I will use my self as an example, I was a virgin earlier this year and my partner too, so we decided to break it and later. I found out I am a sex freak and she wasn't which made us break up and this context should be related to this gals too
Sex is a natural part of life, and hormones often take over when we're aroused. You don't need sexual experience before marriage. If you're still a virgin, I can tell you as a 27-year-old man, you're not missing anything. Keep your head up!
God knows how much I enjoyed watching this episode and I honestly wished it wouldn't end. It was so refreshing to see that there are ladies who are not just self-disciplined but are also vocal about what they believe in. It was nice to see topics I've struggled with being discussed so easily. Being a virgin should never be seen as a burden but rather a testament to personal conviction and faith. It's also inspiring to know such discussions are being had openly letting others know that they are not alone in this journey and there is nothing shameful about choosing to remain virgins. Faith, personal choices and self-discipline deserves celebration and not judgment and I'm so glad there are channels like Cruise that creates safe spaces for these conversations to be held😊❤
The issue about having sex is the post nut clarity. The dopamine rush might seem amazing then 10 minutes later, you're laid there wondering "wtf did i just do?". Just avoid it tbh
@gbaski30 not necessarily guilt, just the realisation that "Was it really necessary?", "All that fluid exchange and bodily contact for so little a satisfaction?", "What's even the gain of the whole exercise, casually?".
I loved this episode, because it's relatable. I'm at a point in my life where I've been questioning my decision cos it's becoming harder and the urges are stronger. I'm a 30yr old male virgin and it's not like I've not had plethora of opportunities to do it but my firm christian belief won't let me. Listening to this episode and hearing these beautiful ladies' perspectives was so refreshing and like a breath of fresh air. Reading through the comments here and I'm like wow I'm not alone. This episode validated my belief and gave me a lot of reasons to keep keeping on till after wedding.
Sharon is so smart 👏🏾😍 Love it 🫶🏾 Seunfunmi is a brilliant analyst🥰 Zion is a staunch believer and I love how she stands by her beliefs!❤ Haliya is logical and it makes sense 😂❤ Bolatito is cool😊 and Mariam is just shy but is good 😘
Humans are not some sort of lollipops or ice cream, why do you need to taste every version before you know what you want??!! It’s just one’s choice that needs to be respected! There’s no need to bend my standards because of what someone else thinks. Will love to see the male’s version of this.
@@AdebayoSirojdeen i always wonder why older heads act like Generation Z and Millenials invented Sex or Casual Sex. Sex has existed since Day 1 of Humanity, at least from when Eve was made (if you're Christian). Talking about "...in this age range" plays it like all Boomers and Gen Xs married as Virgins or were sexually pure from birth to wedding day/death.
Mariam seems like someone who has been through so much and still striving to show up...she may even be bolder than everyone else, just needs some good inner therapy... for some ppl showing up only is a whole work put in while some others were raised in privileges/environments of default outspokenness...and when the seemingly bold of us is placed in more competitive environments, out knees may buckle as we learn to relearn boldness. My flowers to Mariam & everyone 💐💐❤
Can the name of this channel be changed from “CRUISE” cause the knowledge and experience dished out from every upload on this channel “No be Cruise at-all!”. Big Ups to the team for their Amazing Content dump BTS aswell.❤👏
@@vincentokih3839we all feel it is better than Jubilee because we can relate more to the perspective shared here. As in, we are all Nigerians. I love it here!🎉
I used to be scared to allow people know that I'm keeping myself. I'm 29 years now and I'm no longer shy or scared to speak and stand against premarital sex. I'm not a saint because we all have our flaws as human but u can't make me feel less because i refused to have sex before marriage.I'm not doing anyone but myself a favor please. I will marry well and marry right.❤❤❤❤
I loved Zions views on everything, she's so confident in herself, religion and her choice. However Mariam and Bolatito both seemed like under the right pressure they'd give in. I hope they become more confident, especially mariam.
Honestly this was refreshing 😊 When i first entered uni, the whole virgin shaming was a thing, to the extent that i was scared to make friends because who knows who and how they can set you up Thank God for better friends and roomates tho
The title of this video should be “do all FEMALE virgins think the same?” Cause virginity is not a feminine characteristic but a human. Males can be virgins as well and now it would be nice to see a male version of this video from Cruise, thanks and God bless🙌🏾
This was very insightful to know that there are ladies that are virgins and very confident about why they have chosen to tour this path. All ladies did wonderful. Mariam coming to the show show's bravery and I know she has learnt. I have learnt a lot as well looking forward to the next episode
My dear, be strong in your convictions. I got into a situationship, the guy was trying to convince me to do what I didn't want. He said the older I get, the more painful my first time will be 😅. This was 4 years ago, fortunately I stood my ground. The guy was the type that was inconsistent, saying things he wasn't sure about or just outright lying, so I'm happy I refused to consider his opinion. There's so many lies and myths out there, let's just continue as our hearts leads us. And remember, you are not saving it for anybody, it's either it's a covenant with God or it's for yourself. The moment you make it about a mystery spouse, it becomes easy to lose focus ❤❤❤❤
Wow this is beautiful, have actually learnt a lot from this episode as a virgin. And tbh, on the topic of "I sometimes question my decision of being a virgin" I strongly agree with Sodipo, I feel virgin don't really get the motivation in this present day/generation. We've normalized seggs and it activities, in the world where even younger children are having seggs, lots of videos on the internet, lots and lots of things are happening. Ngl have thought about losing it so many times and it's so cool to watch nd listen to other virgin ladies opinions, thank you Cruise
I am impressed by this video honestly. It is refreshing to know that many women have values out there. As a 36 year old fellow, i am very happy with my decision. Cruise, please we need the male's version. Thank you.
36:39 i feel that feeling of superiority is something people should not have, not just on sexual preservation, be it, career or anything else, yes, you might have made better decisions but it doesn't make you "better" that anyones else, you are living your life for You and not anyone.
Always remember it is your body, temple… and you have the sole decision to do that … be wise and careful not to be coerced into doing it when your are not ready
Seunfunmi is a brilliant and good analyst! I guess she must have gotten good grade in school. She's got a good understanding of all the questions. Sharon is a confident person but i think she needs to be more friendly to allow right guy comes closer. Zion is cool too and self-confident, and being a media personality over confidence could be the danger for her. The young nurse is a cruise, she loves enjoying life and catching fun. Haliya you're a very sound and intelligent person, I so much wish you success. Finally, Mariam needs a mentor. She needs someome to buid up her self-confidence. She needs to be taught how to be more interactive and engaging. Good job ladies
Me personally dating as a virgin is hard! Because most relationships now are just based on sex. Once I say I’m waiting till marriage it’s either they’ll try to pressure me to sleep with them or they’ll just disappear 😭😭
Zion, Seyifunmi and Sharon, a great heart posture you've got there. Stay confident! Mariam Dear needs to be proud of her beliefs. My dear nurse keeps chopping life, and yes, God will give you the right man, pls it's worth the wait. Haliyah is simply amazing. Go girl! Buh damn, these girls are intelligent❤🎉🎉
First thing I want to say is that,we need a male version of this topic. Secondly,beautiful conversation,beautiful ladies. Oh my God I’ve learnt a lot as a guy just listening to this ladies speak. This was epic,I don’t get it everytime and it’s not content that I get to see on a regular. Haliya,incase you get to see this comment…you are super super gorgeous. Beautiful inside out,and I want to see more of you❤️(and yes I’m shooting my shot)😂 I don’t know if it’s a personality thing for her,but I don’t know why Mariam was so into herself. At first I thought it was the editors trying to cut her off but as the show progressed I just realized that she’s so into her shell. Hope she comes out of it someday. Weldon CRUISE for bringing this beautiful ladies to have this conversation and sharing it with the world.❤
I totally enjoyed everything about this. We need more of these type of videos, because it's educating as well as entertaining. In a world where losing ur virginity is becoming a norm, and we keeping our virginity seem like we are novice or missing a lot.People can still stand out and boldly keep themselves against all odds. This will encourage young ones to keep themselves. God bless you 😇❤️
I wish i could be friends with the 3 ladies in the middle 😊 I love their confidence and the aura they possess .They also speak intelligently. Friends like this that know what is right ,and stand by it are what i need 😊❤
I love love this video. I love how confident the girls are about their choices. For the last girl, I would say she did an amazing job coming for the show, if not anything, I believe she would leave there with knowledge and have a better understanding on why she should remain a virgin, hopefully. May God help us all
1:28 I'm 22♀️met a guy at church last year, we really liked each other. Got to a topic, I asked about his body count, he laughed and said he lost count.. he asked me and I said I'm a virgin (after doubting) he said " I can't be with someone who is inexperienced".. my confidence dropped 😅 we stopped talking a few days after. I will never date after that, I'd rather die a virgin 🙌
Don't left your self esteem be affected because of someone you met in the house of God talk down about your journey, remember not everyone in the church are truly saved, know also that there are lot of men in this world equipped by God with the right mind to walk the same path as you, and one of them is who you need as it please the Lord. Don't give up on the love God has placed on your heart desires, hold on to your faith and you'll see.
@ekundayoawoniran1065 my self esteem is ok but he unlocked a new fear. Thing is, how will I know the man is saved and equipped by God ? I can't really know.. in the marriage he might expose the mentality this guy has and cheat. It's a risk I'm not willing to take especially in this generation. I'd rather focus on my relationship with God but thank you very much 🫶
@ my self esteem is ok but he unlocked a new fear. Thing is, how will I know the man is saved and equipped by God ? I can't really know.. in the marriage he might expose the mentality this guy has and cheat. It's a risk I'm not willing to take especially in this generation. I'd rather focus on my relationship with God but thank you very much 🫶
@ 😅 my self esteem is ok but he added a new fear. Thing is, how will I know the man is saved/equipped by God ? I can't really know.. in the marriage he might expose the mentality this guy has and find a woman with "experience". It's a risk I'm not willing to take especially in this generation. I'd rather focus on my relationship with God but thank you very much 🫶
Sexual purity and being a virgin are two different things. Engaging in other sexual acts and you are still a virgin, you are still a virgin, but you are not sexually pure
Haliya thanks for being open about the traditional view 😂 I agree with you on that, you need to be self and safety conscious. Not everything should be made known to the general public.
It lovely seeing this ladies speak boldly it really cool. In this present age that most people are not so proud about it cause they will see them as novice it really nice 🎉
Please I need the Male version of these. This was really educative. I love to see that they are people vocal about their Virginity . This has just boost my morale
My Fav Episode so far, thank you cruise🔥. This is the only area where some of us ladies can be selfish. “If you want it, put a ring on it” My exact words.
I’m also waiting till Marriage and I’m so happy to see that there are some of us around.I’ve never ever questioned my belief to be a virgin .i love God so much and I’m giving that part of my self to my future husband ❤️
Wow this is amazing. Women who feel the way I do. Having a child is more commitment than getting married! People have been calling mad for saying that. I love, love, love this conversation. 🖤🖤🖤
This was a very good video!! All these ladies are truly mature and well aware of the reality of the world. However, I think Mariam needs to start standing firm in her faith and belief because if she meets the right manipulator, she can easily fall. She needs to have the confidence that Zion and Sharon have with their faith. Because if a bad person sees the lack of confidence in your faith and value, you will be prey to the demons that see the same light that God instilled in you. Your body belongs to God first, so honor him and you will honor yourself in return
Honestly, I feel if you are being pressured by your friend, you might just need to change your friend. If a guy is pressuring you, he may not be the one for you.
That's what is generally said so they've internalised it...same way people say women are emotional and men are logical and it has proven time and time again that men are indeed not always logical and also as emotional or even more
I absolute loved everyone’s insight, views, opinions and beliefs!! We had really beautiful ladies on this episode, loved everyone of them! Judith was my fav!🤭 She spoke so soothing and had very beautiful views.
Really enjoyed every bit of it . To the virgins, don't ever feel bad or whatsoever for being a Virgin like come on it's a wonderful thing just that the modern world is something else. we would need the male version of this❤❤.
Exactly bringing a whole human into the world is such a big deal...with marriage you can go your separate ways if it doesn't work out but you can't delete a child that has been born.
Personally for me, I think you if you choose to keep your self or remain a virgin 1. You shouldn't Date until courtship( marriage)since you're keeping you self for that time. Dating and courtship for me I feel is different. 2. If you want to date, date someone with the same value. I hope I'm not sounding bias but I feel it's better this way, Emotions are weird.
My question is where are the men with that value? I've never come across any...most of them pretend to be okay with waiting and soon after you start dating they start pressuring you...even the religious ones are the same or even worse.
I agree with you and also agree with @kaysmellsgood cause it not easy experiencing that too how can someone know the men with that value And i ion know if i can get an answer to this question imagine having a guy and also having all sort of romance but not sex is that also a good thing or quiting is the best Cause the area i find myself they have turned relationship to give and take thing
These women are super intelligent..Zion,Sharon and Judith displayed their maturity well... Mariam please you can work better on your self confidence. Cruise Channel, Thank you so much for this beautiful episode I love it💗💕
God bless these females and I pray he grants them good men that will love and take care of them. Same here, I am 20yrs old and also a virgin waiting till marriage
I'm a virgin at 26, and it makes it challenging to have a relationship .Most guys think sex is the only way to stay connected in a relationship while there are other dimensions to a relationship ( empthy, bonding , trust, and reciprocity).
I will tell you 100 percent of men that truly love a woman will not pressure her to have sex because after marriage sex will be happening over and over again so there's no need to rush rather you marry her asap for me I cherish a female virgin and I will not pressure her to have sex with me because I have years and years with her after marriage I love this channel I enjoyed the show
I will tell you 100 percent of men that truly love a woman will not pressure her to have sex because after marriage sex will be happening over and over again so there's no need to rush rather you rush to marry her asap for me I cherish a female virgin and I will not pressure her to have sex with me because I have years and years with her after marriage I love this channel I enjoyed the show in
When that young lady in Black spoke about" there are some people who were taking their virginity from them they didn't have a choice" . it was one of the smartest thing all of them spoke about in the debate .so nobody has to judge😔😔😔😔
Excellent discussion. If you are a virgin here, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you and nothing to be shy of, Keep It! There are innumerable benefits to staying a virgin as compared to the opposite. On the issue that you will be inexperienced when you marry, I ask those who are experienced, were they born with the experience 😄? Weren't they also virgins at some point in their life before they gained experience through frequent engagement in sex? What you should realize is that marriage is a lifelong journey so in the same way, as a virgin, you will be engaging in sex for a long time for you to gain the necessary experience in marriage.. There is nobody who married as a virgin and is 10yrs in marriage and still inexperienced in sex 😃. The point is, even if you don't know how to go about it the first few months of your marriage, you will learn and by a year or two in marriage, you will no longer be inexperienced, you will be just as good at it as those who were not virgins. Everything can be learned and in marriage, you have a whole lifetime to learn it. 😉
interesting content. It feels good to know there is still some people taking smart decisions. (Unfortunately, nobody backed up the girl in white dress.)
This is a great episode👍🏽. Ladies and gentlemen of faith, hold on to your beliefs, don't let anyone talk down on your stand, surely you'll find a rare gem as you that will journey the world with you as thy heart desires, as it please the Lord.
Fr enjoyed this!❤️ Our registered nurse though gave me reasons to believe she might not be one🌚 And our first class graduate!You talk so good. Fr enjoyed how y’all made your contributions👏❤️
Please do you know what it means to be a registered nurse? We are taught these things in school, we have clinical postings and practicals we attend to patients nobody cares if you're a virgin you have to have the knowledge...it's not rocket science, you can literally research about things even if you've never done it before
That last babe doesn’t know what she wants yet cause she couldn’t even talk most of the time and then the HR babe definitely has the aura of all Hr in every company 🤣🤣❤️
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Sir you need to ask them if they know the consequences of their actions
Cause they being a virgin will gets some divorced in marriage
I will use my self as an example, I was a virgin earlier this year and my partner too, so we decided to break it and later. I found out I am a sex freak and she wasn't which made us break up and this context should be related to this gals too
I'm just impressed with their level of intelligence, beauty, knowledge, and composure. #ProudlyNaijaWomen
Fr😁
i was looking for this comment, they are really intelligent girls
Sex is a natural part of life, and hormones often take over when we're aroused. You don't need sexual experience before marriage. If you're still a virgin, I can tell you as a 27-year-old man, you're not missing anything. Keep your head up!
Goated comment right here
You are missing alot
@@kingsleykekeli1587 use and dump is that you?
I swear 😂😂😂
Make another Man handle your girl like thief for bed first.
We actually need the male version of this topic too
I 2nd this
We don’t actually
Exactly
Why not? @@___asia
Righttttt
I'm a virgin at 24. And i will put a ring first.
Kudos guys. Very educative.
@@itzpeejay5144 26 yrs and waxing stringer to stay chaste💗
We plenty for street😁
We won’t be fooled
God helping us🙏🏾🙇🏽♀️
Fr me too
There are more male virgin than female
Judith is very open-minded. I like that. She sees the bigger picture.
Sharon is deep and points out even the smallest details.
God knows how much I enjoyed watching this episode and I honestly wished it wouldn't end. It was so refreshing to see that there are ladies who are not just self-disciplined but are also vocal about what they believe in. It was nice to see topics I've struggled with being discussed so easily. Being a virgin should never be seen as a burden but rather a testament to personal conviction and faith. It's also inspiring to know such discussions are being had openly letting others know that they are not alone in this journey and there is nothing shameful about choosing to remain virgins. Faith, personal choices and self-discipline deserves celebration and not judgment and I'm so glad there are channels like Cruise that creates safe spaces for these conversations to be held😊❤
We’re glad you found the episode relatable and inspiring.
I love how confidently and smartly Judith Sefunmi potrayed her opinions shows how smart she is. I love smart people like her😊
The issue about having sex is the post nut clarity. The dopamine rush might seem amazing then 10 minutes later, you're laid there wondering "wtf did i just do?".
Just avoid it tbh
what u need to ask is why u feel guilty after doing something natural. probably ur religious background.
@gbaski30 not necessarily guilt, just the realisation that "Was it really necessary?", "All that fluid exchange and bodily contact for so little a satisfaction?", "What's even the gain of the whole exercise, casually?".
True 👍
"Post nut clarity" 😂😂
@@mr7teen922what if you do it with your wife someone you truly love,then do you still regret after it or rather do you get post nut clarity?
I loved this episode, because it's relatable. I'm at a point in my life where I've been questioning my decision cos it's becoming harder and the urges are stronger.
I'm a 30yr old male virgin and it's not like I've not had plethora of opportunities to do it but my firm christian belief won't let me.
Listening to this episode and hearing these beautiful ladies' perspectives was so refreshing and like a breath of fresh air.
Reading through the comments here and I'm like wow I'm not alone.
This episode validated my belief and gave me a lot of reasons to keep keeping on till after wedding.
Now I think I like you already without seeing you 😂😂😂
We're many!
I'm female though
@jbt-phones 😂😂
We can link up
What's your handle on Facebook or IG?
@jbt-phones 😂😂
Let's get to know each other.
What's any of your Social media handle, where I can directly message you
@jbt-phones 😂😂😂
We could get to know each other better.
Give me any of your Social media handle
@@jbtmobileshop 😂😂
We could get to know each other
i thank God that as a man i got married as a virgin, and all my life i have only known my wife
Amen oh I claim it for myself
I celebrate you greatly sir
Was she a Virgin?
Wow... Take your 🎉🎉🎉
@@BADBWOY_TV badboy
Sharon is so smart 👏🏾😍 Love it 🫶🏾 Seunfunmi is a brilliant analyst🥰 Zion is a staunch believer and I love how she stands by her beliefs!❤ Haliya is logical and it makes sense 😂❤ Bolatito is cool😊 and Mariam is just shy but is good 😘
Humans are not some sort of lollipops or ice cream, why do you need to taste every version before you know what you want??!! It’s just one’s choice that needs to be respected! There’s no need to bend my standards because of what someone else thinks.
Will love to see the male’s version of this.
Wow! Virginity can still be present in this age range. You did a great job 🎉
Yes dear😊
Yep
@@AdebayoSirojdeen i always wonder why older heads act like Generation Z and Millenials invented Sex or Casual Sex.
Sex has existed since Day 1 of Humanity, at least from when Eve was made (if you're Christian).
Talking about "...in this age range" plays it like all Boomers and Gen Xs married as Virgins or were sexually pure from birth to wedding day/death.
The most important is the beautiful virgin not these women🌝
Ahhhhhhh before nko? We have people who stand for the right thing
Mariam seems like someone who has been through so much and still striving to show up...she may even be bolder than everyone else, just needs some good inner therapy... for some ppl showing up only is a whole work put in while some others were raised in privileges/environments of default outspokenness...and when the seemingly bold of us is placed in more competitive environments, out knees may buckle as we learn to relearn boldness.
My flowers to Mariam & everyone 💐💐❤
You’re so kind
She’s soo sweet❤
You're so warm 😚❤️
Can the name of this channel be changed from “CRUISE” cause the knowledge and experience dished out from every upload on this channel “No be Cruise at-all!”. Big Ups to the team for their Amazing Content dump BTS aswell.❤👏
Far better than Jubilee
@@vincentokih3839we all feel it is better than Jubilee because we can relate more to the perspective shared here. As in, we are all Nigerians. I love it here!🎉
agreed..cruise takes away the seriousness.
@@vincentokih3839😂😂😂😂real
No
I used to be scared to allow people know that I'm keeping myself.
I'm 29 years now and I'm no longer shy or scared to speak and stand against premarital sex.
I'm not a saint because we all have our flaws as human but u can't make me feel less because i refused to have sex before marriage.I'm not doing anyone but myself a favor please.
I will marry well and marry right.❤❤❤❤
Keep it up, don't worry about what people say you're not alone
This comment ❤
I loved Zions views on everything, she's so confident in herself, religion and her choice.
However Mariam and Bolatito both seemed like under the right pressure they'd give in. I hope they become more confident, especially mariam.
Yo chill, that’s my cousin’s spouse
Many of y'all girls are kids, it'll be no surprise if they give in. 90% of females at age 22 aren't even virgins😂
@@vtee549 are you a male or a female?
@@woodmanmorning1234 female
@@vtee549being this myopic 😂😂 .. sorry for you fr
Melody's a pro with these ads. She speaks so smoothly and continues the atmosphere of the video well.
I'm a virgin and I'm a guy. love this episode ❤😂
Same here. Currently 29year old. A guy. Still a virgin for personal, spiritual and health reasons
@@dripcnicewtf
I’m so glad I heard this
Same here😊❤
It's so soothing to see virgin guys❤😊
The older ladies spoke with more clarity and maturity.
Honestly this was refreshing 😊
When i first entered uni, the whole virgin shaming was a thing, to the extent that i was scared to make friends because who knows who and how they can set you up
Thank God for better friends and roomates tho
The title of this video should be “do all FEMALE virgins think the same?” Cause virginity is not a feminine characteristic but a human. Males can be virgins as well and now it would be nice to see a male version of this video from Cruise, thanks and God bless🙌🏾
Mhmm
I’m proudly a virgin in my very early 20’s but I haven’t dated before though. My faith in God is what motivates me. 🙏🏾❤️
Sefunmi is so smart and well spoken
A woman or man who reserves themselves for marriage is a strong character... MUCH RESPECT...
This was very insightful to know that there are ladies that are virgins and very confident about why they have chosen to tour this path.
All ladies did wonderful.
Mariam coming to the show show's bravery and I know she has learnt.
I have learnt a lot as well looking forward to the next episode
Judith, Sharon, Haliya and Zion love their confidence 😍❤keep encouraging others to strengthen our resolve❤❤
I love this, I'm 20 and staying a virgin till marriage, Insha Allah. So beautiful to see other young women on the same path.
There are alot of virgins all over the world just that we are not as loud as those that are sexually active 😅
Bless
My dear, be strong in your convictions. I got into a situationship, the guy was trying to convince me to do what I didn't want. He said the older I get, the more painful my first time will be 😅. This was 4 years ago, fortunately I stood my ground. The guy was the type that was inconsistent, saying things he wasn't sure about or just outright lying, so I'm happy I refused to consider his opinion. There's so many lies and myths out there, let's just continue as our hearts leads us. And remember, you are not saving it for anybody, it's either it's a covenant with God or it's for yourself. The moment you make it about a mystery spouse, it becomes easy to lose focus ❤❤❤❤
@ thank you for the advise big sis ❤️
Yo Allah is a false god and not The Most High
Wow this is beautiful, have actually learnt a lot from this episode as a virgin. And tbh, on the topic of "I sometimes question my decision of being a virgin" I strongly agree with Sodipo, I feel virgin don't really get the motivation in this present day/generation. We've normalized seggs and it activities, in the world where even younger children are having seggs, lots of videos on the internet, lots and lots of things are happening. Ngl have thought about losing it so many times and it's so cool to watch nd listen to other virgin ladies opinions, thank you Cruise
I am impressed by this video honestly. It is refreshing to know that many women have values out there. As a 36 year old fellow, i am very happy with my decision. Cruise, please we need the male's version. Thank you.
36:39 i feel that feeling of superiority is something people should not have, not just on sexual preservation, be it, career or anything else, yes, you might have made better decisions but it doesn't make you "better" that anyones else, you are living your life for You and not anyone.
I only feel superior when i am facing a person that thinks having sex is the most important thing in a mans life
They're better bro😂 virgins are better because 90% of men would choose them if there's a line up of girls
@@Noredia_Yukiit’s not an important thing,it’s just something that happens.
Yuh
Being a virgin in this generation is a very big deal. So let them feel superior if they want to abeg.
Always remember it is your body, temple… and you have the sole decision to do that … be wise and careful not to be coerced into doing it when your are not ready
Seunfunmi is a brilliant and good analyst! I guess she must have gotten good grade in school. She's got a good understanding of all the questions. Sharon is a confident person but i think she needs to be more friendly to allow right guy comes closer. Zion is cool too and self-confident, and being a media personality over confidence could be the danger for her. The young nurse is a cruise, she loves enjoying life and catching fun. Haliya you're a very sound and intelligent person, I so much wish you success. Finally, Mariam needs a mentor. She needs someome to buid up her self-confidence. She needs to be taught how to be more interactive and engaging. Good job ladies
You are extremely intelligent!!!
Spot on. You analyzed this.
Wee
My exact thought too. Analysis on point😂@@Elizabeth-s6c
Yessss!!!
Their maturity is topnotch ❤
You see that lady Judith she is brilliant and a genuine child of God. Very smart and amazing
Do guy's edition!!!!!
Yes, I'm almost 24 and a virgin. Love to hear organized thoughts from other male virgins.
@@yalaking01 26 yrs female and waxing stronger to stay chaste💗
We plenty for street😁
We won’t be fooled
God helping us🙏🏾🙇🏽♀️
@gloryumezurike5380 dalurinne. Chukwu gozie gi o.
Same with me never had sex before
Omooo
Me personally dating as a virgin is hard! Because most relationships now are just based on sex. Once I say I’m waiting till marriage it’s either they’ll try to pressure me to sleep with them or they’ll just disappear 😭😭
Likeeeee! And the pressure can be very subtle that you might not even know it’s pressure at first!.
@ this!!!
I've not even started dating yet I'm imagining when the time comes😅
I think virgins will have a easier time together
True. but where can we find fellow virgins??? So hard to find@@kf9926
such a beautiful conversation. I like how the conversation about those whose virginity were stolen from them
The most confident person takes all the shine in the room....don't stop developing yourself and don't shy away from anything fortune favours the brave
Zion, Seyifunmi and Sharon, a great heart posture you've got there. Stay confident!
Mariam Dear needs to be proud of her beliefs.
My dear nurse keeps chopping life, and yes, God will give you the right man, pls it's worth the wait.
Haliyah is simply amazing. Go girl!
Buh damn, these girls are intelligent❤🎉🎉
First thing I want to say is that,we need a male version of this topic.
Secondly,beautiful conversation,beautiful ladies. Oh my God I’ve learnt a lot as a guy just listening to this ladies speak. This was epic,I don’t get it everytime and it’s not content that I get to see on a regular.
Haliya,incase you get to see this comment…you are super super gorgeous. Beautiful inside out,and I want to see more of you❤️(and yes I’m shooting my shot)😂
I don’t know if it’s a personality thing for her,but I don’t know why Mariam was so into herself. At first I thought it was the editors trying to cut her off but as the show progressed I just realized that she’s so into her shell. Hope she comes out of it someday.
Weldon CRUISE for bringing this beautiful ladies to have this conversation and sharing it with the world.❤
Judith is my favorite. I love her perspective and view about the topic, followed by Sharon ❤
“Smash that subscribe button” so ironic for this video😂
😂😂😂
Bro 💀
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They knew what they were doing😂
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I totally enjoyed everything about this.
We need more of these type of videos, because it's educating as well as entertaining.
In a world where losing ur virginity is becoming a norm, and we keeping our virginity seem like we are novice or missing a lot.People can still stand out and boldly keep themselves against all odds.
This will encourage young ones to keep themselves.
God bless you 😇❤️
Sefunmi has me smiling here ❤️😂…she’s mature, secure, articulate and a baddie lol. If you see this don’t change!
You said it all that girl is a real keeper.
Sharon, the HR babe sounded like such a typical HR 😂
Agreed 💯
Broo
Sticking to the rules
I wish i could be friends with the 3 ladies in the middle 😊
I love their confidence and the aura they possess .They also speak intelligently.
Friends like this that know what is right ,and stand by it are what i need 😊❤
My thoughts exactly
I love love this video. I love how confident the girls are about their choices. For the last girl, I would say she did an amazing job coming for the show, if not anything, I believe she would leave there with knowledge and have a better understanding on why she should remain a virgin, hopefully. May God help us all
1:28 I'm 22♀️met a guy at church last year, we really liked each other.
Got to a topic, I asked about his body count, he laughed and said he lost count.. he asked me and I said I'm a virgin (after doubting) he said " I can't be with someone who is inexperienced".. my confidence dropped 😅 we stopped talking a few days after.
I will never date after that, I'd rather die a virgin 🙌
Don't left your self esteem be affected because of someone you met in the house of God talk down about your journey, remember not everyone in the church are truly saved, know also that there are lot of men in this world equipped by God with the right mind to walk the same path as you, and one of them is who you need as it please the Lord. Don't give up on the love God has placed on your heart desires, hold on to your faith and you'll see.
@ekundayoawoniran1065 my self esteem is ok but he unlocked a new fear. Thing is, how will I know the man is saved and equipped by God ? I can't really know.. in the marriage he might expose the mentality this guy has and cheat. It's a risk I'm not willing to take especially in this generation. I'd rather focus on my relationship with God but thank you very much 🫶
@ my self esteem is ok but he unlocked a new fear. Thing is, how will I know the man is saved and equipped by God ? I can't really know.. in the marriage he might expose the mentality this guy has and cheat. It's a risk I'm not willing to take especially in this generation. I'd rather focus on my relationship with God but thank you very much 🫶
@ 😅 my self esteem is ok but he added a new fear. Thing is, how will I know the man is saved/equipped by God ? I can't really know.. in the marriage he might expose the mentality this guy has and find a woman with "experience". It's a risk I'm not willing to take especially in this generation. I'd rather focus on my relationship with God but thank you very much 🫶
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sefunmi judith❤❤❤,you’re just dripping smartness.
Sexual purity and being a virgin are two different things.
Engaging in other sexual acts and you are still a virgin, you are still a virgin, but you are not sexually pure
please can u explain more ,i really want to understand more on wat u wrote
In this 21st century, no one can be sexually pure.
Haliya thanks for being open about the traditional view 😂 I agree with you on that, you need to be self and safety conscious. Not everything should be made known to the general public.
It lovely seeing this ladies speak boldly it really cool.
In this present age that most people are not so proud about it cause they will see them as novice it really nice 🎉
Please I need the Male version of these. This was really educative. I love to see that they are people vocal about their Virginity . This has just boost my morale
My Fav Episode so far, thank you cruise🔥. This is the only area where some of us ladies can be selfish.
“If you want it, put a ring on it” My exact words.
Judith, she knows what she’s saying. Kudos to her🤝🏾
This women were raised right!
I’m also waiting till Marriage and I’m so happy to see that there are some of us around.I’ve never ever questioned my belief to be a virgin .i love God so much and I’m giving that part of my self to my future husband ❤️
Wow this is amazing. Women who feel the way I do. Having a child is more commitment than getting married! People have been calling mad for saying that. I love, love, love this conversation. 🖤🖤🖤
I totally agree with you but I believe marriage to a man to them is like taking care of another baby😅
This was a very good video!! All these ladies are truly mature and well aware of the reality of the world. However, I think Mariam needs to start standing firm in her faith and belief because if she meets the right manipulator, she can easily fall. She needs to have the confidence that Zion and Sharon have with their faith. Because if a bad person sees the lack of confidence in your faith and value, you will be prey to the demons that see the same light that God instilled in you. Your body belongs to God first, so honor him and you will honor yourself in return
I love Judith’s thought process
Damn girl is grounded
Honestly, I feel if you are being pressured by your friend, you might just need to change your friend.
If a guy is pressuring you, he may not be the one for you.
Not he may, he's not the one 😂😂
This is really amazing,am so proud of these ladies to be this age and still a Virgin...wish I had done the same
The amount of times I’ve heard the statement “men are very simple creatures “…… 😪…. I wish you ladies the best of luck
That's what is generally said so they've internalised it...same way people say women are emotional and men are logical and it has proven time and time again that men are indeed not always logical and also as emotional or even more
Abi na lie 😂
I love them all no matter their views 💗 I will be happy if this is made a national programme on most TV channels and in schools. good jobs, guys.
I came from twitter under Chidi post
I absolute loved everyone’s insight, views, opinions and beliefs!!
We had really beautiful ladies on this episode, loved everyone of them!
Judith was my fav!🤭
She spoke so soothing and had very beautiful views.
Can you make an edition involving guys on this topic too?
And also if couples that married as a virgin, how they walked through the process
I agree with both especially that 2nd one, we need to talk more on all these things to avoid learning from assumptions
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Good
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Really enjoyed every bit of it . To the virgins, don't ever feel bad or whatsoever for being a Virgin like come on it's a wonderful thing just that the modern world is something else. we would need the male version of this❤❤.
It is more of a commitment to have a child with somebody than to marry 🗝️ 💯
Exactly bringing a whole human into the world is such a big deal...with marriage you can go your separate ways if it doesn't work out but you can't delete a child that has been born.
Personally for me, I think you if you choose to keep your self or remain a virgin
1. You shouldn't Date until courtship( marriage)since you're keeping you self for that time. Dating and courtship for me I feel is different.
2. If you want to date, date someone with the same value.
I hope I'm not sounding bias but I feel it's better this way, Emotions are weird.
This is the real comment here
You’re totally right!
My question is where are the men with that value? I've never come across any...most of them pretend to be okay with waiting and soon after you start dating they start pressuring you...even the religious ones are the same or even worse.
@@kaysmellsgoodmy sister ee
I agree with you and also agree with @kaysmellsgood cause it not easy experiencing that too how can someone know the men with that value
And i ion know if i can get an answer to this question imagine having a guy and also having all sort of romance but not sex is that also a good thing or quiting is the best
Cause the area i find myself they have turned relationship to give and take thing
I really love this. Zion i love your confidence its amazing. ❤
I understand this thing now, You enter exam hall you'll be like YEHHHH!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That got me. 😂
I don't know what I'm rating but...
1. Judith❤️👰🏻 (overtook Sharon at the latter part)
2. Sharon👸🏻
3. Haliya✨
4. Sodipo
5.
6. Zion
Lady in brown, you're so brilliant 👏
Plus everyone else was great as well
These women are super intelligent..Zion,Sharon and Judith displayed their maturity well... Mariam please you can work better on your self confidence.
Cruise Channel, Thank you so much for this beautiful episode
I love it💗💕
This is such an underrated channel. I love all your videos honestly
God bless these females and I pray he grants them good men that will love and take care of them.
Same here, I am 20yrs old and also a virgin waiting till marriage
This Sefunmi girl, she's so mature, confident and knows the God she serves. I'm proud of everyone but she impressed me more.
I'm a virgin at 26, and it makes it challenging to have a relationship .Most guys think sex is the only way to stay connected in a relationship while there are other dimensions to a relationship ( empthy, bonding , trust, and reciprocity).
I will tell you 100 percent of men that truly love a woman will not pressure her to have sex because after marriage sex will be happening over and over again so there's no need to rush rather you marry her asap for me I cherish a female virgin and I will not pressure her to have sex with me because I have years and years with her after marriage I love this channel I enjoyed the show
I will tell you 100 percent of men that truly love a woman will not pressure her to have sex because after marriage sex will be happening over and over again so there's no need to rush rather you rush to marry her asap for me I cherish a female virgin and I will not pressure her to have sex with me because I have years and years with her after marriage I love this channel I enjoyed the show in
Haliyah is a deep thinker and I love her discussions
When that young lady in Black spoke about" there are some people who were taking their virginity from them they didn't have a choice" . it was one of the smartest thing all of them spoke about in the debate .so nobody has to judge😔😔😔😔
Zion's got a lot of energy even from the beginning of the video ❤.
Excellent discussion. If you are a virgin here, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you and nothing to be shy of, Keep It! There are innumerable benefits to staying a virgin as compared to the opposite.
On the issue that you will be inexperienced when you marry, I ask those who are experienced, were they born with the experience 😄? Weren't they also virgins at some point in their life before they gained experience through frequent engagement in sex?
What you should realize is that marriage is a lifelong journey so in the same way, as a virgin, you will be engaging in sex for a long time for you to gain the necessary experience in marriage.. There is nobody who married as a virgin and is 10yrs in marriage and still inexperienced in sex 😃. The point is, even if you don't know how to go about it the first few months of your marriage, you will learn and by a year or two in marriage, you will no longer be inexperienced, you will be just as good at it as those who were not virgins. Everything can be learned and in marriage, you have a whole lifetime to learn it. 😉
I so much love this episode. It's so educating 🎉👏
Really love Sefunmi and Sharon's energy.
Beautiful episode, i love seeing women being assertive about what they want respectfully.
6 brilliant ladies❤
Beautiful smart Nigerian women, love seeing this 💪🏾❤️🔥. Needed this confidence booster
Haliyah is vocal and sound
Thank you for making shows like this and the ladies that came ... I'm very grateful for this
Yes Melody.. i use Lemfi because of you 😅😅😅
I’m so happy I stumbled I’m on this channel 😍😊so proud to see beautiful smart women still virgins❤
Keep it up ladies
interesting content. It feels good to know there is still some people taking smart decisions. (Unfortunately, nobody backed up the girl in white dress.)
This is a great episode👍🏽.
Ladies and gentlemen of faith, hold on to your beliefs, don't let anyone talk down on your stand, surely you'll find a rare gem as you that will journey the world with you as thy heart desires, as it please the Lord.
“Smash that subscribe button”, said that shit with so much aggression 😂😭😭
Im so glad i watched this🥰
Worth my Timeeeeeeee
And ive literally built more confidence after watchinh this video
That Sharon babe is spot on...mature mindset!
Fr enjoyed this!❤️
Our registered nurse though gave me reasons to believe she might not be one🌚
And our first class graduate!You talk so good. Fr enjoyed how y’all made your contributions👏❤️
She probably taking it from knowledge, co worker conversations, or a patients. People tell all their business nowadays.
Please do you know what it means to be a registered nurse? We are taught these things in school, we have clinical postings and practicals we attend to patients nobody cares if you're a virgin you have to have the knowledge...it's not rocket science, you can literally research about things even if you've never done it before
@@THEKIKI2011exactly
That last babe doesn’t know what she wants yet cause she couldn’t even talk most of the time and then the HR babe definitely has the aura of all Hr in every company 🤣🤣❤️
Most HR I know are heartless 😢
@@uyioghosaobasuyi7621 it’s part of their criteria at this point 🤣🤣
Ahswear that hr babe be like who go wicked
I feel like she couldn't express herself well in English. Maybe Yoruba would've been better for her...
I love women that talks with confident ❤