How We Dated as Christians // Courtship, Boundaries, and Being Intentional
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- Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025
- When I was single it was super important for me to see other godly couples and hear their stories. I was encouraged that there were people trying to do it God’s way. I wanted us to share our story to encourage any other unmarried peoples who are wishing to date now or in the future. Godly men (and women) DO EXIST!
Again, this is not meant to be THE WAY you should date as a Christian, this was just our experience. In this video, we share what we enjoyed about dating as well as things we wish we would have done differently. Dating, courting, whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God! Follow Jesus, He is THE WAY. Love you!
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“For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge-that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.”
Ephesians 3:14-21
#christiandating #courtship #boundaries
“Don’t finish in the flesh what God started in the Spirit”. Love this!
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Yaaaasssss and Amen!!! Gosh! This is exactly what I had to make a conscious decision to do, although it was hard! But God let your will be done. I'm relying on You to finish what You have started.
Us: We're not giving advice
Also Us: Gives all the advice
Every dating story is unique! Follow Jesus and He will lead you the way you should walk in. Do you have any dating questions for us for a Q&A video?
Would God ever have you marry someone who once dated your relative?
This is a wonderful conversation. Do you have advice about family and parental involvement/guidance/ acceptance/ recommendation in Christian dating?
What’s your advice to couples who haven’t been obedient? Do you believe they’re meant for each other or should they seek others and start anew?
Do you think even quicker engagements are better... that if you truly believe the Lord has brought you together that you know and that’s enough to marry quickly?
Also if it’s appropriate and you’re comfortable, would you touch on some of the things in your marriage that you say were rough?
And would Sudan talk about marriage from a man’s perspective, what he would like, what he sees with women now, his successes, desires and challenges.
Sudan touched on men and the issue of infidelity during and after a wife’s pregnancy. Would you share your conversations with men, red flags, advice to women, practical ways in marriage for women (communication styles, love languages, careers, parenting, sex, balancing time, issues with money, etc.)
How did you manage during the pandemic lockdown? How did it affect your marriage? How do you “argue?”
Lol loads of questions.
Hope this is helpful.
Blessings
Dealing with finances? What you wish you knew before dating or marriage?
Can you share more about the pre-marital counseling process from eachs' perspective?
I love the way you don't cut off your husband while he's talking. Your character is beautiful ❤️
Come on with the boundaries! 🙌🏾 You know you!! Not trying to create an environment for failure. What is we doing?? Either we're dating for marriage or not at all! Love it😊 now let me finish watching the video lol.
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Yes!!!
When he hit that “Pure Flix and chill”…bruh 😆🤚🏾
This video on Christian courtship was soooo good. I wish more couples could hear this before making a decision to court looking to be married to each other or move on and wait for that right person. My husband and I could have used this info to help us. Keep the videos coming. You too are such a blessing.
I need friends like y'all!! I don't know other fellow millennials who are that sold out for Christ!! Would be great to have that community 🙌!! God continue to bless you guys to keep shining for him, everywhere you go, unapologetically, in Jesus name!!
@ Marveline B, What area do you live in?…. I know of several churches in the Hampton Roads area of VA that have plenty of millennials…
y’all need a podcast ! this video was so so insightful. as someone who is currently in an intentional year of singleness, I’m loving and learning so much from these types of videos.
Lol 😂 this is an arranged marriage. Lord is the greatest matchmaker. Lord arrange for me. Amen
And I will come back and testify
In Jesus name amen!
Lol she’s so real I love her.
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Great video! Great advice! Inspiring!
My boyfriend and I are coming out of a brief separation. This time around, I will remain celibate until I am a wife. I felt God calling me to this position during my times of prayer and conversations with Him during our separation. He and I will have a conversation about this matter very soon. Praying for God's will to be done.
You both have given me encouragement.
Thank you.
This was sooo good. I love the journey of how you courted one another, including God in your process and admittedly saying how some issues of lust did surface, but, yet y’all maintained the absence of sexual activity. I know that was hard. We can all say, what we won’t do while in singleness, can you maintain when he or she starts connecting with you in courting. Again, this was so much needed in today’s world. Please continue this dialogue with all of us.
Thank you both so much for sharing, & the input you bring for "the community" to consider as we're being lead by the Lord. I understand God's way is right! God bless you; sincerely, with the Love of Christ.
Wow! This is exactly where in at in life right now. Im not interested in any games and wasting the rest of my youth with a guy that doesnt know what he wants or where hes going. Im 28 and im absolutely not interested in wasting anymore of my time. I needed this video so much.
Oh I feel you! I’m 25 and living with my partner but we have both just become Christians. He is always playing ps4 and I really struggle to know if this relationship is what God wants for me, we are both now being celibate for marriage but it’s not easy when the relationship didn’t start with God.
@@lauramannyvlogs6675 yea i understand your situation because i was in the exact same one plus we had a child. But as i realized that the person i was dealing with wasnt willing to change and follow the Lord with me, thats when i knew that a decision had to be made. I loved that person alot and wanted our family to work but i began to watch Christian advised videos on youtube and i was very convicted. I knew the life i wanted to live and that was following God and not following my sin anymore so i left and temptation did come and i did fall many times back into sin but God delivered me from that sinful path and now im completely free from that life i was living and im currently now living an abstinent life from sexual immortality and im waiting on the husband i know God has for me. Its a struggle at times being single but theres no going wrong with waiting on the one God has for me.
@@jeanstoudemire9178 Thank you so much for sharing that! God will surely bring you the right Husband for you. That must have been really tough going through that. Thankfully my partner has submitted his life to God as well and he is starting to righteously. Before we became Christian’s only a month ago, the past 3 years we would fight a lot and our relationship was very toxic at times, that’s why now as a new Christian I’m praying for God to reveal to me how to renew our relationship and if he is the right man for me to marry. God has already been transforming our relationship so much with patience for each other and kindness and abstinence.
I looooved seing the throwback pictures. They were just as beautiful as your love story. So much beauty and joy in this video! Thanks for sharing.
I’m glad I discovered this channel, I know God led me here. I’ve been told I’m intense for setting such boundaries and wanting something pure, so ima wait for husband.
One word: MATURITY❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for that Collossian verse❤️ Church NEED it today❤️❤️❤️
This is so encouraging and a confirmation to be Christ-focused. This is absolutely beautiful.
I wish I still had that kind of optimism, but I feel it's faded over the past year especially after the one I thought would marry turned from God and left me as well :/ but I hope and pray someday that God will help me find the right one and that the fire I once had will start again.
Mark 11:23
"Truly I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them.”
Keep focused! God got you!
Brother Sudan how you kidnapped for two videos in 1 week? Lol. Alyssa this is a great video. Christian dating can be difficult especially if you the “Christian” partner is not on the same level of growth spiritually.
I have learned to not even look anymore cuz these fellas out be “claiming “ they are Christians yet not practicing purity. It’s hard out here. But I’m hopeful like you my sister. With God, all things are possible. Shout out to you guys and May God bless your unit on.
Brother Sudan, I applaud you making the change you needed to make to make this Godly mirrage glory to God. Glory!
So nice to see and hear a man with a HEART for God, and a desire to hear, listen to and serve Him 🙌🏿 Praise the Lord!!
So much “WISDOM”!!! Christ centered Love Story! SO SWEET! I love how honest you both were, nothing more valuable then personal testimonies. Living this story. Thank You for sharing. The Pureness of a God Centered relationship. To God Be The Glory!
I'm glad I stumbled upon this channel. This blesses me, my pregnancy and my marriage. Thank you. Keep em coming.
I love you guys! Thank for your sharing. When I was not sure if I wanted to marry my now husband. I watched one of your video, you have a similar dating story of mine. I choose to give him a chance and now we are happily married :D
I loved this, is like holy Spirit was like listen to your brother and sister, I am preparing you. God bless you all 😇🙏
Very much Needed! I am in a friendship/ relationship now that’s been going on for 3 years. I’m 20 he’s 21, he has the right mind set about marriage but lack of maturity and discipline to carry out what that looks like. I’ve prayed for God to literally take him away , but for some reason he’s always there fighting for what we have. Christian dating is a challenge and I am very thankful for you guys being so transparent.
AMEN!! PRAISE GOD! Such a Godly couple. I enjoyed this video tremendously!
This video is such a blessing! I was smiling the whole time. May God continue to bless and protect your union 😍😍😍
Sounds like a Blessed relationship!
Love that you shared in order to encourage others that there are Godly relationships out there! 😍 We also started our channel after my coworker heard our love story and encouraged us to pray about sharing online to encourage others to seek out Christ-centered relationships! It is crazy how much we have in common!! Marc also used the word “courtship” which is the same as what I understand to be “Christian dating” - to discern marriage. And we also talked about saving the first kiss until marriage right away!! And tried to do ministry together right away!! So encouraged to hear about your relationship 😍😄
So cool! There are good "rules" too. The word says that even the APPEARANCE of sin is wrong because we are to guard our testimony so it is wise to never be alone in a setting that could be misunderstood. Y'all did good. Thank you for discussing this. All singles, young and old should conduct themselves in this manner when courting. 👏
SO GOOD! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL STORY!
I’m so happy you posted this video. ❤️
Hi Alyssa! This video came at the perfect time as this addressed or gave me a sense of direction for my current relationship. God really highlighted so many things as the two of you were talking.
I just want to add also that I’m so happy for you and proud of your growth. God has used you so much and your life is literally a ministry of showcasing the glory and provision of God.
You are a testament to all God can do and will do for those that are called according to his purpose and to those that truly submit to him and his will. Here we all are bearing witness at the orchestration of Gods hand in your life!
God bless you and I can’t wait to see more of your growth x
Awwwww 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰… I would love the discussion about the female friends/ male friends prior to marriage and after 🤔🤔🤔🤔 ….
Girl, your husband is sooo wise. God bless y’all and God bless y’all for practicing The Wait.
This is sooo amazing! Your husband reminds me of Russell Wilson
"This was an arranged marriage." 🤣 🤣. I can't stop laughing
Mariam, come and see your RUclips mum!
This is a blessing!!! Thank you Wonderful Acts
Definitely a blessing! Learnt a whole lot.
This is super off topic, but Alyssa I really love your nose. It’s so pretty 😂❤️
Blessed Love. Preciate Yall for sharing your story.
I love this so much ❤️❤️❤️ I can’t wait for the Lord to give me my husband 🥺
That was great! Thank you so much sharing your story with us!! Very helpfjl.
Perfect timing !!
Thank you for sharing! 🙌🏾
And they say Godly man with good intentions do not. Thank you for sharing this video.💕
Wow submission “to get under the mission” that’s a word! HELLO!!! ❤️
Watched near enough the whole video with a smile on my face because the Lord himself knows how much I desire to enter into a courtship in my next relationship.
I didn’t even know what a courtship was until I came across your channel so you video(s) have been really insightful.
I really enjoyed hearing from yours & your husbands perspective. I appreciate you both taking the time out to keep it real get into it lol.
May God continue to bless your family in Jesus name 🙏🏽🤍
You all’s boundaries remind me of my husband and I during courtship!!! 💕 I love it!!!
All the “In another video” I hope that you do record all of them! This was such a great video 👍🏽
I am so thankful for this channel... every video you make is so encouraging....
Love you two! Great role models!
YOU GUYS WERE ALWAYS BEAUTRIFUL BUT THE MOST HIGH GOD IS MAKING US ALL MORE BEAUTIFULE VERY DAY AND YOU TOO ARE FIRE DON'T STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SORRY RUSHED THAT.
This is wisdom. Thank you❤
This was so helpful!! Thank you guys for sharing! 😊
Yes to the series keep them coming sis😊👏we love you all
Beautiful video. Thank you. Blessings to you and your children.
So beautiful 🥰🥰
May God continue to bless your family and marriage 🙌🏽
If you are reading this May this be your portion and even more 🙌🏽🙏🏾
Excited!🥰
I wish you both & your family all the best. Relationship are not easy married or not.Thank you for sharing your story. I enjoyed it 😍👍🎉🎁
I liked all of the pictures you inserted of you & your hubby. ❤😊
Love this video ❤
Love this!
Oh yah first comment:)
Wonderful video, and incredible story. Thank you for sharing!! God bless you both 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Thank you for sharing the weak moments. I feel that it was important to mention the sexual attraction.. Especially from when you shared that before, he was more like a “brother” and that you were not attracted to him initially. Sex is apart of marriage and I could only imagine how difficult It would be to engage with someone, whom you view as a bother/ without that attraction…
Some people in the Lord would like to say that, sexual attraction towards your betrothed is sinful and that one is in the flesh… But God created sex, therefore he also created the desire……To your point… desire not Controlled by the Holy Spirit definitely leads to lust. It’s important how we decide to conduct ourselves after the desire is noticed and it helps the relationship when you both agree to purity.
Loved the video!!! If possible, could you lower the music in the video as it was hard to focus on what you both were saying. x
Goals ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽
Great topics: I appreciate your transparency! Love your love for each other. Can you guys do more videos like this? Also?, what other things are women & men to look for in a mate in God?
Praise GOD! Amen!
First time on your channel and I watched till the end! Great video, I was blessed
I loved this video. Thank you for your honesty and transparency 💜
This was really good guys!!
Love this. Thank you for this
Sister, you are beautiful ❤️
Loved this!! Thanks for sharing!
Watching from zambia 🇿🇲
So excited to watch this!!🤍🤍🤍 you guys make a wonderful couple🤗
You guys are so cute ! Like the Chemistry and the God Love !
Thank you! 😊
I love you guys!!!
Any recommendations on books to read in dating?
The mom and man thing is REAL!! Do not IGNORE ladies 🚩🚩🚩🚩
To say the least; Christian marriages are sweet. The best in love is finding your soulmate ❤🎉
I think y'all should start a church. Sudan would be a great pastor and Alissa, a great first lady!
Leave folk alone. This IS MINISTRY.
Me: God if they not the one close the door
*gets ghosted with a quickness*
Me: oh ok... every time 😭
❤️✨☁️🦋
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The obedience that the both of you had and have is astounding. Thank you for displaying that it is possible to date under God also that there are men who can resist temptation and respect and view a womans body as well as his own as a temple .🙏