything that does not align has to be let go Be aware who you are Embody the role, internalize Meditate with the new u Your identity creates your reality Behavior is a reflection of identity Talk think feel assume like you embody that person Tips n tricks Start on a step in the ladder Small Jumps Try embodying when going to a place no one knows u A test drive Speak to your close friends Big moments in life can be used to capitalize Dont waste beginnings It needs consistency intentional effort
I just screenshot this. I’m going to read it each morning as a reminder of all these powerful things, which if implanted daily, will be beneficial and impactful on helping me step into my higher self. Thanks again 🙏🏾
It's true. My mum kept spinning out shouting I'll become a drugie and have to clean toilets and so did I. Years later after ton of therapy I studied Architecture and had a good job in the field but I couldn't take all that positivity and got cancer. I healed from it, started a family but never had a courage to take on another job.... thanks for your content ❤
💜 Thank you for this video. I’m forced to reinvent myself from a married to a divorced woman, but also a survivor of a neglective and mentally abusing, toxic relationship. And also - as someone who overcame depression and suicidal thoughts. So, I’m actually happy to finally become someone I always wanted to be!
So proud of you, especially for overcoming depression! I also spent most of 2022/2023 getting out of a deep depressive state and it is incredibly difficult. It is easy to get angry at yourself for “wasting time” by being depressed, but you should take some time to celebrate! Make 2024 a year of rewarding yourself for healing and overcoming such a major challenge!
I am also transitioning from married to divorced, and that transformation also brings me freedom from emotional neglect and toxicity. 2024 has amazing things in store for us, I just know it! Many blessings ❤
So important to remind ourselves of this! The ego really takes many ways to keep itself alive in status quo. When we truly see it for what it is - which is just an old, no longer relevant story, it can no longer exist🙏
💜 I have literally watched this video 4 times in a row today… I have never watched a video like that’s that actually helps you understand HOW to become a different person. I have been struggling with this for years and finally I found it! I am so hopeful now. Thank you! 💜
You explain things so clearly.. I have listened to so many manifestation coaches but none of them explained the way you are doing.. beautiful. Just addicted to your videos.
14:23, when I was a child till my teenage years, my mom used to call me. You're a bad,dump, annoying, and dirty person. But later, I passed my teenage time. My mom changed, and she learned energy she did self-improvement and became more aware Then she used to tell my smaller sister, who is 10 younger than me she is amazing, beautiful, and an angel she is. I can definitely tell the difference. I can't stop seeing myself as a dump, annoying, and dirty person I am. I still have childhood trauma. I don't have any friends and boring people pleaser because this makes me feel I'm a good person. While my small sister has a magnetic charismatic personality. She is lovely. I love her so much too she is very confident and can say anything in her mind without fear. I forgave my mom bc I know at that time she didn't know it. If she knew it, she wouldn't do that. I struggle to do this. Somehow, I have low self-esteem and do not find myself worthy. I want to be a charismatic extrovert, sweet person. I try, but these words just stick with me every second for 6 years I acted as a happy normal person but every second a part of me said the same thing my mom told me never letting me be happy for a second. This year, I faced most of my beliefs and thoughts but still working on loving myself and seeing myself worthy. My fear is that in next month I will go back to my country and see all my relatives that I haven't seen since my teenage years. I'm that person, mom explained in their head, but now I have changed somehow, but I am not strong enough to resist it bc you all guys know what gonna happen. Pray for me to turn out good
Oh goodness, I just wish I could give you a hug right now. Have you ever done brain rewiring via dealing with the bad memories? There is a specific way to do it. That is extremely helpful. I hope your trip went well 💕
6 minutes in but this is already without a doubt the best glow up video of the millions ive watched since grade 8 and im about to GRADUATE next month, can u imagine?
This video made me cry. The part where you said “I couldn’t embody I’m healed so I said I was on the way to healing” it was so reassuring to hear, because that’s exactly how I feel. I see all these things about manifestation and energy but I’m in my darkest days and I feel that I can totally embody “I’m on the way to healing” This video gave me hope, thank you.
Hi thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago. I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey 💗
Change your mentality, read self help books, broaden your knowledge, budget and avoid impulse spending, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on..... I hope you find it helpful
I learned to be frugal, minimal on spending and paying myself first through investing, made plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plans consistently
There are numerous investment options (real estate, stocks, crypto, ETFs) but my greatest recommendation is to have a pro lead you towards a successful one and make good financial decisions
Rich Dad, Poor Dad " is one of the financial books I'm familiar with. A financial IA will provide you with additional book recommendations and General assistance
Habits become your identity Identity is reflected in ur habits How to shift ur identity - 1. Who is she? What's her life like? What does she believe abt herself? How does she feel in her body? What kind of stories she lives by? At the core, who is she? Not external, but internal. Know everything abt her. And decide that you are going to become her. 2. Rebirth comes after death. Letting go of everything that doesn't align with the new you. The past is no longer relevant. Grief is normal in this process. Decide what all parts of urself have to die. Letting go of people, clothing items, etc. 3. Embody the character
Am entering college, Moving to a new City, going through a lot of shifts rn. I intend to take advantage of these changes and embody the new person i always wanted and felt right to be. It's a message for my future self i know u made it 🌹
This February I'm moving to another city because this past year I felt like I was getting diluted and grey by living with my parents and I don't want to be this person any more. I already experienced the personality shift once. I spent 3 months in other country, and it was like I was reborn like a totally different person that I liked, but then I had to come back and little by little I turned numb. So I'm ready to recover the enhanced version I created in that trip 💜
I’m in the same boat. I’m living in a place that’s bring no new opportunities or even available men to date. I’m moving to a new city soon. I’m with you!!
I’m getting the sense I need to do this. I am surrounded by my life everywhere I go in my birth city. And I think I need a change of scenery. I’m grateful for everything I have but I want freshness or different. Good luck to you 💖🏡
@@AllAboutSCAR16 you don't really need it. It's been 5 months since I moved in with my aunt in Mexico city and I already got a job I love, I made new cool friends, people is buying my vegan products (no one was interested in buying them in the city I left), little by little my circle is and I'm doing things I've never done before. You just need a new place to create the new version of you, it doesn't matter if it's only another city, you don't necessarily have to go to live in other country.
💜 Thank you for this wonderful, inspiring video. I have recreated myself a few times already. The last time was, like you, away from the ill woman with autoimmune diseases to an active, healthy, vibrant woman who inspires others. I not only got healthy, I lost 60 pounds and do Pilates. I feel great. Now I am doing it again, as I go into a new time in my life. I am creating the women who lives the wonderful, rich, full life I am choosing to live today full of joie de vivre, love, and passion for life. Keep up the good work! Many blessings! ❤
You are not only relevant to the girls or women world alone, but also to the boys or men world. You are a blessing in this generation, Jillz. Keep it up!
Im 62, came across this w a bit of a smirk and an eye roll. I guess I was practicing some ageism and thought what on Earth can this beautiful young lady teach me? After all, I've seen so many of these over the years.... But I was way off...I have never heard anything that was this practical with specific, realistic "tips", for lack of a better word. Thank you so much and you should be very proud of yourself:)
Thank you for admitting fault and being transparent! It’s very refreshing and appreciated :) I’m glad you took some benefits from this video! I was similar to you, not in terms of the ageism but I was like “oh…just another self-help video, nothing I didn’t hear before” but I’m glad I clicked on it, because it was easy to listen through and was genuinely so helpful!
Same here: 45 years old. Didn't roll my eyes but was equally amazed by not only your wisdom, but also the practicality to it! Thank you for what you share! ❤
its so great to see someone of an older generation being open to listening and growing 🥹 especially taking advice from the younger gens 🤍 i feel so proud for you even tho i have no idea who you are 😭🤍
💜 i started my transformation 2 years ago and now I am in a phase where old life has collapsed , and the new one hasn't really come together yet. I'm grateful for the inspiration you provide on my journey 😘
First, when I saw the title, I was very skeptical to watch it because I watch so many gurus and life coaches who record so many videos about this thing and talk nonsense. After that, I can state that it was one of the most valuable things I have ever seen. You explained everything in detail and made me look at things from a different perspective. ❤️
💜 Thanks, Jillz! I just recently discovered your channel and LOVE your videos! I've been through hell with my health in my life so I totally relate and after 20 years unable to walk and the past 5 being homebound and bedridden, I miraculously regained my ability to walk through the grace of God alone without medical intervention! I truly believe in the power of prayer and energy healing through it all. Thanks for ALL you do for the community!!!!! Sending you love and hugs!!!!!
Essentially the grace of god is through the power of belief- Joe Dispenza's testimonials are demonstrating just that with cancers. That is the automatically switched off healing part of our brain and the trauma memory blocking in body. The power of prayer and the power of belief are one and the same. Prayer is essentially meditation. It's source-god. Many people don't know how to 'pray' they plead change-which assumes scarcity. It's why that type of prayer doesn't work. However abundance prayer, that you used, whereby possibility is expanded and invited from higher intelligence. Allowing and attuning into whole brainwave coherence. So I agree with you, for some they call it god, for some their relationship to religion makes them not want to ascribe transformation to god. So well done to you.
This video is changing my life every time I watch it. Literally what I’m struggling with. The uncomfortable growth of moving from who I’ve been into who I want to be. It’s not just affecting me but everyone around me. Thank you for this so much.
This is one of my favorite videos you've released, Jillz! I really resonate with you of needing deaths for rebirths, especially when it comes. to people who can't let go of the "old" you. My boyfriend of nearly 8 years broke up two months ago, and I felt that he and his parents never could see me past the insecure new college grad who was trying to find her footing as a working professional and figuring out what she wanted out of life. The death of the relationship lets me embody who I truly want to be. I also love your tip of embodying who you want to be when you're out and about in places where nobody knows you.
In the last year, i went through a well needed divorce, learned i habe ADHD, and am now trying to be the person who takes care of things. I have so many skills and i love learning new ones, but i always saw/see myself as broken or not good enough. So im choosing to change my thinking. I start school in a few weeks for a new career that I'll love.
I figured out all of this when I was young. Naturally. I reinvented myself so many times. Planned or not. So many traumas, right in a row for years, happened. I find it much harder to do now. Yet, I know it can be done. You are very young. I hear many schooled in many things. That have not figured this out. Seeing you. Reminds me of my young self. There has been so much resistance to what is a natural thing to do. Society wants us dumbed down and broken to keep us all in line with their agendas. Thank you smart young lady. For the😅reminder. Do what comes natural. This is natural stuff. We are taught it is evil. This is not evil. It's a God given ability.
I DON'T THINK TELLING FAMILY AND FRIENDS IS A GOOD IDEA. Even if they are super supportive they can't act as genuinely as you and ends up feeling fake and forced. Better to just let their comments of old self die off.
Thank you. Your presentation really nutured my core, I'm all out of whack right now I'm 54 years old, I always reinvented myself to be what someone else wanted to see in me. Always came from the outside now I see why my life as ended up where I am. Don't have a clue of who I want to be, listening to you help me so much, I know it's a journey but I'm ready to meet who I want to be...
halfway through the video and decided to let you know that your videos are so beautiful. the information is available for all of us through books, the internet etc but the way you explain it is so unique. keep doing you
Yay!! New video is out! I really look forward to your videos. They have become a part of my Sunday routine and are such a great to start for the upcoming week.✨📔☕️ I ended and started the year going back to some of your manifestation videos from years past and made a great board that makes me excited every time I see it! Truly appreciate all the work you put into this channel and the help you give to us ladies recuperating from the highly masculine, corporate world. Ok, now time to watch. 😂 I’ve got my kitty in my lap, coffee in my hands and ready to take 2024 by storm. Hope everyone is having a good start to the year. Let’s get it! Softly…😊
💜 Thank you Jillz! My life has changed from the moment I started following your content. Sometimes it feels so aligned, and so in sync as if somehow the Universe is sharing my thoughts, my struggles, and everything I need right now with you, and there another video of you pops up with exactly what I feel I need right now. I am super grateful for you 💜 Thank you for existing and sharing such wonderful content and energy with me💜
I am 61 and totally agree..you are never too old to reinvent yourself...I am always learning more and liv❤ seeing the positive changes as time goes on. Onward😎
One advice I would give based on experience is that DO NOT pretend or "fake it till you make it " because it will lead you to burn out and to a point where feel like you're lying to yourself which is the truth and that feeling/intuition/conscience is what is speaking to you. It's like me being in my past self energy trying to replicate future self who I 'want' to be as opposed to getting real with myself and stepping into the future self energy in the present moment authentically even if it means to do things slowly, step by step which is the requirement of any form of change.. Hope I made sense Your life won't change for you to align, You have to change for your life to align
this is true... it led me burn out and forget myself and i even felt like im lying to myself. so next time when i do this i will just do it by step and step, slowly, not all at once. 😢
💜 I've never heard personal reinvention talked about this way. It has really blown my mind. It's a more soft, more intuitive method to archive your new self, and I can't wait to put this in practice. Thank you very much for posting this video
This is extremely helpful for me right now as I am also healing “incurable”autoimmune disease. I appreciate you sharing your experience. I’m definitely leaning in and embracing the change. I feel like my inner butterfly is about to emerge! Your videos are genius, btw. Thank you 🦋🪷💗
This is soooo good! I've noticed lately my old self has come up again to try and be released. I'm struggling with shifting fully out of who I was and who I want to become. My 20 year career that was my passion isn't fitting me any longer. I'm working towards something more aligned that I feel more passionate about and doesn't fry my nervous system on a daily basis! I'm trying to go from seeing myself as single to being in a relationship one day. Trying to break through glass ceilings is tough but I like the ladder example, take a step towards what I want and who I want to become fully : )
💜💜💜💜💜P.S I took notes down and sketching and painting this proccess of identity shift into manefestation via art. I always wanted to share my journey via youtube but now i will start today becoming the woman I aspire to be.
Early last year I made an intention to figure out what was going on with my masculinity and femininity. I had just graduated from a genders studies program and was feeling very out of sorts. I came from an unsafe abusive home and am the oldest child with three younger brothers so I have always been more in my masculine .. your videos have helped me heal my feminine more than any therapist or gender program. Thank you for the wonderful content Jillz!
Thank you for this, now i understood, FULLY understood why i cant seem to change for good like i keep falling onto that bad habits of mine. Its because im still holding onto it. Thanks fr giving me free therapy. Love from the Philippines ❤❤
💜💜💜 You explain this in such a good and understandable way. I’ve been in a weird kind of vacuum in my life for the last year, and I’m really trying to break out of it. Embodiment! That’s the key word I’ve been looking for! Thank you
Thank you so much for this video Jillz! It helped me realize some hidden emotions and feelings that I had. I actually cried twice while listening to you. Thank you so much for giving me hope! 💗💗💗
Setting boundaries with people has been my main thing this year. As I was watching this I blocked those who can’t get on board with the new me every time I speak to them I am defending the new me what a setback.
I had discovered Jillz yesterday and since then, I haven't been able to stop watching her videos. Absolutely amazing, I had watched 10+ videos until now while I'm working. Take notes of what she's saying!!
💜 What I love about RUclips is that wisdom comes in all forms and faces. I don't know how old you are...and honestly it doesn't matter, because you have rocked my world! Thank you🤗.
I really appreciate that you put out this video, it helped me to put some things into perspective and let myself have the patience to get through what I need to get through. You made me feel excited for the beautiful future I have waiting for me
Wow…I feel like everything in this video are things that I knew deep down but I’ve never heard all of it encapsulated at once so beautifully. Thank you for sharing!
💜 I've had this on my Watch Later playlist for the longest time and now I'm wishing I didn't put it off for so long!! This video is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for breaking down this concept so thoroughly and practically! o know it'll be difficult to let go of my past identity but this... this gave me hope that it is indeed possible. I swear to go back to this when I can finally say "I've reinvented myself"💜
As you talk about your health problem, I must say it works the same for mental health. I was introduced to the philosophy explained there by a man who had severe childhood traumas he didn’t cure… so even thou he had fully embolyed his new identity, the fact he didn’t cure his past self would make him uncapable of realizing some basic questions about his feelings and he was « bugging » all the time when we asked him about simple questions such as judging what is a family or a couple or friendship, or a coworker even. He had totally deleted this part of internal data for he had been uncapable of understanding his damaged point of view about this subject and could’t reach it anymore which caused him a lot of social issues that would lead him to schyzophrenia. So if you are entering the process of changing your identity for better, make sure to acknowledge your past and to cure all your childhood wounds to be able to move on.
I am your new subscriber, Your teaching is so simple and it's so easy to understand. I love to listen to you continuously. There is no complication. thank you much love
💜 Absolutely one of the best & most thorough explanations for Identity Shifting I’ve heard! And exactly when I needed to hear it. Shifting my identity has been heavy on my mind for the past few weeks & while I had some idea of how to go about it I’ve been hesitant probably due to self doubt. I knew I needed to sit down & write out my ideal self but it would have been the vague “wake up at 7am & have my matcha” lol The intricate parts of how she thinks & feels didn’t occur to me but as soon as you said it, it clicked! Now I feel prepared to create her. Thank you so much for this! Heading over to The Thermostat Theory now ✨
I was truly inspired from this video. I will totally use your suggestions to be more like myself, like I would always be without external pressure from people.
💜 So very helpful for my current space of transition in my life! Thank you for spreading your brilliant light! I came across this video on a whim and now I am subscribing to your channel! Love it!!
Oh my goodness! I cannot even begin to put into words how excellent this video is. Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving of yourself in this way. 💕💕💕💕
💜 endings! 😊 and beginnings! And gratitude 🌈 this vid appeared in my life at a most auspitious time 🌈 thank you for the side shift in perspective.. where, in my own life, would I really like to be? And then, once envisioned, embody her. 💜
really a great video and value. very good for someone sensible who needs more gentleness, patience, encouragement and help with more detailed answers and options. much gratitude 🙏🙏🙏
💜Wow, this was another truly amazing video, Jillz! 💜 Have seen a couple of them now, and you explain these things extremely precise and clear - even for a man (like me).
💜I absolutely loved your video, your information, your pace, your energy! I’m so glad I came across your video because as somebody with an autoimmune condition, I find this is much more digestible than many other videos I have seen. 🙏🏼
Identity shift can be scary but so necessary. Others' opinion of the evolution of you is just that. I think as we shift, we learn to let go and it becomes easier over time. This may mean also shedding relationships that no longer bring mutual value or uplift us. Thank you for breaking this down.
yes the person who you were with is what makes who you are. then again someone changes their self then it also means they are trying filter out their life keeping what is now who they are and releasing what they are no longer.
Outstanding value video, thank you for sharing. Really thank you for the specificity and clarity of the information, there is so much value provided for free and this really does you credit. All the best from Italy.💜
💜💜💜 wowww thank you so much, although it took me 2 sittings to finish the video but it was totally worth it. I really appreciate you sharing these great adivces with us 💜💜💜💜
I'm coming from a philosophical mindset as you are too. I'm just impressed that you used the word 'invent' in the context you used . Such a key word for any kind of change which you expressed. Jean Paul Sartre used the word for describing a solution to a possible crisis. I have never heard anybody Use that word in the manner he used it until you. We are all in a existential existence looking for a home and only invention can find that. We have to exist first, then invent later.
Hi Jillz love your content. I continue to come back to your videos and re-watch them when I am doing morning journals to write in present tense / write the story of my new self. It would be very helpful if you could please make a video where you are going through journal prompts with us, and explaining exactly how we need to write our script./story info. Give us prompts / sentences to get us started and explain how to write out the new story. Hope that makes sense! Thank you
We don’t owe anyone consistency with our past selves! We can reinvent ourselves at any point without explanation to the people around us. Thank you for this!
I really needed to see this 😌❤️
Okrrrr, evolve always ♥️
That's what life should be, live at the present!!!!
Well said. How do I like this a 100 million times?!❤️
Love this, never understood the majority’s obsession with being consistent. I can’t count the times people stopped trusting me because I stopped viewing something in a consistent manner.
finally a youtuber who doesnt scream or shout and set unrealistic expectations or just beating the shit of the person to tell them to do better. keep up the good work girl
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My point exactly. I despise people screaming at me. Glad I'm not alone in this journey of reinventing.
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Thank you so much. I struggled to see myself as successful until now. I took your advice and layered it with examples of times when I had felt truly successful and it not only worked but I felt relieved because I could feel the release of the energy it took to keep myself feeling unsuccessful! 🎉
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Takeaways:
-you have to embody the person you want to be, just like a great actor becomes the role.
-In order to move into the new identity, you have to allow the old one to die, which can be painful.
-It is important to be consistent with your new identity, aligning your actions with the new you. -To facilitate the shift, practice being the bold new you in public places where no one knows you.
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It all starts with an identity shift.
Get clear on your identity.
Change the identity and your habits will align.
No rebirth without death
Let go
Anything that does not align has to be let go
Be aware who you are
Embody the role, internalize
Meditate with the new u
Your identity creates your reality
Behavior is a reflection of identity
Talk think feel assume like you embody that person
Tips n tricks
Start on a step in the ladder
Small Jumps
Try embodying when going to a place no one knows u
A test drive
Speak to your close friends
Big moments in life can be used to capitalize
Dont waste beginnings
It needs consistency intentional effort
I just screenshot this. I’m going to read it each morning as a reminder of all these powerful things, which if implanted daily, will be beneficial and impactful on helping me step into my higher self. Thanks again 🙏🏾
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It's true. My mum kept spinning out shouting I'll become a drugie and have to clean toilets and so did I. Years later after ton of therapy I studied Architecture and had a good job in the field but I couldn't take all that positivity and got cancer. I healed from it, started a family but never had a courage to take on another job.... thanks for your content ❤
💜 Thank you for this video. I’m forced to reinvent myself from a married to a divorced woman, but also a survivor of a neglective and mentally abusing, toxic relationship. And also - as someone who overcame depression and suicidal thoughts. So, I’m actually happy to finally become someone I always wanted to be!
Girl, we’re so very proud of you. I hope you get to live your dream life and rock that beautiful smile of yours.
You are not alone 🥺
So proud of you, especially for overcoming depression! I also spent most of 2022/2023 getting out of a deep depressive state and it is incredibly difficult. It is easy to get angry at yourself for “wasting time” by being depressed, but you should take some time to celebrate! Make 2024 a year of rewarding yourself for healing and overcoming such a major challenge!
Much strength to u ❤. It' s really brave thing. I hope/wish to u that God send you strength and give peace and thing u want in this new journey
I am also transitioning from married to divorced, and that transformation also brings me freedom from emotional neglect and toxicity. 2024 has amazing things in store for us, I just know it! Many blessings ❤
"no longer relevant, because it's not part of your story", is the best advice I've heard in so long. Thank you as always!
So important to remind ourselves of this! The ego really takes many ways to keep itself alive in status quo. When we truly see it for what it is - which is just an old, no longer relevant story, it can no longer exist🙏
💜 I have literally watched this video 4 times in a row today… I have never watched a video like that’s that actually helps you understand HOW to become a different person. I have been struggling with this for years and finally I found it! I am so hopeful now. Thank you! 💜
Hi, have you applied one of her advices yet? If yes, what changes have you noticed ? 😊
I agree! The breakdown of steps was incredibly helpful since I’ve also been trying for years lol
You explain things so clearly.. I have listened to so many manifestation coaches but none of them explained the way you are doing.. beautiful. Just addicted to your videos.
14:23, when I was a child till my teenage years, my mom used to call me. You're a bad,dump, annoying, and dirty person.
But later, I passed my teenage time. My mom changed, and she learned energy she did self-improvement and became more aware
Then she used to tell my smaller sister, who is 10 younger than me she is amazing, beautiful, and an angel she is.
I can definitely tell the difference. I can't stop seeing myself as a dump, annoying, and dirty person I am. I still have childhood trauma. I don't have any friends and boring people pleaser because this makes me feel I'm a good person.
While my small sister has a magnetic charismatic personality. She is lovely. I love her so much too she is very confident and can say anything in her mind without fear.
I forgave my mom bc I know at that time she didn't know it. If she knew it, she wouldn't do that.
I struggle to do this. Somehow, I have low self-esteem and do not find myself worthy. I want to be a charismatic extrovert, sweet person. I try, but these words just stick with me every second for 6 years I acted as a happy normal person but every second a part of me said the same thing my mom told me never letting me be happy for a second. This year, I faced most of my beliefs and thoughts but still working on loving myself and seeing myself worthy.
My fear is that in next month I will go back to my country and see all my relatives that I haven't seen since my teenage years. I'm that person, mom explained in their head, but now I have changed somehow, but I am not strong enough to resist it bc you all guys know what gonna happen. Pray for me to turn out good
You’ve got this. Wishing you allll the best❤
@GSAlchemy thanks 😊 I wish you the best, too ❣️
Oh goodness, I just wish I could give you a hug right now. Have you ever done brain rewiring via dealing with the bad memories? There is a specific way to do it. That is extremely helpful.
I hope your trip went well 💕
6 minutes in but this is already without a doubt the best glow up video of the millions ive watched since grade 8 and im about to GRADUATE next month, can u imagine?
Congratulations 🎉
💯 congrats!
This video made me cry. The part where you said “I couldn’t embody I’m healed so I said I was on the way to healing” it was so reassuring to hear, because that’s exactly how I feel.
I see all these things about manifestation and energy but I’m in my darkest days and I feel that I can totally embody “I’m on the way to healing”
This video gave me hope, thank you.
Yes, this exactly ! That also resonated with me.
Hi thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago. I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey 💗
Change your mentality, read self help books, broaden your knowledge, budget and avoid impulse spending, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on.....
I hope you find it helpful
I learned to be frugal, minimal on spending and paying myself first through investing, made plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plans consistently
Please can you recommend books and a good professional I can learn from ?:)
There are numerous investment options (real estate, stocks, crypto, ETFs) but my greatest recommendation is to have a pro lead you towards a successful one and make good financial decisions
Rich Dad, Poor Dad " is one of the financial books I'm familiar with. A financial IA will provide you with additional book recommendations and General assistance
I would love to become that dog that's lying in the sofa. He seems so happy with his identity ❤️
I identify as that dog
a very funny comment! thanks or the laugh
This comment made my day lmao 😂
😂😅 you are funny
Habits become your identity
Identity is reflected in ur habits
How to shift ur identity -
1. Who is she? What's her life like? What does she believe abt herself? How does she feel in her body? What kind of stories she lives by? At the core, who is she? Not external, but internal. Know everything abt her. And decide that you are going to become her.
2. Rebirth comes after death. Letting go of everything that doesn't align with the new you. The past is no longer relevant. Grief is normal in this process. Decide what all parts of urself have to die. Letting go of people, clothing items, etc.
3. Embody the character
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Am entering college, Moving to a new City, going through a lot of shifts rn. I intend to take advantage of these changes and embody the new person i always wanted and felt right to be. It's a message for my future self i know u made it 🌹
This February I'm moving to another city because this past year I felt like I was getting diluted and grey by living with my parents and I don't want to be this person any more. I already experienced the personality shift once. I spent 3 months in other country, and it was like I was reborn like a totally different person that I liked, but then I had to come back and little by little I turned numb. So I'm ready to recover the enhanced version I created in that trip 💜
Awesome! 🎉
Good luck on your journey and take care!! Dang I wish I could afford to live in other country!
I’m in the same boat. I’m living in a place that’s bring no new opportunities or even available men to date. I’m moving to a new city soon. I’m with you!!
I’m getting the sense I need to do this. I am surrounded by my life everywhere I go in my birth city. And I think I need a change of scenery. I’m grateful for everything I have but I want freshness or different. Good luck to you 💖🏡
@@AllAboutSCAR16 you don't really need it. It's been 5 months since I moved in with my aunt in Mexico city and I already got a job I love, I made new cool friends, people is buying my vegan products (no one was interested in buying them in the city I left), little by little my circle is and I'm doing things I've never done before. You just need a new place to create the new version of you, it doesn't matter if it's only another city, you don't necessarily have to go to live in other country.
💜 Thank you for this wonderful, inspiring video. I have recreated myself a few times already. The last time was, like you, away from the ill woman with autoimmune diseases to an active, healthy, vibrant woman who inspires others. I not only got healthy, I lost 60 pounds and do Pilates. I feel great. Now I am doing it again, as I go into a new time in my life. I am creating the women who lives the wonderful, rich, full life I am choosing to live today full of joie de vivre, love, and passion for life. Keep up the good work! Many blessings! ❤
Amazing!!! ✨✨
You are not only relevant to the girls or women world alone, but also to the boys or men world. You are a blessing in this generation, Jillz. Keep it up!
Im 62, came across this w a bit of a smirk and an eye roll.
I guess I was practicing some ageism and thought what on Earth can this beautiful young lady teach me? After all,
I've seen so many of these over the years.... But I was way off...I have never heard anything that was this practical with specific, realistic "tips", for lack of a better word.
Thank you so much and you should be very proud of yourself:)
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Thank you so much.🥰
Thank you for admitting fault and being transparent! It’s very refreshing and appreciated :) I’m glad you took some benefits from this video! I was similar to you, not in terms of the ageism but I was like “oh…just another self-help video, nothing I didn’t hear before” but I’m glad I clicked on it, because it was easy to listen through and was genuinely so helpful!
Same here: 45 years old. Didn't roll my eyes but was equally amazed by not only your wisdom, but also the practicality to it!
Thank you for what you share! ❤
I'm 68 yo and I tell you that she is one of the best.she may be young but she has a few words to help one move forward. 😊
its so great to see someone of an older generation being open to listening and growing 🥹 especially taking advice from the younger gens 🤍 i feel so proud for you even tho i have no idea who you are 😭🤍
💜 i started my transformation 2 years ago and now I am in a phase where old life has collapsed , and the new one hasn't really come together yet. I'm grateful for the inspiration you provide on my journey 😘
The "liminal" stage between 2 worlds
it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womans magic truths on borlest
Going to google this
Each page looks like I'm about to get hacked if I download it. Lol
Can you link it? I cannot find a book with that title
I’ve seen this exact comment on other videos and someone said it’s a bot/spam. Not a real book. They want you to go to some website called borlest.
@@julieandco it's a scam
First, when I saw the title, I was very skeptical to watch it because I watch so many gurus and life coaches who record so many videos about this thing and talk nonsense. After that, I can state that it was one of the most valuable things I have ever seen. You explained everything in detail and made me look at things from a different perspective. ❤️
💜 Thanks, Jillz! I just recently discovered your channel and LOVE your videos! I've been through hell with my health in my life so I totally relate and after 20 years unable to walk and the past 5 being homebound and bedridden, I miraculously regained my ability to walk through the grace of God alone without medical intervention! I truly believe in the power of prayer and energy healing through it all. Thanks for ALL you do for the community!!!!! Sending you love and hugs!!!!!
Essentially the grace of god is through the power of belief- Joe Dispenza's testimonials are demonstrating just that with cancers. That is the automatically switched off healing part of our brain and the trauma memory blocking in body. The power of prayer and the power of belief are one and the same. Prayer is essentially meditation. It's source-god. Many people don't know how to 'pray' they plead change-which assumes scarcity. It's why that type of prayer doesn't work. However abundance prayer, that you used, whereby possibility is expanded and invited from higher intelligence. Allowing and attuning into whole brainwave coherence. So I agree with you, for some they call it god, for some their relationship to religion makes them not want to ascribe transformation to god. So well done to you.
This video is changing my life every time I watch it. Literally what I’m struggling with. The uncomfortable growth of moving from who I’ve been into who I want to be. It’s not just affecting me but everyone around me. Thank you for this so much.
This is one of my favorite videos you've released, Jillz! I really resonate with you of needing deaths for rebirths, especially when it comes. to people who can't let go of the "old" you. My boyfriend of nearly 8 years broke up two months ago, and I felt that he and his parents never could see me past the insecure new college grad who was trying to find her footing as a working professional and figuring out what she wanted out of life. The death of the relationship lets me embody who I truly want to be. I also love your tip of embodying who you want to be when you're out and about in places where nobody knows you.
In the last year, i went through a well needed divorce, learned i habe ADHD, and am now trying to be the person who takes care of things. I have so many skills and i love learning new ones, but i always saw/see myself as broken or not good enough. So im choosing to change my thinking. I start school in a few weeks for a new career that I'll love.
7:50 love this house analogy nobody talks about this part of growth and change
💜 Having recently decided to end a relationship - THIS could not possibly have come at a BETTER time in my life! Thank you so very much Jillz!
At the moment the biggest thing I’m trying to prioritise is changing my mindset and improving my mental health. I loved this video thank you Jillz!
I figured out all of this when I was young. Naturally. I reinvented myself so many times. Planned or not. So many traumas, right in a row for years, happened. I find it much harder to do now. Yet, I know it can be done. You are very young. I hear many schooled in many things. That have not figured this out. Seeing you. Reminds me of my young self. There has been so much resistance to what is a natural thing to do. Society wants us dumbed down and broken to keep us all in line with their agendas. Thank you smart young lady. For the😅reminder. Do what comes natural. This is natural stuff. We are taught it is evil. This is not evil. It's a God given ability.
I DON'T THINK TELLING FAMILY AND FRIENDS IS A GOOD IDEA. Even if they are super supportive they can't act as genuinely as you and ends up feeling fake and forced. Better to just let their comments of old self die off.
I agree with this
"Sometimes we are forced to new beginnings when we don't want them". Yes. 💜
Thank you. Your presentation really nutured my core, I'm all out of whack right now I'm 54 years old, I always reinvented myself to be what someone else wanted to see in me. Always came from the outside now I see why my life as ended up where I am. Don't have a clue of who I want to be, listening to you help me so much, I know it's a journey but I'm ready to meet who I want to be...
halfway through the video and decided to let you know that your videos are so beautiful. the information is available for all of us through books, the internet etc but the way you explain it is so unique. keep doing you
Yay!! New video is out! I really look forward to your videos. They have become a part of my Sunday routine and are such a great to start for the upcoming week.✨📔☕️ I ended and started the year going back to some of your manifestation videos from years past and made a great board that makes me excited every time I see it! Truly appreciate all the work you put into this channel and the help you give to us ladies recuperating from the highly masculine, corporate world. Ok, now time to watch. 😂 I’ve got my kitty in my lap, coffee in my hands and ready to take 2024 by storm. Hope everyone is having a good start to the year. Let’s get it! Softly…😊
I love this!!! Wishing you the best start to 2024 💜
💜 Thank you Jillz! My life has changed from the moment I started following your content. Sometimes it feels so aligned, and so in sync as if somehow the Universe is sharing my thoughts, my struggles, and everything I need right now with you, and there another video of you pops up with exactly what I feel I need right now. I am super grateful for you 💜 Thank you for existing and sharing such wonderful content and energy with me💜
I am 61 and totally agree..you are never too old to reinvent yourself...I am always learning more and liv❤ seeing the positive changes as time goes on. Onward😎
One advice I would give based on experience is that DO NOT pretend or "fake it till you make it " because it will lead you to burn out and to a point where feel like you're lying to yourself which is the truth and that feeling/intuition/conscience is what is speaking to you. It's like me being in my past self energy trying to replicate future self who I 'want' to be as opposed to getting real with myself and stepping into the future self energy in the present moment authentically even if it means to do things slowly, step by step which is the requirement of any form of change.. Hope I made sense
Your life won't change for you to align,
You have to change for your life to align
this is true... it led me burn out and forget myself and i even felt like im lying to myself. so next time when i do this i will just do it by step and step, slowly, not all at once. 😢
Back this up! I think “fake it till you make it” may bring more harm than good, as it was my case. It really depends on a personality type.
💜 I've never heard personal reinvention talked about this way. It has really blown my mind. It's a more soft, more intuitive method to archive your new self, and I can't wait to put this in practice. Thank you very much for posting this video
Thank you for speaking so clear and precisely....
Calm. Confident.
Beauty.💜
"Omg 😱😲 i just love how generous you are!" You made my day! I am soooo happy and grateful! ❤😊
It's so difficult to move past the anxiety and deep embarrassment when facing people who have seen you fail and still judge you for it.
This is extremely helpful for me right now as I am also healing “incurable”autoimmune disease. I appreciate you sharing your experience. I’m definitely leaning in and embracing the change. I feel like my inner butterfly is about to emerge! Your videos are genius, btw. Thank you 🦋🪷💗
This is soooo good! I've noticed lately my old self has come up again to try and be released. I'm struggling with shifting fully out of who I was and who I want to become. My 20 year career that was my passion isn't fitting me any longer. I'm working towards something more aligned that I feel more passionate about and doesn't fry my nervous system on a daily basis! I'm trying to go from seeing myself as single to being in a relationship one day. Trying to break through glass ceilings is tough but I like the ladder example, take a step towards what I want and who I want to become fully : )
Just having the self awareness to realize that the old self is coming back up is huge! Half the battle right there 😊
💜💜💜💜💜P.S I took notes down and sketching and painting this proccess of identity shift into manefestation via art. I always wanted to share my journey via youtube but now i will start today becoming the woman I aspire to be.
Ooh can you share the art? Feel like doodling too now
Early last year I made an intention to figure out what was going on with my masculinity and femininity. I had just graduated from a genders studies program and was feeling very out of sorts. I came from an unsafe abusive home and am the oldest child with three younger brothers so I have always been more in my masculine .. your videos have helped me heal my feminine more than any therapist or gender program. Thank you for the wonderful content Jillz!
Thank you for this, now i understood, FULLY understood why i cant seem to change for good like i keep falling onto that bad habits of mine. Its because im still holding onto it. Thanks fr giving me free therapy. Love from the Philippines ❤❤
💜💜💜 You explain this in such a good and understandable way. I’ve been in a weird kind of vacuum in my life for the last year, and I’m really trying to break out of it. Embodiment! That’s the key word I’ve been looking for! Thank you
This was one of the most beneficial videos I've ever watched! Thank you so much! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Thank you so much for this video Jillz! It helped me realize some hidden emotions and feelings that I had. I actually cried twice while listening to you. Thank you so much for giving me hope! 💗💗💗
Setting boundaries with people has been my main thing this year. As I was watching this I blocked those who can’t get on board with the new me every time I speak to them I am defending the new me what a setback.
Let yourself climb the ladder is the best advice ever. For me it was hard to visualise my dreamjob. Now i know i can do a smaller step on the ladder
I had discovered Jillz yesterday and since then, I haven't been able to stop watching her videos. Absolutely amazing, I had watched 10+ videos until now while I'm working.
Take notes of what she's saying!!
This has been a game changer. Most relatable video ever. Thank you so much. Truly needed this at the moment.
💜 What I love about RUclips is that wisdom comes in all forms and faces. I don't know how old you are...and honestly it doesn't matter, because you have rocked my world! Thank you🤗.
I really appreciate that you put out this video, it helped me to put some things into perspective and let myself have the patience to get through what I need to get through. You made me feel excited for the beautiful future I have waiting for me
I am in the process of reinventing myself.. Your video was really helpful . Thank you 💜
Young lady you are doing an amazing job! The simple explanations with straightforward steps is really going to help. Amazing job, thank you!
You have no idea how this video is helping me right now.. 💜💜💜
Wow…I feel like everything in this video are things that I knew deep down but I’ve never heard all of it encapsulated at once so beautifully. Thank you for sharing!
I love how the doggy sleeps through the entire video❤
💜 I've had this on my Watch Later playlist for the longest time and now I'm wishing I didn't put it off for so long!! This video is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for breaking down this concept so thoroughly and practically! o know it'll be difficult to let go of my past identity but this... this gave me hope that it is indeed possible. I swear to go back to this when I can finally say "I've reinvented myself"💜
💜 I'm finding the new me and embodying her in my psychy! Thank you for being so practical!
💜 excellent message I needed to hear! Especially the part about stair stepping with affirmations.
As you talk about your health problem, I must say it works the same for mental health. I was introduced to the philosophy explained there by a man who had severe childhood traumas he didn’t cure…
so even thou he had fully embolyed his new identity, the fact he didn’t cure his past self would make him uncapable of realizing some basic questions about his feelings and he was « bugging » all the time when we asked him about simple questions such as judging what is a family or a couple or friendship, or a coworker even. He had totally deleted this part of internal data for he had been uncapable of understanding his damaged point of view about this subject and could’t reach it anymore which caused him a lot of social issues that would lead him to schyzophrenia.
So if you are entering the process of changing your identity for better, make sure to acknowledge your past and to cure all your childhood wounds to be able to move on.
I am your new subscriber, Your teaching is so simple and it's so easy to understand. I love to listen to you continuously. There is no complication. thank you much love
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Absolutely one of the best & most thorough explanations for Identity Shifting I’ve heard! And exactly when I needed to hear it. Shifting my identity has been heavy on my mind for the past few weeks & while I had some idea of how to go about it I’ve been hesitant probably due to self doubt. I knew I needed to sit down & write out my ideal self but it would have been the vague “wake up at 7am & have my matcha” lol
The intricate parts of how she thinks & feels didn’t occur to me but as soon as you said it, it clicked! Now I feel prepared to create her. Thank you so much for this! Heading over to The Thermostat Theory now ✨
I literally needed this so much I could cry. I’ve watched so many videos like these but never came across one like yours. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
I was truly inspired from this video. I will totally use your suggestions to be more like myself, like I would always be without external pressure from people.
I love how practical your delivery and content is. Much more encouraging.
So many beautiful takeaways in this video 😊 I love how you brought together ideas and made them into a coherent method - thank you! 🎉
💜 So very helpful for my current space of transition in my life! Thank you for spreading your brilliant light! I came across this video on a whim and now I am subscribing to your channel! Love it!!
Thank you! I love Joe you explain and break this down! Feels more understandable and attainable to me now!
Oh my goodness! I cannot even begin to put into words how excellent this video is. Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving of yourself in this way. 💕💕💕💕
This video auto played and it’s exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you
💜 loved how you covered so much ground with this concept from how it works to how to apply it to ourselves
💜 endings! 😊 and beginnings! And gratitude 🌈 this vid appeared in my life at a most auspitious time 🌈 thank you for the side shift in perspective.. where, in my own life, would I really like to be? And then, once envisioned, embody her. 💜
💟 thank you very much. You are now my go to every sunday. I really needed this motivation
really a great video and value. very good for someone sensible who needs more gentleness, patience, encouragement and help with more detailed answers and options. much gratitude 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much dear Jil! 💜you explained it so so well!
So many gems you hit on here thankyou ☯️
💜Wow, this was another truly amazing video, Jillz! 💜
Have seen a couple of them now, and you explain these things extremely precise and clear - even for a man (like me).
💜Well done and said sister. Practical, applicable, logical advice.
You did your thing with this one sis! I am super impressed and grateful I stumbled upon this video. May God continue to richly bless you! ❤❤
💜I absolutely loved your video, your information, your pace, your energy! I’m so glad I came across your video because as somebody with an autoimmune condition, I find this is much more digestible than many other videos I have seen. 🙏🏼
Girl I am really glad I bumped into this vid, I have been watching self identity vids the whole morning and this explained it best. Thanks!!
Identity shift can be scary but so necessary. Others' opinion of the evolution of you is just that. I think as we shift, we learn to let go and it becomes easier over time. This may mean also shedding relationships that no longer bring mutual value or uplift us. Thank you for breaking this down.
yes the person who you were with is what makes who you are. then again someone changes their self then it also means they are trying filter out their life keeping what is now who they are and releasing what they are no longer.
💜 You’re amazing, well done!!!
Outstanding value video, thank you for sharing. Really thank you for the specificity and clarity of the information, there is so much value provided for free and this really does you credit. All the best from Italy.💜
💜💜💜 wowww thank you so much, although it took me 2 sittings to finish the video but it was totally worth it. I really appreciate you sharing these great adivces with us 💜💜💜💜
best video on identity shifting I've seen ❤
Thank you so much you have affirmed for me my new lifestyle choices xxxx I am grateful and love from Australia
I absolutely love this video and am going to apply this to my life.
Thank you for so much value. 💜 I'm grateful for you.💜
I'm coming from a philosophical mindset as you are too. I'm just impressed that you used the word 'invent' in the context you used . Such a key word for any kind of change which you expressed. Jean Paul Sartre used the word for describing a solution to a possible crisis. I have never heard anybody Use that word in the manner he used it until you. We are all in a existential existence looking for a home and only invention can find that. We have to exist first, then invent later.
Hi Jillz love your content. I continue to come back to your videos and re-watch them when I am doing morning journals to write in present tense / write the story of my new self. It would be very helpful if you could please make a video where you are going through journal prompts with us, and explaining exactly how we need to write our script./story info. Give us prompts / sentences to get us started and explain how to write out the new story. Hope that makes sense! Thank you
Thank you for your videos, I'm mtf and I want to be passable and live normally. Your videos are really helping me, thanks ❤..