REGRETTING MY DECISION? + MASCULINE TENDENCIES + BLACK GIRL DIGITAL AWARD + WORK FRUSTRATIONS | VLOG
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You are a girlie girl inside. I see it and hear it. I think that the so called pretty girls make you feel a certain way.
You are a beautiful black woman and I can see that you have grown in the last six months. I am enjoying your progress. Don’t let those negative thoughts take over.
Find you a personal assistant and start speaking positive words. You are living a good live. Don’t stop. I am watching you grow. Thanks for sharing.
She really is beautiful, but it’s more than the physical. Her personality exudes confidence and that to me makes you beautiful.
💕💕💕 thank youuuuuu! But it’s definitely not a negative thought. I love having both feminine and masculine traits 🥰 and I am veryyy protective of my friends so that’s why I tend to be a bit more masculine around them. I don’t play about them!!! 😂🥰🥰
PCOS can cause insulin resistance. I have had PCOS since I was a kid but just got diagnosed last year. Most doctors just blamed my weight on all the symptoms (Dark patches, excessive body hair, irregular period etc etc) but it was PCOS all along.
Everything you said is true. I've been on my PCOS health journey since February of 2018. I ended up becoming insulin resistant. Had to have endometriosis scraped out of my womb in May of 2018. I have been through it all. I'm happy to say in 2023 I am doing a lot better. ❤ I advocated for myself and finally found a primary care physician, an endocrinologist, a gynecologist, a diabetic / bariatric dietitian, who is helping me manage this.
Yes I definitely have pcos diagnosed over 15 yrs ago 😔
@@lovingtiffani I'm so happy you found a team that supports you! It's amazing to hear that you are doing so well in managing PCOS. I always tell other people that It's so important to find doctors that 1. believe PCOS is real 2. Support, listen and respect Black and brown women and our bodies and 3. really advocate and support you as a patient. I've spent the last year really advocating for myself and doing so much research on my pcos to start healing
@@mRzChErRyIzDaNaMe I'm happy you were able to get your diagnosis. People don't realize how complicated PCOS is and all the ways it affects us. From energy levels and excessive hair to mental health issues like being more likely to experience anxiety and depression. It can be a very difficult endocrine disorder. Hoping you are healing and thriving!
Completely agree!! PCOS is something that most doctors rarely talk about.
Hi Jemima, I get your frustration with the doctors. I had the same issue, my doctor had no clue how to help me with my weight issuse either and possibly developing type 2 diabetes. So I did my own research and watched youtube doctors talk about insulin resistant, started fasting, and lost my 1st 80lbs. Now I want to lose another50lbs. I cut back on sugar, no snacks between meals, cut back on processed carbs, sugar etc. When I doctor saw me he said tell me what you've been doing. He said tell me so I can tell my ither patients. They do not teach us this is medical school, that's why I couldn't help you to lose weight. Imagine my face when he said that!!! So I pay you all this money to not help me. Ok. Smh. Keep working at it sis. It's a rough and frustrating journey for sure.
Yes, I’ve noticed when I’m around this man I’m dating I’m all giggly and soft spoken. I noticed it this weekend and was like “ where the heck did that come from” 🤨😂. But when I’m around girls I’m usually the more masculine one.
Also it was nice meeting you at the Black Girl Digital cocktail party!
I admire you, praying for you to see yourself as the beautiful black woman you are.
Speak light and positive over you, PRAYER CHANGES THINGS!!!!
I'm just here in these comments to offer my thoughts of support and love for you! I love that you are a real person, a real woman sharing your life with all of its intricacies, emotions and lots of fun too! I love your entire look, your hair and your pretty face. I'm here for all of this. Keep shining.
24:37 I wonder if the masculinity kicking in is due to not wanting to stand out or be mocked/compared to the other feminine women because people tend to dehumanize bbw
In our society bigger person =unhealty, diabetes, high blood pressure, hypertension…. When the facts are even skinny people have these same problems… girl you know what you’re doing when it comes to your health… doctors be on that same bull as well… there are other reasons people have dark spots on their neck face and back… you inspired me to get back on my health journey and I love that for me! Thank you girl!
Agree!!!
Yes, depending on the environment or energy you’re around as a woman who in tuned with herself knows how to adapt your feminine or masculine energy. When I in the presence of a masculine man I allow him to lead because I feel safe and comfortable with his masculine energy.
I was disappointed that you don't do as many hauls but after today I understand why. I don't know how you do everything on your own. If I lived near you I'd be your 'office manager' / personal assistant 😂. I hope you find the solution and get a trustworthy hardworking dependable dedicated team to work with you.
Basically I pray all the best things come your way
Hi Jemima when I was heavier I had a lot of dark areas on my face my neck was dark also, but when I lost weight my skin cleaned up. PS I can see that you loss weight looking 👍. Keep up the good work 👏.
We ALL have feminine and masculine tendencies. So called “pretty”girls, doesn’t mean anything, though hopefully you are satisfied and proud of yourself as you are. As you loose weight and tighten up, your body shape will smooth out and reshape into something completely different.
Hey Jemima! I loveeeee your videos, but you were making me a lil nervous with your door open sitting in the car. Stay safe sis. People cray!!!
It’s that bad in Atlanta
the way you were scrambling for those glasses, moved everything, and they were right in front of you…that’s meeeee😭😂 lmaoo
Suggestion …. Use the living room as your studio. Meaning you have a great background with the floor mirror so you can show the fits and there is probably great lighting too. By the way insta pics are popping. The skin is skin-ing and Ms Invisalign is doing her thing. Ok I’ve talked enough bye ✌🏽
You are so introspective; I love it. I even love your perfectionism streaks, lol. Keep loving on you. ❤
Hey Jemima! Looking in from the outside and someone that does not know you, you can give masculine vibes - but you also give feminine vibes as well! Maybe you become the protector when it comes to your friends? (Thinking about the haunted house situation). You are a beautiful person - personality and outwardly, so be happy in who you are. Life is too short to stress on what people think how you should be.
We are the same height and I am working on my body too. My personality trait is very feminine and the protective type. That is why I think it’s a personality trait that you should not worry about and it’s not based on your height or weight. We love you for who you are - JUST BE YOU AND CONTINUE YOU TO LOVE WHO YOU ARE!❤
We love u Jemima ❤️. I really hope you find help with working. U deserve peace too. Work should not rule ur life
Your hair is growing so nicely
Hey Jemima! You have reached the time in your life for an assistant. It will make your life much more manageable. Even just a part time one would help tremendously. Delegate!
I’m 5”11” and also plus size. I think we are pushed to act more masculine because of our size. I think only smaller petite women are treated way more gentle.
Facts!
I love it when you take us inside the restaurant with you. Maybe you could do a list of the places you’ve dined? I would for sure save that playlist. Love your channel 💙💙
Hi Jemima
I pray for your every success tyfs🌹 be safe & blessed.
I understand your masculine energy situation but I'm the opposite, because of my height and size, I have always been about that life...lol. I have a temper and all my family call me when they need someone to fight. I was 5' 11" from 7th grade until I went to college, then I grew an inch, now I'm 6' curvy big girl. People now take my kindness for weakness but I still have these hands, trust..lol. I say take advantage of it and use it to your benefit cuz I sure do. Love your channel. Keep representing for the tall big girls!!
Are you still fighting?
‼️‼️‼️baby I been saying you need an assistant ❤😊
My daughter has PCOS... And you are right some doctors are not helpful... but mostly because some are not up to date with the symptoms and treatment... one major symptom is insulin resistance... but it also can show in many other ways... just research it then discuss it with your physician... Keke Palmer has it and her symptoms present very differently than my daughter's...
Oouuu I can’t wait to see what Chelsie gets for her birthday 🥳 lol ok let me get back to watching 💕
Ayee yo 😂😂 you tickled me!! I enjoy your channel!
The masculinity comes out because you've been operating out of your root chakra for so long. Out of balance because you're in constant survival mode. For example, you work, pay all of your bills by yourself, have to figure out everything for your household, and live alone. I would say to help minimize those tendencies, start by receiving. When people give you compliments, instead of finding a flaw or downplaying it, say thank you and move on. When someone wants to treat you to something, say yes. You have to get in the receptive mode as a woman to increase your femininity. I hope this makes sense.
I just subscribed! Been watching you pop up in my other faves videos so I had to come and check you out!
Girl yes. I have someone come do a deep clean once a month. But I have been looking into a laundry service for a whole. Think I’m going to do it
PCOS can cause insulin resistance as well
Look at you go Jemima! What a cool event, thank you for sharing! 💜
You are amazing, beautiful and blessed. Been a viewer and fam for 2 years now. Your videos are so authentic because YOU are authentic. 💜💜 i thank God for your life sis. Your page is what i look forward to honestly and has helped me with my confidence and style 😅 i too suffer from PCOS but it doesnt define me. We are made in the imag of God and thats on Periodt. And i see 👀 weight loss. Keep up the great work!!
Hi Jemima 🙋🏽. Your videos made my day when I'm feeling a little sumber. Thank You 😃👍🏽❤
@missjemima, I completely agree with you i was with my ex-husband for 15 years, and when i say there was no feminine energy at all, i mean at all. But i rekindle a relationship with my 1st boyfriend ever from high school, and when i say i am the most softest person, even by the way i speak. I stay in my feminine energy, I mean hell i cook this man breakfast every single morning, and when i say it is the way he makes me feel, the things he says to me, it keeps me there. So it was always in me, unfortunately i wasnt with the right person and im so glad at this stage in my life, i get to experience real love, maturity, honesty, someone who isnt afraid to express how they feel about me in private and in public.
This is so true and I've had the same experience. You really need to be with the right partner to bring it out in you. When I was married I always felt like the "man" in the relationship, or else like I was his mother. I had never felt that way with any other man I'd known before him.
I am the same way, Jemima! Masculine/Feminine mashup!
Pcos causes insulin resistance! I was diagnosed when I was 16! Didn’t get a cycle until I was 18 because they started it with bc! Facial hair acne up and down weight, hyperpigmentation, fatigue, depression, lol it causes a lot but since I’ve become an adult I’ve been looking into it! I was started on ozempic for weight loss due to insulin resistance! Since I lost weight my symptoms are some what better my weight loss is consistent and my dark marks are gone since losing the weight! So try that out love it helps! I’m not on bc because it never helped me at all! And get tested for autoimmune disorders to be safe because pcos leads to them also and could be causing some of your problems also
The ayo killed meee😂😂😂 I'm always saying aye! instead of screaming now I winder is this internalized insecurity 🤔
Hi Jemima, u looks absolutely beautiful 😊❤
i loved your discussion on masculine/feminine energies! i think we all have a balance, and what we understand as masculine and feminine can change over time for what works for us and can be dependent on so many things. one thing like you said depends on who you're with. i've found myself in similar situations, and i think the sense of safety is definitely a factor. when it comes to men, i expect them to step up and be more protective because they should be aware of how women walk through the world and be ready to defend them against patriarchal violence. and i expect them to step up in order to give me a break from having to be so on guard all the time. but it is hard to find a man that can fulfill that role and be conscious of it in a way that women are automatically (because we are used to constantly assessing our safety in any given situation). when it comes to being around other women, especially if they are more femme presenting, i find myself doing similar things of bringing out my more masc qualities, and i think fatness has something to do with it (aside from me personally being someone who is queer and approaches gender more fluidly). but as a fat woman, i feel like i know all to well what it's like to be ridiculed and even physically violated because i'm fat, being treated as not a 'real' woman but still being taken advantage of as one. i think what happens is since i'm used to having to deal with hostility just because i'm fat, i don't think twice about taking on an aggressive role because i've experienced so many times how it doesn't matter if i'm feminine enough or skinny enough or pretty enough, if people try to violate it's because they want to dominate someone and will look for any excuse.
anyway...i did not expect that to be such a long rant. just wanted to share my thoughts. as always, i appreciate your videos jemima! your frank discussions, especially as it pertains to fatness and desirability, and moving through a world that is hostile to us for no good reason. thank you for being a safe space for the fat girls, always
❤ skincare routine video, please and thank you! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼❤️
I was down there when he was down there and I was just in awe in how him and his family were treated.
Fab Vlog!! ❤ Can you PLEASE link the car stand you use for your camera….pleeeeease! 😊 Thanks!! 👍🏾
Alright with the finesseable.😁👍
Miss Jemima #bestvlogger ❤ #favoritevlogger Black girl collective event looked fun. You all looked so beautiful.
I'm not sure why you don't win this award. I think your're content is so good.
Love your channel Miss Jamila 👑💖.
I love to see you out with the gwrls. Your smile is so contagious ❤❤
I have the dark cheeks too and im insulin resistant 😢 let me know what they say.
I’m Insulin Resistant. I had to get a semiglutide to lose weight. Pcos could be my issue idk . Never got tested. Also, them flo pms gummies work well. Look them up.
The dr struggle is so relatable 😫 I avoid getting help for things for so long because I know they’re just going to say the same stuff. Like I have an ear problem and their like “woah big ol fatty, let’s test for diabetes first” 🙄 makes me mad af.
Okay Jemima I see the waistline girl❤ You are giving goals fr
So, I feel you. I swear I was diabetic but I never tested positive for it but I had that black ring on the back of my neck that looked like dirt. Obviously it was not because I scrub the heck out my entire body and I'm very clean which is what prompted me to research it. It's called acanthosis Nigricans( don't let the description of velvet like texture throw you). I did a low carb diet briefly and decided to monitor it and sure enough it got lighter so I know it has something to do with glucose levels.
Chal I wish I could forget how folks do me wrong, I remember TOO much and it’s honestly annoying. My therapist recommended journaling for my forgetful bestie, try that out friend
Girl I’m the same. When clutter is in my house I swear the world is ending in my mind 😂. I had to really DND for one day and get it together. You got this ❤
Not “I have no hands. I’m weak. I’m scary.” Girl I laughed out loud! Also, you’re stronger than you think, it it was a serious threat, you’d surprise yourself.
Praying for balance and alignment for you mentally, spiritually and physically. Sounds like you need an assistant. In addition, it is important to give yourself grace along the journey when your goals and things may not fall in to place as quickly as you planned. Enjoy the journey called life. I assure you the things that we magnify and spend so much time worrying and stressing about will take years off of your life. I never realized that until I got my cancer diagnosis! God has healed me and I move different in my life now. I do not stress about the things that I have no control over I pray to God about it and keep it moving. I create goals to focus on the things that I can change.
It’s the liver that gives dark patches
the PJ top is *GIVING* 😻✨
Yes I’m late on this vlog, but the way I cackled when you convinced yourself to go in the store by saying you never know until you try! 😂
Ms. Jemima the weight is coming off. Keep putting in that werk at the gym. It's paying off. You look great sis!
My too favs at the same table..😮…Kirah and Miss Jemima….. I lllllllllluuuuuuurrrrrvvvvvveeeeee it!(in my Miss Jemima voice)
Amazing as always ❤
😂😂 your Keith lee rant was hilarious . Apparently He was famous before becoming a viral TikToker. He used to be a boxer.
Every strong women have some kind of masculine tendency, but when we girly there is no one like us😅😊❤
"AYE YO!" At the haunted house, has me WEAK!
You are beautiful honey. I love your channel and personality. Keep doing you ❤
You can get,
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Get a college intern. Post an add on the local college or community College board for a unpaid intern. Experience only. They can help organize your packages, place your orders etc.
Yes, I even hate to be out even in the weekend.
Great video have a marvelous day
Sounds like a Carrie Bradshaw moment time for an assistant to organize to free up your creative space
As a big tall girl myself I believe we take on masculine energy because people assume we are that way because of the physical appearance. When around petite girls they see us also as stronger one even though we just as feminine .
🙋♀️ About the masculine tendencies. And I think I am no longer trying to figure it out. Maybe my friends need it 🤣. They need my protection
Hey sugah! Here early in video and will be back to comment again later. First things first - Virtual assistants for your scheduling, anything that can be done off site. 2nd Laundry service is a great idea especially if it will help you save time. Keith Lee tore them ATL grass wall, neon sign streets up. He definitely exposed the club turned restaurant scene to shreds. Ok be back later ❤ I’m back. Those wings and tacos looked soooooo tasty. That was a beautiful celebration of women in content creation. Sorry we missed the dress 🙁 Thank God for shoes by the door. Toodles 🥰
Happy Tuesday beautiful 💜
I feel like we are the same person. I do the same thing around girls!! I’m always the more “male” role. 😂❤
Naw Jemima- we don’t have to write those things down that has been done wrong to us….we always got that 1 friend who’s remembering for us!
😂😂😂 I know I have one and AM one!
That’s Dope Jemima I’m so proud of you
PCOS can cause insulin resistance and with pcos you have excess androgens which are more male hormones and cause a masculine type energy. This is why there is excess hair growth or hirsutism ( especially on chin/ facial hair) , lower tone voice, excess belly fat, receeding hair line, broad shoulders, etc just like a man would have with androgens. Not everyone will have these symptoms and pcos affects everyone differently. I was diagnosed in 2012 and I felt masculine at times especially with my female friends. Once I was diagnosed and I did my research a few years later it all made sense as to why I felt masculine at times.
I live in the surrounding area of Atlanta and yes the restaurant scene sucks down here
What camera do you use?
you are an excellent influencer. I enjoy your videos. Keeps me in the know. Please take care. I need you Keep your head up
Jems let us get Miss Jemima to 220K by Dec🎉🎉🎉🎉
That guacamole looked super good!!
I started a no gluten diet yesterday, and already I have less pain discomfort. I also bought organic fruits and vegetables. Perhaps you might consider watching RUclips videos on positive results from being off of gluten.
my husband loves watching your videos
Good Morning Sis, Target had the 12 pack Celcius Variety tropical, artic and peach for 19.somwthing. ❤❤
I dont even do hauls, and I'm overwhelmed with my stuff. I know your pain. I've been setting a clear the clutter goal, but whew.
Aye yo!!! 😂😂😂😂 I was dying
Do not claim any sickness, we get what we speak
Love the contentl would love to see if you won a aard cause you deserve it and are such a great creator!
hugs
im 5'4 and plus sized/thicker and I am the same way.... its not your size, its just how we are.... I only date guys bigger or taller than me because I have a lot of sass/masc energy and can rollover some men... I also am a sweet protective girlie pop.... its weird but its me!!
Love ur video!❤
Hey Miss Jemima💜
The black spots on your cheeks are called liver spots, I got some too
Joy Amor has been talking about her battles with PCOS on her channel
PCOS also contributes to painful menstrual cycles in addition to what others have mentioned.
I feel the same way about being around girly girls!! But I’m not a Tom boy but I’m just not girly girly
Some of the skin treatments you're getting my cause the darkness in the skin I was getting laser hair removal and they would tell me stay out of the sun even if you use sunscreen well I've been noticing certain parts of my face particularly my cheeks like yours were turning a little dark and were about the same complexion just a thought probably cut back on the sun exposure