I feel like I have to put a disclaimer on every single video these days but..... this video was filmed WEEKS before Shallon started getting dragged as of recently and I just WANT TO REITERATE FOR THE HALF-LISTENERS - I DO NOT AGREE WITH MOST OF THE STUFF THAT LADY BE YAPPING ABOUT. I am not a stan of hers, and I really haven't watched that many of her videos to consider myself a supporter. She has made a few decent points here and there (even a broken clock can be right twice a day 💀) and I thought that one point was fitting at the time I filmed this. PLEASE FOR ONCE get off my back I beg, thank you 😭
Self-taught goddess - theres a reason why I didn’t verbatim encourage people to subscribe to her 😩 usually when I shout someone out I encourage people to check out their content
Shame on y'all for her even having to comment that. Ugh so sorry for what you go through Jackie. I know myself and many others love, support, and understand where you come from!!!💙
This is one of the best videos you’ve ever put out! I fully endorse this message. I spent my twenties trying to fit into someone else’s mold, I was in my thirties as well when I really began to love and accept myself and I wouldn’t turn back the clock for anything.
I always stand by something my mama told me that was "If they can't fix it in 30 seconds do not say it." So yeah she smudged her eyeliner, lipstick on her teeth, booger? Yeah let her know in private easy! Her face shape, her skin colour, her weight? KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!
i love how she’s wearing yellow, which is symbolic of the solar plexus chakra, the energy center for confidence, individuality, & vitality. love the energy girl!!
That yellow is the best yellow- vibrant, true to color, pigmented, doesn't brush away when applying or fade. Pretty damn impressive. Not many can pull off yellow either and she made it look elegant to top it off!
As a bartender , i feel my income has always been related to my looks. I dated guys who did not care about my intelligence , my studies , my personality .. they dated me for how i looked. Without realizing it, a big part of my self-esteem has been related to my looks, which made me lowkey insecure. I need to stop seeking validation for my appearance and stop hanging out with people who solely value me for that. I deserve better 😌
GIRL I CAN SO RELATE TO THIS! YES YOU ARE CUTE! BUT BE WITH PPL THAT VALUE YOU FOR YOUUUUUU! I HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME, AND I REALIZED YO, I AM SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT. AND SO ARE YOU BABY GIRL!
Confidence doesn’t point to someone else. Confidence points to self and says “I love me.” Confidence doesn’t compare itself to others. Confidence says “Imma do what’s best for me” regardless of what’s popular Confidence asks: have I lived up to my OWN values?” Vs “have I lived up to others opinion of me?” Confidence says: I don’t have to be perfect but I do have to do the best I can with what I’ve been given and have energy for. Confidence says: Yes, I believe in myself. Yes, I also believe in others AND BOTH CAN EXIST AT THE SAME TIME! Confidence says: I can be given constructive criticism and it doesn’t mean I’m a bad person, worthless, or someone inherently less valuable. Confidence is something you learn over time. It’s something you work on. It’s something you CULTIVATE by getting clear on who you are. Your goals, and being aligned.
facts and confidence doesn't point out flaws in others to self validate. confidence doesn't claim to be confident while begging people for compliments and doing things for attention.
" I didn't know how, but I knew I was going to be successful", this hit me hard. When you know deep down, that something greater is waiting for you it helps you to keep your eyes on the prize, whatever happened with the kids at school, what your ex boyfriend said about you, or your grades are falling; your guts tells you you'll be alright. I think it's a grace, when God lets you know that. It's always been the case for me and it helped me to move on from a lot of toxicity and negativity. Thank you for reminding us of that
Straight up, i have been at rock bottom and it always felt like god was telling me that one day i’ll overcome this and be successful, i think its really inspiring to have that even you feel like theres nothing left
P.S Love Kaona Definitely agree. Alot of times I see how some people wanna holdback on compliments or give backhanded compliments. As if they believe u need it to breathe. Like Please. Without compliments I still feel confident in myself. In my authentic bare self.
Career-wise: I definitely had to build confidence in myself and what I’m capable of to work as a nurse in the operating room. It’s a completely different world from the floor. I was told by my mom, who is also an OR nurse, that if you don’t build up that thick skin, they will eat you alive. I’m amongst the younger end of nurses being 28, and when I’m surrounded by almost all male surgeons sometimes, I have to assert myself to make my presence known. It can be exhausting, but when the attendings are pleased to see me when they walk in the door, I KNOW I’m doing something right.
I’m only 19 and I am still shy and unconfident in certain areas . I find my real self shine through when I am filming videos or making music . THANK YOU for telling me confidence comes with age because I truly never knew that ❤️
You haven’t met me!😂 But for real though, all these kids in my class literally look so amazing and then there’s me in my ugly awkward stage (i.e. my whole life)😭😭
No one in my family ever called me beautiful growing up and I always got made fun of but I kept to myself. I’m just now really getting comfortable with myself at 22 and it’s hard but worth it
I had a “best friend” in high school who, for some reason, expected me to not to like the skin I’m in. She use to constantly say how she was going to use skin bleaching creams to get a lighter skin tone and tried to convince me that I should too. I had to separate myself from her because the things she said and did started to take a toll on me. I start off my day by telling myself that I am beautiful and ambitious all the time and it has been helping me so far.
that's incredibly messed up, as someone who unfortunately fell for the skin lightening regime. I applaud you for separating yourself from someone toxic like that. Thankfully, my skin tone has not taken a toll because of my mother and her advice that she gave me and it's the same saying I'm gifting to you. You are a tree, your roots run deep and you stand proudly in the sky, never take notice to those who throw stones at you for all they wish to seek is your ripened fruit. Anyone who has a problem with you has an even bigger problem with themselves. You're gorgeous, stay true to yourself!
My best friend mentioned a few times throughout high school that if I was a few shades darker the guy I liked wouldn't have liked me back . She meant well, I think, but I understand your need to separate yourself. I hope you find better friends
when I tell you I needed this??? im only 21 but I am so hard on myself it's draining. starting my own business, trying to lose weight, getting good grades at school, going to work. It's so much, but I'm doing the damn thing! I need to give myself credit!
I dont know if anyone understands me but Jackie feels to me like a bigger sister, like the woman I aspire to be. This may be 'just' RUclips but I am thankful for her being here, open and honest, always trying to better herself and fighting for whats important to her. I literally never met a woman being that confident and humble at the same time. Also Jackie made me realize that I am okay not being bffs with everyone and knowing I am still a good person and have good people in my life and speaking my truth is important. Love her & appreciate her so much.
i went to my bathroom to take my makeup off and i asked myself who am i with the makeup i thought i was ugly before but when i took it off i saw myself in such a beautiful way and felt good about myself and smiled in the mirror and felt so happy ur advice helped 😁
I literally down myself because of what I think I overheard someone say about me & that's why I'm building my confidence. I need to validate me & let that be enough.
I have not been attractive until I got to 32 years old, my daughter taught me how to do my make up and my hair grew after I went natural, stopped perming my hair and now I am almost 50 years old and I look awesome..
ugh it’s crazy how ur channel is my happy place. literally you’ve saved me from my homophobic household during quarantine and thats on period. love ya!
I stopped following girls and comparing myself to them based on their outfits, lifestyles etc... it’s so toxic and makes you try to portray an image of you that’s not accurate. Now I wear what feels good to me and everything else like I’m literally in my bubble.
I love how unapologetic Jackie is about making positive and encouraging content. This is the type of content that I love her for and that should be spread
"Learn how to not take unsolicited opinions personal." "You inspire people who pretend to not even see you." - Jackie Aina 2020 Lovin' the natural hair and popping makeup look! 🔥
For me growing up I wasn’t confident because EVERYONE in my family was light skin. I’m a really dark and I got it from my dad. All my features are from my father whom was never around me. I felt so ugly. As I got older I realized that I’m actually really pretty. Like exceptionally so. It took me a long time to understand that.
It’s a myth that confidence is an automatic quality. The great thing is there are tools and resources to help build you your confidence. Remember confident people aren’t born that way. You got this!
You have so much time to work on that and build yourself up ♥️ You are no where near too late. I have a long journey ahead of me, but I feel waaay more confident now (as a 23 year old) then I ever have. The journey upward is hard and takes a lot of reprogramming, but it's possible even if it seems like it's not. Never give up because you deserve the best just like everyone on this planet. ♥️
Its a journey, its a process, its something that takes work especially when you start off as insecure or lacking any confidence at all. For me the 'fake it til you make it' thing really worked. I'm still not confident compared to the average person but I'm ten times more confident than I was at 18 (I am 24). Honestly, give yourself time and practice self-love and you'll slowly start to feel the change.
I had to learn this. Especially when I had a stroke and it changed how I looked. And then I had 2 amputations. My confidence was shot. I really had to work on building it back
Kamulah hi, I just wanna to say that I really admire you. That you are in my prayers. That I hope that you find happiness. You are so brave and amazing. Beautiful physically and soulfully (idk if that’s a word). I just saw your story and even though don’t know you personally, know I am rooting for you. I am praying and hoping for great things to happen to you. My grandmother died without being to use her legs, and I thought about her when I saw your video. Thank you for sharing your story.
@@15wendyxo omg. thank you so much. That reply just made my entire day! Thank you for all your prayers and good wishes. And my condolences about your grandma. Much love!
Jackie, you have no idea how much I needed this video. I’ve been going through so much, and my emotions are so hay wire, and I’m feeling depressed and you’re right. I need to be more confident in myself, in what I say, etc. it’s funny cause I literally JUST prayed to God, to remove this negative spirit off of me and you posted this. I have no idea how to thank you because your words, are literally helping the masses in ways you don’t even know. So seriously, thank you 🥺
give yourself some credit though; to be fair a lot of people are genuinely going through it at the moment. it's okay to not be okay sometimes. it's okay to hurt. just don't sulk in it, remind yourself of why you're that chick and keep it moving! surround yourself with people you know that will build you up and encourage you if you can
05:26 - you look really good with just foundation on. I actually really like the natural darkness around your eyes - it like an eyeshadow on its own and its beautiful
YES! I’ve worked hard to forget about my dark circles (sometimes I look like an actual raccoon) but now I just think of it as “free” Smokey eyes! Also raccoons are cute
I was so self conscious when I was a teen and could never do anything without thinking about what other people thought of me, and feeling like everybody was judging me. And people were judging, they still are all the time. But I realised whatever I do, people are gonna judge me. You have to find the people who make you feel confident, but also accept that your self love is the only love that can make you feel the best
Jackie is the big sister that I’ve always wanted 😩 I’m blessed to have a younger brother that tells me all the time that my confidence should not rise and fall with whoever I’m around or whatever is going on. Be confident in your rights and your wrongs! Thank you Jackieeee I needed this reenforcement today!
I really needed this. I’m struggling to regain my confidence after having my baby. I lean on my boyfriend for reassurance & feel really bad when he doesn’t give it. So I’m on a journey to be confident and uplift myself.
You uploaded this video just in time when my coworker went on a long rant "roasting" me for my dark skin. I gotta say it's the hard stuff that makes us grow
I honestly see these kind of vids all the time, but seeing a black woman, someone who looks like me (!!!!), hits different and I'm def feeling a lot better. Thank you for this video!!
I watched this video in my bathroom. Every time she said something inspirational, I tried to think of something pretty/I like about my face or about my personality. Nothing negative, only positive things that make me beautiful, not just on the outside. I walked out of the bathroom 10x more confident. Just a tip :)
Also Jackie also let me embrace that. I am the only black girl in my grade and I used to hate that I was different. I always wanted to have long hair but now I embrace that now that I watch Jackie. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful and that I don't need to be like everyone else. Thank you so much Jackie. Actual Goals
"no one can take away from you what you have to yourself" that is on PERIOD. I too was the disliked dark skinned girl growing up and it took a lot of work in my teen years to get out of it. I struggle with my confidence in a different way now, but can't nobody EVER tell me my black is not beautiful. Waste of your breath sweetheart 😘✌️
“Confidence comes with age...” Say it againNnnn Miss Jackie!!! Now in my 30’s,I truly wish I could speak to my younger self and help guide her,yes impossible,but I’m a strong believer that things happen for a reason. Without my past,I wouldn’t be who I am today, continuously growing and learning errday 😊❤️🙏🏽
Lordpraisethe I stress occasionally,especially on what’s most important in my life and I also know that stressing period,isn’t the best for our health in its entirety(physically,mentally,spiritually). “Not Stressing” is something that needs to be tended to,on the daily. I truly hope your stress eases with time 😊
I love this video cause I was feeling down because I’m a senior in high school and I really had to find myself within those 4 years in high and just to find my self just to lose myself again close to the end of my senior year. I got very depressed and took it out on myself because of not knowing if I’m graduating or not feeling like all the work I did haven’t paid off because covid-19 not going to school and not being able to walk across the stage something I dreamed about doing my whole whole life and that was one of my biggest dreams I was working toward and couldn’t achieve because of something I couldn’t control and it kills me every day and this video ion know how this relates but it did and now imma just go with the flow and wat ever it takes I’m walking a stage to graduate so college I’m coming for you ❤️💯😩🥰
" We each are our own worst critic" - Ellen Hendriksen. Not even half way through the video but agreeing with everything in it. Thank you for using your platform for good❤️
I can't believe the way people bully others for their loos, he devil is real, darkness is real and it messes you up I promise. Spread light and watch the light come back to you, with everyone and anyone but most importantly start with YOURSELF.yesssss, I said what I said!!
At 28, your comment on "If i had just been myself earlier, I would have been further along" took me out. That, I felt. Thank you Auntie Jackie. That was something I needed, especially today.
I’ve been bingeing your content for the last 3 days, and it’s helped me so much. It makes me feel how I felt pre pandemic. I’m prone to depression and anxiety, but you are such a ray of sunshine and positive; I can’t help but smile at all your antics. Love you auntie Jackie 💙
I've had acne since I was 10 and something that helped with my self esteem is being lazy! I can't be bothered to put makeup on everyday, throughout school etc so this is my face and people will have to deal with that, it's their problem if it's an issue
I'm so glad she mentioned her past in accounting for her confidence. I can really see the contrast between her past and mine, and really understand what I need to own my inner confidence.
I’m a 16 year old middle eastern girl 🇰🇼 , I feel like I still have a long way to go to be more confident in myself but being surrounded by mean and toxic girls in school makes it ten times more difficult to be confident , thank you so much for doing this video it’s really helpful especially for us young girls out there ❤️❤️
I’m getting teared up and a knot in my throat just at the title! Looking at you with the hair that grows from your scalp and no makeup just does something to me 🤦🏾♀️😢💜💜 thank you for your bravery to pursue your dreams and share yourself
this is one of my favorite looks... makes your brown eyes pop. all so thank you so much for this video. I'm 26 and have been going through a sellf discovery period and I finally feel like I'm gaining more self confidence at this point.
I was just praying and asking GOD to send me a word about this! And here you go..... it’s still hard to listen too because I’m empty inside. Thank you for the guidance.🙂
Coming upon my 23rd birthday in a couple of days. This year I've been through a ton of changes that really shook my character. Recently I've started to doubt myself and my decisions. This video came right on time and was very much needed! Thank you Auntie Jackie!!!!
Yesss i liveee ! Honestly people just stopped questioning me when I start running around the house screaming Jackie Jackie Jackie Jackie!They no what time it is.
Absolutely love this Jackie! I’m 25 and JUST starting to walk in my confidence fully. It takes time but the journey is worth it! 🙌🏽 P.S. this look is BOMB! 😍
Same here girl! For some reason I thought confidence came naturally with age but I'm starting to realize you have to actually put in the work and love yourself
I feel like I have to put a disclaimer on every single video these days but..... this video was filmed WEEKS before Shallon started getting dragged as of recently and I just WANT TO REITERATE FOR THE HALF-LISTENERS - I DO NOT AGREE WITH MOST OF THE STUFF THAT LADY BE YAPPING ABOUT. I am not a stan of hers, and I really haven't watched that many of her videos to consider myself a supporter. She has made a few decent points here and there (even a broken clock can be right twice a day 💀) and I thought that one point was fitting at the time I filmed this. PLEASE FOR ONCE get off my back I beg, thank you 😭
Jackie Aina pin this comment girl lmao 😂 that same video you talking about was in my recommended too. Lmao i understand.
Self-taught goddess - theres a reason why I didn’t verbatim encourage people to subscribe to her 😩 usually when I shout someone out I encourage people to check out their content
Shame on y'all for her even having to comment that. Ugh so sorry for what you go through Jackie. I know myself and many others love, support, and understand where you come from!!!💙
I just knew people wouldn't use common sense or listen. They jumped to conclusions real quick😂
This is one of the best videos you’ve ever put out! I fully endorse this message. I spent my twenties trying to fit into someone else’s mold, I was in my thirties as well when I really began to love and accept myself and I wouldn’t turn back the clock for anything.
"Confidence is not "they will like me", confidence is "I'll be fine if they don't." "
Lauren Stafford you damn right. I love this
👏👏👏💯
SO true!
Yassssss!!! So true.
Truth Serum.
When she said “You think I’m ugly, okay someone think you ugly too” I felt that on a whole ass level 👏🏽
Same! 👏🏽👏🏽
Oop
Yessssssssssss
Damn
I WHEEZED LIKE A RHINO, I LOVE HER😭
Therapy : EXPENSIVE
Auntie Jackie : FREE 😣😣
Yesss
YES
She definitely thinks she has everything figured out. Talk about word vomit unsolicited advice. Aunt Jackie!🤣
😂
Well said🙏🏾
think about it: you're gonna be stuck with yourself for your whole life, so it's a good idea to have a good relationship with yourself.
Anita Vanessa Sun love it
Anita Vanessa Sun this
So true.
Brilliantly said
Yesss 👏🏽
I always stand by something my mama told me that was "If they can't fix it in 30 seconds do not say it." So yeah she smudged her eyeliner, lipstick on her teeth, booger? Yeah let her know in private easy! Her face shape, her skin colour, her weight? KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!
I like this. Thank you for sharing. I'm going to bare this in mind :)))
Thank you!! I love this!
Well said!!
i like this :)
You may not like smth about someone but it doesn’t mean you can say it out loud
i love how she’s wearing yellow, which is symbolic of the solar plexus chakra, the energy center for confidence, individuality, & vitality. love the energy girl!!
Yesss
I love your hairstyle in your profile!!! I want bangs so bad😳😍
@@marias7008 omg i just saw this! thank you :* DO IT!!!!
Same it immediately caught my eye
That yellow is the best yellow- vibrant, true to color, pigmented, doesn't brush away when applying or fade. Pretty damn impressive. Not many can pull off yellow either and she made it look elegant to top it off!
**jackie aina curing my depression for 31 minutes straight
Rylee Fortier-turner I felt that lol
Rylee Fortier-turner RIGHT 🥺
on God
Sammeeee
period
My mom always tells me "if people don't like the way you look, they can look the other damn direction."
That's right. Look away
True lol
Period!
Somehow the meme in your profile pic goes with your comment😂
As a bartender , i feel my income has always been related to my looks.
I dated guys who did not care about my intelligence , my studies , my personality .. they dated me for how i looked.
Without realizing it, a big part of my self-esteem has been related to my looks, which made me lowkey insecure.
I need to stop seeking validation for my appearance and stop hanging out with people who solely value me for that.
I deserve better 😌
Amen
Yes you do!💗
GIRL I CAN SO RELATE TO THIS! YES YOU ARE CUTE! BUT BE WITH PPL THAT VALUE YOU FOR YOUUUUUU! I HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME, AND I REALIZED YO, I AM SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT. AND SO ARE YOU BABY GIRL!
Come through with that growth hunny!!
Amen.
“You think I’m ugly, okay you ugly to somebody too” 😂😂😂. Loved this video so much
That was a great comeback.
Ms oddballz Auntie Jackie always has the best comebacks
@@EstherEromosele facts!
@@msoddballz5763 qqaaSa
“Confidence is NOT arrogance” -Jackie Aina
P.S My 7 year old daughter said, “Mommy she copied my ponytail” 🤣
lmaoooooo
tell her yea I did, my bad
Jackie Aina 😂 💕
Tiffany Pollard This is true. 💕
Have you seen Cree Summer's girl kids? I saw their faces when Jackie said, "Well some people are born confident..."
Confidence doesn’t point to someone else. Confidence points to self and says “I love me.”
Confidence doesn’t compare itself to others.
Confidence says “Imma do what’s best for me” regardless of what’s popular
Confidence asks: have I lived up to my OWN values?” Vs “have I lived up to others opinion of me?”
Confidence says: I don’t have to be perfect but I do have to do the best I can with what I’ve been given and have energy for.
Confidence says: Yes, I believe in myself. Yes, I also believe in others AND BOTH CAN EXIST AT THE SAME TIME!
Confidence says: I can be given constructive criticism and it doesn’t mean I’m a bad person, worthless, or someone inherently less valuable.
Confidence is something you learn over time. It’s something you work on. It’s something you CULTIVATE by getting clear on who you are. Your goals, and being aligned.
🙌
Too much wisdom in this 🙌
Cris Harris thank you 🙇
This is beautiful thank you for this...
facts and confidence doesn't point out flaws in others to self validate. confidence doesn't claim to be confident while begging people for compliments and doing things for attention.
Jackie: “You inspire people who pretend to not even see you”
Me: start that shit over (replays it 5x)🙌🏾🙌🏾
Why did i come across this comment the moment she said it
fatimah loves joon fate! ❤️
Seriously! 💖💕
me too
Me too 💁🏾♀️ 🤣 🤣
" I didn't know how, but I knew I was going to be successful", this hit me hard. When you know deep down, that something greater is waiting for you it helps you to keep your eyes on the prize, whatever happened with the kids at school, what your ex boyfriend said about you, or your grades are falling; your guts tells you you'll be alright. I think it's a grace, when God lets you know that. It's always been the case for me and it helped me to move on from a lot of toxicity and negativity. Thank you for reminding us of that
Monika Néréa Mouanza 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Straight up, i have been at rock bottom and it always felt like god was telling me that one day i’ll overcome this and be successful, i think its really inspiring to have that even you feel like theres nothing left
@@TheKairifan14 Amen🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
“You don’t have to compliment me to make me feel good about myself “‼️
P.S Love Kaona Definitely agree.
Alot of times I see how some people wanna holdback on compliments or give backhanded compliments. As if they believe u need it to breathe.
Like Please. Without compliments I still feel confident in myself.
In my authentic bare self.
“No ones technically ugly in the eyes of the LOOOOOOORRRDD” 😂
THIS IS TRUE!✔✔💛☮🙏🏽🌟
Amen
Lmbooo
God is love. He is the only source of peace. Amen
@@anjsen8542 sooooo true
No one can go to a therapist cause of quarantine 😭 and Auntie Jackie comes with a 30 min video saving our lives. Love to see it 💗
I have heard of some therapists doing remote sessions!
I actually had a remote therapy session a few weeks back! My therapist was able to find a website that worked with HIPPO guidelines
Hailey DeCastro HIPAA?
Rubie Lopez Oops autocorrect did me dirty lmao
Hailey DeCastro That took me out!
I did get an A on my exam yesterday...I’m a lil low key geeked😆
ColdDiva CONGRATULATIONS!!! 🎉🎊
You go girl! Congrats 🎊
CocktailsMakeupandLife Thank you!😁🥳
Natmari Thank you lady☺️
Congratulations 🥂🍾🥳
“Your opinion of me is none of my business” words that I live by
Career-wise: I definitely had to build confidence in myself and what I’m capable of to work as a nurse in the operating room. It’s a completely different world from the floor. I was told by my mom, who is also an OR nurse, that if you don’t build up that thick skin, they will eat you alive. I’m amongst the younger end of nurses being 28, and when I’m surrounded by almost all male surgeons sometimes, I have to assert myself to make my presence known. It can be exhausting, but when the attendings are pleased to see me when they walk in the door, I KNOW I’m doing something right.
ohaiitsarielle I was a unit secretary and I had to learn this , those nurses and doctors ate me alive 🥴 , one of the toughest lessons I’ve learned .
Wow! Thank you for this.
I’m only 19 and I am still shy and unconfident in certain areas . I find my real self shine through when I am filming videos or making music . THANK YOU for telling me confidence comes with age because I truly never knew that ❤️
You may want to write down negative things you think and say to yourself and then combat them with positive statements
ItzKeisha KEISHAAAA
Hey Keisha. You give me very confident energy actually. An articulate queen who knows shes that bitch
Yes queen 👸🏾
“You’re not everybody’s cup of tea and that’s ok”. Literally told a guy that today and got deleted 😂
Crystal Crawford gurl, the audacity on some ppl😂💀
I'm dead!! I'm using that for now on lmaooo 😭😂
im weak 😭😭
LMFAOOOOO 💀💀💀
Gotta give these niggas they own medicine. P.s they can’t handle it
This generation is definitely skipping the ugly awkward stage 😩!
Girl it’s not fair wtf 😩😩😩😩
Honestly though!!
Not me lmao
Ikrrr
You haven’t met me!😂
But for real though, all these kids in my class literally look so amazing and then there’s me in my ugly awkward stage (i.e. my whole life)😭😭
No one in my family ever called me beautiful growing up and I always got made fun of but I kept to myself. I’m just now really getting comfortable with myself at 22 and it’s hard but worth it
Amanda Dudley heyyy lmaoo same last name 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 hey beautifull
Me too but I know I am so beautiful and you are too ❤️❤️❤️
I can relate 👌👌
Same sis
It's ok sis I'm 46 and I'm just realizing that I'm beautiful. Keep your head up ❤❤ you are beautiful
I had a “best friend” in high school who, for some reason, expected me to not to like the skin I’m in. She use to constantly say how she was going to use skin bleaching creams to get a lighter skin tone and tried to convince me that I should too. I had to separate myself from her because the things she said and did started to take a toll on me. I start off my day by telling myself that I am beautiful and ambitious all the time and it has been helping me so far.
that's incredibly messed up, as someone who unfortunately fell for the skin lightening regime. I applaud you for separating yourself from someone toxic like that. Thankfully, my skin tone has not taken a toll because of my mother and her advice that she gave me and it's the same saying I'm gifting to you. You are a tree, your roots run deep and you stand proudly in the sky, never take notice to those who throw stones at you for all they wish to seek is your ripened fruit.
Anyone who has a problem with you has an even bigger problem with themselves. You're gorgeous, stay true to yourself!
Hany Hamarneh thank you and you are beautiful in your skin too.💖
My best friend mentioned a few times throughout high school that if I was a few shades darker the guy I liked wouldn't have liked me back .
She meant well, I think, but I understand your need to separate yourself.
I hope you find better friends
when I tell you I needed this??? im only 21 but I am so hard on myself it's draining. starting my own business, trying to lose weight, getting good grades at school, going to work. It's so much, but I'm doing the damn thing! I need to give myself credit!
In the words of Megan thee Stallion " How you wake up mad at me before you brush yo teeth?" People who hate need a real mental evaluation😂😂
I dont know if anyone understands me but Jackie feels to me like a bigger sister, like the woman I aspire to be. This may be 'just' RUclips but I am thankful for her being here, open and honest, always trying to better herself and fighting for whats important to her. I literally never met a woman being that confident and humble at the same time. Also Jackie made me realize that I am okay not being bffs with everyone and knowing I am still a good person and have good people in my life and speaking my truth is important. Love her & appreciate her so much.
i went to my bathroom to take my makeup off and i asked myself who am i with the makeup i thought i was ugly before but when i took it off i saw myself in such a beautiful way and felt good about myself and smiled in the mirror and felt so happy ur advice helped 😁
“You inspire people who pretend to not even see you” -Jackie Aina 👑
Spoken like a true queen
I literally down myself because of what I think I overheard someone say about me & that's why I'm building my confidence. I need to validate me & let that be enough.
"I don't ask to be complemented either" i LOVE this way of thinking
I have not been attractive until I got to 32 years old, my daughter taught me how to do my make up and my hair grew after I went natural, stopped perming my hair and now I am almost 50 years old and I look awesome..
You give me life, this is how it was in a predominant white school, I was not it! My daughter has been taught she is gorgeous
ugh it’s crazy how ur channel is my happy place. literally you’ve saved me from my homophobic household during quarantine and thats on period. love ya!
Hope you’re doing well! ☀️
"No one is technically ugly in the the of lord" amen
fatemah lattrag Amen! God created us all beautifully, wonderfully, and perfectly. He is perfect, and makes no mistakes. Thank You Lord! 🙏🏽❤️💞🙌🏽
I stopped following girls and comparing myself to them based on their outfits, lifestyles etc... it’s so toxic and makes you try to portray an image of you that’s not accurate. Now I wear what feels good to me and everything else like I’m literally in my bubble.
Girl I just turned 30.. and I feel more confident than EVER!!! This video touched me girl! Love ya
I love how unapologetic Jackie is about making positive and encouraging content. This is the type of content that I love her for and that should be spread
Positivity all the way
The QUEEN of confidence has spoken ✨
Yesssss😁
I’m struggling with depression right now And this helped me more than you can ever know. Thank you Jackie 😭💜
The motivation I need to feel better about my PhD application! Hello Dr. Melanie. Thanks Jackie!
Congratulations in advance!!!
🗣GO OFF SIS!!! Yessss Dr Melanie
Congratulations girl
Yes! Name it, claim it!
Juliet Ngweno thank you!
"Learn how to not take unsolicited opinions personal."
"You inspire people who pretend to not even see you."
- Jackie Aina 2020
Lovin' the natural hair and popping makeup look! 🔥
“Being you is your power” ❤️.
For me growing up I wasn’t confident because EVERYONE in my family was light skin. I’m a really dark and I got it from my dad. All my features are from my father whom was never around me. I felt so ugly. As I got older I realized that I’m actually really pretty. Like exceptionally so. It took me a long time to understand that.
essence arielle 😘
I like the part when you realized that you are actually pretty. Exceptionally too girl get it!
Girl, God said he was going to set you apart. Go on Esther!!
essence arielle go head sis 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yasss! Beauty is not defined by complexion.
I love Jackie, she’s just a whole mood!! 😌💕
Ikr😊
Domomichele yes she really is
thanks boo boo 💗
I just realized in my 18 years of being alive, I’ve never been confident.
You literally have the world at your fingertips
It’s a myth that confidence is an automatic quality. The great thing is there are tools and resources to help build you your confidence. Remember confident people aren’t born that way. You got this!
You have so much time to work on that and build yourself up ♥️ You are no where near too late. I have a long journey ahead of me, but I feel waaay more confident now (as a 23 year old) then I ever have. The journey upward is hard and takes a lot of reprogramming, but it's possible even if it seems like it's not. Never give up because you deserve the best just like everyone on this planet. ♥️
Same but 8
Its a journey, its a process, its something that takes work especially when you start off as insecure or lacking any confidence at all. For me the 'fake it til you make it' thing really worked. I'm still not confident compared to the average person but I'm ten times more confident than I was at 18 (I am 24). Honestly, give yourself time and practice self-love and you'll slowly start to feel the change.
I had to learn this. Especially when I had a stroke and it changed how I looked. And then I had 2 amputations. My confidence was shot. I really had to work on building it back
Kamulah hi, I just wanna to say that I really admire you. That you are in my prayers. That I hope that you find happiness. You are so brave and amazing. Beautiful physically and soulfully (idk if that’s a word). I just saw your story and even though don’t know you personally, know I am rooting for you. I am praying and hoping for great things to happen to you. My grandmother died without being to use her legs, and I thought about her when I saw your video. Thank you for sharing your story.
@@15wendyxo omg. thank you so much. That reply just made my entire day! Thank you for all your prayers and good wishes. And my condolences about your grandma. Much love!
@Tracy G thank you Tracy. I appreciate it!
Kamulah ! 👌🏻✨💕💕💕💕
@@gazbarton6323 thanks so much!
Jackie, you have no idea how much I needed this video. I’ve been going through so much, and my emotions are so hay wire, and I’m feeling depressed and you’re right. I need to be more confident in myself, in what I say, etc. it’s funny cause I literally JUST prayed to God, to remove this negative spirit off of me and you posted this. I have no idea how to thank you because your words, are literally helping the masses in ways you don’t even know. So seriously, thank you 🥺
give yourself some credit though; to be fair a lot of people are genuinely going through it at the moment. it's okay to not be okay sometimes. it's okay to hurt. just don't sulk in it, remind yourself of why you're that chick and keep it moving! surround yourself with people you know that will build you up and encourage you if you can
Jackie Aina amen amen! You’re so right 🥺❤️ and that’s what I’m doing now !
05:26 - you look really good with just foundation on. I actually really like the natural darkness around your eyes - it like an eyeshadow on its own and its beautiful
YES! I’ve worked hard to forget about my dark circles (sometimes I look like an actual raccoon) but now I just think of it as “free” Smokey eyes! Also raccoons are cute
There are so many people out there who say confident is arrogance, SET THEM APART THATS NOT THE SAME 🚨🚨🚨
Yeap. They truly confuse arrogance, rudeness, and nastiness with confidence!! smh
Loyalty.2 💯💯💯💯
I was so self conscious when I was a teen and could never do anything without thinking about what other people thought of me, and feeling like everybody was judging me. And people were judging, they still are all the time. But I realised whatever I do, people are gonna judge me. You have to find the people who make you feel confident, but also accept that your self love is the only love that can make you feel the best
i feel the same way. i'm a sophomore and while i understand this whole thing it's hard to actually go through with it
Jackie is the big sister that I’ve always wanted 😩 I’m blessed to have a younger brother that tells me all the time that my confidence should not rise and fall with whoever I’m around or whatever is going on. Be confident in your rights and your wrongs! Thank you Jackieeee I needed this reenforcement today!
I literally had a break down yesterday and here comes Jackie to give me this supportive pep talk.
You got this. 💪🏾
Keep going lovely 🌻❤️
“I knew I was ugly. I knew my lane.”
Me: Jackie, give me photo evidence, thank you. I don’t believe you lmfao 😂
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This video is 2 years old and I always come back to it when I’m not feeling so good. Can’t thank you enough Jackie ❤
No one:
me : "jackie jackie jackie jackie ....
my 2 brain cells all day long : "jackie jackie jackie jackie jackie jackie jackie jackie "
I randomly do the same dang thing. Logging in for work this morning Jackie, Jackie, Jackie Jackie
Same!
I really needed this. I’m struggling to regain my confidence after having my baby. I lean on my boyfriend for reassurance & feel really bad when he doesn’t give it. So I’m on a journey to be confident and uplift myself.
You uploaded this video just in time when my coworker went on a long rant "roasting" me for my dark skin. I gotta say it's the hard stuff that makes us grow
Annie WTF?! Take that to Human Resources, no deserves that kind of emotional harassment. It’s illegal.
You Better roast them back !
As a high school junior who’s been binging “my Harvard acceptance stats!” vids, I needed this.. big time. Love ya Jackie
You're going to do amazing
pearl do you mean you’re accepted or you’re applying? Good luck or congratulations!!!! Best wishes xx
Just kidding I can’t read I guess 😭😂 good luck!!
Have faith in yourself, I got accepted into places and was like what?! No one around me was surprised. You got this!🥳
wishing you all the absolute best!!!
“The difference between opinions & pizza, is that I asked for pizza” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Sophia Harper SOMEONE MAKE A SHIRT PLEASR
oxch0ngxo id totally buy it!
I read that as onions and was really confuse
CEOofquantomPhysics haha! I could see that as well!
I honestly see these kind of vids all the time, but seeing a black woman, someone who looks like me (!!!!), hits different and I'm def feeling a lot better. Thank you for this video!!
Sis really be having the prettiest eyes on yt
I watched this video in my bathroom. Every time she said something inspirational, I tried to think of something pretty/I like about my face or about my personality. Nothing negative, only positive things that make me beautiful, not just on the outside. I walked out of the bathroom 10x more confident. Just a tip :)
Thank you. Never tell people your plans. So true. And, negative self talk is so toxic. Words have power.
Also Jackie also let me embrace that. I am the only black girl in my grade and I used to hate that I was different. I always wanted to have long hair but now I embrace that now that I watch Jackie. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful and that I don't need to be like everyone else. Thank you so much Jackie. Actual Goals
Yes sis👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
What does you wanting long hair have to do with anything? Does your hair not grow long?
"sometimes its best to not even tell anyone" yesssssss sissss i felt that
"no one can take away from you what you have to yourself"
that is on PERIOD. I too was the disliked dark skinned girl growing up and it took a lot of work in my teen years to get out of it. I struggle with my confidence in a different way now, but can't nobody EVER tell me my black is not beautiful. Waste of your breath sweetheart 😘✌️
Yesssss
“Confidence comes with age...” Say it againNnnn Miss Jackie!!! Now in my 30’s,I truly wish I could speak to my younger self and help guide her,yes impossible,but I’m a strong believer that things happen for a reason. Without my past,I wouldn’t be who I am today, continuously growing and learning errday 😊❤️🙏🏽
I'm 25 and I'm still stressing 😞
Lordpraisethe I stress occasionally,especially on what’s most important in my life and I also know that stressing period,isn’t the best for our health in its entirety(physically,mentally,spiritually). “Not Stressing” is something that needs to be tended to,on the daily. I truly hope your stress eases with time 😊
“I’m just confidently highlighting my cheek bones cause I deserve it” that’s a VIBE
I totally agree .. confidence comes with age! I’m 35 and I’m just like their opinions don’t pay my bills. 😍😍😍 I just love how you keep it real!!!!
I love this video cause I was feeling down because I’m a senior in high school and I really had to find myself within those 4 years in high and just to find my self just to lose myself again close to the end of my senior year. I got very depressed and took it out on myself because of not knowing if I’m graduating or not feeling like all the work I did haven’t paid off because covid-19 not going to school and not being able to walk across the stage something I dreamed about doing my whole whole life and that was one of my biggest dreams I was working toward and couldn’t achieve because of something I couldn’t control and it kills me every day and this video ion know how this relates but it did and now imma just go with the flow and wat ever it takes I’m walking a stage to graduate so college I’m coming for you ❤️💯😩🥰
Hi,not related but u look soooooo good
The title alone tells me this video is about to bless me😂🙏🏾🙌🏾
Janel James Right? I am here for the Blessing
Ikr😆
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🤗 💕
NEEDED THIS!!! Love you ❤️
Rihanna is such a vibe, she is so chill and ughhhh I just love the effortless vibe 😩❤️🙏🏽
Rihanna is in a class of her own my darling. A class of her own. She is just effortless and confident. Just a beautiful soul that one.
even rihanna wasn't always like this
And I’m sure Rihanna had to grow into her current self confidence
" We each are our own worst critic" - Ellen Hendriksen. Not even half way through the video but agreeing with everything in it. Thank you for using your platform for good❤️
I can't believe the way people bully others for their loos, he devil is real, darkness is real and it messes you up I promise. Spread light and watch the light come back to you, with everyone and anyone but most importantly start with YOURSELF.yesssss, I said what I said!!
You know it's a deep conversation when Jackie's natural hair comes to play
At 28, your comment on "If i had just been myself earlier, I would have been further along" took me out. That, I felt. Thank you Auntie Jackie. That was something I needed, especially today.
I’ve been bingeing your content for the last 3 days, and it’s helped me so much. It makes me feel how I felt pre pandemic. I’m prone to depression and anxiety, but you are such a ray of sunshine and positive; I can’t help but smile at all your antics. Love you auntie Jackie 💙
It’s so true that when you build your confidence by yourself without depending on anyone, now one can ever take it away from you. Thank you Jackie.
I've had acne since I was 10 and something that helped with my self esteem is being lazy! I can't be bothered to put makeup on everyday, throughout school etc so this is my face and people will have to deal with that, it's their problem if it's an issue
Shuhara Ahmed “what you think of me is none of my business”
I'm so glad she mentioned her past in accounting for her confidence. I can really see the contrast between her past and mine, and really understand what I need to own my inner confidence.
Jackie: Hi guys
Me: putting her shirt in my shopping cart immediately.
I’m a 16 year old middle eastern girl 🇰🇼 , I feel like I still have a long way to go to be more confident in myself but being surrounded by mean and toxic girls in school makes it ten times more difficult to be confident , thank you so much for doing this video it’s really helpful especially for us young girls out there ❤️❤️
Same, like I put to much pressure on myself but I have to remind myself, that I’m so young and I’m not even fully grown into my look😌
"You think I'm ugly, okay, you ugly to somebody too!"😂😂😂😂 But seriously, I love your message of positivity.
Jackie I’m claiming that a TV network is gonna pick you up for a show. Love you girl!!!
I’m getting teared up and a knot in my throat just at the title! Looking at you with the hair that grows from your scalp and no makeup just does something to me 🤦🏾♀️😢💜💜 thank you for your bravery to pursue your dreams and share yourself
Jackie:Gen Z skipped the awkward phase
Me: Don't worry, the phase ran a train on my ass 🤣🤣🤣
This eye look Jackie!! 🔥
“What we both gonna do ugly”😂😂😂😅
this is one of my favorite looks... makes your brown eyes pop.
all so thank you so much for this video. I'm 26 and have been going through a sellf discovery period and I finally feel like I'm gaining more self confidence at this point.
"Confidence means everything I get is from within" 👏
Jackie’s confidence is GOALS 😩😍😍
I wish I had this when I was younger. I was bullied constantly and felt so insecure. This video is going into a playlist for when I need a reminder.
I was just praying and asking GOD to send me a word about this! And here you go..... it’s still hard to listen too because I’m empty inside. Thank you for the guidance.🙂
May the Lord fill that void and enable you to see yourself the way He does. A chosen generation and a special person
@@patriciambock4502 amen
I absolutely adore Jackie. This lady is honestly so authentically herself and it's so refreshing. I am so pumped after watching this video.
Coming upon my 23rd birthday in a couple of days. This year I've been through a ton of changes that really shook my character. Recently I've started to doubt myself and my decisions. This video came right on time and was very much needed! Thank you Auntie Jackie!!!!
Yesss i liveee ! Honestly people just stopped questioning me when I start running around the house screaming Jackie Jackie Jackie Jackie!They no what time it is.
I love this.
Absolutely love this Jackie! I’m 25 and JUST starting to walk in my confidence fully. It takes time but the journey is worth it! 🙌🏽 P.S. this look is BOMB! 😍
Same here girl! For some reason I thought confidence came naturally with age but I'm starting to realize you have to actually put in the work and love yourself
Ivy Mata couldn’t agree more