I’m a successful businessman and bartenders, waitresses, neighbors, and even my priest won’t talk to me in the US. Then I come to the Philippines and talk to people everyday. America has a huge problem!
Same here. No one would give me the time of day in the States. Now I have friends sleeping on my front lawn and following me around like I am a celebrity.
Bro you hit it on the nose with this one. I'm 57yo. My kids always ask me why u always go over seas I told them I'm 21yo over their I'm not treated like I'm invisible like in America. In the Philippines 🇵🇭 I'm dateing almost everyday.
Thank you for this video sir. For real, from the bottom of the heart, I am very grateful to hear all these things from you, especially from another man. This is pure education for so many of us. I am turning 50 in less than a month, no kids, never married. Everything you said here is exactly what I have wanted to hear from someone else for a very long time. I was born in and have lived in Los Angeles all of my life. As you were talking throughout this video and describing these various scenarios about dating in America, I was almost having full blown flashback memories of the same exact things/encounters I had over decades that you were talking about. It was as if you described everything I have experienced both directly and indirectly for decades like you were invisible watching these miseries taking place in my history. Dating in Los Angeles most seem to agree is not just way more difficult than most other major cities, but pure misery because of Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Bel Air and the whole entertainment industry producing this incessant desire for people, especially whamen to want this fairy tale lifestyle... and get it through dating and/or marriage. 95% of the men here can't provide this even if they tried, tried for years, and with help and whamen know this and will avoid you like the plague, play you like a fool for what resources you will cough up, and all the while again, she is working with others. Most of the entire feemail population is after the top 10% and/or using regular dudes while they are working to finding their way into the door of an A Lister or someone similar. People will notice many of the words in my comment here are misspelled. That is not done to be humorous. You Tube/Google apparently has this ultra high tech way of deleting comments that have even the slightest of contempt of generalizations. No man can build a life with another human being who has this much delusion, narcissism, ego, and indifference to the other half of the partnership. Even doctors and attorneys have commented on this several times. I had one in a gym back in the late 90's tell me, and I can still see his face talking to me as if I was his friend and he was truly trying to save me from the western feemail's double standards miseries in the USA. "Go to Latin America, they're not corrupted there and seem to have an inherent understanding that a romantic relationship is more than just "romance," They understand it is about duties and partnership." Honest to God I do not know what to do. In fact I have to stay away from many coworkers, friends, and extended family get togethers because of the guilt and ridicule about not being married and no kids. Sorry ramble sir, for real. Just your commentary here was so deeply truthful and is going to be very helpful and educational to many men. All of you out there, God bless and all the happiness to you in this whole finding love and building a life with someone thing.
I'm a Filipino. My advise to foreigners who are new to the Philippines, don't enter in a relationship with a Filipina, take your time, enjoy life here. The sooner you adjust to the culture, the better you'll understand a Filipina. The moment money becomes an issue with a Filipina, it's time to run as far as you can. Angeles city is not a place to look for a Filipina to have a serious relationship with. It's better to look for a Filipina who's earning enough money for herself and her dependents (parents and minor siblings).
Good list. Dating in the US for guys 45+ is dismal. Women over 40 are far more mercenary than Filipinas. If they're in the dating pool they're either single moms who are after a guy who's in the daddy business, or women who only want a guy who will help their financial situation. If you don't make more money than she does, get lost! Rich guys can get a trophy wife/girlfriend but she'll probably be doing the pool guy or her personal trainer. The virus only made the isolation worse. My first trip to the Philippines was in 2007 when I was 48 and I've never been the same. Now I'm retired and getting things wrapped up over here. Then the adventure starts!
The cost-benefit ratio is catastrophic in westen countries. Women over 40 have the same or even higher financial demands as younger women, even if they earn well themselves. They want you to make their life more comfortable, but all they offer in return is being overweight and no longer interested in sex
I'm from Canada this is all so true.I finally married a nice Filipino .If you date a few girls there you will never try and date a girl back home again
I can ask a woman out here in the States and within 30 minutes she can check her social media and dating apps and find 100 more just like me. When you're in abundance like that or perceived abundance rather you have very little value and yes it sucks as dating apps have ruined dating for average men. See ya in Angeles City next month 👊
The Philippines is a wonderful country to call home but it's not for everyone. IMHO if you think it may be a possible retirement location study the country and plan a few week vacation here to travel to the spots you think may suite you. Return home to your country and let the trip sink in for a few weeks before you decide anything. If you decide to retire here come with lowered expectations and do not force anything when you arrive especially relationships. Take the first year to get your visa sorted, get transportation and learn about the Island you are on. Find all the places that interest you and learn about life here. No matter what it takes 12-16 months to fully understand the culture here and how you fit in. Go slow with all relationships even fellow expats who appear to be like minded. You will most likely move a few times in your first few years looking for that quiet comfortable place and your first girl here will most likely not be the one you settle with. The guys I see who struggle here go way too fast with everything, slow down and enjoy the journey. It will all happen in time, trust me.
I was talking about this the other day .. I'm 61 .. Back in the 70's "pre Tech" (Cable Internet Phones) .. people spent "way more time" Hanging-out / Going out, interacting, communicating "telling stories" (people enjoying ea other's company) .. Now, people "of All Ages feel lonely & Isolated" (all in individual cyber algorithms) .. "It's Everyone / Everywhere" / It's Worldwide" .. We're Exp a (new) Techno-Human "Reality" (lack of shared exp & reality ?) .. "Look at people, everywhere "Seriously ADDICTED, Endlessly Staring At Their Devices" (Phones & Screens).. "Phones" Not even Voice Mails, let alone Phone Calls & talking .. 3 word texts & emojis ..
Point 7 should be "Move to a country where the women are still traditionally minded and their family court cannot be used by a woman to rob you." The Philippines is just one of several choices. And if they ever legalize divorce in the Philippines then it won't be a potential destination because women not being able to legally rob you is one of the main attraction of the Philippines. (Women scam men left and right in the Philippines, but that's a choice on the part of those men, to give money to those women.)
Yes yes man, you totally right about it. I'm 48 years old, good fit, 5,8 high 160 pounds plus I'm truck driver. So looks like we are invisible here. Sometimes I'm thinking that waste my time here as well 😢. Good talk mate!
I could walk around the USA for a hundred years and nobody will ever say a word to me unless its a homeless asking for a handout. I remember a few years back being in a business suit & tie & searching for a nearby restaurant. The GPS had gotten me close but I couldn't see it. I parked my car and asked an unattractive lady in the mall parking lot if she knew the location. She looked at me like a mass murderer and scurried into the mall without saying a word. Your words are so true. I can't imagine why anyone would ever vacation in the USA. SE Asia rocks!
Here in the US I’m practically invisible to women. I go to the Philippines and the women actually approach me. I’ve been plotting my move there ever since.
Retiring the end of March @ 55 and moving to the Philippines end of May. Life's too short to work myself to death. Looking forward to living in a society where morals still exist.
Being in that age group I experienced each of those. A man is invisible past a certain age especially if you have kids regardless how much money the man has. I have the big house, nice car, lots of cash but since I had kids, the women blew me off. The women are all holding out for a .001% guy that certainly wouldn't date less than a 10. They are delusional. That's the sad reality and it applies to even younger single guys being held to a near impossible standard. The contrast to the Philippines is shocking.
I was in the Philippines for a different reason and met her at a function. After I got back to the states she contacted me. No LDR or other horrors. Been there done that too. @@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in
I don't have a 1-5 problem. I can date just fine. The quality of women in America is another issue. My last girlfriend was a filipina, in person. Didn't work out because she wanted access to all my accounts, even bank accounts, after only dating 4 weeks. That was my line, and hers. Girlfriend before that said she was 48, really 62. No credit score, section 8 housing, no steady work. SMH.
I'm glad to see you can talk in a normal tone of voice. You should speak normally in all your videos. I just watched a video where you said all the Filipinas have boyfriends. Now you're saying to come over for the Filipinas. I was depressed and now I'm confused. 😅😅
Your Tim K video.... brought me to your channel. But with this video, I'm becoming a *NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!!!* I'm 46 FRESH outta a divorce (with a 6 year old son) in decent shape, with a house & vehicle.... and I feel TOTALLY invisible to American women. 🇺🇸 American women..... don't want to speak to anyone in PUBLIC, go on the internet & dating sights, and only fat chicks, and women with 4 kids send you messages. You're *SPOT ON!!!!!!!!!* The dating culture for men over 40 here in America🇺🇸 is MORBID!!!!! 💀💀💀
Ps. Been a good MAN and followed the rules my whole entire LIFE.... and you tellin me my reward is a FAT CHICK or a woman with multiple children???? It's time to BREAK THE RULES.... ready to find a woman outside of America!
The same applies to European men, with the difference in Europe we don't earn enough to live the bachelor's life in the Philippines. Well, I guess guys from Germany, France and 2-3 other countries could, but that's it.
Makes perfect sense and I am in 100% agreement. I would like to pick up and just move over there. Unfortunately, I have a few things tying me down and I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel for a few more years. Keep bringing good content like this. Quick question on typhoons. What is your "get out of dodge" plan for the next large typhoon?
Being ignored by everyone like i am invisible sounds wonderful. They ain't pouring all their problems, bull shit and drama on to me. Maybe the USA ain't so bad for us old guys after all.
Been planning to move to PH for 10 years.... paid off all debts, daughters college education and saved by not spending on material things. I didnt live like a pauper, but saved a little every month always looking towards the goal of moving there. Where theres a will, theres a way. Hope to meet you when i move to AC in the summer.
45-55-65 😢 single and divorced in the USA sucks 😫maybe even widowed to a young Filipina like me 😮 so yes life in the Philippines 🇵🇭 is better 🤗🤗a new adventure and something to look forward to 🤗🤗🇵🇭🇵🇭
Cathy 25 🇵🇭 and I were married five years and living in tampa Florida USA 🇺🇸 when she was killed in a horrific act of road rage 😡 incident just after achieving her dream job as an airline ticket agent
Great breakdown. Your list could be summed up as "Going where you're celebrated, not tolerated." Me, I'm in my forties, never married and don't have kids, and people expect me to be someone's stepdad or stepgrandpappy. Naw. I don't want none of those things. Right now it's about working, stacking money and building my credit so I can be in places like PH with no probs.
From what ive seen theres a crap load of guys that already realize all this. The problem is they are or recently were in the situation you described where they are living in a bad neighborhood and driving a beater. Im lucky enough that i have a decent job (hvac tech) and saw the writing on the walls years ago. I've been saving as much as possible and throwing it all into (mostly) well place/ timed investments. Even with all that its gonna take me probably at least 10 more years (im 44) before ill be able to have enough to live a life that's close to the mid level HEALTHY life you listed in one of your other videos.
Men work whole lives, fight wars, do everything for the family, and for all of that, the reward is being lonely and invisible... the other side does nothing and has everything, all the benefits and special tretmemt
Ace, this has to be one of my most favorite video, I want to vacation in December for 30 days in CEBU to see what it is like and then decide if I want to move there. thanks Ace this gives me hope
FACTS...after 40..unless you are happily married..you are gonna date alot and its EXTREMELY hard to date ...i spent most of my days with grandchildren.....id say really after 50.....hard to date..I had no issues dating under 50 but after 50 social media so many fake profiles and filters..got tired of the circus
I was married with 2 kids and lost it all. Out of loneliness, I fell in love with an older man. He turned out to be abusive. I escaped to the Philippines and married a much younger province girl and we are expecting our first baby. At 69, I have finally found happiness.
@@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in Well Trevor, I have always been willing to try new paths in life. Sometimes they end well and sometimes they just don't work out. But one must keep on trying.
I was born and raised in America but I am of Spanish descent and we like to visit our parents and hang out....I did before I had kids and now that I have 2 kids, 6 and 9, they visit their sole surviving grandparents on the maternal side. Spanish culture, even in America, is different. And by the way, we all married within our culture too. haha Myself and my siblings. A few married outside but those adopted our culture of respecting the elders and hanging out when possible with them.
I'm OK with the culture change here in the US. Been living as a hermit for 4 years now and I like it a lot. Not a recluse, I do go out everyday for a 2 hour walk. Never had kids. Don't have a TV, no interest in political wars (used to be), no Facebook, never carry my phone. I am planning a move to SE Asia next year and was initially excited to meet a great woman, but have realized they're still women. I like my freedom. I assume I will likely end up with a woman, but maybe not. For sure it will be on my terms because it's a push for me whether I'm in a relationship or not. I have many interests like painting, writing software, bird watching, hiking, exploring, gardening which I'll like doing in SE Asia. I do want to setup for long term care should I ever need that. I can hire a live-in trained caregiver for $500-800/mo. That's way better than old age care in the US.
Great video your right ace dating sites crap im invisible in my country just work go home rinse and repeat, had enough got my arse on a plane to Phillipines currently in Thailand...
1 through 5 are real. 6 and 7 is cope. Due to poverty there is the "unspoken agreement" of P4P. But, it's as real as a $3 bill. It can be appealing to those functioning on the reptilian brain. But, don't sell false hope of love (it's purely transactional).
So true. Dating/Conversation in The States are dead. Modern Women Women are like Assassin's, and want to keep up on whatever hot on Social Media. Thank you for the advice 🙏
Gee, I don't know, sleeping with a different 20 yr old Asian girl every night seems like a lot of pressure, not sure I'm ready for that kind of commitment
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ACE PROFESSOR IS NOT A SCAMMER HE JUST ENJOYINNG HIS LIFE AND INFROMING NEW SINGLE SUCKERS WHO WANTS TO MOVE THE PH....HIS INFO IS VERY INTERESTING AND USEFUL
I live in Swerige but it seems to be quite similar conditions here when you are alone and old, you feel that you have no more work to do, the children are adults and have their own, you are just waiting to die at the age of 63,,even if I am physically healthy and strong. Feedback
Honestly, I feel isolated in the US. But you're correct, nobody cares even if you care about others there is no reciprocity especially if you don''t drink or party.
He's right I am 50 years old and I have lived here in Manila for a year and a half and now I have a 4 month old baby boy and a young girl and we have our own youtube channel.
Same situation up here in Canada. There's lot's of fillipinos moving here, but after a few years they are onboard with the western propaganda and in some cases act more entitled than the native women population.
They basically act like the rich Filipina girls in the Philippines. Those aren't the girls that ever go for foreigners do you notice that? So it's the same in the West.
The world has changed. In my late 50s, I look at the glass half full. SE Asia is much more accessible thanks to phones, especially gps and youtube. I moved to Thailand (b4 eventually returning to the USA) in 2004 and you were at your gf or locals’ mercy. Phones have created such an opportunity for men our age in se Asia. Without technology se Asia is a lot less fun.
i'm in thailand considering moving to the Phil's, mainly because of the language, could you cover off a monthly budget living your way, including rent etc in Angeles city
Lol. Too late for that. RUclips has gone crazy in the philippine. The secret's been out for a while now thanks to social media and the never-ending need to share everything.
I’m a successful businessman and bartenders, waitresses, neighbors, and even my priest won’t talk to me in the US. Then I come to the Philippines and talk to people everyday. America has a huge problem!
Correct!
"Even your priest" (lol), only kidding ..
yup,,,,but they are sizing u up, to see what they can get from you in the future,,,,Dont be naive,,,,hahahaha
Same here. No one would give me the time of day in the States. Now I have friends sleeping on my front lawn and following me around like I am a celebrity.
With your priest, it's just a monologue, called confession
Bro you hit it on the nose with this one. I'm 57yo. My kids always ask me why u always go over seas I told them I'm 21yo over their I'm not treated like I'm invisible like in America. In the Philippines 🇵🇭 I'm dateing almost everyday.
Thank you for this video sir. For real, from the bottom of the heart, I am very grateful to hear all these things from you, especially from another man. This is pure education for so many of us.
I am turning 50 in less than a month, no kids, never married. Everything you said here is exactly what I have wanted to hear from someone else for a very long time.
I was born in and have lived in Los Angeles all of my life. As you were talking throughout this video and describing these various scenarios about dating in America, I was almost having full blown flashback memories of the same exact things/encounters I had over decades that you were talking about. It was as if you described everything I have experienced both directly and indirectly for decades like you were invisible watching these miseries taking place in my history.
Dating in Los Angeles most seem to agree is not just way more difficult than most other major cities, but pure misery because of Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Bel Air and the whole entertainment industry producing this incessant desire for people, especially whamen to want this fairy tale lifestyle... and get it through dating and/or marriage. 95% of the men here can't provide this even if they tried, tried for years, and with help and whamen know this and will avoid you like the plague, play you like a fool for what resources you will cough up, and all the while again, she is working with others.
Most of the entire feemail population is after the top 10% and/or using regular dudes while they are working to finding their way into the door of an A Lister or someone similar. People will notice many of the words in my comment here are misspelled. That is not done to be humorous. You Tube/Google apparently has this ultra high tech way of deleting comments that have even the slightest of contempt of generalizations.
No man can build a life with another human being who has this much delusion, narcissism, ego, and indifference to the other half of the partnership. Even doctors and attorneys have commented on this several times. I had one in a gym back in the late 90's tell me, and I can still see his face talking to me as if I was his friend and he was truly trying to save me from the western feemail's double standards miseries in the USA. "Go to Latin America, they're not corrupted there and seem to have an inherent understanding that a romantic relationship is more than just "romance," They understand it is about duties and partnership."
Honest to God I do not know what to do. In fact I have to stay away from many coworkers, friends, and extended family get togethers because of the guilt and ridicule about not being married and no kids. Sorry ramble sir, for real. Just your commentary here was so deeply truthful and is going to be very helpful and educational to many men. All of you out there, God bless and all the happiness to you in this whole finding love and building a life with someone thing.
I'm a Filipino. My advise to foreigners who are new to the Philippines, don't enter in a relationship with a Filipina, take your time, enjoy life here. The sooner you adjust to the culture, the better you'll understand a Filipina. The moment money becomes an issue with a Filipina, it's time to run as far as you can. Angeles city is not a place to look for a Filipina to have a serious relationship with. It's better to look for a Filipina who's earning enough money for herself and her dependents (parents and minor siblings).
true , find a women have a college degree are own a business
@@nunuvyurbiz123 Metro Manila or any city. You can't go wrong with a Filipina who is active in church activities.
Hey thanks man....
"Angeles City" Yeah... I learned the hard way, Never again... she wont leave me alone now after leaving me for a sugar daddy who is bad in bed lol
You sound like someone id have a beer with and listen! ;)
Good list. Dating in the US for guys 45+ is dismal. Women over 40 are far more mercenary than Filipinas. If they're in the dating pool they're either single moms who are after a guy who's in the daddy business, or women who only want a guy who will help their financial situation. If you don't make more money than she does, get lost! Rich guys can get a trophy wife/girlfriend but she'll probably be doing the pool guy or her personal trainer. The virus only made the isolation worse. My first trip to the Philippines was in 2007 when I was 48 and I've never been the same. Now I'm retired and getting things wrapped up over here. Then the adventure starts!
The cost-benefit ratio is catastrophic in westen countries. Women over 40 have the same or even higher financial demands as younger women, even if they earn well themselves. They want you to make their life more comfortable, but all they offer in return is being overweight and no longer interested in sex
@@SamBickle133 Regarding the sex.... I dont' know man, my wife just turned 40 and she wants sex more than I do. haha
I'm from Canada this is all so true.I finally married a nice Filipino .If you date a few girls there you will never try and date a girl back home again
I'm 49 now. At 40 I lost total interest in dating and am pretty much use to being single. Not looking for love but at some point i do want to travel.
wow you hate women and sex?
I can ask a woman out here in the States and within 30 minutes she can check her social media and dating apps and find 100 more just like me. When you're in abundance like that or perceived abundance rather you have very little value and yes it sucks as dating apps have ruined dating for average men. See ya in Angeles City next month 👊
Only way to win is to refuse to play their game.
Yup!
There was this 70's movie called Logan's Run where they killed off people once they were 30. At the time it was Science Fiction.
Yeah man! I remember Logan's Run! If I remember right, it was later a TV show. I was only 7 years old or so at that time so I barely remember it.
That would actually be more humane
@@chris84662No , life can get very Tuff , But Humans taking out Humans is Bad !
Things can get Better .
The Philippines is a wonderful country to call home but it's not for everyone. IMHO if you think it may be a possible retirement location study the country and plan a few week vacation here to travel to the spots you think may suite you. Return home to your country and let the trip sink in for a few weeks before you decide anything. If you decide to retire here come with lowered expectations and do not force anything when you arrive especially relationships. Take the first year to get your visa sorted, get transportation and learn about the Island you are on. Find all the places that interest you and learn about life here. No matter what it takes 12-16 months to fully understand the culture here and how you fit in. Go slow with all relationships even fellow expats who appear to be like minded. You will most likely move a few times in your first few years looking for that quiet comfortable place and your first girl here will most likely not be the one you settle with. The guys I see who struggle here go way too fast with everything, slow down and enjoy the journey. It will all happen in time, trust me.
The grass is not always greener on the other side as many Expats have found out.Sometimes there is no place like home. 😊
@@samual3006 greener for the women then in the usa a fact.
Phones and instant gratification has ruined everything.
Thanks for putting out the info.
I was talking about this the other day .. I'm 61 .. Back in the 70's "pre Tech" (Cable Internet Phones) .. people spent "way more time" Hanging-out / Going out, interacting, communicating "telling stories" (people enjoying ea other's company) .. Now, people "of All Ages feel lonely & Isolated" (all in individual cyber algorithms) .. "It's Everyone / Everywhere" / It's Worldwide" .. We're Exp a (new) Techno-Human "Reality" (lack of shared exp & reality ?) .. "Look at people, everywhere "Seriously ADDICTED, Endlessly Staring At Their Devices" (Phones & Screens).. "Phones" Not even Voice Mails, let alone Phone Calls & talking .. 3 word texts & emojis ..
Ace is absolutely right about this! America has changed and not for the better.
Point 7 should be "Move to a country where the women are still traditionally minded and their family court cannot be used by a woman to rob you." The Philippines is just one of several choices. And if they ever legalize divorce in the Philippines then it won't be a potential destination because women not being able to legally rob you is one of the main attraction of the Philippines. (Women scam men left and right in the Philippines, but that's a choice on the part of those men, to give money to those women.)
What were the other countries you considered?
This is a western issue not just America. My plan is Cambodia, have not been to Philippines yet to compare.
Malaysia rough their turn into islam.
Dude, you tell it like it is. Very refreshing to get actual good advice with no strings. Thanks.
ACE, I’m glad it’s working out for you. ✌🏼
Your white boards are great. It's low tech and wonderful. It brings me back to my teaching days.
Yes yes man, you totally right about it. I'm 48 years old, good fit, 5,8 high 160 pounds plus I'm truck driver. So looks like we are invisible here. Sometimes I'm thinking that waste my time here as well 😢. Good talk mate!
At 5 8 in Philippines you will be taller than 90% of local men! haha
I could walk around the USA for a hundred years and nobody will ever say a word to me unless its a homeless asking for a handout.
I remember a few years back being in a business suit & tie & searching for a nearby restaurant. The GPS had gotten me close but I couldn't see it. I parked my car and asked an unattractive lady in the mall parking lot if she knew the location. She looked at me like a mass murderer and scurried into the mall without saying a word. Your words are so true. I can't imagine why anyone would ever vacation in the USA. SE Asia rocks!
I’m 54, separated, live in NYC, and can attest to everything Ace said about life here. You definitely are standing alone in every aspect of life.
Here in the US I’m practically invisible to women. I go to the Philippines and the women actually approach me. I’ve been plotting my move there ever since.
Good plan!
You don't want the ones that approach you. Those are the "working" girls and con artists often.
I'm 52.
7/10 (or so).
170k a year.
800k net worth.
I drive a new Tundra.
Own my home.
And I still can't find a decent girl.
You are 100% right Ace!
No way...\
I just came across your videos a few days ago, and I'm really enjoying them and learning a lot. Great stuff. Thanks for sharing.
Im 45 and I’m feeling what your saying Ace.
Best video you’ve ever done Ace….
I agree!
Retiring the end of March @ 55 and moving to the Philippines end of May. Life's too short to work myself to death. Looking forward to living in a society where morals still exist.
Being in that age group I experienced each of those. A man is invisible past a certain age especially if you have kids regardless how much money the man has. I have the big house, nice car, lots of cash but since I had kids, the women blew me off. The women are all holding out for a .001% guy that certainly wouldn't date less than a 10. They are delusional.
That's the sad reality and it applies to even younger single guys being held to a near impossible standard. The contrast to the Philippines is shocking.
How did you meet her?
I was in the Philippines for a different reason and met her at a function. After I got back to the states she contacted me. No LDR or other horrors. Been there done that too. @@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in
@dr.richmann4477 Your a sick old man.😡
@@TrevorMelbourne-ef1inIn a sewer 😅
If you saw her you'd eat those words. A low maintenance 9 by western standards. @@samual3006
I don't have a 1-5 problem. I can date just fine. The quality of women in America is another issue.
My last girlfriend was a filipina, in person. Didn't work out because she wanted access to all my accounts, even bank accounts, after only dating 4 weeks. That was my line, and hers.
Girlfriend before that said she was 48, really 62. No credit score, section 8 housing, no steady work.
SMH.
filipina in usa same as a western women ,lol .
I'm glad to see you can talk in a normal tone of voice. You should speak normally in all your videos.
I just watched a video where you said all the Filipinas have boyfriends. Now you're saying to come over for the Filipinas. I was depressed and now I'm confused. 😅😅
Your Tim K video....
brought me to your channel.
But with this video, I'm becoming a *NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!!!*
I'm 46 FRESH outta a divorce (with a 6 year old son) in decent shape, with a house & vehicle.... and I feel TOTALLY invisible to American women. 🇺🇸
American women.....
don't want to speak to anyone in PUBLIC, go on the internet & dating sights, and only fat chicks, and women with 4 kids send you messages.
You're *SPOT ON!!!!!!!!!*
The dating culture for men over 40 here in America🇺🇸 is MORBID!!!!! 💀💀💀
Ps. Been a good MAN and followed the rules my whole entire LIFE.... and you tellin me my reward is a FAT CHICK or a woman with multiple children????
It's time to BREAK THE RULES.... ready to find a woman outside of America!
The same applies to European men, with the difference in Europe we don't earn enough to live the bachelor's life in the Philippines. Well, I guess guys from Germany, France and 2-3 other countries could, but that's it.
Yes, Western Euro guys make enough....Eastern Euro not soo much
You nailed it! Love the white board.
TRUTH BOMB ! Thanks professor Cool
OUTSIDE THE CITIES STILL OKAY.......IT JUST SINGLES ,OVER AGED AND Bachelors HAVING HARTEST TIME.....BUT MAJORTIES ARE STILL OKAY.....
Makes perfect sense and I am in 100% agreement. I would like to pick up and just move over there. Unfortunately, I have a few things tying me down and I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel for a few more years. Keep bringing good content like this. Quick question on typhoons. What is your "get out of dodge" plan for the next large typhoon?
@dr.richmann4477 eathquakes there hell no and alot lol.
Hey, really like the white board . Truisms . Great job.
Being ignored by everyone like i am invisible sounds wonderful. They ain't pouring all their problems, bull shit and drama on to me. Maybe the USA ain't so bad for us old guys after all.
Been planning to move to PH for 10 years.... paid off all debts, daughters college education and saved by not spending on material things. I didnt live like a pauper, but saved a little every month always looking towards the goal of moving there. Where theres a will, theres a way. Hope to meet you when i move to AC in the summer.
Good plan!
live like a king on 3k usd a month.
45-55-65 😢 single and divorced in the USA sucks 😫maybe even widowed to a young Filipina like me 😮 so yes life in the Philippines 🇵🇭 is better 🤗🤗a new adventure and something to look forward to 🤗🤗🇵🇭🇵🇭
You married a young Filipina and she died?
remember keep in the ph . the women are they change once in the usa .
Cathy 25 🇵🇭 and I were married five years and living in tampa Florida USA 🇺🇸 when she was killed in a horrific act of road rage 😡 incident just after achieving her dream job as an airline ticket agent
I’m so sorry to hear that. Gif bless her
Spot on with this video.
Thank you!
Blow up dolls are looking better and better every day
They offer more love than any PH girl and cost less. But, some $imps need delusions of love at any price.
I learned this at 35 when I was making over 6 figures in the US, so I got out. I now call Mexico 🇲🇽 home.
What? That's too young... At 35yo I was dating 19yo California girls, haha Actually ended up marrying one, got her as a virgin too.
The market is praised only by those who win in it
Great breakdown. Your list could be summed up as "Going where you're celebrated, not tolerated." Me, I'm in my forties, never married and don't have kids, and people expect me to be someone's stepdad or stepgrandpappy. Naw. I don't want none of those things. Right now it's about working, stacking money and building my credit so I can be in places like PH with no probs.
From what ive seen theres a crap load of guys that already realize all this.
The problem is they are or recently were in the situation you described where they are living in a bad neighborhood and driving a beater.
Im lucky enough that i have a decent job (hvac tech) and saw the writing on the walls years ago. I've been saving as much as possible and throwing it all into (mostly) well place/ timed investments.
Even with all that its gonna take me probably at least 10 more years (im 44) before ill be able to have enough to live a life that's close to the mid level HEALTHY life you listed in one of your other videos.
Great Vid .. Glad your branching out .. I keep saying, your smarter than the "Bargirl BS Vids" ..
Yes sir! Awesome video! You are telling the true!
I like your versatility. Keep up the good work bro
Ace, thank you❤🎉😊
This one hits close to home. Not just the US, Canada isn't any better.
You hit the nail on head on ALL these points. Your best video!
Men work whole lives, fight wars, do everything for the family, and for all of that, the reward is being lonely and invisible... the other side does nothing and has everything, all the benefits and special tretmemt
Ace, this has to be one of my most favorite video, I want to vacation in December for 30 days in CEBU to see what it is like and then decide if I want to move there. thanks Ace this gives me hope
So how was it........good enough for you to move there?
Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomasi, It explains women then compound female nature with technology and the problems are magnified.
I can relate. Ladies in the US just want to watch Netflix because their puzzees are dried up and hurt. Why do you prefer Phillipines over Pattaya?
FACTS...after 40..unless you are happily married..you are gonna date alot and its EXTREMELY hard to date ...i spent most of my days with grandchildren.....id say really after 50.....hard to date..I had no issues dating under 50 but after 50 social media so many fake profiles and filters..got tired of the circus
I was married with 2 kids and lost it all. Out of loneliness, I fell in love with an older man. He turned out to be abusive. I escaped to the Philippines and married a much younger province girl and we are expecting our first baby. At 69, I have finally found happiness.
How about that cruise ship?
How did you fall in love with an older man? To each his own, and I’ve certainly undergone loneliness, but that’s quite a swing… peace! ✌️
@@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in Well Trevor, I have always been willing to try new paths in life. Sometimes they end well and sometimes they just don't work out. But one must keep on trying.
@@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in😅😅😅
@@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in He is making fun of another youtube channel, @everymanhasastory
its expensive to travel there only bad part is the plane tickets to and from 3k usd per vacation haha other than that ACE is 100% Correct haha
3k bs get nashville to manila for 708 usd ,lol
@@hillbillyintheasia6122 I live in california lax to manila is 3 k nonstop its crazy high on php airlines..
I was born and raised in America but I am of Spanish descent and we like to visit our parents and hang out....I did before I had kids and now that I have 2 kids, 6 and 9, they visit their sole surviving grandparents on the maternal side. Spanish culture, even in America, is different. And by the way, we all married within our culture too. haha Myself and my siblings. A few married outside but those adopted our culture of respecting the elders and hanging out when possible with them.
I'm OK with the culture change here in the US. Been living as a hermit for 4 years now and I like it a lot. Not a recluse, I do go out everyday for a 2 hour walk. Never had kids. Don't have a TV, no interest in political wars (used to be), no Facebook, never carry my phone. I am planning a move to SE Asia next year and was initially excited to meet a great woman, but have realized they're still women. I like my freedom. I assume I will likely end up with a woman, but maybe not. For sure it will be on my terms because it's a push for me whether I'm in a relationship or not. I have many interests like painting, writing software, bird watching, hiking, exploring, gardening which I'll like doing in SE Asia.
I do want to setup for long term care should I ever need that. I can hire a live-in trained caregiver for $500-800/mo. That's way better than old age care in the US.
Good plan! Thanks for Watching!
Great video your right ace dating sites crap im invisible in my country just work go home rinse and repeat, had enough got my arse on a plane to Phillipines currently in Thailand...
1 through 5 are real. 6 and 7 is cope. Due to poverty there is the "unspoken agreement" of P4P. But, it's as real as a $3 bill. It can be appealing to those functioning on the reptilian brain. But, don't sell false hope of love (it's purely transactional).
So true.
Dating/Conversation in The States are dead.
Modern Women Women are like Assassin's, and want to keep up on whatever hot on Social Media.
Thank you for the advice 🙏
Good video. good advice here.
Gee, I don't know, sleeping with a different 20 yr old Asian girl every night seems like a lot of pressure, not sure I'm ready for that kind of commitment
It's optional. Lol
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you are the scam.. why dont you be honest about your content especially the budget ones
ACE PROFESSOR IS NOT A SCAMMER HE JUST ENJOYINNG HIS LIFE AND INFROMING NEW SINGLE SUCKERS WHO WANTS TO MOVE THE PH....HIS INFO IS VERY INTERESTING AND USEFUL
IF U DON'T LEARN NOTHING OR ENJOYING HIS CONTENT OR U R jealous 😅😅HE STILL GOING TO ENJOY HIS LIFE....CAUSE ACE PROFESSOR DON'T GIVE RAT'S ASS😆😆
ACE is not scamming anyone
This is a truth bomb. No one can say what Ace is saying isn’t true.
I live in Swerige but it seems to be quite similar conditions here when you are alone and old, you feel that you have no more work to do, the children are adults and have their own, you are just waiting to die at the age of 63,,even if I am physically healthy and strong.
Feedback
What country is SWERIGE in?
Sorry , Sweden.
Honestly, I feel isolated in the US. But you're correct, nobody cares even if you care about others there is no reciprocity especially if you don''t drink or party.
Phils is like going back in Time !!!!
He's right I am 50 years old and I have lived here in Manila for a year and a half and now I have a 4 month old baby boy and a young girl and we have our own youtube channel.
The country has changed a lot. Not for the better
Same situation up here in Canada. There's lot's of fillipinos moving here, but after a few years they are onboard with the western propaganda and in some cases act more entitled than the native women population.
They basically act like the rich Filipina girls in the Philippines. Those aren't the girls that ever go for foreigners do you notice that? So it's the same in the West.
The world has changed. In my late 50s, I look at the glass half full. SE Asia is much more accessible thanks to phones, especially gps and youtube. I moved to Thailand (b4 eventually returning to the USA) in 2004 and you were at your gf or locals’ mercy. Phones have created such an opportunity for men our age in se Asia. Without technology se Asia is a lot less fun.
They work against men in the West but in SEA they work for you....
Most women makes decent money and drive nice cars, but there also have heavy debt on them. remember that
How does one find out about the process of moving too the Philippines
I agree with #1 and #8
Nice video my friend, I do the same vlog about Philippines 😊
Hello Ace I'm a Expat can you go and do coverage of a singer GiGi De Lana concert. She is a very special woman best singer, thanks
i believe this would apply to a lot of cities in the west as well
Golden Bachelor said it all.
Ill b there in 22 months, this place (U.S.) its nothing but a trap and rabbit holes 2 fall in... c you there 4 sure ( but not in Angeles City though)
So true.
But it's the same in all western countries.
ACE’s best video yet!!!!! God Bless you for making this video!!!!
Now at least I know I’m not alone in being alone. ACE is #1!
Its just the same in the UK now Ace
This applies to Australians too😮
Philippines is paradise if you don't need to earn money
Thats why you see a flood of vloggers❤🎉
Ace, I have been enjoying your content . Do you have any thoughts on tour packages in the Philippines?
ALOHA " MR. WHITE BOARD"
Just waiting for my kids to turn 18
Be patient. It will happen.
Every thing tou said about america is all trie
Dating for guys in the USA 18+ is the same as this, I’ve been worthless since I was 23. We should all leave the country
i'm in thailand considering moving to the Phil's, mainly because of the language, could you cover off a monthly budget living your way, including rent etc in Angeles city
Look at malaysia
Facts...
Do some real apartments in Angeles videos please. I trust you
Ace please don't tell men to come here! I want this candy shop to myself LOL!
I got dibs on your girlfriends! Lol
Lol. Too late for that. RUclips has gone crazy in the philippine. The secret's been out for a while now thanks to social media and the never-ending need to share everything.
same problems in UK, i wanna go to the Phillipines to get action with the ladies
I'll be there Tuesday can't wait to see the Philippines.
LOL!!!! Funny
The issues you have raised 1 - 8
Also apply to the U.K. and in a few years I will also be leaving the country for good