Stop Expecting You From Them | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @smithdamards
    @smithdamards 9 месяцев назад +14

    This is a high level of teaching. You're a therapist, a doctor and a treacher

  • @yahkar
    @yahkar Год назад +287

    Have the Courage to not let those whom you have figured out, let you think your crazy 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @latoyataylor5320
      @latoyataylor5320 Год назад +8

      It was actually the other way. They convinced others I was crazy...still to this day.

    • @yahkar
      @yahkar Год назад +28

      @@latoyataylor5320 A lie never stands, so consider your situation a clean break from people that God knew He had to remove. Baggage isn't baggage until you bring it to the next destination. 🙏🏾

    • @EdlovesChrist
      @EdlovesChrist Год назад +2

      This the one 🙏🏼

    • @latoyataylor5320
      @latoyataylor5320 Год назад +5

      @@yahkar Wow..well said. Thankyou.

    • @Gorgeous_Royalty
      @Gorgeous_Royalty Год назад +2

      I See & I’m glad that you come @Yahkar

  • @TheInfiniteDirection
    @TheInfiniteDirection Год назад +89

    “Exaggerating our place in someone else’s heart always leads to heartbreak.”
    Such a gem!

  • @ivillanueva6589
    @ivillanueva6589 6 месяцев назад +10

    Father give me wisdom and discernment to stop expecting your qualities from the uncommitted and to continue to love the way you love 💕

  • @Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom
    @Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom 7 месяцев назад +8

    Am I expecting a healthy response from an individual that traffics in unhealthy routines?
    A snake sheds its skin, but not its nature.
    Am I expecting loyalty from an opportunistic heart? They are only loyal to the opportunity.
    They do not value reciprocity only opportunity.
    That's soo good!!

  • @nataliya6078
    @nataliya6078 Год назад +13

    "We keep putting our heart in the garden of people who don't water things". Wow

  • @theegiftofgabb
    @theegiftofgabb Год назад +65

    Exaggerating our place in someone else’s heart, leads to heart break. Pastor Jerry you are hitting the nail on the head!!!! Whew I just continue to pray for discernment!

    • @andrearowe4815
      @andrearowe4815 Год назад +1

      Pray for discernment. STOP EXPECTING. .

  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 Год назад +71

    @ EVERYBODY IN HERE TONIGHT, I'M SO PROUD OF YOU. 🙏🏽🕊️

  • @songofsolomon03
    @songofsolomon03 Год назад +8

    🗣The person who needs many can not be loyal to any!!! Can I get an AMEN!!!!

  • @stephy6799
    @stephy6799 Год назад +233

    10 years sober today 🎉

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +26

    Don’t allow yesterday to rob and vandalize and burglarize TODAY and TOMORROW because we expected our SELF from them.

  • @Flauntyourselff
    @Flauntyourselff 9 месяцев назад +1

    You always speak to my heart Jerry 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @msyoshi85
    @msyoshi85 Год назад +33

    Thank God for Therapy Thursdays! This was so needed. This 5 year healing journey and 3 years of singleness have been so tough. But growth will be that. It's not easy. It's work and HONEST WORK AS WELL!!!!! Thank God for waking my heart and mind up. Insane how I was intelligent always to know these red flags, yet I IGNORED FOR YEARS! MIRROR RIGHT IN MY FACE!

  • @LR0620
    @LR0620 Год назад +7

    Just like the enemy sends people, so does God!!! Yes indeed Pastor Flowers. God sends the most beautiful relationships. Satan sends the most destructive and chaotic relationships. Exaggerating our place in someone else's heart always leads to heartbreak. It's not your value, it's their vision. Parasites only see what they can gain from their manipulation. They never see the genuine individual that you are.

  • @kdoddieTR
    @kdoddieTR Год назад +3

    Healing is not an event, it is a series.

  • @starrguthrie3583
    @starrguthrie3583 Год назад +1

    FATHER, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. I’LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU.

  • @GodsDaughter137
    @GodsDaughter137 Год назад +32

    After this, I just need to wipe my tears and go lay out in front of God's throne and stay there........This spoke so much to my pain!! My God today!!!!

    • @VeeJaxon
      @VeeJaxon 3 месяца назад

      You are not alone. Right there with you. We got this!

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Год назад +29

    I'm proud of y'all for showing up for your healing in Jesus mighty name. 👏🏿♥

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +24

    We don’t just go to the NEXT level. We HEAL and GROW to the NEXT level.

  • @amandacrownover9286
    @amandacrownover9286 14 дней назад

    I watch and share daily but THIS message hit my WHOLE SOUL!!! IM PROUD OF ME FOR BEING OPEN TO RECEIVE THIS MESSAGE OF HOPE ❤

  • @tracyherman3642
    @tracyherman3642 Год назад +94

    I needed this I was betrayed by my husband who left me and is living with another woman and we're still married, he lied on me and blamed me for everything , I'm so broken please pray for me, I feel God has turned his back on me😢

    • @zeal4god402
      @zeal4god402 Год назад +49

      God didn't turn His back on you. Your hubby made his decision. I know this is relationally tough, I personally know what it's like to be so hurt by the ones closest to me. Let the pain push you to deeper purpose. God never promised tragedy won't strike, but He did promise to be with us in the valley of the shadow of death. We can choose how we respond to the calamities of life and we need to respond maturely. I hope you get a big hug from a friend and cry all the tears you need to cry. Better out than in. Heal up and talk to a pastor/therapist. You will get better and stronger. Day by day abide in God. Be still, let Him be your ultimate peace, mentor and stabilizer through this shaking season in your life

    • @BrandiBeez
      @BrandiBeez Год назад +6

      Be encouraged l! Praying for your strength

    • @chocolatechickapparel8615
      @chocolatechickapparel8615 Год назад +5

      Tracy I’m glad you’re here, and I’m glad I’m here too!

    • @spannfamily9281
      @spannfamily9281 Год назад +25

      I also had this problem, I could see myself turning into something I was never supposed to be, petty, bitter, hateful, vengeful but I love the Holy Spirit convicted me and I decided not to be broken in front of my children. I didn’t pray for the marriage or for him to come back most my prayers directed toward building a closer relationship with God asking God to heal my heart. And that’s the prayer my heart wanted and needed. Focus on God during this time and you will hear him. I like to listen to Encourage yourself and Kirk Franklin Give Me

    • @zeal4god402
      @zeal4god402 Год назад +7

      @@spannfamily9281 AMEEEEEEEN YAYYYYYYY. Sooooo happy for your emotional healing.
      Focus on your healing and purpose, not the pain of the storms or you will sink like Peter

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +9

    Give yourself to PRAYER because praying for them is HEALING me.

  • @jenniferlove767
    @jenniferlove767 Год назад +27

    Proud of everyone for being here at Therapy Thursday! I am glad to be back!

  • @TheComposerRell
    @TheComposerRell Год назад +2

    FATHER I THANK YOU FOR THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED! I’ll do good as done unto You!

  • @Lyssalis09
    @Lyssalis09 Год назад +10

    Glad to be here! Got baptized today!!!!!

  • @amorassymphony7082
    @amorassymphony7082 Год назад +12

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. I’LL DO IT INTO YOU.

  • @marquisandrews5616
    @marquisandrews5616 Год назад +6

    I am glad to be here. #FirstTimer

  • @fevenster
    @fevenster Год назад +1

    First time here! Glad to be here. I need healing from childhood trauma. It’s affecting my mental well being and relationships

  • @melissagoodwin2602
    @melissagoodwin2602 Год назад +11

    Hope deferred make the heart sick. Definitely don't expect you from others, speak it my brother

  • @erinramirez9274
    @erinramirez9274 10 месяцев назад

    Phenomenal Sermon!! Come to Albany NY!! 🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️❤️❤️🙏

  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 Год назад +17

    CONGRATULATIONS TO THE CURRY'S BLESSINGS🙏🏽💐

  • @TonielMiller
    @TonielMiller 7 месяцев назад +1

    this is my first time watching thursday therapy...

  • @bbuffkin5463
    @bbuffkin5463 Год назад +9

    Thank you sooooo much for this! I pray it's an antidote for past hurt and a vaccine for future exposure! 🙌

  • @kaykay2679
    @kaykay2679 Год назад +2

    I absolutely love Jerry & Tanisha!! My life has been changed forever! I watch y’all daily! My relationship with God has grown so much! Such an anointed man & woman of God!! Love y’all!! Blessings!!!

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 Год назад +12

    Wow!!!! This message was so impactful. A lot of times I expected me to show up at the end of a relationship, but I never did. I wanted to be afforded the same love and respect as I had given, but it never came. They were not me❤ God gives grace and I had to forgive in order for him to give me what I deserve🙏🔥👑💪

  • @amandagobert2749
    @amandagobert2749 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amen

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 Год назад +8

    Congratulations Isaac Curry and family. Congratulations in advance to the Flowers as well. Blessed families.
    This was sooo good. God must've seen that I'm tired and over people. Lack of loyalty, disingenuity and no reciprocity was doing my head in.
    God gave me a big heart that I believed was a set up because I was running into people that saw it as something to take advantage of. Now i know how to deal with it. Thanks Jerry.

  • @naonur5702
    @naonur5702 9 месяцев назад +2

    It's my first time here at Therapy Thursday and congrats to the new parents!

  • @awilson1569
    @awilson1569 Год назад +5

    "I will do good unto You!" WHEW! Not for other's sake, but for You, Jesus!

  • @cherrellegrace4065
    @cherrellegrace4065 Год назад

    I’m a first timer and I appreciate this Thursday Therapy

  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 Год назад +18

    I'M GLAD TO BE BACK.🙏🏽 I LOOK FORWARD TO IT EVERY WEEK. THANK YOU PASTOR FLOWERS🙏🏽💝

  • @Itztocadakota653
    @Itztocadakota653 Год назад +1

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DICERMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED

  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 Год назад +17

    FATHER, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED: I'LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU! 🙏🏽

    • @sondrabass5942
      @sondrabass5942 Год назад +1

      I pray in agreement as I remain humble receive continual healing, strength, peace, calm, deliverance, protection & strength to continue pushing forward towards the mark predestined by our Creator, The Lord Jesus Christ! I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR THE WORK BEING DONE IN, THROUGH, AROUND, UNDER & OVER ME, Amen. ❤👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾✝️

  • @dorothy7382
    @dorothy7382 Год назад +1

    I'm. Glad I'm here😊

  • @latoriarichardson6754
    @latoriarichardson6754 Год назад +13

    The title alone is powerful!! 🙌 🙏

  • @leslieartis8542
    @leslieartis8542 Год назад +1

    Good evening, sorry GOOD morning. I am NEW to join your family. I have so much to say but that is a long conversation. I have been binge watching your shorts, teahouse series, and now your therapy Thursday. God knows just when to send a msg to his children. I have been married over 30 yrs. And at this time I am struggling with my husband's illness. Many of the topics you have covered are in areas that there are issues. Thank God for the anointing on you and your beautiful marriage. I am grateful for the counsel that comes through your msgs. The Lord is definitely speaking to me thru you. He is also showing me to me. I will without a doubt stop expecting me from them. I have been making a PEACE. Treaty and I am at the table with myself. Continue on in the work of the Lord and may His blessings continue to be upon you and your family and strength for the task you are to accomplish

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione Год назад +4

    "Exaggerating our place in somebody else's heart always leads to heartbreak." Ouch

  • @ninah608able
    @ninah608able Год назад

    I already know I will have to listen to this message over and over. Whew!

  • @marquidamobley1473
    @marquidamobley1473 Год назад +13

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT

  • @glorythehila1423
    @glorythehila1423 Год назад +9

    I am glad to be here!

  • @arankagionetti2098
    @arankagionetti2098 Год назад

    Amazing! Teaching! Don't expecting you from others !

  • @ANN-ri8zp
    @ANN-ri8zp Год назад +6

    This was Soooooo Good, You got me crying 😭❤😭❤😭 at work. Ohhh how I THANK GOD for these Gems of life you dropped... I'm Sooooo GRATEFUL... EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED. FRESH BREAD...💛💛🙏🏾🙏🏾💚💚🙌🏾🙌🏾❤❤

  • @nsukumudau5634
    @nsukumudau5634 Год назад +1

    M glad to be back

  • @christiine316
    @christiine316 Год назад +15

    In the valleys at the moment, needed this message 😢

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 Год назад +1

      Praying God strengthens you.

    • @ruth3695
      @ruth3695 Год назад +2

      ❤Christine, i See you and i'm proud you❤

  • @janika954
    @janika954 Год назад

    🙌🏽Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting the qualities of you from the uncommitted I’ll do good unto!❤

  • @PrettyIndependent1
    @PrettyIndependent1 Год назад +7

    THANK YOU PASTOR FLOWERS! This is an answered prayer. I was crying out to God this week for this exact answer, to this exact problem. Wow! So often the Lord uses you to be a mouth piece to things I’m going through. I think a lot of true worshippers of God are going through the same thing because being in the end times the devil is panicking and acting up, yet he has no new tricks. It’s the same pattern every time with different people.

  • @deirdreelliott8668
    @deirdreelliott8668 Год назад

    FATHER GIVES ME THE WISDOM And DISCERNMENT AND EXPECTING YOU QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED I’LL Do GOOD UNTO YOU

  • @desiredsolutionz3536
    @desiredsolutionz3536 Год назад +8

    Congratulations Pastor Issac and his beautiful wife on the birth of their baby boy!!! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU ALL!! 👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🥰🥰🥰. This session was soo needed for me. When you said healing is in stages, THAT HIT ME!! Thank you Pastor Jerry!! GREAT WORD!!

  • @ninasky7
    @ninasky7 Год назад +14

    Incredible message 👏 🙌🫶

  • @SkSmith620
    @SkSmith620 Год назад +7

    I'm a day late but thank you Lord that I found this video. I really needed this It was like you were speaking right to me. Whatsoever I do I will do it onto the Lord not unto men 🙏🏻

  • @meghanporee
    @meghanporee Год назад

    FATHER, GIVE ME YOUR WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU.

  • @whocares4684
    @whocares4684 Год назад +9

    Amen, I just did this last night! I prayed for my man, who has recently gone silent on me. I feel so hurt, but it is God's will be done before mine. I give him and the situation to God.

  • @tiaramariealcorn
    @tiaramariealcorn Год назад +7

    Father give me the wisdom to stop expecting your qualities to the uncommitted.

  • @MsBuffalo
    @MsBuffalo Год назад +13

    I have been experiencing year after year false advertisement that I have shut down my heart from friends and exes. The pain even now, last night I was crying because I have changed of these experiences. Thank you Father for send Pastor Jerry this message❤🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @e_nessss
    @e_nessss Год назад

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITED. I’LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU. ‼️🙏🏽

  • @tishatruth4145
    @tishatruth4145 Год назад +4

    Congratulations isaac curry 🎉

  • @lerandabrewer3923
    @lerandabrewer3923 Год назад +1

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXCEPTING YOU QUALIFIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED I'LL DO GOOD UNTO YOU
    PASTOR JERRYYYYYY!!!!! THIS WAS RIGHT ON TIME....YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW I NEEDED THIS SIR!!!!

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Год назад +3

    Yes Sir from the time u started that was me there, put all my expectations on someone else and broke my own heart😔

  • @priscillacastro224
    @priscillacastro224 6 месяцев назад

    Amen! This word is POWERFUL! Thank you Jesus for placing this Pastor to speak directly to the situation I was in and confirming what I was asking you for❤

  • @_fznf_
    @_fznf_ Год назад +6

    Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting Your qualities from the uncommitted; i’ll do good as unto You.

  • @jenniferbaltimore5520
    @jenniferbaltimore5520 6 месяцев назад

    First timer and I'm glad to have found you. I need and welcome healing. As requested I see you (everyone) and congratulate you, Issac.

  • @Taylee_mariie
    @Taylee_mariie Год назад +3

    Took a nap yesterday and overslept but I couldn’t continue my Friday without streaming Therapy Thursday 🙌🏾

  • @amandabailey1876
    @amandabailey1876 Год назад

    Congrats to the Curry family!! GOD BLESS!!

  • @marquidamobley1473
    @marquidamobley1473 Год назад +2

    First timer and I’m glad to be here!

  • @nicolematt633
    @nicolematt633 Год назад

    Congratulations to the Curry's! And Good message. Amen. Amen.

  • @torichester7947
    @torichester7947 Год назад +5

    Hey everyone it's my first session. Glad to be here. Congratulations Isaac!

  • @kellyfaulk2139
    @kellyfaulk2139 Год назад

    I NEEDED ALLL THIS...i WAS JUSTTTT PRAYING AND CRYING TO GOD ABOUT THIS TRUTH....THANK GOD!!!

  • @Jacobeharvey
    @Jacobeharvey Год назад +8

    I’m glad to be here 🙏🏾

  • @raiar4095
    @raiar4095 Год назад

    I think I was screaming throughout this whole video 🤣 such a healing and beautiful word. Thank you God! God Bless you and your family.

  • @imperfectlyperfect3846
    @imperfectlyperfect3846 Год назад +8

    I’m so proud of us all for continuing to go through your healing process and having the patience with ourselves that we so need during this healing journey. Congratulations to the Curry’s on your new bundle of joy and thank you Mr Flowers for your consistency and obedience

  • @renesashalanham7444
    @renesashalanham7444 Год назад

    Fellow therapy gathers ur doing great keep up the good work

  • @brownettataylor1053
    @brownettataylor1053 Год назад +4

    I'm glad to be back

  • @monikamcgeeturner3135
    @monikamcgeeturner3135 Год назад +5

    Thank you so much I was just searching for someone to give me some strength and I ran into you, your videos, and I'm going to keep listening to you. You, your channel,just Thank you I'm trying to heal my trauma in my past. It's 1:00am and I'm watching your Thursday therapy. About your dad experience with the man in the side of the road. Thank you😢😊❤

    • @tiahvia
      @tiahvia Год назад

      I’m so proud of you ! Keep trying , healing is a consistent journey but it’s definitely worth it.

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Год назад

    KEEP CATCHING COLDS FORM PEOPLE YOU TREATING MY MY ONLY FLOWERS BLESS U AND UR FAMILY

  • @keis1486
    @keis1486 Год назад +3

    I neeeeeddd this ❤❤❤❤ thank you father! thank you pastor! father help renew us! Help I declare victory over my hurt and negativity experiences or bad decisions that you did not design allow purpose to guide us!

  • @josiebailey6454
    @josiebailey6454 Год назад

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU!!!!

  • @lovelin7004
    @lovelin7004 Год назад +4

    Amen Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting Your qualities from the uncommitted. I’ll do good as unto You 🙏🏼

  • @Ambrosha_Unscripted
    @Ambrosha_Unscripted 11 месяцев назад

    Came here from a clip that popped up on my IG. The Lord knew I needed this. This really brought me to tears. Thank you for this word.

  • @arlenelindsay8865
    @arlenelindsay8865 Год назад +3

    I am glad to be here

  • @michellesescoe8428
    @michellesescoe8428 Год назад

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOU QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD BY YOU

  • @tonylavelleofficial
    @tonylavelleofficial Год назад +8

    Great message! 🙏🏾

  • @faithlove5468
    @faithlove5468 Год назад +10

    I'm glad everyone is here, thank you Father God in Jesus Holy Name, Amen 🙏♥️

  • @HappyHolyHealthyLife
    @HappyHolyHealthyLife 3 месяца назад

    Wow! This message is incredible!!! ❤🎉🤗🙏🏽🙌🏾👏🏾

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Год назад +5

    FATHER,GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED; ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU👏🏿👏🏿♥🥰🙌🏿

  • @valborden2702
    @valborden2702 16 дней назад

    Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting your qualities from the uncommitted : I’ll do good as unto you!

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 Год назад +5

    I'm glad 😌 to be here and I hope everyone enjoys this positive learning experience ☺ as much as I will. Congrats 👏 on the new baby 👶 👏

  • @TenaciousB20
    @TenaciousB20 Год назад

    Healing is a event! That’s good Pastor!

  • @tateshiapage4673
    @tateshiapage4673 Год назад +6

    I’m a First timer Thanks for having me 🙏🏾

    • @tahshaypatton6867
      @tahshaypatton6867 Год назад

      Welcome ❤ Enjoy I urge you to subscribe dive deeper

  • @vernaybell5456
    @vernaybell5456 Год назад

    FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DECREMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED I WILL DO GOOD UNTO YOU.

  • @rubyredpraise
    @rubyredpraise Год назад +5

    This one was right on time....hallelujah Thank you Jesus🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿