Group 3 : Literally crazy this afternoon my ex messaged me to hookup and I told him no and left it as that, but honestly it’s because I don’t want anything meaningless. We have been liking each others posts on Instagram and today he decided to message me. But I want more of a romantic connection but I haven’t told him, it was kinda hard to walk away and put my foot down.
@@daniellasalgado3665 It gets easier! Lol!! I had the same thing happened, basically exact same situation. Feelings were already there for the both, BUT, hes stuck in a sh!t situation and I want no part of it. Keep holding out, if you want to get his attention, "no" is a good way to start. And no is a full sentence all on its own, and a good way to get someone out of there comfort zone and make a choice once amd for all❤️
Why don't you tell him that you want a romantic connection? Be direct. You can't get it if you don't ask for it. And if he's not prepared to be that romantic connection, then you walk away.
For me it's a mix of pile 2 and 3. And it seems accurate, although I basically checked out of curiosity. I said goodbye to him because just like you picked up there was that energetic bond between us that kept me away from other people as well as the unmet need that I eventually expressed without guilt tripping him. I admitted what I need and deserve and that he's not giving it to me. That was enough of a reason to part ways. I don't think there will be any coming back ever again. Learnt my lessons and want to move forward to find love.
Pile 2. We do have a strong connection but his lazy efforts are turning me off making me angry and I'm trying to convince myself that he's just trash. He isn't good enough for me and it's his loss. He lost out on true genuine loyal love.
Pile 3, is something that resonates with me sadly. Im currently going through pluto transit opposite my natal sun and her rising is also opposite that. It was a whirlwind romance and she wanted to get married quickly but it started to break apart because I was weary for committing to her because it already moving so fast. Accusations of cheating. Constant roller coaster of peace to fights everyday. Taking its toll, It lasted for 6 months and now it’s over and the person I met her as is not the person she is now. Volatile, sharp tongued and tumultuous. Possessive and obsessive. Unfaithful as well. Thanks for this Melissa
Wow. Pile 1 was spot on. Addiction IS the matter at hand. He had it kicked for 1.5 years, and a split second he threw it all away, then I came along and knew of the issue, but didnt know the extent. Insead of him dealing w anything, he over indulges. He does repect and care about me, but hes GOT to get his crap together, I have such little patience, and ive been more that patient w him, we started as friends and neither of us were looking for this, but it happened, and here we are. I cant do it for him, and I cant stand a quitter, and hes got A LOT of quit in him! Its why I try and steer clear from fire signs... haven't met one yet that can handle their vices.
Spot on for pile 3, he's ghosted me 2 months now after giving me bread crumbs for a year. He's definitely a avoidant attachment style that messed with my head. I love that blue and pink ring you are wearing, could you please tell me what it is and thank you for a insightful reading 😊
Pile 1 - The ring. We went to Court over a ring when we split. He also made me give back his class ring from high school (where we went together and I confessed my eternal feelings) that I had. Because he said he couldn't get back to who he was without it. It was a whole thing. I'd had the ring the whole time we were together. Known each other since 2006. We have held back from dating until our 30s. It went very bad because he refused to go to rehab. I had to leave. Like no choice. He went to jail for 1 month for assault from drinking. I love him still and don't blame him. But it's been this push and pull for 18 years. I got an offer to go over seas and leave the area. I sent him a text saying I'm leaving. He blocked me on everything. Won't answer. So I guess I'm just leaving.
Pile1. His mother is the 3rd person,he’s been lying to her about me and she’s supporting his false narrative. He’s stuck in his web of lies. I walked away and he knows it’s over. I’m not sure who he even is,after 8 years and one child. I’m confused on so much. I feel better for leaving and no engaging with him. He smokes cannabis and a lot of it and his mother doesn’t see an issue in how much damage he’s doing to himself,ultimately she doesn’t care. Fighting an uphill battle for far too long. ❤
I don't like the bread crumbing. I don't like it at all. I regret that I let him think that a lot of the things that he was doing to me was ok. And now I realize, you know- this isn't acceptable. The bad treatment changed me. I realized that I had a self worth issue. I was willing to let him treat me badly. Once I acknowledged that this isn't who I am and it isn't what I want, I blocked him. In fact, the last words I said were in reference to his girlfriend that he was playing around on. Yes, he made me realize that I was emotional unavailable. Yes, I haven't opened myself up to him, but how can you do that when it's just emotional cheating? All of this bad behavior needs to END. I need to take responsibility for myself and my actions. This is my admission of guilt. Forget about him, Im not happy with my own actions.
IThis was about my ex. We were together for 18 years. I walked 8 years ago. We have 2 kids together. We are still good friends and have fun when we are together and in fact went to a show with our son yesterday. Things are sometimes unpleasant when my daughter is part of the group activity. I believe she blames me for leaving (she stayed with her Dad). The final part of your msg resonates. I need to stop waiting for a miracle. It's hard because I still love him. Thank you
#3 my bd we have a Venus in the 1st house daughter. And me and him have our natal Venues conj. I always feel like we had past life energy and karmic ties with 1another. $ex addictingly good. We aren't 2gether, 3 yrs now. And he's a Gemini ☀️, Cancer 🦀 Rising and I'm a Pisces ☀️ and Taurus Rising. I do feel like he's immature, has alcohol dependency. That's the devil card I believe. I love him a lot but we don't get along when he drinks, It sucks. This is confirmation I do need to let go. I been feeling that with the current transits. Your always on point. Love1 ✨🪶
My problem is that I call him when I came back from Mexico is he always calls me at 11:00 that's the time I get into Houston and it was strange that he didn't call so I call him at 4:00 p.m. and the only thing I asked this is kind of weird you always call me and he hangs up on me so I really don't know what happened I haven't talked to him since August the 2nd
With the Queen of Pentacles reversed(Prostitution)for me with you showing and talking about body or fitness maybe my love interest is thinking about gay4pay😅.
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Pile 2: 100% accurate. I'm still in the process of letting every memory go and I'm sure I will make it to the other side eventually.
Group 3 : Literally crazy this afternoon my ex messaged me to hookup and I told him no and left it as that, but honestly it’s because I don’t want anything meaningless. We have been liking each others posts on Instagram and today he decided to message me. But I want more of a romantic connection but I haven’t told him, it was kinda hard to walk away and put my foot down.
Girl, stay standing in your unshakable power. Be stubborn
@@daniellasalgado3665 It gets easier! Lol!! I had the same thing happened, basically exact same situation. Feelings were already there for the both, BUT, hes stuck in a sh!t situation and I want no part of it. Keep holding out, if you want to get his attention, "no" is a good way to start. And no is a full sentence all on its own, and a good way to get someone out of there comfort zone and make a choice once amd for all❤️
Why don't you tell him that you want a romantic connection? Be direct. You can't get it if you don't ask for it. And if he's not prepared to be that romantic connection, then you walk away.
Pile 2: you hit the nail on the head… thank you Melissa 🙏🏻 It’s a summary of my situation with him, and I know I have to move on for my own good.
For me it's a mix of pile 2 and 3. And it seems accurate, although I basically checked out of curiosity. I said goodbye to him because just like you picked up there was that energetic bond between us that kept me away from other people as well as the unmet need that I eventually expressed without guilt tripping him. I admitted what I need and deserve and that he's not giving it to me. That was enough of a reason to part ways. I don't think there will be any coming back ever again. Learnt my lessons and want to move forward to find love.
Pile 3: I never had a more accurate reading. Holy moly!! 😳
Pile 1 thanks for doing the reading ❤
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Pile 1 wow 😮 thank you Melissa, that was intense 🤯 blew me away. The accuracy was real 💯 too deep.
Pile 3 ❤
#1 so accurate sad but true 😮 and thanks for clarification on the tarot by melissa i was looking it up with that name
Pile 2. We do have a strong connection but his lazy efforts are turning me off making me angry and I'm trying to convince myself that he's just trash. He isn't good enough for me and it's his loss. He lost out on true genuine loyal love.
Group 1 is spot on for me, thank you
Pile 1. Perfect analysis.
Melissa, group 1 makes more sense than you have any idea. It’s mirroring 💯 🪞
Pile 3, is something that resonates with me sadly. Im currently going through pluto transit opposite my natal sun and her rising is also opposite that. It was a whirlwind romance and she wanted to get married quickly but it started to break apart because I was weary for committing to her because it already moving so fast. Accusations of cheating. Constant roller coaster of peace to fights everyday. Taking its toll, It lasted for 6 months and now it’s over and the person I met her as is not the person she is now. Volatile, sharp tongued and tumultuous. Possessive and obsessive. Unfaithful as well. Thanks for this Melissa
Wow. Pile 1 was spot on. Addiction IS the matter at hand. He had it kicked for 1.5 years, and a split second he threw it all away, then I came along and knew of the issue, but didnt know the extent. Insead of him dealing w anything, he over indulges. He does repect and care about me, but hes GOT to get his crap together, I have such little patience, and ive been more that patient w him, we started as friends and neither of us were looking for this, but it happened, and here we are. I cant do it for him, and I cant stand a quitter, and hes got A LOT of quit in him!
Its why I try and steer clear from fire signs... haven't met one yet that can handle their vices.
3❤ v accurate
Spot on for pile 3, he's ghosted me 2 months now after giving me bread crumbs for a year. He's definitely a avoidant attachment style that messed with my head.
I love that blue and pink ring you are wearing, could you please tell me what it is and thank you for a insightful reading 😊
Pile 1 - The ring. We went to Court over a ring when we split. He also made me give back his class ring from high school (where we went together and I confessed my eternal feelings) that I had. Because he said he couldn't get back to who he was without it. It was a whole thing. I'd had the ring the whole time we were together. Known each other since 2006. We have held back from dating until our 30s. It went very bad because he refused to go to rehab. I had to leave. Like no choice. He went to jail for 1 month for assault from drinking. I love him still and don't blame him. But it's been this push and pull for 18 years. I got an offer to go over seas and leave the area. I sent him a text saying I'm leaving. He blocked me on everything. Won't answer. So I guess I'm just leaving.
Pile 1 and 3 resonates
Yes he lost me ! He got found out that he has a wife for 40 years
Pile1. His mother is the 3rd person,he’s been lying to her about me and she’s supporting his false narrative. He’s stuck in his web of lies. I walked away and he knows it’s over. I’m not sure who he even is,after 8 years and one child. I’m confused on so much. I feel better for leaving and no engaging with him. He smokes cannabis and a lot of it and his mother doesn’t see an issue in how much damage he’s doing to himself,ultimately she doesn’t care. Fighting an uphill battle for far too long. ❤
I don't like the bread crumbing. I don't like it at all. I regret that I let him think that a lot of the things that he was doing to me was ok. And now I realize, you know- this isn't acceptable. The bad treatment changed me. I realized that I had a self worth issue. I was willing to let him treat me badly. Once I acknowledged that this isn't who I am and it isn't what I want, I blocked him. In fact, the last words I said were in reference to his girlfriend that he was playing around on. Yes, he made me realize that I was emotional unavailable. Yes, I haven't opened myself up to him, but how can you do that when it's just emotional cheating? All of this bad behavior needs to END. I need to take responsibility for myself and my actions. This is my admission of guilt. Forget about him, Im not happy with my own actions.
IThis was about my ex. We were together for 18 years. I walked 8 years ago. We have 2 kids together. We are still good friends and have fun when we are together and in fact went to a show with our son yesterday.
Things are sometimes unpleasant when my daughter is part of the group activity. I believe she blames me for leaving (she stayed with her Dad). The final part of your msg resonates. I need to stop waiting for a miracle. It's hard because I still love him.
Thank you
Card 2!
#3 my bd we have a Venus in the 1st house daughter. And me and him have our natal Venues conj. I always feel like we had past life energy and karmic ties with 1another. $ex addictingly good. We aren't 2gether, 3 yrs now. And he's a Gemini ☀️, Cancer 🦀 Rising and I'm a Pisces ☀️ and Taurus Rising. I do feel like he's immature, has alcohol dependency. That's the devil card I believe. I love him a lot but we don't get along when he drinks, It sucks. This is confirmation I do need to let go. I been feeling that with the current transits. Your always on point. Love1 ✨🪶
My problem is that I call him when I came back from Mexico is he always calls me at 11:00 that's the time I get into Houston and it was strange that he didn't call so I call him at 4:00 p.m. and the only thing I asked this is kind of weird you always call me and he hangs up on me so I really don't know what happened I haven't talked to him since August the 2nd
pile 1 💚🫶
👏🏼🎯🙂
Pile #1 he’s married girl… lol
Ikr 😂
With the Queen of Pentacles reversed(Prostitution)for me with you showing and talking about body or fitness maybe my love interest is thinking about gay4pay😅.
Hahaha idk!
Pile 2❤