Things to Say to Get Your Ex Back

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @nathansebby4356
    @nathansebby4356 7 лет назад +205

    Omg you saved my realationship thank you so much my life is so much better now

  • @ronaksoni6535
    @ronaksoni6535 9 лет назад +161

    I showed her I lover her so much . but nothing is working ....she is now more open with her friends instead of me ..seeing her breaks me down every time. I just want to get back with her.

  • @mohammedabusharia1899
    @mohammedabusharia1899 8 лет назад +51

    It was a hell useful advice Dan, you're like a mentalist who is aware our fears and teaching us how to deal with it perfectly ..
    thanks mate

  • @raphaelrosenbaum7204
    @raphaelrosenbaum7204 7 лет назад +7

    You spot on with your comments about when a woman gives you so many chances that she needs to really see a big change in you. She was telling me that weeks before the breakup that i needed to improve myself and fix the area's that i needed fixing. unfortunately she had such a small time frame for me to fix all that needed to be fixed so she broke up with me.

  • @apuzer7159
    @apuzer7159 5 лет назад +39

    Saw my ex today to get my stuff we hugged and she was crying I told her thank you for everything and sorry I said all those silly things about my self and they're not true and that this has given me time to reflect and to work on my self. I kept a positive attitude and made sure to smile and lighten the moment when I could and tried to stay confident and possible. She noticed my heart was beating really fast tho lol. But hopefully I did a good job..

  • @vladdobetter8175
    @vladdobetter8175 5 лет назад +28

    This is the video I needed. Especially the last part. Thank you so much Daniel.

  • @mariosenkerik2267
    @mariosenkerik2267 6 лет назад +29

    I wish I knew you before my break up...dammm

  • @rhyswingard8583
    @rhyswingard8583 3 года назад

    I’ve been seeing this girl for 5 months now, I took her for granted because I knew how much she was into me and I thought that wouldn’t change. When she ended it all I realised how much I actually liked her and that I had made a mistake. I’m going to give this a go. Thankyou.

  • @conkey18
    @conkey18 4 года назад +3

    Wish I had the money for your system. Could definitely use it right now. Seven years and was about to be married and she said I became more of a best friend towards the end. And I know I took her love for granted and not showed her enough in the last 6 months of our relationship

  • @FBBBO
    @FBBBO 8 лет назад +9

    I send her a message following your advice. No being needy, not saying i am ganna change or any of that crap, just a nice message telling what you explained in the video. She had read it but not respond (not that i expected a response). Hope it helps and it works towards something positive

  • @chiaravaccarocv
    @chiaravaccarocv 7 лет назад +18

    what if..he broke up with me and i desperatly asked for a second chance and he said "i don't want to talk to you anymore... i don'hate you but i don't want to continue this relationship"....after some hours I said "ok i understand I respect your decision I only wanted to excuse bc i've been a stupid and if u want we can be friends" he said no at all....and now what the hell do I have to do...i really need him

  • @hwdareu5848
    @hwdareu5848 5 лет назад +4

    How I wish I watched your valuable videos before my ex gf broke up with me. 😚

  • @debangsumistry3202
    @debangsumistry3202 5 лет назад +1

    5:18... Words of million bucks... it's the perfect way to rebuild completely messed up things between us

  • @manuelleos1361
    @manuelleos1361 6 лет назад +5

    This is probably the most helpful video I've seen yet thank you so much

  • @whatsreallyTV
    @whatsreallyTV 8 лет назад +22

    what does it mean when you just break up with your ex and she tells you "time will tell" after you pour your guts out via Facebook message?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +4

      It's a sign that she is still kind of open to it. This is what you need to do in the meantime:
      www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-make-my-ex-girlfriend-jealous.html
      www.themodernman.com/blog/how-much-space-should-you-give-your-ex-before-contacting-her.html

  • @mattwarren7489
    @mattwarren7489 7 лет назад +10

    my girlfriend hasn't left me but has mentioned taking a break. ik a lot of whats wrong is communication she said she's tried talking about it. i dont know what to do we live together but she avoids me. i try to talk to her and she says she dont want to talk. i need help

  • @Leaner-b9c
    @Leaner-b9c 6 лет назад +4

    This video is gold

  • @TkKirklandReal
    @TkKirklandReal 6 лет назад +10

    I am In all of those situations same time with one person . Lol

  • @michaelfreeman7381
    @michaelfreeman7381 7 лет назад +11

    So happy I've come across your work but what about after 4 months Dan? Do I just call her up and try tell her I've changed?

  • @colincraig4030
    @colincraig4030 4 года назад +7

    Best one I’ve seen yet that relates to my situation, thank you so much.

  • @rioharratt8597
    @rioharratt8597 4 года назад +2

    My girlfriend recently broken up with me and this is going to help me

  • @MariaRamirez-ns2eq
    @MariaRamirez-ns2eq 7 лет назад +8

    what if she blocks you

  • @EJayyDreadHead
    @EJayyDreadHead 4 года назад

    I'm glad I've came to this video

  • @MrPresident9724
    @MrPresident9724 11 месяцев назад

    Dan you are the Champ buddy.

  • @Rhudeboy
    @Rhudeboy 4 года назад

    That’s the position I’m in. We broke up but she told her family and I’m sure her cousins don’t like me but I did do a lot for her kids.

  • @thee_markko3614
    @thee_markko3614 3 года назад +1

    Any tips to how get your ex back after not showing affection. Not treating her the best .. ?? Please help

  • @mhjenkins1180
    @mhjenkins1180 6 лет назад +4

    Any tips for how to get her back when you still live together, but she's moved on?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад

      Here you go: ruclips.net/video/MMIY68d_KCM/видео.html

  • @callumwalker8183
    @callumwalker8183 4 года назад +1

    What do you say when you're on the phone after you've apologised?

  • @icej3883
    @icej3883 8 лет назад +3

    what if its a LDR? Should I call to ask if we could meet in person? this ex told me to cut communication..

  • @rylan8046
    @rylan8046 7 лет назад +4

    hey dan, my gf broke up with me last week, because for months we fought because I got controlling and didn't want her doing the bad stuff she was getting into, and i was always up her ass about it, so she ended up falling out of love with me, she says she still loves me, but doesn't want a relationship with me, but she has dropped a hint or two about the possibility of getting back together but I'm not sure if it was a hint or not. I've done all what you said not to do, beg, cry, promise to change. I know now that doesn't work.. I do love her and I do need her, but begging doesn't work, what should I do?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад

      This: ruclips.net/video/wJOHo4M4DK0/видео.html

  • @ronaksoni6535
    @ronaksoni6535 9 лет назад +13

    hey dan...I don't know about my situation but she says she dosent love me anymore . she even told me I don't want to talk to you on my face ..she times she agrees to give me a chance. what words can I use to make her feel attracted again?

  • @jayouishere
    @jayouishere 8 лет назад +3

    Hey Dan , I got my ex to text me back but I failed to read up on not to say sorry over text..... it's been a little over a month since our break up and don't know where to go next with communicating. Should I wait a couple days to call for a meet up? I texted exactly what I should have said in person. She texted thanks and it means a lot that I texted that and hopes i'm doing well

  • @skyhighsnoop
    @skyhighsnoop 6 лет назад +6

    Lmao yea I'm that last one, won't contact me, family isn't that fond of me, she's painted a very ugly one sided picture. I've learned alot though from the ex back system and see that I failed every test repeatedly. I could get her back if I could get her to talk but it's just not happening

    • @yourlemonz3671
      @yourlemonz3671 6 лет назад +1

      william ballard same mate, my ex won’t speak to me either

  • @johnmarsh101
    @johnmarsh101 7 лет назад +2

    Hi Dan - I'm hoping for a reply as I need help.........My ex has broken-up with me for the third time last week, and this time it seems permanent. The first time her sister talked her round into giving it another chance. The time was another little squabble that we had and I managed to save it by giving her the weekend, and then taking flowers, chocolates and wine round there. I just left them with her and her mom and drove off, by the time I got home she'd messaged me telling me that I should've come in for coffee.
    However, (sorry for rabbling on a bit here), this latest time has just come out of the blue. We broke-up over the phone and by text because she says she can't actually break-up face to face because she'll get all nervous and forget what she wanted to say, apparently I confuse her (I'm ten years older). She says she just feels under too much pressure and that the relationship was moving too quickly for her, and also that she misses being single because there was less pressure to see her boyfriend, and that she just liked dating.......HELP ME PLEASE

  • @athan67
    @athan67 9 лет назад +5

    Hi dan I would like to know if your system helps with having kids in the equation.its been three months we've broken up and it wasn't pretty and we are actually going throug a divorce and of course it's the hardest thing right now with having the kids in the middle

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  9 лет назад +1

      +athan pantelakos - Yes, because her wanting you back is about making her feel respect for you again, then attraction and after she experiences that, she will naturally begin to reconnect with the love she used to feel for you. Having kids in the equation do make it seem a lot different, or more difficult, but like with other cases, it's still all about you making her feel the way she wants to feel. Unattractive behavior during a break up can be forgiven, but you need to be able to show her that you truly now understand where you went wrong and have already changed and improved. My system will guide you through that process: store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html

  • @MrMetalHead1100
    @MrMetalHead1100 8 лет назад +10

    Hey Dan, I started texting my ex 2 weeks after the break up. She responded to my messages pretty fast, and we had some friendly conversation. Its now been 4 weeks, and its the holidays. I asked if she wanted to get lunch and catch up. She said "no" because she thought i was asking her out on a date. So I clarified that I just didn't want us to leave things the way did and thats its not a date. She said she would think about it, and hasn't responded yet (its been like 10hours now). What should I do?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +2

      Use this approach: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-persuade-my-ex-to-meet-up-with-me-for-coffee.html

  • @antoniosciara7322
    @antoniosciara7322 3 года назад

    What if you already fucked up and made all the mistakes of begging and pleading to the point where she has totally blocked me? No chance now right?

  • @juanmurillo6280
    @juanmurillo6280 3 года назад +1

    Right on

  • @amandam2238
    @amandam2238 4 месяца назад

    Do you have advice for how a girl can get her guy back?

  • @jeronimovargas5201
    @jeronimovargas5201 8 лет назад +2

    hey dan, my situation is almost the same. we had an amazing relationship for 3 years and i was her first bf and first to have any kind of sexual contact. until one night i called her names then she hung up on me and then i realized what ive done. Yes i did beg for you at first then came to her house the next day with gifts. She then said to give her time. So i did then 3 days later she said the wants a break. she was able to do things she could not do without me. saturday we went to see a movie but as friend until she started calling me "my love" 3 times and she said it was in accident she didnt mean it. what does that mean?? and afterwards, in a family party she pretend to me my gf so everyone would think she is. then she told me that and i was so heart broken and she realized what she said then started hugging me close like she used too. we had a normal day as a bf and gf because she said just this once. before i dropped her home i have her a kiss on the forehead and told her dont ever forget what that means. she said she wont. then at night we prayed like we used when we were a couple. sunday came along we went to church, i did not flirt with her but she did once. we got out and i told her she was cold then she graved my arm and said yes. now is a new week and i gave her space but still contact her. she send me a snap chat of her smiling with hearts around. then just last night she called me 3 times and i called back just so she could tell me to look at the moon. i made her laughed and before we hung up i told her thank you for telling me and she laughed. she still hasnt change her facebook profile picture at all!! what do i do??? is like shes playing with me and it hurts me...

  • @tamnguyen-to8el
    @tamnguyen-to8el 2 года назад

    Hi Dan, you reckon it will work with my case? me and my ex were in a long distance relationship, i couldnt see her for 2 years and she called it quit and moved on. I'm really into her, she and I grow up together and I missing alot.

  • @julideruzuzugirl9
    @julideruzuzugirl9 3 года назад +1

    She doesn't wanna see me so what's should I do now?

  • @emraanemmy37
    @emraanemmy37 7 лет назад +2

    my gf broke up with me 2 weeks ago because of my mistake we were in a relationship for 5 years almost met many times but now she hates me totally i irritated her by texting and asking for a chance and forgiveness now she blocked me i started no contact few days ago is there any chance??? please reply

  • @clintoncardoza7927
    @clintoncardoza7927 7 лет назад +5

    is there any way to connect with you Dan?

  • @vivianodello1075
    @vivianodello1075 8 лет назад +5

    Hey Dan!
    I have been too clingy and desperate in front of my ex and I did plead and begged infront of her more than 5 times.
    and she told me that she doesn't care about me anymore.
    how to get her back??

  • @chrisantusmakio6171
    @chrisantusmakio6171 3 года назад

    You are the best bro

  • @manuelitofernando4968
    @manuelitofernando4968 9 месяцев назад

    Dan is it gonna help if I write my ex a letter and a gift? or is it gonna hurt my chances more? @Dan Bacon

  • @Max-ml2hc
    @Max-ml2hc 8 лет назад +11

    What i don't get is how do my ex realize, that i have changed if we meet the first time after a month or two? :D

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  8 лет назад

      +Max Hermesmann - She will sense it in how you now think, talk, feel, behave, react to her and take action. Watch this: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-impress-your-ex.html

  • @Healthtips99
    @Healthtips99 7 лет назад +1

    after break up i begged her two months then i go no contact and after 30 days i text her she respond me but i made mistake and say her that im changed she said you text me only to tell me this this is the same old thing and then she said she is move on i should also.... what to do now? if she is checking that im really changed that i will do that so he will begged me again like last two months he do then i caught him and said to him that this you are changed.... please guide DAN

  • @oladnero839
    @oladnero839 6 лет назад +4

    Damn!!! I love you thanks alot

  • @hamidkarimi465
    @hamidkarimi465 6 лет назад +6

    I break up with her,she wants still Be friends but i Want get her Back she saed she love me and i love him what i should do Dan...

  • @rachelsokol4232
    @rachelsokol4232 8 лет назад +1

    dan need help , i lost my gf completly , we met in oct , 5 months we cudnt see each other cuz of her parents and then she broke it up with me in pressure by letting me go , but was loving me still and then i dint talk to her for 2 months as i was afraid to plus i follwed stupid no contact and then wen i talked to her she said she has lost feeings , now idk what to do ? :((((( please help dont wanna lose her

  • @Sl1z3r
    @Sl1z3r 8 лет назад +1

    Hey Dan, my girlfriend just broke up with me today, I'm really shocked of what happened. She lost respect me. I already accepted the reason because I was mean, selfish and boring lately. She didn't show sad feeling when she broke up with me, we had a long talk and she said we need time and later try on meeting up or something. My problem is that I know how to change but I don't how to get her back. She said we could meet one day soon if I want to, I was thinking about it what to do on that meeting to make her change mind atleast a bit. Could you help me with it? I really love this girl and I know she's the one, I would do anything for her but I don't want to scare her away from me, I don't want to wait for a miracle. Should I still say apologies on this next meeting? are flowers legit here or eating at restaurant? Should I meantion some moments from our relationship?

  • @deanmiller9995
    @deanmiller9995 6 лет назад

    What if after 5 weeks and have been intimate a # of times and you asked her to hang out and she replies "maybe, I'll get back to you" and she doesn't so you go to the bar where you both met and she comes walking in and you go up to her and she say's "I'll talk to you later!'. I just turned around and left. I texted her back 'goodbye" and have regretted it ever since. After 3 1/2 months I texted her "just want to know if your okay" and 9 minutes later she replied "I am" and I have heard nothing since...it's been 3 weeks...Should I push it or just leave it alone???

  • @GrgoPetrov
    @GrgoPetrov 7 лет назад

    Hey Dan! Need help :') haha I screwed it up with my ex when I met her, actually I wasn't patient a bit and not using my brain. After a week I contacted her via txt message then had a phone call and had to meet this Sunday, then she called me in the morning to postpone our meeting on Friday since she had exams...but after 10 minutes I changed my mind and called her back for the same day...worst decision ever...I planned it like you said not to respect the no contact rule (she said she had no feelings for me as a lover) ... but now she said she thinks it would have been the best maybe to stop contact for a month... what now? I'd hit my head against the wall because I couldn't wait for Friday evening when we would be alone at her place and pushed it for yesterday (sunday) in the afternoon when it was not the best timing and after she asked me politely to wait till Friday...If I contact her now it's a certain death. Did I just erase all the chances of getting back respect and re-attraction as it happened once before? :O

  • @caselink5076
    @caselink5076 5 лет назад +2

    How do I get a private phone conversation

  • @itzmarcyyy3727
    @itzmarcyyy3727 8 лет назад +7

    My girlfriend dumped me the other day. It was out of the blue and I really wasn't expecting it, but I said it was okay. Since then I've tried to ask why she broke up with me, but she doesn't respond to me or in fact discuss it with anyone. I've asked her friends to ask her but she never responds with an answer to them either. And I still love her. I need help, and I miss her. I've tried to just be friendly about it and talk in a friendly way but she looks and never replies 😰🙁

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +2

      This will help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-impress-your-ex.html

  • @sebastianmaymayun4640
    @sebastianmaymayun4640 6 лет назад +4

    I like this. what you saying

  • @yayangtaki1147
    @yayangtaki1147 6 лет назад +1

    Sir I need your help i cheat them and now they don't believe my love but they still now say they love me but i family cause and they don't believe my love they don't wanna come back to me and they talk with another guys so what should I do to get him back please need your help please Sir any how i want him back

  • @rpparkour649
    @rpparkour649 7 лет назад +3

    thanks soooo much

  • @shabih2971
    @shabih2971 7 лет назад +7

    can you provide your email ? have to discuss my issue so broked and worried plzz help me

  • @kingtunip6386
    @kingtunip6386 3 года назад

    her: im braking up with you
    me: ok don't message me again (said this thinking she would) but she hasn't... she still has me on social media tho and all that tho sooo?

  • @mannyperez6216
    @mannyperez6216 8 лет назад

    What if she's just not willing to talk about what happened. I told her I wanted to understand her perspective of it and how she feels and if she's ok and she's not telling me and she just wants to be friends and not be in a relationship. She says she's not okay and doesn't want to talk about it with anyone. What do I do? I want to fix whatever happened but she won't tell me anything

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  8 лет назад +3

      She doesn't want to talk about her feelings with you. You need to stop trying to have those types of conversations and just start making her feel attracted to you again, so her guard then comes down. When her guard is down, she will hug you, kiss you and be willing to spend time alone with you. You can then get her back. Watch this: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-re-attract-your-ex.html

  • @FunPill90
    @FunPill90 7 лет назад

    Hey, I've been watching like all your videos and trying to figure this out. I went out with this girl 2 times and in hindsight , she gave me all of these signals that she likes me and she'd like me to kiss her, but I've been to much of a coward to do anything (I thought that she is too good for me, and didn't want to blow it). So after the second date (when she even went to the bathroom to reapply lipstick) she went all cold on me. Took her 1 day to reply to a message (apologised though) and now I've waited 3 days to text her again, kinda hoping that she will do it first. Is there still any chance that we can kiss and see if we can be together? We've connected really well since day 1 but when I didn't act she became cold.

  • @shmoviejohn906
    @shmoviejohn906 6 лет назад +4

    hey dan! i just broke up with my gf laST Night, it hurts sooo much, she said i need to control my temper and my selfish self :(. Also She's still thinking about her ex. weve only been 2 months, i dont want her gone. can u plss tell me what to do?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад

      This: ruclips.net/video/C8SY44KANQE/видео.html

  • @adamphan2326
    @adamphan2326 8 лет назад +2

    Hi Dan. This is a great video because this happened to me. It's been 2 hard months now and I've made many mistakes. I have already accepted the reason why she broke up with me and it was all the reasons that you mentioned. I took her for granted because I was being controlling, clingy and I was too focused on the relationship instead of balancing my life and the relationship. I wanted to talk to her and tell her I understand in person instead of over text. I tried that a couple of times but it seems like she's been avoiding me. What's weird is that that couple of times she came by to get a couple of things, she gave me a long tight squeezed hug and said I love you. What does that even mean?

    • @adamphan2326
      @adamphan2326 8 лет назад +2

      I really need your guidance because the things you said just makes sense. I love this girl too much because she was my first love.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  8 лет назад

      You could have gotten her back when she came by to get those things and hugged you. That was a perfect moment to do this: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-impress-your-ex.html and www.themodernman.com/blog/guiding-your-ex-back-into-a-relationship.html and www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-get-your-ex-to-forgive-you-and-take-you-back.html

  • @andrewfernandez5062
    @andrewfernandez5062 4 года назад

    Damn dan, you're the fucking man. I wish i knew about you sooner.

  • @maik0383
    @maik0383 5 лет назад +1

    DR. Dan bacon👌

  • @MrTomatoBro
    @MrTomatoBro 7 лет назад +1

    I need help, me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago. I said i'll change and i want a new start and i wonder if she has someoneelse or if she wants to meet someone else. Now she thinks i'm nagging. And want to be alone and show her respect so she domt want to see me right now. She almost hates me

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад

      Sounds like you need to watch this: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-begging-and-pleading.html