7 Things Women Should Quit Doing Today!
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- You need to watch this if you are over 60. Let's begin again. I thought long and hard before making this video about the things I could share that would truly make a real difference in our lives. Aging is full of wonder and change, wisdom and reflection and it's also filled with some difficult challenges that we face every day. Body, mind and spirit all working together for a happier healthier life. I take you through a walk through the park with my friend Hal and I share with you the things I struggle with the most at 66. If you have time please down below leave a comment on some things you had to change when you turned 60 or beyond. I don't want this to be all about me and my ideas..I so want us all to contribute.
I missed you all so much this week and I was so happy to sit down and chat with you. Next week I will give you a life update and let you know how Bill is doing! So many of you are so kind and ask about him. I am hoping to be able to get in and visit with him very soon.
Thank you so much to everybody who is here...I love you to the moon and back...
Have a great new week....we love you, Susan & Desi
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Susan you are so wonderful I am 56 and love to read, be in nature and today I went to my garden next to a very old bamboo tree and put classical music and me and my 20 year old daughter with autism dance and laugh and look at the moon it was magical , Time literally stopped and I glanced at my daughter's face and she was looking at me in amazement, she is not very verbal but she has a voice she was telling me mommy thank you for seeing me and for giving me joy ,Susan my daughter is my biggest teacher of unconditional love and you my dear Lady , you give Love every time you make your videos and I am blessed every time I come back.😊
Oh Ivette....you just made my year! You have such an amazing heart and so full of love and understanding for your beautiful daughter that loves you so....I felt like I was right there with you...loving the moon, the music, and all that love swirling around like a sweet hurricane.....thank you so os much for being here....xxoo Love to your and yours always, Susan & The Dez
What a beautiful story. I can just imagine the beauty & magic of the bamboo tree, classical music & dance with your daughter. So very touching...xx
This story moved me. What a sweet, kind, loving mama ... You are a true blessing.❤️🙏❤️
Ivette Nevel...Thankyou for being such a beautiful person and mother to your daughter....I am an autistic adult (a little older than you) and knew no love, only abuse from my mother who didn't know how to show love...it warms my heart to read you share times with your daughter like you described💝🙂....I share similar such times with my youngest daughter too who is the only person i have ever learned what love truly is from....I too love the moon 🌝 &🌠🌌⭐s, music 🎶 and the 🌊sea🌊 🙂🙏
Beautiful ❤
To live a happier life, I’ve turned off the television, I don’t watch any news, I guard my peace fiercely, I get rid of negative people. I try to remember to ask myself if what I’m doing is helping to create the life I want. I’m older....and I’ve also stopped taking any crap. I’ve found my voice and my power. Life is good. 😎
Congratulations!!!! You are worth it!!!!
Awesome! We need people like you to remind us 😍💕
@@jenrich111 well it took me many years to learn this. 🌷
SO TRUE...I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF!! GOD BLESS US ALL!!
No you an not turn off live and put the doing and responsibilities on the rest of us that is why you will be invisible
Thank you for your comments Susan. I’m 85 in a few weeks and I do sing every day while watering my jungle of plants and feeding my birds .happiness
comes in many forms. A spa day once a week doing head to toe makes me feel good. I thank God with gratitude for another day to enjoy
H.
Bless you
🌷I’m two days into being 65, and other than Medicare, I actually love it! I was divorced at 62 and had to give up my home, but I’ve kept moving and moving ahead is the best!!! Thank you for your gentle soul, and calming advice. God bless you and your viewers, no matter what age or weight-you are loved! 🦋💜🥰
Happy 65th Birthday, Dee!!! You have a wonderful attitude, and I hope all your birthday wishes come true!!! :)
I love your energy!
So Happy for you Dee..I have a similar story..Better life now and hope for you too! Enjoy your day🌿
Dee - 1956 was a very good year, Girl💕. My birthday was two months ago. Why do I not feel old inside?? We are the cool people!😎
Happy Birthday 🌺
on happiness... my dear old Dad who died 3 weeks before his 95th birthday had a saying.... Someone has to be happy, and you have to decide its you......... I am now 70 and live by that mantra to this day
Thank you for sharing that. My dad died just 2 months befor his 95th birthday. I miss him terribly. But I'll follow your dad's advice too.
Beautiful...
This is so true. Love it!
I am that little green leaf and I love it! Praise God!
thanks for sharing your Dad 😘💕"Someone's gotta be happy, so it may as well be you kid."
I have spent the past week bicycling in Albania. I rode over some of the biggest mountains I have ever seen, and I’m really proud of myself. Bicycling all over the world is my passion, and I’m 70.
Wow. I am in awe.
Wow
Wow
Janette - I am hugely proud of you and we've never met! NEVER STOP MOVING FOWARD!!!! 👍 ❤️ 🤗
you are giving me life!!! you go girl and you are my new hero!!! I am in awe of you...!!
I am 63. When I was 59, I went back to weight watchers. Lost over 100 pounds and have kept it off over three years. Eight weeks ago, I had a tummy tuck. I too did it for the right reasons...health.
Good for you! You should be very proud of yourself. I bet you look and feel fantastic!
@Renee Congratulations!🎉🎊👏
Good for you i bet you look beautiful, don't forget to love yourself
Awesome
That's fantastic Renee!! So glad you followed your desire and did it!!
I have a 23 year old granddaughter who when she was very young, used to dance with me to Abba music. Recently, I asked her if she remembered that. And, guess what? She does! So ladies, dance with who you can, even if it’s yourself.
I love dancing to ABBA,too!
❤️❤️
I feel the same as many out there. Divorced since 2003, now 71. Never thought I’d be spending the rest of my life alone. I have two wonderful sons and their spouses and two pups but daily life is lonely even when I’m busy. There is little joy in getting older. Seems I’ve reached the age that even when I get dressed up and do my hair for dinner out...well, no one says “you look great” anymore. I want to scream “please notice me”. I’d love to find joy again. Hang in there. We’re in this together. 💕
I feel as you. Very lonely except for lil dog.
Bless you both ❤️🙏🏻
I am still married to my one and only, however for 30 out of 35 years he has been sick. I too feel lonely. Also very overweight and no friends. Guess there's a few of us out there.
Hang in there you guys! Keep getting out, talk to strangers, join card/games groups, go to church if you like, volunteer... meet new people. We must get out and reach out and hopefully you'll meet some new friends and not feel as alone. Now I'm going to take my own advice 😀 ❤️
I understand how you feel. At times I feel lonely too. I have a daughter with my grandchildren but at times their lives get too busy and I’m at home with my little dog 🐩. I’ve started to go to senior exercise classes a couple times during the week just to get out. Wishing you the very best! Debbie 💖💖💖
My Mother's very close friend is 94 and still teaching yoga. She has a boyfriend that is 64. Her husband passed away when she was 70. She met another man that took her to Europe for her first time in her 70's. She is always funny and upbeat. She is an inspiration. I keep myself happy, by decorating my home, getting my hair done once a week, doing my skincare daily, taking care of my boy, Ming and buying Louboutin!
Ok that sounds wonderful!!! Paris!!! I am so happy to see Sherry and I hope your new week will be a great one!!!
I have a Pekingese puppy named Sushi, Sherry! Hope Ming is as much of a character as my Sushi is - she keeps me hopping, LOL🐶😍
I’ve never had a birthday party in my honor since age 4. I’ve always been afraid no one would show up. 🤣
you are being too hard on yourself!
I needed your inspiration today. I am 77 and have been under the weather for over two weeks. Feeling sorry for myself and very much alone. I know that I need to get out of my pity party and move forward but it is hard. I am lonely and really always feel like third wheel when I am with other folks. I miss my husband and I must move forward. Ok just wanted to say thank you and I will try.
My mother said the same thing when my dad died. She said she felt out of place around others. It floored me because we enjoyed her company. She just needed time to adjust. You do too. Try to get up and get out!!💕💕
Teresa I am with you. I never felt so alone. I am 60 and divorced. Never thought my life would be like this.
Bless you 🌸🌷🌹
Find a little hobby, maybe a little blooming plant on your table, puzzle, a tiny lamp, birds, find what you like
Teresa, I’m with you too. I’m 71, divorced since 55 and never thought I’d spend the rest of my years alone. Every day is filled with feelings of emptiness even when busy. It’s sad to thing to think “this is it, this is as good as it gets”. Well, you’re not alone. There are a lot of us with you💕
Wouldn’t it be great if we could all meet and hug? Or we could be email pals to chat with each day. Even just to say “good morning!!”.
I live a happier life by knowing that everyone on this earth is broken and has experienced some sort of life changing event. Nobody is perfect, including me. It’s all about grace. Extending it to others and to ourselves. And by doing that I don’t expect anyone to make me happy! They are released from that job. I experience joy by having people in my life, but they are not responsible for producing that joy... only I am.
After my parent's died and my dogs I caught a reflection of my face in a mirror in a store. I did not recognize the face I saw. The saddest face I had stopped smiling and I looked absolutely miserable. From the day on I found myself avoiding mirrors. I finally figured it out I have my Dads big brown eyes and every time I looked into the mirror I saw my fathers eyes. The song In my fathers eyes was sung at my Dads funeral. I could not bear to look at my reflection because I could not bear to see my those big sad brown eyes. Its been eight years and I have been actively seeking things that bring joy. Shopping for plants and gardening, making a wreath for the door, walking in the woods by a stream with my dogs, changing house decor with the seasons. A pretty seasonal window display or a blooming plant in the bathroom or by the sink or on the deck can brighten your day. A bird feeder brings beautiful cheerful birds to look at.
Yes! Keep going Sharon! One day soon you will be smiling & happy looking @ yourself in the mirror, and you will see you're Dad eyes smiling back @ you with Love!🙏
Come to Arizona, Sharon. We can walk the desert trail, up Spook Hill near my house. I can see the sunset & all of the city of Phoenix from the top. We baby boomer ladies need to support each other - we are the In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida people.🌵😎❤️
Beautiful comment! I know longer recognize myself 😶
yes, changing decor seasonally is a surprising boost. also house flag. ask a friend or neighbor over for a cup of tea and serve a simple dessert, put on some classical music, play cards or watch a movie together. makes the day special for both of you.
Totally get it. I don't like to look in mirrors anymore either. You never get used to the aging process. Just have to accept it.
What a wonderfully inspiring message! I am nearly 75 years old, recently lost my beloved partner, moved from my home and friendship circle, and went through the pandemic utterly alone BUT I feel more alive, more engaged, more excited about life than I have in years because FINALLY I can be ME with no apologies, singing, laughing, playing, a tiny leaf racing down the stream, eager for each new moment!
Hello Kaitlin
I went to classes to have my dog certified as a therapy dog, and took him visiting at nursing homes. Most residents loved it! They never remembered my name, but they knew my husky, Cheyenne 😀 Some residents never had a visitor other than us. It helped me as much as the residents.
What a beautiful thing to do!
Oh Karen this brought tears to my eyes....I was allowed to bring Cooper in to see my Mom at the nursing home and the residents loved him...one man had not talked in 1 tear but when he saw Cooper he said " Hey buddy" :) Thank you for telling me this!
This really touches my heart. You and your dog are precious to do what you’re doing. It’s often in the giving that we receive the most.
When my Dad was alive three years ago in the nursing home, we would bring our Jack Russell to the rooms. Most everyone loved him. It made them smile and maybe remember when they had a dog!
I worked in a nursing home yrs ago still remember my favorite patients and how sweet they are thats a great thing to do yes sadly some have no visitors or very little
They need company bless ya
I used to enjoy painting when I was a teen, but life got in the way and I abandoned it. Now, at the age of 71 I have started painting again. I may not be creating a masterpiece, but it brings me great peace and joy. Thank you for today's discussion. You hit the nail on the head. Oh, and I guess I'll have to start singing again too, lol.
We I was a young girl before I got married I could draw anything you want than here came marriage, and some how I didnt take that time,so I stop it,now I'm 66 cant do it,God said if you dont use it ,he give it to someone else,I think it's still inside of you,but you got to be willing to use it,God know the heart ,mind,and soul,so he works things out,when you need it most
You remind me of Mr. Rogers... he made me feel calm and heard . You knew he cared ! You are like that ... kind , caring and you get fabulous, mature ladies ! I love trying all the skin products and watching you shop!
Crying my eyes out as I listen to this. Thank you Susan...I really needed this pep-talk today. Peace friend. 🌷🙋♀️
Doing the same thing I guess I’m not alone ❤️
By the way my name is Dede also
I will be 62 in June. I lost my best friend two years ago. She was only 60. I lost my brother last September. He was only 68. I have decided to live each day in gratitude. I am a cancer survivor (15 years out) and I am so fortunate to still be here. I also decided to stop working full-time and go to part-time work. Life is short and I want to appreciate every day. I've also learned to "Be connected to everything and attached to nothing."
I like that "be connected to everything and attached to nothing." Great advice. Never heard that.
I really like that philosophy..... I will be divorced at age 65 in July and I am looking forward to peace in my life.
As we age we seem to lose a lot more people in our lives. Life is short for sure. "Being connected to everything and attached to nothing" I like that.
OMG, thank you. I was so afraid you were going to say stop wearing your hair long,,, stop wearing skirts above the knee.... and so on. You're 7 stops are so empowering, I should have known better! Love it, thank you. ❤️
Thank you for your videos. It's like talking to a friend. I'm 51 years old, lost my job, broke, filing for bankruptcy, depression, anxiety and have sucicide ideation. I never thought that this where I would be in my life.
I hope things improve for you soon Pale Opal, these are hard times indeed. Just wanted you to know that someone is sending kind thoughts your way. 🙂🌷
@pale opal. Please don’t despair, things will improve ,maybe not as fast as you would like but they will. Take care of yourself first and foremost for you are worth it💐
@@carment1020 Thank you for your kind words.
@@marielcalder103 Thank you for your kind words.
Please go to your local Human Services Authority for counseling and good luck to your!
Growing older is really a privilege and embracing how far we've traveled in our lives is part of the process. I always tell my viewers not to give up what they love, but to modify the process as much as they need to, so they can continue to do the things that give them pleasure. Creating our own happiness is one of the most important keys to a happy, productive life. One of the things I enjoy most about being older is many of the responsibilities that took up the majority of our time when we were younger, no longer demand all of our attention, and the freedom to do other things that we love is wonderful.
I always look forward to your channel on Saturdays. I’m 63 but don’t feel a day over 50. I love that I am young at heart but also love the wisdom and experience I have gained throughout the years. I now embrace the beauty of God’s word and truly enjoy the simple joys and blessings of life.
You know, I'm estranged from my only child. She has addiction issues - she's a prodigal. Yes, I do pray for her + But what helps me not feel invisible, not feel like I'm nothing b/c I have all this life experience & my daughter isn't interested in me -- is -- I've become close friends with younger women online. One, in particular, I've known since she was a high school fashion blogger in a small-town -- she's now 27 and living the life in NYC! So, even if my own daughter isn't interested, there are women who are, and that's where I need to place my energy & my focus.
I can so relate to you. My only child/daughter has a mental disability, never really worked and keeps getting into trouble, drinking, abusing oxycodone, lost license, steals from family members, etc. She is now facing jail time due to a violation of her probation due to a dui. I am ready to evict her as after 36 yrs, nothing has changed and her toxic behavior is getting me down.
@@debc2019 Bless you! Know that you remain in my prayers, you & yours + Al-anon has helped me a lot!
My daughter distanced herself, yet again. I let her in and out she went again, I don't even know exactly where she lives now, I know she went to Arizona and
bought a ranch type mobile home with plenty of space to grow veggies, plant fruit trees and did it back with an EX again and left me to the dust! I was sick
and recuperating from being hit head on, and almost fatal car wreck, well, she came by me for around a little after a year, than took off, left me alone and
no address or what the place looks like so I am at a loss, next time, when my time really comes, she won't even now, if you know what I mean, she will have to figure it out for herself. I'm getting up in years and not even a call or email
not even one once a month, she will never know what happens to me or when
it will, my God, I never treated my mom like that, stayed with her for all of two
months it took for her to pass and took care of funeral arrangements! They are
not the same anymore these days.
@@angelfirelite Big hugs, and the depths of understanding to you, my dear friend: altho the exact circumstances are different, our journeys have been painfully similar.
I’m estranged from my mother. It used to really hurt, but I’ve learned to let some people go, with love and compassion.
I feel so sick with just an extra ten pounds - always been like that throughout my life I can never get over 5 lbs above my weight. But it was easy to stay skinny until I turned 60. Now I have to eat less and move more - I sing every morning for at least an hour.
We are much harder on ourselves than we are on anyone.
@@lilliegill3565 shadow?
@@penelopepitstopp8943 it is my phone,it has spell check and i dont know that it chane words until i send the message,but people i see their writting all the time,do the same thing,i just over look cause i know why,anyone miss spell their words,in a text.
yes mine just did it again
@@lilliegill3565 That's ok. I think it's cute. No worries :)
At 60 I had to accept losing family members. Dad, Mom and my brother. I think that’s the hardest part of aging, dealing with loss. I accept I don’t look like I used to or have the stamina but the loss is so hard. Do you look so put together and pretty every day? Desi is a cutie pie. ❤️💕
I lost my dad than my brother than my sister than came my mom,now just lost my brother in law,and so many more,it really like cakes life from you in a way,and when mom died she would have been turning 86 and I was 64 ,but I always told her we was just her kids,dad and mom had 10 kids,but I was still just her kid,still listen to what she say and tell us,I never felt any other way until she died in 2019,now I feel like an old woman,she gone.God bless you and yours.
I'm taking online classes and I adopted a senior rescue dog to my household. We love to walk and get out and about.
Hello Mary
Ouch! The tip about nobody has ever said as cruel things to me as I have said to myself. So many good tips but that one hit home! Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!
Deb I hear you !! I talk so bad to myself and why?? I'm happy with who I am, I'm kind I'm true, im helpful..But why am I so nasty to 'me"??Let's work hard on this one ok ?I'm not going to let "me" push "me" around anymore! Lol Be well Deb..🌿❤
@@sandykish9608 it's a deal Sandy. We are better than we let ourselves believe
Susan. You are such a delight. I’ve been deeply depressed and listening to you and your calm voice has really helped today. I need to make myself happy and that’s my goal
Thank you
Cathy
Hello Cathy
Iam 55. I have 3 sons . my cat Marco . I love to grow Roses.I also draw and write poetry. Just got myself a exercise bike.I love going for walks.
WOW!!!1 That's what I need... an exercise something!!!!
Hello Cyndi 🥰😊
@@LittlePoet I personally think you look just fine I think you're a very beautiful lady.
@@Cyndis865 There us no question Susan LOOKS terrific and has too many outstanding qualities to cover. However, exercising can. Make her FEEL even better! And certain types of exercise can bring her into the company of new people which could expand her world even more!
All of us would benefit from at least some form of exercise!
Thank you for being such a wonderful friend to so many of us.❤ Your inspiration is priceless.
A few months into the lockdown and working from home, I found myself at my heaviest weight ever. I have a treadmill I had really never used so I started walking on my lunch hour every day to burn off stress. It was very hard in the beginning but I kept pushing myself. I began with 1 mile a day at a relatively slow rate and I started intermittent fasting. Now, almost a year later, I walk 3 miles a day on my lunch hour, and I have lost almost 40 lbs!!! I feel so much better and I have so much more energy! I still have another 15 lbs to go and I will do it. At almost 66 years young, I feel better than I have in years. I have also grown a lot spiritually by feeding my Spirit. Your visit today has inspired me to make a few more changes and I look forward to an even more fulfilling and happier life. Thank you so much, Susan, for being such a caring and beautiful friend!! Love you and cute little Desi!! XOXO
This was one of your best videos ever.
Hello Nicole 🥰
Hi Susan after listening to your video I got up and put some cream on my brown spots.Since my husband died last April I really have neglected myself. Thanks for your encouragement.
Oh Joy, I am so sorry for your loss!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to say hello!!!!
You’re such a great source of comfort. I can’t deal with the cuteness, of Desi.
I know, Desi is a star! Have a great weekend!!! xxoo Susan & Desi
That's what I told her months ago...😍 I love it.
I love Desi!
Hi.Susan..this was quite emotional for me, I'm 67 years old so it made me think about my future.The Pandemic made me realize important things in my life. I'm retired from work...So be happy to see family and friends again soon, & also go back to the health club, when it opens in May to the gym & eventually when the exercise classes starts again...It is good for mental health & wellbeing...It's a good social life as well, missed this lots.. But your vlog was filled with love & hope,& you made me realize hope, & things to look forward to in the future...I'm responsible for my own happiness.☕😀✨
I just hit 60 a few weeks ago and have been feeling...anxious. I really needed this video to reset my mindset. Thank you.
Hello Kim
Me too.
I express my love freely and generously now. No holding back. I don’t have time for that and I do not want to regret holding back.
Hello Nicole 🥰
@@jameshurst8529 Hello, James.
@@nicoledeclercq3144 Good morning Nicole, how are you doing?
Little Poet your wisdom floors me. I love the things you talk about they are deep and touch the soul. I am soon to be 65 and look about 45 on a good day!! I come from the 1970s and believe in my fellow women enhancing their lives and liveing a limitless life ,it is still with me to this day🌺
OH Jersey! Thank you so much for being here and I bet you look fabulous!!!! Now here is your channel!!! xxooo
Hi Susan, wonderful uplifting video. I'm 68 and very lucky to be surrounded by my loving family and husband. In my head I'm still 18! I try to find something to make me laugh every day. I rode a horse yesterday - first time in years and my daughter and I laughed so much. Be kind and loving, especially to yourself. Xxx
Hello Susan
I'm not meaning to sound like I'm complaining, but I'm trying to find myself right now. In June I will turn 60 and that is bothering me so much. I'm grateful to be turning 60, but I'm feeling different and looking different. I've always enjoyed being a mother and now a grandmother, but as far as hobbies, I've never really known what I was really good at. I want to find my purpose at times.
I love your videos, Susan, and always look forward to watching them. ❤️
Hello Terri 🥰
Thank you susan😇 I not only love your wise content but comments from your subscribers are also a blessing. Such beautiful wise women all saying something that matters. Where else would we have an opportunity to have us all together, all around the same place in life. Helping and listening. I am alone but at 62 I have learned to appreciate all the beauty around us and I talk alot to my little Pixel and I know he loves it cause his little curled over tail just wags in all its glory. I often recite poetry but I will start to sing too.....Thank you ladies, you are all my friends. Hi from uk
One thing I have done to feel happier is to not rush and hurry to get things done in my daily life. It brings a sense of calm and peace. One thing at a time,it all gets done.
You're so sweet. Life is what you make it, you're so right. Bless you and Dezi.
Thanks for the tip about the voice. I realize I don’t use my voice very much because I live by myself and the only person I talk to is my cat and when I dictate something like this. I used to have a lovely singing voice but the last 10 to 15 years that’s all change so I never sing. Well thank you I am going to sing for myself and see if I can improve my voice.I used to sing all the time. Drove everyone nuts. You must have a lovely complexion in person. Unfortunately I can’t use just about any products anymore that’s because I have developed severe acne rosacea rash on my nose and cheeks in the last few years which is aggravated by sun, heat, alcohol, hot foods and now mask wearing. It is also aggravated by anything I put on my face even soap which I’ve never used anyway. Thanks for the uplifting video.I am 83 and I’ve been trying to live every moment of my life because the older you get the faster those moments go by and you have to treasure each of them no matter what they’re like or what your face is like, in my case.
Thank you for sharing this
Warm Hugs to you
I just feel like saying to you, I hear you. Please try my lifelong tool for surviving the hard stuff, lifelong learning. Right now I am focused on atophagy. So much on RUclips about this amazing body function! It lead me to intermittent fasting an I've lost 20 lbs as of today! So excited about my future. I'm 69.
Oh how l wish that l could be like that. I’m in my 70’s and in severe depression yet again. I can’t summon up the energy to do anything and l really feel that for me l have had enough and it’s my turn. I haven’t got a happy gene in my body. This is a reality for some of us. I am pleased and happy for all you lovely ladies that have managed to overcome everything.❤️x
@@carrie-joylloyd5785 oh my love we are not at least I’m not perfect. There are days I don’t want to get out of bed. I don’t want to let myself think about the fact of how old I am and there isn’t really that much time left even if I live to be 100. The only thing I can do is keep on trucking. I know what depression is like are usually get it as soon as the days get shorter. Can’t take darkness so I have lights everywhere and they’re all LED so they don’t cost much and they’re on all the time.I don’t go out very much. The only thing that keeps me going it’s sort of a routine. I have several people I watch on RUclips videos and they post regularly on the same day every week,So they’re part of my day and can’t wait to see what’s next. For a few moments, I can live in a chateau, build a house in the hills of Utah or live on the AmFie coast. There’s a guy in New Zealand who loves to camp in that weather with his sheep dog and I love to follow him. In my youth I loved camping Lol I also like photography and pictures. I’ve taken thousands hundreds of thousands over the years and Google pictures have managed to pick up a lot of them. I love going through these and spend a fair amount of time doing that. Nothing better to bring back the good times. I paint but you know when you get older your hands are shaky and you can’t do what you used to do. I am a bit obsessive compulsive when it comes to painting so it’s very difficult for me to do it but I try when the spirit moves me. I find something to do something to occupy myself even if it’s playing with the cat. Having a pet is a big help. That doesn’t mean I’m not depressed it just means that I got to do something. I visit with my friends periodically however that might be once a week. I can’t tell you what to do but maybe if you thought about it you would come up with some things yourself to keep you occupied. I can’t tell you to just pick up your depression and get on with it because depression is not like that. You got to take it one tiny step at a time. You’re the only one who knows how to live and manage with it.
You have the most beautiful videos ever!! Thanks Susan!
I never gave a thought about my voice! I listen to oldies from the 60’s when I do the dishes each evening. From now on I’ll be singing along!! Thank you, this video is a wonderful message ❤️ Hugs to you and sweet lil’ Desi💕
Beautiful words of wisdom, Susan. This past year was one of the hardest for me. It is almost like everyone I know stopped and took stock in the things most important. I know I did a whole lot of reflecting on my life. I understand exactly what you mean about being our own worst critic. I fell into a very deep depression around 45 years old and had to see a counselor for months. I learned that every time you go to the doctor or see a psychiatrist they write down exactly what your appearance and demeanor were when you walked in or they first glanced at you. So much is carried on our faces and posture and it is exactly how people perceive the person you are. The psychologist explained to me the first time I walked into his office my whole face was down trodden and my look was downward. He taught me to look in a mirror and find one thing I like about myself and to keep doing that until I learn to love myself again and it worked. You are so correct about the words we say to ourselves and how we have the power to make ourselves complete and happy. Thank you Susan for your beautiful words that help each of us to put on a happy face and let the sunshine in!
Helo Sheila
I’m 57 and have to admit I am hard on myself. I have a habit of focusing on my faults and shortcomings. I am going to work on telling myself only positive things from now on. Thanks for inspiring me.
Your blue sweater is beautiful!
Hello Denise
I am almost 71 and have been writing books now for almost 50 years...I still write most days and am working on my 31st novel. I'm slowing down, yes, but I try to keep my dreams alive. I love my husband of 43 years; nature, I love others, my cat, Sasha. Life is what you make it. Little Poet you have the heart of an artist, the soul of one, too. Love your posts. My niece turned me on to you last year and now I'm hooked. Grin.
I am turning 60 this year and as I mentioned, I went back to college for my masters degree, but I also still look at different careers and think "I'd like to do that" then I realize like "hello,? you are 60 years old, how many things do yo want to do?" But, I love being curious and wondering if I would be good at this or that, and maybe I will have many more opportunities to find out!
I did my masters in my 60's too. Best of luck with your endeavors!
Hello Lucia 🥰
Thankyou for your uplifting way and words🌷
❤️✨ Thank you, for your inspirational and motivational talk with us today! I just had the same conversation this morning with my sister about how I feel invisible. Thank you for reminding me that I am responsible for my own happiness. I look forward to your weekly shows because they bring me happiness. ❤️✨Take care.
Wife applying. My husband was the singer in the band. Everytime I started to sing around the house he he used to say to me I'm out of tune not to sing. I used to tell him not to listen if you didn't like my singing. Music is the food of Life so play on. I'll be 69 this year. I've always had music around me. Your spirit comes alive when you hear music. I used to love my husband singing.
@@washington9347 no my name is not Joseph. But since he passed away I've been using his tablet. I'm not very good I'm still learning. When you get to certain age the grey cells do not work so well. But I'm trying
Greetings Susan! This was truly a great video. It was beautiful and kind and warm and compassionate. Love and blessings 🙏❤
This was so inspirational Susan. Your photography was beautiful. 👏❤👏
Hello Christina 😊
So very lovely. I am sure we have never met but you spoke to me in this video. Sadly many times we are our own worse enemy. Yes, we do need to stop mistreating ourselves and allowing others to do the same. We must examine what we tolerate in our lives be it from others or ourselves. 💕🌹
Thank you for sharing.
You are an angel and inspiration.
I've been using skin care products you recommended in an earlier video. Rose hip, carrot oil, castor oil, Squalane and
Snail 92. Even with being in the Florida sun every day, my skin looks smoother, clearer and brighter. Thank you for taking the time to research and try these products to tell us about.
Susan, my husband has advanced Parkinson's disease and he is losing his voice. Some of his therapy includes big and loud yelling at the top of his lungs and it really does strengthen his vocal cords. I never thought of it for myself to keep my vocal cords strong but today I start! I shall sing as I garden...and if the neighbors hear me hopefully they will be inspired rather than annoyed! I also ordered the coffee scrub. I haven't been doing any exfoliating. You always inspire me so much! Thank you my dear! So is that Hal in the Melon sweater? So cute!
I always love your videos...being older than you..I do 🎵 sing every day of my life. I sing sing sing.... sending hugs prayers and kindness with a smile 😊
Susan you are one of the most beautiful people on RUclips. You're thoughtful, gentle, kind. I always feel so good after I watch your videos! I don't sing as much as I used to because I forget the words. But you've changed that today! Another use it or lose it situation! Love to you and Desi! And one last thing, your hair and outfit are beautiful! (Well you are!) My Mom was beautiful until she was 85 and Alzheimer's got the best of her. Her last two years she couldn't keep up with her appearance and the disease took over. To feel better I spent the last week purging my house of things that were no longer needed and keeping me from enjoying my family room. My brother came to Maryland from Washington State and we filled a dumpster. He organized my tool room so it's immaculate and I can get back to playing and repurposing things.
Hello Lori
Good for you! -A mighty fine brother you are blessed with!
@@gigics1612 I truly am!
For us older single gals (73), a kind & helpful brother is a godsend. When I purged my house of about 1/3 its contents, I worked for several months just sorting, donating, cleaning etc. Then my brother & I filled a dumpster that stretched the length of my house & most of my driveway. What a freeing experience!! I could probably do another 1/3 purge this fall IF I can convince my brother to help again.
I love you.... 😍 like a big sister, your observatuon of life is so much like mine!!°°°°°° you deserve so much you tube success. I'm watching commercials on your channel for you!
Ty for adon voice!!!! And keeping yourself full with hobbies, friends, etc...
You are so beautiful...your eyes speak softly and your smile brings joy to me. I am 75 and feel I have nothing left in me. Watching you gives me some hope for what is yet to come. Thank you💙
Best video I listened to in awhile.
Hello Jenny 😊
Great video Susan. You are glowing. Happiness looks fabulous on you. Blessings ❤
We always need to give ourselves a pep talk and recount what we have accomplished and our life lessons and to celebrate ourselves
Wonderful video, Susan! Love it.
Oh Susan, I love your sweet voice when you speak to us on why we should paddle on in our canoe of life. I especially love your tears that need no voice to speak volumes of love and care for all.
Oh how you touch my heart!!! Thank you!
You have no idea how much you brighten my day! Just love you!! 🥰🥰🥰
Hello Ginger
I am so glad that I found your videos. You are a beautiful soul. ❤️ Linda
Just shared your post with my Facebook friends. Your videos are the highlight of my week!
That is so sweet!!!
My two older sisters think I'm so selfish, My husband and I have been married for almost 45 years. We don't have kids. (DID"NT WANT) We do our own thing and I really enjoy taking care of myself. We are hikers and walkers. I really don't sit still. Because I'm thin and take care of my appearance they think I think only of myself. Maybe I am selfish caring about how I look and feel. Sorry but they have just settled to be fat and on meds. I will not SETTLE!!!! My plan is keep moving. And that makes my husband and I HAPPY!!!!
Good for you!
Great for you! Continue enjoying your life! It’s your life.
I understand you so well. I’m almost 60. Happily married for 40 years. No kids.
We have had and continue to have a healthy and fit life.
Two things have been said about me from my overweight sister.
She said I was too selfish to have kids, and that I’m always on a diet.
I don’t know why she would care one way or another if I had kids. And saying that I’m always in a diet? Nope, Ive always been active and tried to eat healthy.
I think it just aggravates her that I’m not 40-50 lbs overweight with arthritis like her. lol.
I loved it when Desi snatched his bone before sharing with the neighbor dogs. He had me laughing. Thank you for the meaningful pep talk. I am going to be 68 in May and working full time in Home Decor which I so enjoy. People always ask when am I going to retire. I answer back why? Why should I stop when it makes me happy?👏😘🌻🌸🌼
I love your perspective on getting older!! Thank you!
Hello Janette
Great talk! All so true! Thank you!
Wow I'm 65 and this was great advice!!!☺
I am 70 and finally allowed myself to be a mixed media artist, let the creativity flow.
Congratulations Mary!!!!!
Hello Mary 🥰
I am turning 68 this month and I love love love creating mixed media art ! Kinship. With the blessing of retirement I have more time to create.
You don't know how much your words healed me tonight. 55 years old and what you said about being invisible really hit me very hard it struck a chord with me. I believe you're right continue that manttra it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Thank you for your Insight and your genuine concern.
I look so forward to your videos every weekend. 🙂😇
You touch my heart Maureen....I think I jknow just waht you are saying....and you are so very young! But it's there...I remember walking into a room in 1975....I remember it well...and now, when I loose my confidence I feel inviable...well I won't have it! So I sing! LOL...love to you! Susan & Desi
Today you were particularly kind to everyone, reminding us to be the best we can be. Today you did especially good Susan, I’m sure you touched a lot of people, making everyone feel heard. Thank you for helping everyone 🌿🌸🌷🍃🌸🌷🌿
Your always a joy to watch..and the Desi🐶❣
Susan, Thank You ~ again :) I am 62, lost my life mate of 32 years 5 years ago. My 2 adult sons are living with me (temporarily), my b/f of almost 3 years and I split up, and I was reminded that this is the first time in decades that I am not caring for someone, and I now have freedom to do (& BE) whatever I choose. It is liberating and has me in a wondrous state. I love your videos, and your passion and wisdom. Thank YOU ~ Be Blessed - Love & Kisses to You & Desi!
My Saturday evening is now complete with your wise and inspirational words. And thank you for sharing the true wonder and beauty of the simple things in life. Love to you and Desi ❤️
Hi
You are so encouraging! We all need that from time to time. Thank you Susan for being you.
You have opened up some hopeful doors for me today as my little green leaf floats downstream. I’m glad you had that creative fellowship with a photographer friend. It shows in this week’s inspiring video.
Hello Cynthia!!! I think there is something magical watching something so tiny and small tackle a vibrant stream and survive and thrive!!! I feel like this is US!
Hi,
I just love watching you.
I understand the things you say, they make me think about my life.
You are so beautiful inside and out.
Thank you for being here for us.
Love from Westland. ♥️
I love that little leaf!🌿
Oh Susan! You are such a delight! You had me breaking out into song starting with Oklahoma!! LOL!! You’re the best...and so inspiring! Love and God Bless, Mary ❤️🤗❤️
Hello Mary
Susan & Mary! Two of my favorite Lovely Lovies💕
Oh Mary! a visit from you! So Cool.
My 87 year old uncle who is by the way practicing medicine in Jackson Mississippi and passing his yearly exam every year, sounds like a 35 year old ! He is a very chatty and has a lot to talk about. Thank you for telling us about practicing the vocal cord ; it’s so true. I’m a teacher and because of COVID I cannot sing with my kindergarteners anymore and my voice is declining ;( I shall sing at home from now on. 🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻 I’m glad you don’t feel invisible anymore.
I love you Susan and Desi💞💝🌸🌺. I have so much to be happy for, grateful for and thankful for and I am, yet also I'm in pain, feel un well and am exhausted. In fact I am too exhausted and am very hot and can't continue with my comment. Thank you for your wonderful posts every week you are magic in the best of ways and so is little Desi!!!!
Oh Kathleen, I hope you are feeling better soon. I know pain can really take the wind out of our sails, but we sometimes must work through it someway. I will keep you in my prayers.
Way better advice than stop wearing miniskirts. Best piece of advice I have been given is to replace every negative thought with a positive one. If I have a bad nights sleep I can either go around all day moaning about it or I can make plans on how I am going to have a lovely pamper evening later that day to relax me into a better nights sleep It really is all about how we talk to ourselves
That is just beautiful Sue...wow....thank you!!!
sue Wrather...love your comment. ❤
Great and uplifting video... thanks for sharing you your gift and Desi♥️
Love this video Susan. I enjoy caring for Nicholas I adopted. He’s 15 and I’m 68! It’s not always easy but I am making our life work! So rewarding.
Alright Vickie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hello Vickie
Thanks Susan. I really needed to hear this today. I have been having mobility issues and i get discouraged. Thanks for reminding me that i need to continue to find my voice and not give up!!
Oh you hit the nail on the head with this video. Only people our age can really understand what you are saying, and appreciate it
I have discovered you yesterday. Today I am watching you again and already feel like a friend. I've lost my dear husband last year. I am hurting every hour of the day.
You, wonderful ❤lady, made my day! Thank you!
Wat a great video!
I enjoy reading out loud and poetry just has to be read out loud. Unfortunately I only have half of my vocal cords working. Never found out why this happened years ago. I try to talk above pitch and do better and also singing can almost sound normal for me. Wish I could have my normal voice back. One big thing I had to change was at 57 I lost my husband, best friend, lover and supporter. Nothing ever was so difficult. We wanted to grow old together. He was nine years older than me but I thought we had so much time ahead and God’s plan was different. I now eat when I want and don’t plan much ahead but I do need to lose some extra pounds that are hanging on and I’m tired of putting it off. Thanks for sharing. You are uplifting as always.have you thought about getting a PO Box? I wrote you a card years ago but I would not give out your new address. So maybe a PO if you wanted?
During the pandemic my weight has fluctuated between 151-160. Fortunately I’m tall but I’d rather stay at151. On Tuesday I made that Skinny Soup that was the rage in the late 70’s and early 80’s for weight loss. While watching your video I whipped up a batch of Ghiradelli brownies!
I had the same experience with the same weight gain. I am now fasting each day 16/8 and eating low carb. I feel great and dropped the ten pounds in a month. You can do it!
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Omg one more comment.
That quoat in the end. SOOOO TOUCHED ME.
😇YOU'RE A EARTH ANGEL. 🌎