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  • @SopranoTheories
    @SopranoTheories  3 года назад +398

    I know Vito’s bottom was impacted if that’s what your referring to?

    • @thebaconator.3867
      @thebaconator.3867 3 года назад +64

      *muscular oiled up body builders on screen*
      uncle philly: TURN THAT OFF!

    • @thebaconator.3867
      @thebaconator.3867 3 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/xOWRCGG2NVI/видео.html&ab_channel=6x16x88x6x16x88x

    • @Deamer09
      @Deamer09 3 года назад +18

      knock it off with the massage shit, this is a place of business not a jack la lane

    • @SopranoTheories
      @SopranoTheories  3 года назад +14

      @@thebaconator.3867 actually hilarious. They’re talking about someone who’s perceived to be masculine for coming out despite being a gangster who’s murdered his relative Jackie Junior. And then there’s these big macho men on television who are viewed as the definition of manliness.

    • @kingrama2727
      @kingrama2727 3 года назад +11

      Whatever happened there…

  • @masterzombie161
    @masterzombie161 3 года назад +1482

    I’m surprised you didn’t talk about Furio, he was the embodiment of the “Strong and Silent type.”

    • @Charles50Kal
      @Charles50Kal 3 года назад +221

      You've got a bee on your hat

    • @fabioribeiro3388
      @fabioribeiro3388 3 года назад +162

      It wasn’t an act for him like the others

    • @KMcNally117
      @KMcNally117 3 года назад +153

      "I hate the North."

    • @nich3897
      @nich3897 3 года назад +121

      Give me one thousand dollars

    • @SpaceMarine500
      @SpaceMarine500 3 года назад +42

      I hate the facking north!

  • @twitchsopamanxx
    @twitchsopamanxx 3 года назад +576

    The fact that people STILL think that The Sopranos glorifies mob life is moronic.

    • @Ammoniumbicarbonat
      @Ammoniumbicarbonat 3 года назад +51

      I don’t know if they think the show does so much as they do themselves, those kind of people definitely aren’t analysing or considering what they’re watching.

    • @Not_Sal
      @Not_Sal 2 года назад +30

      The only people who think that have not watched it

    • @mrmhj9925
      @mrmhj9925 2 года назад +18

      That’s actually a illusion. In every mob movie it actually demonstrates the charisma of the gangsters and they seem very cunning, which makes them dangerous.

    • @saddammontana6002
      @saddammontana6002 2 года назад +11

      id take that life over mine atm. its maybe kinda sad but our age of confusion and acceptance of weakness is kinda bothering me.

    • @mbogucki1
      @mbogucki1 2 года назад +25

      Its the same way people think Tony Montana is someone worthy of admiration.

  • @alphashaitan65
    @alphashaitan65 3 года назад +773

    Obviously it's funny that Phil Leotardo emerged "Out of the Closet" to murder Vito.

    • @finnheisenheim8274
      @finnheisenheim8274 3 года назад +69

      Kinda funny though when you think about it. Like how long was he waiting in that closet for vito to stroll in and what was his explanation in waiting in the closet when his guys asked

    • @CTuna-uo3pq
      @CTuna-uo3pq 3 года назад +111

      I think Phil compromised with more than just tissues for 20 years.

    • @alphashaitan65
      @alphashaitan65 3 года назад +4

      @@CTuna-uo3pq lol, Charlie!!

    • @phil-Leotardo.171
      @phil-Leotardo.171 3 года назад +59

      20 mins in da closet without a peep.

    • @Vanished_Mostly
      @Vanished_Mostly 3 года назад +9

      Some people believe he was romantically involved with Vito.

  • @ManahManah77
    @ManahManah77 3 года назад +612

    Ritchie was the ultimate irony. He acted so macho and tough but he died at the hands of a woman. I'm not saying he wasn't tough, it took Furio and Chris nearly 20 minutes to chop him up, after all.

    • @Interiorlineman
      @Interiorlineman 3 года назад +96

      Yeah he was toughest guy in Essex county, But he never came back when Janice got through with him.

    • @shadywiskerz
      @shadywiskerz 3 года назад +10

      His own son was gay lol. I know it was said that Richie disowned him but I don’t think he did personally.

    • @annexgroup6878
      @annexgroup6878 3 года назад +12

      And his son was a gay ballroom dancer to boot

    • @unclephillymya
      @unclephillymya 3 года назад +20

      If he was still alive with Chris, New York would eat dirt in that war

    • @24tommyst
      @24tommyst 3 года назад +1

      That was a tough meat roll!

  • @wal_sim4397
    @wal_sim4397 2 года назад +249

    [SPOILERS]
    It's really interesting how Tony always talks about Gary Cooper. It's clear to the audience that Tony has created his ideas about masculinity and male identity based off of what he has seen on tv and in the movies. Yet there's a scene late in the series when, after AJ attempts to kill Junior in revenge for shooting Tony, AJ cites the scene in The Godfather where Michael Corleone kills Sollozzo and McCluskey for attempting to kill Michael's father, Vito Corleone. AJ calls Tony a hypocrite, since this scene is Tony's favorite movie scene of all time. Yet Tony responds "It's just a movie. You gotta grow up". Another example of the double standard Tony has between himself and AJ, and his lack of self-awareness about his own identity.

  • @kingoneil4644
    @kingoneil4644 3 года назад +352

    Through out the entire series no one ever figured out what happened to Gary cooper, biggest cliffhanger ever

    • @scoliosis9478
      @scoliosis9478 3 года назад +36

      he was gay

    • @thediglerofdirk
      @thediglerofdirk 3 года назад +25

      “Ehh he died” - sil

    • @markothwriter
      @markothwriter 2 года назад

      Gary Cooper was born on a ranch in Montana. His parents didn't even own the ranch.

    • @Tony.Technics.1200s
      @Tony.Technics.1200s 2 года назад +4

      Gary Cooper was hiding under the table when Ritchie got shot.

    • @Gunzee
      @Gunzee 2 года назад +5

      He ate radiator grilled cheese cradled in stiff tissue. The trauma end the silence.

  • @galesito1733
    @galesito1733 3 года назад +229

    A perfect example of how men are judged in the show is when Tony beats up "Muscles Marinara" to prove that he's still an alpha male after being shot by uncle Jun.

    • @SopranoTheories
      @SopranoTheories  3 года назад +17

      Exactly

    • @Ah-ws9nm
      @Ah-ws9nm 2 года назад +9

      That’s how gangstas are. Wether in the streets or prison. Other killers aren’t going to follow or respect you if you’re not willing to get your own hands dirty every now and then

    • @Mebble
      @Mebble 2 года назад +1

      @@Ah-ws9nm That's also how Mafioso's tended to get whacked faster than they needed to, so it's dangerous to think that

    • @Ah-ws9nm
      @Ah-ws9nm 2 года назад +8

      @@Mebble it is dangerous you’re right. But you’re dealing with dangerous people. In order to gain respect from a killer you have to prove you’re nothing to mess with.

    • @hisholiness4537
      @hisholiness4537 2 года назад

      @@Ah-ws9nm nah, this is what got Tony killed. By the end of the show, all of his friends are either gone or have turned into enemies. There are so many ppl who have legit beefs with him that you could never guess who's coming for retribution.

  • @Lindy-kv3wy
    @Lindy-kv3wy 3 года назад +261

    I always felt Tony was one of the only guys besides patsy who really didn’t care if Vito was gay. I think he put on that front because he had to with his environment and also being a boss, his guys would loose respect for him if he didn’t do something especially with New York down their necks. We even se when Tony is talking to Melfi he says “ who gives a shit. I got a second chance why shouldn’t he”. And I think Tony genuinely fells that way but would totally still make fun of Vito in front of his guys just to maintain that masculine image. Someone like Tony only ever really cared about the money and with Vito being a top earner he would turn a blind eye to it as long as Vito continued to kick up. I’m not saying Tony was some ahead of his time progressive mafioso but rather an opportunist who ultimately cared about business over anything else.

    • @JAF2991
      @JAF2991 2 года назад +13

      HEH maybe you're a flambe

    • @Lindy-kv3wy
      @Lindy-kv3wy 2 года назад +15

      @@JAF2991 only in privateee. I wish I could come out of the closet like the Sha of Iran did.

    • @harvesterofhitpoints4597
      @harvesterofhitpoints4597 2 года назад +30

      Seem like Bobby didn't either. He started the conversation by recommending they just kick him out of their "social club".

    • @getawaydreamer2724
      @getawaydreamer2724 2 года назад +8

      Money speaks. When Vito is a good earner, That is ultimately what is the most important.

    • @Ah-ws9nm
      @Ah-ws9nm 2 года назад +7

      Tony didn’t care because Vito was a top earner at the time. If he wasn’t, Tony wouldn’t have hesitated. He knows deep down how that makes his family look weak in the streets especially because Vito wasn’t just some associate or soldier

  • @kingoneil4644
    @kingoneil4644 3 года назад +227

    Phil leotardo did his time like a man thats sayin something
    He did 20 years in the can but never mentioned it

    • @SopranoTheories
      @SopranoTheories  3 года назад +72

      He did eat grilled cheese off the radiator and did mention about his relationship with a tissue.

    • @mm-nyc
      @mm-nyc 3 года назад +16

      @@SopranoTheories the ole Phil Leotardo 'compromise'

    • @JackieAprileJr
      @JackieAprileJr 3 года назад +10

      Not a peep

    • @shreddykrueger3776
      @shreddykrueger3776 3 года назад +8

      Just to protect people like Doc Santoro and Rusty Milo

    • @davidshamiri1448
      @davidshamiri1448 3 года назад +16

      Vito did 20 minutes in Johnny Cakes can

  • @samrlynch
    @samrlynch 3 года назад +577

    This channel has tremendous moxie for its size

    • @mutt8553
      @mutt8553 3 года назад +29

      He’s a fighter

    • @Yabuheru
      @Yabuheru 3 года назад +35

      He never had the makings of a varsity athlete

    • @Sernival
      @Sernival 3 года назад +49

      That's nice..and then what? He gets striked, borko couldn't even wear his shoes.

    • @dr3dg352
      @dr3dg352 3 года назад +20

      @@Sernival I'm in awre of you.

    • @willnailer2118
      @willnailer2118 3 года назад +16

      Sopranos theories had the toughest reputation in Essex County.

  • @skxlter5747
    @skxlter5747 3 года назад +465

    Hypocrisy is the biggest thing in this show for me, from Tony and the rest of the guys constantly practicing what they preach to this whole facade of respect, honor, loyalty when in reality it's just dog eat dog within their own people lmao. David chase shows this very well within italian americans, and he fleshes it out so well on how the mafia truly is in reality, there's No honor or love it's just about money.

    • @lalk3434
      @lalk3434 3 года назад +42

      One of the things sticks out to me is Carmela..she makes judements on others but she benefits off of tonys dirty work yet tries to find peace through the church ...also some of the scenes when race is used ..loke the black guys stealing the benz while tony orofits off of it also when tony says to meadow when she has her bike stolen

    • @danielperu8536
      @danielperu8536 3 года назад +20

      also the fact that with all the drugs ,crime ,domestic abuse etc yet boy liking boy is when they'll point to the bible

    • @skxlter5747
      @skxlter5747 3 года назад +9

      @@lalk3434 exavtly that scene of tony always being racist towards Noah lmao like right tony as if you dont steal, kill and hurt your own people out of their hard earned money and honest living lmao what a hypocritical scumbag and not to mention american italians arent considered real italians by Real italians.

    • @samanthab1923
      @samanthab1923 3 года назад +6

      lal carter What I've noticed rewatching is Carm is every bit as vindictive & petty as the mother. Just like Tony they can't bear it if someone does well or has joy.

    • @tarajordan1385
      @tarajordan1385 3 года назад +15

      @@skxlter5747 So healthy to read comments like yours, when we live in societies where the general public take these low lives mafia scumbags as role models. The irony is, the people who worship and glorify criminals, are the very people who are designated to become preys to criminals....

  • @nathanpellow4428
    @nathanpellow4428 2 года назад +149

    Never forget, true masculinity is having the making of a varsity athlete.

  • @carolemonture4435
    @carolemonture4435 2 года назад +38

    Even when Vito knew the rest of the crew knew about his sexuality and was living his domestic life in New Hampshire he literally could not help himself and went back to the family because he didn’t know how to live without it.

  • @GeordieGunner96
    @GeordieGunner96 3 года назад +154

    Vito never came out as gay,he was outed.

    • @dior9184
      @dior9184 3 года назад +5

      exactly

    • @shreddykrueger3776
      @shreddykrueger3776 3 года назад +28

      Poor Finn. Good kid. Meadow forced his hand.

    • @mjisthegoat88
      @mjisthegoat88 3 года назад +10

      In fact he even offered to get a note from his doctor

    • @BlueSkullFish
      @BlueSkullFish Год назад +11

      @@shreddykrueger3776 it’s a great irony for Meadow’s character. Progressive college student but forces Finn to out Vito knowing that something bad would happen to him as a result. Mini Carmela

    • @finestjellybeansrawlol9486
      @finestjellybeansrawlol9486 Год назад +6

      @@BlueSkullFish Meadow is interesting to me for how in every argument with Tony during the period where they're fighting over her wanting to go to Europe she immediately throws him being in the mob in his face, yet with Finn she acts offended when he takes issue with the mob stuff (when he was upset at seeing the guy get bottled and having his head kicked in and she basically just talked down to him). It's like she recognises it's bad but doesn't actually care

  • @alexeyayzin8512
    @alexeyayzin8512 3 года назад +63

    You're undoubtedly the wisest of the new Sopranos analysis guys. A lot of guys shy away from topics for fear of revealing reactionary opinions stemming from discomfort with the actual messages and explorations of the series. I really appreciate your videos and always enjoy listening to what you have to say. Much love :)

  • @billhughes7927
    @billhughes7927 2 года назад +20

    Tony is absolutely not the strong silent type who quietly does what needs to be done without emotion influencing it, he’s more of the explosively angry and vengeful type who impulsively acts on emotion most of the time lol

  • @JC.Denton.
    @JC.Denton. 3 года назад +43

    A PureKino and Soprano Theories upload the same day.
    Based

  • @aemonwarrick4654
    @aemonwarrick4654 3 года назад +65

    Bobby beat his ass that time and couldn't get over it.

    • @nickr4837
      @nickr4837 3 года назад +5

      Carmela jumping on Ton's back . . fing women sometimes and their 'help'

    • @k-dogg9086
      @k-dogg9086 Год назад +1

      They fought like two grizzlies bears or like two gorillas.. it was funny af! 😄

    • @Dontknownowyouknow-ro1fy
      @Dontknownowyouknow-ro1fy 7 месяцев назад

      Nah he did tho and made him a captain

  • @DDavy2014
    @DDavy2014 Год назад +11

    I know it’s been said so many times but the Sopranos really is a masterpiece. It delves into so many topics. Family, love, toxic masculinity, mental illness, depression, anxiety, homosexuality, adultery, addiction, loneliness, divorce, suicide. Even the food is it’s own character in the show. It’s signifies family and bringing people together to eat. Such an amazing show. The like we’ll never see again.

  • @Buford_T_Justice1
    @Buford_T_Justice1 3 года назад +183

    “Vito was gay the whole time.”
    -JK Rowling

    • @David-yp5ff
      @David-yp5ff 2 года назад +2

      hahahahaha

    • @pragma2017
      @pragma2017 2 года назад +1

      Very obvious now!!!!

    • @hristiyanhristov2480
      @hristiyanhristov2480 2 года назад +8

      Vito wasn't even Vito the whole time.
      -Gino

    • @pragma2017
      @pragma2017 2 года назад +1

      @@hristiyanhristov2480 he was in the cake shop!! Lol

    • @faisalkamal4319
      @faisalkamal4319 2 года назад +1

      He wasn't gay he could get a note from his doctor

  • @TheValhalla1989
    @TheValhalla1989 3 года назад +53

    I didn’t realize Tony’s fascination with Gary cooper.

    • @judethedude96
      @judethedude96 3 года назад +10

      He was gay, Gary Cooper?

    • @manchesterguy7961
      @manchesterguy7961 3 года назад +2

      He died of lou gerrigs disease!

    • @clintzuleger8918
      @clintzuleger8918 3 года назад +2

      GARY COOOPAAHHH!!!!

    • @samanthab1923
      @samanthab1923 3 года назад +1

      Ridiculous. Strong, silent type smoked 3 packs of non-filtered.

    • @caseyfalconer7347
      @caseyfalconer7347 3 года назад +4

      He mentioned him less than Phil did about doing 20 years

  • @Lindy-kv3wy
    @Lindy-kv3wy 3 года назад +42

    Don’t forget Tony is a strict catholic!

  • @CPhelps1247
    @CPhelps1247 3 года назад +80

    Whatever happened to Borko? The strong silent Sopranos channel.

  • @Iksvomid
    @Iksvomid 3 года назад +19

    The Sopranos was just a low key series about finding out what happened to Gary Cooper.

  • @sochyvonnnora6035
    @sochyvonnnora6035 Год назад +4

    I love how those macho guy kiss each other cheek when they meet.

  • @naswiipp
    @naswiipp 3 года назад +25

    Tony: where's my masculinity?
    Paulie: with the luggage

  • @the_local_bigamist
    @the_local_bigamist 3 года назад +31

    TL;DR for the "I skip Melfi scenes" stunads, this video isn't for you.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 3 года назад +9

      Why on earth would anyone do that

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 3 года назад +2

      Skip the psychoanalysis scenes, I mean.

    • @fabioribeiro3388
      @fabioribeiro3388 3 года назад +8

      @@dewilew2137 because they don’t like it when big mafia man actually shows some weakness

    • @jackj.pelletier1666
      @jackj.pelletier1666 2 года назад

      @@fabioribeiro3388 Fr, without that narrative device in the pilot, the contemplative style of storytelling in the show might have never fully reached the ambiguous depth we see through her scenes thematically.

  • @brennanc4321
    @brennanc4321 3 года назад +28

    The mafia is extremely predatory, even to it's own members. But the reason why they reacted towards Johnny Sack the way they did wasn't because they viewed him as weak, rather they began to distrust him and his commitment to the Mafia, it showed that he cared more about his family than his other family and may flip for them. He does break silence and admits to the existence of the mafia to prevent further hardships on his family. This is similar to the real reason why Tony killed Chris, he feared he would put his family before his other family, he asked the boss to take the driver seat and say he crashed the car.

  • @armaniedwards
    @armaniedwards 3 года назад +32

    My estimation of Borko as a RUclips channel, just fuckin plummeted.

    • @ianiello
      @ianiello 3 года назад +14

      You talking to the boss of this family.

    • @ultimate0706
      @ultimate0706 3 года назад +8

      Where the fuck do you get off questioning Borko's leadership?

    • @ggbabydollworld977
      @ggbabydollworld977 3 года назад +7

      You better hope word of this doesn't get back to the boss (borko

    • @manchesterguy7961
      @manchesterguy7961 3 года назад +6

      Even purekino didn't cry!!

  • @williambrady9578
    @williambrady9578 2 года назад +13

    True masculinity is achieved through virtuous actions, discipline and self knowledge. Essentially it is character integration and growth. The problem with the characters in the Sopranos is that they want to have these traits but they are unable to learn and grow.

  • @tristissimvshominvm8999
    @tristissimvshominvm8999 3 года назад +106

    Patsy was the only one that didn't care about Vito. I guess he was the more masculine one.

    • @erickennedy5993
      @erickennedy5993 3 года назад +24

      Tony did not care either, but he did not go along , he could hot wacked himself

    • @mikefloyd3152
      @mikefloyd3152 3 года назад +17

      Maybe your a flambe

    • @dukes1993724
      @dukes1993724 3 года назад +21

      Tony only didn’t care cause Vito was a good earner. Tony would have whacked Vito himself if he was earning like Carlo while also being a flambé.

    • @somerville77
      @somerville77 3 года назад

      you're forgetting when Patsy totally flipped and bashed little Paulie in the face with a snapple bottle after Paulie made a gay joke lol

    • @erickennedy5993
      @erickennedy5993 3 года назад +22

      @@somerville77 That was Eugane

  • @ryandunn2806
    @ryandunn2806 3 года назад +65

    You hear the one about the Chinese Godfather? He made them an offer they couldn’t understand.

    • @Woooweeeeee
      @Woooweeeeee 3 года назад

      😂

    • @jayr3381
      @jayr3381 3 года назад +7

      I heard he drives a Lincoln Continental

    • @mutt8553
      @mutt8553 3 года назад +2

      @@jayr3381 I thought I had a cataract?

    • @fad2679
      @fad2679 3 года назад +4

      @@jayr3381 Rincoln

    • @Grandmaster-Kush
      @Grandmaster-Kush 3 года назад +4

      I get it. He drives a Lincoln.

  • @KidFresh71
    @KidFresh71 3 года назад +33

    Funny moment when the bodybuilders come on TV, and Phil exclaims, "turn that off!"

  • @gnomeofhell
    @gnomeofhell 3 года назад +13

    When I think about what it means to be the strong and silent type , I think about that scene in Saving Private Ryan. The one where Tom Hanks is suffering from shell shock , and Tom Sizemore interrupts his moment of suffering. That’s what I envision on what it means to be the strong and silent type. You end up suffering alone .

  • @dabshanksthe1st488
    @dabshanksthe1st488 3 года назад +11

    Whenever he talked about greasing the union who knew that's what he meant 😏

  • @ODPTV1
    @ODPTV1 3 года назад +8

    Furio and Bobby are the only main characters I can think of that didn't struggle with masculinity.

  • @Fadzi2342
    @Fadzi2342 2 года назад +7

    Gary Cooper was my favorite strong, silent type character on the show. Wish they had done more with him.

  • @shreddykrueger3776
    @shreddykrueger3776 3 года назад +79

    I liked the Vito/Johnny Cakes storyline. He found a man to love him but can't deal with a mundane life. Instead chooses death.

    • @ryancarroll5488
      @ryancarroll5488 3 года назад +16

      I remember he says 'I can't live without my kids' and he answers ''FUCK THAT it was the life u couldn't live without"

    • @shreddykrueger3776
      @shreddykrueger3776 3 года назад +13

      @@ryancarroll5488 That's when he called him from the motel. A bit before that he was working that carpentry job and sleeping on the clock. All those no work jobs, then to be a working stiff. I bet he felt as low as he could get.

    • @MrT571
      @MrT571 2 года назад

      He knew they were going to kill him and still went back. Idiot.

    • @Camcolito
      @Camcolito 11 месяцев назад +1

      He was looking for Amanda Hugginkiss.

  • @psychedelicsoul3260
    @psychedelicsoul3260 2 года назад +6

    "Uncle June's in the muff" that fuckin line was amazing

  • @mutt8553
    @mutt8553 3 года назад +35

    Coach Hauser should move to AC and run for mayor. Feel like he could do quite well

  • @slashbash1347
    @slashbash1347 Год назад +3

    The thing I find most interesting is the adultery. It's considered bizarre if a made man DOESN'T have someone on the side (Bobby, Johnny Sack), and there's a strong double standard in the Mafia, as shown when Tony beats up the boyfriend of Irina (even though Tony broke up with her) and later, putting a hit on Furio for merely having a crush on Carmella.
    Also, the fact that Vito's wife was only devasting when she found out he was gay but didn't care that he was seeing other women.
    To get as much action as possible is manly but to get cucked is the ultimate attack on their masculinity.

  • @molasorrosalom4846
    @molasorrosalom4846 3 года назад +2

    This has to be one of your best videos to date, well done.

  • @flightofthebumblebee9529
    @flightofthebumblebee9529 2 года назад +3

    Paulie laughing while watching Three's Company was the best.

  • @ML-nb3ct
    @ML-nb3ct 2 года назад +25

    Vito was absolutely one of the most tragic characters in the series.

  • @KC______
    @KC______ 3 года назад +21

    At 10:13 Vito didn't COME OUT, he was FOUND OUT.
    I'm not splitting hairs (tee hee no pun intended), there's a BIG difference.

    • @jbennett87
      @jbennett87 3 года назад +5

      Agreed, because there's a point where Tony says Vito shouldve just kept his gay life private, to which Silvio replied "didn't he?"

    • @faisalkamal4319
      @faisalkamal4319 2 года назад +1

      @@jbennett87 he dident

    • @OdintheGermanShepherd
      @OdintheGermanShepherd 2 года назад +2

      Vito wasn’t exactly trying to hide it…he was being the opposite of discrete…he was being quite blatant and not hiding at all. He was blowing a guy in broad daylight for Christ sake, at the job site, no less.

    • @KC______
      @KC______ 2 года назад +1

      @@OdintheGermanShepherd To be fair to Vito it was at the crack of dawn not broad daylight but still he could have been a bit more discreet; maybe being in public made it all the more "exciting".

    • @OdintheGermanShepherd
      @OdintheGermanShepherd 2 года назад

      @@KC______ LOLOL no doubt!!

  • @pieomy5171
    @pieomy5171 3 года назад +5

    I just love your content sir and i wish you gain 100x more subs at least. Something in the way you bind the sacred with the propane that hits the right spot

  • @RoseUnseen
    @RoseUnseen 3 года назад +4

    actually phil was gonna let it go , but his wife didnt shut up about it lol

  • @robertovaldivia1573
    @robertovaldivia1573 3 года назад +51

    I find it interesting that this is one of those subjects about the show that the fanbase dislike discussing. Nothing will rile up the conversation than bringing up the show's commentary on toxic masculinity, hypocrisy of these characters, or mental health in the 21st century.

    • @captainweekend5276
      @captainweekend5276 3 года назад +21

      It depends heavily on how you frame the discussion, often when people use the term "toxic masculinity" they're referring to the concept of masculinity itself being inherently toxic, rather than just the negative elements of masculinity.

    • @amersalha4743
      @amersalha4743 3 года назад +12

      There is no such thing as "toxic masculinity". Both men and women can act 'toxic", "toxicity" isnt specific to being a man. Maybe the fanbase doesn't like discussing these topics because people like you refer to an entire gender as "toxic" simply for being male.

    • @jacobsale6939
      @jacobsale6939 3 года назад +4

      @@captainweekend5276 this is a good distinction. The sopranos crew obviously exemplify toxic aspects of masculinity, which is an outward manifestation of being insecure in their own masculinities. We all know that men that are usually the most respectable are the ones that care for others, and themselves as well. These gangsters almost are a caricature of masculinity, as if they read about masculinity online and tried to act like that. It’s the inward insecurity that poisons their outward appearance; inward security manifests itself into a true man.

    • @Guitarman1275
      @Guitarman1275 3 года назад +17

      @@amersalha4743 If you and "people like you" think that condemning toxic masculinity is akin to "refer[ring] to an entire gender as 'toxic' simply for being male," then you have completely missed the point. Obviously men and women can both be toxic. No one worth taking seriously argues otherwise. The point-one that many men appear absolutely determined to avoid, seemingly out of insecurity toward how their own behavior is perceived in modern society-is that traditional gender roles both encourage and justify toxic behavior in men: callousness, pride, violence, lust for dominance and power over others (especially women), detrimental self-reliance, etc. It's fine enough to say that adherence to traditional gender roles produces toxic behavior in women as well. Many of the people that it seems you're writing off as men-haters have written extensively on that subject; many more actively support women being both more self-deterministic (i.e. without needing to conform to gender stereotypes) AND being less toxic. But that isn't what this conversation is about.

    • @adelio3168
      @adelio3168 3 года назад +2

      @@amersalha4743 exactly!

  • @thebaconator.3867
    @thebaconator.3867 3 года назад +96

    i love the sopranos so much, they explore the absurdity of the crew by showing how they think being tough, fighting, fucking, killing, multiple girlfriends, expensive clothes, cars, language, and all the other overly ''manly'' things stereotypical men think make them manly, nothing more emphasizes it when phil kills vito for being gay, but phil comes out of the closet hiding in his room to kill him!!

    • @Rockhound6165
      @Rockhound6165 3 года назад +10

      Phil coming out of the closet was precisely his point.

    • @blackbatman3152
      @blackbatman3152 3 года назад +6

      But those things are Manly

    • @KJ_SC
      @KJ_SC 2 года назад +4

      Those things DO make men, manly!

    • @iwillgowiththatcat8667
      @iwillgowiththatcat8667 2 года назад +11

      @Black Batman no they’re not manly it’s degenerate behavior being manly is about being a man with respect grace and care whatever that is to you aslong it’s not destructive killing people like a sociopath is not manly having multiple wives is not manly either

    • @thebaconator.3867
      @thebaconator.3867 2 года назад +4

      @@iwillgowiththatcat8667 being a man is strong family values, protecting women and children, being faithful to your partner, fighting for what is the morally right thing to do, providing, in the sopranos they have a warped sense of doing these things, mixed with horrible acts

  • @amg5656
    @amg5656 2 года назад +1

    Good commentary in this segment, thank you.

  • @johndez5213
    @johndez5213 3 года назад +8

    “Tony is a weak male that struggles with his mental health “ damn.

    • @trav2190
      @trav2190 3 года назад +1

      He beat up a younger dude with muscles. Dont think hes to weak

    • @russell2890
      @russell2890 3 года назад +4

      @@trav2190 He sucker punched him but yes he did got the upper hand but don't forget bobby kicked his ass to after sucker punching him first.

    • @kingsiah5103
      @kingsiah5103 3 года назад

      @@trav2190 I honestly think ol boy kinda let Tony beat his ass but yeah Bobby definitely got on him

    • @britishbikedude2475
      @britishbikedude2475 3 года назад +1

      And he doesn't have the makings of a varsity athlete to boot

  • @robertlee4172
    @robertlee4172 3 года назад +7

    During a sit down with Johnny Sack, Phil Leotardo draws the ire of Tony when Phil calls him "kid". Tony isn't exactly the "boss" everyone thinks he is, when his gambling losses forces him to borrow money from Hesch. You see his resentment when Hesch pays a visit to the pork store and Tony makes a big deal about paying the vig.

  • @keiclera6596
    @keiclera6596 3 года назад +4

    4:33 I really wished you put the scene with the pie/cake in there lol

  • @NewYork975
    @NewYork975 3 года назад +11

    “Vito’s a real come from behind kind of guy.”

  • @Edvinas97
    @Edvinas97 3 года назад

    another great video, thank you !

  • @j-rey-
    @j-rey- 3 года назад +42

    Great video; another good addition could have been Tony's toxically masculine effect on AJ, always trying to "toughen him up" when he was actually a sensitive and depressive kid. When Junior shot Tony, AJ tried to mimic his father and tried to whack junior, leading to AJ almost being arrested for attempted first degree murder and then breaking down crying in the parking lot of the (EDIT: police station). Finally, after AJ is starting to show his emotions, Tony yells at him to stop crying, which is just about the worst thing you can do when you are that upset. His fixation with staying silent and keeping all your sadness inside almost resulted in AJ's death

    • @shreddykrueger3776
      @shreddykrueger3776 3 года назад +1

      It was the police station

    • @faisalkamal4319
      @faisalkamal4319 2 года назад

      AJ was alive

    • @hisholiness4537
      @hisholiness4537 2 года назад +1

      If Tony doesn't die in the end then you can bet A.J. is living on a time limit. He's bottomed out of all surrogate children to kill, so you can guess who's coming up next.

    • @mechantl0up
      @mechantl0up 2 года назад

      If Tony's impact on AJ is "toxically masculine", is Lidia's effect on Tony then "toxically feminine?". Not to mention Carmela's on her children, given how blatant her (and all the mafia wives') hypocrisy is.

    • @hisholiness4537
      @hisholiness4537 2 года назад

      @@mechantl0up idk why you deleted your comment but yes, you're right. Livia is arguably even worse than Tony as she manipulates others to get their hands bloody for her.

  • @d100763
    @d100763 3 года назад +4

    the bottom line Rocko DeMeo had the reputation as the toughest guy in Essex County

    • @peterredman44
      @peterredman44 2 года назад

      but did he have a swing like Joe D

  • @TripleOptionFootballAcademy
    @TripleOptionFootballAcademy 3 года назад +1

    Fantastic job. Great work. Borko should be shaking in his boots.

  • @BeeHatGuy
    @BeeHatGuy 3 года назад +3

    Yes!!!! Hey, I said it elsewhere, you should totally do the patreon thing!! I love you & Pure Kino's work on breaking down the series.

    • @hectorsanchez1377
      @hectorsanchez1377 3 года назад +1

      The way pure kino makes videos is all fucked up. There’s no swipes, no metaphors. Either it has meaning or no meaning.

    • @BeeHatGuy
      @BeeHatGuy 3 года назад

      @@hectorsanchez1377 yeah, I can see that

  • @diocletiandondarrion7102
    @diocletiandondarrion7102 3 года назад +24

    I’ve always wondered how long Phil was standing in that closet in the dark lmao

    • @CTuna-uo3pq
      @CTuna-uo3pq 3 года назад +9

      It's wasn't 20 years or we would have heard about it.

    • @diocletiandondarrion7102
      @diocletiandondarrion7102 3 года назад

      @@CTuna-uo3pq LOL

    • @danjonmills
      @danjonmills 2 года назад +2

      It's okay, he had his shinebox to keep him occupied.

  • @ssgss4iammacabeefu_
    @ssgss4iammacabeefu_ 3 года назад +4

    Just because you have a group of men around you doesn't mean your not alone. Tony has been alone since he became boss.

  • @yoiyoikokon
    @yoiyoikokon Год назад +1

    You forgot to include Johnny Sack crying at the wedding and Phil remark about it.

  • @OdintheGermanShepherd
    @OdintheGermanShepherd 2 года назад +2

    “Gary Cooper was gay?” - Chrissy

  • @twitchsopamanxx
    @twitchsopamanxx 3 года назад +4

    Gary Koopa is my favorite SM64 enemy.

    • @MoskHotel
      @MoskHotel 3 года назад +1

      Whatever happened to Gary Koopa?

  • @krunkmasterfresh
    @krunkmasterfresh 3 года назад +4

    Anyone else notice Phil Leotardo literally “coming out of the closet” before murdering Vito at 10:00?

  • @jbard9892
    @jbard9892 Год назад +1

    Once a year? Tony was practicing, Junior went varsity.

  • @barrybender3377
    @barrybender3377 3 года назад

    real great video man, keep them comin

  • @MGBillionaire
    @MGBillionaire 3 года назад +3

    Batman and the mob have the same rules about eating sushi 🍣

  • @ray.shoesmith
    @ray.shoesmith 2 года назад +4

    The stupidest part of the Sopranos 'masculinity' was the shit they gave Junior for being in the muff 🤣

    • @KhanSaab-pi6sw
      @KhanSaab-pi6sw 8 месяцев назад

      🎶South of the borderrrrr, where the tuna fish playyyy!🎶

  • @esalaam89
    @esalaam89 3 года назад

    Just love this channel

  • @danielfreeley5217
    @danielfreeley5217 Год назад

    This video is fantastic!

  • @DCDPM
    @DCDPM 3 года назад +31

    Phil's closeted Homosexuality Theory could be another video, I disagree it was about worrying about what others thought, I think things went on in prison. Remember, Phil spent years in the can and not a fucking peep.

    • @jeambeam3173
      @jeambeam3173 3 года назад

      He's probably killed someone to keep him or put fear into anyone else to keep them quiet

    • @clintzuleger8918
      @clintzuleger8918 3 года назад +5

      …….. he compromised.

    • @MoskHotel
      @MoskHotel 3 года назад +2

      I like to think he hid in the closet as a way to mock Vito’s sexuality.

    • @christiancee6333
      @christiancee6333 2 года назад +2

      Phil's is coming out the shinebox

  • @Ammoniumbicarbonat
    @Ammoniumbicarbonat 3 года назад +14

    Interesting analysis, though I think the term “fragile sense of masculinity” rather than simply “fragile masculinity” is more apt. To me masculinity is a state of becoming, you either fully embody its traits, or you have a tenuous grip on them. The negative sides of masculinity and femininity are frequently explored throughout the series, though as a show about the mob it more often focuses on how it relates to the men and their sense of masculinity or machismo.

  • @AwesomePolarBear
    @AwesomePolarBear 3 года назад +2

    Congrats on 10k subs! Happy to see more people are finding you

  • @floridaman2466
    @floridaman2466 3 года назад +1

    God you uploading is my favorite time of the week 😩

  • @colechapman3382
    @colechapman3382 2 года назад +6

    I laughed when Tony said “whatever happened to Gary Cooper, the strong silent type” because he is totally oblivious to the fact that while he admonished people for their lack of manliness, he himself goes to the shrink, is depressed, and has all sorts of demons that he can’t escape from. It’s totally pot calling the kettle black

  • @Mourtzouphlos240
    @Mourtzouphlos240 3 года назад +3

    I just read Cooper's wikipedia entry. He was not what Tony would have liked or aspired to be in real life. Aside from the classical snooty English boarding school education there is this:
    "Cooper biographers have explored his friendship in the late twenties with the actor Anderson Lawler, with whom Cooper shared a house on and off for a year, while at the same time seeing Clara Bow, Evelyn Brent and Lupe Vélez.[328][329][330][331] Lupe Vélez once told Hedda Hopper of Vélez' affair with Cooper; whenever he would come home after seeing Lawler, she would sniff for Lawler's cologne.[332] Vélez' biographer Michelle Vogel has reported that Vélez consented to Cooper's sexual behavior with Lawler, but only as long as she, too, could participate."

    • @erickennedy5993
      @erickennedy5993 3 года назад +9

      Christopher brought up Gary Cooper as gay in the end of Columbus , and Tony was piss

  • @gregoryschmidt1233
    @gregoryschmidt1233 Год назад +1

    Trying to keep up with all the examples of hypocrisy in the Sopranos characters is exhausting.

  • @juiceboxleal6254
    @juiceboxleal6254 3 года назад

    Love these vids

  • @mazzamazza8345
    @mazzamazza8345 3 года назад +19

    It’s funny how Phil killed Vito for being gay, but when he reveals himself in the scene he comes out the closet

    • @Rockhound6165
      @Rockhound6165 3 года назад +1

      That was the point showing Vito, his brother in law, that he knows his secret.

    • @michellenowicki8181
      @michellenowicki8181 2 года назад

      very allegorical

  • @jasonvoorhees310
    @jasonvoorhees310 3 года назад +3

    Better Call Saul
    The Sopranos
    Breaking Bad
    3 greatest television series of all time.

  • @Meowface.
    @Meowface. Год назад +2

    Vito wasn’t gay… it was the medication for his blood pressure
    His doctor wrote him a note

  • @franksessions4346
    @franksessions4346 2 года назад

    That was really good

  • @YourGraceMyLady
    @YourGraceMyLady 3 года назад +5

    Definitely the greatest show ever. I’ve watched everything, Breaking bad Second. Boardwalk empire is pretty good, Game of thrones could’ve went on and been good for so many more seasons and ended properly if they would’ve followed the books and put in the work and time.

    • @liltree8382
      @liltree8382 3 года назад

      I watch half of the first season and it’s okay didn’t seem as good as people say

  • @mickyzzzeee
    @mickyzzzeee 3 года назад +12

    Be prepared to go to war with the Borko faction.

  • @MK-kw5eo
    @MK-kw5eo 3 года назад

    Wow you, Worm's Hole, then Pure Kino uploading Soparanos videos all in the same week. I love it.

  • @PYRO-ON
    @PYRO-ON 3 года назад

    Always look forward to ur vids

  • @FrancisR420
    @FrancisR420 2 года назад +3

    I have never once in my life heard masculinity referred to as "manly-Hood"
    But I'm going to say that from now on

  • @mattmontgomery8999
    @mattmontgomery8999 3 года назад +13

    When Phil kills Vito, he literally comes out of the closet to surprise Vito in the hotel room to kill him. I always found it odd that he enjoys watching Vito being beaten to death and the way that scene was directed focuses on Phil’s reaction, the way he squeezes the bed with his hand as the bats beat Vito to death, hit to the head after hit to the head. Phil is so homophobic, but really enjoys this up close and personal death of Vito in this scene.

    • @obannon7740
      @obannon7740 3 года назад +3

      It just shows how sadistic Phil is.

    • @andymeighan8160
      @andymeighan8160 2 года назад +1

      It's because he eat grilled cheese off a radiator, but doesn't like to talk about it.

    • @Ah-ws9nm
      @Ah-ws9nm 2 года назад +2

      Because Phil is old school and spent so much time in prison. And Vito was apart if his extended family thru marriage. Phil felt Vito’s lifestyle was disrespecting his family tree

  • @Hoosier_Boy
    @Hoosier_Boy 3 года назад

    You hit it head-on, kudos!

  • @strabanecripple3355
    @strabanecripple3355 3 года назад

    I love this channel

  • @Pandaemoni
    @Pandaemoni Год назад +7

    There's nothing that says "homorsexual" like a man going down on a woman. One of the interesting beats in Vito's story is that Tony's crew was upset when they learned from Finn that Vito was homosexual, but they still imagined that Finn had seen him receiving fellatio. When Finn corrected them and said Vito was performing fellatio on another guy, that was so much *worse* and got them more upset than imagining Vito merely receiving it.

    • @Lucas02000
      @Lucas02000 Год назад

      Yeah its more the concept of going down on someone is bad regardless if its a man or woman

    • @Gameprojordan
      @Gameprojordan Год назад +1

      @Lucas 2000 it's especially worse if it's a guy though. It's based off the prison system where there's the submissive guy who gets screwed (anally and oral) and they're considered "the bi**h" while the guy who is doing it to them is given a pass because "there's no women in prison so they gotta do what they gotta do".
      In their eyes, going down on a girl is one thing, you'll get teased and humiliated but people won't be overtly hostile over it. All Junior had to do was cut ties with the girl and everyone moved on from it. Being a guy going down on a guy, ontop of not being in prison, meaning you have total access to women, is viewed as being an utter disgrace, a "fa**ot" who is the complete antithesis of a "manly man". There's no going back at this point for the guy, his reputation is tarnished and people will outright refuse to associate with him for life, or worse try to attack him for it

    • @rafael_emmanuel
      @rafael_emmanuel Год назад +1

      Pitching not receiving

  • @JG_1998
    @JG_1998 3 года назад +8

    captain of what, the good ship lollipop?

  • @WARSfate
    @WARSfate 2 года назад

    Amazing channel

  • @octasian
    @octasian 10 месяцев назад +1

    To be fair, maybe all of that homosexual Italian kissing might have made everyone confused, and Vito said “ahhh, screw it!”

  • @sachinisthegod2824
    @sachinisthegod2824 3 года назад +3

    Whatever happened to Borko?

    • @fad2679
      @fad2679 3 года назад +1

      They made him an offer he couldn't understand

  • @robgasper8521
    @robgasper8521 3 года назад +6

    Livia Soprano was probably the most masculine of all of them in the end, at least according to their man code. Always wondered how her character arch would have played out.

  • @woodenmonkey9417
    @woodenmonkey9417 2 года назад +1

    The tiny gun just gets me everytime I see it. Like who the heck decided to leave that.

  • @TheLoneHuntsman
    @TheLoneHuntsman 3 года назад +1

    Phil loved Vito like a brother-in-law.