I have been watching you for so long and I cannot tell you how precious of a mother I think you are. Everything you shared is how all mothers feel at some point, they just don’t talk about it, but thank you for being so open and transparent! You are a wonderful mother and nova and mila are so blessed to have you.
I can so relate. After recurrent miscarriages, all the hard baby stuff was gladly accepted with my first born and we were on cloud nine. I wanted 10 kids! My second came along and it completely rocked my world. She had some health issues and didn't sleep much and it was so hard. That was almost 5 years ago and, looking back, I would hug myself and remind that overwhelmed mama that this season will eventually pass and life will look different. I'm glad we're through it. And our family is complete with 2 kiddos. Hang in there 💜
As a mom of 4 (big kiddos) I definitely say that 1 to 2 is the hardest. Everything doubles. After that, just tag them on the end and go haha. Love does not divide, it multiples ❤️ It is hard, but when you look back it goes in a flash. You don't have to be a perfect mommy, you are a present mommy and that is ALL that matters!
You are a wonderful, patient, loving mother. Looking after little children is so hard. My youngest is 1 month older than Mila and I think I had mild depression between the age of 10-12 months, just before I returned to work. That feeling of them always being on you is so hard and the sleep issues are frustrating. You are not alone. You are doing so great. I honestly watch you and think what a fantastic mum you are xxx
As a now grandma i understand your frustration, you running on empty, i was fortunate enough to have all my babies, 3, sleeping through the night, i know if they hadn't i would lose it, i know how much your sleep affects your whole life, your days with you children, being tired is the worst. So happy she is now finally sleeping through the night, to be commended for that, but as i get older and am enjoying my grandchildren, i know that life is difficult and rewarding raising your babies, but i would give it all back to do it again, i miss the baby days and the toddler days alot, time flies and please enjoy them, they grow up so quickly. You are a great mom and the girls are blessed to have you. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Ayla, thank you so much for talking about this. This has also been my experience, you aren't alone. This is the best yet hardest job ever. I find so much shame can show up with experiencing frustration with our kids. Ive accepted that frustration will show up and I cant judge myself for that, and want to always respond the best I can. Take care of you, you're doing an amazing job with your girls!
I felt this all deep in my soul. Sleep is everything! My first born was a horrible horrible sleeper, so when my second came along I was so used to no sleep it was an “easy” transition. But those days when they both needed me at the exact same time… I cried. Constantly. I felt the frustration, the guilt, the anger, the sadness just a whole whirlwind of emotions. So everything you said and experienced is so valid and so on point when you have kids, and especially kids who are not great sleepers. Now that my son is 4 & my daughter is 3, it’s easier because everyone sleeps through the night. But being over stimulated is on a whole other level. You’re doing an amazing job Ayla ♥️ even tho we may not feel like we are… we’re giving it our best and that’s what matters. Big hugs!
Awwww. I started watching you when I was going through this time of motherhood.. newborn, 2 and 4 years old. Your fertility journey gave me much needed perspective. Your journey is amazing. Give yourself GRACE Mamma.
Oof this is very real to me! Pausing to comment and take a breather because hearing you talk through these challenges is like hearing myself talk out loud. And I didn’t expect it to be so emotional! 0-1 kids for me was the same - I cherished every single moment, and no challenge felt to big to conquer. 1-2 I still cherished every moment, but I cherished it with very full hands and a very chaotic brain that was consumed by trying to give both my kids everything they need from me, but also a brain that has been extremely starved of sleep for months on end. My second is 16 months now, and we’ve just had a brutal winter of relentless sickness in Australia, and with every new sickness his sleep goes to crap again. It’s not his fault. But my goodness, those feelings of rage after settling for hours and laying him down in the cot, only for him to wake again (especially when my husband’s on night shift and I have no back up!) feel so hard to overcome. Lots of walking out of the room. Lots of quiet crying in his room in the middle of the night. We’re still not through this season. But it’s very encouraging to hear I’m not alone, though I wouldn’t wish the trials of this stage on anyone! This age and stage has SO much joy, there is so much to be thankful for and so many wonderful moments. But reflecting on the hard stuff helps. So thank you! x
Ayla I FEEL this. I didn't even know PPA and PPR were a thing before I had a baby. It made me feel SO much better to find a couple people who also suffered from it and to know that I wasn't alone. You hear so much about PPD and NOTHING about PPA and PPR. I wish it was more widely discussed. Thank you for sharing this. I get not wanting to share at the time because you are worried about judgement, or if voicing it will make it more real or worse or whatever. I also BF for a long time (19 months) and I GET the guilt/sadness vs the pride. Good for you Mama. You are doing a GREAT job. I'm proud of you!
Tearing up myself as I listen. My babies are almost the exact same age as yours. The rage is so hard for me, because it’s immediately followed by debilitating self shame and guilt, and the cycle continues. Sleeplessness is the hardest hurdle in.. life, I’m sure of it. You’re amazing for getting through it and I’m sure you did it with much more grace than you give yourself credit for. You’re doing so great. 💗 thank you for being so relatable here, it’s so reassuring for all other mamas who inevitably feel the same.
Being a mother, is so hard. Always busy doing anything and everything! Losing sleep, do do do. I think you're a wonderful person and mother. I respect you so much. You're not Alone ever. The house always looks so tidy, clean and well kept. The girls are so happy. In the end it's what matters the most. I love your videos. I love watching the girls. Your an inspiration. Bless your family. Daugherty WPB FLORIDA.
You are a beautiful soul and a wonderful mother. Thank you for having the courage to voice the struggles so many of us face. Your strength gave reassurance to so many other mothers letting us know we aren’t alone and that it’s okay to have those struggles. You’re doing an amazing job, please don’t ever doubt yourself, it’s clear how loved your girls know they are ❤️
I just have to say I relate to EVERY word you said! With a 1 year old I am nursing and a 4 year old. Having your body be a jungle gym at all times and the guilt of not always enjoying it. Having 2 is so hard but of course so amazing all the love as well! Have been following your journey and wish you all the best from Los Angeles 😘
I've been going through a rough patch myself. My son is almost one year old and we breastfeed all the time. All night long (we co-sleep) and it's draining sometimes when you don't have any help. It's also not good for my mental health having used to have a high paying career and now I'm a stay at home mom. It's like I've lost my confidence, a lot of my pride in who I am as a person. I don't have any hobbies or interests anymore. All I am is mommy.
That’s so hard. Know that your job of raising your baby is the most important thing you’ve ever done. Don’t neglect yourself, make time for things you love, but also remember this season is short. It won’t always feel like this. Hang in there. ❤️
Same here! My daughter just turned 3. And I always thought I would go back to work. My work was who I was my whole life and I had a high paying job. Then Covid hit and I ended up being a stay at home mom for 3 years. I have lost all the other parts of me other than being a mama. And don't get me wrong: I LOVE being a mom. It's the best feeling in the world. But I am struggling how to get the other parts of me back now.
Aw, Mama. I'm right there with you. I have an 11month old and a 3 year old. I had an absolute meltdown this morning because I'm just so done. I do evenings alone and I'm just falling apart. You are so not alone. Thank you for sharing, I really needed to hear this today, and praying for more restful nights!! 💞
Oh sweet ayla 🥰 so many nights so many other mamas have been there and felt all the things you have... I'm so glad you made this video so you could see all the mamas that are saying the same thing! You are such a great mom and I love watching your journey
Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s so real and I have had this exact experience and those exact feelings and when I’m in the thick of it it feels that everyone else’s babies sleep is not such a big deal and I’m the only mom obsessed with this because it directly impacts my sleep too and we’ll you can’t function on no sleep. Glad Mila is now doing better and keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤍
Been there still doing it lol but it got a little better after I put my kids in school for 3 hours a day. They love it and are learning so much plus play with other children while I get time to work peacefully from home or sometimes I do nice things for myself like get my nails done. At first I had guilt about it but then I saw how much it helped my mental health and it helped me to become a better mom
I completely understand EVERYTHING you're saying. Thank you for sharing because mom's don't always feel like they can speak openly and honestly about the realities of mothering. You're not alone❤️
The sleep deprivation.. it’s just not ok haha. You are not alone. And honestly I truly give you so much amazing credit for being at home with them all day. I work full time, and while I’m EXHAUSTED because I have two not so great sleepers (ugh), at least I have two separate worlds a bit. At work I can enjoy coffee in quiet, go to the bathroom myself.. but happy Mila is sleeping now because that’s such a big change
Transitions are so tough! I have a 3 year old and a 7 month old and going from 1 to 2 was definitely a challenge. I combo-fed my 2nd for 6 months (low supply), and like you, can't recall our last nursing session since he just stopped wanting to. Also a bit sad about it but super proud to have made it 6 months! Be easy on yourself; you're doing amazing!
I have a 1 year old just turned 3 year old and currently about to have my 3rd in 3 days. Sometimes I wonder how I will manage everything, but I know I got it. Totally felt everything in this video!
Oh mama! Sending you so many hugs! You are not alone! Our children are 9, 5 and 3 and I went through same thing with them when the babies were around your babies ages. It is just starting to get better over here now that they are both more independent and not tugging and screaming at me all day. You are such a great mother and those babies adore you! Also, it’s ok to be angry. No one ever told me that so I would always feel so guilty when I would want to scream and cry and lock my self in my closet. But it’s ok. Be angry, safely express your frustration and get help whenever you can. Now that we have three kids I’ve learned that each day is like a day at the beach.. in the ocean.. with the waves.. just ride the waves. Sometimes the water will be calm but a few minutes later you get hit by a big wave. It’s the ocean, you can’t predict or control the waves. Just ride them. I’ll be riding them with you from a far along with the rest of the mamas of the world. Sending so much love your way!
Thank you for sharing Ayla cause no sleep through the night for our babies is so hard. For me anxiety would hit once the sun set as I knew I had to attend a lot throughout night (aka rocking for 30 minutes plus x2) Much love
I could have spoken this myself! So touched out, overwhelmed and exhausted by two and extended breastfeeding. Feel like a dreadful mum as I have to brace myself for every time I have to pick them up and expend energy. Being an introvert and getting no breaks even at night with dread of wake ups and having to spend hours feeding has been one of the harder phases of my life. I love having a newborn and now seeing them bond and play but it’s been a lot too. Proud to get to 11 months feeding but loving the space and extra sleep! Congrats mummy and thanks for being open xx
Hang in there! I think training Mila to 1 nap a day will do wonders for her sleep at night. She will be so tired, that I bet she will sleep more at night. My babies both started sleeping through the night when we transitioned them from 2 naps to 1. Best of luck! :)
The sleep deprivation really got to me too with my first daughter, I patiently waited after the first year, but after that it really got to me. Thankfully she sleeps now without problems, but now I'm pregnant and a little worried about my second one, with hopes that she will sleep better
Please know you are not alone. I feel like this a lot, and it’s not easy to explain to others because of the fear of being judged. Thank you for sharing. 💜
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us...you should be super proud of your beautiful self. I believe most Mothers/parents experience what you did..I know I sure did. If at all possible try and give your self alittle time in the day when it is about you...xxxxx
Ayla, I totally feel you. I just became a mom of 2 as well, and I have a serious age gap between my two kids...my son is 11 and a half and my daughter is going to be 4 and a half months old on the 30th of this month. Having a baby at 36 is hard. I am now 37 years old, and there times when I get frustrated because of the lack of sleep and starting all over again. Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this
Hey Ayla, I just want to say that I really appreciate your honesty here. I completely emphasize and have been there too. You're an amazing woman and mama.
Me too. I have had blood work done to see if there’s any explanation as to why I feel so crappy and tired and dizzy all the time. Dr suspects it’s maybe just sleep deprivation. I’ve had two babies in a short time and have either been pregnant and/or nursing for the past almost 4 years. My 9 month old is still up anywhere from 2-6 times at night too. It’s a lot sometimes.
I feel you so much! I’m currently 33 weeks pregnant with my 3rd and I have a 5yo and a 3yo. I’m so worried about how I’m going to get everything done in the day, be a good wife and still do things for myself. You are not alone 💕💕
I always related so much to your videos! I’m feeling so overwhelmed lately as well. I have an almost 9 month old IVF rainbow baby and have been exclusively pumping and so tempted to stop because im just so exhausted. But want him to have milk up to a year.
I understand you completely being a mother is all consuming and the feelings experienced are real. I am glad you focused on your family and let go of content. I al sure we all miss you (i do!) but your health and needs are more important! I am a sahm and I personally don’t work outside of my mothering responsibilities. That’s what works for me. :)
Thank you for sharing Ayla ❤️ We are expecting our second child in December this year which will make me a mum of 2u2. Everyday I sit in fear and worry of how I will cope 😱😭 I truly hope everything will turn out alright and I don't let baby sleep take over my life. I know how it feels to always be worrying about naps and sleep too.
Lack of sleep will make us feel all sorts of things. You did the right thing by placing her down and giving yourself space to breathe. You're not alone, Mama! I have 2 boys that are 20 months apart. It gets better, I promise you! 💜
I totally had this with my son who is now 8. Dana obleman (sleep sense expert) was a life saver for me. She talks sense but in a lovely non judgment way. She had/has? RUclips videos.
I found going from 2 to 3 kids was easier then 1 to 2 as the older 2 were able to occupy each other a little more during the day freeing me up for the baby a little more then with only 2 kids
Take care of yourself and your family first. We’ll be here whenever you choose to pop in. Life is too short not to spend it with your littles as top priority.
My daughter always confused day and night i think i spent 4 years sleeping during the day and being awake at night until she started school at 4 which was just a week ago lol
I have been watching you for so long and I cannot tell you how precious of a mother I think you are. Everything you shared is how all mothers feel at some point, they just don’t talk about it, but thank you for being so open and transparent! You are a wonderful mother and nova and mila are so blessed to have you.
I can so relate. After recurrent miscarriages, all the hard baby stuff was gladly accepted with my first born and we were on cloud nine. I wanted 10 kids! My second came along and it completely rocked my world. She had some health issues and didn't sleep much and it was so hard. That was almost 5 years ago and, looking back, I would hug myself and remind that overwhelmed mama that this season will eventually pass and life will look different. I'm glad we're through it. And our family is complete with 2 kiddos. Hang in there 💜
As a mom of 4 (big kiddos) I definitely say that 1 to 2 is the hardest. Everything doubles. After that, just tag them on the end and go haha. Love does not divide, it multiples ❤️ It is hard, but when you look back it goes in a flash. You don't have to be a perfect mommy, you are a present mommy and that is ALL that matters!
You are a wonderful, patient, loving mother. Looking after little children is so hard. My youngest is 1 month older than Mila and I think I had mild depression between the age of 10-12 months, just before I returned to work. That feeling of them always being on you is so hard and the sleep issues are frustrating. You are not alone. You are doing so great. I honestly watch you and think what a fantastic mum you are xxx
As a now grandma i understand your frustration, you running on empty, i was fortunate enough to have all my babies, 3,
sleeping through the night, i know if they hadn't i would lose it, i know how much your sleep affects your whole life, your
days with you children, being tired is the worst. So happy she is now finally sleeping through the night, to be commended
for that, but as i get older and am enjoying my grandchildren, i know that life is difficult and rewarding raising your babies,
but i would give it all back to do it again, i miss the baby days and the toddler days alot, time flies and please enjoy them,
they grow up so quickly. You are a great mom and the girls are blessed to have you. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Ayla, thank you so much for talking about this. This has also been my experience, you aren't alone. This is the best yet hardest job ever. I find so much shame can show up with experiencing frustration with our kids. Ive accepted that frustration will show up and I cant judge myself for that, and want to always respond the best I can. Take care of you, you're doing an amazing job with your girls!
I felt this all deep in my soul. Sleep is everything! My first born was a horrible horrible sleeper, so when my second came along I was so used to no sleep it was an “easy” transition. But those days when they both needed me at the exact same time… I cried. Constantly. I felt the frustration, the guilt, the anger, the sadness just a whole whirlwind of emotions. So everything you said and experienced is so valid and so on point when you have kids, and especially kids who are not great sleepers. Now that my son is 4 & my daughter is 3, it’s easier because everyone sleeps through the night. But being over stimulated is on a whole other level. You’re doing an amazing job Ayla ♥️ even tho we may not feel like we are… we’re giving it our best and that’s what matters. Big hugs!
Awwww. I started watching you when I was going through this time of motherhood.. newborn, 2 and 4 years old. Your fertility journey gave me much needed perspective. Your journey is amazing. Give yourself GRACE Mamma.
Oof this is very real to me! Pausing to comment and take a breather because hearing you talk through these challenges is like hearing myself talk out loud. And I didn’t expect it to be so emotional! 0-1 kids for me was the same - I cherished every single moment, and no challenge felt to big to conquer. 1-2 I still cherished every moment, but I cherished it with very full hands and a very chaotic brain that was consumed by trying to give both my kids everything they need from me, but also a brain that has been extremely starved of sleep for months on end. My second is 16 months now, and we’ve just had a brutal winter of relentless sickness in Australia, and with every new sickness his sleep goes to crap again. It’s not his fault. But my goodness, those feelings of rage after settling for hours and laying him down in the cot, only for him to wake again (especially when my husband’s on night shift and I have no back up!) feel so hard to overcome. Lots of walking out of the room. Lots of quiet crying in his room in the middle of the night. We’re still not through this season. But it’s very encouraging to hear I’m not alone, though I wouldn’t wish the trials of this stage on anyone! This age and stage has SO much joy, there is so much to be thankful for and so many wonderful moments. But reflecting on the hard stuff helps. So thank you! x
Well done for being honest about your struggles you’re doing the best you can your a great mom
Ayla I FEEL this. I didn't even know PPA and PPR were a thing before I had a baby. It made me feel SO much better to find a couple people who also suffered from it and to know that I wasn't alone. You hear so much about PPD and NOTHING about PPA and PPR. I wish it was more widely discussed. Thank you for sharing this. I get not wanting to share at the time because you are worried about judgement, or if voicing it will make it more real or worse or whatever. I also BF for a long time (19 months) and I GET the guilt/sadness vs the pride.
Good for you Mama. You are doing a GREAT job. I'm proud of you!
Tearing up myself as I listen. My babies are almost the exact same age as yours. The rage is so hard for me, because it’s immediately followed by debilitating self shame and guilt, and the cycle continues. Sleeplessness is the hardest hurdle in.. life, I’m sure of it. You’re amazing for getting through it and I’m sure you did it with much more grace than you give yourself credit for. You’re doing so great. 💗 thank you for being so relatable here, it’s so reassuring for all other mamas who inevitably feel the same.
Being a mother, is so hard. Always busy doing anything and everything! Losing sleep, do do do. I think you're a wonderful person and mother. I respect you so much. You're not Alone ever. The house always looks so tidy, clean and well kept. The girls are so happy. In the end it's what matters the most. I love your videos. I love watching the girls. Your an inspiration. Bless your family. Daugherty WPB FLORIDA.
You are a beautiful soul and a wonderful mother. Thank you for having the courage to voice the struggles so many of us face. Your strength gave reassurance to so many other mothers letting us know we aren’t alone and that it’s okay to have those struggles. You’re doing an amazing job, please don’t ever doubt yourself, it’s clear how loved your girls know they are ❤️
I just have to say I relate to EVERY word you said! With a 1 year old I am nursing and a 4 year old. Having your body be a jungle gym at all times and the guilt of not always enjoying it. Having 2 is so hard but of course so amazing all the love as well! Have been following your journey and wish you all the best from Los Angeles 😘
Thanks for talking about this! Having a non-sleeping baby is so hard!! Both my kids weren't the best sleepers either. So I know, and I feel you!
I've been going through a rough patch myself. My son is almost one year old and we breastfeed all the time. All night long (we co-sleep) and it's draining sometimes when you don't have any help. It's also not good for my mental health having used to have a high paying career and now I'm a stay at home mom. It's like I've lost my confidence, a lot of my pride in who I am as a person. I don't have any hobbies or interests anymore. All I am is mommy.
That’s so hard.
Know that your job of raising your baby is the most important thing you’ve ever done. Don’t neglect yourself, make time for things you love, but also remember this season is short. It won’t always feel like this. Hang in there. ❤️
Hey I’m going through exact same thing 😥
Same here! My daughter just turned 3. And I always thought I would go back to work. My work was who I was my whole life and I had a high paying job. Then Covid hit and I ended up being a stay at home mom for 3 years. I have lost all the other parts of me other than being a mama. And don't get me wrong: I LOVE being a mom. It's the best feeling in the world. But I am struggling how to get the other parts of me back now.
Aw, Mama. I'm right there with you. I have an 11month old and a 3 year old. I had an absolute meltdown this morning because I'm just so done. I do evenings alone and I'm just falling apart. You are so not alone. Thank you for sharing, I really needed to hear this today, and praying for more restful nights!! 💞
Praying for more restful evenings/nights for you!
I have an 11 month old and 3 year old too and it’s exhausting..I feel you mama ❤️
Thank you for sharing! Our daughter is one month older than Mila, and we’ve been struggling with sleep.
I had a pp rage too and it’s not talked about and can feel so horrible ! I’m glad u talked about it
Oh sweet ayla 🥰 so many nights so many other mamas have been there and felt all the things you have... I'm so glad you made this video so you could see all the mamas that are saying the same thing! You are such a great mom and I love watching your journey
Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s so real and I have had this exact experience and those exact feelings and when I’m in the thick of it it feels that everyone else’s babies sleep is not such a big deal and I’m the only mom obsessed with this because it directly impacts my sleep too and we’ll you can’t function on no sleep. Glad Mila is now doing better and keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤍
Been there still doing it lol but it got a little better after I put my kids in school for 3 hours a day. They love it and are learning so much plus play with other children while I get time to work peacefully from home or sometimes I do nice things for myself like get my nails done. At first I had guilt about it but then I saw how much it helped my mental health and it helped me to become a better mom
I completely understand EVERYTHING you're saying. Thank you for sharing because mom's don't always feel like they can speak openly and honestly about the realities of mothering. You're not alone❤️
Thank you so much for your comment ♥️♥️♥️ it seriously helps.
The sleep deprivation.. it’s just not ok haha. You are not alone. And honestly I truly give you so much amazing credit for being at home with them all day. I work full time, and while I’m EXHAUSTED because I have two not so great sleepers (ugh), at least I have two separate worlds a bit. At work I can enjoy coffee in quiet, go to the bathroom myself.. but happy Mila is sleeping now because that’s such a big change
Transitions are so tough! I have a 3 year old and a 7 month old and going from 1 to 2 was definitely a challenge. I combo-fed my 2nd for 6 months (low supply), and like you, can't recall our last nursing session since he just stopped wanting to. Also a bit sad about it but super proud to have made it 6 months! Be easy on yourself; you're doing amazing!
I have a 1 year old just turned 3 year old and currently about to have my 3rd in 3 days. Sometimes I wonder how I will manage everything, but I know I got it. Totally felt everything in this video!
Oh mama! Sending you so many hugs! You are not alone! Our children are 9, 5 and 3 and I went through same thing with them when the babies were around your babies ages. It is just starting to get better over here now that they are both more independent and not tugging and screaming at me all day. You are such a great mother and those babies adore you! Also, it’s ok to be angry. No one ever told me that so I would always feel so guilty when I would want to scream and cry and lock my self in my closet. But it’s ok. Be angry, safely express your frustration and get help whenever you can. Now that we have three kids I’ve learned that each day is like a day at the beach.. in the ocean.. with the waves.. just ride the waves. Sometimes the water will be calm but a few minutes later you get hit by a big wave. It’s the ocean, you can’t predict or control the waves. Just ride them. I’ll be riding them with you from a far along with the rest of the mamas of the world. Sending so much love your way!
Thank you for sharing Ayla cause no sleep through the night for our babies is so hard. For me anxiety would hit once the sun set as I knew I had to attend a lot throughout night (aka rocking for 30 minutes plus x2) Much love
I could have spoken this myself! So touched out, overwhelmed and exhausted by two and extended breastfeeding. Feel like a dreadful mum as I have to brace myself for every time I have to pick them up and expend energy. Being an introvert and getting no breaks even at night with dread of wake ups and having to spend hours feeding has been one of the harder phases of my life. I love having a newborn and now seeing them bond and play but it’s been a lot too. Proud to get to 11 months feeding but loving the space and extra sleep! Congrats mummy and thanks for being open xx
Hang in there! I think training Mila to 1 nap a day will do wonders for her sleep at night. She will be so tired, that I bet she will sleep more at night. My babies both started sleeping through the night when we transitioned them from 2 naps to 1. Best of luck! :)
The sleep deprivation really got to me too with my first daughter, I patiently waited after the first year, but after that it really got to me. Thankfully she sleeps now without problems, but now I'm pregnant and a little worried about my second one, with hopes that she will sleep better
Your house is so organized!!! Please do videos on organizing… I need help!!
Please know you are not alone. I feel like this a lot, and it’s not easy to explain to others because of the fear of being judged. Thank you for sharing. 💜
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us...you should be super proud of your beautiful self. I believe most Mothers/parents experience what you did..I know I sure did. If at all possible try and give your self alittle time in the day when it is about you...xxxxx
Ayla, I totally feel you. I just became a mom of 2 as well, and I have a serious age gap between my two kids...my son is 11 and a half and my daughter is going to be 4 and a half months old on the 30th of this month. Having a baby at 36 is hard. I am now 37 years old, and there times when I get frustrated because of the lack of sleep and starting all over again. Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this
Hey Ayla, I just want to say that I really appreciate your honesty here. I completely emphasize and have been there too. You're an amazing woman and mama.
Me too. I have had blood work done to see if there’s any explanation as to why I feel so crappy and tired and dizzy all the time. Dr suspects it’s maybe just sleep deprivation. I’ve had two babies in a short time and have either been pregnant and/or nursing for the past almost 4 years. My 9 month old is still up anywhere from 2-6 times at night too.
It’s a lot sometimes.
I hope you find some answers and can start to feel better ♥️ I feel you!
I feel you so much! I’m currently 33 weeks pregnant with my 3rd and I have a 5yo and a 3yo. I’m so worried about how I’m going to get everything done in the day, be a good wife and still do things for myself. You are not alone 💕💕
I always related so much to your videos! I’m feeling so overwhelmed lately as well. I have an almost 9 month old IVF rainbow baby and have been exclusively pumping and so tempted to stop because im just so exhausted. But want him to have milk up to a year.
Thank you for sharing and being so honest. 💕💕
I understand you completely being a mother is all consuming and the feelings experienced are real. I am glad you focused on your family and let go of content. I al sure we all miss you (i do!) but your health and needs are more important! I am a sahm and I personally don’t work outside of my mothering responsibilities. That’s what works for me. :)
Thank you for sharing Ayla ❤️ We are expecting our second child in December this year which will make me a mum of 2u2. Everyday I sit in fear and worry of how I will cope 😱😭 I truly hope everything will turn out alright and I don't let baby sleep take over my life. I know how it feels to always be worrying about naps and sleep too.
You’ve got this mama ♥️♥️♥️
Lack of sleep will make us feel all sorts of things. You did the right thing by placing her down and giving yourself space to breathe. You're not alone, Mama! I have 2 boys that are 20 months apart. It gets better, I promise you! 💜
Where is that table from under the tv? I’ve been looking for something like that for our bedroom!!
The skinny one :)
Caleb built it himself actually, sorry I couldn’t be of more help!
You are rocking mommyhood! Thank you for being up front.❤️
Your intro was just the cutest thing ever!! ❤️
I was so thankful I caught that moment on camera! 🥹
I totally had this with my son who is now 8. Dana obleman (sleep sense expert) was a life saver for me. She talks sense but in a lovely non judgment way. She had/has? RUclips videos.
I found going from 2 to 3 kids was easier then 1 to 2 as the older 2 were able to occupy each other a little more during the day freeing me up for the baby a little more then with only 2 kids
Take care of yourself and your family first. We’ll be here whenever you choose to pop in.
Life is too short not to spend it with your littles as top priority.
Sorry what magic was that, how did you move the car seat over without unstrapping it etc
Our van has the captain chairs on a track and you just pull a lever and push them together or apart! 😊
My daughter always confused day and night i think i spent 4 years sleeping during the day and being awake at night until she started school at 4 which was just a week ago lol
You will get through it. That is for sure xx
Enjoyed the video
You are so amazing and the best I love you so so much ❤️
Let us see more of gorgeous little Ellie!
My hardest was when added another less than 4 years apart.
I missed you.
Thank you for being open and honest, and sharing this with us. I am sure it will help so many mothers going through something🤍