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  • Thumbs up for a beautiful 2019💙
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    Hello beauties :) Happy new year!! I hope everyone enjoyed their time off to celebrate the holidays. I know I've been MIA for a little bit now so I wanted to update you on what's been going on in my life. It felt really good to sit down and film for you guys today. I will be filming tomorrow as well :) Please comment below and let me know what you want to see this year! I have lots of fun ideas but I always love hearing your suggestions. Also! If anyone has any amazing books they recommend let me know. I would love to check them out. LOVE YOU MUFFINS! XOXO Carli
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  • @CarliBel55
    @CarliBel55  5 лет назад +2452

    Sending so much love your way 🌊💙

    • @ramaramzz8105
      @ramaramzz8105 5 лет назад +3

      Carli Bybel love you Carli take care love from Toronto 😘

    • @purvamukesh1753
      @purvamukesh1753 5 лет назад +3

      Take care of yourself and make yourself and work a priority this year love you so much doll 🐧🐧🐧

    • @hainasanchez8867
      @hainasanchez8867 5 лет назад +5

      Hi carli. Just wanna say that I'm watching back ur videos with brett. 😪 I just miss it, u two looks so cute together. Just sayin'. 😊 Love yah gorgeous. 😍😘

    • @hgual07
      @hgual07 5 лет назад +1

      Carli Bybel sending youuuuu love!

    • @ايمانعلي-م5ش
      @ايمانعلي-م5ش 5 лет назад +1

      احبك ❤ love

  • @Marian304
    @Marian304 5 лет назад +194

    I am 34 and single. And ever since i was 19 years old I dreamed of being married and having a beautiful wedding. To this day, that has remained a dream but I have learned to be kind to myself, patient and trust the process of greater power above me. Carli, you are a beautiful human being inside and out and deserve someone who appreciates it all in you, everything!
    I hope this year turns to be an amazing one for both of us and it turns out to be absolutely magical. Love you and best wishes for 2019!

  • @everydaytruth6309
    @everydaytruth6309 5 лет назад +375

    I had been in a relationship since I was 14. Found myself engaged at 18. I went to college and we broke up. I had flings here and there, then met the love of my life at 19. We broke up when I was 20. I just turned 23. Time has healed my heart and I told myself I am going to dedicate 4 years being single. This is my 3rd year and so far it’s amazing. Taking time for yourself is so important.

    • @Septembre1
      @Septembre1 5 лет назад +13

      EverydayTruth if he /she was the love of your life you wouldnt break up in a year

    • @chenellebeautytv
      @chenellebeautytv 4 года назад

      So proud of you!

  • @KelliMarissa
    @KelliMarissa 5 лет назад +9

    Loved the soothing rain sounds in the background! I think you will rediscover yourself during this time, it's so hard to figure out who you are when you are attached to someone else because they influence you and your ideals. Now it's time to learn who you really are!

  • @arletteross
    @arletteross 5 лет назад +327

    You probably won't see this comment but I wanted to tell you that I love you and that I'm 53 (very young at heart) and I went thru and still suffer from depression from when my brother was killed. You've really inspired me to live my life and to try and be more grateful Altho I'm always grateful and I just wanted to thank you!

    • @icecreamstar34
      @icecreamstar34 5 лет назад +6

      arletteross God bless you and your family 🙏🏽🙌🏼

    • @arletteross
      @arletteross 5 лет назад +2

      @@icecreamstar34 thank you ❤️ and God bless you as well 🙏

    • @1414babyangel
      @1414babyangel 5 лет назад +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @roccop913
      @roccop913 5 лет назад +3

      53 is young!!!!😉😉😉

    • @CharissaAlex
      @CharissaAlex 5 лет назад +1

      Sorry to hear about your loss. I can’t imagine the pain. I wish I could reach through the screen and hug you, if you accept hugs from strangers. Depression runs deep in my family and I know the weight of it... I hope you find so much happiness ♥️

  • @Artliker1234
    @Artliker1234 5 лет назад +1672

    You need to have a Ariana Grande Thank U Next Glow Up. Time to date you. Take care of you and grow yourself instead of focusing on romance.

    • @Akeswill
      @Akeswill 5 лет назад +13

      YES... This is it

    • @Pinkorchid1605
      @Pinkorchid1605 5 лет назад +27

      I agree totally. I grown up and got happier when I stop trusting guys and start focusing on myself.

    • @autumnhomer9786
      @autumnhomer9786 5 лет назад +18

      Artliker1234 This is great advice. We spend so much time looking after others that we forget we have needs too.

    • @xfelonxromancex
      @xfelonxromancex 5 лет назад +11

      Yes preach. Serial monogamy never ends well. You're never just yourself you're always you linked to someone else

    • @tonigavin2351
      @tonigavin2351 5 лет назад +3

      YASSSSSSSSSSSSS say that again FOCUS ON YOU is the best love

  • @sahonybourdier
    @sahonybourdier 5 лет назад +162

    Omg yes the rain is so relaxing ❤️

  • @FellyStillBraxtonsMama
    @FellyStillBraxtonsMama 5 лет назад +84

    Thanks for your positivity in this video. I lost my baby boy in September and I’ve been having such a hard time with accepting that I have to live the rest of my life without him. He was my world and now sometimes I feel like I have no purpose without him, it gets really hard sometimes. I would recommend these books so that people can have more insight about infant loss and I think it will help people be more grateful and compassionate:
    -Ask me his name
    -Surviving my first year of child loss
    ♥️

    • @alysiam3559
      @alysiam3559 5 лет назад +17

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what youre going through. I'll pray God brings peace and healing to your heart💞

    • @emmajoyce901
      @emmajoyce901 5 лет назад +11

      Every parent's unthinkable. Sending a lot of love your way. I will hold my boy extra tight thinking of your angel tonight. Stay strong because you will always be his Mother and nothing will change that. Your purpose is to live on and be as happy and as healthy as you can be, if not for yourself, do it in his name. ❤️

    • @makeyourlifebeautiful1652
      @makeyourlifebeautiful1652 5 лет назад +4

      So sorry for your loss 😔 xxx

    • @MarthaSanchez-hr9mh
      @MarthaSanchez-hr9mh 5 лет назад +2

      Prayers your way 💕

    • @natalierossetti3126
      @natalierossetti3126 5 лет назад +2

      So sorry to hear about your loss. Sendings blessings and positivity your way❤️🙏🏻

  • @SweeetCorazon
    @SweeetCorazon 5 лет назад +37

    Love this whole vibe, the rain, the blue, and the sleek hair

  • @YessiWaters
    @YessiWaters 5 лет назад +119

    honestly watching your video where you talked about having the courage to leave your long term relationship, it gave me the courage to leave mine. I was so unhappy in it for so long but I knew I wanted something else that I wasn't getting in that relationship. You make all the difference with your videos love. thank you so much!

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад +3

      YessiWaters good for you! Find yourself and find what makes you happy you deserve it ❤️

    • @bouchrabnk6811
      @bouchrabnk6811 5 лет назад +5

      I did the same thing today, i'm broken but i'm glad I did it.

  • @Ca_1021
    @Ca_1021 5 лет назад +108

    It's so good to be single and focus on yourself sometimes. No matter how hard it can be/lonely, it's good to be your own best friend and support system. I hope you can find your peace and then your dream man will come along. x

    • @karinagarcia3702
      @karinagarcia3702 5 лет назад +1

      You're right it's good to be single for a little while to get your emotion straight however it's way better to have a partner we are not made to be alone😍

    • @Ca_1021
      @Ca_1021 5 лет назад +1

      @@karinagarcia3702 Totally agree :) when the right person comes along and its a healthy relationship!

    • @Tonibaby101
      @Tonibaby101 5 лет назад

      Tottsss agree

  • @bamin93
    @bamin93 5 лет назад +181

    omg you sound so sad in this video 😞 it’s heart breaking cus you’re usually so happy and cheerful!! sending good vibes your way ❤️

  • @jaylinstokes2876
    @jaylinstokes2876 5 лет назад +410

    I dont know u personally but when i saw u with him i didnt think he was your match he look good dont get me wrong but that all he was was looks he seem immuture u need someone more on your level

  • @jamieelizabeth2185
    @jamieelizabeth2185 5 лет назад +99

    That first relationship after leaving a long term relationship always seems to be so gut wrenching. I left a 7 year marriage, he was really abusive and I knew 10 months before that I was leaving, I just needed to find my strength and courage to walk away. About a month and a half after I left I reconnected with a guy I had known for a long time. We instantly fell in love and the love story behind it was sooooo perfect. We had known each other since we were 14 (I’m 34 now) and he was always the boy I REALLY REALLY liked but never ever thought he’d give me the time of day in a relationship. But I found out he felt the same exact way as I had, he was crazy about ME but thought I wouldn’t like him that way. We were together for 6 months and during that time I started realizing he was an alcoholic, he drank every morning and couldn’t ever come to me, I would always have to go pick him up. But what made me realize I couldn’t be with him was when I asked him, “what do you do when you’re drunk and you get a call from the school saying one of your daughters need you?” His response, “oh it happens a lot, I just call their mom or have my mom go”. It wasn’t a big deal to him at all which tells me he puts alcohol before his kids. I have kids, very impressionable boys, I refuse to make them experience that after experiencing their mom be disrespected for 7 years. I was devastated that I had to end what I thought was the perfect love story, the hopeless romantic in me was so sad. Now I’ve been single for 2 years and it’s because I want to be. It’s going to take a damn near perfect man to get involved in my boys lives

    • @zarminali1090
      @zarminali1090 5 лет назад +5

      Jamie Elizabeth sis you deserve nothing less stay blessed ♥️

    • @linthiaQ
      @linthiaQ 5 лет назад +2

      Bless your ❤

    • @kwowwmichelle7406
      @kwowwmichelle7406 5 лет назад +2

      Omg I had the exact thing happen to me. I don’t have kids but I imagined that we would end up together and I wanted to believe the universe brought us together, but time showed me he was unstable and not ready for a relationship. He depended on me to fix him.

    • @YPM498
      @YPM498 5 лет назад +2

      You’re so strong for that. I love how you put your kids first before your feelings

    • @shahadabdullah9554
      @shahadabdullah9554 5 лет назад +2

      You’re sooo incredibly strong 💓💓

  • @kelseytheresa
    @kelseytheresa 5 лет назад +78

    I think it's so important especially in your mid/late twenties to be alone and experience life for yourself before you center it around a relationship. However everythung happens the way it's supposed to and your current journey is what you need right now. Wishing you so much self love and self forgiveness - learn and grow - start putting yourself first and you'll see the changes you want come to Life. XO

    • @poojapotdar2737
      @poojapotdar2737 5 лет назад +1

      Absolutely!! :)
      Been there, done that

    • @Karlakarz
      @Karlakarz 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for your comment. I’m 23 and I look all around me and all 20 year olds I know have 3 kids and happily married... sometimes I feel I want that but then I again I still crave so much more in life that I’m yet to live.

  • @cindyp5132
    @cindyp5132 5 лет назад +11

    As women we give so much of ourselves it happens without knowing it, but being single is so healthy and good for you. I LOVE being myself and alone. I started watching abraham hicks videos (she has a great interview w/Wayne Dwyer too) but it about learning how important what you think about is and you have to train your mind to think better (positive!) she has a great morning rampage talking about how it's a new day, your new day to choose how you feel and pay attention to your feelings and if you stumble look to your inner being (soul) for guidance to keep going cause this is your time. That life is meant to be fun!! It really helps, there are so many but I like the rampages best. xo

    • @kawlinanass9126
      @kawlinanass9126 5 лет назад

      U look like phebe from friends lol idk

    • @cindyp5132
      @cindyp5132 5 лет назад

      @@kawlinanass9126 Don't laugh but the actress Lisa Kudrow and I actually have ancestors from that come from the same place! So you could be right. xo

  • @jholmie6016
    @jholmie6016 5 лет назад +187

    I always appreciate how positive, mature & encouraging you are to your followers

    • @nicrenoonbeauty
      @nicrenoonbeauty 5 лет назад

      So refreshing ! I want to wait for the rain just to film now !

  • @Bemandyd
    @Bemandyd 5 лет назад +79

    You grow during the hard times that’s so true carli!!

  • @Taliaboo17
    @Taliaboo17 5 лет назад +5

    Hey Carli girl,
    I have been watching you probably since like 2014, but I want to say that I am praying for you, sending good vibes, and hugs. You were born for a great purpose. Dealing with feelings after a HUGE breakup is always tough, but I want to let you know that is God is there for you (even if you don't believe in him (IDK if you do or not)), and your subscribers are there too, boo. Don't give up, and don't stop growing as a person. Like what you said, in challenging times, we do really grow as people, and its because our true selves are revealed. All the things we have been blinded or distracted by are fading away and we are confronted with the situations we have experienced and our feelings. Continue to seek peace and truth during this season of life. 💜 (BTW, Im not the type of person to comment on posts, let ALONE write a paragraph, but I felt VERY strongly that you needed to hear this).

  • @AliGiavanni
    @AliGiavanni 5 лет назад +186

    That pop of blue really brings out your eyes!!! Love!

  • @kaitlynann3696
    @kaitlynann3696 5 лет назад +295

    We NEED a house tour🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bridgetboylan5414
    @bridgetboylan5414 5 лет назад +89

    Thanks for being so open with us, Carli. It's hard to imagine someone not wanting to be with you - you're gorgeous, smart, kind, fashionable, talented, hardworking and successful. There are so many amazing things about you, so it's truly his loss. Keep your chin up and remember that everything happens for a reason.

    • @smiley8106
      @smiley8106 5 лет назад +3

      Bridget B he didn’t want to be with her??

  • @ThatsJustKarin
    @ThatsJustKarin 5 лет назад +9

    Hey Carli, I've been reading this one particular book over and over for the past 4 years, and every time I read, it's as if it's showing me where I am currently, and why. So when you shared your current experience, it totally came to mind. This is for anyone reading this as well. It's called the Secret of the Vine by Bruce Wilkinson. It talks about why certain things keep happening to us, and how similar our lives are to the grapevine. It's based off how the grapevine grows and what the vinedresser does to make it product more fruit. More branches and leaves doesn't always mean more fruit. Most times it actually blocks the sun from shining directly onto the leaves and branches to help them product more fruit instead of flourishing more leaves to "look" abundant. So take this analogy and apply it to your life. What you thought looked great outwardly, actually wasn't going to help you to produce more fruit, so hence, you got pruned. We may not see the big picture now, but if we continue to do the same things over and over, it will change from pruning to discipline, until we get the lesson. And the funny thing is you would think pruning would kill the plant, but it's the complete opposite. It actually makes it produce more fruit than it would have if it continued to grow more branches and leaves, which just makes it look abundant but it's potential to grow more fruit decreases. It's really eye opening for those of us who keep repeating the same things in life, and wondering why life keeps giving us the same results. It is a spiritual book that is worth reading.

    • @ceehee8411
      @ceehee8411 5 лет назад +1

      Thats Just Karin wow thankyou for this

    • @ThatsJustKarin
      @ThatsJustKarin 5 лет назад

      @@ceehee8411 You welcome Cee :)

  • @sammirose4170
    @sammirose4170 5 лет назад +124

    watching this laying in bed before my son and partner wake up.. I'm crying.. maybe bc you said 5 years we are coming up on that. I feel LOST I can feel us drifting apart and I'm just heartbroken. I grew up in a broken home and I NEVER wanted that for my son.. I hope it doesn't come down to it. love you Carli, been following you for yearssss basically grew up watching you, so much positivity and quotes to live by. I'm grateful what I went thru and going thru but I know I deserve better. so do you 💕✨ much love luck and happiness to you girl 💛 here's for 2019 SELF GROWTH

    • @melodie4virgil
      @melodie4virgil 5 лет назад +6

      On Earth w You don’t give up girl!

    • @angelakutusheva1282
      @angelakutusheva1282 5 лет назад +20

      Take a breath, take a break (mentally) from worrying, stay positive. 5-7 year mark is always hard, but it gets so much better. Spice it up, keep talking, keep surprising, keep yourself busy, have strong goals! Don’t give up if you believe he is the right guy for you. 12 years strong over here, and we went through rough patches but I’m so happy I held on! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @san1883
      @san1883 5 лет назад +10

      Always remember to COMMUNICATE, it's the most important thing in a relationship. Talk to him about how you feel and you can come up with something together. Don't give up just yet, I believe in you. Sending all love to you and your family ❤❤ Best of luck

    • @destinieleach584
      @destinieleach584 5 лет назад +11

      A broken home can be there even if the parents are still together! 😥

    • @jocrain83
      @jocrain83 5 лет назад +2

      It’s a rough patch. All relationships go through it. Don’t ever let giving up and letting go, be an option. Work through the tough times together and it will only make you stronger.

  • @MissErinYvette
    @MissErinYvette 5 лет назад +214

    Your videos just leave me in such a positive space. Thank you 💛

  • @Jahniquexo
    @Jahniquexo 5 лет назад +10

    I also find that volunteering is always helpful when going through the blues of things. Something about helping others helps discover hidden things about myself.

  • @AlondraO7
    @AlondraO7 5 лет назад +38

    Very therapeutic for me to watch your videos because my depression gets the best of me and I’m grateful to be watching you and feeling better 🙌🙌🙌

    • @amandaplunkett3052
      @amandaplunkett3052 5 лет назад +2

      Alondra Oceguera much love to you. Hang in there and try to stay positive and always try to see the brighter side of things

    • @Fallinlove719
      @Fallinlove719 5 лет назад +2

      Alondra Oceguera we love you 🥰

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад

      Alondra Oceguera I have depression too and I swear she makes me feel 10 times better

    • @AlondraO7
      @AlondraO7 5 лет назад

      LizziChi Ⓥ it means a lot 🙌

    • @AlondraO7
      @AlondraO7 5 лет назад

      Handy Gomez Means so much 😿

  • @taramccollum783
    @taramccollum783 5 лет назад +11

    I have been alone for about 7 months. My husband left me for another woman. I understand where you are coming from. Learning to be alone after a breakup is really hard. I think I paced the house for the first few months. I lost 30 lbs in like 3 months.

    • @sugarmoon8517
      @sugarmoon8517 5 лет назад +4

      I hope you will feel better ❤❤

  • @veenusdaniellebeauty3328
    @veenusdaniellebeauty3328 5 лет назад +105

    Im literally going through the same thing as you .. got out of 10 yr relationship and then kinda of quickly got in a 7 month relationship and it just ended .. but im hopeful that 2019 is going to be great for the both of us!

    • @Makeupbylinaslays
      @Makeupbylinaslays 5 лет назад +2

      Yes, things will be greater and you should put YOU first now. Stay strong and wishing you all but the best! Xoxo

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад +2

      It’s all positive! It teaches us about our selves and what we want. Stay positive ❤️

    • @evesene3226
      @evesene3226 5 лет назад +1

      You're pretty

  • @KM-cj9fk
    @KM-cj9fk 5 лет назад +31

    Carli don’t look down, you’ll tilt your crown!! Beautiful look!!!!

  • @mommywood1
    @mommywood1 5 лет назад +8

    Rebounds are called that for that exact reason. Kick back and self rejuvenate. When the time is right that person will unexpectedly be there. Who knows, perhaps he already is and you don't even know it!

  • @deboraplayfair5801
    @deboraplayfair5801 5 лет назад

    Carli seeing you sad actually made me cry. I hope you find yourself again soon, you are beautiful inside and out and deserve happiness. Sending love you you xxx

  • @Sarahhhh33
    @Sarahhhh33 5 лет назад +246

    I had a bad feeling about him .. didnt seem right

    • @giftboutiq
      @giftboutiq 5 лет назад +35

      Lilly3344 he didn’t look genuine at all...more like he had Carli as a trophy. She deserves so much more as everyone here agrees as well.

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад +4

      giftboutiq she deserves a down to earth guy

    • @AllStarConcreteCoatings
      @AllStarConcreteCoatings 5 лет назад +21

      He definitely had a controlling side, I clocked that immediately and knew it wouldn't last because Carli is too independent

    • @lalam3877
      @lalam3877 5 лет назад +26

      He came across as a little insensitive in some videos and maybe even narcissistic. I could be wrong but...

    • @arosa1936
      @arosa1936 5 лет назад

      giftboutiq what’s his name

  • @honeyhartmr
    @honeyhartmr 5 лет назад

    Carli, honestly I haven't watched your videos in a while but for some reason this video reminded me why I used to watch you. So humble and down to earth. I hope you make 2019 about you. You deserve it. Dont find someone who you hope will make you happy. Only you, yourself can make yourself happy. You are a strong, beautiful woman. I hope the best for you.❤

  • @LayMar137
    @LayMar137 5 лет назад +149

    Keep looking Carli! Something beautiful is coming!

    • @gracemanco5717
      @gracemanco5717 5 лет назад

      Miriama Matthews Hi my name is Grace, I just started a Makeup Channel, it would mean a lot to me if you checked it out, thanks babe! xo

    • @erinschemmel9092
      @erinschemmel9092 5 лет назад +3

      Grace Manco Stop spamming people with your comments. This isn’t how you gain an audience.

  • @TheAndreav15
    @TheAndreav15 5 лет назад

    Thank you Carli for always being so honest and humble. One of the many reasons on why I love you and will never stop supporting you. You have such a big heart! ❤️

  • @DramaticMac
    @DramaticMac 5 лет назад +60

    OMG soooo excited to see you upload! I hope 2019 is amazing for you! Make it your year!! xxx

  • @textures31
    @textures31 5 лет назад +50

    I can feel the pain coming through the camera. Love you Carli! 💜

  • @morganconrad4332
    @morganconrad4332 5 лет назад

    I’ve been watching you for years and now my son and I watch you I’ve always looked forward to your videos. Just nostalgic when I watch you because I remember being pregnant still and watching you it’s very calming to know you are happy and healthy.

  • @kristenpaige9150
    @kristenpaige9150 5 лет назад

    true love is doing all of the things you want to do and letting your partner do the same and doing things you love together & supporting each other for both and you WILL find it just when you’re not looking for it 💕💕

  • @rubi89ify
    @rubi89ify 5 лет назад +6

    I love the sound of rain, glad it was included 💙 I know break ups are hard but this alone time would be the best time of your life. You will learn so much more about yourself being by yourself. And in due time you will find the right one 🙌🏽

  • @nicolerenee3708
    @nicolerenee3708 5 лет назад +213

    Sorry but I’m going to be honest .. I had a bad feeling about him... In time you will find your person ❤️

    • @Willpri
      @Willpri 5 лет назад +27

      Nicole Cote same. I don’t think most of us subbies were really feeling him. He just gave me a vibe too, I feel bad for her

    • @jbornspoiled
      @jbornspoiled 5 лет назад +28

      He seemed like an opportunist u know

    • @e.mo.4194
      @e.mo.4194 5 лет назад +8

      I agree.

    • @alcindva
      @alcindva 5 лет назад +3

      No need to even mention this. The key is growth & moving on. Thank you, next.

    • @kass.6206
      @kass.6206 5 лет назад +2

      He realized hes way preetier than Carli 😅 Lol But seriously Carli deserves better.

  • @gabiorozco4937
    @gabiorozco4937 5 лет назад

    I felt your positivity and love through the phone. Your energy is contagious! Just a couple of days ago I got a notebook and wrote down a list of things I needed to get done the next day and seeing it on paper got it down compared to just thinking or saying it you truly beautiful and inspiring 💖💖 xoxo

  • @erihead21
    @erihead21 5 лет назад +40

    I didn’t see it coming either and it crushed me...my ex had another girlfriend and I had no clue when he’d fly to another state he was with her🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 but then I ran into the man who I have two babies with now, and a great life😍 everything is meant to be!!

  • @lovely87ym
    @lovely87ym 5 лет назад +6

    Wishing everyone a happy new year! Carli I love that you do meditation is honestly the answers to all my problems I hope you can give it a try every day because it will help you a lot. Make it habit to check in with yourself in a daily you will find out so much about yourself and the universe. Some people are meant to leave your life because they have fulfilled their purpose. I promise meditation is the best tool for anxiety depression or other questions let the universe set everything back into place for new beginnings this is why is hard because things that don’t serve us anymore have to go. This is why when you cleanse some people get sick and it gets hard but after you feel so clear headed and healthy. Cleanse not just items but your body and mind. We love you!

    • @PhantomOfTheShoes
      @PhantomOfTheShoes 5 лет назад

      never tried meditating before but always hear good things. I make a habit of anointing my home and praying over it.

  • @BlackTinkerbell
    @BlackTinkerbell 5 лет назад

    Just HELL YES to all of this. MY GOD. We're going through the same thing at the same time. I'm exercising, reading, seeing friends and not letting things bother me. Hell yes for this video xxxxxx

  • @chiledawgg
    @chiledawgg 5 лет назад +6

    It took me a long time to finally be ok with being single after a traumatic and painful break up back in 2016. For the first time since I was 15 I was single (I was 20 when I had my bad break up). It was SO HARD to get used to it cuz I was the type of girl to immerse herself into a relationship. But learning to be single was something I needed, because now I’m dating the love of my life and I was ready for him because I’d grown and changed so much. You got this Carli 💕

  • @renymarinez6900
    @renymarinez6900 5 лет назад

    I used to watch your videos all day everyday. I stopped around a year and a half ago because I wanted to concentrate in college and my future, so I wanna say I did see a lot of your relationship. You guys were beautiful together, but I have to say that if you ever have to choose between you and someone you love, choose yourself. Sometimes things don’t work the way we want them to. You got this, work on yourself and don’t let anyone stop you. I just got out of a toxic relationship. It was my first relationship that lasted 4 years, I was very hurt mentally and emotionally because he cheated 5 times and I didn’t know, but I figured it’s me and me in the end. I have to replenish myself and find meaning and purpose in life. You are very strong and courageous, you are also very stunning. You’ll find true love. Mark my words. Feel better ❤️

  • @sarahajao1255
    @sarahajao1255 5 лет назад +243

    Imagine being so bold as to assume that Carli and Bret are soulmates or they HAVE to be together. Um unless you know both of them personally it’s really toxic, to say things like that. The only people who knows what their relationship was like and why they broke up is Bret and Carli. NOT You. Basing things like that off a handful of pictures and videos you’ve seen on Insta or RUclips is ridiculous and frankly stupid. I hate when people are like that, you don’t know what happens behind people’s doors.

    • @folayemi_aina
      @folayemi_aina 5 лет назад

      Preach!

    • @gabyslookbook
      @gabyslookbook 5 лет назад

      Agree!!!

    • @YooReeStorm
      @YooReeStorm 5 лет назад +2

      Wrong breakup you refer to? Isn’t it?

    • @staceychance1
      @staceychance1 5 лет назад +1

      YooReeStorm I think because everyone is telling her to get back with Bret and how they are meant to be blah blah blah. Just because someone has a breakup doesn’t mean they should go back to their previous ex. I don’t think anyone would say that IRL. People just fall in love with youtube or celebrity couples and never let it go. 🙄😊

    • @Artliker1234
      @Artliker1234 5 лет назад +1

      YooReeStorm there were comments people telling her to go back to Bret

  • @uniebeauty
    @uniebeauty 5 лет назад +9

    I feel like 2019 is going to be a great year for many people - a fresh start, new beginning with positive vibes and moves. ♥♥

    • @k__1234
      @k__1234 5 лет назад

      Here's hoping 🙏💫

    • @uniebeauty
      @uniebeauty 5 лет назад +1

      msk _ I’m sending positive vibes your way 😉

  • @florenciaalbarracin6451
    @florenciaalbarracin6451 5 лет назад

    I usually never comment but seeing u evolve and go through/share something that’s not as glamorous grounds me more and makes me appreciate u and realize ur human too. Ur such an inspiration and role model. Keep growing, wishing the best for u.

  • @saraxortega
    @saraxortega 5 лет назад +7

    I feel you. Social media is the best of both worlds. Sometimes it’s nice to take a break from social media and just cleanse your mind and body 🌊

  • @sylviagumundsdottir9083
    @sylviagumundsdottir9083 5 лет назад +90

    Not mine to decide but I see you meeting a super hot country singer 😉 And if he has an older brother I'm available 😂 2019 is going to be good for you. Love from Iceland.

  • @malanzi7514
    @malanzi7514 5 лет назад

    you inspire so many people, that your only aware of it at 15% ! Not your life, or what you go through. Everyone has their own battles. But how kind hearted, positive & humble you are. Best believe god has something planned for you at its best, more than you think you will ever deserve! I can’t wait to see nothing but great things coming your way, very, very soon ! ❤️ love you dearly kitty & keep being you 🐱

  • @Rebeldewayraluka
    @Rebeldewayraluka 5 лет назад +34

    how can a person be so beautiful? inside and outside? sending you all my love!!

  • @AimeeLorentsen
    @AimeeLorentsen 5 лет назад

    I'm really sorry you had to go through that - it hurts to lose someone you love. But you are so strong and it will get better every day. I adore you and would love to see more lifestyle, books and spirituality content from you. 😍😍

  • @lindseyspencer7671
    @lindseyspencer7671 5 лет назад +148

    Serving us a look AND a 20 minute long video. YAS ❤ Also I feel the hopeless romantic mindset, but someday you're gonna find the person whose made for you, and it's going to be AMAZING. 2019's gonna be your year. ❤❤❤

    • @CarliBel55
      @CarliBel55  5 лет назад +10

      Love you baby girl!!!

    • @arianator8495
      @arianator8495 5 лет назад +1

      @@CarliBel55 OMG i love you so much

  • @Tata-iu3fy
    @Tata-iu3fy 5 лет назад +19

    I was the same way with relationships. I really had enough so I decided to take time and work on myself. It’s been 7 years or more since I have been with anyone, or in any relationships. I am content and happy being single. So you’re going to have to be pretty special to change that.

    • @PhantomOfTheShoes
      @PhantomOfTheShoes 5 лет назад +3

      wow same for me too. Been a single mom 7yrs now and its been a blessing in disguise. I've been single for a few years and during this time is when I grew in maturity and strength. Many dont realize that being single can be a blessing. You have to embrace it and use that time wisely. So nice to be able to connect with others who are similar 🤗.

    • @JazminRosita
      @JazminRosita 5 лет назад +1

      Miss B. I want to be like you :(

    • @Dreylita
      @Dreylita 5 лет назад +2

      Thanks for commenting. Good to know I'm not alone.

    • @Tata-iu3fy
      @Tata-iu3fy 5 лет назад

      Phantom Of The Shoes awe, that is great hun. You’re amazing.

    • @Tata-iu3fy
      @Tata-iu3fy 5 лет назад

      Jazmin Gross you’re so sweet hun. Thanks.

  • @bezzamezza8972
    @bezzamezza8972 5 лет назад

    Give yourself time to heal... My bf and I recently split after 9 years of being together. Hardest loss I've dealt with in life but I'm hanging in there. Justing taking it day by day focusing on me and mending myself. I love your videos and even though u dont have to share these things with us I appreciate that you do. I appreciate your realness and I wish you all the best. ❤

  • @hollyboon__
    @hollyboon__ 5 лет назад +208

    Carli you’re so beautiful. Thank you for this video ❤️

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад +1

      Holly Boon I know I could watch her for hours

  • @ConnieTrujillo
    @ConnieTrujillo 5 лет назад +21

    Enjoy the single life gurl. Including someone in ur life PERMANENTLY is a big deal soo take ur time. Breaking emotional attachments is SO hard so try to keep them minimal... Speaking from experience. Lots of love

  • @Cherishaaa
    @Cherishaaa 5 лет назад

    Feels sad seeing you sad Carli, been watching u for many many years now. You are in a better place now. I love you much much from Malaysia!!

  • @saraxortega
    @saraxortega 5 лет назад +28

    What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger💪

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад +1

      Sara Okurrr yes!! Couldn’t be any more true

  • @nkantsios
    @nkantsios 5 лет назад +71

    DO A VIDEO WITH HRUSH!! I would love to see you two do a "Get Ready With Me" or a make-up tips video with her. Maybe she does your make-up and you do her hair, or something joint like that. It would be cute and fun to watch. She's not on RUclips much. Happy 2019!

  • @kytziakildare3844
    @kytziakildare3844 5 лет назад

    I'm going thru a break-up and listening to you the way you handle the situation is admiring.

  • @samm_is_me
    @samm_is_me 5 лет назад +127

    I miss you and Nicole Guerriero being together! ❤️

    • @DanielleOsemene
      @DanielleOsemene 5 лет назад +5

      Samantha McRee Are they still friends?? 😭 I hope so

    • @samm_is_me
      @samm_is_me 5 лет назад

      DanielleOsemene I hope they’re still friends. They are awesome when they get together.

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад +1

      Samantha McRee I do too they are both so good at what they do I aspire to be like them someday

    • @samm_is_me
      @samm_is_me 5 лет назад +4

      Victoria Danielle yes they are. They are very inspirational and motivational. You can and you will. Don’t let anyone try to knock you down ❤️

  • @AlyssaLovejoy
    @AlyssaLovejoy 5 лет назад +11

    I love how real you are. We love and appreciate you! Keep on keeping on girl🦋

  • @mochocho2710
    @mochocho2710 5 лет назад

    I’ve been watching you since day 1! I feel like I can tell you have been hurting and are sad you can hear it in your voice and see it in your eyes. I’m praying you to find what your looking for within yourself you deserve it your so strong for everyone and it’s okay to be weak that’s why you have all of us we are here for you❣️ your awesome and such an inspiration 💖💖

  • @dominiquekalt5158
    @dominiquekalt5158 5 лет назад +51

    I really appreciate the life update and I‘m sad for you I really hoped he would make you happy for a long time.. but you are so beautiful and have a kind heart you‘re going to find your love I‘m sure. But PLEASE do not put paper in the ocean.. they‘re already dirty enough..😢

    • @kayjhoselin
      @kayjhoselin 5 лет назад +1

      Dominique Kalt I agree with you 💗❤️❤️

    • @neleamsaid1
      @neleamsaid1 5 лет назад +1

      I thought the same thing about littering the ocean

  • @Sailor.Catracha
    @Sailor.Catracha 5 лет назад +12

    Aww I knew something was wrong as why hadn't upload in the longest time. I am so sorry you went is going through a hard time, you do look a bit sad, drained, disilusioned, I ahve been there, like my spirit is so low in the floor, but this shall pass too. We love you, you are such a beautiful person.

  • @olgagreber8210
    @olgagreber8210 5 лет назад

    Thank you Carli! I really needed to hear your encouragement today!! I’ve been watching you for a few years and even though I’m older than you, you have inspired me so much not only with your beauty videos but also with your wise words. You are a very special girl and somewhere out there is the perfect guy for you who will really appreciate your beauty inside and out!!!

  • @littlecat7133
    @littlecat7133 5 лет назад +36

    I’ve been single for 6 years & still don’t find the right guy so have patience honey

    • @foosheezoo
      @foosheezoo 5 лет назад +1

      little cat sis same but 4 years

    • @melissita77
      @melissita77 5 лет назад

      Same but 2 years

  • @gigigona7849
    @gigigona7849 5 лет назад +26

    In love with the rain sound in the background ❤️

  • @tilaw6397
    @tilaw6397 5 лет назад

    Thank u for opening up even during your hard times & showing yourself authentically not making it out like everything is perfect all the time. Respect

  • @qnizami2339
    @qnizami2339 5 лет назад +8

    I completely understand how you feel Carli. Your feelings post breakup and during singlehood are completely valid and natural. You'll feel better and the right one will come along when you're healed and self explored to quite a healthy extent. Sending love peace light and abundance your way. May God bless your 2019 in all aspects of life, be it spiritual or social or personal or love life. And I'm glad you're delving into spirituality more, it feels amazing to be more spiritually awakened. Follow the hashtags of spirituality and spiritualawakening etc on Instagram, they can brighten up your insta feed everyday and motivate and energize you with lovely quotes, just a simple advice. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @qnizami2339
      @qnizami2339 5 лет назад

      I also recommend you to read The secret by Rhonda byrne.

  • @jenniferibarra4889
    @jenniferibarra4889 5 лет назад

    I’ve been watching you for years!! Since the beginning 😭 you seem so sad and different. It sincerely breaks my heart. I’ll be praying for you! I know these last two years have been a bit rough. Just remember there’s people out here like me that have been here through it all. Keep pushing carli💓 love you

  • @cassil.g.455
    @cassil.g.455 5 лет назад +4

    I went through this in my early twenties. My longest relationship, he just had no future aspirations. I wanted more. I moved on. Then I dated a guy that was perfect. Until I was so eager to make sure I was different in the second relationship I put to much into it to fast. He left. You need to be in a state where there are no expectations of that relationship. Just a truly natural one that over time will evolve. Good luck;)

  • @YouTips4U
    @YouTips4U 5 лет назад +12

    Love the look Carli! I especially love that bright blue under-eye color.😍 Thanks for sharing! Happy New Year Sweetie🥳 and you hang in there because when you’re ready, the right man for you will present himself and he will be amazing. Until then, enjoy being a single, independent, successful, intelligent, and beautiful woman who can do anything she wants to do😉

  • @monicaaaxo
    @monicaaaxo 5 лет назад

    Carli, you’re human. It’s completely and totally fine if you need a break. You’re such an uplifting and encouraging person which is SO refreshing. Take time for yourself. Make 2019 a year for self care and finding yourself. We’ll always be here. ❤️

  • @Lalalanddddd
    @Lalalanddddd 5 лет назад +19

    Exacty we should always focus on positive things because otherwise our life can turn into a hell! Nothing hurts us most but our own negativity!

  • @teamjocelynreyes8471
    @teamjocelynreyes8471 5 лет назад

    Carli- We all love you and wish you nothing but the best. God's timing is perfect. Trust the process. So glad to have you back.

  • @lauraw4556
    @lauraw4556 5 лет назад +30

    Is the perfume you were going to make ever still going to happen?! I’ve been waiting for that! 😊❤️

  • @ivanova.e.25
    @ivanova.e.25 5 лет назад +275

    What’s actually heartbreaking is that she looks almost as heartbroken as Brett did in most of his videos while she was still with the new guy 🙄

  • @graycenwiltshire4533
    @graycenwiltshire4533 5 лет назад +13

    yay Carli! You are sooooo beautiful! so glad you uploaded.
    LOVE THAT COLOR ON YOU !!!!

  • @spilltheteaalloverme8810
    @spilltheteaalloverme8810 5 лет назад

    Beautiful makeup! You hit the nail on the head by saying we learn the most thru difficulties

  • @everythingskincare
    @everythingskincare 5 лет назад +87

    Wow look at those 👁👁eyes, so beautiful. Nice video👍

  • @nooorrrtjje
    @nooorrrtjje 5 лет назад +9

    Sick in bed today. So thissss made my day! Loveeeeyou💕
    I'm going through a break up to

  • @riacomehome
    @riacomehome 5 лет назад

    Carli just believe that there’s something amazing out there for you ! Breakups are usually hard when you see your ex has moved on with someone else. Before it bothered me but as time passed by I realized I deserve the best and I’m not going to settle for anything less. Everyone needs to be with someone who can’t live without you and makes you his priority .💕

  • @missyg9778
    @missyg9778 5 лет назад +4

    I am so happy for you. You look a little more weightless. Some videos I would watch and I could see something was wrong. But I am glad you are feeling better. You are so strong and I am in AWE of how you keep going in spite of everything that happens. That is one of the many ways you are so inspiring. I can't wait to see you feel more like yourself and see what new content you put up. Hopefully more hair videos cause you have long gorgeous hair, self care like excersize and skincare, and colorful eye makeup. I know you are very creative but I understand you've been busy and probably haven't had any time to do something very colorful. Much love to you Carly 😊❤and Happy New Year.

  • @alexandraaranda9119
    @alexandraaranda9119 5 лет назад

    Craig and Fred--- YOULL Love IT! Its about a Marine Veteran who rescues/ the dog rescues him while he was deployed --- you will seriously love it! it made me cry, smile, and feel hope.

  • @rachelhanrahan3255
    @rachelhanrahan3255 5 лет назад +10

    I’m almost finished reading You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero! It is fabulous.

    • @natlope
      @natlope 5 лет назад

      Rachel Hanrahan such a great book!!

    • @natalierose1072
      @natalierose1072 5 лет назад

      It's a really good book! Highly reccomend.

  • @awesomeashley312
    @awesomeashley312 5 лет назад +7

    Love the rain in the background ❤️🥰

  • @theoune2501
    @theoune2501 5 лет назад

    And I wish the best for you.. don’t worry because everything is written and the best is yet to come !! You deserve the best Carli ❤️❤️❤️

  • @_KristenMarie
    @_KristenMarie 5 лет назад +5

    Cutenesses 😍 I’m loving your red-orange nails👌🏾

  • @taoglassworks
    @taoglassworks 4 года назад +1

    I love your windows and your view, talk about paradise 😍 I am so glad you're in a better place now. Love you girl 🤗🤗

  • @jessicamcguffin7975
    @jessicamcguffin7975 5 лет назад

    I know that if I can get through what I'm going through then you can get through this too. It will definitely make you stronger! I am going through a difficult time and basically having to start my life over as a single mom with three kids. And let me tell you it's rough but I know down the road it'll get easier and life will get better. Love you and you're doing a great job!

  • @noemimartinez5892
    @noemimartinez5892 5 лет назад

    Thank you, for your kind words💕 we can get through our hard times, a step at a time💙 everyone has moments where we feel lost and it just takes time to find our rhythm and purpose

  • @carlyh6913
    @carlyh6913 5 лет назад +44

    No offence but that guy u dated seemed like a jerk, the guy with the accent from your vlog a few months back- he seemed like a clout chaser. I hope I haven't offended you, it's not a bad reflection on you. You are a amazing positive person, the growth you will experience from this will change your life for the better. Listen to your gut feelings and don't ignore the red flags xo (if only I took my own advice lol)

    • @tamyhope5441
      @tamyhope5441 5 лет назад +3

      Carly H yeaa he seemed like a playboy and like Carli said she’s a hopeless romantic like many of us😩😩 and he defo was giving playboy immature guy vibes 😩😩

  • @elliebeth323
    @elliebeth323 5 лет назад +4

    You know it’s a good day when Carli uploads

    • @legalbeauty869
      @legalbeauty869 5 лет назад

      Ellie Jas she’s amazing I’d love to be like her

  • @laceylives
    @laceylives 5 лет назад

    I’ll tell you what, it wasnt until I was having the time of my life as a single woman and was happy with myself, by myself, that I met who I consider to be my soulmate. It’s cliche, but when you’re authentically happy by yourself, you attract (and recognize) the people along the way who can contribute to that happiness. And you become brave enough to keep them around. I am sending you such love, baby girl. Heart breaks are exhausting and hard. But what comes after that, when you invest in being your own best friend, is so wonderful. I think you’re on the way there. Stay strong and Godspeed on this journey. ❤️