Once signed „You‘re welcome“ back at a customer who thanked me- he looked so happy and started to sign, had to stop him and signed „My sign language is aweful!“ he said „My hearing is aweful“ We both laughed and it kinda made my day
@ men aren't really less emotional (for example anger is often supressed in women and not so supressed in men) and being good with feelings doesn't mean that you too need to be emotional, you just need emotional intelligence (empathy, self awareness, social skills, self regulation, motivation) //p.s. women might cry more easily, but that doesn't mean that men wouldn't be distressed in the same situation, but they are more likely to not talk about it.
When I was in high school in ASL class, when we didn’t understand a sign the teacher would sign, the teacher would just say the sign and move on. In college, we have Deaf instructors and instead of writing or finger spelling the word, they would gesture and act out the word (examples like going up and down stairs, scuba diving) and honestly that helped me retain a lot more information than just being told the word and then moving on. Now I do better about learning signs faster, but it makes me thankful for my Deaf instructors who were extremely patient while we were learning.
This is a better way to learn for anyone, whatever subject you are learning. Acting things out and getting information through different senses stimulates our brains more. I wish all teachers would use more active and multisensory ways of teaching!
I mean the Deaf community in my area strongly recommends only learning from Deaf teachers. It’s how they preserve Deaf culture and that way they know that what students are learning is correct. My deaf teacher told us so many stories of SL students he’s met that learnt wrong signs and etiquette from hearing teachers, it was shocking. It also provides job opportunities for Deaf people too, and they are much more involved in Deaf culture (which is just as important to learn as the sing language itself) than hearing people, besides CoDA’s
I think it depends on the gesture, like trying to get their attention, that’s not bad. If you THINK u know the sign and u try to do it, that’s not rude either. It’s rude to just gesture to be “funny”
Well I’ll do you one better. This is only the second video I’ve watched of theirs. And the first one she did more of the video and I could understand some of what he signed. But man he was going so fast in this one! And I was thinking if I have to gesture, how in the world am I supposed to know what he’s saying? So, uh, thanks for helping me discover how. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️😂
Aside from being able to communicate with people who are deaf or hard of hearing, imagine how useful it'd be in emergency situations where you have to stay silent or voices can't be heard. And I think everyone should learn about the culture of the deaf community because it's incredible.
@@nooriman5944 I was thinking more along the lines of an active shooter in a school/bank/college/etc. Or any hostage situation where a captive has access to a window and can communicate with people outside about happenings inside.
Noor ul Iman the movie “A silent Voice” is a very good movie about sign language +forgiveness + learning though it is Japanese sign language and not ASL
As a Deaf person- my personal preference- would be please use what you know. Use the alphabet, but be open to when I teach you the sign and use it next time.
Ggggiiirrrrrrlllll my TA [Teacher Assistant] for my ASL 1 class at my college told me that before she could sign pretty fluently that she would fingerspell [aka the ABC spelling] ALL THE TIME and actually learned sign language better that way alongside her actual ASL classes. Deaf people will usually help teach you the signs for the word that you are spelling. At least learn how to say "Hi my name is *insert the fingerspelling of your name*" and let them know that you only know how to fingerspell the ABC's.
There's no such thing. Heck, we can't even get people to agree on a universal speaking language... Esperanto and Ubuntu were probably the closest we ever got.
It would be really difficult cause each sign language is rooted on the spoken language of the country so it would be the same as asking that we all spoke the same language across the globe
I have an accent when I speak English, so it is pretty normal for me having people asking me to repeat myself. Once I asked someone about a camping site on a national park, the guy happened to be deaf, he said: “I can read lips and can speak, but I am deaf”. I tried gesturing and enunciating every word. That did not go as planned, so I signed some basic asl for him “to wait” I was going to use some “pen and paper” (I know a little asl). He was happy I could sign that and happy to read my questions. Same as you said, each person is different, not everyone has the same preferences. Thank you for that!
Lol, I'm hoh and was dated Italian man in the past, he would gesture with me often by talk to me or Even, when he talked to someone casual still gesturing, I assume Italian tend to being like this way? I love it.
@@IcingRose yess, we always do that because we have a lot of dialects and some people (especially the oldest ones) don't even speak Italian but only dialects and we can't understand each one of them... that's why we gesture a lot! :) (sorry for my English lol)
In my asl class there is a general rule: Sign. If u can’t sign, gesture. If they can’t understand u fingerspell. If that doesn’t work write. If all else fails go to the talk box and speak.
This may sound like an ignorant question, but what's a "Talk Box"? Or do you mean just use the mouth and actually speak in clear conversation so the other person can lipread?
My friend uses these Text to Speech apps, it works well however it takes a lot of time to talk to each other. He uses these because we don't understand ASL. We are currently learning but due to Covid we have to go to online meetings. I'm done with the basics already...
When I was in middle school, I had a friend that had deaf parents. They could read lips, and I honestly think that was my only saving grace because as a middle schooler I was horrible at gesturing. My friend and her siblings were all hearing, so I guess it was one of those things where they had to learn how to communicate with their kids somehow. My friend and her siblings knew some asl, but they didnt always use it. I remember her parents getting frustrated with her and making annoyed faces and tapping her shoulder angrily as if to say "wtf are you doing?! Sign please!" They taught me a little bit of asl, but I dont remember a lot. I know the alphabet still and a couple basic phrases. The biggest thing that I learned from having a best friend with deaf parents was that I got really good at looking at people when they talk and really enraging with someone during a conversation. I also had to learn to read lips. In order for me to understand my friend's parents, I had to get pretty good at reading lips since they didnt always make noise when they signed. They would always mouth words, but not always actually speak them. Every now and then when I'm in a situation where I can't talk, I still find myself signing "thank you" rather than saying it (like if I'meating and my mouth is full and you dont want to be rude by speaking with a full mouth, but you still need to thank someone). And I also sign "i love you" a lot to my bf and my family (especially if we're in a situation where it would be hard to hear each other talking, like if we're on opposite sides of a door). I think everyone should have to learn basic asl. They teach basic spanish in schools, so I don't understand why they wouldn't teach some basic asl. It's really good to know.
As a food cashier I’ve communicated with deaf people before and managers just tell us to rip a receipt and ask them to write out their order. And we call people out by name to get their order but obviously that doesn’t work with deaf people so instead of asking for a name, I will gesture to them “I will bring you your food.” It’s an easy and understandable gesture, and I try to remember to sign thanks. It’s rare that a deaf person will come in so I don’t get much practice doing this and I won’t lie it catches me off guard and I’m worried of seeming disrespectful.
I talk (keeping it to a minimum) hoping they can read lips because im behind the counter with a lot of ingredients in front of me. They usually do a good job of pointing to what they want (UNLIKE OTHER PEOPLE) but if im not sure i say the ingredient name and gesture towards it with the utensil in hand. Another example is when i ask if its for here or to go: “here” +gesture towards the ground or “to-go” +gesture with thumb outside.
Their McDonald’s drive through video really blew me away. When I worked at a Chinese restaurant, there was a dude who occasionally cane in he signed that he was deaf to me (it was my first time seeing the sign but I’m not an idiot so I figured it out immediately) and I did simple gestures (thank you, bye, 5 minutes, take a seat, etc). It’s not that hard, guys. I feel like it’s 80% intention, and 20% situation
I work at a Starbucks n what I usually do is have the person who’s a regular wait in a designated spot so they don’t miss their drink. Some of us have learned to do basics like you’re welcome but we usually communicate through writing
I remember working at a McDonald's and 1 deaf person came in and I didnt realize they were deaf so they asked me to get them pen and paper. They didn't mind and I was more than willing to help them. When they went to sit down and their order was ready i took it to them even though it was somewhat busy and my manager screams at me saying what I'm doing...um I'm doing my job and doing the best customer service I can deliver...they just told me to let them know next time 🤦♂️🤷♂️. The customer thanked me regardless for the effort and thoughtfulness for doing great service.
I have a cousin who has been deaf since she was 5 (she's in her late 40's now) and a big thing I noticed with her is that a lot of people in my family will unfortunately brush her off when talking with her because they don't think to gesture or even won't try to understand when she gestures instead of signing. Her and her mom know ASL fluently, but only I and a few other family members know some (not much) basic stuff so there's a lot of fingerspelling. This video made me think of a time at a family gathering where I noticed she was sitting by herself so I went over to sit with her and asked her by gesturing if she had seen the show Switched at Birth. She immediately got so excited and got her mom's attention to come over and we sat and talked about the show for a while. Also in my experience, gesturing helps with learning new signs because I will gesture something and she will stop me and show me the sign for whatever I'm trying to say
Do it trying to figure out what to say to that is the best way home and finished with the kids loved it but it would be great if you could send me a copy of the receipt for the clarification and the earliest you can drive me to work tomorrow and I will be there at call back on the phone with my mom and sister are you doing today I had to work late today sorry for your mom to get the rest between you and me I have to cut you off the list for the next few days and I will be in today to see if we can make it to the meeting tonight but I will be there at call
I've had 2 experiences with gesture prior to my first ASL class. The 1st one was someone was helping me at a Nordstrom's Rack; we were talking comfortably, I moved my hair back behind my ear, and the woman noticed my hearing aids. She started talking really loud, saying things very simplistically, and gesturing like a Benny Hill Comedy show; big gestures towards the clothes, towards my body, pointing her index finger in my face. It was incredibly rude in the moment, but I really tried to just maintain my cool. I ended up not buying a blouse I really liked because I just wanted to get away from her. The 2nd experience was when I had broken one of my hearing aids (a car ran over it, so I had to wait until a new mold could be made and new hearing aid components put together, about 2 weeks) and I had forgotten to put my other hearing aid in. I was out and trying to buy coffee and donuts. It wasn't until I was in the store that I realized I didn't have any hearing aids in and I was embarrassed. The owner knew me and asked me what was wrong (because I walked in and then almost walked right back out). I pointed at my ears and said, I don't know if you knew that I wear hearing aids but I don't have them in. She responded with, it's ok, I know what you like, just tell me when I point at the donuts (she tried to broadly gesture while talking). I read lips pretty well, so I just nodded. She pointed out what I usually buy and I nodded yes or shook my head no, at each donut. She wrapped it up, and even gave me a free coffee because I was embarrassed and she wanted me to come back. I appreciated her being that way so much! So that's my two experiences of gesturing with hearing people.
I showed my deaf sister your videos to prove to her that many deaf and mute people are informing the world with such inspiring videos like yours. Keep posting more. You guys are a beautiful couple!
I have a special needs son, and when sign language was brought up, I was intimidated by it, thinking there's no way, I will understand it. Our speach therapist suggested one word at a time. That was great advice. It diminished the intimidation. Through that I learned the majority of hearing people are intimidated by sign language. Their pride doesn't let them accept it. We have very intelligent people in our family, but none of them have tried just to learn a couple of signs for my son. All and all I've experienced this with the majority of the hearing world, so with that said, when Ryan experienced those people mocking sign, they do it to try to make themselves to be the dominant individual, so that on looker's will not detect their inability to understand. It's sad that their feeling of intimidation, that their pride will not allow themselves to accept the fact that no one knows everything, and life is constant learning, so they miss out on the beauty of meeting new people and learning new things. We need to pray for them.......thank you for your videos, and keep them coming. You two are a beautiful couple!
I can't stand when I tell people my mom is deaf and they say "oh I know this in sign language" and put there middle finger up like its really sign but I 100% isn't.
I'm only learning german sign language but any sign language has their own grammatical structure. So at least in gsl if you're speaking and signing at the same time, it's called lbg (basically signing while you're speaking) and you're using the grammar of the speaking language as it's nearly impossible to use two languages with different grammar so yoz have to adapt.
"Switched at Birth" was wonderful for awareness. Watched it with my girls when they were younger. I'm glad ASL is offered as a course in their high school.
“Wow- cute dog!” Good to know you can do that in any language :0 I seriously could be having a conversation with the most important person in the world, but if I see a cute dog; I’m pointing it out and no ones gonna stop me XD
You two lovely people (and Java) have really opened my eyes as to how unaccommodating society is towards the deaf/hearing impaired community, even through things as simple as a lack of basic awareness. I just want to say thank you so much for making all of your amazingly helpful content. Y’all have inspired me to start learning ASL, as well as to encourage my peers to learn it also. Keep up the great work and I just know that change will come. I wish you both the best!!
when i was working at a different tanning salon one of the employees got so annoyed that this lady was walking in to tan because she was deaf, i grew up being around my grandmas best friend who was deaf from a childhood accident and immediately took over and helped the lady gesturing to her and then writing down the different bed options since her normal room was busy and she was so nice and so thankful someone actually was treating her like a normal person rather than just ignoring her. people can be SO CRUEL i don't understand it. I've always wanted to learn sign language and your channel has seriously helped so much in learning small signs for here and there until i can focus in on learning it fully.
I had a similar experience working retail. There was a woman who wanted to do a return and she didn't speak English, she was with her child. Everyone was ready to palm her off. I called upstairs to see if anyone spoke mandarin which they didn't then I used Google translate to audio. The relief on her face was so strong.
I went to a family funeral a couple of months ago and met a HoH person. She had a hearing aid and I noticed that she seemed to want to sign some words, almost like it was a habit. So, using a lot of the words that Sign Duo taught me, as well as a few others, I started signing with her and explained that I was still learning and was new at ASL. She was extremely grateful for my attempts and she was patient with me, and even helped me by correcting my signs. I think she was happy that I was just willing to give it a try. :-)
Absolutely, we are so appreciative when a hearing person tries their best to help us understand you. As we would do the same. Thank you for being so thoughtful!
I also think Switched at Birth really made a good job at showing off the Deaf Community. I’m teaching myself because of the show and you guys. I Like watching your videos. Keep it up. ❤️
the deaf community actually thinks otherwise. its alright and does show some insight but it's not the best representation and doesnt do a great job. at all.
thats what happened to me and i took a semester at uni and it was so eye opening i wish everyone had to take it because it opens ur eyes and oyu see from their point of view. because in the class we could not talk but we could write notes or sign if needed it was awesome to be apart of their world
Omg me too I watched switched at birth and I was just fascinated with the language and wanted to learn more so I started learning on my own, then I just started to notice sign language being spoken everywhere and I’m like why didn’t I see this before. It’s amazing and I love it❤️
When I lived in China, I had to learn to gesture as well. Many of the struggles you describe are very similar to just being in a foreign culture and not speaking the language. You can communicate so, so much nonverbally. I was always so shocked at how much I could communicate just through my limited Mandarin and gestures.
Understanding Ryan's story is so helpful to me as a primarily self-taught hearing person in the ASL and other sign communities, I noticed his structure is so similar to mine, and how some may think Ryan is 'faking it'.
I (hearing) was actually working my job as an event promoter at a home remodeling show and a family that was happened to be deaf showed up at my table. I was able to gesture and talk as I normally would with any other person, and the more the conversation progressed with them, they seemed appreciative that I wasn’t mocking them. They ended up teaching me a few basic signs, and now people in my department are learning some basic sign language through Skillshare! THANK YOU GUYS FOR PUTTING THIS VIDEO UP! I was very worried I may have offended them.
My hoh husband and I started learning asl. We were signing and his best friend on the fishing trip did the mocking gesturing to us. I realized he was feeling left out and asked him if he was. He admitted yes. So I let him in on what we were saying. I thought wow this could lead to a good understanding of his friend knowing how it feels for my husband to be left out of conversations all the time that way.
@@trevormcclurkin3984 ohmygosh... Hahaha, yep you're probably right... Ya'know had "hoh" been HOH, I might've realized what it meant...😐 That was a 'Biden moment'.
I love this channel. I've been teaching myself asl through some different RUclips channels. Then in June of this year I went to bed fine and woke up half deaf, all my tests came back negative so nobody really knows why it happened, so I've been trying to learn even more asl, or to take classes somewhere. But watching you guys, it helps me see how the hand movements are in some of the words I actually know and how it differs a bit from what I'm learning on RUclips through other deaf channels. Thank you so much for these videos guys, I believe I subscribed to the channel and look forward to seeing more of you two, which by the way, you guys are the CUTEST couple!
At my last job, I had a Deaf coworker. She communicated pretty well by gestures and notes to get her job done. I would have little chats with her every time we worked together. I took a sign language class in college (we learned SEE, not ASL). I remember some signs, and fingerspelling. When I started spelling out something I didn't know how to sign, she would teach me the sign. Thankfully, I did remember enough other signs that I wasn't JUST spelling. But she didn't seem to mind. I was the only person at work who knew any sign at all, so I hope she appreciated my attempts to communicate and get to know her.
I worked in a Grocery store for many years. The Gentleman I spoke with was extremely patient with me. We would write down his order and his wife had passed. His daughter helped me help his family get the stuff they needed. I'm grateful for the abc's that I had learned as a child. But, mostly grateful that they had patience for me. Thank you so very much. You both are amazingly awesome and kind!!!!!!
Oh, man...I’m hearing but we have a very prominent deaf community in my area. I’ve learned a bit of sign language over the years (please, thank you, sorry, I love you, the alphabet) but am not fluent-so when a deaf customee came into the store I was working at in high school I wrote with her on a piece of paper. It seemed to work better for both of us than gesturing, as I didn’t want to offend or misinterpret. Now I have a son who is hearing, but non-verbal, and we’re using baby signs with him. I’m learning more and I am so stoked I found your channel to help! I’ve already picked up a few new signs from just two of your videos. Thank you thank you thank you for sharing and educating!
Thank you for including the part at the end with Ryan gesturing in real life. That was really helpful to see! I just finished ASL 1 and we had a silent dinner at a restaurant and we had to gesture and point for the waiter to understand
I just wanted to let you know that after I watched this video, I taught myself the alphabet and common phrases and will continue to learn ASL. Thank you for inspiring me.
I am just learning asl with my kids and found this video. As a hearing individual I would find it helpful if there was cc or a voice over to understand what he is signing. I would subscribe and follow.
I think the girl is super polite, has anyone noticed that she never says a word while the guy is signing? It's like in a spoken conversation, totally awesome
Im a hearing person and I started learning asl by myself around January. I was always wanted to learn asl bc not a lot of hearing people know it and I want to communicate with deaf community. I started learning asl through books and Instagram videos. And, honestly i thought i was learning it wrong. Then I found this channel and I saw how much I actually learned. So I want to thank you guys for,well, just being yourself. I'm so happy to be a part of the sign family!
I found Sign Duo tonight, and you two are doing a great job educating hearing people. You are way more patient than I am when confronted with denied access. Plus, I realized after turning on cc, I really can understand most of what both of you are signing. Been a long time since I've signed. Thank you for the practice! I adore that you have a sign name Sign Duo.
I have a friend who is an ASL interpreter and I asked him this, and he seemed torn, so I'd be curious to your view on this: Ryan, I know that correct grammar in ASL is different from English, does it take away from the meaning at times when Ellen signs using English grammar? Ellen: Do you, or does Ryan prefer you, to sign while speaking, in group settings, so as to be sure he didn't miss anything, or doesn't have to be as diligent at lip/situation reading?
I'm quite curious to this too, as I taught myself some signs but I don't understand the grammar. If I were to try and convey a message to a deaf person through sign might they not understand because I don't know the correct word order among other things.
Man it’s so hard to sign word for word like Ellen does. I would say that’s why it’s a bit slower. The grammar of asl or any language is so important. It’s not too hard too, just backwards lol takes out most conjunctions. But I do find it interesting to hear the take on people’s preferences.
I don't want to answer for Ryan, but from what I've noticed he's an incredibly English signer with some ASL tendencies, if that makes any sense. The majority of the time it looks like SEE word order and habits, so I don't think Ellen signing English would be too impactful
This is great! Seeing you, Ryan, signing while reading the cc helps. I think it's almost like immersion. Like it's between rigid online learning of ASL vs immersion. Plus, your videos are entertaining, so that helps a lot! Your channel is awesome! You two are so great together!
I really appreciate your humble and sincere spirits! Thank you for being willing to be a bridge and help people (including myself!) understand! This video helps a lot because I have always wondered if my efforts to communicate (with limited sign knowledge) would be welcomed or not. This gives me confidence! I adore your videos!
When I used to work at a retail store I had deaf couple and I had never had to help anyone who was deaf so I was nerves because I didn’t want to make them feel bad....so I gestured them the entire time while talking and they left with a huge smile on their face. So, it does feel more intimate rather than just writing stuff on a paper because it feels like you don’t even care to try! So thank you!
I actually grew up watching the show "Signing Time." That show was my first exposure to signing and the concept of someone being deaf. I'm not sure if it's still being aired for the younger generations, I hope it is.
Just reading "Signing Time" has the theme song stuck in my head. I have a bunch of their DvDs (not sure how or why I acquired them, I've had them since I was little) and used to watch them all the time. Maybe I'll go rewatch them soon, thank you for the reminder. It's time I revist Alex and Leah
I had to take a second language in high school and I chose sign language. I was pretty good, but once I graduated, I had nobody to talk to so I lost that skill. Watching you (Sign Duo), I now want to pick it back up. :) I have the captions on, but I find it difficult to watch your hands (Ryan) and read at the same time, so I watch you first, then back track to see if I got what you said. I'm glad I found your channel! Love you guys!!!
These videos are great. I really appreciate getting insight and education for how I might better interact with someone who is deaf. On top of this, I am gaining perspective on how to overcome communication barriers, not just in every day life but especially within a relationship. Speaking different languages is an obvious barrier to overcome. Something less obvious is when a person has difficulty communicating with others dispute speaking a common language. Their is more to communication then just the language or even the body language. I am getting insight into those things from this video. Thank you for these insights and I appreciate what you are doing.
I AM SO HAPPY I FOUND THIS CHANNEL 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏽😫💕 when I was little my best friend’s little brother had a hard time hearing (from a learning disability though ) and so we all tried to learn sign language to try and make it easier for him and I think I got a little bit good at it! Unfortunately this was in Guatemala and because we speak Spanish over there signs are different ( as far as I know of course! And I was never fluent by any means over there anyway) so when I moved here I was so sad to realize that what little I know didn’t really work all that well. I am Sooooooooo excited to watch all of you guy’s videos and practice and hopefully learn as much ASL as I can!!!!!! I’m already on like video 12 and I turned on closed captions but try to go back and forth between reading and then testing to see if I can understand it if I rewind and watch again ( like you guys suggested a couple of videos ago lol). Can you imagine how amazing it would be if I’m even a tiny bit functional in ASL in let’s say a year? I mean WOW,! Anyway! Haha just wanted to say that’s this is an AMAAAZING LEARNING TOOL and to please keep it up!!!!👏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💕 we need more channels/ people like this!😭❤️🙌🏽
This is an old post, but I’d still like to answer. I’m not deaf, but my work partner is. We have the same job but during different shifts of the day. I work mornings, he works evenings. We work on a loading dock where semi trucks make deliveries. One part of the job is expeditor relief. That means when the expeditor is on lunch or vacation, we take over full responsibility which includes arriving trucks, answering a doorbell, and answering the phone. I don’t know how he answers the phone, but I know he does. The trucks have a strict schedule, so they know to stand next to their trucks when they arrive. It’s mostly the same drivers over and over, so my partner has built a relationship with each one. As for the doorbell, there is a flashing light above the door. Apparently, the flashing light is set to such a frequency that it mimics the effects of an alarm. I barely notice the flashing, but my partner always sees it. Another part of our job is to receive and dispatch special items on the trucks. We work in an office next to the dock. When a truck arrives with one of these items, I get paged on the intercom, and I go receive it. But for my partner, the expeditor flicks a switch on the dock, which activates a flashing light in our office, so he knows to go out and collect. If he needs to dispatch these items, he writes a note and tapes it to the dock door of the particular truck. For me, I stand at the door of my office and scream the drivers name. My partner loves to laugh and make jokes, talking about movies, video games, and family. He has partially trained me and has helped me more times than I can count. It takes patience and concentration to understand what he says, thus my listening skills have improved. He has made me a better person. Now if only he would shut up so I can get some work done. ( meant as a playful jab, not an insult). :)
@@dragletsofmakara1120 haha yeah, when I meet people with accents, if I can’t understand them right away, in time, my brain starts to get used to it and it becomes easy to understand them. I’d assume it would be similar talking with people who are deaf or hard of hearing. Thanks for the info!
I’m hard of hearing and use sign (I can speak, too). In noisy environments it’s difficult to understand when someone speaks to me (supermarkets, Costco, the gym, Walmart, in the car if the radio is on and my wife speaks to me,etc). I have dual hearing aids but again, noisy situations make them just be amplifiers. When I gesture that I missed what was said, people instinctively raise their voices. My response is to say shouting doesn’t help, but looking at me when you speak helps immensely. 99 percent of people nod and look squarely at me and we do fine.
Same here. When covid hit it made things really hard because of not being able to read their lips. I'm trying to learn sign language now, and I'd like my husband to learn as well so we can talk in loud places.
@@LauraLea40 Yes, and I would tell people, in a polite way, that raising their voice doesn’t help. I know they’re trying to do the kind thing but it isn’t helpful.
I am new to learning ASL and honestly sometimes it's really hard for me to talk and sign at the same time and I tend to get flustered but I've noticed with practice certain things are getting better. Often times I get kinda shy with my gesturing but I've made sure to learn enough to let a deaf person I am talking to know I am learning and I am a little slow at it :) I love these videos it definitely helps someone new like me feel more confident and definitely helps me kinda get to know the community more
I’m trying not to cry. I don’t know any deaf people but it hurts my heart that people would mock a deaf person. And to be so alienated because of not being able to hear when it’s not a choice. I tend to get very upset when I talk about it so I can’t even imagine how upsetting it must be for you both. My mother was born in the fifties and she’s always wanted to learn signing ❤️ Thank you for the after clip on the gesturing in the restaurant. ❤️
I love how you look at him in the eyes and still know what hes saying. Anyways, i have an experience that I wanted to share. So i was in a soccer game and a guy came because he was selling keychains for 2 dollars for support but he was deaf and I did not know what to say or do but I just smiled at him and made sure he knew I said thank you or that i was thankful. I found your channel recently but i hope that i learn more with you two. ❤❤
The video where you guys go through that McD drive thru really inspired me to learn at least basic ASL. It made me sad to learn you don't even like going in public a lot because of the ignorance of a lot of hearing people. It just made me really want to be prepared if I ever encounter someone deaf. Thanks for making these videos!
I feel like I would get so embarrassed when trying to communicate with a deaf person because I would DEFINITELY misspell my name and would just keep signing “sorry” over and over again😂
I’m glad “Switched at Birth” was brought up because thanks to that show I did become more aware of the Deaf community. WE NEED MORE SHOWS LIKE THOSE!!! Btw I love your channel, just subscribed! 💖
I've never been around anyone deaf or hard of hearing but in 8th grade I took it upon myself to learn some basic sign language so if I ever was I would be able to communicate easier and am now further educating myself and I love you guys and your channel because it really helps me familiarize myself with signs im still learning and you guys are so positive and entertaining :)
I know this is an old post, but it is my favorite. It touches on the most important part of human engagement...trying to communicate with the other person. This implies coming out of yourself and putting yourself in the other person's shoes! The two of you are so good at educating us...and doing it spontaneously! I laughed out loud when Ryan admitted he sometimes mocks back to a person that thinks he/she is funny by just flapping their hands about to a deaf person! I love this Channel, and suggest it to everyone...
I loved the beginning of the video it was amazing the editing is on fleek...i love u guys keep the videos coming..FYI this video made me laugh the "cute dog" part lol
I tend to use my hands when talking ever since I was a little kid, that along with my families fascination with loud noises and music is what caused me to learn and want to practice true ASL. Thank you and all the deaf/hard of hearing RUclipsrs who help us learn more about this community.
I've enjoyed a few of your videos...and I'm so relieved to know that it's not rude to gesture. When I served snacks at church, there was a teen boy who spoke through sign language and he ordered snacks every week. We ended up making up signs for his favorite choices. Like a Sprite was me pretending to swallow the sign for "S". It was fast paced, so we just did the best we could. He was so patient with me!
I'm learning sign language, not American Sign Language but, Brazilian Sign Language & I also have an app that's helping a lot. :] It's gonna be a process but, I'm really excited!!! ^u^
There's a young guy who lives somewhere nearby to me here in Britain. At one time, long ago, I learnt quite a considerable amount of the basic signs of sign language, and fingerspelling. Sadly, I've lost a lot of that, but when we do occasionally bump into each other, I'll understand he's expressing the weather is cold and wet, and I'll blow out my cheeks, frown hard at the sky, use my hands vigorously to show how shitty it is. He'll throw his head back and laugh and give me an appreciative thumbs-up. You need to use your face and body, unlike with hearing communication. I love it, and wear a silly smiley face after we part.
I’ve been trying to learn basic sign for a while. These videos actually help me have a deeper understanding of how conversations work while using sign. Plus, it’s good to know what, how, and when to use certain gestures
I'm glad to see that gestures can work in a pinch. I'd love to learn more about ASL. I'm 56 years old and have never met a deaf person. I vaguely know the alphabet and I've learned phrases like, "Jesus Christ is Lord " from learning and teaching signs in songs to children in Vacation Bible School in summer. If you want to excite elementary school children in learning signs, you might volunteer to help these children, and indeed we teachers how to sing and sign. We all do our best to learn to sign but I'm certain a deaf person would laugh at our small attempts. I like the program we use each year because it does incorporate sign into the entertainment at the end of the week. Learning basics from professionals may encourage students to continue learning ASL. It's been 30 years since I was in high school and we were not offered an ASL class but the traditional Spanish and French. (Living along the Mexican border I chose French 🤠) I'm going to see if the nearby community college teaches sign. I would love to learn how. Maybe I could offer to help a deaf person communicate with a hearing person. That would be as fun as learning French. Way back when I did go to community college I had thought about pursuing a career in linguistics. ASL would be another language to add to my quiver.
I'm willing to bet that 99.9% of deaf &/or hard of hearing people would NOT "laugh at your small attempts" to "sign", if you are making an effort and GENUINELY TRYING to communicate I absolutely believe that it IS/will be VERY MUCH APPRECIATED!!! One more thing... It's VERY POSSIBLE that you HAVE met a deaf person and didn't even know it. 😊
Talking and signing at the same time is called “Sim-Com” (Simultaneous Communication) and the sign for it is the same as communication but your dominant hand is in “S” handshape
Hmmm, first time I've heard of that. Thanks for sharing. Sign is always evolving. Long ago I learned about "total communication" and the sign for that. Left hand 'C', right hand 't' moving back and forth through the 'c'.
I absolutely love when people that have some kind of disability are really understanding when other people are rude because they don’t know how to act. It bridges the gap between the worlds, because it makes the average person feel less anxious about engaging. I think the way he handles the situation is great! I’d rather have someone point it out to me that I’m being a bit rude, in a funny way, then for them to get upset, offended, or hurt.
I was surprised to see just how excited some deaf people get when you know enough general signs to communicate with them! I knew just enough to brokenly ask a Walmart employee where to find the large animal water bottles (I have 5 guinea pigs) and he got so excited he basically ran there! Now every time I see him we smile and wave because I’ve helped other customers communicate better with him as well. Really nice guy!
I just found your channel and it's so great! I started learning ASL recently and your videos have helped me practice and learn new signs. They are also very informative, thank you!
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Once signed „You‘re welcome“ back at a customer who thanked me- he looked so happy and started to sign, had to stop him and signed „My sign language is aweful!“ he said „My hearing is aweful“ We both laughed and it kinda made my day
this is too sweet omg
awful*
@@birdo1278 Oh thanks! English is my second language and some words and their spelling just don’t want to get inside my head!^^
Lena Scharnreitner No worries!
Aww, so sweet.
Love it
“I was so encapsulated with you”
“Wow, cute dog”
I felt that. Hahaha.
My husband does the same thing to me. 😂
Same here :3 that was funny
But his very first reaction to her saying that, was very sweet 🥰
"I was so wrapped up in you, in every moment-"
"Holy shit did you see that dog"
I was dying laughing
I watched that part and read your comment at the same time...like...how😆
when your guy does this, you know what you're saying is boring him. Shut up.
When he signed "cute dog" when you were trying to convey feelings, I felt that on a spiritual level.
That's just men for you. We're shit taking any compliments or talking about feelings in general lol
An7ero same with me, as a girl. 😂😂😂
Bitch wtf?
@ men aren't really less emotional (for example anger is often supressed in women and not so supressed in men) and being good with feelings doesn't mean that you too need to be emotional, you just need emotional intelligence (empathy, self awareness, social skills, self regulation, motivation)
//p.s. women might cry more easily, but that doesn't mean that men wouldn't be distressed in the same situation, but they are more likely to not talk about it.
I love this even more because its not like he can look at the dog and still half listen to what she is saying
When I was in high school in ASL class, when we didn’t understand a sign the teacher would sign, the teacher would just say the sign and move on. In college, we have Deaf instructors and instead of writing or finger spelling the word, they would gesture and act out the word (examples like going up and down stairs, scuba diving) and honestly that helped me retain a lot more information than just being told the word and then moving on. Now I do better about learning signs faster, but it makes me thankful for my Deaf instructors who were extremely patient while we were learning.
I'm almost 50!!! But I learn by being shown a few times.
This is a better way to learn for anyone, whatever subject you are learning. Acting things out and getting information through different senses stimulates our brains more. I wish all teachers would use more active and multisensory ways of teaching!
I mean the Deaf community in my area strongly recommends only learning from Deaf teachers. It’s how they preserve Deaf culture and that way they know that what students are learning is correct. My deaf teacher told us so many stories of SL students he’s met that learnt wrong signs and etiquette from hearing teachers, it was shocking. It also provides job opportunities for Deaf people too, and they are much more involved in Deaf culture (which is just as important to learn as the sing language itself) than hearing people, besides CoDA’s
@@lisasnortum-phelps5458 agreed, it’s so much more effective
I think it depends on the gesture, like trying to get their attention, that’s not bad. If you THINK u know the sign and u try to do it, that’s not rude either. It’s rude to just gesture to be “funny”
agreed
sometimes i forget to turn on CC, and i zone out while he signs and i understand nothing
😂
I find myself reading his lips to understand some of the words even when they are excluded from the subtitles.
Turn on captions lol
Well I’ll do you one better. This is only the second video I’ve watched of theirs. And the first one she did more of the video and I could understand some of what he signed. But man he was going so fast in this one! And I was thinking if I have to gesture, how in the world am I supposed to know what he’s saying? So, uh, thanks for helping me discover how. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️😂
Me to bruh
I always thought sign language should be taught at schools, like this if you think so
Aside from being able to communicate with people who are deaf or hard of hearing, imagine how useful it'd be in emergency situations where you have to stay silent or voices can't be heard. And I think everyone should learn about the culture of the deaf community because it's incredible.
Evalynn
Like in the movie “The Silence”
@@nooriman5944 I was thinking more along the lines of an active shooter in a school/bank/college/etc. Or any hostage situation where a captive has access to a window and can communicate with people outside about happenings inside.
Evalynn
Yeah, it could be very helpful. I really want to learn ASL but sadly my school doesn’t offer it.
Noor ul Iman the movie “A silent Voice” is a very good movie about sign language +forgiveness + learning though it is Japanese sign language and not ASL
How does Ryan feel about someone who knows the abc’s in sign and tries to spell things out that way to communicate?
Yeah I wanna know too because the only thing I fully know in sign language is the alphabet.
As a Deaf person- my personal preference- would be please use what you know. Use the alphabet, but be open to when I teach you the sign and use it next time.
@@signer3130 omg thanks for letting us know! I'm learning asl and its fun. I hope I learn it completely one day
Ggggiiirrrrrrlllll my TA [Teacher Assistant] for my ASL 1 class at my college told me that before she could sign pretty fluently that she would fingerspell [aka the ABC spelling] ALL THE TIME and actually learned sign language better that way alongside her actual ASL classes. Deaf people will usually help teach you the signs for the word that you are spelling. At least learn how to say "Hi my name is *insert the fingerspelling of your name*" and let them know that you only know how to fingerspell the ABC's.
i’m around a deaf community at church, and one of the guys said “not that it’s rude, but a lot of deaf don’t know how to read or spell, they SIGN”
If evey person was taught a universal sign language at school, you could speak to anyone in the world
There's no such thing. Heck, we can't even get people to agree on a universal speaking language... Esperanto and Ubuntu were probably the closest we ever got.
there are so many though, check out Chinese Sign Language, their signs are lit.
Except sign language is not universal. ASL is for America. Perhaps, some signs may be common however, we cannot assume they are.
It would be really difficult cause each sign language is rooted on the spoken language of the country so it would be the same as asking that we all spoke the same language across the globe
Unless, ya know, you dont hands.
I have an accent when I speak English, so it is pretty normal for me having people asking me to repeat myself. Once I asked someone about a camping site on a national park, the guy happened to be deaf, he said: “I can read lips and can speak, but I am deaf”. I tried gesturing and enunciating every word. That did not go as planned, so I signed some basic asl for him “to wait” I was going to use some “pen and paper” (I know a little asl).
He was happy I could sign that and happy to read my questions. Same as you said, each person is different, not everyone has the same preferences.
Thank you for that!
Yeah, don't overenunciate, that's counterproductive. 👍🏻
I'm Italian, I ALWAYS gesture when I'm speaking with someone 😂
Lol, I'm hoh and was dated Italian man in the past, he would gesture with me often by talk to me or Even, when he talked to someone casual still gesturing, I assume Italian tend to being like this way? I love it.
Gala Passero, si! Me too. haha. I am Italian-American and I still use Italian gesture as well.
Brazilian with one side of the family coming from Italy (a couple of generations removed) and same!!! We still gesticulate a lot
@@IcingRose yess, we always do that because we have a lot of dialects and some people (especially the oldest ones) don't even speak Italian but only dialects and we can't understand each one of them... that's why we gesture a lot! :) (sorry for my English lol)
@@gaia8708 No worries! xD
When he said he mocks them back I burst out laughing 😂😂
same xD
Saaaaaame!!!
Same here
Me toooo ^_^
Yup 😂
In my asl class there is a general rule:
Sign. If u can’t sign, gesture. If they can’t understand u fingerspell. If that doesn’t work write. If all else fails go to the talk box and speak.
This may sound like an ignorant question, but what's a "Talk Box"? Or do you mean just use the mouth and actually speak in clear conversation so the other person can lipread?
Is a talkbox like a cell phone??
I think they mean a place in the classroom where you can physically go to speak to communicate with others..?
Verbally that is
My friend uses these Text to Speech apps, it works well however it takes a lot of time to talk to each other. He uses these because we don't understand ASL. We are currently learning but due to Covid we have to go to online meetings. I'm done with the basics already...
She's being all cute "I was so encapsulated with you at the time"
Ryan: Wow cute dog
🤭🤦🏾♂️🤣
When I was in middle school, I had a friend that had deaf parents. They could read lips, and I honestly think that was my only saving grace because as a middle schooler I was horrible at gesturing. My friend and her siblings were all hearing, so I guess it was one of those things where they had to learn how to communicate with their kids somehow. My friend and her siblings knew some asl, but they didnt always use it. I remember her parents getting frustrated with her and making annoyed faces and tapping her shoulder angrily as if to say "wtf are you doing?! Sign please!" They taught me a little bit of asl, but I dont remember a lot. I know the alphabet still and a couple basic phrases. The biggest thing that I learned from having a best friend with deaf parents was that I got really good at looking at people when they talk and really enraging with someone during a conversation. I also had to learn to read lips. In order for me to understand my friend's parents, I had to get pretty good at reading lips since they didnt always make noise when they signed. They would always mouth words, but not always actually speak them. Every now and then when I'm in a situation where I can't talk, I still find myself signing "thank you" rather than saying it (like if I'meating and my mouth is full and you dont want to be rude by speaking with a full mouth, but you still need to thank someone). And I also sign "i love you" a lot to my bf and my family (especially if we're in a situation where it would be hard to hear each other talking, like if we're on opposite sides of a door). I think everyone should have to learn basic asl. They teach basic spanish in schools, so I don't understand why they wouldn't teach some basic asl. It's really good to know.
As a food cashier I’ve communicated with deaf people before and managers just tell us to rip a receipt and ask them to write out their order. And we call people out by name to get their order but obviously that doesn’t work with deaf people so instead of asking for a name, I will gesture to them “I will bring you your food.” It’s an easy and understandable gesture, and I try to remember to sign thanks. It’s rare that a deaf person will come in so I don’t get much practice doing this and I won’t lie it catches me off guard and I’m worried of seeming disrespectful.
I talk (keeping it to a minimum) hoping they can read lips because im behind the counter with a lot of ingredients in front of me. They usually do a good job of pointing to what they want (UNLIKE OTHER PEOPLE) but if im not sure i say the ingredient name and gesture towards it with the utensil in hand. Another example is when i ask if its for here or to go: “here” +gesture towards the ground or “to-go” +gesture with thumb outside.
Their McDonald’s drive through video really blew me away. When I worked at a Chinese restaurant, there was a dude who occasionally cane in he signed that he was deaf to me (it was my first time seeing the sign but I’m not an idiot so I figured it out immediately) and I did simple gestures (thank you, bye, 5 minutes, take a seat, etc). It’s not that hard, guys. I feel like it’s 80% intention, and 20% situation
If you're trying they're usually happy no matter what.
I work at a Starbucks n what I usually do is have the person who’s a regular wait in a designated spot so they don’t miss their drink. Some of us have learned to do basics like you’re welcome but we usually communicate through writing
I remember working at a McDonald's and 1 deaf person came in and I didnt realize they were deaf so they asked me to get them pen and paper. They didn't mind and I was more than willing to help them. When they went to sit down and their order was ready i took it to them even though it was somewhat busy and my manager screams at me saying what I'm doing...um I'm doing my job and doing the best customer service I can deliver...they just told me to let them know next time 🤦♂️🤷♂️. The customer thanked me regardless for the effort and thoughtfulness for doing great service.
I have a cousin who has been deaf since she was 5 (she's in her late 40's now) and a big thing I noticed with her is that a lot of people in my family will unfortunately brush her off when talking with her because they don't think to gesture or even won't try to understand when she gestures instead of signing. Her and her mom know ASL fluently, but only I and a few other family members know some (not much) basic stuff so there's a lot of fingerspelling. This video made me think of a time at a family gathering where I noticed she was sitting by herself so I went over to sit with her and asked her by gesturing if she had seen the show Switched at Birth. She immediately got so excited and got her mom's attention to come over and we sat and talked about the show for a while. Also in my experience, gesturing helps with learning new signs because I will gesture something and she will stop me and show me the sign for whatever I'm trying to say
This gives me so many feels. You are a goddess!
Do it trying to figure out what to say to that is the best way home and finished with the kids loved it but it would be great if you could send me a copy of the receipt for the clarification and the earliest you can drive me to work tomorrow and I will be there at call back on the phone with my mom and sister are you doing today I had to work late today sorry for your mom to get the rest between you and me I have to cut you off the list for the next few days and I will be in today to see if we can make it to the meeting tonight but I will be there at call
I've had 2 experiences with gesture prior to my first ASL class. The 1st one was someone was helping me at a Nordstrom's Rack; we were talking comfortably, I moved my hair back behind my ear, and the woman noticed my hearing aids. She started talking really loud, saying things very simplistically, and gesturing like a Benny Hill Comedy show; big gestures towards the clothes, towards my body, pointing her index finger in my face. It was incredibly rude in the moment, but I really tried to just maintain my cool. I ended up not buying a blouse I really liked because I just wanted to get away from her.
The 2nd experience was when I had broken one of my hearing aids (a car ran over it, so I had to wait until a new mold could be made and new hearing aid components put together, about 2 weeks) and I had forgotten to put my other hearing aid in. I was out and trying to buy coffee and donuts. It wasn't until I was in the store that I realized I didn't have any hearing aids in and I was embarrassed. The owner knew me and asked me what was wrong (because I walked in and then almost walked right back out). I pointed at my ears and said, I don't know if you knew that I wear hearing aids but I don't have them in. She responded with, it's ok, I know what you like, just tell me when I point at the donuts (she tried to broadly gesture while talking). I read lips pretty well, so I just nodded. She pointed out what I usually buy and I nodded yes or shook my head no, at each donut. She wrapped it up, and even gave me a free coffee because I was embarrassed and she wanted me to come back. I appreciated her being that way so much!
So that's my two experiences of gesturing with hearing people.
What a cool donut lady! Thanks for sharing your stories
thanks for the insights
I showed my deaf sister your videos to prove to her that many deaf and mute people are informing the world with such inspiring videos like yours. Keep posting more. You guys are a beautiful couple!
I have a special needs son, and when sign language was brought up, I was intimidated by it, thinking there's no way, I will understand it. Our speach therapist suggested one word at a time. That was great advice. It diminished the intimidation. Through that I learned the majority of hearing people are intimidated by sign language. Their pride doesn't let them accept it. We have very intelligent people in our family, but none of them have tried just to learn a couple of signs for my son. All and all I've experienced this with the majority of the hearing world, so with that said, when Ryan experienced those people mocking sign, they do it to try to make themselves to be the dominant individual, so that on looker's will not detect their inability to understand. It's sad that their feeling of intimidation, that their pride will not allow themselves to accept the fact that no one knows everything, and life is constant learning, so they miss out on the beauty of meeting new people and learning new things. We need to pray for them.......thank you for your videos, and keep them coming. You two are a beautiful couple!
I can't stand when I tell people my mom is deaf and they say "oh I know this in sign language" and put there middle finger up like its really sign but I 100% isn't.
Wow, that’s beyond rude 😳
Too bad you can't slap them in the face and say it is sign language.
Jennifer Marr what’s fuck you in ASL then? Interesting how gestures and sign language don’t really overlap much
Felix Dawson “Fuck you” is so good in sign- definitely look it up!
@@felixdawson8497 pretty old but I think it’s like dragging your hand on your through and then like flipping off your chin if that makes sense
Lmao he sees a dog every video and gets excited no matter what🤣I love it
Can't say that I blame him...I mean... Dogs are preTTY FREAKIN AWESOME!
"I think u don't know babe" lmao
Paige A. 😂
But how does he know if she’s mouthing or if she’s using her voice?
I'm only learning german sign language but any sign language has their own grammatical structure. So at least in gsl if you're speaking and signing at the same time, it's called lbg (basically signing while you're speaking) and you're using the grammar of the speaking language as it's nearly impossible to use two languages with different grammar so yoz have to adapt.
Its so cute when they show love like that
@@a9029k vibrations, maybe? Or different breathing patterns; mouthing vs voicing?
"Switched at Birth" was wonderful for awareness. Watched it with my girls when they were younger. I'm glad ASL is offered as a course in their high school.
No it isnt.
out of topic but am i the only one who thinks ryan looks like matt damon? lol
Precious Kidoh lmao exactly what I thought
Precious Kidoh yeeees hahaha. I was keep thinking why he looks so familiar.
Yup, looks like him a lot!
Yesss I’ve been trying to figure this out since I subbed like a month ago, this is it!
Definitely Matt Damon.
I think the game you were thinking about was charades, maybe?
yep i think that's it!-ryan
@@SignDuoChannel hello
now we need merch with ‘Wow! Cute dog!’ on it 😂😂
But in Sign language! (Pictures of hands on the shirt)
0CheshireGrin0 and @mars clever
“Wow- cute dog!”
Good to know you can do that in any language :0
I seriously could be having a conversation with the most important person in the world, but if I see a cute dog; I’m pointing it out and no ones gonna stop me XD
You two lovely people (and Java) have really opened my eyes as to how unaccommodating society is towards the deaf/hearing impaired community, even through things as simple as a lack of basic awareness. I just want to say thank you so much for making all of your amazingly helpful content. Y’all have inspired me to start learning ASL, as well as to encourage my peers to learn it also. Keep up the great work and I just know that change will come. I wish you both the best!!
when i was working at a different tanning salon one of the employees got so annoyed that this lady was walking in to tan because she was deaf, i grew up being around my grandmas best friend who was deaf from a childhood accident and immediately took over and helped the lady gesturing to her and then writing down the different bed options since her normal room was busy and she was so nice and so thankful someone actually was treating her like a normal person rather than just ignoring her. people can be SO CRUEL i don't understand it. I've always wanted to learn sign language and your channel has seriously helped so much in learning small signs for here and there until i can focus in on learning it fully.
I had a similar experience working retail. There was a woman who wanted to do a return and she didn't speak English, she was with her child. Everyone was ready to palm her off. I called upstairs to see if anyone spoke mandarin which they didn't then I used Google translate to audio. The relief on her face was so strong.
Nothing normal about tanning beds 😬
@@missbeaussie that's so kind of you, and quick thinking!
It’s so nice to see Ryan speaking to us more than just a quick minute. Thanks for that clip at the end, the asada burrito sounds bomb! 🌯
Daniel Paiz it was soooo good!
I went to a family funeral a couple of months ago and met a HoH person. She had a hearing aid and I noticed that she seemed to want to sign some words, almost like it was a habit. So, using a lot of the words that Sign Duo taught me, as well as a few others, I started signing with her and explained that I was still learning and was new at ASL. She was extremely grateful for my attempts and she was patient with me, and even helped me by correcting my signs. I think she was happy that I was just willing to give it a try. :-)
So awesome Misty! I'm so glad that you tried to sign! Yes, I don't mind that people make mistakes when signing, I just love that they try! -ryan
Absolutely, we are so appreciative when a hearing person tries their best to help us understand you. As we would do the same. Thank you for being so thoughtful!
HH=Hard of hearing
You two are so adorable. I have a lot of deaf individuals come into my work and am trying to brush up on my basic signs.
I’ve noticed he makes popping sounds with his mouth a lot when he signs, it’s actually kinda nice like asmr
When Ryan got distracted and said 'Wow, cute dog' he reminded me of the scene from the movie ‘Up’ when the dog said 'Squirrel' LOL
Up
Great movie man, haven't seen it in over a decade, can't believe it's been that long.
@@unicornmadness6286 12 years and I’ve watched it so many times and still shed tears as if I’m watching it for the first time ♥️ 🥲
I also think Switched at Birth really made a good job at showing off the Deaf Community. I’m teaching myself because of the show and you guys. I Like watching your videos. Keep it up. ❤️
the deaf community actually thinks otherwise. its alright and does show some insight but it's not the best representation and doesnt do a great job. at all.
never watched Switched at Birth..hmmm
thats what happened to me and i took a semester at uni and it was so eye opening i wish everyone had to take it because it opens ur eyes and oyu see from their point of view. because in the class we could not talk but we could write notes or sign if needed it was awesome to be apart of their world
my favourite show
Omg me too I watched switched at birth and I was just fascinated with the language and wanted to learn more so I started learning on my own, then I just started to notice sign language being spoken everywhere and I’m like why didn’t I see this before. It’s amazing and I love it❤️
I need me a guy like Ryan. One that informs me about all the cute dogs ❤❤
Absolutely!
When I lived in China, I had to learn to gesture as well. Many of the struggles you describe are very similar to just being in a foreign culture and not speaking the language. You can communicate so, so much nonverbally. I was always so shocked at how much I could communicate just through my limited Mandarin and gestures.
Understanding Ryan's story is so helpful to me as a primarily self-taught hearing person in the ASL and other sign communities, I noticed his structure is so similar to mine, and how some may think Ryan is 'faking it'.
I (hearing) was actually working my job as an event promoter at a home remodeling show and a family that was happened to be deaf showed up at my table. I was able to gesture and talk as I normally would with any other person, and the more the conversation progressed with them, they seemed appreciative that I wasn’t mocking them. They ended up teaching me a few basic signs, and now people in my department are learning some basic sign language through Skillshare! THANK YOU GUYS FOR PUTTING THIS VIDEO UP! I was very worried I may have offended them.
My hoh husband and I started learning asl. We were signing and his best friend on the fishing trip did the mocking gesturing to us. I realized he was feeling left out and asked him if he was. He admitted yes. So I let him in on what we were saying. I thought wow this could lead to a good understanding of his friend knowing how it feels for my husband to be left out of conversations all the time that way.
What does "hoh" mean?
I would guess hard of hearing.
jesus, imagine having an ADULT friend that resorts to mocking you rather than using his big boy words to express that he felt excluded.
@@trevormcclurkin3984 ohmygosh... Hahaha, yep you're probably right... Ya'know had "hoh" been HOH, I might've realized what it meant...😐
That was a 'Biden moment'.
HH=Hard of Hearing
Lol my bf is over hearing you talk, and he kept saying “ charades” everytime you kept calling it something else lol
Me too haha
I love this channel. I've been teaching myself asl through some different RUclips channels. Then in June of this year I went to bed fine and woke up half deaf, all my tests came back negative so nobody really knows why it happened, so I've been trying to learn even more asl, or to take classes somewhere. But watching you guys, it helps me see how the hand movements are in some of the words I actually know and how it differs a bit from what I'm learning on RUclips through other deaf channels. Thank you so much for these videos guys, I believe I subscribed to the channel and look forward to seeing more of you two, which by the way, you guys are the CUTEST couple!
Holy cow that must have been terrifying
The look he gave you when you said, “I’m surprised how good you are at gesturing” was adorable. 🥰
she is so gorgeous. and a lovely couple overall
I loved seeing that clip at the end! I'm so glad you added that!
At my last job, I had a Deaf coworker. She communicated pretty well by gestures and notes to get her job done. I would have little chats with her every time we worked together. I took a sign language class in college (we learned SEE, not ASL). I remember some signs, and fingerspelling. When I started spelling out something I didn't know how to sign, she would teach me the sign. Thankfully, I did remember enough other signs that I wasn't JUST spelling. But she didn't seem to mind. I was the only person at work who knew any sign at all, so I hope she appreciated my attempts to communicate and get to know her.
I'm sure she appreciated your attempts. Good for you!
I worked in a Grocery store for many years. The Gentleman I spoke with was extremely patient with me. We would write down his order and his wife had passed. His daughter helped me help his family get the stuff they needed. I'm grateful for the abc's that I had learned as a child. But, mostly grateful that they had patience for me. Thank you so very much. You both are amazingly awesome and kind!!!!!!
Ahahahaha omg! “I just mock them back”!!! I had to replay that!
Oh, man...I’m hearing but we have a very prominent deaf community in my area. I’ve learned a bit of sign language over the years (please, thank you, sorry, I love you, the alphabet) but am not fluent-so when a deaf customee came into the store I was working at in high school I wrote with her on a piece of paper. It seemed to work better for both of us than gesturing, as I didn’t want to offend or misinterpret.
Now I have a son who is hearing, but non-verbal, and we’re using baby signs with him. I’m learning more and I am so stoked I found your channel to help! I’ve already picked up a few new signs from just two of your videos.
Thank you thank you thank you for sharing and educating!
Thank you for including the part at the end with Ryan gesturing in real life. That was really helpful to see! I just finished ASL 1 and we had a silent dinner at a restaurant and we had to gesture and point for the waiter to understand
I just wanted to let you know that after I watched this video, I taught myself the alphabet and common phrases and will continue to learn ASL. Thank you for inspiring me.
I love how he wants her opinion too
I am just learning asl with my kids and found this video. As a hearing individual I would find it helpful if there was cc or a voice over to understand what he is signing. I would subscribe and follow.
@@Dyin2Fly84 There is CC :) you just have to turn it on. Just hover over the "CC" icon on the bottom right corner to see your options.
@@elizabethsmurlick6585 I turned it on. But its not telling me what he's saying. Its only writing for whats being said. Not what's being signed..
I think the girl is super polite, has anyone noticed that she never says a word while the guy is signing? It's like in a spoken conversation, totally awesome
Man after my own heart:
Significant Other: *talking about the relationship*
Me: LOOK! CUTE DOG!
Im a hearing person and I started learning asl by myself around January. I was always wanted to learn asl bc not a lot of hearing people know it and I want to communicate with deaf community. I started learning asl through books and Instagram videos. And, honestly i thought i was learning it wrong. Then I found this channel and I saw how much I actually learned. So I want to thank you guys for,well, just being yourself. I'm so happy to be a part of the sign family!
Sheva Lipkind 😁🤟 thank you. I know, thats such a great feeling! I’ve felt that way too. It means you’re doing good 💕
5:50 “I just mock them back” damn it feels good to be a gangsta 😂😎
I found Sign Duo tonight, and you two are doing a great job educating hearing people. You are way more patient than I am when confronted with denied access. Plus, I realized after turning on cc, I really can understand most of what both of you are signing. Been a long time since I've signed. Thank you for the practice! I adore that you have a sign name Sign Duo.
20 years down the line "Babe you still talk while signing" 😂
I have a friend who is an ASL interpreter and I asked him this, and he seemed torn, so I'd be curious to your view on this:
Ryan, I know that correct grammar in ASL is different from English, does it take away from the meaning at times when Ellen signs using English grammar?
Ellen: Do you, or does Ryan prefer you, to sign while speaking, in group settings, so as to be sure he didn't miss anything, or doesn't have to be as diligent at lip/situation reading?
I'm quite curious to this too, as I taught myself some signs but I don't understand the grammar. If I were to try and convey a message to a deaf person through sign might they not understand because I don't know the correct word order among other things.
They did a video on this where they explained different versions of ASL like simcom and see and pidgin?
Man it’s so hard to sign word for word like Ellen does. I would say that’s why it’s a bit slower. The grammar of asl or any language is so important. It’s not too hard too, just backwards lol takes out most conjunctions. But I do find it interesting to hear the take on people’s preferences.
I don't want to answer for Ryan, but from what I've noticed he's an incredibly English signer with some ASL tendencies, if that makes any sense. The majority of the time it looks like SEE word order and habits, so I don't think Ellen signing English would be too impactful
The sound of Ryan’s watch moving as he signed was... oddly satisfying.
Yep
This is great! Seeing you, Ryan, signing while reading the cc helps. I think it's almost like immersion. Like it's between rigid online learning of ASL vs immersion.
Plus, your videos are entertaining, so that helps a lot!
Your channel is awesome! You two are so great together!
I really appreciate your humble and sincere spirits! Thank you for being willing to be a bridge and help people (including myself!) understand! This video helps a lot because I have always wondered if my efforts to communicate (with limited sign knowledge) would be welcomed or not. This gives me confidence! I adore your videos!
When I used to work at a retail store I had deaf couple and I had never had to help anyone who was deaf so I was nerves because I didn’t want to make them feel bad....so I gestured them the entire time while talking and they left with a huge smile on their face. So, it does feel more intimate rather than just writing stuff on a paper because it feels like you don’t even care to try! So thank you!
True, but someone people, like myself are horrible at gestures. I'd rather write it out instead of gesturing something confusing.
I love you two!!! Ryan's mouth noises are some ASMR, anyone else feel the same way? 😂
Caileen Brennan HAHA YES
Yeh I like em. Thought I was the only one 🤭
I actually grew up watching the show "Signing Time." That show was my first exposure to signing and the concept of someone being deaf. I'm not sure if it's still being aired for the younger generations, I hope it is.
Just reading "Signing Time" has the theme song stuck in my head. I have a bunch of their DvDs (not sure how or why I acquired them, I've had them since I was little) and used to watch them all the time. Maybe I'll go rewatch them soon, thank you for the reminder. It's time I revist Alex and Leah
@@Randomness823 lol it’s signing time with Alex and Leah....
Im 38 and learning sign, and I love signing time, lol. you can find on youtube.
I used to fill a notebook with diagrams of the signs I learned in each episode
I had to take a second language in high school and I chose sign language. I was pretty good, but once I graduated, I had nobody to talk to so I lost that skill. Watching you (Sign Duo), I now want to pick it back up. :) I have the captions on, but I find it difficult to watch your hands (Ryan) and read at the same time, so I watch you first, then back track to see if I got what you said. I'm glad I found your channel! Love you guys!!!
These videos are great. I really appreciate getting insight and education for how I might better interact with someone who is deaf.
On top of this, I am gaining perspective on how to overcome communication barriers, not just in every day life but especially within a relationship. Speaking different languages is an obvious barrier to overcome. Something less obvious is when a person has difficulty communicating with others dispute speaking a common language. Their is more to communication then just the language or even the body language. I am getting insight into those things from this video. Thank you for these insights and I appreciate what you are doing.
can yall stop being so adorable together like y’all are sO cute
I AM SO HAPPY I FOUND THIS CHANNEL 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏽😫💕 when I was little my best friend’s little brother had a hard time hearing (from a learning disability though ) and so we all tried to learn sign language to try and make it easier for him and I think I got a little bit good at it! Unfortunately this was in Guatemala and because we speak Spanish over there signs are different ( as far as I know of course! And I was never fluent by any means over there anyway) so when I moved here I was so sad to realize that what little I know didn’t really work all that well. I am Sooooooooo excited to watch all of you guy’s videos and practice and hopefully learn as much ASL as I can!!!!!! I’m already on like video 12 and I turned on closed captions but try to go back and forth between reading and then testing to see if I can understand it if I rewind and watch again ( like you guys suggested a couple of videos ago lol). Can you imagine how amazing it would be if I’m even a tiny bit functional in ASL in let’s say a year? I mean WOW,! Anyway! Haha just wanted to say that’s this is an AMAAAZING LEARNING TOOL and to please keep it up!!!!👏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💕 we need more channels/ people like this!😭❤️🙌🏽
I know you can do it Sabina! I'm glad our videos are a learning tool!
Ryan, what do you do for a living? I’m curious about how different jobs accommodate people who are deaf and hard of hearing.
This is an old post, but I’d still like to answer.
I’m not deaf, but my work partner is. We have the same job but during different shifts of the day. I work mornings, he works evenings. We work on a loading dock where semi trucks make deliveries.
One part of the job is expeditor relief. That means when the expeditor is on lunch or vacation, we take over full responsibility which includes arriving trucks, answering a doorbell, and answering the phone. I don’t know how he answers the phone, but I know he does. The trucks have a strict schedule, so they know to stand next to their trucks when they arrive. It’s mostly the same drivers over and over, so my partner has built a relationship with each one. As for the doorbell, there is a flashing light above the door.
Apparently, the flashing light is set to such a frequency that it mimics the effects of an alarm. I barely notice the flashing, but my partner always sees it.
Another part of our job is to receive and dispatch special items on the trucks. We work in an office next to the dock. When a truck arrives with one of these items, I get paged on the intercom, and I go receive it. But for my partner, the expeditor flicks a switch on the dock, which activates a flashing light in our office, so he knows to go out and collect. If he needs to dispatch these items, he writes a note and tapes it to the dock door of the particular truck. For me, I stand at the door of my office and scream the drivers name.
My partner loves to laugh and make jokes, talking about movies, video games, and family. He has partially trained me and has helped me more times than I can count. It takes patience and concentration to understand what he says, thus my listening skills have improved. He has made me a better person. Now if only he would shut up so I can get some work done. ( meant as a playful jab, not an insult). :)
@@dragletsofmakara1120 haha yeah, when I meet people with accents, if I can’t understand them right away, in time, my brain starts to get used to it and it becomes easy to understand them. I’d assume it would be similar talking with people who are deaf or hard of hearing. Thanks for the info!
Any gesture to community with another person is a wonderful gesture
I’m hard of hearing and use sign (I can speak, too). In noisy environments it’s difficult to understand when someone speaks to me (supermarkets, Costco, the gym, Walmart, in the car if the radio is on and my wife speaks to me,etc). I have dual hearing aids but again, noisy situations make them just be amplifiers. When I gesture that I missed what was said, people instinctively raise their voices. My response is to say shouting doesn’t help, but looking at me when you speak helps immensely. 99 percent of people nod and look squarely at me and we do fine.
Same here. When covid hit it made things really hard because of not being able to read their lips. I'm trying to learn sign language now, and I'd like my husband to learn as well so we can talk in loud places.
@@LauraLea40 Yes, and I would tell people, in a polite way, that raising their voice doesn’t help. I know they’re trying to do the kind thing but it isn’t helpful.
I am new to learning ASL and honestly sometimes it's really hard for me to talk and sign at the same time and I tend to get flustered but I've noticed with practice certain things are getting better. Often times I get kinda shy with my gesturing but I've made sure to learn enough to let a deaf person I am talking to know I am learning and I am a little slow at it :) I love these videos it definitely helps someone new like me feel more confident and definitely helps me kinda get to know the community more
I’m trying not to cry. I don’t know any deaf people but it hurts my heart that people would mock a deaf person. And to be so alienated because of not being able to hear when it’s not a choice. I tend to get very upset when I talk about it so I can’t even imagine how upsetting it must be for you both. My mother was born in the fifties and she’s always wanted to learn signing ❤️
Thank you for the after clip on the gesturing in the restaurant. ❤️
I love how you look at him in the eyes and still know what hes saying. Anyways, i have an experience that I wanted to share. So i was in a soccer game and a guy came because he was selling keychains for 2 dollars for support but he was deaf and I did not know what to say or do but I just smiled at him and made sure he knew I said thank you or that i was thankful. I found your channel recently but i hope that i learn more with you two. ❤❤
I love the way you look at each other's faces when you're signing and not at each other's hands. Such a beautiful connection.
The video where you guys go through that McD drive thru really inspired me to learn at least basic ASL. It made me sad to learn you don't even like going in public a lot because of the ignorance of a lot of hearing people. It just made me really want to be prepared if I ever encounter someone deaf. Thanks for making these videos!
I feel like I would get so embarrassed when trying to communicate with a deaf person because I would DEFINITELY misspell my name and would just keep signing “sorry” over and over again😂
I’m glad “Switched at Birth” was brought up because thanks to that show I did become more aware of the Deaf community. WE NEED MORE SHOWS LIKE THOSE!!! Btw I love your channel, just subscribed! 💖
yeah! Switched at birth! Emmett is so adorbs. I'm on the episode where the bitchy mom is FINALLY learning sign. lol
.....but I want to see the dog 😂
I've never been around anyone deaf or hard of hearing but in 8th grade I took it upon myself to learn some basic sign language so if I ever was I would be able to communicate easier and am now further educating myself and I love you guys and your channel because it really helps me familiarize myself with signs im still learning and you guys are so positive and entertaining :)
I know this is an old post, but it is my favorite. It touches on the most important part of human engagement...trying to communicate with the other person. This implies coming out of yourself and putting yourself in the other person's shoes! The two of you are so good at educating us...and doing it spontaneously! I laughed out loud when Ryan admitted he sometimes mocks back to a person that thinks he/she is funny by just flapping their hands about to a deaf person! I love this Channel, and suggest it to everyone...
I loved the beginning of the video it was amazing the editing is on fleek...i love u guys keep the videos coming..FYI this video made me laugh the "cute dog" part lol
i love your guy’s style of editing!! great video :)
Kaylee Dyer awe thank you!!! ☺️🤟
there is a deaf character 'sam' (played by sean berdy) in a show called the society and i became interested in sign language through that show :')
i am everyone else I LOVE THAT SHOW I WATCHED ALL OF IT IN ONE DAY AND MY SIGNING ALL CAME BACK TO ME ONE DAY I SCREEEECHED
YESSS HES MY FAVORITE CHARACTER
He also plays Emmet in the show switched at birth which is also a deaf culture/education show.
I tend to use my hands when talking ever since I was a little kid, that along with my families fascination with loud noises and music is what caused me to learn and want to practice true ASL. Thank you and all the deaf/hard of hearing RUclipsrs who help us learn more about this community.
I've enjoyed a few of your videos...and I'm so relieved to know that it's not rude to gesture. When I served snacks at church, there was a teen boy who spoke through sign language and he ordered snacks every week. We ended up making up signs for his favorite choices. Like a Sprite was me pretending to swallow the sign for "S". It was fast paced, so we just did the best we could. He was so patient with me!
I'm learning sign language, not American Sign Language but, Brazilian Sign Language & I also have an app that's helping a lot. :] It's gonna be a process but, I'm really excited!!! ^u^
What app are you using?
Sim!! What app? I know Peruvian Sign Language and quero aprender LIBRAS so bad (just as ASL). If you ever need someone to practice, just tell me :)
There's a young guy who lives somewhere nearby to me here in Britain. At one time, long ago, I learnt quite a considerable amount of the basic signs of sign language, and fingerspelling. Sadly, I've lost a lot of that, but when we do occasionally bump into each other, I'll understand he's expressing the weather is cold and wet, and I'll blow out my cheeks, frown hard at the sky, use my hands vigorously to show how shitty it is. He'll throw his head back and laugh and give me an appreciative thumbs-up. You need to use your face and body, unlike with hearing communication. I love it, and wear a silly smiley face after we part.
Loved watching this. I have experienced this a little bit since I am a little bit deaf.
I’ve been trying to learn basic sign for a while. These videos actually help me have a deeper understanding of how conversations work while using sign. Plus, it’s good to know what, how, and when to use certain gestures
i'm so glad you two have found each other! ))
I'm glad to see that gestures can work in a pinch. I'd love to learn more about ASL. I'm 56 years old and have never met a deaf person. I vaguely know the alphabet and I've learned phrases like, "Jesus Christ is Lord " from learning and teaching signs in songs to children in Vacation Bible School in summer. If you want to excite elementary school children in learning signs, you might volunteer to help these children, and indeed we teachers how to sing and sign. We all do our best to learn to sign but I'm certain a deaf person would laugh at our small attempts. I like the program we use each year because it does incorporate sign into the entertainment at the end of the week. Learning basics from professionals may encourage students to continue learning ASL. It's been 30 years since I was in high school and we were not offered an ASL class but the traditional Spanish and French. (Living along the Mexican border I chose French 🤠) I'm going to see if the nearby community college teaches sign. I would love to learn how. Maybe I could offer to help a deaf person communicate with a hearing person. That would be as fun as learning French. Way back when I did go to community college I had thought about pursuing a career in linguistics. ASL would be another language to add to my quiver.
I'm willing to bet that 99.9% of deaf &/or hard of hearing people would NOT "laugh at your small attempts" to "sign", if you are making an effort and GENUINELY TRYING to communicate I absolutely believe that it IS/will be VERY MUCH APPRECIATED!!!
One more thing...
It's VERY POSSIBLE that you HAVE met a deaf person and didn't even know it. 😊
Talking and signing at the same time is called “Sim-Com” (Simultaneous Communication) and the sign for it is the same as communication but your dominant hand is in “S” handshape
Hmmm, first time I've heard of that. Thanks for sharing. Sign is always evolving. Long ago I learned about "total communication" and the sign for that. Left hand 'C', right hand 't' moving back and forth through the 'c'.
I absolutely love when people that have some kind of disability are really understanding when other people are rude because they don’t know how to act. It bridges the gap between the worlds, because it makes the average person feel less anxious about engaging. I think the way he handles the situation is great! I’d rather have someone point it out to me that I’m being a bit rude, in a funny way, then for them to get upset, offended, or hurt.
ugh she signs so smoothly she makes it look so much easier than it feels when learning XD
I was surprised to see just how excited some deaf people get when you know enough general signs to communicate with them! I knew just enough to brokenly ask a Walmart employee where to find the large animal water bottles (I have 5 guinea pigs) and he got so excited he basically ran there! Now every time I see him we smile and wave because I’ve helped other customers communicate better with him as well. Really nice guy!
I just found your channel and it's so great! I started learning ASL recently and your videos have helped me practice and learn new signs. They are also very informative, thank you!
I love the noises he makes with his mouth when he is signing, I don't know why. I hope that isn't offensive to point out