the less you care, the happier you’ll be

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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

Комментарии • 98

  • @ZoeyDiaryTest
    @ZoeyDiaryTest 26 дней назад +99

    Thanks, Over the past 12 months, I’ve been dealing with a lot of anxiety and frustration about life. Overthinking has been draining me. But 2025 is going to be my year of maturity, for sure!

    • @sarahs366
      @sarahs366 25 дней назад +5

      Me too...I'm mentally exhausted from last few year x all best 2025 full of unexpected blessings ,miracles n self love🎉🙏💕

    • @kono9460
      @kono9460 23 дня назад +3

      I feel so as well. I wish you a better 2025!

    • @sarahs366
      @sarahs366 23 дня назад

      @@kono9460and you, let's go for it hard, this year🙏✨️💛

    • @allieanderson2920
      @allieanderson2920 21 день назад +3

      I always remind myself when I’m over thinking that I’m exhausting myself before anything even happens!

    • @sridevisudha
      @sridevisudha 17 дней назад +2

      you and me both, friend! 2025 is going to be a year full of intention, grace, and perseverance! we got this!

  • @aadiityyy
    @aadiityyy 26 дней назад +42

    alice ily, pls never stop yapping

  • @Phatxual
    @Phatxual 26 дней назад +47

    A.k.a. "The Art of Not Giving a Fuck"💯🔥🧡

    • @laiaKsh
      @laiaKsh 25 дней назад +1

      The book?

  • @Val-ex4vf
    @Val-ex4vf 24 дня назад +18

    Sometimes I do care too much about what other people think but then I remember this video and I just stop caring🫶💖😊

  • @baddiesubs9
    @baddiesubs9 26 дней назад +25

    goal for 2025: be less self conscious 💖

  • @pjm_31
    @pjm_31 26 дней назад +17

    One video before bed ....i literally consider you as my elder sister fr that i never had ❤

  • @ochibawolf
    @ochibawolf 22 дня назад +11

    This was so helpful! As a person with a YT channel and who also cares WAY too much about what people think, I needed to hear this. Thank you, Mae! Happy new year!

    • @jadajaetalks
      @jadajaetalks 19 дней назад

      Same as someone who’s getting back into it!

  • @calisurfergurl_XO
    @calisurfergurl_XO 26 дней назад +7

    THE TIMING!!! I needed this

  • @CharliniAlmeida
    @CharliniAlmeida 26 дней назад +11

    @Mae posts, I click! 🙌 So glad to see your channel grow, inspiring my RUclipsr journey here! 💪

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 26 дней назад +8

    But you can change A LOT of things. If you believed you didn’t have power to change things, everything would stay the same. Yes balancing your energy is vital…but caring at least to the point where you remember where you came from…and trust me EVERYBODY came from somewhere challenging. We are GUESTS on this planet…and we have duties to it and all elements and living life forms on it. I love your boundary setting between yourself and others…impressive🎉 You speak SO much wisdom ❤

  • @PorkSteu
    @PorkSteu 10 дней назад

    Thank you thank you thank you!!! Every time I need to hear this I will come to you tysm!

  • @Juliana-s3k5k
    @Juliana-s3k5k 17 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this girl, two of my classmates just body-shamed me and it breaks my heart.It also affects my confidence and how I see myself.

  • @proudbunnygo
    @proudbunnygo 22 дня назад +3

    The only thing u should care about is ur money and u...and do not do any harm to others. Dont make fake promises or realtionships. Invest in yourself and enjoy your achievements.

  • @edy2448
    @edy2448 18 дней назад

    I’ve just recently started to integrate your teachings and I’ve I’ve already seen the quality of my life take an upgrade it is crazy I just wanna say thank you so much!

  • @Clint-n5f
    @Clint-n5f 12 дней назад

    I hv been looking around a lot of utubers who give all this improvement advice but for me (as a guy ) u r the best of all
    Rlly love ur videos. Take care and gid bless u❤😊

  • @Kt___1409
    @Kt___1409 26 дней назад +5

    This is so timely and real, thank you love ❤

  • @mirrorball97-xo
    @mirrorball97-xo 26 дней назад +5

    SO PRETTY MAE

  • @kyleweber-f9u
    @kyleweber-f9u 25 дней назад +1

    Thanks, great video. I also struggle with social anxiety . Overthink every social setting to where people call me weird .

  • @cutiekai5647
    @cutiekai5647 26 дней назад +3

    You're so pretty! Thanks for the advice. I really needed it today. ❤

  • @BlackRoseTrailBlaze
    @BlackRoseTrailBlaze 26 дней назад +3

    Mae I needed this thank you

  • @Godisfirst21
    @Godisfirst21 25 дней назад +5

    2025, you are either changing it, or choosing it.
    Imma change it.

  • @rickbrummer3628
    @rickbrummer3628 16 дней назад

    yeah just be nice, and assertive when needed, and people will respect that

  • @kozubart
    @kozubart 21 день назад +2

    Everything always works out for me. No weapon formed against me shall prosper. What others think of me is their perception, it never is more important than what God think for me. I don’t need anyone to validate me. Period.

  • @Carritube
    @Carritube 26 дней назад

    Woah it's like you can read my mind, this video is exactly what I've been needing 😔🙌🏽

  • @rinajumps
    @rinajumps 25 дней назад

    You are on a roll, Mae! Thank you for so much self-development material to wrap up this year! You're a true gem ✨💎✨

  • @alexg6849
    @alexg6849 24 дня назад

    i hope you heal up from whatever pain you have rn

  • @Richard-h6v9t
    @Richard-h6v9t 21 день назад

    Your channel arrived into my life at exactly the right time. Universe words in mysterious ways for real.

  • @jade189
    @jade189 18 дней назад

    This is. Gold. I actually can’t believe you uploaded this for free

  • @sightoneput
    @sightoneput 23 дня назад

    i actually am a people pleaser and im learning how to stop it and this video helped me so much

  • @melodyglenn3366
    @melodyglenn3366 19 дней назад

    Mae, you are such a truth speaker. I remember seeing a survey about your retreat getaway. I hope to join someday.

  • @jobsoncarlos5753
    @jobsoncarlos5753 12 дней назад

    tysm for ur content, it has been helping me a lot

  • @jennyhateseverything
    @jennyhateseverything 25 дней назад

    Caring too much is a sign of intelligence

  • @meebsbeans
    @meebsbeans 25 дней назад +1

    She got those big sponsors now proud of you girly

  • @aadithyanair4797
    @aadithyanair4797 23 дня назад

    watching your video made me calm down my anticipatory anxiety.

  • @indikom
    @indikom 26 дней назад

    I have heard from many spiritual teachers this notion that I can choose how to react. This advice doesn't take into account that we are emotional beings. Most of the time, our emotions dictate how we react. Even if I intellectually know that at a certain moment I should shut up, I don't do it because anger takes control.

  • @vibegirl6333
    @vibegirl6333 23 дня назад

    Wow, this video had some pointers which I genuinely needed to hear. Great work as always Mae ❤❤❤

  • @mschons11
    @mschons11 25 дней назад

    THANK YOU AND Happy New Year! ❤

  • @Lo9n
    @Lo9n 25 дней назад

    Thank you for all the great videos💚

  • @kono9460
    @kono9460 23 дня назад

    This is really helpful. I have been dealing with a lot of anxiety and stress about my life too. It often feels so overwhelming and I just don't know how to navigate it to get to my dream life (or know what I want). If you could make a video on this, I would really appreciate it!

  • @marcogawa
    @marcogawa 24 дня назад

    So true!
    Happy New Year!

  • @francescogioia1654
    @francescogioia1654 25 дней назад +1

    I admit that I don’t know everything! And that’s true .

  • @AWEdio
    @AWEdio 25 дней назад

    Its really weird that I only noticed the blue in your hair about three minutes from the end 🤣
    I need to watch this again, this is exactly what I need today.

  • @jamespooler9082
    @jamespooler9082 25 дней назад

    This is one your best videos Thank you Mae!

  • @dennyperez3872
    @dennyperez3872 24 дня назад +1

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @shespearl
    @shespearl 24 дня назад

    I needed this mae, thank you i love you🫶🏻

  • @nvika3852
    @nvika3852 25 дней назад +1

    MAI I LUVV U FROM BOTTOM OF MY💓 U R LOOKING GODDESS IN THUMBNAIL ✨🌷💐❣️

  • @anje30b
    @anje30b 21 день назад

    Definitely it works if you think like this, but it will not work at the same time.
    Life is about to be *experienced*, not controlled.
    Be soft and kind, but don’t take s*** from anyone.

  • @LimeSlimeee
    @LimeSlimeee 26 дней назад

    Happy early new year Mae! Thank you for everything

  • @FredrickOchieng-v5e
    @FredrickOchieng-v5e 25 дней назад +3

    She like defined me and such words change a lot ❤,care about what matters

  • @lostsoulsoftheabyss1771
    @lostsoulsoftheabyss1771 5 дней назад

    Loving your channel! did you get this from taoisms wu wei? One note regarding trauma, its essential to confront it, merely 'leaving in the past' as you say doesn't work, as you well know you unconscious mind remembers all. Trying to forget it is the worst thing you can do, it goes underground, your left-hand dictates your right in secret and we merely interpret it as fate.
    You need to understand the lesson of the trauma, like if you fell in a hole one day you need to learn how not to repeat the act otherwise you will be in fear and hypervigilance. Therapy, writing it out etc. Once confronted and understanding the length, depth and breadth, you can leave in the past, and your cells will release the trauma. (The body keeps the score) a book worth reading. Much luv!

  • @yogeethanjegan8689
    @yogeethanjegan8689 25 дней назад

    Thank you❤. You are a’mae’zing.

  • @meghasoni714
    @meghasoni714 22 дня назад

    The THUMBNAIL?!?!? Mam you look ethereal 🤭❤️💋🍒

  • @rachlovesmj7517
    @rachlovesmj7517 25 дней назад

    The timing omfg

  • @LouisLuzuka
    @LouisLuzuka 26 дней назад +2

    My English teacher said this 😂❤

  • @NurJahan-x5e
    @NurJahan-x5e 19 дней назад

    I loe her so much. Can u make a Video on manifesting specific things(grades,money etc.). I'd really like to hear u say something on this topic. Love you🏩💞

  • @kelly_mere19
    @kelly_mere19 26 дней назад

    i needed to hear this. 🎉

  • @UsurpersAndAssassins
    @UsurpersAndAssassins 23 дня назад

    At one point, I was really shocked to hear that one of my co-workers was shitting on me, claiming that I didn't do much work in my role. But then I thought about it. I have always been a really hard worker, and my role is quite busy most of the time. So, I knew it wasn't true. Then I thought about it some more. He is really, really fat. Really, really lazy. And he is incredibly dishonest, telling endless stupid stories that are clearly not true. At that point, I realized that he was deflecting his self-loathing onto me - but he's really talking about himself. That was the very last time in my life that I cared about what people said about me. You know you. Nobody else has a clue.

  • @francescogioia1654
    @francescogioia1654 25 дней назад +1

    ❤I don’t know how to thank you 🙏🏼 ,,, I don’t want be here to upset or to depress anyone…
    The problem is that I’m sincere and genuine…. And again , most the time I’m always the wrong one ! 🙏🏼

  • @alecktrey9172
    @alecktrey9172 26 дней назад

    I felt this.

  • @Laf631
    @Laf631 24 дня назад

    Not the most important part, but your styling is so pretty in this video.

  • @alexgracy7931
    @alexgracy7931 25 дней назад

    Your Amazing 🎉🎉🎉

  • @christinee0423
    @christinee0423 23 дня назад +1

    Hi! I just discovered your channel and I love your contents. Do you have spotify podcast? I would like to hear you while on the road and working out.

  • @itzy4541
    @itzy4541 22 дня назад

    Ok girl ❤

  • @asadreams
    @asadreams 25 дней назад

    I literally lost all my friends today the timing is INSANE

  • @Mirzaali-m6g
    @Mirzaali-m6g 20 дней назад

    This is great but you know even though now i know what to do as i knew before i am still not good at doing it in my actions i speak so true and a lot

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 26 дней назад

    So smart Chick🚨🏁🔥

  • @darshanasarma6897
    @darshanasarma6897 26 дней назад

    At right time u came

  • @Fairycore_LuvrXcX
    @Fairycore_LuvrXcX 26 дней назад

    best yapper in the game

  • @aralynnyuu
    @aralynnyuu 26 дней назад +1

    Real

  • @francescogioia1654
    @francescogioia1654 25 дней назад +1

    What about when you meet someone and have a wonderful time together and all the sadly , you can feel that they are not the same as before. Why is wrong to ask and express my feeling ! ?

  • @noitstones
    @noitstones 11 дней назад

    You’re beautiful btw

  • @imfinetysm
    @imfinetysm 25 дней назад

    u look so different omgg

  • @lattesaylatte
    @lattesaylatte 25 дней назад

    you’re prettier everyday, what is your secret 😭😭

  • @vix4227
    @vix4227 26 дней назад

    Wow I’m so early 😅❤

  • @muhaiminurrahman5482
    @muhaiminurrahman5482 24 дня назад

    You're so beautiful... 💙 I love your videos... 👽

  • @nikkinrin
    @nikkinrin 22 дня назад

    What to do if there is a flow of energy inside and that i can not control it sometimes feelings just flowing in a strong current.

  • @philomenakasichana
    @philomenakasichana 23 дня назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @fatimalizbeth9722
    @fatimalizbeth9722 26 дней назад

    How can I become a member?

  • @EverlongTriad
    @EverlongTriad 26 дней назад

    🩷🤍🩷!!

  • @trex7370
    @trex7370 25 дней назад

    *One honest question* : How do you get prettier in every video?

  • @Abhiksha09
    @Abhiksha09 25 дней назад

    Eye makeup tutorial pls

  • @user-T.Baldwin
    @user-T.Baldwin 20 дней назад

    Yeah, but what if you just joined the red cross ?
    does this mean I'm fired ? 😮😮nooo !

  • @cloverlengocphuong2197
    @cloverlengocphuong2197 11 дней назад

    video importee dans ma tete.

  • @DevaJoho-z7v
    @DevaJoho-z7v 25 дней назад

    💁❤🎙️⚧️💱♂️🧑‍🎨

  • @muhaiminurrahman5482
    @muhaiminurrahman5482 24 дня назад

    Girl, do you drink COFFEE before making these videos?

  • @darrrkangel
    @darrrkangel 13 дней назад

    Did you get a nose job? You look so different!

  • @ianrobson3258
    @ianrobson3258 26 дней назад

    Slow down. You talk too fast. ! Learn the value of a......pause

  • @Sheila_zone
    @Sheila_zone 25 дней назад

    1:51 i want such much beauty , i want to go but it s so much money, strechmarklaser., pigmenttationlaser usw. i cant wait and i want it now .. but i tell myself that i can reach my goal in this year or even the next. It s okay .. nothing has to be now(do not stress so much about youself, some thinks are gona be always there for you)❤!!!

  • @juicystories6682
    @juicystories6682 26 дней назад

    You exactly know how to satisfy your subscribers 🤍