Radical self empathy needs a pause ,that's when you're left alone with your saboteur ,allowing him to speak and make peace with him . Thanks to every psychiatrist, coach ,mentor... who make information and knowledge available (books..) so that we all can raise awareness on such challenges and move on
I got a lot out of this - thank you! Self-sabotage has been a huge issue for me. And the technique she recommends goes hand-in-hand with the other self help-style stuff I've been reading & watching lately: be kind to yourself.
THANK YOU BETH!... My sisters and I watched our father brutalize our mom as children, and I have held this in for 60 years, until tonight! My saboteur; little Gregory destroyed one of my biggest trades tonight, and I finally realized that it was ME. I really Love you for this Beth...Thank YOU!
Thank you for this presentation. It opened my eyes to my own self-sabotage, and has created a revelation in my awareness of my cognitive behavior. I've been struggling with depression and extremely low self-esteem for years now. At this point in my life, this video was very much needed. Thanks again.
That was pretty damn awesome Beth Clayton. I am sometimes hard on my boy, and hate to see those 'tiny deaths'. I think asking 'What do you want from me' is such a powerful question. At the same time, often the answer from a nine year old is 'ice-cream', so getting a child to articulate comes with its own challenges. I guess often we don't know until after the event. I wrote a song about the challenges of 'having' to grow up: clark2.bandcamp.com/track/old-before-your-time Again, though thank you so much for how you articulated this very important subject.
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I have seen many Ted talks over the years and this is probably the most honest, vulnerable, and the bravest of all!
I don't know how to describe how brilliant this is
Radical self empathy needs a pause ,that's when you're left alone with your saboteur ,allowing him to speak and make peace with him .
Thanks to every psychiatrist, coach ,mentor... who make information and knowledge available (books..) so that we all can raise awareness on such challenges and move on
This made me cry. I'm so greatful to you Beth for sharing this to us.
Thank you for showing us your courage and showing us how to do the same. ❤
Wow, here I am watching this 6 years later and what a powerful message!
Truly amazing I just noticed my inner child that I truly forgot about thank you so much
I got a lot out of this - thank you! Self-sabotage has been a huge issue for me. And the technique she recommends goes hand-in-hand with the other self help-style stuff I've been reading & watching lately: be kind to yourself.
Beautiful talk so true our inner child needs love and support and reparenting.
THANK YOU BETH!... My sisters and I watched our father brutalize our mom as children, and I have held this in for 60 years, until tonight! My saboteur; little Gregory destroyed one of my biggest trades tonight, and I finally realized that it was ME. I really Love you for this Beth...Thank YOU!
Powerful message for me today🙏🏼 thank you Beth Clayton.
This is such a fantastic talk! I love how you acknowledge and love the saboteur, and your presentation style is fantastic!
Thank you for this presentation. It opened my eyes to my own self-sabotage, and has created a revelation in my awareness of my cognitive behavior. I've been struggling with depression and extremely low self-esteem for years now. At this point in my life, this video was very much needed. Thanks again.
You are so so welcome! Thanks for watching!
beautiful talk, full of humanity, well done!
So so great -- I love that concept of "tiny deaths".
I love you Joy! Ha ha! Nice to see you on here.
This is wonderful! Thank you for your bravery!!
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! HELPED ME SO MUCH!!! ALL THE BEST TO YOU!!! GO DANCE, DANCER!!!! 💚🙏Eva, Belgium
You are a wonderfull woman, thank you for opening up and telling your story!
Best TEDxTalk so far! Well done!
+twzls Fam THANK YOU!!!!!
watching again. and sharing with my clients. thank you for puttin gthis out in the world.
Thank you so much for this Beth! This was so relatable for me.
What a lovely talk! Thank you so much for the heads up.
Oh my god I'm crying my eyes out 😄 lovely talk
me too....!
Does it hurt when you pop them back in?
I needed this way more than I knew
Love this the most ❤
Thats so well put! Thank you Beth!
This needs 10000000 likes
Such a powerful talk loved it
Awesome! it was just the perfect way to illustrate self-sabotage through a very vivid situation and how to face it to over come it. Congrats
Spectacular! So well said!
+Cari Palmer Thank you so very much! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
you'd make an amazing Broadway actress, that's for sure
This one is amazing!
This helps, thank you
Really liked this one.
Good sound advice thank you!
amazing thank you - one of the best ted talks ever
That was pretty damn awesome Beth Clayton. I am sometimes hard on my boy, and hate to see those 'tiny deaths'. I think asking 'What do you want from me' is such a powerful question. At the same time, often the answer from a nine year old is 'ice-cream', so getting a child to articulate comes with its own challenges. I guess often we don't know until after the event.
I wrote a song about the challenges of 'having' to grow up:
clark2.bandcamp.com/track/old-before-your-time
Again, though thank you so much for how you articulated this very important subject.
2019
Oh my truth. Tiny deaths.