your name is perfect lol the guy fell in love with an average looking woman who was dead at the time based on a decades old faded polaroid, and he died for her kyle reese - the ultimate simp
"The reality of why dating is so easy for women is because men make it easy for them." Nail hit right on the head there. The root of the problem isn't women, it's simps.
The female 10s in my town date meth heads and alcoholics. My soul, mind, and body being in peak shape does nothing for me. There's some weird conspiracy to only mate with losers, I think they're doing it as a spiteful threat towards God tbh.
@@najirban You don't get it. Once those balls fill up men make fools of themselves Men are WEAK. If men were strong the sex industry for example would COLLAPSE in a week. Weak men are ALWAYS the problem. The problem ans the solution.
Simps have always been around. It’s in our nature to at least try every single option out there which gets us access to the p. Including crawling on the floor like an insect for your girl of interest.
"I want 6ft, 6 figures etc." women: "you go girl, don't settle for less!" red/blackpill: "women only date up and they don't settle for less" women: "that's offensive"
The best thing any young single man can do is be the best version of yourself and learn the art of not giving a fuck what women think of you. After I learnt that, things started to change massively for me. I started being rude to women who were rude to me, walking away from women who weren't giving me what I wanted, setting clear boundaries early whilst dating someone, and ghosting women that didn't respect them. From my personal perspective, if a woman thinks that you have the self respect to walk away the moment she wastes your time or crosses a boundary, she will actually respect you for it and not do it. Be nice, and she won't take you seriously.
That only works if youre a high value man to begin with, if youre an incel or a basement dweller , being an asshol3 will just enhance those features. Plus a man should desire high quality women as well, not just any woman that will pick them.
Please don't apologise for making longer videos- ever! They are even more thorough and insightful 🙂; thanks so much! You really help men to see things the way they really are!
but it is NOT for ""biology"". alot of men in the past due to the obligation to marriage after having sex with a girl by society and her family, had to go with prostitutes. if you see the data nowadays of young guys going with them, in America they are less than a 11% who had sex with a prostitute at least 1 time in their lifetime, and some of them are also the ones who have a paraphilia, so they are not just the most "desperates". the thing is that the ambient and the culture has changed that sexual dynamic. aside that single example: cultural and social obligations on men who are brainwashed since they are kids to overvalue women and do the "courtship", ARE indeed the real problem. using some fatalist cherrypicked biological-evolutionary theories of millions ago presumed dynamics, is just a way to NORMALIZE more those societal dynamics, making the situation even more worse. instead, you all have to understand that most of these dynamics are CULTURAL, and that us new generations of men, are way more self conscious than our dads, uncles and grandpas, and so on. we have an absolutely powerful weapon as the internet to make information on these dynamics, and to make other peers and young guys exit from those(like with MGTOW), and so, we have the power to regain and gain the power that society gave to women, and leave them without it in the next years and near future. marriage is dying, we will have artificial wombs, metaverses, fear for approaching for false accuses and STDs, humanoids and so on, who will drastically change relationship in a better way, and in a irreversible way, too. what you have NOT to do is: being "red/blackpilled" and going to push for those traditional male behaviors who are literally the reason of more female power of will in relationships; do not being a "traditional man" for that reason first, and for the fact that most women DO NOT have the duties of being traditional anymore since decades. THIS is what you have to do.
The best way to live life as a man is to be born tall, with a Chad face. Everything else is attainable, especially with positive reinforcement along the way, because of the Chad face.
@@yyysamuel3215 looks is a tiny, very tiny % of all the things that definy your personality, Even at 2 years old people have different traits.. Gens, family, education, social circle, % of neuroticism, agreableness, extraversion (Maybe here looks can affect if a person ends up more extrovert or introvert), conscientiouness, opennes, place where you live, economics of your family... I could continue. Just... "personality based on looks" is dumb :P cheers
@@grindmode4781 No its not. This is a west 1st world problem. I went to Mexico in 2019. Saw many short average men with women better looking than them with kids. You white boys let your women off the leash. And this is your reward.
34 tomorrow and got a promotion lined up to take me into the top 10% of UK earners for my age in a few months time. Yet shockingly because I've never had a relationship there is no preselection benefit available for me to capitalize on and even though I've been improving myself it still feels like a constant endless battle of zero success, ghosting on apps and now seemingly surrounded by single moms, some of who are now stating on the profiles that they "do not want any more kids", yet they still feel that what I have to offer is not good enough for them 🤣 There's pretty much no words to describe how deluded women's standards have become in 2022
I’m driving a fucking brand new Porsche and I don’t get fuck all interest from women. I think if I sold everything I own (including my house) my investments my stocks etc. I would have close to a million pounds. If I try and start conversations with girls who work in shops (probably on minimum wage) I just get blanked. Girls on minimum wage turning down men driving Porsche’s, is a reality.
@@tonyzyklon9328 this is why I wonder when I see all this red pill content online "focus on yourself", "put in the work", "don't chase women, let them chase you", yet clearly we seem to be both putting in the work here and still not getting results. I don't drive a brand new Porsche, but I could with this promotion. Currently driving a Toyota GT-86 that only had 6,000 miles on it when I bought it for about £25k, monthly finance for 5 year term, so basically £5k a year + interest. It's all about the genetic lottery it seems, yay 🙄
Its just blackpill genetics- you were not born good looking enough. Otherwise you would have had many women by 34. Your best bet is to go to a poorer country, smash all you like, but don't EVER, EVER bring those girls back to your country.
This is a phenomenon I haven't heard anyone bring up so I want to talk about it. Last Halloween I dressed up as a trojan warrior with a mask....I had been working out and was in good shape...there was this girl (about a 7) who came in and she was hanging out with this Chad-light. I made eye contact with her a few times but didn't talk to her because she was with some dude...then I walked by her again, made eye contact, and she stopped me and said "how are you"....we started talking and I took off my mask and she said "oh I like your face"...I thought "that's good", but not really cause a little later she leans over to the Chad-light and says "I think you have some competition for tonight".....long story short -- I got competition anxiety and got out of the interaction. Last week, I was talking to an attractive girl and after 10 minutes she said "I have to go to the bathroom, I'll be right back." So I give her some time to come back but she doesn't come back.....a little later she comes back with her friend and I just ignore her (I considered that a flake and I was done with her at that point). After a while she gets up and leaves and when she comes back she sits right next to me and "accidentally" rubs her legs against mine. I continue to ignore her. She looks at me and smiles. I ignore......then she does something scary -- she goes on her phone and texts a guy to come to the bar. 5 minutes later the guy comes over and kisses her. I get the fuck out of there. It wasn't her boyfriend because they weren't seen together the rest of the night....I think she just "ordered some dick" on her phone when she wasn't getting any attention and was possibly trying to raise competition anxiety. Why are these women doing this nowadays? They're copying high status men who have women compete for their attention. The difference is that no self respecting man is gonna be a dancing monkey and try to win a girl over another guy (possibly ex lover). Things in America are becoming a shit show.
Dang. That's one of the scariest stories I ever read. I see alternate futures: either guy, thinking you initiated something, settling the question in a dark alley. Dude, honestly, love you lots and stay away from the flakes with companions. (Scary!)
@@iamsobeautifulomg if she says: ""I'm a strong, independent woman! Pay for my bills! "... then say: "how can you be independent if you need someone to pay for you?"
@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 how can you expect women to be independent completely? Do you like not understand science or have you never researched the differences between men and women? And you want to date? You're not ready for the real world yet.
It's not a contradiction once you think about it from their (often solipsistic) perspective: They ARE strong and independent. They've managed to acquire the lifestyle they want without being chained to the demands of someone else. They can make demands that you pay their bills. Not because they can't pay for it themselves ( they usually can ), but because they know even if you don't there's someone out there who will. The result is that women can have their cake and eat it too.
It all comes down to the biological fact that men have an abundance of semen, while women have a finite amount of eggs, in addition to what you mentioned about the females investment being much greater than the male. Hence, the females are biologically programmed to be more selective. As you said it includes both genetic quality for the offspring, as well as providing skills for the family. However as of recently many more women can now provide for themselves, making the priority genetics. Excellent video, this might be your best one.
Its more about the sex drive. Remove the sex drive from men and increase it from women and you will get the opposite in the sexual market ;) . While the number of sperm and ovule stay the same
@@clyp3016 Sure, if for some reason you went and collected them and separated them and then seeded them in multiple women's wombs. Unfortunately they only pop 1 or a few at most per month, most go off by age 30ish and women can't get pregnant while already pregnant. They have a practically finite amount of eggs and far less than the 39 million sperm per ejaculate that men have.
So what will happen to the future if this process continues or gets worse which it will? Are we heading for depopulation(not sure if that's the right word)?
you don't know wtf you're talking about because you don't look like me and you have zero experience with attractive women. they aren't like that at all. extremely rare women will only date gigachads. it's actually tougher for gigachads than chads. i should know i am one. being an outlier gives you a lot of attention but also a lot of prejudice.
@@iamsobeautifulomg first of all your pic is like a 4. Second i speak from experience. in my youth i was a 7 and mostly took attention from 3s, 4s, fatties, handicapped girls etc. A few stacylites or high and beckies here and there, but way more rare... .
@@iamsobeautifulomg and yes you are correct that stacies after getting cheated and ghosted by their peer chads, turn towards normies instead..But first in their youth, they go for their natural instinct, and the socially acceptable thing. To date Chads.
@@keylanoslokj1806 in your youth you were a 7 😂 ty for the jokes. What a pathetic number considering you're definitely lying. 7 being your best is pathetic. Go home old man. Yes and that's normal IF you were a 7. What is your point? Y'all dum fr.
Historically what did low value men with no dating options do in order to cope with being sexual losers? I’m sure they didn’t just sit around and cry all day about Chad’s harem… Things are gonna get much darker in the next few decades if something doesn’t change.
They just paid for it; the tabooing of prostitution has had a large effect on the dating market. Something that seems to be ignored. It’s the sole reason incels can even exist. In the past if a man wanted to have sex, and couldn’t get it “for free” they just paid for it. Without any type of guilty conscience, or needing to break a law.
The Normie class is merging with the Sub5 class while Chads are pulling away and living the lives of gods. You see a similar parallel in economics with the disappearing middle class and the rich getting richer.
This is gold. As a man, it was pure joy to absorb a 27 minute long video with nothing but facts on the subject at hand, as well as it all being explained in a most constructive way. Subscribed.
The thing is though, a lot of women (and even men) don't want children nowadays. But I guess the desire to date up is still being driven by the biological need to reproduce even when the woman doesn't want children.
100% get that bitcb on birth control, balance the relationship if you want one that kinda helps discern quality women as a dude and maintain leverage she ain't screwing around for awhile. Sooner or later get a vasectomy and then all you need is condoms and continual self improvement and inventory
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to place a court-issued restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
but it is NOT for ""biology"". alot of men in the past due to the obligation to marriage after having sex with a girl by society and her family, had to go with prostitutes. if you see the data nowadays of young guys going with them, in America they are less than a 11% who had sex with a prostitute at least 1 time in their lifetime, and some of them are also the ones who have a paraphilia, so they are not just the most "desperates". the thing is that the ambient and the culture has changed that sexual dynamic. aside that single example: cultural and social obligations on men who are brainwashed since they are kids to overvalue women and do the "courtship", ARE indeed the real problem. using some fatalist cherrypicked biological-evolutionary theories of millions ago presumed dynamics, is just a way to NORMALIZE more those societal dynamics, making the situation even more worse. instead, you all have to understand that most of these dynamics are CULTURAL, and that us new generations of men, are way more self conscious than our dads, uncles and grandpas, and so on. we have an absolutely powerful weapon as the internet to make information on these dynamics, and to make other peers and young guys exit from those(like with MGTOW), and so, we have the power to regain and gain the power that society gave to women, and leave them without it in the next years and near future. marriage is dying, we will have artificial wombs, metaverses, fear for approaching for false accuses and STDs, humanoids and so on, who will drastically change relationship in a better way, and in a irreversible way, too. what you have NOT to do is: being "red/blackpilled" and going to push for those traditional male behaviors who are literally the reason of more female power of will in relationships; do not being a "traditional man" for that reason first, and for the fact that most women DO NOT have the duties of being traditional anymore since decades. THIS is what you have to do.
Women " we will only marry rich men " then women " there's more rich men tan women, that's unfair, we need positive discrimination " Women now " there's not enough rich men to marry, how did that happen ?".
It's a clear example we don't love in the same way: - They need to feel admiration and respect to love you and it's conditional. - We only need real bonding and it becomes unconditional.* If you are not a Chad.
@@VirideSoryuLangley it shows why nice guys get little success with hookups and tinder. If a woman wants a hookup with no commitment, she is gonna only gonna consider an attractive guy. Considering the worst case scenario, at least with the attractive guy the kid will carry good genes. With an average guy she gets no commitment and no good genes. For long-term dating commitment 100% matters. Why would a woman want to carry a child and spend 18 years raising it for someone who isn't going to help? Only 0.01% giga chads can get women to commit to them without committing back.
@@dinobot7025 Here's a secret for you: women get married to nice guys, and then cheat on them with Chad. They get pregnant with Chad's kids and force the nice guy to raise them.
Don't get married or take women seriously. If you put a career together in the hopes of providing for a family, your future wife-to-be is getting ran thru in the mean time. You will be seen as just a bail out. She's not attracted to you (she's had better in her prime), she doesn't respect you, and she's settling for you. On top of that, she's gonna be post-wall and probably less good looking than you are. It's a joke. Marriage is over
It’s all pointless at the end of the day, building a career just for the results to end the same, which is her leaving, relationships and marriage fails 98% of time, I’m convinced all this “self improvement” “improving you’re life” is solely to attract/get women, because they’ll never stick around, they all eventually leave that’s the reality, and if not like you mentioned, they’ll already have been ran through and had their fun hence settling for “you”, so if you ask me, every man should except this and do it for themselves instead.
It's ironic that women are so picky that they actually destroy their own fertility waiting for Mr Perfect. It's like seeing an animal at the zoo trying to mate with a 2D image of the animal on a TV screen. Funny but also sad.
I don't really see any down side for women anymore. They can get quite all what they want without consequences. They can be single mothers, 40 and still find a good partner. they can choose a hookup life till 38 and still find a guy to build a family with. The only girls who lose are the 3/10 and less who couldn't secure a man or have a child. but more often than not, I see them with children as single mothers, then they hookup every now and then with low quality men. only men have the difficult task now. if you are not attractive enough in your early 20s, don't expect any change in your life to make dating "happier" for you. You can choose to settle for a low quality women from your late 20s and live with it. or be the guy with potential chosen by an average girl to be her provider for a while, before she gets bored. or build your career to be the guy that comes last, after she's been ran through, and still not be respected enough compared to THAT EX. Either you are from those who have had success from the early beginnings, or you can just cope with any enhancement you can bring to your life. I've never heard of anyone who flipped his romantic life upside down because of "more money", "gym", "whitening his teeth" or "playing an instrument"... if you were having 1 girl a year, it's gonna be maybe 3, but don't expect to be dan Bilzerian after 35 because you built your career. I don't even believe in ALL content creators selling hopes of becoming attractive to 23yo girls when they're 45. unless they are gold diggers of course, in this case anybody at any age can go to professionals, what's the difference! wife material girls don't do that! not that gap!
@@willf.8617 there is no downside for women in feminist societies, initially. But over time, the population starts to rapidly shrink due to below-replacement fertility levels. Then women start to suffer as the economy contracts and there aren't enough people to care for them in their old age. Eventually the feminist society's population dwindles so low that they are easily replaced by patriarchal tribes.
@@SpykerSpeed but you are talking about the long run. People, including myself, are selfish. we can't sort out an issue by waiting for the others to fail and then throw them a "HA HA!". it's a lose lose situation. but unfortunately I know that nothing can be done. Attraction is not a subject to advice. You can't tell anyone what they should prefer, especially for women (100% fail guaranteed) they'll agree with you when it's time to discuss why they are choosing badly, but once they're in the context of attraction, emotions will again prevail, they can't afford to do better. We'll (I'm at least) try to adapt as much as possible without losing our standards just to get laid. I grew up with a big dose of self-respect, and I can't afford feeling disrespected even a tiny bit, just to be with someone (such as feeling that i'm being seen as a lifeline for someone)
My whole life I've been wondering why women didn't like me I didn't do anything wrong, am I crused to not receive love and affection? Now I know why Blackpill is the answer to all these questions it's not my fault and it's not women's fault either it is what it is even a slight hope of finding someone who likes me also is a big mistake that I wouldn't do.
Focus on yourself bro if you spend too much time focusing on being lonely and wanting love and affection you’ll go insane, it’s nothing but a vicious cycle. If you put your mind to things you like it will come eventually.
This is 100% facts. It may be a tough pill to swallow but it’s better to know the truth than live in a lie. This is why I prefer to casually date multiple women instead of choosing to pursue a monogamous relationship. No risk of her “dating up” when you’re not taking her serious in the first place.
Pre-selection benefits and both sexual and relationship experience are a key aspect of attraction for older people in the dating market. Statistically, it's why older women prefer divorced men over never married men if they choose to date (divorced men start outnumbering the never married men from the late 30s). And it's also why we see anecdotal statements of men who say that they get more attention from women when they have a partner compared to when they don't. Lacking experience is something that is a major negative point against you. The problem is for middle aged and older men who lack experience is that it isn't something you can learn at University, you can't make up for it at a gym and it isn't something you can fake.
@@RK-bj8ho The problem with lying is that you will eventually be found out. Your actions, rhetoric and lack of experience will out you. Having to constantly pretend to be something else is emotionally and physically draining.
@@tgheretford it’s only till you get your foot in. Think of it as a resume in an interview. Of course it goes into the trash if you mention 0 job experience
@@harsh3948 The difference being is that you can attain skills through learning at a higher educational establishment. There is no legal alternative for dating and relationships, its a societal expectation that everyone who is middle aged will have experience or it is perceived there is something very wrong with them and will be seen as a grave red flag. But lacking experience when you are a middle aged or older male is a vicious circle - you lack experience which shows so you can't attain a relationship but you need to attain a relationship to attain experience but you lack experience... and so the cycle continues. At least in the job market there is the prospect of getting your foot in the door even if it is at the bottom of the career ladder. There isn't when it comes to relationships. It's akin to the sixty five year old who has lost their job in a dead industry and now has to start afresh in a new industry because they can't afford to take retirement. But at least they've got the chance to find employment as a greeter at a supermarket. And this probably explains the statistic that a man who is unmarried in his forties will statistically never get married. It is becoming apparent for relationships too.
Have you ever experience when you text a girl, you even go on a first date with her and than the girl feels the immediate need to tell you this is a bad moment for her, lot of problems, and that she is not searching for anything ecc? After one or two month you see her new profile photo with her boy-friend and no, he is not you I’ve experienced this situation pretty often Stay strong guys
Of course paternity tests should be mandatory, but in this gynocentric world we live in, it will never happen. Not only that, there are countries that paternity tests are *illegal* (like France, soon Germany too). Their 'reasoning': "French psychologists suggest that fatherhood is determined by society not by biology".. The utter victory of women's strategy: 'If you can't secure the alpha's commitment, mate with him and have the beta-provider take care of you and the child'
i m from france. If you deny the child as yours, paternity test will be required by the court itself . Don't ever forget the paternity test before signing child birth act .you don't wanna raise another man's child
If it were the other way around, women would be screeching from the rooftops that we need maternity tests " for equality" and would never stop kvetching how men have guaranteed paternity and women don't
@@soundsokok So you have to openly oppose your woman.. in court.. and if you're mistaken, you'd have broken the trust between you. However, if you have a suspicion, you cannot have the dna test done privately because 'If those samples were found in the post by officials on their way to foreign laboratories, the French men who sent them could theoretically face a year in prison and a 15,000 Euro fine', as I read. So this is rigged against French men; you'd have to be almost certain that she cheated, and go berserk/court mode (and still you might be wrong), in any other case you lose..
@@leftjedi The trust has never been there in the first place . It's just that it might be the first time it " went public " . You can't 100% trust a female dude . Hypergamy is in its blood .
Tbh men having no social repercussion from dating down it's a new thing. Until some years ago those guys received the tittle of Saint George, slayer of dragons.
I'm 5'11 and most ladies say I'm too short. I make slightly double the national average income and most ladies ask me if I collect food stamps and live in section 8 housing with such a low income. I eat healthy so have a good body type yet not good enough to land any dates and it's been the same all my life. Ladies though can be 30 while working a retail job and living with parents, have $200k in student debt and look like free Willy, yet she will not accept anything less than a top 10% man. Sad but yet it's the normal today.
DAMN! The 5'11 being short is brutal. I myself am 6'2.5 and sometimes I have to stand with military posture at a club not to feel short! (5'9 chick's with 4 inch heels) 5'11 is actually the start of tall. It's all pretty gross and disgusting. The worst is when they actually claim they are at a disadvantage. Trying to squeeze every last bit of perks they can possibly get.
@@wismelmartinez2045 yeah, height matters less than facial attractivness. You are 5'8 in Spain. That's actually average height or even slightly above I would say. Your only as good as your competition. Great quote. I actually find Spanish girls (which are pretty) are a bit more lenient on looks. Also if you are upper tier in looks it is expected that you would be good to go. In America, USA, a lot of guys are struggling. A 5'8 guy who is an 8 would still fair well but a 5'8 that is average looks and socially inept will be stomped. Everyone's experience is different though. Many average men HAVE indeed faired well with women, however, the majority are struggling.
@FuckOuttaHere yea definitely lie and say 6ft. When girls hear 5'11 they hear 5ft. 5ft anything is a death sentence 🤣 . Jk. Have they said your too short Live? In person?
Two comments: 1) One area WW has not covered (probably because of the focus on < 40 singles), is what percentage of single, available men and women actually WANT to date. A 2020 Pew Research Study found that 71% of U.S. single available women over 40 were NOT looking to date, while only 42% of U.S. single available men over 40 were NOT looking to date. An AARP study from about 10 years earlier found the same level of discrepancies. 2) I have a personal female friend (and this situation is becoming more common) who decided to have children without a man, but is NOT on state assistance - she makes a good income as an attorney. So there are more than a few women who decide to have children on their own who are self-sufficient. Comment #1 actually adds to WW's arguments, in my view.
Feels about right. Given the steepness of the pyramid of financial success for anyone. Would think that anyone able to raise a child on a single income with no state or partner help would be a minimum. Having said that partners do come with hidden liability, I could see this as an ideal that many women would aim for. With a friends with benefits type side deal.
It is something I have seen anecdotally. Older women will generally remove themselves from the dating pool and either have a child through a surrogate and IVF without a man, adopt a pet or even seek a same-sex partner. They will all happily embrace celibacy. If she does find someone, the man needs to exceed previous expectations and standards set by ex's. And you're competing with only the positive aspects of those ex's too. Older men generally still look for a partner, still have their libido and will lower their standards to rock bottom as long as they get action in the bedroom from a woman.
Another point WW missed is independent women are also increasingly opting for surrogacy from quality sperm donors and this is a point which is actually far more important as women can choose the quality sperms and raise a baby on their own because of their increasing power of finance (as a lot of women have started earning more than men) and feminist movement and they can also avoid sex which again will be a bad thing for men.
Also There is also increase of LGBTQ women which again takes a negative effect of single men, so many things going against Sub Five single men that it is very unfortunate.
Another very important consideration for why women are much more selective than men when choosing a mate might be that maternal mortality was much more of a risk in centuries past. Ascertaining the actual risk, however, seems problematic. For example, for medieval Europe calculations range from 5% to 50%. In any case, on top of being unable to bare offspring again for a maximum period of 9 months after becoming pregnant, women also risked death. I suspect that any selection strategy that paired a woman with the type of man that helped to minimize her chances of dying during pregnancy or childbirth was naturally selected and passed down. Stillbirths were also much more common in our distant history, and a woman who chose badly therefore had a greater chance of wasting her precious and finite months of fertility delivering dead babies.
Yeah. It's interesting to think about how the narrow birth canal, relative to our large human heads, may have actually evolutionarily perpetuated and increased the female hypergamy instinct. "In hominids, upright walking evolved 4-5 million years ago. The human pelvis was affected by these changes and evolved accordingly to better serve the new pattern of movement. Later, after bipedal movement had long become obligatory, brains evolved to increasingly larger volumes. With that change, the head size of neonates also increased. The growing heads, however, had to be delivered through pelvises that were earlier adapted to upright walking. This is the reason for the lack of space in the modern human birth canal during childbirth, which we have to live with today." So that means female maternal deaths probably started to skyrocket around 4 million years ago. I can only imagine how that shaped the female psyche and encouraged women to be more selective.
@@redpillsatori3020 that makes sense but how does it take into account the "hyper"-hypergamy were seeing today due to social media. Why would women select for men who are even more abnormally large? Many women today are seeking men a whole foot taller. Wouldn't that be detrimental to their own survival? And shouldn't survival instinctively take precedence over procreation. Wouldn't too much sexual dimorphism be detrimental to women in that case? I'm simply asking because I don't actually know and maybe you can explain it. Cheers.
@@loverofhumanity cause it is NOT for ""biology"". alot of men in the past due to the obligation to marriage after having sex with a girl by society and her family, had to go with prostitutes. if you see the data nowadays of young guys going with them, in America they are less than a 11% who had sex with a prostitute at least 1 time in their lifetime, and some of them are also the ones who have a paraphilia, so they are not just the most "desperates". the thing is that the ambient and the culture has changed that sexual dynamic. aside that single example: cultural and social obligations on men who are brainwashed since they are kids to overvalue women and do the "courtship", ARE indeed the real problem. using some fatalist cherrypicked biological-evolutionary theories of millions ago presumed dynamics, is just a way to NORMALIZE more those societal dynamics, making the situation even more worse. instead, you all have to understand that most of these dynamics are CULTURAL, and that us new generations of men, are way more self conscious than our dads, uncles and grandpas, and so on. we have an absolutely powerful weapon as the internet to make information on these dynamics, and to make other peers and young guys exit from those(like with MGTOW), and so, we have the power to regain and gain the power that society gave to women, and leave them without it in the next years and near future. marriage is dying, we will have artificial wombs, metaverses, fear for approaching for false accuses and STDs, humanoids and so on, who will drastically change relationship in a better way, and in a irreversible way, too. what you have NOT to do is: being "red/blackpilled" and going to push for those traditional male behaviors who are literally the reason of more female power of will in relationships; do not being a "traditional man" for that reason first, and for the fact that most women DO NOT have the duties of being traditional anymore since decades. THIS is what you have to do.
@Michael David I know that, but there are absolutely big changes and differences between men of few generations ago and nowadays young guys, due to culture and behavioral biology who is modified by psychology. also, alot of evolutionary biology is just theory, with some truths, that is not objective too, and there are not prove that those theories explain at a objectively 100% way those behaviors and dynamic. at the contrary, societal conditions, pressures, gender roles, have been demostrated in anthropology like a main cause of it. look at the Victorian Era where due to the second industrial revolution alot of women lost their work, the government had to change the societal engine making those women being overvalued like spouses, with men being brainwashed like always to make the courtship and "earn" their woman and the potential family, and if they just wanted to have occasional encounter, the families of the women would have accused them of carnal violence and rape(this concept of "rape" exists since the Roman Era for the same reason, exploiting men for their resources), obligating the man to marry the woman, and the woman would "marry up" to the man and be mantained for life. the only alternative to that? prostitutes. so they were OBLIGATED to do it, it was not "nature" or ""biology"" in the sense you're speaking about. here in Italy a similar dynamic was alive until the 60'/70'. and in America if you see the data on young men going with prostitutes, they are less than a 10-15% on the total who had sex with those at least one time in their life. until the 50'-60' in the US average men did it like 5x/6x times more. this is a very rapid social anc cultural change from less than a century who changed the psyches and behaviors of boys and men, and it will continue like that, also with androids, artificial wombs, metaverses, more social isolation due to feminism and sick ideologies who make men fear of false allegations and of women in general(and the contrary), more hikkikomoris and so on. and those are all technological innovations.
This is a sad time for many young hard working men trying to reproduce that perhaps weren’t fortunate enough to be among the top 20%. Unless they Simp out to an over 40 yr old woman with more miles than JLo. However this is all very true.
Whole video can be summarized as: If you're a man and you don't either have great looks or a lot of money, peace out! Also, this video doesn't hit upon a more recent trend. For most of human history, women have dated and married slightly up. 5 woman/6 man. 7 woman/8 man etc. It's gotten out of control to the point now that a "5/6" women thinks they not only deserve but DEMAND a man that is 8 through 10. The amount of action that men in the 5-7 range get now has decreased precipitously over the last decade and have basically been shut out of the dating market. At the same time... with overweight/obesity rates greatly increasing, the amount of women moved to the 1-4 range has skyrocketed. There is a virtual "Wasteland" now for average/healthy people to date one another.
according to his videos i am in that wasteland but im quite happy with my partner and have very little confidence issues. im either an exception or just not frustrated enough to let tendencies decide my life.
This channel is a goldmine. Wow. Thank God I found this channel. I really really appreciate you. From this one video alone I learned alot. Thank you so much.
My sister is pretty and desired by many, but she still thinks I have it easy and refuses to believe when I tell her these things are out of my control.
It all makes perfect sense. Very thorough and easy to digest. Only left out one thing; that even when you're the 10/10 guy in all areas, you will still have women who will be dissatisfied. What was once evolutionary advantages has become toxic and detrimental.
Another well thought out video. No playing around. Always provides studies to back conclusions. A lot of men are left behind wondering why they aren't good enough for a relationship. You only have so much time. Knowing the truth can provide a better acceptance as to why things are the way they are.
@@brandonwilliams4551 literally, a man can spend years and years trying to find true success in a relationship. Eventually, one will get old and the basic kind of relationship (usually 18-50ish) can evolve into something much different, then eventually after that all time may be lost for an indivisual. It happens to hundreds if not thousands of men everyday.
it’s a crazy world the dating game is, the way i move is now i don’t look for women i don’t go out my way. i don’t even look to date i just work & do my hobbies. why try and please people who not checking for you? 🏄🏽♂️
With regards career, when I hear of women with high aspirations for climbing the corporate ladder I generally view that as a big warning sign. They usually are very entitled, aggressive and are usually less playful.
Women aren't attracted to men who make less money than they do. So by focusing on "career", they are actually destroying their own chances of ever finding a guy they are attracted to.
@@Ligerpride Since I'm a woman whose primary goal in life is to climb in the social hierarchy (through studies and career), I must admit I don't understand your point of you. I've never had a man tell me that wanting a high position and a big paycheck is bad. Aren't you a little bit (just a little bit) insecure?
There’s another element to why physical attraction is important. 99% of the universe is beautiful, wether it be alive or inanimate. Beauty seems to be a fundamental and intrinsic quality of nature. No wonder our instincts want to maximise that. Sounds like hippy talk, but the correlation is clear.
oh yeah this is what causes second trimester abortions. a woman is ready to be a mother and then a chad looks at her so she snuffs out the lesser man's seed. i think youre probably already living the sexless life of misery you deserve. maybe work on not deserving it so much
@@Lil_Slimetx why is it so hard to believe that a chad could be interested in the truth concerning sexual dynamics? a chad would benefit from the red pill yes, but he'd know he could always fall back on the good ol blackpill for comfort.
@@Hecticgunbunny Chad and blackpill are two things that don't match. It's not even about sexual dynamics or anything like that. A Chad can never be blackpilled, maybe a few but it's rare. For the rare few that know the blackpill only know it for the purpose of shitting on it. Most Chad's I know have happened to be in the middle of both red and bluepill. These are the same people that will offer quick fixes to everything, cannot get a girl? Just be confident bro!,looks don't matter bro! It's not about the size, it's about the motion in the ocean bro! And many others.
In France a woman with a child get 1750€ a month without doing anything. She'll get extras on september when the kid will go to school. The minimum gain with a full job is 1545€.
If this happens tomorrow in the whole EU there will be no reason for us to work for higher salary - even at non-expert position a good part of your taxes will go for these women. Probably most of them are from some minority - drug addicts, with criminal history, different race (no racism here, just a fact), etc ... Usually as a tax-payer this means you'll get a financial headshot in a short run (each year from your sad life till retirement), hence another proven fact that the modern social system is broken
Loyalty, trustworthiness, the ability to provide, one could speculate these traits to be crucial for a male configured to deal with and be attractive during rough times. War, famine, pestilence.. that's when this kind of man historically might have been in high demand. Along the same lines, there could however also be what's essentially a fair weather male configuration. The archetypal Casanova is not necessarily loyal, trustworthy nor a provider. The uncanny ability of the Casanova to philander and spread his genes around to many a woman may however be distinct advantage to his woman when the same trait is inherited by her sons. When times are good and most children survive even without the help of the father, the advantage provided by the Casanova might be in higher demand and what women tend to prefer. And in developed nations at least, our modern time is in a historical context basically fair weather which never ends.
The problem is that modern women want to have a cake and eat it too. They want all the benefits of being with a traditional man while rejecting all the accountability and responsibility that come along with being with a traditional man. If you, women, expect a man to bring you money and resources to you, why are you crying about making him some sandiwich? Hypocrite much? Double standard much?
If we think about evolution as a species and our instincts optimized at improving the species from our self, it all makes sense. When I say genetics, I dont just mean looks or health. This includes positive traits such as confidence, intelligence, social competence, or any other positive trait that can be taught by the father. Every man's goal is to spread and further their genetics as far as possible, regardless of their viability, and regardless of the quality of woman. Id say this applies unless the woman is a LARGE margin more unattractive than the man as that would be noticeable genetic average drop between the average man to woman. For women, this is much more complicated and important. Women are the great genetic filter. They decide who's genetics lives and who's dies. Their entire imperative is about genetic improvement. It makes sense why women wouldn't choose to date down or even equal in genetics and want to date up. Even if by a small margin, the goal is to increase their genetic average with whoever they choose. It makes sense why a guy thats a 10 can have many women and they will accept sharing that man as any emotional sacrifice will be instincually worth it. Globalization has ruined the "dating game" but its perfecting genetic optimization, letting lower genetic women meet higher genetic men. The only limitation to this benefit on the genetic pool is contraceptives as that reduces the genetic benefit of globalization. On paper, this works perfectly for genetic optimization as more women have more access to higher quality men, leaving little to no room for the lower and average quality men. This means that over time, the lower echelons get genetically filtered out and standards get raised. In 100s of years, our 8s and 9s could be considered average if not worse. It sucks for most guys' genetic imperative but its really interesting from an evolutionary perspective. Basically, we each individually need to become the perfect man and hope the majority does not decide to do the same. If every man were to raise their quality, standards would just increase to where the hard to change looks would have even more impact on choice, is it has. But for those reading, its not all looks. More men than ever are feminine and lack the positive quality traits I mentioned that go into that instinctual choice. Get your looks up, get social competence, confidence, intelligence, and of course wealth and you will see a drastic change in your quality of life, both with women and your view of life.
Resume: If you are poor you offer NOTHING. And you get NOTHING. At the end it's not what happened to me in my 20's: I had the shape to have multiple relationships but it didn't lasted because I hadn't enough money. Now I'm on my 40's and my exes are being summoned by some reason: All that some wmn can offer, after their 30's, is their last chance to being a leech. Because her beauty is fading. Not to mention her emotional baggage.
That depends on the man and the woman MR. If a handsome man offers that to an average woman. Do you think it will be worth nothing? If you do you are more stupid than most people already think you are.
I actually disagree with you that femininity represents "submissive and admiration". In modern Western nations, femininity currently represents entitlement, assertiveness, and dominance. Women are trained from a young age to have masculine personality traits.
This is why I will never mock men who pay for sex, kind the contrary. You will save mental sanity and depending on your looks you will also save money. Plus you get acess girls out of your league. If you're going into the casual dating market route, you're not much safer from STDs(not that you should do things unprotected with strangers anyway) and you will also face a higher risk of a false rape accusations. So I recommend that you pay for sex until you find a girlfriend, specially if you're virgin. Once you made sex you can talk with women more naturally.
As a woman, I'm absolutely against s** work. It should be prohibited. I'm not doing it to stop men from getting laid, but only because I'm afraid my daughter (if I ever have one in the future) will consider this a career option at all. This is the dirtiest, filthiest, most degrading job on earth.
@@vhhj5517 I never said we are on the SAME side lol Just pointed something most of you females need to comprehend better and ain't nobody got time to explain that for ya. First, because you're adult enough to think by yourselves and secondly, we as a men are not here to fill some white spots in your common sense education
13:30 Hypergamy may be somewhat innate, but much of it is learned. As you said, men would do the same thing if they had the same option. Ergo, it is not really some kind of mystical innate aspect of the masculine vs feminine. Instead, it is simply about options. Another point.... Hypergamy has changed. In the past, women really needed a man for financial support. For that reason, hypergamy had a large financial aspect and women were far more prone to withhold sex for marriage. Looks were also less important. But look at today's dating market. Women are chasing Chad far more than before. Money is still a pre-requisite, but it is not nearly enough (as it was in the past). Now a man must be way above average in looks as well. If a man is not a Chad, his only real shot at having success with women is fame. Women are now sleeping with Chad and raising their children instead of pairing off and forming families. So while women certainly do expect a man to have a higher income, they are more than willing to have casual sex with most any Chad, regardless of income. We are returning to a form of polygamy. But instead of one man having 10 wives, we have 10,000 men sharing 100,000 women. In both cases, 90% of men are living in a world with few or no options.
Absolute CRAP. Most babies are born to AVERAGE PEOPLE. Not average women and chads. Get a CLUE. All this nonsense is to pray on insecure men. To sell them dating courses and other B.S The only time men struggle is when they are LAZY (OVERWEIGHT) Very short (SUB 5 5") And ugly (A sub 4 in the face) And most men are none of those three. The problem with men is they want better than them. And thats why they struggle. They will be a 4 and want a 7 plus. NOT HAPPENING. Unless she's a goldigger and you are loaded. If you are a 5 as a man you go for a 4 or 5 woman. And that is THAT. IF you are a 7 you go for a 5 to 7 woman. You never go for above your looks match. Thats when you are going to FAIL. In the longterm.
@@jamesmohab they do it if the guy has money. There are lots of rich losers without social skills. They won’t do it without an incentive in it for them
@@marcusmcgraw3519 im not talking about "rich losers with no social skills" im talking baout guys who arent that good looking but are confident/funny/have good personalities/etc, you know, regular guys (leave it to incels to think the whole world of men is divided into chads and jobmaxxing gamer nerds)
@@jamesmohab right, well typically the man is bringing something tangible to the situation. We have no idea if he’s getting used or not Here’s a good way of life to live by. Girls are stupid and see guys as “providers”. If you’re a guy, you should be looking to provide FIXED resources rather than VARIABLE resources. Fixed resources include stuff where you have already paid, for your own personal use. This includes stuff house, car, tv. Girls will try to exploit every VARIABLE resource that you have (money, gas, food). Don’t let them do this unless she offers you something worthwhile If you want girls to see you as a man worthy of respect, direct them towards using your fixed resources and let them know that you won’t let them use your variable resources unless there’s something in it for you. They have to be put in their place and they have to be kept there
Many questions: - What if a woman doesn’t want to have children? They are there. Some 5-10% - Don’t ugly people also reproduce? I see many unattractive couples with children (yet beautiful as human beings). - Statistically it’s impossible if all woman date up. Unless they are cheated on all the time. - What will the most beautiful women do? If the Chads are already taken? Wouldn’t the Chad like the most beautiful one if he had the choice? Which he has. - Best fertility years are 18-28. But I know quite a few women who had a baby at 35-40, including myself. - If more people stay single wouldn’t it be a blessing considering overpopulation and climate problems? Although loneliness sucks. Apart from these questions, interesting video and I can relate to a lot of things including my own experience.
Overpopulation is a myth, the world's current birth rates are below 2.1 per parents which is the replacement rate. Population will continue to increase as healthcare and technology gets better and the older population will outweigh the younger one. Then there will be a population collapse. This ties into your first point. According to Birth Gap documentary on youtube, average family size hasn't changed... granted they have at least 1 kid. Childlessness is on the rise. And there are many cases of no kids because the woman waits too long. Of course you can have kids at >30y/o, but the likelihood of conception drops dramatically after that age.
Well considering more and more people think polygamy is ok and single motherhood rates are very high relative to before, its totally possible that all but the most attractive of women could theoretically date up
Many many women's genes are going to go extinct this century it's a good thing but unfortunately us men gotta suffer with them for their extreme hypergamy
Yeah, I just had a baby at 38 and now we are about to have another and I am 39. I got pregnant this time while breastfeeding and not even trying for a baby. It was a bit soon because my daughter is not even 1 and a half yet , but she will be when her brother is born. It's crazy how time goes by. I also had two with my ex husband at age 20 and 22. I didn't notice much of any difference in my energy levels or fertility. It was always super easy for me to get pregnant. Although I constantly read it's hard to get pregnant at my age, that has not been my experience at all.
That's the idea, that women are all dating about and talking about the same guys. The normie guys getting married are getting married, only when the woman turns 30, panicking about her age. Meaning, "you're only good enough for my older self". Guys are attracted to youth (18-26), a fertility indicator.
I do agree on masculine traits beeing more dominant, powerful and protective, but i don‘t think that the only feminine trait is to be submissive. For me true feminine traits are to be loving and caring. That‘s why men and women complement each other so good.
I absolutely agree !!! I am Chinese ! In my entire childhood , teen . Teachers n schools teach us women to be feminine but not submissive, to be educated n self sustain ! Back home since d 5000 thick Asian culture , men usually blue pill to d very extreme in Shanghai area . At least I have 1 uncle and 2 aunts house hold the women r calling d shots ( but they r so kind n d guys actually respect them n enjoying cooperative). Women should never be submissive! If a man is looking for submissive it shows : 1 he is either childhood major neglect 😮n trauma . He doesn’t know how to emotionally connect ! 2 he is looking for d IMAGE of submissive to validate his above ⬆️ her type of image so he can feel good about himself. Men look who want submissive women will never be fully happy .
@@Jordanthecool7 Thanks. yeah.. MOST men Want Intelligent/accommodating/kind and workable Partner. When a man who mistake femininity as submissive, its Major red flag. They either watch too much P@rn, n havent dated much, So their Brain Spikes the High with Imaginary Charactor, or they have bad childhood(parents divorce or Dad/mom only worked , neglected on them) that they are looking for that Control-----its cooping mechanism for Safety internally. subquecially they will find someone Submissive but with OTHER BAD traits which will lead to inevitable disconnect and toxic relationship.
Props to the guys who cold approach and unphased by rejection.. i see pretty girls everywhere and i never approach.. but watching black pill vids tells me that it's not worth it.. the only women that actually hmu are single moms, married women in 40s, or overweight women lol
Women are approaching you that’s a good sign can’t go wrong with making small talk and taking the interaction from their with women you find attractive
Absolutely sensational. I know I'm a bit late, and I know this may sound cliché or even over-the-top. But now that I've seen several of this dude's videos, I think he might have saved my life. At least my time.
I'm south Asian although a westernised national, so I don't have the embarrassing accent or cultural traits etc. And I'm 6"2. BUT I've been bald since I was about 31/32, now I'm almost 39 years old. Here's what's interesting though, I've tested around 7 photos on photofeeler and I've got scores between 6.4 - 8.8. So clearly from that maybe I'm not so bad and this is purely my face (height is not included in the test). Despite all that though, the reality is that I've been single now for 7 years and still have never had full intercourse despite having had a few relationships when I was younger. My last relationship which was only a few months I had to endure psychological abuse and in the previous one, significant gaslighting. I am worried whether a relationship will ever be a reality. I've been on dating apps and websites for many years, try and go out to socials and singles events and do still manage to get dates here and there but it's so difficult it seems to find that attraction and connection. Every time it seems the women that express interest in me, I'm not keen on and vice versa, all the girls I like aren't into me. The only time I find myself with a girlfriend is in my dreams, literally. For a moment overnight I would occasionally experience that feeling of being connected to a woman in that way, only to wake up and realise what is a reality for millions of everyday people is still only a mere fantasy for me.
Clearly feel you mate. I'm East Asian and I would say it is a major disadvantage in the West. Interesting thing is that only the odd East Asian chick will match with me like on dating apps and I have absolutely nothing in common because I am fully Westernized. I get rated as a 5 on photofeeler though. Yeah but this is why I stopped considering women and relationships in actions so far. Of course I'm not bitter or negative here. Just being realistic.
@@agoogleuseranonymous2658 Sorry to hear, yes it's very difficult for Asians and as much as I wish I could give up, your urges will make you want to keep trying because you want to believe that one day it might just happen. But as I've got older, the situation becomes more illusive. How old are you??
@@Mike.Cebert I'm 31 but I see this again an again IRL. I think dating apps are shit because it's all looks based. But even IRL I see white attractive women mostly with white dudes. Like he doesn't have to be a Chad or anything. I even spotted sometimes dudes who were balled and ok looking. But they were white and of decent height. I think it's a huge disadvantage.
@@agoogleuseranonymous2658 exactly my point, thank you. I just find it comical how you can't voice these remarks in public because it may appear racist and everyone is so obsessed with virtue signalling. The truth is people generally prefer their own race when it comes to dating. Nothing wrong with it, just how it is. But even then white men are still the most in demand over other men.
A brutally honest and insightful video. That said, humans are complex, and just when you think you've understood them, including women :), they surprise you. One thing for sure, as a single man, if I believe that my happiness is only found in the love of a great woman I'll be spending far too many years of my life feeling incomplete.
Agreed. Thankfully, men can occupy themselves with so many fulfilling things in this world. There will always be the void of attaining a mate but there will always be hope which helps. Knowing the truth and educating ones self on why women are the way they are can help. Rising above the constructs and box of being a simple minded show human is fulfilling. It takes wanting to know the truth and seeking truths. This is honorable. Wanting to care for others. Having empathy. Maximizing ones self is always a project to tackle as well. Maybe you can get lucky, but if you don't, we'll you knew it wasn't your fault.
I see my son and his circle of friends from college. They all come from good families, none are ugly, are athletic not nerdy and all are goal oriented majoring in engineering, science or computer tech. The few that have girlfriends are either overweight or are no higher than a 6 out of 10.
My little brother (9) just asked what I was watching and then read the title. I told him I will clue you in when the time comes. Hopefully he will avoid the mistakes I made in dating 🧠
WW is usually spot on....Notice the only guys who often disagree with him are dating coaches who're trying to sell you something.Dating Coach Alex & Marni are correct that some of their advice & tips can improve a guy's chances of getting laid. But it doesn't change the fact that the whole game is completely rigged against men. I often wonder if Alex realizes just how much the dating/marriage game is rigged against men.I think he has to be at least purple pill, I was purple pill for many many years. Knowing something was really screwed up within the modern dating/marriage system but still in denial of how bad things really were. The dating/mating game for humans is still very similar to other mammals.....Guy who's fit, strong, with status & smart= attractive. Same guy gets sick/injured, loses status = no longer attractive. Us men can't complain too much unless dealt a really bad hand at birth. Women control the dating sex game but often weren't given the same physical attributes as men at birth. Men, the majority of the time are physically stronger & more capable of doing things like hunting, building shelter, innovation,etc...Many women instead, have to rely on their sex appeal to attract a provider man. To for them what they can't do themselves.
wtf are you talking about? WW sells coaching sessions for enormous amounts of money, he is the real scam maxxer here. He is also not blackpilled as this video right here shows, he is redpill delsuional
i disagree with him and im not a dating coach, just a regular guy who's had a few girlfriends and doesnt think women are animals (there are a lot of us)
The best way to live life overall is 1/ to be a man And 2/ the more you are tall, intelligent, handsome, strong, rich, popular, etc... The better you life become Man I see my life as a video game, the more I collect all of thoses attributes, the more I can access to new zones, unlock items, etc...
A lot of guys have a thing for blondes myself included. On pornhub, blondes is an entire category in its own right! With that being said, blonde hair does not really work on dark skin.
@@addorsubtract650 Ik tahts why I was thinking of dying my hair blonde lmao but I’ll keep that for when I get old. is it light dirty blind or blonde? They look completely different with blonde looking gold rather than brownish striped hair
It's sad but it's natural that the 6+ will get a ONS with CHAD. The bigger problem is that the 5- are getting simped on, so they end with a unrealistic image of theyselfs.
The 10s won't give them the time of day. They start hitting on the 9. The 9s won't give them the time of day. They start hitting on the 8. The 8 won't give them the time of day... So on and so forth. It's way less inflated for men, but we also try to punch above our weight. The core difference is that men are ok settling below their weight.
Do you think making a dating apps, with no algorythm and video greetings, and video calls instead of text would change dating apps for the better? Right now the biggest issue is, that women cannot really see how you are as a person. That is especially important when you are average dude
Fellas At this point it doesn’t even matter if women date up or not, 95% of relationships fail and a high percentage end in divorce ANYWAYS, relationships and marriage is officially over, that’s why I never understood this whole idea of “improving” your entire life for the sake of women, for what? broke or rich, you can’t stop what’s Destined to happen, and that’s her leaving you, guys should ONLY improve for themselves and to get laid or potentially have kids with a decent woman if you “want them” which i don’t want, or marriage, it’s a scam. At the end of the day improving your life will still end in the same result regards to these modern women, it might make your life easier and smoother but it will be the same in the end, so you might as well do it for yourself.
Point 5) If the man's overseas job opportunity results in him making a lot more money, why would the woman leave him? They have already been together for 10 years, and things have just started to improve. Let's instead of $75k a year he's now making $150k a year, that's a massive upgrade in available resources for the household.
Great content as always. If you are in a relationship pay particular attention to how your girlfriend/wife introduces you... 1) this is ____ , he's a doctor / lawyer / CEO - she is with you for your status. Do not lose your job or she will leave you. 2) this is my handsome husband _____ isn't he gorgeous? She is with you as your looks are above hers. Do not lose your looks or she will leave you. 3) this is my wonderful husband _____ , he's so kind to me! He is actually taking the kids and I to Disney land next month. She's with you for money and resources. That's my 2 cents - work out her most important part of why she's with you and keep it. If you know you're going to lose it, expect her to go.
I used to be infatuated with 3 women in my workplace. Then they started dating Chad's and I ended up ignoring them 3 completely. Hence why I chose the redpill in 2016 and never looked back.
it's been explained women have lower body mass than men, fewere cells mean fewer chance of getting cancer. their xx chromosome gives them superior immune systems, in the past women didnt smoke or dink as much as men, women eat fewer protein than men, women in the past were exposed to less environmental hazards than men , so hence why their life expectancy is typically higher than men. now why their fertility is shorter window is because of their eggs. they stop ovulating after a certain point.
You cannot change the mindset of women, even when they are over 40 and had their kids (cannot have any more kids) Divorced, They still want a man with all of the Sixes, even though they do not need to biologically need the requirement anymore for reproduction
We gotta wake up the simps, stop shelling out money to these girls for nothing, stop promoting them stop watching them. If you know a simp call them out
Don't sweat it guys. All you have to do is just be perfect. You got this.
your name is perfect lol
the guy fell in love with an average looking woman who was dead at the time based on a decades old faded polaroid, and he died for her
kyle reese - the ultimate simp
@@MikeG82 When your living in a post apocalyptic world, there isn't much ass to go around.
@@KyleReeseCel2029 yeah and no instagram or anything like that so the old polaroid will have to do i guess
Just be a giga chad bro
@@MikeG82 he basically settled for a gilf
"The reality of why dating is so easy for women is because men make it easy for them." Nail hit right on the head there. The root of the problem isn't women, it's simps.
Yup. Simps need to learn to value themselves and embrace manhood. We build and repair. That applies to ourselves first!
The female 10s in my town date meth heads and alcoholics.
My soul, mind, and body being in peak shape does nothing for me.
There's some weird conspiracy to only mate with losers, I think they're doing it as a spiteful threat towards God tbh.
@@najirban
You don't get it. Once those balls fill up men make fools of themselves Men are WEAK. If men were strong the sex industry for example would COLLAPSE in a week.
Weak men are ALWAYS the problem. The problem ans the solution.
Simps have always been around. It’s in our nature to at least try every single option out there which gets us access to the p. Including crawling on the floor like an insect for your girl of interest.
Simps are an unstoppable plague.
"I want 6ft, 6 figures etc."
women: "you go girl, don't settle for less!"
red/blackpill: "women only date up and they don't settle for less"
women: "that's offensive"
Two out of three isn't bad. I just wish I had that 6 figure income too, I could pay that cray cray away!
Women: 6FT, 6INCH, 6 Figures + Look like Chris Hemsworth.
Men: Be in good shape
NOOOOOOOO THATS RUUUDDEEE
And then be dark triad and sexually powerful as well, cause perfect guy is boring.
you do the same though, sub 5.
@@keylanoslokj1806 I'm not boring. you're just sad and jealous of gigachads.
The best thing any young single man can do is be the best version of yourself and learn the art of not giving a fuck what women think of you. After I learnt that, things started to change massively for me. I started being rude to women who were rude to me, walking away from women who weren't giving me what I wanted, setting clear boundaries early whilst dating someone, and ghosting women that didn't respect them. From my personal perspective, if a woman thinks that you have the self respect to walk away the moment she wastes your time or crosses a boundary, she will actually respect you for it and not do it. Be nice, and she won't take you seriously.
100%
Lol, I'm a a**hole to them too. I'll do you one better, I act as if all of them dropped dead tomorrow, I wouldn't give a f**k.
That only works if youre a high value man to begin with, if youre an incel or a basement dweller , being an asshol3 will just enhance those features. Plus a man should desire high quality women as well, not just any woman that will pick them.
@@sew_gal7340 yup and get you arrested with false accusations.
And if you act this way in your workplace; reject a female workmate, you'll have a death enemy every single workday!
Please don't apologise for making longer videos- ever! They are even more thorough and insightful 🙂; thanks so much! You really help men to see things the way they really are!
As long as it is as logical and insightful as this one, the longer the better.
I agree I'm 38 years old and wheat waffles put things in perspective that I wish I knew in my early teens.
yes make long video i love it
He's just recycling old videos as new.
but it is NOT for ""biology"". alot of men in the past due to the obligation to marriage after having sex with a girl by society and her family, had to go with prostitutes. if you see the data nowadays of young guys going with them, in America they are less than a 11% who had sex with a prostitute at least 1 time in their lifetime, and some of them are also the ones who have a paraphilia, so they are not just the most "desperates". the thing is that the ambient and the culture has changed that sexual dynamic. aside that single example: cultural and social obligations on men who are brainwashed since they are kids to overvalue women and do the "courtship", ARE indeed the real problem. using some fatalist cherrypicked biological-evolutionary theories of millions ago presumed dynamics, is just a way to NORMALIZE more those societal dynamics, making the situation even more worse. instead, you all have to understand that most of these dynamics are CULTURAL, and that us new generations of men, are way more self conscious than our dads, uncles and grandpas, and so on. we have an absolutely powerful weapon as the internet to make information on these dynamics, and to make other peers and young guys exit from those(like with MGTOW), and so, we have the power to regain and gain the power that society gave to women, and leave them without it in the next years and near future. marriage is dying, we will have artificial wombs, metaverses, fear for approaching for false accuses and STDs, humanoids and so on, who will drastically change relationship in a better way, and in a irreversible way, too. what you have NOT to do is: being "red/blackpilled" and going to push for those traditional male behaviors who are literally the reason of more female power of will in relationships; do not being a "traditional man" for that reason first, and for the fact that most women DO NOT have the duties of being traditional anymore since decades. THIS is what you have to do.
The best way to live life as a man is to be born tall, with a Chad face. Everything else is attainable, especially with positive reinforcement along the way, because of the Chad face.
Brutal over for 80% of men
And conciencious personality
@@FedeArgentina personality based on looks
@@yyysamuel3215 looks is a tiny, very tiny % of all the things that definy your personality,
Even at 2 years old people have different traits.. Gens, family, education, social circle, % of neuroticism, agreableness, extraversion (Maybe here looks can affect if a person ends up more extrovert or introvert), conscientiouness, opennes, place where you live, economics of your family... I could continue. Just... "personality based on looks" is dumb :P
cheers
@@grindmode4781
No its not. This is a west 1st world problem. I went to Mexico in 2019. Saw many short average men with women better looking than them with kids.
You white boys let your women off the leash. And this is your reward.
34 tomorrow and got a promotion lined up to take me into the top 10% of UK earners for my age in a few months time. Yet shockingly because I've never had a relationship there is no preselection benefit available for me to capitalize on and even though I've been improving myself it still feels like a constant endless battle of zero success, ghosting on apps and now seemingly surrounded by single moms, some of who are now stating on the profiles that they "do not want any more kids", yet they still feel that what I have to offer is not good enough for them 🤣 There's pretty much no words to describe how deluded women's standards have become in 2022
Well i guess were all fked
I’m driving a fucking brand new Porsche and I don’t get fuck all interest from women.
I think if I sold everything I own (including my house) my investments my stocks etc. I would have close to a million pounds.
If I try and start conversations with girls who work in shops (probably on minimum wage) I just get blanked. Girls on minimum wage turning down men driving Porsche’s, is a reality.
@@tonyzyklon9328 this is why I wonder when I see all this red pill content online "focus on yourself", "put in the work", "don't chase women, let them chase you", yet clearly we seem to be both putting in the work here and still not getting results. I don't drive a brand new Porsche, but I could with this promotion. Currently driving a Toyota GT-86 that only had 6,000 miles on it when I bought it for about £25k, monthly finance for 5 year term, so basically £5k a year + interest. It's all about the genetic lottery it seems, yay 🙄
It's because you're in the UK. That's the epicenter of global gynocracy.
Its just blackpill genetics- you were not born good looking enough. Otherwise you would have had many women by 34. Your best bet is to go to a poorer country, smash all you like, but don't EVER, EVER bring those girls back to your country.
This is a phenomenon I haven't heard anyone bring up so I want to talk about it. Last Halloween I dressed up as a trojan warrior with a mask....I had been working out and was in good shape...there was this girl (about a 7) who came in and she was hanging out with this Chad-light. I made eye contact with her a few times but didn't talk to her because she was with some dude...then I walked by her again, made eye contact, and she stopped me and said "how are you"....we started talking and I took off my mask and she said "oh I like your face"...I thought "that's good", but not really cause a little later she leans over to the Chad-light and says "I think you have some competition for tonight".....long story short -- I got competition anxiety and got out of the interaction. Last week, I was talking to an attractive girl and after 10 minutes she said "I have to go to the bathroom, I'll be right back." So I give her some time to come back but she doesn't come back.....a little later she comes back with her friend and I just ignore her (I considered that a flake and I was done with her at that point). After a while she gets up and leaves and when she comes back she sits right next to me and "accidentally" rubs her legs against mine. I continue to ignore her. She looks at me and smiles. I ignore......then she does something scary -- she goes on her phone and texts a guy to come to the bar. 5 minutes later the guy comes over and kisses her. I get the fuck out of there. It wasn't her boyfriend because they weren't seen together the rest of the night....I think she just "ordered some dick" on her phone when she wasn't getting any attention and was possibly trying to raise competition anxiety. Why are these women doing this nowadays? They're copying high status men who have women compete for their attention. The difference is that no self respecting man is gonna be a dancing monkey and try to win a girl over another guy (possibly ex lover). Things in America are becoming a shit show.
Good point brother
Dang. That's one of the scariest stories I ever read. I see alternate futures: either guy, thinking you initiated something, settling the question in a dark alley. Dude, honestly, love you lots and stay away from the flakes with companions. (Scary!)
sooo fakkke duude
Dating is cucked
Why the fuck are u even approaching a girl who has a boyfriend RIGHT there with her? Dude that's so disrespectful.
"I'm a strong, independent woman!"
"Now pay my bills!"
The funniest part of those statements is that THEY ACTUALLY BELIEVE BOTH statements.
date better women.
@@iamsobeautifulomg if she says: ""I'm a strong, independent woman! Pay for my bills! "... then say: "how can you be independent if you need someone to pay for you?"
@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 how can you expect women to be independent completely? Do you like not understand science or have you never researched the differences between men and women? And you want to date? You're not ready for the real world yet.
@@iamsobeautifulomg it was a counterattack to the woman trying to behave like a man…
It's not a contradiction once you think about it from their (often solipsistic) perspective:
They ARE strong and independent. They've managed to acquire the lifestyle they want without being chained to the demands of someone else.
They can make demands that you pay their bills. Not because they can't pay for it themselves ( they usually can ), but because they know even if you don't there's someone out there who will.
The result is that women can have their cake and eat it too.
It all comes down to the biological fact that men have an abundance of semen, while women have a finite amount of eggs, in addition to what you mentioned about the females investment being much greater than the male. Hence, the females are biologically programmed to be more selective. As you said it includes both genetic quality for the offspring, as well as providing skills for the family. However as of recently many more women can now provide for themselves, making the priority genetics.
Excellent video, this might be your best one.
Its more about the sex drive. Remove the sex drive from men and increase it from women and you will get the opposite in the sexual market ;) . While the number of sperm and ovule stay the same
@@bossgd100 I call big BS on that one. Women would still just flock to the top guys mostly.
"a finite amount of eggs"
it's not like they have 6 eggs dude.. women can have 500.000 eggs. it's more than enough to bake kids 24/7
@@clyp3016 Sure, if for some reason you went and collected them and separated them and then seeded them in multiple women's wombs. Unfortunately they only pop 1 or a few at most per month, most go off by age 30ish and women can't get pregnant while already pregnant. They have a practically finite amount of eggs and far less than the 39 million sperm per ejaculate that men have.
So what will happen to the future if this process continues or gets worse which it will? Are we heading for depopulation(not sure if that's the right word)?
The graph is correct. Women who are 3s and 4s, wanna date 5-6 men. Mid women wanna date chadlites. And Stacy tier only gigachads or billionaires
Absolutely true
you don't know wtf you're talking about because you don't look like me and you have zero experience with attractive women. they aren't like that at all. extremely rare women will only date gigachads. it's actually tougher for gigachads than chads. i should know i am one. being an outlier gives you a lot of attention but also a lot of prejudice.
@@iamsobeautifulomg first of all your pic is like a 4. Second i speak from experience. in my youth i was a 7 and mostly took attention from 3s, 4s, fatties, handicapped girls etc. A few stacylites or high and beckies here and there, but way more rare... .
@@iamsobeautifulomg and yes you are correct that stacies after getting cheated and ghosted by their peer chads, turn towards normies instead..But first in their youth, they go for their natural instinct, and the socially acceptable thing. To date Chads.
@@keylanoslokj1806 in your youth you were a 7 😂 ty for the jokes. What a pathetic number considering you're definitely lying. 7 being your best is pathetic. Go home old man.
Yes and that's normal IF you were a 7. What is your point? Y'all dum fr.
Historically what did low value men with no dating options do in order to cope with being sexual losers? I’m sure they didn’t just sit around and cry all day about Chad’s harem… Things are gonna get much darker in the next few decades if something doesn’t change.
Historically most women didn't even meet or rarely met an actual Chad during their lifetime. Now it's the opposite lol.
@@coops1992 yeah cause dating apps and social media. Nowadays is online bro
They just paid for it; the tabooing of prostitution has had a large effect on the dating market. Something that seems to be ignored. It’s the sole reason incels can even exist. In the past if a man wanted to have sex, and couldn’t get it “for free” they just paid for it. Without any type of guilty conscience, or needing to break a law.
@@tajiri7 it’s funny how prostitution is illegal but society has become more sexualized than ever before in history.
impose marriage laws on everyone, obviously. that's why religion was removed first when the degeneracy began.
The Normie class is merging with the Sub5 class while Chads are pulling away and living the lives of gods. You see a similar parallel in economics with the disappearing middle class and the rich getting richer.
The Chad Oligarchy
@Gav Liddle cold but true it never began
@@pauljimerson8218 this is why we need socialism (aka government sponsored hookers)
Mostly blue eyed men.. Bit like how ancient Egypt was..
It’s not that black and white bro it might seem that way but it isn’t
This is gold. As a man, it was pure joy to absorb a 27 minute long video with nothing but facts on the subject at hand, as well as it all being explained in a most constructive way. Subscribed.
The thing is though, a lot of women (and even men) don't want children nowadays. But I guess the desire to date up is still being driven by the biological need to reproduce even when the woman doesn't want children.
I agree. Even if she doesn’t want children, that biological checklist is still operating in the background.
These days, the woman wants to be the child and get all of the attention, money, and validation.
Women never wanted children in the first place, child is just a bargaining tool women use to survive.
100% get that bitcb on birth control, balance the relationship if you want one that kinda helps discern quality women as a dude and maintain leverage she ain't screwing around for awhile. Sooner or later get a vasectomy and then all you need is condoms and continual self improvement and inventory
@@marsultortheavenger409 fucking facts. Statistics show men actually still want children and women don't still. It was all apart of survival.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to place a court-issued restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Heh. Better than that, a background check will show that restraining order.
Restraining order? Men should rush power wealth and body, and own the court.
No women and poor man can attack you if you own the court/bribe them.
Instructions unclear, can't get female partner
That's doesn't work in misandric society we live in.
but it is NOT for ""biology"". alot of men in the past due to the obligation to marriage after having sex with a girl by society and her family, had to go with prostitutes. if you see the data nowadays of young guys going with them, in America they are less than a 11% who had sex with a prostitute at least 1 time in their lifetime, and some of them are also the ones who have a paraphilia, so they are not just the most "desperates". the thing is that the ambient and the culture has changed that sexual dynamic. aside that single example: cultural and social obligations on men who are brainwashed since they are kids to overvalue women and do the "courtship", ARE indeed the real problem. using some fatalist cherrypicked biological-evolutionary theories of millions ago presumed dynamics, is just a way to NORMALIZE more those societal dynamics, making the situation even more worse. instead, you all have to understand that most of these dynamics are CULTURAL, and that us new generations of men, are way more self conscious than our dads, uncles and grandpas, and so on. we have an absolutely powerful weapon as the internet to make information on these dynamics, and to make other peers and young guys exit from those(like with MGTOW), and so, we have the power to regain and gain the power that society gave to women, and leave them without it in the next years and near future. marriage is dying, we will have artificial wombs, metaverses, fear for approaching for false accuses and STDs, humanoids and so on, who will drastically change relationship in a better way, and in a irreversible way, too. what you have NOT to do is: being "red/blackpilled" and going to push for those traditional male behaviors who are literally the reason of more female power of will in relationships; do not being a "traditional man" for that reason first, and for the fact that most women DO NOT have the duties of being traditional anymore since decades. THIS is what you have to do.
Women " we will only marry rich men "
then women " there's more rich men tan women, that's unfair, we need positive discrimination "
Women now " there's not enough rich men to marry, how did that happen ?".
women aren't perfect and are also brainwashed like the rest of us.
It's a clear example we don't love in the same way:
- They need to feel admiration and respect to love you and it's conditional.
- We only need real bonding and it becomes unconditional.*
If you are not a Chad.
@@DrNova-hj6co Elaborate that further Doc. What do you mean by "real bonding"?
MARRY only a fool marries in 2022
@@fender1000100 or someone not ugly/low IQ.
One simple answer: Because they can. Without consequences. Thats all.
Well there are consequences later in life if they fuck up when they hit their 30's as described in the video
No its actually the opposite. Its because there are more consequences for women to get in a bad relationship than men.
@@dinobot7025 Then they would date nice guys instead of Chads, but that's not what's happening. So you're wrong.
@@VirideSoryuLangley it shows why nice guys get little success with hookups and tinder. If a woman wants a hookup with no commitment, she is gonna only gonna consider an attractive guy.
Considering the worst case scenario, at least with the attractive guy the kid will carry good genes. With an average guy she gets no commitment and no good genes.
For long-term dating commitment 100% matters. Why would a woman want to carry a child and spend 18 years raising it for someone who isn't going to help? Only 0.01% giga chads can get women to commit to them without committing back.
@@dinobot7025 Here's a secret for you: women get married to nice guys, and then cheat on them with Chad. They get pregnant with Chad's kids and force the nice guy to raise them.
Don't get married or take women seriously. If you put a career together in the hopes of providing for a family, your future wife-to-be is getting ran thru in the mean time. You will be seen as just a bail out. She's not attracted to you (she's had better in her prime), she doesn't respect you, and she's settling for you. On top of that, she's gonna be post-wall and probably less good looking than you are. It's a joke. Marriage is over
Its over
Damn brutal
God damnnnnnnnnn
Marriage is only a financial contract
It’s all pointless at the end of the day, building a career just for the results to end the same, which is her leaving, relationships and marriage fails 98% of time, I’m convinced all this “self improvement” “improving you’re life” is solely to attract/get women, because they’ll never stick around, they all eventually leave that’s the reality, and if not like you mentioned, they’ll already have been ran through and had their fun hence settling for “you”, so if you ask me, every man should except this and do it for themselves instead.
Society is programming us to follow women timelines.
Absolutely brutal.
what are women timelines
It's ironic that women are so picky that they actually destroy their own fertility waiting for Mr Perfect. It's like seeing an animal at the zoo trying to mate with a 2D image of the animal on a TV screen. Funny but also sad.
This is the flip side of hypergamy. It's leaving a lot of women single in their 30s.
its not as funny/sad as malding incels.
men, as always, are funnier
I don't really see any down side for women anymore.
They can get quite all what they want without consequences. They can be single mothers, 40 and still find a good partner.
they can choose a hookup life till 38 and still find a guy to build a family with.
The only girls who lose are the 3/10 and less who couldn't secure a man or have a child. but more often than not, I see them with children as single mothers, then they hookup every now and then with low quality men.
only men have the difficult task now. if you are not attractive enough in your early 20s, don't expect any change in your life to make dating "happier" for you.
You can choose to settle for a low quality women from your late 20s and live with it.
or be the guy with potential chosen by an average girl to be her provider for a while, before she gets bored.
or build your career to be the guy that comes last, after she's been ran through, and still not be respected enough compared to THAT EX.
Either you are from those who have had success from the early beginnings, or you can just cope with any enhancement you can bring to your life. I've never heard of anyone who flipped his romantic life upside down because of "more money", "gym", "whitening his teeth" or "playing an instrument"...
if you were having 1 girl a year, it's gonna be maybe 3, but don't expect to be dan Bilzerian after 35 because you built your career.
I don't even believe in ALL content creators selling hopes of becoming attractive to 23yo girls when they're 45. unless they are gold diggers of course, in this case anybody at any age can go to professionals, what's the difference! wife material girls don't do that! not that gap!
@@willf.8617 there is no downside for women in feminist societies, initially. But over time, the population starts to rapidly shrink due to below-replacement fertility levels. Then women start to suffer as the economy contracts and there aren't enough people to care for them in their old age. Eventually the feminist society's population dwindles so low that they are easily replaced by patriarchal tribes.
@@SpykerSpeed but you are talking about the long run. People, including myself, are selfish.
we can't sort out an issue by waiting for the others to fail and then throw them a "HA HA!". it's a lose lose situation.
but unfortunately I know that nothing can be done. Attraction is not a subject to advice. You can't tell anyone what they should prefer, especially for women (100% fail guaranteed) they'll agree with you when it's time to discuss why they are choosing badly, but once they're in the context of attraction, emotions will again prevail, they can't afford to do better.
We'll (I'm at least) try to adapt as much as possible without losing our standards just to get laid.
I grew up with a big dose of self-respect, and I can't afford feeling disrespected even a tiny bit, just to be with someone (such as feeling that i'm being seen as a lifeline for someone)
My whole life I've been wondering why women didn't like me I didn't do anything wrong, am I crused to not receive love and affection? Now I know why Blackpill is the answer to all these questions it's not my fault and it's not women's fault either it is what it is even a slight hope of finding someone who likes me also is a big mistake that I wouldn't do.
Focus on yourself bro if you spend too much time focusing on being lonely and wanting love and affection you’ll go insane, it’s nothing but a vicious cycle. If you put your mind to things you like it will come eventually.
@@abcdef-ev5bc My favorite quote is "Don't get distracted by a pussy". Focus on other things in life that are going to be more beneficial for you.
This is 100% facts. It may be a tough pill to swallow but it’s better to know the truth than live in a lie. This is why I prefer to casually date multiple women instead of choosing to pursue a monogamous relationship. No risk of her “dating up” when you’re not taking her serious in the first place.
Ok chad calm down
@@HiCenjoyer He's right.
@@BTCanti-scam most men cant even fucking casually date 1 woman, the fuck r u talking ab?
Base on your profile picture you probably get any women you want....
Agreed
Pre-selection benefits and both sexual and relationship experience are a key aspect of attraction for older people in the dating market. Statistically, it's why older women prefer divorced men over never married men if they choose to date (divorced men start outnumbering the never married men from the late 30s). And it's also why we see anecdotal statements of men who say that they get more attention from women when they have a partner compared to when they don't. Lacking experience is something that is a major negative point against you. The problem is for middle aged and older men who lack experience is that it isn't something you can learn at University, you can't make up for it at a gym and it isn't something you can fake.
Even if you are kissless handholdless virgin man ... you should lie & says things like i am separated , divorced etc or else your smv is downgraded
@@RK-bj8ho The problem with lying is that you will eventually be found out. Your actions, rhetoric and lack of experience will out you. Having to constantly pretend to be something else is emotionally and physically draining.
@@tgheretford it’s only till you get your foot in. Think of it as a resume in an interview. Of course it goes into the trash if you mention 0 job experience
@@harsh3948 The difference being is that you can attain skills through learning at a higher educational establishment. There is no legal alternative for dating and relationships, its a societal expectation that everyone who is middle aged will have experience or it is perceived there is something very wrong with them and will be seen as a grave red flag. But lacking experience when you are a middle aged or older male is a vicious circle - you lack experience which shows so you can't attain a relationship but you need to attain a relationship to attain experience but you lack experience... and so the cycle continues. At least in the job market there is the prospect of getting your foot in the door even if it is at the bottom of the career ladder. There isn't when it comes to relationships. It's akin to the sixty five year old who has lost their job in a dead industry and now has to start afresh in a new industry because they can't afford to take retirement. But at least they've got the chance to find employment as a greeter at a supermarket.
And this probably explains the statistic that a man who is unmarried in his forties will statistically never get married. It is becoming apparent for relationships too.
Talk about a Catch-22.
Have you ever experience when you text a girl, you even go on a first date with her and than the girl feels the immediate need to tell you this is a bad moment for her, lot of problems, and that she is not searching for anything ecc?
After one or two month you see her new profile photo with her boy-friend and no, he is not you
I’ve experienced this situation pretty often
Stay strong guys
I've experienced every single type of thing women do like this. Eventually got my passport and found a girl overseas. Should have done it a decade ago
@@chrispekel5709 after a year, without any success, I think I will consider your advide
When they open their gobs, they're lying.
Of course paternity tests should be mandatory, but in this gynocentric world we live in, it will never happen. Not only that, there are countries that paternity tests are *illegal* (like France, soon Germany too). Their 'reasoning': "French psychologists suggest that fatherhood is determined by society not by biology".. The utter victory of women's strategy: 'If you can't secure the alpha's commitment, mate with him and have the beta-provider take care of you and the child'
i m from france. If you deny the child as yours, paternity test will be required by the court itself . Don't ever forget the paternity test before signing child birth act .you don't wanna raise another man's child
Wtf, what kind of distorted values is this? Women are supported to cheat on her husband for a guy that will ditch her?
If it were the other way around, women would be screeching from the rooftops that we need maternity tests " for equality" and would never stop kvetching how men have guaranteed paternity and women don't
@@soundsokok So you have to openly oppose your woman.. in court.. and if you're mistaken, you'd have broken the trust between you.
However, if you have a suspicion, you cannot have the dna test done privately because 'If those samples were found in the post by officials on their way to foreign laboratories, the French men who sent them could theoretically face a year in prison and a 15,000 Euro fine', as I read.
So this is rigged against French men; you'd have to be almost certain that she cheated, and go berserk/court mode (and still you might be wrong), in any other case you lose..
@@leftjedi The trust has never been there in the first place . It's just that it might be the first time it " went public " . You can't 100% trust a female dude . Hypergamy is in its blood .
Hypergamy explained in less than 30 minutes!!! Congrats WW!!!
Tbh men having no social repercussion from dating down it's a new thing. Until some years ago those guys received the tittle of Saint George, slayer of dragons.
I'm 5'11 and most ladies say I'm too short. I make slightly double the national average income and most ladies ask me if I collect food stamps and live in section 8 housing with such a low income. I eat healthy so have a good body type yet not good enough to land any dates and it's been the same all my life. Ladies though can be 30 while working a retail job and living with parents, have $200k in student debt and look like free Willy, yet she will not accept anything less than a top 10% man. Sad but yet it's the normal today.
DAMN! The 5'11 being short is brutal. I myself am 6'2.5 and sometimes I have to stand with military posture at a club not to feel short! (5'9 chick's with 4 inch heels) 5'11 is actually the start of tall. It's all pretty gross and disgusting. The worst is when they actually claim they are at a disadvantage. Trying to squeeze every last bit of perks they can possibly get.
@@Nick-cp8wf I really think that people are exaggerating the height thing too much, I am 5.8 in Spain and I never had problems with finding a partner
@@Nick-cp8wf It also depends on your attractiveness. I'm sure I'm an 8, and height has never played tricks on me. They exaggerate it too much.
@@wismelmartinez2045 yeah, height matters less than facial attractivness. You are 5'8 in Spain. That's actually average height or even slightly above I would say. Your only as good as your competition. Great quote. I actually find Spanish girls (which are pretty) are a bit more lenient on looks. Also if you are upper tier in looks it is expected that you would be good to go. In America, USA, a lot of guys are struggling. A 5'8 guy who is an 8 would still fair well but a 5'8 that is average looks and socially inept will be stomped. Everyone's experience is different though. Many average men HAVE indeed faired well with women, however, the majority are struggling.
@FuckOuttaHere yea definitely lie and say 6ft. When girls hear 5'11 they hear 5ft. 5ft anything is a death sentence 🤣 . Jk. Have they said your too short Live? In person?
Two comments: 1) One area WW has not covered (probably because of the focus on < 40 singles), is what percentage of single, available men and women actually WANT to date. A 2020 Pew Research Study found that 71% of U.S. single available women over 40 were NOT looking to date, while only 42% of U.S. single available men over 40 were NOT looking to date. An AARP study from about 10 years earlier found the same level of discrepancies. 2) I have a personal female friend (and this situation is becoming more common) who decided to have children without a man, but is NOT on state assistance - she makes a good income as an attorney. So there are more than a few women who decide to have children on their own who are self-sufficient. Comment #1 actually adds to WW's arguments, in my view.
Feels about right. Given the steepness of the pyramid of financial success for anyone. Would think that anyone able to raise a child on a single income with no state or partner help would be a minimum. Having said that partners do come with hidden liability, I could see this as an ideal that many women would aim for. With a friends with benefits type side deal.
poor single mother children. they lack half the parenting.
It is something I have seen anecdotally. Older women will generally remove themselves from the dating pool and either have a child through a surrogate and IVF without a man, adopt a pet or even seek a same-sex partner. They will all happily embrace celibacy. If she does find someone, the man needs to exceed previous expectations and standards set by ex's. And you're competing with only the positive aspects of those ex's too. Older men generally still look for a partner, still have their libido and will lower their standards to rock bottom as long as they get action in the bedroom from a woman.
Another point WW missed is independent women are also increasingly opting for surrogacy from quality sperm donors and this is a point which is actually far more important as women can choose the quality sperms and raise a baby on their own because of their increasing power of finance (as a lot of women have started earning more than men) and feminist movement and they can also avoid sex which again will be a bad thing for men.
Also There is also increase of LGBTQ women which again takes a negative effect of single men, so many things going against Sub Five single men that it is very unfortunate.
Another very important consideration for why women are much more selective than men when choosing a mate might be that maternal mortality was much more of a risk in centuries past.
Ascertaining the actual risk, however, seems problematic. For example, for medieval Europe calculations range from 5% to 50%.
In any case, on top of being unable to bare offspring again for a maximum period of 9 months after becoming pregnant, women also risked death.
I suspect that any selection strategy that paired a woman with the type of man that helped to minimize her chances of dying during pregnancy or childbirth was naturally selected and passed down.
Stillbirths were also much more common in our distant history, and a woman who chose badly therefore had a greater chance of wasting her precious and finite months of fertility delivering dead babies.
Yeah. It's interesting to think about how the narrow birth canal, relative to our large human heads, may have actually evolutionarily perpetuated and increased the female hypergamy instinct.
"In hominids, upright walking evolved 4-5 million years ago. The human pelvis was affected by these changes and evolved accordingly to better serve the new pattern of movement. Later, after bipedal movement had long become obligatory, brains evolved to increasingly larger volumes. With that change, the head size of neonates also increased. The growing heads, however, had to be delivered through pelvises that were earlier adapted to upright walking. This is the reason for the lack of space in the modern human birth canal during childbirth, which we have to live with today."
So that means female maternal deaths probably started to skyrocket around 4 million years ago. I can only imagine how that shaped the female psyche and encouraged women to be more selective.
@@redpillsatori3020 that makes sense but how does it take into account the "hyper"-hypergamy were seeing today due to social media. Why would women select for men who are even more abnormally large? Many women today are seeking men a whole foot taller. Wouldn't that be detrimental to their own survival? And shouldn't survival instinctively take precedence over procreation. Wouldn't too much sexual dimorphism be detrimental to women in that case? I'm simply asking because I don't actually know and maybe you can explain it. Cheers.
@@loverofhumanity cause it is NOT for ""biology"". alot of men in the past due to the obligation to marriage after having sex with a girl by society and her family, had to go with prostitutes. if you see the data nowadays of young guys going with them, in America they are less than a 11% who had sex with a prostitute at least 1 time in their lifetime, and some of them are also the ones who have a paraphilia, so they are not just the most "desperates". the thing is that the ambient and the culture has changed that sexual dynamic. aside that single example: cultural and social obligations on men who are brainwashed since they are kids to overvalue women and do the "courtship", ARE indeed the real problem. using some fatalist cherrypicked biological-evolutionary theories of millions ago presumed dynamics, is just a way to NORMALIZE more those societal dynamics, making the situation even more worse. instead, you all have to understand that most of these dynamics are CULTURAL, and that us new generations of men, are way more self conscious than our dads, uncles and grandpas, and so on. we have an absolutely powerful weapon as the internet to make information on these dynamics, and to make other peers and young guys exit from those(like with MGTOW), and so, we have the power to regain and gain the power that society gave to women, and leave them without it in the next years and near future. marriage is dying, we will have artificial wombs, metaverses, fear for approaching for false accuses and STDs, humanoids and so on, who will drastically change relationship in a better way, and in a irreversible way, too. what you have NOT to do is: being "red/blackpilled" and going to push for those traditional male behaviors who are literally the reason of more female power of will in relationships; do not being a "traditional man" for that reason first, and for the fact that most women DO NOT have the duties of being traditional anymore since decades. THIS is what you have to do.
@Michael David I know that, but there are absolutely big changes and differences between men of few generations ago and nowadays young guys, due to culture and behavioral biology who is modified by psychology. also, alot of evolutionary biology is just theory, with some truths, that is not objective too, and there are not prove that those theories explain at a objectively 100% way those behaviors and dynamic. at the contrary, societal conditions, pressures, gender roles, have been demostrated in anthropology like a main cause of it. look at the Victorian Era where due to the second industrial revolution alot of women lost their work, the government had to change the societal engine making those women being overvalued like spouses, with men being brainwashed like always to make the courtship and "earn" their woman and the potential family, and if they just wanted to have occasional encounter, the families of the women would have accused them of carnal violence and rape(this concept of "rape" exists since the Roman Era for the same reason, exploiting men for their resources), obligating the man to marry the woman, and the woman would "marry up" to the man and be mantained for life. the only alternative to that? prostitutes. so they were OBLIGATED to do it, it was not "nature" or ""biology"" in the sense you're speaking about. here in Italy a similar dynamic was alive until the 60'/70'. and in America if you see the data on young men going with prostitutes, they are less than a 10-15% on the total who had sex with those at least one time in their life. until the 50'-60' in the US average men did it like 5x/6x times more. this is a very rapid social anc cultural change from less than a century who changed the psyches and behaviors of boys and men, and it will continue like that, also with androids, artificial wombs, metaverses, more social isolation due to feminism and sick ideologies who make men fear of false allegations and of women in general(and the contrary), more hikkikomoris and so on. and those are all technological innovations.
If this is the case then why do women date down so often?
This is a sad time for many young hard working men trying to reproduce that perhaps weren’t fortunate enough to be among the top 20%. Unless they Simp out to an over 40 yr old woman with more miles than JLo. However this is all very true.
Exactly this. Unfortunately…
A sad time indeed. Even more sad for the ones who have realized that there's nothing to work hard for, so there's not fulfillment anymore, only copes.
@@scr4932 Working hard for soyciety, that's why I'm NEET and I can't even find a job as an European.
Whole video can be summarized as: If you're a man and you don't either have great looks or a lot of money, peace out! Also, this video doesn't hit upon a more recent trend. For most of human history, women have dated and married slightly up. 5 woman/6 man. 7 woman/8 man etc. It's gotten out of control to the point now that a "5/6" women thinks they not only deserve but DEMAND a man that is 8 through 10. The amount of action that men in the 5-7 range get now has decreased precipitously over the last decade and have basically been shut out of the dating market.
At the same time... with overweight/obesity rates greatly increasing, the amount of women moved to the 1-4 range has skyrocketed. There is a virtual "Wasteland" now for average/healthy people to date one another.
I honestly feel this whole dating up thing is much different in person than online tho
@Walmart Gigachad online that is… in person is very different, and I’d argue easier
according to his videos i am in that wasteland but im quite happy with my partner and have very little confidence issues. im either an exception or just not frustrated enough to let tendencies decide my life.
This channel is a goldmine. Wow. Thank God I found this channel. I really really appreciate you. From this one video alone I learned alot. Thank you so much.
Sometimes I tell my little sister how lucky she is she wasn't born a man like me.
Wtf 😂 over some bitches?
My sister is pretty and desired by many, but she still thinks I have it easy and refuses to believe when I tell her these things are out of my control.
It all makes perfect sense. Very thorough and easy to digest. Only left out one thing; that even when you're the 10/10 guy in all areas, you will still have women who will be dissatisfied. What was once evolutionary advantages has become toxic and detrimental.
Another well thought out video. No playing around. Always provides studies to back conclusions. A lot of men are left behind wondering why they aren't good enough for a relationship. You only have so much time. Knowing the truth can provide a better acceptance as to why things are the way they are.
In the long run I do believe this will help people find their looks match down the road.
Sad some people will never get to experience what is to be in a relationship an it brokes my heart hearing that well..my heart is shreded anyways😂
You only have so much time as in what does that mean
@@brandonwilliams4551 literally, a man can spend years and years trying to find true success in a relationship. Eventually, one will get old and the basic kind of relationship (usually 18-50ish) can evolve into something much different, then eventually after that all time may be lost for an indivisual. It happens to hundreds if not thousands of men everyday.
This video really is fantastic. A lot of thought and truthful logic went into this. Rarely do I congratulate anyone. Seriously, well done.
There's only very little left to understand really
it’s a crazy world the dating game is, the way i move is now i don’t look for women i don’t go out my way. i don’t even look to date i just work & do my hobbies. why try and please people who not checking for you? 🏄🏽♂️
With regards career, when I hear of women with high aspirations for climbing the corporate ladder I generally view that as a big warning sign. They usually are very entitled, aggressive and are usually less playful.
Women aren't attracted to men who make less money than they do. So by focusing on "career", they are actually destroying their own chances of ever finding a guy they are attracted to.
Cat 🐈 ladies
You prefer those with no ambition, don't you?
@@vhhj5517 ambition is not a KPI for me. However, it is a negative if that is their focus, particularly their primary focus.
@@Ligerpride Since I'm a woman whose primary goal in life is to climb in the social hierarchy (through studies and career), I must admit I don't understand your point of you. I've never had a man tell me that wanting a high position and a big paycheck is bad. Aren't you a little bit (just a little bit) insecure?
There’s another element to why physical attraction is important. 99% of the universe is beautiful, wether it be alive or inanimate. Beauty seems to be a fundamental and intrinsic quality of nature. No wonder our instincts want to maximise that. Sounds like hippy talk, but the correlation is clear.
I believe reason 3 is also why abortion is so important to women. It provides a nice little reset button in case a higher value man comes along.
oh yeah this is what causes second trimester abortions. a woman is ready to be a mother and then a chad looks at her so she snuffs out the lesser man's seed.
i think youre probably already living the sexless life of misery you deserve. maybe work on not deserving it so much
You have any idea how I'm going to reset her if she kills my unborn baby?
this is beyond delusional.
Exactly.
It also abolishes the man's right to protect his offspring.
The Blackpill is the natural and logical truth of life.
For those who don't make the grade. Others have the luxury of the red or blue pills.
@@whenpigsfly8178 you can be a chad and blackpilled
@@Hecticgunbunny Chad and blackpilled 😂😂, what type of parallel universe is that?
@@Lil_Slimetx why is it so hard to believe that a chad could be interested in the truth concerning sexual dynamics? a chad would benefit from the red pill yes, but he'd know he could always fall back on the good ol blackpill for comfort.
@@Hecticgunbunny Chad and blackpill are two things that don't match. It's not even about sexual dynamics or anything like that. A Chad can never be blackpilled, maybe a few but it's rare. For the rare few that know the blackpill only know it for the purpose of shitting on it. Most Chad's I know have happened to be in the middle of both red and bluepill. These are the same people that will offer quick fixes to everything, cannot get a girl? Just be confident bro!,looks don't matter bro! It's not about the size, it's about the motion in the ocean bro! And many others.
In France a woman with a child get 1750€ a month without doing anything. She'll get extras on september when the kid will go to school. The minimum gain with a full job is 1545€.
If this happens tomorrow in the whole EU there will be no reason for us to work for higher salary - even at non-expert position a good part of your taxes will go for these women. Probably most of them are from some minority - drug addicts, with criminal history, different race (no racism here, just a fact), etc ... Usually as a tax-payer this means you'll get a financial headshot in a short run (each year from your sad life till retirement), hence another proven fact that the modern social system is broken
@@GbpsGbps-vn3jy these people are displacing native french people and they even have to pay for it. What a satanic world!
Wow! I'm going to identify as a woman and adopt a kid.
@@Michael_the_Drunkard And the politicians want us to vote for this shit \o/
@@GbpsGbps-vn3jy well women outnumber men AND have feminist simps so they’ll gladly vote for themselves regardless
Loyalty, trustworthiness, the ability to provide, one could speculate these traits to be crucial for a male configured to deal with and be attractive during rough times. War, famine, pestilence.. that's when this kind of man historically might have been in high demand. Along the same lines, there could however also be what's essentially a fair weather male configuration. The archetypal Casanova is not necessarily loyal, trustworthy nor a provider. The uncanny ability of the Casanova to philander and spread his genes around to many a woman may however be distinct advantage to his woman when the same trait is inherited by her sons. When times are good and most children survive even without the help of the father, the advantage provided by the Casanova might be in higher demand and what women tend to prefer. And in developed nations at least, our modern time is in a historical context basically fair weather which never ends.
Rest In Peace to those used in the example chart.
The problem is that modern women want to have a cake and eat it too. They want all the benefits of being with a traditional man while rejecting all the accountability and responsibility that come along with being with a traditional man. If you, women, expect a man to bring you money and resources to you, why are you crying about making him some sandiwich? Hypocrite much? Double standard much?
Preach it.
If we think about evolution as a species and our instincts optimized at improving the species from our self, it all makes sense. When I say genetics, I dont just mean looks or health. This includes positive traits such as confidence, intelligence, social competence, or any other positive trait that can be taught by the father. Every man's goal is to spread and further their genetics as far as possible, regardless of their viability, and regardless of the quality of woman. Id say this applies unless the woman is a LARGE margin more unattractive than the man as that would be noticeable genetic average drop between the average man to woman. For women, this is much more complicated and important. Women are the great genetic filter. They decide who's genetics lives and who's dies. Their entire imperative is about genetic improvement. It makes sense why women wouldn't choose to date down or even equal in genetics and want to date up. Even if by a small margin, the goal is to increase their genetic average with whoever they choose. It makes sense why a guy thats a 10 can have many women and they will accept sharing that man as any emotional sacrifice will be instincually worth it. Globalization has ruined the "dating game" but its perfecting genetic optimization, letting lower genetic women meet higher genetic men. The only limitation to this benefit on the genetic pool is contraceptives as that reduces the genetic benefit of globalization. On paper, this works perfectly for genetic optimization as more women have more access to higher quality men, leaving little to no room for the lower and average quality men. This means that over time, the lower echelons get genetically filtered out and standards get raised. In 100s of years, our 8s and 9s could be considered average if not worse. It sucks for most guys' genetic imperative but its really interesting from an evolutionary perspective. Basically, we each individually need to become the perfect man and hope the majority does not decide to do the same. If every man were to raise their quality, standards would just increase to where the hard to change looks would have even more impact on choice, is it has. But for those reading, its not all looks. More men than ever are feminine and lack the positive quality traits I mentioned that go into that instinctual choice. Get your looks up, get social competence, confidence, intelligence, and of course wealth and you will see a drastic change in your quality of life, both with women and your view of life.
So what you're saying is,
globalisation + sexual liberation - contraception = higher quality genes for the following generations
@@cigh7445 yeah, there are more variables unaccounted for of course, but thats correct based on what I said
Correct
no you dont understand it. our instinctives are not hardwirde to improve. this is just sometimes a byproduct, there can be also runaway effects
All that some men can offer women is love and affection.
And that is literally worth NOTHING.
What? Lmao.
Wtf? Huh?
Haven't the "meme" reached you yet?
Do you want me to describe a meme on text?
Resume: If you are poor you offer NOTHING. And you get NOTHING.
At the end it's not what happened to me in my 20's: I had the shape to have multiple relationships but it didn't lasted because I hadn't enough money. Now I'm on my 40's and my exes are being summoned by some reason:
All that some wmn can offer, after their 30's, is their last chance to being a leech. Because her beauty is fading. Not to mention her emotional baggage.
That depends on the man and the woman MR. If a handsome man offers that to an average woman. Do you think it will be worth nothing? If you do you are more stupid than most people already think you are.
I actually disagree with you that femininity represents "submissive and admiration". In modern Western nations, femininity currently represents entitlement, assertiveness, and dominance. Women are trained from a young age to have masculine personality traits.
Modern women sound like boner killers, no wonder why porn is so popular....
They are not feminine.
Agreed
@@malindrome9055 maybe you are week
@@malindrome9055 Do you wear skirts, Bro? 😂
76% would woo her by going into debt, so minimum 76% are simps lol
the fact that 57% of women also would kinda destroys all this red/blackpill bullshit
lmao its so over
80/20 rule?
That's ridiculous.
I'm 24% obviously
Brothers Listen, our goal is to reach the top whatever it takes and never get into a relationship with someone who never wanted us.
This is why I will never mock men who pay for sex, kind the contrary. You will save mental sanity and depending on your looks you will also save money. Plus you get acess girls out of your league. If you're going into the casual dating market route, you're not much safer from STDs(not that you should do things unprotected with strangers anyway) and you will also face a higher risk of a false rape accusations. So I recommend that you pay for sex until you find a girlfriend, specially if you're virgin. Once you made sex you can talk with women more naturally.
As a woman, I'm absolutely against s** work. It should be prohibited. I'm not doing it to stop men from getting laid, but only because I'm afraid my daughter (if I ever have one in the future) will consider this a career option at all. This is the dirtiest, filthiest, most degrading job on earth.
@@vhhj5517 Then lower your standards or at least work for more stable society. No? Good, now leave us to throw OUR money for whaterever we WANT to \o/
@@GbpsGbps-vn3jy And letting you degrade women? Sorry, but no. We're simply not on the same side.
@@vhhj5517 I never said we are on the SAME side lol
Just pointed something most of you females need to comprehend better and ain't nobody got time to explain that for ya. First, because you're adult enough to think by yourselves and secondly, we as a men are not here to fill some white spots in your common sense education
@@vhhj5517 look at that femoid, she thinks that even woman who wants to be a diva is disgraced by allowing sub6 get laid. OMG
This is probably the best breakdown I've seen in such a short time.
13:30
Hypergamy may be somewhat innate, but much of it is learned. As you said, men would do the same thing if they had the same option. Ergo, it is not really some kind of mystical innate aspect of the masculine vs feminine. Instead, it is simply about options.
Another point.... Hypergamy has changed. In the past, women really needed a man for financial support. For that reason, hypergamy had a large financial aspect and women were far more prone to withhold sex for marriage. Looks were also less important.
But look at today's dating market. Women are chasing Chad far more than before. Money is still a pre-requisite, but it is not nearly enough (as it was in the past). Now a man must be way above average in looks as well. If a man is not a Chad, his only real shot at having success with women is fame. Women are now sleeping with Chad and raising their children instead of pairing off and forming families. So while women certainly do expect a man to have a higher income, they are more than willing to have casual sex with most any Chad, regardless of income. We are returning to a form of polygamy. But instead of one man having 10 wives, we have 10,000 men sharing 100,000 women. In both cases, 90% of men are living in a world with few or no options.
Absolute CRAP. Most babies are born to AVERAGE PEOPLE. Not average women and chads. Get a CLUE.
All this nonsense is to pray on insecure men. To sell them dating courses and other B.S
The only time men struggle is when they are LAZY (OVERWEIGHT) Very short (SUB 5 5") And ugly (A sub 4 in the face)
And most men are none of those three. The problem with men is they want better than them. And thats why they struggle. They will be a 4 and want a 7 plus. NOT HAPPENING. Unless she's a goldigger and you are loaded.
If you are a 5 as a man you go for a 4 or 5 woman. And that is THAT. IF you are a 7 you go for a 5 to 7 woman.
You never go for above your looks match. Thats when you are going to FAIL. In the longterm.
Nah i believe men would have WAYY more self control than women so i disagree with you.
100% guarantee you there are 100 girls who would debate Wheat Waffles and claim the opposite lmao. Every girl claims they date down.
women do date down, all the time. you see it everywhere
@@jamesmohab they do it if the guy has money. There are lots of rich losers without social skills. They won’t do it without an incentive in it for them
@@marcusmcgraw3519 im not talking about "rich losers with no social skills" im talking baout guys who arent that good looking but are confident/funny/have good personalities/etc, you know, regular guys (leave it to incels to think the whole world of men is divided into chads and jobmaxxing gamer nerds)
@@jamesmohab right, well typically the man is bringing something tangible to the situation. We have no idea if he’s getting used or not
Here’s a good way of life to live by. Girls are stupid and see guys as “providers”. If you’re a guy, you should be looking to provide FIXED resources rather than VARIABLE resources. Fixed resources include stuff where you have already paid, for your own personal use. This includes stuff house, car, tv. Girls will try to exploit every VARIABLE resource that you have (money, gas, food). Don’t let them do this unless she offers you something worthwhile
If you want girls to see you as a man worthy of respect, direct them towards using your fixed resources and let them know that you won’t let them use your variable resources unless there’s something in it for you. They have to be put in their place and they have to be kept there
@@marcusmcgraw3519 "heres a good way of life to live by: girls are stupid.."
i can see what youre doing here
Today i asked my Grandma for dating advice.
She told me, "just be yourself lad"
just be yourself bro
Worse advice ever
This dont work anymore😂
@jaden nik I was literally kidding
“Babe wake up the new weat waffles video just dropped!”
🤣💦
Paternity tests being mandatory actually sounds like a good idea
Many questions:
- What if a woman doesn’t want to have children? They are there. Some 5-10%
- Don’t ugly people also reproduce? I see many unattractive couples with children (yet beautiful as human beings).
- Statistically it’s impossible if all woman date up. Unless they are cheated on all the time.
- What will the most beautiful women do? If the Chads are already taken? Wouldn’t the Chad like the most beautiful one if he had the choice? Which he has.
- Best fertility years are 18-28. But I know quite a few women who had a baby at 35-40, including myself.
- If more people stay single wouldn’t it be a blessing considering overpopulation and climate problems? Although loneliness sucks.
Apart from these questions, interesting video and I can relate to a lot of things including my own experience.
Overpopulation is a myth, the world's current birth rates are below 2.1 per parents which is the replacement rate. Population will continue to increase as healthcare and technology gets better and the older population will outweigh the younger one. Then there will be a population collapse. This ties into your first point. According to Birth Gap documentary on youtube, average family size hasn't changed... granted they have at least 1 kid. Childlessness is on the rise. And there are many cases of no kids because the woman waits too long. Of course you can have kids at >30y/o, but the likelihood of conception drops dramatically after that age.
Well considering more and more people think polygamy is ok and single motherhood rates are very high relative to before, its totally possible that all but the most attractive of women could theoretically date up
Many many women's genes are going to go extinct this century it's a good thing but unfortunately us men gotta suffer with them for their extreme hypergamy
Yeah, I just had a baby at 38 and now we are about to have another and I am 39. I got pregnant this time while breastfeeding and not even trying for a baby. It was a bit soon because my daughter is not even 1 and a half yet , but she will be when her brother is born.
It's crazy how time goes by. I also had two with my ex husband at age 20 and 22. I didn't notice much of any difference in my energy levels or fertility. It was always super easy for me to get pregnant. Although I constantly read it's hard to get pregnant at my age, that has not been my experience at all.
That's the idea, that women are all dating about and talking about the same guys. The normie guys getting married are getting married, only when the woman turns 30, panicking about her age. Meaning, "you're only good enough for my older self". Guys are attracted to youth (18-26), a fertility indicator.
Highest quality video to date. Kudos
? it is shit red pill cope lol
I do agree on masculine traits beeing more dominant, powerful and protective, but i don‘t think that the only feminine trait is to be submissive. For me true feminine traits are to be loving and caring. That‘s why men and women complement each other so good.
I absolutely agree !!! I am Chinese ! In my entire childhood , teen . Teachers n schools teach us women to be feminine but not submissive, to be educated n self sustain !
Back home since d 5000 thick Asian culture , men usually blue pill to d very extreme in Shanghai area . At least I have 1 uncle and 2 aunts house hold the women r calling d shots ( but they r so kind n d guys actually respect them n enjoying cooperative). Women should never be submissive!
If a man is looking for submissive it shows : 1 he is either childhood major neglect 😮n trauma . He doesn’t know how to emotionally connect ! 2 he is looking for d IMAGE of submissive to validate his above ⬆️ her type of image so he can feel good about himself. Men look who want submissive women will never be fully happy .
I agree 100%
@@Jordanthecool7 Thanks. yeah.. MOST men Want Intelligent/accommodating/kind and workable Partner. When a man who mistake femininity as submissive, its Major red flag. They either watch too much P@rn, n havent dated much, So their Brain Spikes the High with Imaginary Charactor, or they have bad childhood(parents divorce or Dad/mom only worked , neglected on them) that they are looking for that Control-----its cooping mechanism for Safety internally. subquecially they will find someone Submissive but with OTHER BAD traits which will lead to inevitable disconnect and toxic relationship.
They don't love not care.
That's Mills n Boone fantasy
Props to the guys who cold approach and unphased by rejection.. i see pretty girls everywhere and i never approach.. but watching black pill vids tells me that it's not worth it.. the only women that actually hmu are single moms, married women in 40s, or overweight women lol
LMAO TRUE, WE ARE DOOMED
blackpill isnt true tho youre just looking for excuses to stay in your comfort zone and not approach women
Women are approaching you that’s a good sign can’t go wrong with making small talk and taking the interaction from their with women you find attractive
@@ihx7 so they can be entitled and make a game out of it? No thanks.
@@HiCenjoyer lmao you’ve already lost with this kind of mindset not every girl is evil in reality they arent any different than guys
I didn't choose the Black Pill, the Black Pill Chose me
Literally the moment u were born. Your genetics both looks and mental health.
Absolutely sensational. I know I'm a bit late, and I know this may sound cliché or even over-the-top. But now that I've seen several of this dude's videos, I think he might have saved my life. At least my time.
Yep, ladies have much higher standards (longer lists) that must be met towards perfection indeed.
A woman's value is tied to the kind of man she can lock down in marriage, not the kind of man willing to blow her back out. Women conflate the two.
A man's value is how much they get in divorce.
Divorce payouts are an initial part of their motivation
Wheat Waffles back at it again with the 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Keep your standards up Kings! Woman only date up because we allow it! Stop allowing it and know your worth.
I'm south Asian although a westernised national, so I don't have the embarrassing accent or cultural traits etc. And I'm 6"2. BUT I've been bald since I was about 31/32, now I'm almost 39 years old. Here's what's interesting though, I've tested around 7 photos on photofeeler and I've got scores between 6.4 - 8.8. So clearly from that maybe I'm not so bad and this is purely my face (height is not included in the test).
Despite all that though, the reality is that I've been single now for 7 years and still have never had full intercourse despite having had a few relationships when I was younger. My last relationship which was only a few months I had to endure psychological abuse and in the previous one, significant gaslighting. I am worried whether a relationship will ever be a reality.
I've been on dating apps and websites for many years, try and go out to socials and singles events and do still manage to get dates here and there but it's so difficult it seems to find that attraction and connection. Every time it seems the women that express interest in me, I'm not keen on and vice versa, all the girls I like aren't into me.
The only time I find myself with a girlfriend is in my dreams, literally. For a moment overnight I would occasionally experience that feeling of being connected to a woman in that way, only to wake up and realise what is a reality for millions of everyday people is still only a mere fantasy for me.
@Dnomyar Akunawik?
Clearly feel you mate. I'm East Asian and I would say it is a major disadvantage in the West. Interesting thing is that only the odd East Asian chick will match with me like on dating apps and I have absolutely nothing in common because I am fully Westernized. I get rated as a 5 on photofeeler though. Yeah but this is why I stopped considering women and relationships in actions so far. Of course I'm not bitter or negative here. Just being realistic.
@@agoogleuseranonymous2658 Sorry to hear, yes it's very difficult for Asians and as much as I wish I could give up, your urges will make you want to keep trying because you want to believe that one day it might just happen. But as I've got older, the situation becomes more illusive. How old are you??
@@Mike.Cebert I'm 31 but I see this again an again IRL. I think dating apps are shit because it's all looks based. But even IRL I see white attractive women mostly with white dudes. Like he doesn't have to be a Chad or anything. I even spotted sometimes dudes who were balled and ok looking. But they were white and of decent height. I think it's a huge disadvantage.
@@agoogleuseranonymous2658 exactly my point, thank you. I just find it comical how you can't voice these remarks in public because it may appear racist and everyone is so obsessed with virtue signalling. The truth is people generally prefer their own race when it comes to dating. Nothing wrong with it, just how it is. But even then white men are still the most in demand over other men.
To fix the 2nd problem ..magtow makes so much sense
A brutally honest and insightful video. That said, humans are complex, and just when you think you've understood them, including women :), they surprise you. One thing for sure, as a single man, if I believe that my happiness is only found in the love of a great woman I'll be spending far too many years of my life feeling incomplete.
Agreed. Thankfully, men can occupy themselves with so many fulfilling things in this world. There will always be the void of attaining a mate but there will always be hope which helps. Knowing the truth and educating ones self on why women are the way they are can help. Rising above the constructs and box of being a simple minded show human is fulfilling. It takes wanting to know the truth and seeking truths. This is honorable. Wanting to care for others. Having empathy. Maximizing ones self is always a project to tackle as well. Maybe you can get lucky, but if you don't, we'll you knew it wasn't your fault.
Shallow,*
I see my son and his circle of friends from college. They all come from good families, none are ugly, are athletic not nerdy and all are goal oriented majoring in engineering, science or computer tech. The few that have girlfriends are either overweight or are no higher than a 6 out of 10.
This is probably the most important video I've seen on this channel.
Great basis for seeking broader solutions to a civilizational problem.
Who tf would go into card debt for a person
Keep up bro ur content is very individual and i love how objective u handle this topic, greetings from West Germany 🇩🇪
My little brother (9) just asked what I was watching and then read the title. I told him I will clue you in when the time comes. Hopefully he will avoid the mistakes I made in dating 🧠
Hopefully the time will be soon. I found out way too late.
Make sure to get him hgh if he’s below average height but still a teen
Wheat Waffles is in a class by himself.
WW is usually spot on....Notice the only guys who often disagree with him are dating coaches who're trying to sell you something.Dating Coach Alex & Marni are correct that some of their advice & tips can improve a guy's chances of getting laid. But it doesn't change the fact that the whole game is completely rigged against men. I often wonder if Alex realizes just how much the dating/marriage game is rigged against men.I think he has to be at least purple pill, I was purple pill for many many years. Knowing something was really screwed up within the modern dating/marriage system but still in denial of how bad things really were.
The dating/mating game for humans is still very similar to other mammals.....Guy who's fit, strong, with status & smart= attractive. Same guy gets sick/injured, loses status = no longer attractive. Us men can't complain too much unless dealt a really bad hand at birth. Women control the dating sex game but often weren't given the same physical attributes as men at birth. Men, the majority of the time are physically stronger & more capable of doing things like hunting, building shelter, innovation,etc...Many women instead, have to rely on their sex appeal to attract a provider man. To for them what they can't do themselves.
The only people that disagree with Wheat are either Redpill/PUAS, angry simps and women in all honestly.
wtf are you talking about? WW sells coaching sessions for enormous amounts of money, he is the real scam maxxer here. He is also not blackpilled as this video right here shows, he is redpill delsuional
@@SB-nh7uv He has never sold coaching ever?????
i disagree with him and im not a dating coach, just a regular guy who's had a few girlfriends and doesnt think women are animals (there are a lot of us)
@@jamesmohab hahaha are you serious?? we all ARE ANIMALS
heard something called "instinct"? thats what us drives.. both. women and men.
We gave them power. It our fault and our responsibility to take that away again (but it won't happen unfortunately)
Oh, certain countries definitely are trying. 😬
woah there buddy going to the extreme now are we this might be why you get no bitc- no no ill be nice for now
Women should never of been given the vote
Really good content. Liking the direction. Advise keep going in the direction of logical discussions of society!
The best way to live life overall is 1/ to be a man
And 2/ the more you are tall, intelligent, handsome, strong, rich, popular, etc... The better you life become
Man I see my life as a video game, the more I collect all of thoses attributes, the more I can access to new zones, unlock items, etc...
I disagree, that would be a very shallow life and possibly not nearly as great as it sounds
I agree
Why are the good looking girls only blondes u could’ve added a dark haired gorgeous girls
snap was going to say he only puts 8-10s as blondes
A lot of guys have a thing for blondes myself included. On pornhub, blondes is an entire category in its own right! With that being said, blonde hair does not really work on dark skin.
@@addorsubtract650 Ik tahts why I was thinking of dying my hair blonde lmao but I’ll keep that for when I get old. is it light dirty blind or blonde? They look completely different with blonde looking gold rather than brownish striped hair
They usually have boring brown eyes
It's sad but it's natural that the 6+ will get a ONS with CHAD. The bigger problem is that the 5- are getting simped on, so they end with a unrealistic image of theyselfs.
The 10s won't give them the time of day. They start hitting on the 9.
The 9s won't give them the time of day. They start hitting on the 8.
The 8 won't give them the time of day...
So on and so forth.
It's way less inflated for men, but we also try to punch above our weight.
The core difference is that men are ok settling below their weight.
Brasil sil sil
Do you think making a dating apps, with no algorythm and video greetings, and video calls instead of text would change dating apps for the better? Right now the biggest issue is, that women cannot really see how you are as a person. That is especially important when you are average dude
@@vrsinghe right? Ive tried to get developers to add that with no reply. Their business is designed to keep ppl on the apps i found out
Great video. So spot on. I agree 100. You should have 1m subscription. More men need to know this information
Preach my brother wheat! Men everywhere need to be freed from these delusions!
There are so many languages but he chose to speak facts
Even those women who have no car, no job, no stable place to live, with health challenges, and those on SSI
Fellas At this point it doesn’t even matter if women date up or not, 95% of relationships fail and a high percentage end in divorce ANYWAYS, relationships and marriage is officially over, that’s why I never understood this whole idea of “improving” your entire life for the sake of women, for what? broke or rich, you can’t stop what’s Destined to happen, and that’s her leaving you, guys should ONLY improve for themselves and to get laid or potentially have kids with a decent woman if you “want them” which i don’t want, or marriage, it’s a scam. At the end of the day improving your life will still end in the same result regards to these modern women, it might make your life easier and smoother but it will be the same in the end, so you might as well do it for yourself.
women only date up even though they are 2 or 3/10.
Because Chad and Tyrone who can't compete with guys with money who may also be Chad's and Tyrone's SLUM IT with them boosts their ego.
This man deserves all the subscribers he's getting. Honestly.
No surprise here but it's great to hear the facts and logic - things our society greatly lacks these days.
Point 5) If the man's overseas job opportunity results in him making a lot more money, why would the woman leave him? They have already been together for 10 years, and things have just started to improve. Let's instead of $75k a year he's now making $150k a year, that's a massive upgrade in available resources for the household.
Great content as always.
If you are in a relationship pay particular attention to how your girlfriend/wife introduces you...
1) this is ____ , he's a doctor / lawyer / CEO - she is with you for your status. Do not lose your job or she will leave you.
2) this is my handsome husband _____ isn't he gorgeous? She is with you as your looks are above hers. Do not lose your looks or she will leave you.
3) this is my wonderful husband _____ , he's so kind to me! He is actually taking the kids and I to Disney land next month. She's with you for money and resources.
That's my 2 cents - work out her most important part of why she's with you and keep it. If you know you're going to lose it, expect her to go.
I used to be infatuated with 3 women in my workplace. Then they started dating Chad's and I ended up ignoring them 3 completely. Hence why I chose the redpill in 2016 and never looked back.
well, you are perfectly at the right place here because this clown only gives you delusional redpill cope lol
And the red pill would make you believe ignoring them would work, haha. How'd that go?
@@Nick-cp8wf Dude, wanna try to assimilate that he decided to not waste HIS time with and for them? It's so simple \o/
Whats redpill
@@rinreborn7364 literally on the cover page of this WW’s channel
Women somehow live longer than men on average but women lose fertility earlier than men.
it's been explained
women have lower body mass than men, fewere cells mean fewer chance of getting cancer.
their xx chromosome gives them superior immune systems, in the past women didnt smoke or dink as much as men, women eat fewer protein than men, women in the past were exposed to less environmental hazards than men , so hence why their life expectancy is typically higher than men. now why their fertility is shorter window is because of their eggs. they stop ovulating after a certain point.
Par😮asites
You cannot change the mindset of women, even when they are over 40 and had their kids (cannot have any more kids) Divorced, They still want a man with all of the Sixes, even though they do not need to biologically need the requirement anymore for reproduction
Laughter, I never thought about doing anything I don't care about women.
It's good that I gave up on it. Damn how happy I am.
We gotta wake up the simps, stop shelling out money to these girls for nothing, stop promoting them stop watching them. If you know a simp call them out
Simps ruin the market. Look at China. An ugly poor woman can marry up to a very wealthy guy.