i like the video but i do not agree on the very premise that fashion or personal fashion should be primarily driven by the idealistic philosophy of individualism. Maybe its bc we live in a hyper-capitalist world where everyone is separated, isolated, and lonely so to speak, i think theres a lot of credence in discovering yourself within others, a sense of communal discovery and interaction. Fashion to me is a social act as well as personal, to express yourself and to relate to others through an art form and thus in this sense it would be a collective experience rather than a purely individually driven interest. i think the obsession to need to be "unique", "individualistic", "main character" is a social manifestation of the economic divide of capitalism, where you want to divide up people into categories but you must remain as solely on top of others. In this sort of "market" you are an entrepreneur, but social interactions cannot work like markets and thus it pervades a sense of implicit narcissism. this doesnt make anyone evil, this is just how capitalism has infested our social lives. Even the very concepts of "fads/trends/seasons/etc" they all mean to replicate the social need and desire for a sense of community but through a capitalist and isolated lens. You too can be apart of this community/clique/subculture if you buy into it and promote these companies/brands/celebs, which essentially privatizes human socialization. This doesn't even have to be fashion related but there's a large reason why a lot of people identify with celebrities/brands/companies and expect their consumptive habits to have a moral imperative and are thus an extension of their identity. People are disconnected from the human experience and don't have anything tangible to grasp and are thus looking for themselves within the things they consume. Im sure you'll make a video on the death of the subculture and how commodity fashion has played a part in it. I love your prior video about commodity fetishism and how value and consumer habits seem to define us as people within a capitalist world, and I agree with your conclusion that the only way to truly come to terms with your own identity is to become disaffected by capitalist advertising and consumption. You really hit the nail on the head without scaring anyone away with academic language which i really appreciate.
At my high school there are so many kids that dress with trends, and then hate on them when those same trends fall off. All of them try to be so “different” and I just can’t understand that mindset, they all act like the protagonist which just ends up making them all the same
At my high school everyone wears uniforms so they try to stand out by doing weird shit like throwing up or shitting themselves in the middle of class 💀
Honestly feel bad for people who can only dress in what's Trendy and don't wish to find a personal style. I can imagine how much stress and wasted money it is
I’ve found that the best way to actually be unique is to put in the work and make your own clothing. I started sewing a year or two ago and I’ve made a few really good pieces that are 100% unique since they were made by hand. Resorting to a brand to provide a sense of self can work sometimes, but the only person that can really capture the essence of who you are is you.
@@tiffani_bb To be honest, sewing and embroidery are made out to be harder than you think. The biggest challenges for me was time constraints since I’m a college student, and also access to the right equipment and materials. I got lucky since I found an old 90s sewing machine on the side of the road a few summers ago, so I was able to just use that for my escapades. The old ones are practically indestructible and are good for starting out since they’re so simple. Plus they’re cheap on eBay, the one I currently use, a Brother VX-808, is like $40. If you aren’t feeling that tho, and want something super budget, then go to Walmart and grab a t-shirt, embroidery floss, embroidery needles, embroidery hoop, and a fabric marker, overall $15ish. But if you want to go the sewing machine route, go thrifting and find two garments that complement each other, and combine them. If you already have an idea, then go to a Joann’s and wander around (and I mean wander, I’ll be in that place for 2 hours and still not see everything) to find fabric. The Joann’s trips do get expensive so have a list to stick to. Hope that helps ha.
@@tiffani_bb starting off is like the biggest step after you worked out how to handle a sewing machine. maybe some crafty skills but youll mostly be learning by doing
i really want to learn to make clothes. i've had an idea in my mind to make a tuxedo or a suit for myself because it's hard for me to find a fitting one. i also dream of a collection of ties.
I think I truly stopped caring about the definition of "style" when I realised how just the day to day person looks. Living in Scotland it's either older folks that wear coats, chinos and knitwear which never looks bad and if you look closer it's nice to see that they themselves have picked them out too just look good, not different. There are swarms of nike wear people and whatever but as soon as there is even just something of another style I can appreciate it.
honestly the older folk do dress better tbh i don’t like how nike adidas north face etc is put on such a pedestal with ppl my age as if those are the only good brands that are seen as cool, it’d be nice to see ppl just literally wear whatever more without caring much about trends or social norms
As humans, we can never find a style and not follow trends, many people get into fashion to appease a void that is inside or around them. Even if you break away from trends you'll find a way to integrate something trendy into "your style" and follow what's everyone's doing in a roundabout way. The best advice one can give here is to be more selective, but it is all relative.
Everything is kinda already a trend. so you're right there really is no breakaway but being able to truly question the who what where when and why you want to engage and purchase a piece is important. what do you take away from it, who are you wearing it for, where would you wear it, why this specific piece. Only then i think you can make the most out of fashion.
@@spinach4616 I'm subscribed to the Rick Owens theory of evolution of fashion. I think working out is the highest evolution of fashion. No outfit is going to make you look or feel as good as having a fit body. My mantra is buy less clothes and go to the gym instead. But I agree with everything you said too.
Exactly. Style i the exxageration of the basics and that goes for everything. Your style is how you personally wear what happens to be trendy in whatever subgenre of clothing you identify with.
I don’t think being different should be the goal, but instead wearing what makes you feel the most like yourself regardless of the popularity of that style. If you feel your best in a white T and some panda Dunks, rock that with confidence, it shouldn’t matter that it’s seen as basic if that’s what you genuinely like.
Best thing I learned about creativity at film school was that nothing is original. If you look at any art piece, film, song, or outfit, it’s made up of lot’s of little inspirations stitched together to make something new. Anyone who thinks they’re completely unique needs a reality check
dudeee that's the exact words i needed to express how i operate as a highly creative person. stitching together lots of little pieces of ideas to create something new and beautiful. how inspiring :D
Don't let your clothes be the most expensive thing in your life, so that you will not end up finding one day that your soul is cheaper than what you wear. - Khalil Gibran
I will reiterate, as I have in a previous comment on one of your videos, but literally removing social media so that I'm not plugged into the trends helped me so much with relaxing about my style choices. As long as it feels good, and I feel confident and most myself in it, that's all that matters. I want to wear what excites me! And find out what works on me... Not what other people are being told to wear to be unique and 'stand out from the crowd'. Your sentiment about transcending the need to be different by accepting we're all pretty much the same is such a reality pill. Shifting my mindset to that made me more curious about the people around me's style choices. It's opened up fashion so much more and it no longer feels like a competition.
this video transcends just fashion, the points you’re touching on pry into the human experience and the personality’s of many affected by things around them. wonderful video
For those interested in this topic of trends and differentiation, I highly recommend reading Abercrombie and Longhurst’s book “Audiences: A Sociological Theory of Performance and Imagination”. It elaborates on society’s relationship with modern media, and how we all end up becoming both performers and audience members. Really interesting and applicable read.
@@fashionelitist Some parts may be a slightly dated as it was published in 1998, but in particular, its main strength is that it stands out as one of the most prominent theories used to analyze and study subcultures. Worth a read for sure!
@@schawink I find that if you’re already somewhat educated/familiar on a topic and willing to supplement with new research, reading “outdated “ books can be really insightful.
@@baby.nay. Definitely agree with this. Reading older theories may not be flashy, but they are cornerstones in whatever you are trying to research. To me, they are essential to forming a concrete foundation/framework which you then build on with your own experiences and developing trends.
Growing up, and through college, I never fell into trends. I never bought a pair of Nikes or Jordan’s, I just got what I liked or what my mom bought. Last year, I bought over 30 pairs of shoes. Wasn’t until recently I realized that I was doing it for that little serotonin boost. I’m going back to vans, Walmart jeans and white tees
My interpretation would be, that we won't ever find who we truly are. Because your personality isn't defined. It's an always changing thing, wich get's influenced by your day to day life. I've talked about this with my grandfather. I asked him how he was still so happy, even though he just got hit by a car. And he told me, that he wants to change. Not because he's a bad person. But because he feels there's still some potential in him, that he hasn't used. So in his thinking, there is no truth to discover. It's the journey of life that's interesting. And a personality constantly develops, so we should wear what we want to, in that exact moment. That's the most authentic thing we can put on.
@@npc8261 doesn't that mean being true to yourself isn't actually possible, and we are able to control our impulses and desires and push them in a direction?
@@precisionsniper2012 yes and no. I think we can decide what influences us, and to that extend, control who we are. But who you are isn't defined by what you'd wish to be. Or who you were. For me, it's the version I see infront of myself. That's who you are. So in that regard I think you can be no other than yourself.
I think wardrobe should represent both who you are and what do you want others to see. Like if you enjoy fantasy setting (maybe looks of elves or vampires) you may emplefy medieval elements, and, at the same time, if you are shy and not an attention sicker you may tone down things. Add more functionality, fluffiness or whatever, copy someone's style or adapt it with the thing you need or detach ones you dislike. Don't try being unique without being your true self
My whole life i have been an oddity and a spectacle just by my singular act of continuing to live and exist every day. I strived to fit in and be unnoticed and it never works, when i see people going out of their way to stand out and be a visual spectacle, it may be my trauma speaking, but it makes me feel like they don't like themselves as they are very much. I am glad that they can atleast find some semblance of happiness in what they do and wear.
This is such an amazing topic! I'm constantly thinking about it, even for myself. It's import to remind ourselves that we aren't superior just because we dress "different" from the "normal" people. We can truly see that there's people that acts superior like, what's the point?! It's so stupid. It's amazing to embrace our humanity, our flaws and accept that we're going to die anyways. Amazing video. Also, you look so GOOD.
i usually don’t follow many trends myself but one thing that i do like about trends is that sometimes they can help lead to finding your individualistic style, i used to dress the way others would deem cool and after trying it i knew for sure that it wasn’t me. i do however think it’s not good to constantly trend hop and completely change styles every few months. i personally like the idea of fashion being individualistically driven the best.
I've always been into fashion, and I tend to just dress however I want. I'm not too into chasing trends, though my style does sometimes overlap with trends. I've always loved the maximalist style. Lots of jewelry, tattoos, different colors, etc.
ive felt this away a lot recently, maybe not in fashion but with music and video games. i have the feeling of wanting to be an individual but when i meet someone similar to me its kinda easier to meme them before they do it to me. this sucks because its driven by insecurity and is a missed opportunity to make a genuine connection with a like minded person and even more so miss a chance to build a community. all for what, bragging rights??? to myself??? theres no one to share it with! rip
Newer to the channel from the commodity fetishism video - love how you cover fashion in a meta way like how consumerism or capitalism shapes people's fashion choices and their desire to be individualistic. I think fashion is a lot more of a reflection of society than most people realize and your analysis on it is solid and refreshing. Keep up the good content!
i’ve started watching your stuff recently bc ur thumbnails have a similar vibe of frugal aesthetics ones and similarly to when I started watching him I started rethinking fashion more and learning a lot, your videos are rlly something to think about and i’m sure a lot of us deep down realise a lot of this shit with fashion is just dumb but we just don’t think about it enough. anyways i am going to make an effort to not be so consumerist and such a cog in the machine and try value what i already have, keep up the great content also also i love your appearances in the scumbag dad youtube shorts 🤯
I think one of the most liberating moment in my style development was realizing that I’m not unique and I do not need to be unique. Like, yeah I like “basic” things. But so what? I genuinely like my style and it makes me happy. I don’t need to put on a show to be “different” or buy certain things to be popular, I can just be me and stay content with what I like
Rick Owens: “Working out is modern couture. No outfit is going to make you look or feel as good as having a fit body. Buy less clothing and go to the gym instead.” Based
For me my Ramones will always be my number one.. the canvas black and white silhouette they go with everything, they’re comfortable. Next are my converse. I have a couple pairs of nice jeans.. but love a cropped pair of Levi’s, a denim jacket and a vintage tee.. that’s just what I feel most comfortable in.. and I think that’s key.. whatever makes you look in the mirror and go “ok I’m down to go outside in this” 😂 In my opinion it’s not the clothes that make you.. it’s about you being your most authentic self in them.. love these videos! I love fashion and I think there’s a way to make it work in your favor.. I love catching a look at somone on the street and think “ I have no idea what they’re wearing but I like it” rather than “that person is wearing head to toe Rick” “or hype” I like when you can’t tell.. Creative thought makes me stoked. Cheers!
I agree with your points! not tryna be preachy preachy but Once we have embraced humility that we are enough and that there is no competition, we can only feel at peace with whatever: fashion , career, job…❤❤❤
It’s hard to keep up with trends in this hyper speed we’re going through like tik tok then ran through 5 to 6 generations of music in less then 3 years that’s sad so tryna buy into a trend just for it not to hot my season change or less then that
This video has convinced me to truly stop caring because you literally dress how I wish I could but I can’t afford or fit the stuff and you already doin it better than what I’m trying to do😂😭 I need less clothes anyway
As a small kid, I went to a summer camp and I convinced the group of kids in my cabin to do interpretive dance to Bohemian Rhapsody. We got booed off stage by 120 people ever since I have not cared about fashion because I am the inverse I dress to blend in because I don’t wanna stand out anymore. I don’t want to be seen I want to disappear because ever since I’ve had a huge social phobia so you’re probably right someone did hurt these people but sometimes it goes in the opposite direction sometimes you wanna peacock sometimes you wanna bury yourself in the sand
Man , people are so shitty sometimes. I hope you can get to a place of enjoying fashion eventually, or at least feel neutral about it. Wishing you the best of whatever it is you need to move past that.
I am 5 minutes into the video and I agree with your points. What I’ve learned is that it boils down to INTENTION. If your INTENTION is to stand out and be as different as you can from everyone, then you will get lost in the sauce and your hyper individualistic style will come off as unauthentic. If your INTENTION is to genuinely find your own sense of style and to express that style for your own contentment, then you’ll find yourself creating an image that is authentic and enjoyable.
I feel you about not having friends to talk about fashion.... Butt it's nice to talk and theorize about it!! Butt also right to not let it consume you and be your personality 🙃 I can admit that's a personal struggle of mine. I don't care so much for trends, because it's planned obsolescence. But I love talking about the history, technical/construction of garments, economics, the psychology and concept/design/artistic of fashion 😬
despite trends being around since humans created clothes for fashion, it's dumb how people have convinced themselves that clothes and accessories have a use by date 💀💀💀💀💀💀
I wear very plain clothing. Usually baggy clothes is what I wear. I find myself thrifting most of my pieces and having friends that are constantly chasing trends, literally obsessing over brands and drop dates is insane to me. At that point, its not even a hobby anymore.
I started watching videos about fashion with channels like TheUnknownVlogs, Danniel Simmons and Not So Blonde then I started watching Frugal Aesthetic and I dicovered your channel with this video and I feel like I'm going down and down in the fashion iceberg lmao, I liked the video and I subcribed btw and if there's any typo I'm french so désolé
I've been saying this for the last year or so... everybody right now is trying so hard to be different not realizing that if everybody is doing this then paradoxically everyone is the same. Everybody wants to be able to say that they dress the best while trying to make it their own. Nowadays the new different is being normal.
I meannn, I think we should just be focused on express ourselves and BE ourselves thru our style, who cares if my clothes are the same as other people’s, just enjoy fashion xd
dude i just discovered your channel and i've been loving your videos so much! you say a lot of thing that i've thought but couldn't put into words lmao
On the surface, fashion is about individuality, the need to express oneself; but beyond that its about needing to express yourself in order to be noticed, included and ultimately, to belong. When punk was emerging as a style, most people reacted with scorn, but the benefit of expressing oneself as a punk was to find belonging with others who shared a similar outlook and approach to life. Without stylistic conventions as a shorthand for communication, we are lost, and in much the same way, we are lost if we try to find our own style by approaching an asymptote we deem to be the uniqueness of our selves. Basically, style is just as much about finding yourself as it is about finding others.
I feel like it's not the clothes necessarily but the new "lifestyle" associated with the clothes. Like oh maybe I could be a newer better version of myself with a cool storyline instead of a mundane boring life.
ive thought about this many times. ive never had the problem of keeping of with trends. but I did have the problem of trying to be different. tbh the answer for me is just to shop for what I like. and what I think looks nice. i purposely avoid most fashion influencers on tiktok, insta etc. (note: I do like to look at different fashion shows or pictures and pick out what I might want to try. So my style is influenced consciously and unconsciously by media)
Being different is about what you do and how you do it. It means doing it with sense and essence, creating despite, under and above limitations of purpose, doing nothing in peace or screaming in loud silence, speaking your words through your whole body, cherishing the present breathing moment with joy. Crying, letting go of shame with humility, smiling for no reason, embracing compassion, dancing by yourself, noticing the small gestures in life, looking for signs and symbols, constructing your own vocabulary, nurturing kindness, abundance is you, abundance is friends, abundance is the meaningful creation of a fleeting moment forever gone but forever remembered, abundance is intention, singing, being at peace with death and chaos, healing, going into the abyss of the unknown matching the beauty of its pitch darkness with your glaring eyes.
I think more people should dress for themselves instead of dressing for strangers and social media trends. You don't need other people to like what you're wearing, you don't need their validation. You can wear whatever you want and just enjoy it because you like it.
I just dress the way I like and get excited when I see other people doing the same. That's enough for me. Also, the fashion world (anyone who cares about fashion and clothing, or even self expression) is insanely small compared to everything else. There's going to be other people who enjoy the same things you do, but you still belong to a niche group of people enjoying the same thing.
I can’t imagine trying to stick out. I do everything in my power to look exactly like whatever setting I’m in. Maybe it’s because Im a criminal in my core. They key to clothing is to make sure no one could remember seeing me
Man I love trying a trend and feeling confident in my outfits but I have never felt different or superior because of it, like, where do you think your fashion inspo comes from?
Really enjoy your content for its pure expression. I love the sections you separate the video into, it keeps it very interesting and engaging. I keep trying look look up those yogi brands you keep referencing but I never get any search results, am I spelling it wrong? Also where would you recommend going in New york for fashion?
Clothes should not be a defining factor whether or not someone is different but its sad how nowadays thats what its looks like to be honest, Ive met people with really nice clothes but be as boring as watching paint dry you wanna stand out just be YOU stop trying to look cool or try and set yourself apart from people through visuals but instead just be YOU im poor and don't have alot really going for me other than my music and who I am I stand out hard no matter where I go its the energy you bring and alot of the times people whether they wanna see it or not they bring that same old I don't care negative energy people can feel that its boring cause EVERYONE IS IN THAT I DON'T CARE TYPE MODE
but what does 'better' mean? Isn't fashion subjective, so you're using your ego to judge someone else and then using comparison as a means of humbling.
do it, but also consider the occasion. Have you also tried looking at vintage trends in those decades as well? Men weren't all suits and ties in the 50s, I like their casual styles a lot personally.
Personally Glad that everyone caught on to Hype/ streetwear . Either if your in it for the profits it’s a good piece of culture If you know how to not over consume
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i like the video but i do not agree on the very premise that fashion or personal fashion should be primarily driven by the idealistic philosophy of individualism. Maybe its bc we live in a hyper-capitalist world where everyone is separated, isolated, and lonely so to speak, i think theres a lot of credence in discovering yourself within others, a sense of communal discovery and interaction. Fashion to me is a social act as well as personal, to express yourself and to relate to others through an art form and thus in this sense it would be a collective experience rather than a purely individually driven interest.
i think the obsession to need to be "unique", "individualistic", "main character" is a social manifestation of the economic divide of capitalism, where you want to divide up people into categories but you must remain as solely on top of others. In this sort of "market" you are an entrepreneur, but social interactions cannot work like markets and thus it pervades a sense of implicit narcissism. this doesnt make anyone evil, this is just how capitalism has infested our social lives.
Even the very concepts of "fads/trends/seasons/etc" they all mean to replicate the social need and desire for a sense of community but through a capitalist and isolated lens. You too can be apart of this community/clique/subculture if you buy into it and promote these companies/brands/celebs, which essentially privatizes human socialization. This doesn't even have to be fashion related but there's a large reason why a lot of people identify with celebrities/brands/companies and expect their consumptive habits to have a moral imperative and are thus an extension of their identity. People are disconnected from the human experience and don't have anything tangible to grasp and are thus looking for themselves within the things they consume.
Im sure you'll make a video on the death of the subculture and how commodity fashion has played a part in it.
I love your prior video about commodity fetishism and how value and consumer habits seem to define us as people within a capitalist world, and I agree with your conclusion that the only way to truly come to terms with your own identity is to become disaffected by capitalist advertising and consumption. You really hit the nail on the head without scaring anyone away with academic language which i really appreciate.
you spoke from my heart! 🔥🔥🔥
i ain’t reading allat 😹😹😹
did u generate this on chatgbt
@@Christopher-bm2et no i did not, why?
@@magnusj9433 bro is incapable of reading 😹
At my high school there are so many kids that dress with trends, and then hate on them when those same trends fall off. All of them try to be so “different” and I just can’t understand that mindset, they all act like the protagonist which just ends up making them all the same
At my high school everyone wears uniforms so they try to stand out by doing weird shit like throwing up or shitting themselves in the middle of class 💀
@@Collie_Pollie wtf
@@Collie_Pollie amazing comment🤣
@@Collie_Pollie not gonna lie you had me in the first half.
Honestly feel bad for people who can only dress in what's Trendy and don't wish to find a personal style.
I can imagine how much stress and wasted money it is
Bro turned from Fashion Elitist to Fashion Pessimist 😭
I’ve found that the best way to actually be unique is to put in the work and make your own clothing. I started sewing a year or two ago and I’ve made a few really good pieces that are 100% unique since they were made by hand.
Resorting to a brand to provide a sense of self can work sometimes, but the only person that can really capture the essence of who you are is you.
I really want to learn how to sew or at least alter clothing
@@tiffani_bb To be honest, sewing and embroidery are made out to be harder than you think. The biggest challenges for me was time constraints since I’m a college student, and also access to the right equipment and materials.
I got lucky since I found an old 90s sewing machine on the side of the road a few summers ago, so I was able to just use that for my escapades. The old ones are practically indestructible and are good for starting out since they’re so simple. Plus they’re cheap on eBay, the one I currently use, a Brother VX-808, is like $40. If you aren’t feeling that tho, and want something super budget, then go to Walmart and grab a t-shirt, embroidery floss, embroidery needles, embroidery hoop, and a fabric marker, overall $15ish.
But if you want to go the sewing machine route, go thrifting and find two garments that complement each other, and combine them. If you already have an idea, then go to a Joann’s and wander around (and I mean wander, I’ll be in that place for 2 hours and still not see everything) to find fabric. The Joann’s trips do get expensive so have a list to stick to.
Hope that helps ha.
@@adamzick3318 I'll keep that in mind. Im a college student, too. I heard some colleges offer sewing classes, so I think I'll look into it more.
@@tiffani_bb starting off is like the biggest step after you worked out how to handle a sewing machine. maybe some crafty skills but youll mostly be learning by doing
i really want to learn to make clothes. i've had an idea in my mind to make a tuxedo or a suit for myself because it's hard for me to find a fitting one. i also dream of a collection of ties.
I think I truly stopped caring about the definition of "style" when I realised how just the day to day person looks. Living in Scotland it's either older folks that wear coats, chinos and knitwear which never looks bad and if you look closer it's nice to see that they themselves have picked them out too just look good, not different. There are swarms of nike wear people and whatever but as soon as there is even just something of another style I can appreciate it.
Facts, just do you 😂 its hard in the wee toons. My style isn't actually that 'out there' and can still feel the stares 👀 🏴
honestly the older folk do dress better tbh i don’t like how nike adidas north face etc is put on such a pedestal with ppl my age as if those are the only good brands that are seen as cool, it’d be nice to see ppl just literally wear whatever more without caring much about trends or social norms
As humans, we can never find a style and not follow trends, many people get into fashion to appease a void that is inside or around them. Even if you break away from trends you'll find a way to integrate something trendy into "your style" and follow what's everyone's doing in a roundabout way. The best advice one can give here is to be more selective, but it is all relative.
Everything is kinda already a trend. so you're right there really is no breakaway but being able to truly question the who what where when and why you want to engage and purchase a piece is important. what do you take away from it, who are you wearing it for, where would you wear it, why this specific piece. Only then i think you can make the most out of fashion.
@@spinach4616 I'm subscribed to the Rick Owens theory of evolution of fashion. I think working out is the highest evolution of fashion. No outfit is going to make you look or feel as good as having a fit body. My mantra is buy less clothes and go to the gym instead. But I agree with everything you said too.
Exactly. Style i the exxageration of the basics and that goes for everything. Your style is how you personally wear what happens to be trendy in whatever subgenre of clothing you identify with.
Indian fashion demon. India me kaha milta rick ownes kuch nahi milta madarchod, thrift bhi bakwas
@@1vake496 lawde mei kab bola mei pehenta Rick Owens...wapis message padh bhosadike
I don’t think being different should be the goal, but instead wearing what makes you feel the most like yourself regardless of the popularity of that style. If you feel your best in a white T and some panda Dunks, rock that with confidence, it shouldn’t matter that it’s seen as basic if that’s what you genuinely like.
Best thing I learned about creativity at film school was that nothing is original. If you look at any art piece, film, song, or outfit, it’s made up of lot’s of little inspirations stitched together to make something new. Anyone who thinks they’re completely unique needs a reality check
dudeee that's the exact words i needed to express how i operate as a highly creative person. stitching together lots of little pieces of ideas to create something new and beautiful. how inspiring :D
Don't let your clothes be the most expensive thing in your life, so that you will not end up finding one day that your soul is cheaper than what you wear.
- Khalil Gibran
I will reiterate, as I have in a previous comment on one of your videos, but literally removing social media so that I'm not plugged into the trends helped me so much with relaxing about my style choices. As long as it feels good, and I feel confident and most myself in it, that's all that matters. I want to wear what excites me! And find out what works on me... Not what other people are being told to wear to be unique and 'stand out from the crowd'. Your sentiment about transcending the need to be different by accepting we're all pretty much the same is such a reality pill. Shifting my mindset to that made me more curious about the people around me's style choices. It's opened up fashion so much more and it no longer feels like a competition.
this video transcends just fashion, the points you’re touching on pry into the human experience and the personality’s of many affected by things around them. wonderful video
For those interested in this topic of trends and differentiation, I highly recommend reading Abercrombie and Longhurst’s book “Audiences: A Sociological Theory of Performance and Imagination”. It elaborates on society’s relationship with modern media, and how we all end up becoming both performers and audience members. Really interesting and applicable read.
i may have to read this
@@fashionelitist Some parts may be a slightly dated as it was published in 1998, but in particular, its main strength is that it stands out as one of the most prominent theories used to analyze and study subcultures. Worth a read for sure!
@@schawink I find that if you’re already somewhat educated/familiar on a topic and willing to supplement with new research, reading “outdated “ books can be really insightful.
@@baby.nay. Definitely agree with this. Reading older theories may not be flashy, but they are cornerstones in whatever you are trying to research. To me, they are essential to forming a concrete foundation/framework which you then build on with your own experiences and developing trends.
@@schawink did you buy it in physical format? i cant seem to find it on pdf
This man is gonna be the biggest fashion RUclipsr
Btec frugal aesthetic
Not really imo
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@Tony if you don’t think then you’re ignorant lmao
You're honestly one of the only youtube personalities I watch start to finish. You're just very humble and real and I can appreciate that.
lol how did u get that? not sure we are watching the same person
Growing up, and through college, I never fell into trends. I never bought a pair of Nikes or Jordan’s, I just got what I liked or what my mom bought. Last year, I bought over 30 pairs of shoes. Wasn’t until recently I realized that I was doing it for that little serotonin boost. I’m going back to vans, Walmart jeans and white tees
And yes, I have the MSCHF boots
@@extracrispycoop2552 damn you bought the boots too haha
How can "find who you really are inside" and "you can be whatever you want to be" be simultaneously true?
thats an interesting thought
My interpretation would be, that we won't ever find who we truly are. Because your personality isn't defined. It's an always changing thing, wich get's influenced by your day to day life.
I've talked about this with my grandfather. I asked him how he was still so happy, even though he just got hit by a car. And he told me, that he wants to change. Not because he's a bad person. But because he feels there's still some potential in him, that he hasn't used.
So in his thinking, there is no truth to discover. It's the journey of life that's interesting. And a personality constantly develops, so we should wear what we want to, in that exact moment. That's the most authentic thing we can put on.
@@npc8261 doesn't that mean being true to yourself isn't actually possible, and we are able to control our impulses and desires and push them in a direction?
@@precisionsniper2012 yes and no.
I think we can decide what influences us, and to that extend, control who we are.
But who you are isn't defined by what you'd wish to be. Or who you were. For me, it's the version I see infront of myself. That's who you are.
So in that regard I think you can be no other than yourself.
I think wardrobe should represent both who you are and what do you want others to see. Like if you enjoy fantasy setting (maybe looks of elves or vampires) you may emplefy medieval elements, and, at the same time, if you are shy and not an attention sicker you may tone down things. Add more functionality, fluffiness or whatever, copy someone's style or adapt it with the thing you need or detach ones you dislike. Don't try being unique without being your true self
But not at the cost of nature and working conditions.
I agreee with you! Young ones won’t understand, after years of the same constant cycle it becomes pointless
My whole life i have been an oddity and a spectacle just by my singular act of continuing to live and exist every day. I strived to fit in and be unnoticed and it never works, when i see people going out of their way to stand out and be a visual spectacle, it may be my trauma speaking, but it makes me feel like they don't like themselves as they are very much. I am glad that they can atleast find some semblance of happiness in what they do and wear.
Its kind of reassuring (and terrifying at the same time) that we're all just the same.
This is such an amazing topic! I'm constantly thinking about it, even for myself. It's import to remind ourselves that we aren't superior just because we dress "different" from the "normal" people. We can truly see that there's people that acts superior like, what's the point?! It's so stupid. It's amazing to embrace our humanity, our flaws and accept that we're going to die anyways. Amazing video. Also, you look so GOOD.
You are unique , you can stand out not only because of your fashion but your personality, your positivity can make you stand out.
just pick what makes you feel the best, not what others think or what society thinks looks good. that’s how you get difference
i usually don’t follow many trends myself but one thing that i do like about trends is that sometimes they can help lead to finding your individualistic style, i used to dress the way others would deem cool and after trying it i knew for sure that it wasn’t me. i do however think it’s not good to constantly trend hop and completely change styles every few months. i personally like the idea of fashion being individualistically driven the best.
I've always been into fashion, and I tend to just dress however I want. I'm not too into chasing trends, though my style does sometimes overlap with trends. I've always loved the maximalist style. Lots of jewelry, tattoos, different colors, etc.
ive felt this away a lot recently, maybe not in fashion but with music and video games. i have the feeling of wanting to be an individual but when i meet someone similar to me its kinda easier to meme them before they do it to me. this sucks because its driven by insecurity and is a missed opportunity to make a genuine connection with a like minded person and even more so miss a chance to build a community. all for what, bragging rights??? to myself??? theres no one to share it with! rip
be like me and live in an australian rural town, where dressing beyond board shorts and graphic t-shirts is fashion forward. ez smurfing fashion
Newer to the channel from the commodity fetishism video - love how you cover fashion in a meta way like how consumerism or capitalism shapes people's fashion choices and their desire to be individualistic. I think fashion is a lot more of a reflection of society than most people realize and your analysis on it is solid and refreshing.
Keep up the good content!
i’ve started watching your stuff recently bc ur thumbnails have a similar vibe of frugal aesthetics ones and similarly to when I started watching him I started rethinking fashion more and learning a lot, your videos are rlly something to think about and i’m sure a lot of us deep down realise a lot of this shit with fashion is just dumb but we just don’t think about it enough. anyways i am going to make an effort to not be so consumerist and such a cog in the machine and try value what i already have, keep up the great content also also i love your appearances in the scumbag dad youtube shorts 🤯
we are not different. we are unique ^_^
unique mean people cant replicate it so ig ya
Honestly I couldn't even imagine being a trend hopper these days since trends come go within weeks and there's so many fashion bubbles.
I think one of the most liberating moment in my style development was realizing that I’m not unique and I do not need to be unique.
Like, yeah I like “basic” things. But so what? I genuinely like my style and it makes me happy. I don’t need to put on a show to be “different” or buy certain things to be popular, I can just be me and stay content with what I like
Rick Owens: “Working out is modern couture. No outfit is going to make you look or feel as good as having a fit body. Buy less clothing and go to the gym instead.”
Based
That’s just kate moss’ “nothing feels like being skinny” for boys
@@sarafernandez4920 ....ok?
how is that relates to fashion
@@winter9741 because you will look good in anything if you're fit.
@Tony opinion
I love how whenever I watch a fashion related video, I am left questioning my existence. Fashion content really be philosophical nowadays
For me my Ramones will always be my number one.. the canvas black and white silhouette they go with everything, they’re comfortable. Next are my converse. I have a couple pairs of nice jeans.. but love a cropped pair of Levi’s, a denim jacket and a vintage tee.. that’s just what I feel most comfortable in.. and I think that’s key.. whatever makes you look in the mirror and go “ok I’m down to go outside in this” 😂 In my opinion it’s not the clothes that make you.. it’s about you being your most authentic self in them.. love these videos! I love fashion and I think there’s a way to make it work in your favor.. I love catching a look at somone on the street and think “ I have no idea what they’re wearing but I like it” rather than “that person is wearing head to toe Rick” “or hype” I like when you can’t tell.. Creative thought makes me stoked. Cheers!
Bro woke up with hate in his heart. Quite remarkable. 😂
“Trying to talk with your clothes is passive aggressive.” -Rick Owens
I agree with your points! not tryna be preachy preachy but Once we have embraced humility that we are enough and that there is no competition, we can only feel at peace with whatever: fashion , career, job…❤❤❤
It’s hard to keep up with trends in this hyper speed we’re going through like tik tok then ran through 5 to 6 generations of music in less then 3 years that’s sad so tryna buy into a trend just for it not to hot my season change or less then that
I HATE THOSE RED BOOOOOOTS AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
This video has convinced me to truly stop caring because you literally dress how I wish I could but I can’t afford or fit the stuff and you already doin it better than what I’m trying to do😂😭
I need less clothes anyway
the way you go between your humble and protagonist modes is without equal
As a small kid, I went to a summer camp and I convinced the group of kids in my cabin to do interpretive dance to Bohemian Rhapsody. We got booed off stage by 120 people ever since I have not cared about fashion because I am the inverse I dress to blend in because I don’t wanna stand out anymore. I don’t want to be seen I want to disappear because ever since I’ve had a huge social phobia so you’re probably right someone did hurt these people but sometimes it goes in the opposite direction sometimes you wanna peacock sometimes you wanna bury yourself in the sand
:( can i hug u
@@saskilla1945 thank you it’s not something I usually share but I felt it related to the video in a weird thank you very much for being kind
Man , people are so shitty sometimes. I hope you can get to a place of enjoying fashion eventually, or at least feel neutral about it. Wishing you the best of whatever it is you need to move past that.
Yooooo that was you?!?!? I remember that corny performance 😂😂😂
How to be different:
Take what you like from multiple styles and combine them. That way, even if it's a general style, it's still different.
dawg im pre sure its prounanced camooo, great vid man
Watching you has made me care less about fashion, which has made me realize the most valuable thing I could ever have is, enough.
Don’t let someone else influence your decisions. Be you
I am 5 minutes into the video and I agree with your points.
What I’ve learned is that it boils down to INTENTION.
If your INTENTION is to stand out and be as different as you can from everyone, then you will get lost in the sauce and your hyper individualistic style will come off as unauthentic.
If your INTENTION is to genuinely find your own sense of style and to express that style for your own contentment, then you’ll find yourself creating an image that is authentic and enjoyable.
I feel you about not having friends to talk about fashion.... Butt it's nice to talk and theorize about it!! Butt also right to not let it consume you and be your personality 🙃 I can admit that's a personal struggle of mine. I don't care so much for trends, because it's planned obsolescence. But I love talking about the history, technical/construction of garments, economics, the psychology and concept/design/artistic of fashion 😬
right when my food got delivered ❤
This man is saving my lifeeeee
"the journey of truly being individualistic is letting go of the idea that youre different" - damn bro... im baffled
After watching this video I finally decided to wear my panda dunks for the first time ever!! Thank you so much fashion elitist!
The self deprecating title is perfect, this is the content we live for
Your hair looks so good, and fit you well
I think the dangling bit is supposed to be a built in bow tie of sorts. If you look at a untied bow tie, it dangles down like that
THATS what i figured it was meant to do but I really do suck at tying things
despite trends being around since humans created clothes for fashion, it's dumb how people have convinced themselves that clothes and accessories have a use by date 💀💀💀💀💀💀
I wear very plain clothing. Usually baggy clothes is what I wear. I find myself thrifting most of my pieces and having friends that are constantly chasing trends, literally obsessing over brands and drop dates is insane to me. At that point, its not even a hobby anymore.
video quality def improving keep up the good work Mr. Elitist
An archive sale selling funko pops should tell you everything about the so called indivualism in the fashion world.
Peak consumerism
😂😂😂😂
Your humor is great! Loved this vid
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I started watching videos about fashion with channels like TheUnknownVlogs, Danniel Simmons and Not So Blonde then I started watching Frugal Aesthetic and I dicovered your channel with this video and I feel like I'm going down and down in the fashion iceberg lmao, I liked the video and I subcribed btw and if there's any typo I'm french so désolé
babe wake up new fashion elitist video dropped
I've been saying this for the last year or so... everybody right now is trying so hard to be different not realizing that if everybody is doing this then paradoxically everyone is the same. Everybody wants to be able to say that they dress the best while trying to make it their own. Nowadays the new different is being normal.
I meannn, I think we should just be focused on express ourselves and BE ourselves thru our style, who cares if my clothes are the same as other people’s, just enjoy fashion xd
dude i just discovered your channel and i've been loving your videos so much! you say a lot of thing that i've thought but couldn't put into words lmao
On the surface, fashion is about individuality, the need to express oneself; but beyond that its about needing to express yourself in order to be noticed, included and ultimately, to belong. When punk was emerging as a style, most people reacted with scorn, but the benefit of expressing oneself as a punk was to find belonging with others who shared a similar outlook and approach to life. Without stylistic conventions as a shorthand for communication, we are lost, and in much the same way, we are lost if we try to find our own style by approaching an asymptote we deem to be the uniqueness of our selves. Basically, style is just as much about finding yourself as it is about finding others.
I feel like it's not the clothes necessarily but the new "lifestyle" associated with the clothes. Like oh maybe I could be a newer better version of myself with a cool storyline instead of a mundane boring life.
Manifesting a Fashion Elitist X Frugal Aesthetics Collab Vid some time in this life
ive thought about this many times. ive never had the problem of keeping of with trends. but I did have the problem of trying to be different.
tbh the answer for me is just to shop for what I like. and what I think looks nice. i purposely avoid most fashion influencers on tiktok, insta etc.
(note: I do like to look at different fashion shows or pictures and pick out what I might want to try. So my style is influenced consciously and unconsciously by media)
Being different is about what you do and how you do it. It means doing it with sense and essence, creating despite, under and above limitations of purpose, doing nothing in peace or screaming in loud silence, speaking your words through your whole body, cherishing the present breathing moment with joy. Crying, letting go of shame with humility, smiling for no reason, embracing compassion, dancing by yourself, noticing the small gestures in life, looking for signs and symbols, constructing your own vocabulary, nurturing kindness, abundance is you, abundance is friends, abundance is the meaningful creation of a fleeting moment forever gone but forever remembered, abundance is intention, singing, being at peace with death and chaos, healing, going into the abyss of the unknown matching the beauty of its pitch darkness with your glaring eyes.
frugal aesthetic but super super in depth im here for it
I think more people should dress for themselves instead of dressing for strangers and social media trends. You don't need other people to like what you're wearing, you don't need their validation. You can wear whatever you want and just enjoy it because you like it.
This channel is growing exponentially,love to see it
I just dress the way I like and get excited when I see other people doing the same. That's enough for me. Also, the fashion world (anyone who cares about fashion and clothing, or even self expression) is insanely small compared to everything else. There's going to be other people who enjoy the same things you do, but you still belong to a niche group of people enjoying the same thing.
From watching these videos, I get the impression that I have no idea what fashion is and probably don't want to.
When you mention trends I remembered how John Maclean said "Trends are for the anxious."
the most frustrating situation is just found a “different one” exactly like you
I can’t imagine trying to stick out. I do everything in my power to look exactly like whatever setting I’m in. Maybe it’s because Im a criminal in my core. They key to clothing is to make sure no one could remember seeing me
the issues in this video apply to 0 viewers watching
Man I love trying a trend and feeling confident in my outfits but I have never felt different or superior because of it, like, where do you think your fashion inspo comes from?
fruits magazines, and runways thats where I started to get
inspo in when i first started fashion.
Man I be binge watching ur vids during work lol
I should not be getting paid 💀
Really enjoy your content for its pure expression. I love the sections you separate the video into, it keeps it very interesting and engaging. I keep trying look look up those yogi brands you keep referencing but I never get any search results, am I spelling it wrong? Also where would you recommend going in New york for fashion?
yohji yamamoto
you did your job to inspire, sweet outro
7:30
Nobody says plumbers or mathmeticians cant have drip. If anything they probably make more money than the fashion kids on social media.
I haven't bought cloths in like 8 months and I've only had a LinkedIn acc for abt 3 years now I'm truly different
Bro spent so much money it turned to regret 😂😂😂😂
Clothes should not be a defining factor whether or not someone is different but its sad how nowadays thats what its looks like to be honest, Ive met people with really nice clothes but be as boring as watching paint dry you wanna stand out just be YOU stop trying to look cool or try and set yourself apart from people through visuals but instead just be YOU im poor and don't have alot really going for me other than my music and who I am I stand out hard no matter where I go its the energy you bring and alot of the times people whether they wanna see it or not they bring that same old I don't care negative energy people can feel that its boring cause EVERYONE IS IN THAT I DON'T CARE TYPE MODE
why tf am i even watching this i just wear what my mom buys for me
I always struggle on when do I know if it’s time to sell a piece. Maybe a video idea?
but what does 'better' mean? Isn't fashion subjective, so you're using your ego to judge someone else and then using comparison as a means of humbling.
fashion is inherently wrapped up in ego since it is all about self.
@@fashionelitist interesting! what do you mean by ‘better dressed than me’? we have different styles so i was just curious what you think better is!
What about people like me who want to wear suits and ties with a hat often like men used to do back in the day? (1920s-60s/70s)
go for it 🤷🔥
do it, but also consider the occasion. Have you also tried looking at vintage trends in those decades as well? Men weren't all suits and ties in the 50s, I like their casual styles a lot personally.
@@groovyhat9282 I know, the greaser style is a good example of this...
Bro talks about being individualistic, but bro looks like fancy Steve Jobs
great vid as always happy to support you JQ
Great Video
Someone doing what I am trying to do only better isn’t just true in fashion, it’s true in everything.
I NEED that sweater shown @ 12:23, i cant make out the brand he said though any help?
Very nice, lets see paul allens dark priest outfit
love your videos, keep going
I love this video because I literally don't consume fashion rly, but I have definitely chased a look I like on someone else before!
Personally Glad that everyone caught on to Hype/ streetwear . Either if your in it for the profits it’s a good piece of culture If you know how to not over consume