10 Things REAL Men Keep PRIVATE!

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  • @alpham
    @alpham  3 месяца назад +5

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  • @RetroEduardo
    @RetroEduardo 3 месяца назад +36

    0:32 1-Past Relationships
    1:05 2-Gossips
    1:29 3-Political Views
    2:44 4-Personal Finance
    3:17 - 5:40 Rocket Money ad
    5:41 5-Sexual Experiences
    6:24 6-Relationship Issues
    7:04 7-Other Families Negativity
    7:37 8-Insensitive Jokes
    8:35 9-Bad Behavior
    10:20 10-(never mention in the video) Keeping your mouth shut
    Thank me later

    • @noorgill0707
      @noorgill0707 3 месяца назад +1

    • @jbowDonDiego1380
      @jbowDonDiego1380 3 месяца назад +1

      Thank u

    • @oliviao2238
      @oliviao2238 3 месяца назад +1

      The rocket video had me laughing uncontrollably.

    • @BadThrusher
      @BadThrusher 3 месяца назад

      11:00, ruining someone's video because you decided to be the jobless 4ss that summarizes videos

    • @2024ChildoftheKing
      @2024ChildoftheKing 3 месяца назад

      Honestly the worst times in my life was when I opened my mouth too much.

  • @BigT1523
    @BigT1523 3 месяца назад +91

    Aaron!!! Been watching forever. I'll never forget I called a number on your website and you answered. I was freaked out lol. I thought customer service was going to answer. Instead I heard "This is Aaron" lol😂😂😂😂

  • @ShawnRavenfire
    @ShawnRavenfire 3 месяца назад +36

    There's a great quote from Craig Ferguson: "Before you say anything, ask yourself three questions. Does this need to be said? Does this need to be said by me? Does this need to be said right now?"

  • @RiZenAsH
    @RiZenAsH 3 месяца назад +16

    Never admit to anything you’ve already gotten away with. People these days just love telling in themselves.

  • @PleaseXplane
    @PleaseXplane 3 месяца назад +27

    Keep everything private. Tell her nothing at all. She'll never lose interest in you. Her nature won't allow it.

    • @perrycoffey5410
      @perrycoffey5410 3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly a guy that knows fee mail nature

  • @Maxsmotoshop
    @Maxsmotoshop 3 месяца назад +1

    Posting political views on Facebook may not be a good idea, but we’re probably be a good discussion to have face-to-face with a person

  • @brandonsmith479
    @brandonsmith479 3 месяца назад +9

    All great advice. These are things I wish I had learned sooner cause when I look back at my early 20's there were a number of times I was coming across as a complete douche for bragging about personal achievements when there was no context or conversation leading up to sharing those achievements. I've learned over the years to keep my mouth shut and honestly I feel better about myself for doing so.

  • @juliusjenkins8428
    @juliusjenkins8428 3 месяца назад +6

    I extremely agree you shouldn't talk about how much money, You make or what Revenue are you getting because that create enemies and jealousy. Also best believe people will find ways how to mess that up for you because they know that they either one want. The same granted of Freedom that you have or two they want to take away the freedom that you have that they gave up.

  • @61dodgelancer
    @61dodgelancer 3 месяца назад +5

    Remember. "Discretion is the better part of valor". That means that avoiding a dangerous or unpleasant situation is sometimes the most sensible thing to do.

  • @mrax101
    @mrax101 3 месяца назад +1

    Great vid! One of your best!I've shared my political views before. In my view, it was to help people. BUT, we all have WAY more in common than our political differences, so I try not so much anymore. I have friends that are the polar opposite of me politically, but our friendship or relationship is stronger than politics.

  • @vernoneatwell5449
    @vernoneatwell5449 3 месяца назад +1

    I am so glad Alpha bought up political views as something to keep private bc the number of times I see people on social media who are very politically active, like myself, say that the political views of their partner are non-negotiable.
    It's crazy how alienating that is nowadays in today's politically polarised world

  • @MasonDillardd
    @MasonDillardd 3 месяца назад +5

    Just heard another RUclipsr say not to over share over the internet publicly. Makes sense

  • @jimbingham9329
    @jimbingham9329 3 месяца назад +2

    Dude...I found out about your channel from the RMRS channel. I WANT to like your channel. I really do. But when every video of yours has you at an almost-yelling level, it's almost impossible to like your videos. Sincere question: Do you yell like that in normal everyday conversation? I can't be the only one in the comment section who notices your constant yelling.

  • @TRISTINS_STORY666
    @TRISTINS_STORY666 3 месяца назад +3

    Awesome video. you have helped me so much through style and hygiene. Thank you so much.

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 3 месяца назад +1

    Good video Alpha... But the thing is if you're talking bad about your family, who are you talking to about your family? 🤔😊...

  • @lawrencelaw8311
    @lawrencelaw8311 3 месяца назад +1

    raise your hand if Alpha M and Jose Zuniga have changed your life over the years🙋‍♂

  • @trevorwallace7934
    @trevorwallace7934 3 месяца назад +2

    Yeah definitely watch what you post on social media. I did learn this lesson before went I was younger. It was back in 2015 and the law was passed for gays to legally get married and I didn't agree with it. So my dumb ass voiced my opinion and made my fb post saying, "You can't be serious. Marriage is for a man and a woman" and well my comment section blew up and I got attacked by a bunch of lesbians trying to change my mindset. I fired back for hours then finally I had enough and deleted the post. Later on I made a post about something completely different and they hopped in the comments talking about the gay marriage thing. I did piss off alot of gay people.

    • @trevorwallace7934
      @trevorwallace7934 3 месяца назад

      @livestock9722 Yeah. Alpha M is right tho. Some things are better off left unsaid. People have different beliefs, mindsets, religions, political and lifestyles. And that's okay. Can't stop people from living thier lives the way they want too. I can only control how I think, feel and live my life.

  • @goohee22
    @goohee22 3 месяца назад +7

    So basically don't act like we did pre-internet .

  • @outsider52
    @outsider52 3 месяца назад +1

    wowo Aron you really are click bating with your thumbnail, what is wrong with you.

  • @AlexBailey-c5k
    @AlexBailey-c5k 3 месяца назад +1

    Or a wild weekend with the boys in new Orleans and Vegas

  • @mujhe_meri_masti
    @mujhe_meri_masti 3 месяца назад

    keep your contacts i mean people you know that get things done private from everyone...most people ask for advice and then goo and do the exact opposite and then you look like a fool!!!

  • @ericbuikema5781
    @ericbuikema5781 3 месяца назад

    Sharing political views is why when businesses go woke they go broke.

  • @aaronspringborn34
    @aaronspringborn34 3 месяца назад

    Aaron how are you? Interesting video. I overall agree with you however I’m slightly disagree with you to a point while your points are valid if you need to talk to family regarding this because it’s like the old phrase if you don’t talk about it, they might explode as to relief stress. When it comes to reading the room, how are we supposed to know? or let’s say, for example you make a joke about something “on” inappropriate people get offended and then another time people might do it to you. Plus the one thing that might offend someone the opposite you might offend you so no matter what you say or do sometimes you’re darn if you do and your darn if you don’t and I’m not talking about pride but I am against pride in more ways than one. I’m not gonna to go too much more into detail here. Don’t we have a right as people to stand our ground? Also, why we live in a free country known as the United States of America, why are these corporations pushing all these especially the liberal pride month all over social media. That’s all I’ve been seen. It’s drive me up a darn wall if people want their own personal view fine. Your job is to sell make money not be woke and political. I can go on and on here. I just want your thoughts on this. Thank you and take care.

  • @KrosanBeast315
    @KrosanBeast315 3 месяца назад +1

    One thing to help stay in control of finances is to call the bank you have a Credit Card with and tell them to reduce the Credit Card limit to the lowest it can go. This way, it is impossible to get into serious debt. Most banks will allow a minimum of $500 - $1,000. This is a good thing for many people since you can always call your bank to increase the limit gradually as you gain control of your spending. In most cases, you can also tell the bank to put a personal spending cap on your CC. This allows an authorized call from you to them to open up more purchasing power for emergencies only.

  • @rahulbhatti4615
    @rahulbhatti4615 3 месяца назад +1

    5:41 so, i wanna know that if my partner asks me whether i had done sex before, then what should i say to her?

  • @daleonov
    @daleonov 3 месяца назад

    I'm surprised talking about one's health issues is not on the list

  • @MoinPraniya
    @MoinPraniya 3 месяца назад

    Alpha! Pls buy new black tshirts😂

  • @travischill
    @travischill 3 месяца назад

    I assume this is only for social media. I wouldnt want to be neutral as switzerland in the offline. Gossiping is fun and if somebody deserves to be roasted he will😂

  • @dannytg1
    @dannytg1 3 месяца назад

    I really despise guys who are full 9f gossip, it makes them look far worse than females who are gossipers in sewing circles...

  • @katharsis3754
    @katharsis3754 3 месяца назад

    Lol weird cuz a girl i just started dating asked me to.tell her about the previous girls I've been with

  • @Golani-ic8ue
    @Golani-ic8ue 2 месяца назад

    2 things to never talk about in public , religion and politics.

  • @tvblue3010
    @tvblue3010 2 месяца назад

    Being Switzerland is certainly a superpower in this current era we are in.

  • @boboesq3994
    @boboesq3994 3 месяца назад +1

    ben and jerrys are very woke and it shows

  • @noorgill0707
    @noorgill0707 3 месяца назад

    Removing intro and increasing ad length was the worstttttt idea

  • @DonnyDougherty
    @DonnyDougherty 3 месяца назад +3

    There are things I just learned from watching your video and not not talk about certain things and keep things private
    I should not discuss about my political views or unless people agree with me
    I should not tell anyone about my sex life.
    I should not tell people how much money I make or how much I have in my pocket.

  • @ShawnRavenfire
    @ShawnRavenfire 3 месяца назад +1

    Another thing I'd add to the list. Anything responding to a post that could be fishing for information for identity theft. Questions like, "What was your first car," or "what's your favorite album," which are common identification security questions. I'm not saying keep your favorite album a secret from everyone, but you should be suspicious of random posts asking things like that.

    • @daleonov
      @daleonov 3 месяца назад +1

      The answers to those security questions should always be made up anyway, instead of being based on actual facts.

  • @Cultureharyanvi1234
    @Cultureharyanvi1234 3 месяца назад +1

    हाथ जोड़कर राम राम जी ❤😂🎉😢😢😮😅😅😅😊

  • @fredbedore32
    @fredbedore32 3 месяца назад

    What brand of shirt are you wearing

  • @Matufalius
    @Matufalius 3 месяца назад

    Make more like this. This was about me haha

  • @namastemetalguy
    @namastemetalguy 3 месяца назад

    Damn ALPHA!!!! Great video! Unfortunately in today's society, this video is way to intense for 80% of supposed "men".

  • @pedroalexandre7097
    @pedroalexandre7097 3 месяца назад

    Keep private from others youre relantionship, how much earn, where you live and where you are (either business, vacation,...) and even, opinions you have that wont help or benefit you from talking about them, expecially about other people.

  • @deadacrats6281
    @deadacrats6281 3 месяца назад

    if you are gonna play the switzerland card you whole life you ain’t being true to yourself. treat everyone with respect but always be true to yourself and speak your mind and be respectful of others that do the same even if it’s not favouring your opinion.

  • @smoodcruz
    @smoodcruz 3 месяца назад

    Some individuals could benefit from learning how to take a joke; consider creating a video on this topic.

  • @fuzzy76
    @fuzzy76 3 месяца назад

    While I agree that these things should never be shared publicly, I think it is important to have safe friends you can talk with some of these things about.

  • @pallygoat7150
    @pallygoat7150 3 месяца назад

    I agree with the comments that the thumbnail wasn't the most tactful, but the video itself has solid advice, IMO.

  • @michaelmaultsby895
    @michaelmaultsby895 3 месяца назад +8

    On politics, I disagree. Voting for President is like hiring a CEO for our country. Do you want a CEO who is too feeble to stand trial for taking classified documents or someone who made the life of ordinary people better and the world a more peaceful place?

    • @yellowsnowman9157
      @yellowsnowman9157 3 месяца назад

      If you disagree then you'd be wrong. Politics have ruined the internet and made society crazy

    • @michaelmaultsby895
      @michaelmaultsby895 3 месяца назад

      @@l.sutton1392, I understand. Your feeling brain is running your life and your thinking brain has Stockholm syndrome. Once you start using more of your thinking brain, you will change your mind. Persuasion is the power behind propaganda.

    • @freshgino
      @freshgino 3 месяца назад

      Peaceful.. lol

    • @michaelmaultsby895
      @michaelmaultsby895 3 месяца назад

      @@freshgino, no new wars that the U.S. had any involvement in, peace agreements between Arab countries and Israel, Russia did not invade Ukraine during his time in office. What disruption of the peace can you identify?

  • @Majesticrogueninja94
    @Majesticrogueninja94 3 месяца назад +1

    Wish I had learned all these things sooner..

  • @seanfryfitness
    @seanfryfitness 3 месяца назад

    Didn't Style OG just make this exact same video with these exact same things a couple weeks ago?

  • @davidhernandez9985
    @davidhernandez9985 3 месяца назад

    How much does one make yearly, whoever is asking that question is setting you up to reply?

  • @Bruh-cg2fk
    @Bruh-cg2fk 3 месяца назад +1

    what?

  • @azeemhoosain4004
    @azeemhoosain4004 3 месяца назад

    i think 80% of your life must be private the less you share the better, never share your goals and dreams with the world those must kept private . keep work at work and home at home,

  • @wealthmakingg
    @wealthmakingg 3 месяца назад

    I created a RUclips channel and I have 3 subscribers 😂😂 will I be rich or poor

  • @ThatBaritoneGuitarGuy
    @ThatBaritoneGuitarGuy 3 месяца назад

    Let's just say there are advantages to being a VERY private person.

  • @bajenbajen9992
    @bajenbajen9992 2 месяца назад

    How mutch you earn

  • @francescohasibra1735
    @francescohasibra1735 3 месяца назад +2

    Nice videos as always

  • @HappyLivingAG
    @HappyLivingAG 3 месяца назад

    Greetings from Switzerland. Grüessli

  • @konarkji1106
    @konarkji1106 3 месяца назад

    Tell point 3 to Dhruv Rathee.. he really needs to be a man

  • @HJ-lz4dt
    @HJ-lz4dt 3 месяца назад

    I see people post personal things on Facebook. It is so cringy.

  • @81aherna
    @81aherna 3 месяца назад

    All facts!

  • @Tripsurfer
    @Tripsurfer 3 месяца назад

    Dude 6.8 mil subs wtf that’s crazy never realized lol

  • @Bruh-cg2fk
    @Bruh-cg2fk 3 месяца назад

    if you speak a foreign language don't tell anyone, it has to be a secret or a surprise

  • @Jesse-l5k
    @Jesse-l5k 3 месяца назад

    About your family you got me laughing 😂

  • @dariuszbutkiewicz9065
    @dariuszbutkiewicz9065 3 месяца назад

    To nr1. What if she cheated on me and my current one asks me why did we break up and i just say the truth without any unnecessary frazes?

  • @azeemhoosain4004
    @azeemhoosain4004 3 месяца назад

    money matters for sure, and relationship status unless you 100% sure

  • @Dreoilin
    @Dreoilin 3 месяца назад

    Its not a secret if 3 know it

  • @AllanRochez
    @AllanRochez 3 месяца назад

    Financial situations and who you’re dating or seeing

  • @alxnder.237
    @alxnder.237 3 месяца назад +1

    Hey 💪🏻

  • @vktravellog1242
    @vktravellog1242 3 месяца назад

    My friend in high school used to call me undercover lover 😂😂

  • @christianledet6222
    @christianledet6222 3 месяца назад

    half of the vid is an add :) no hate, just a bit crazy

  • @Josh-fp2qn
    @Josh-fp2qn 3 месяца назад

    I will never tell you my body count. It’s too low.

  • @austindmilligan
    @austindmilligan 3 месяца назад

    Is that a true classic tee bro? Looks good on you my guy

  • @williammmmmmmmm
    @williammmmmmmmm 3 месяца назад

    like if you are 10/10

  • @1stworldproblems873
    @1stworldproblems873 3 месяца назад

    Alpha definitely based

  • @geckosonic
    @geckosonic 3 месяца назад +3

    Healthy dose of cowardice in this

    • @61dodgelancer
      @61dodgelancer 3 месяца назад +1

      Another way to interpret what is being suggested is that it is good to be diplomatic. “A Diplomat is someone who can tell you to go to Hell & you look forward to the trip.”
      Still another way to understand what is being suggested is this: If you say discretion is the better part of valour, you mean that avoiding a dangerous or unpleasant situation is sometimes the most sensible thing to do.

  • @Sotol811
    @Sotol811 3 месяца назад +2

    COCAINE IS ONE HELL OF A DRUG.

  • @Acpll
    @Acpll 3 месяца назад

    Where’s that t shirt from?? 🔥👀

  • @taufiqmohab-ali4083
    @taufiqmohab-ali4083 3 месяца назад

    Thank you very much.

  • @TonyCalderon-z1n
    @TonyCalderon-z1n 3 месяца назад

    Yup that’s right

  • @Yaad-006
    @Yaad-006 3 месяца назад

    Love you dude 🇧🇩

  • @brinzcarmelo8439
    @brinzcarmelo8439 3 месяца назад

    Oh

  • @fitnessandart5754
    @fitnessandart5754 3 месяца назад

    Innovative!

  • @dzhordanguyyar
    @dzhordanguyyar 3 месяца назад

    great vid) i like your energy when you speak too

  • @icarrymyrevolverinsingleac9564
    @icarrymyrevolverinsingleac9564 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m MAGA 💪🏾🇺🇸🇺🇸💪🏾
    I’ll let the world know !!!!!!

    • @overk1llz
      @overk1llz 3 месяца назад +1

      Good way to lose opportunities. An old boss came out as Maga and tons of employees stopped respecting him and then he just left. Bet he won't do that again.

    • @icarrymyrevolverinsingleac9564
      @icarrymyrevolverinsingleac9564 3 месяца назад

      @@overk1llz ….so everyone that’s a Trump supporter loses chances at opportunities just because they support Trump
      🫤…. Yeah f that bs …

    • @overk1llz
      @overk1llz 3 месяца назад

      @icarrymyrevolverinsingleac9564 didn't have to be Trump it could of been Biden or anyone else. That was just my real life personal example.

    • @claudianreyn4529
      @claudianreyn4529 3 месяца назад

      ​​@@overk1llzwhy wouldn't you want your counrty to get great/better? Why would you be discriminated because of such a political view?

  • @pkfire5484
    @pkfire5484 3 месяца назад

    Real men follow God, not the lust of the flesh and the pride of themselfs.

    • @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012
      @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 3 месяца назад

      i don't believe in god

    • @pkfire5484
      @pkfire5484 3 месяца назад

      @@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 why not?

    • @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012
      @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 3 месяца назад

      @@pkfire5484 because i just don't. not convinced

    • @pkfire5484
      @pkfire5484 3 месяца назад

      @@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 have you ever tried to search for God? Have you ever wondered why there's good and evil?
      I know that if you look you will find that God has always been with you. At times where you felt extremely lucky or like a miracle happened, and even in the normal day to day things of life we all take for granted.

  • @fernandoravenmusic
    @fernandoravenmusic 3 месяца назад

    Hey Aaron, we just want you to know that we really appreciate how you always speak the truth. Your honesty means a lot to us!

  • @UpInYourGrills
    @UpInYourGrills 3 месяца назад

    Women are the ones who need the talk about keeping her relationship problems to themselves. It's like they're too immature to resolve their own issues and immediately feel the need to let their besties and family all know! My ex was no exception and got her fam to hate me. She could never take that back, so we broke up

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 3 месяца назад +1

    W Alpha M 🫡💯