I’ve delivered many of these boxes when I worked for the postal service. Definitely gave a different feeling when I got these . Definitely deliver with extra care. ❤
We used a few different companies and had keep sakes made from our son's ashes. They sent us packaging to ship the ashes to them. They also asked what to do with the ashes left over, one option was from them to scatter them, which we chose.
Thank you so much for doing this. I recently had my ex-husband's cremated remains sent to my son. He needed to be at his house to sign (he wasn't) and when he went to the post office he was a little surprised to see that the box was clearly marked as cremated remains. This information is important and you did a great job presenting it.
Cremation or Aquamation are definitely my preference. No need to dump all those chemicals and money in the ground, but it wouldn’t matter to me since I’ll be dead. Funerals are more for the surviving family to have closure.
Hey KARI. THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR VERY IMPORTANT INFORMATION As always every subject that you talk about and explain you are caring in the way you do it and making sure you have the correct information, when you do not know something you will say you are not sure then you try to find out anything you do not know. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WHAT YOU DO. I have learned so much from you. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
When my sister’s cremains were shipped a person from the post office came in a car to deliver them, they were not delivered on the truck of our normal mail carrier. In my town they are personally delivered.
Thank you Kari, for informing us about sending cremated remains. As always,I appreciate how thorough you are in your explanations. Thank you for doing all you do to educate.😊
When shipping humains in a temporary container when use the priority mail Express box which is just slightly bigger then temporary container. Is about half a pound less and with Express prices it can save you money and we have a roll of the cremated remain stickers. The post office offers two kits and one of them has bubble wrap in it so be sure to order the right when they're both free
I picked up my dad's cremated remains from the funeral home. The box was in a little plastic bag with the funeral home information on it. They were in a heavy plastic bag that was folded over and tied shut with two heavy zip ties. It was put in a regular cardboard box that was taped up with plastic packing tape. No cremated remains information anywhere on it. It had a printed label that had his name, birth date and death date and that label was taped to the outside of the cardboard box. There was no paperwork of any kind with it. I brought it home with me in my truck and when I made arrangements with the cemetery sexton, I took the box up to the cemetery and they had dug a round hole in the burial space beside mommas casket. It looked like it was dug with a hand held post hole digger about two feet deep. I took the bag out of the box and removed the zip ties and poured the ashes into the hole and cut the label off the box and put it into the hole on top of the dust. My dad believed in the "dust to dust" scripture in the Bible and didn't want any waste or extra money spent to bury him. My question is, was the paperwork from the funeral home required for me to legally transport his remains from Iowa to Missouri and back? I was kind of on auto pilot on the way back home and threw the box and bag in a convenience store trash can when I stopped for gas and supper on the way home. Thank you for all the videos you have done. You are a blessing to me and many others I am sure.
@Kari the Mortician no. there was no plastic box, only a heavy plastic bag zip tied with two ties inside a cardboard box with clear plastic tape. no cremated remains information anywhere on the box. The box just had a printed label with his name and birth date and death date. no paperwork at all.
Hi beautiful, I’m living in Australia, my uncle passed away in Seattle ( a couple of years ago now) I organised trough the nursing home, they send his ashes back to Hungary where we from…they only able to send to a funeral home…❤️ they organised everything for me…
Am I the only one from a family with undertakers on both sides, and still have relatives that have a bunch of the temporary cremated remains boxes serving various functions around the house? lol these types of cremated remains containers currently hold my mail. I just now thought that might not be normal. lol
@@KaritheMortician Exactly! Also, almost all our buckets say "Viscerock - Dustless Filling Compound - Dodge Chemical". Also, a bunch of curved needles and suture that, again, is heavy-duty and good for repairing many things! I just repaired a couch cushion that my friends dog chewed open with it.
That’s a pretty huge box for cremated remains. Ahhhh…now I can see why they give so much tape. In Hawaii when I used to work at a funeral home we had to out a copy of the death certificate I’m glad that our crematories use those thick plastic. Would your mortuaries there offer this service for families? I’m glad your doing these kind of videos. So helpful for people to listen too. Thank you.
My mom had her dad in the attic for a while, these bags weaken over time but he died a few decades ago - I never met him. When we got him down, the bag failed all over the floor it was funny for about two seconds
What is the insurance value on sending cremated remains? Are these packages handled differently by the USPS? It would be interesting to see the background handling.
I'm wondering how to handle smaller amounts of cremated remains. We will be having a celebration of lives for my parents, and then I was hoping to allow their siblings (who live all over the country) to take small biodegradable urns (6 oz or less) home with them to plant or release. Is it better to pack it in their suitcase or ship them?
I work at DHL and they won't ship cremated remains. This seems like a lot of work to ensure the safety of the cremated remains, but it is doable. Thank you for sharing, Kari.
Ms. Kari, If you're traveling by air with cremains do you have to package your love one in the same way, are you allowed bring the urn or container aboard the aircraft with you. If so would there be an extra fee if you wish to do so? I would want hold them not place them in the overhead if its allowed.
Is it legal to use these boxes to send other stuff? Because if there's one box nobody wants to steal or throw into the truck,, it would be one of these.
I live in Illinois, to my knowledge (I've never had remains sent to me or have had to send any so this is possibly just lack of knowledge on my part) we don't have to have anything detailing what is in the box like "Cremated Remains". We have 2 crematories in the town that I live in so I'm guessing we just go pick it up at the funeral home. With that said I can't account for in or out going Cremated Remains that would be shipped elsewhere. I guess what I am wondering is, is it required to prevent loss or to alert the USPS that it is Cremated Remains because some may not wish to carry and deliver because of the nature of the parcel? And even though it is Cremated Remains is it still considered BIO even though there is no bodily fluids present in this state?
Go figure it has to stay with the USPS, then again there is worse, way worse! Come to think of it, when I think about cremated remains I think I would rather have the USPS ship them. That’s on a federal level.
I haven't worked for a FH for many decades-when cremation wasn't popular. The thought crossed my mind about shipping cremated remains to families who've paid for direct cremation, but did not make arrangements for final dispo nor retrieve them after multiple attempts at contacting them. Otherwise, the burden is on the FH to make the decision to hand cremated remains over to medical examiner-coroner for disposition. Abandoned cremated remains is becoming commonplace & a headache for FH's. Shipping cremated remains to a residence without the family's knowledge would appear somewhat immoral & insensitive.
Cremating and burying my mothers ashes a couple years ago I was surprised they only bury 2-3 feet below the surface and not below the frost line. Is this due to not having to worry about a casket breaching or exploding? It seems it should be buried 6 feet down to prevent it lifting to the surface or being exposed in heavy rains or floods. Recently a lot of caskets were washed away off a hill after long rains caused mud slides after prolonged rains.
So Kari is this a law? Because I just packed up my dad's urn very securely and mailed it to Florida. No problem. I understand if there was a problem it might have gotten messy but... thanks for the information
@@KaritheMortician I mean that box is huge and I can't imagine someone not fitting in most urns. One temporary plastic container doesn't always hold a client.
My dog Rocky's AKA Rock-N-Roll's box had no signature.😡 I wasn't given a phone 📱 call, an E-mail 📩, or text!😡 So I had no idea he was coming & obviously had no tracking number for the package 📦!😡 I've always euthanized my pets at my regular vet & the crematory ALWAYS sent them to my vet & then notified me by phone 📱 when they were ready for me to pick up at the vets office. With Rocky the box they shipped him in did have an red sticker on ONE SIDE that said "remains". I can't believe they left the box on my front porch.😳 They didn't knock & didn't put it in a protective plastic bag (it was raining)! I was so upset 😭💔 about what could have happened & so glad my boy was back home 🏡 where he belonged. 💖 🤘
@@KaritheMortician Well then the vet & cremation facility I used did not 🚫 follow the rules then!😡 I'm just lucky 🍀 I have what's left of my boy's shell of a body. It's not much but, he'll be with me till I pass & then they can toss my pets in the casket (really want a coffin) when no one is looking.😁 💖 🤘
The last time I had one of my animals cremated was about this time last year. His name was Rocky AKA Rock-N-Roll 🌈💔🕊️. I was VERY upset that the vets office/cremation facility (it was a mobile vet not 🚫 our regular one) shipped my best friend though the mail & the person who delivered it did not knock! Just left him on my front porch! ANYONE could have taken the package!😱 The contents would be worthless to the person who stole it but, soul crushing for me if lost. It was also raining & the box got wet! They didn't even care to put it in a plastic bag.😡 From now on I will INSIST that my pet be delivered to the vet where I KNOW there will be someone there to receive them. 💖 🤘
@@KaritheMortician Even though I got him back it was hard thinking of what COULD have happened.😬 Just added stress to an already seemingly unbearable situation.💔😞 😡 🤘
I’ve delivered many of these boxes when I worked for the postal service.
Definitely gave a different feeling when I got these .
Definitely deliver with extra care. ❤
Thanks for sharing!
We used a few different companies and had keep sakes made from our son's ashes. They sent us packaging to ship the ashes to them. They also asked what to do with the ashes left over, one option was from them to scatter them, which we chose.
thank you
Thank you so much for doing this. I recently had my ex-husband's cremated remains sent to my son. He needed to be at his house to sign (he wasn't) and when he went to the post office he was a little surprised to see that the box was clearly marked as cremated remains. This information is important and you did a great job presenting it.
When my Mom came home, I just held her for about an hour just sobbing. It was so hard.
Absolutely
Ricky 👽 is fine with USPS and the level of care with cremation recieve and store in the corner closet.
A very hard moment
💔
Funny my sister and I were just discussing her sending me our grandfather. Impeccable coincidental timing.
Wow perfect!
I wish you would've posted this two days ago. I just looked this up yesterday. You did a much better job explaining it.
dang!
Very informative Kari thank you from ballarat in Oz,👏👏🙏🙏👍🇦🇺
Glad you enjoyed it!
Cremation or Aquamation are definitely my preference. No need to dump all those chemicals and money in the ground, but it wouldn’t matter to me since I’ll be dead. Funerals are more for the surviving family to have closure.
thank you
This is really good information! Many don’t realize shipping requirements of cremated remains. Thanks!
Glad it was helpful!
Wow….had no idea how complex this process is. I knew someone that mailed the parcel post once!!!!!
:)
Hey KARI. THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR VERY IMPORTANT INFORMATION As always every subject that you talk about and explain you are caring in the way you do it and making sure you have the correct information, when you do not know something you will say you are not sure then you try to find out anything you do not know. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WHAT YOU DO. I have learned so much from you. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Glad it was helpful!
Good info, thanks Kari!
You are so welcome!
When my sister’s cremains were shipped a person from the post office came in a car to deliver them, they were not delivered on the truck of our normal mail carrier. In my town they are personally delivered.
very interesting
Have a great day Kari! I appreciate the time you take to educate us. ❤
You are so welcome!
Thank you for educating us on this procedure. I have a repaid plan but my cremains are to be sent to my home church that has a burial chamber.
you are welcome
Thank you Kari, for informing us about sending cremated remains. As always,I appreciate how thorough you are in your explanations. Thank you for doing all you do to educate.😊
You are so welcome!
Thank you, you answered the question, I was just discussing about my remains. Love your channel
Glad it was helpful!
Great job as always! Learned something new thank to you! Blessings to you and yours‼️❤️
Thank you! You too!
When I used to work at a pet cemetery years ago we would ship the cremated remains UPS which was probably illegal lol.
years ago it was not monitored like it is now
Thank you Kari, very interesting. Have an awesome evening and stay warm!
Thank you! Will do!
When shipping humains in a temporary container when use the priority mail Express box which is just slightly bigger then temporary container. Is about half a pound less and with Express prices it can save you money and we have a roll of the cremated remain stickers. The post office offers two kits and one of them has bubble wrap in it so be sure to order the right when they're both free
thank you
I picked up my dad's cremated remains from the funeral home. The box was in a little plastic bag with the funeral home information on it.
They were in a heavy plastic bag that was folded over and tied shut with two heavy zip ties. It was put in a regular cardboard box that was taped up with plastic packing tape. No cremated remains information anywhere on it. It had a printed label that had his name, birth date and death date and that label was taped to the outside of the cardboard box. There was no paperwork of any kind with it. I brought it home with me in my truck and when I made arrangements with the cemetery sexton, I took the box up to the cemetery and they had dug a round hole in the burial space beside mommas casket. It looked like it was dug with a hand held post hole digger about two feet deep. I took the bag out of the box and removed the zip ties and poured the ashes into the hole and cut the label off the box and put it into the hole on top of the dust. My dad believed in the "dust to dust" scripture in the Bible and didn't want any waste or extra money spent to bury him. My question is, was the paperwork from the funeral home required for me to legally transport his remains from Iowa to Missouri and back? I was kind of on auto pilot on the way back home and threw the box and bag in a convenience store trash can when I stopped for gas and supper on the way home. Thank you for all the videos you have done. You are a blessing to me and many others I am sure.
was there paperwork inside the cardboard box under the plastic box?
@Kari the Mortician no. there was no plastic box, only a heavy plastic bag zip tied with two ties inside a cardboard box with clear plastic tape. no cremated remains information anywhere on the box. The box just had a printed label with his name and birth date and death date. no paperwork at all.
Hi beautiful, I’m living in Australia, my uncle passed away in Seattle ( a couple of years ago now) I organised trough the nursing home, they send his ashes back to Hungary where we from…they only able to send to a funeral home…❤️ they organised everything for me…
very nice
Nice video!!!😊
Thanks once again Kari for this interesting video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very informative. Thank you. Have a great evening.
Thanks, you too!
Am I the only one from a family with undertakers on both sides, and still have relatives that have a bunch of the temporary cremated remains boxes serving various functions around the house? lol these types of cremated remains containers currently hold my mail. I just now thought that might not be normal. lol
lol they are nice heavy duty boxes!
@@KaritheMortician Exactly! Also, almost all our buckets say "Viscerock - Dustless Filling Compound - Dodge Chemical". Also, a bunch of curved needles and suture that, again, is heavy-duty and good for repairing many things! I just repaired a couch cushion that my friends dog chewed open with it.
Thanks for sharing this Kari.
You are so welcome!
Thank you for this! I picked up a family members ashes and im sending them to another family member and I didn't know anything...
As always great video. Very informative.
Thanks again!
Thank u for such an informative video. Learned much.
Glad it was helpful!
That’s a pretty huge box for cremated remains. Ahhhh…now I can see why they give so much tape. In Hawaii when I used to work at a funeral home we had to out a copy of the death certificate I’m glad that our crematories use those thick plastic. Would your mortuaries there offer this service for families? I’m glad your doing these kind of videos. So helpful for people to listen too. Thank you.
thank you for sharing!
Completely new information for me.thanks
You are welcome
That is a better made more substantial box
We ship/receive books all the time with work.
Many come apart before they get here. 🙄
oh dang
This was good to know thanks for the information
Glad to help
Great video thank you - is there a way to ship a small amount? Just a tablespoon or even teaspoon would be fine.
Very informative video. Thanks.
Glad it was helpful!
Kari, what concerns me is not so much the part about having it shipped. It's whether the ashes are really from the deceased person or someone else.
It is rational to guess but you have to trust who you use. due diligence
Glad you cover this...my son has cremains of his grandparents and they need to be shipped out of state
perfect!
Very informative...thanks!!!
Glad it was helpful!
Scattering ashes any were is not good for environment, some countries in Europe it is illegal
yes true
Yep. My mom shipped him UPS.
Nice!
What if the package gets lost? What happens then?
Just like any package you can try to track it but some packages are never found
My mom had her dad in the attic for a while, these bags weaken over time but he died a few decades ago - I never met him. When we got him down, the bag failed all over the floor it was funny for about two seconds
oh no!
@@KaritheMortician it was very weird to me because I never met him so they were just cremains to me
What is the insurance value on sending cremated remains? Are these packages handled differently by the USPS? It would be interesting to see the background handling.
yes agreed
I'm wondering how to handle smaller amounts of cremated remains. We will be having a celebration of lives for my parents, and then I was hoping to allow their siblings (who live all over the country) to take small biodegradable urns (6 oz or less) home with them to plant or release. Is it better to pack it in their suitcase or ship them?
I work at DHL and they won't ship cremated remains. This seems like a lot of work to ensure the safety of the cremated remains, but it is doable. Thank you for sharing, Kari.
Thanks for the info!
Ms. Kari, If you're traveling by air with cremains do you have to package your love one in the same way, are you allowed bring the urn or container aboard the aircraft with you. If so would there be an extra fee if you wish to do so? I would want hold them not place them in the overhead if its allowed.
I will do a video on it!
@@KaritheMortician I thank you so much for any kind response you can share, you're so the best ☺
Is it legal to use these boxes to send other stuff? Because if there's one box nobody wants to steal or throw into the truck,, it would be one of these.
If the bag or urn opens grandpa gonna stick to tape lol, sorry I have a morbid sense of humor
lol yep they would
I live in Illinois, to my knowledge (I've never had remains sent to me or have had to send any so this is possibly just lack of knowledge on my part) we don't have to have anything detailing what is in the box like "Cremated Remains". We have 2 crematories in the town that I live in so I'm guessing we just go pick it up at the funeral home. With that said I can't account for in or out going Cremated Remains that would be shipped elsewhere. I guess what I am wondering is, is it required to prevent loss or to alert the USPS that it is Cremated Remains because some may not wish to carry and deliver because of the nature of the parcel? And even though it is Cremated Remains is it still considered BIO even though there is no bodily fluids present in this state?
This is every state and only legal way to ship them. It gives a higher importance to the package
Oh ok, that makes sense then. I just wasn't aware it was for all states. Thank you
Does this apply to remains that aren’t the full bunch? Example - if someone’s wish is to be scattered in multiple areas
Any amount of cremated remains
Go figure it has to stay with the USPS, then again there is worse, way worse! Come to think of it, when I think about cremated remains I think I would rather have the USPS ship them. That’s on a federal level.
:)
Hi, quick question. When I got my Dad's ashes they were not ground as fine as my Mom's a few years ago. (We used different funeral homes) Why is that?
depends on the person who processed them and they may have ran them in the cremulator longer
Can you put 2 urns in 1 box...
Need to ship these remains to another family mbr out of state
yes you can if they fit
Is this also done if you ship Jewelry with Cremated Remains in them?
Great question...you really should
Did you know that until 1913, you could actually send your baby through the mail? It's true!
Oh my goodness!! Now that is wild!
I haven't worked for a FH for many decades-when cremation wasn't popular. The thought crossed my mind about shipping cremated remains to families who've paid for direct cremation, but did not make arrangements for final dispo nor retrieve them after multiple attempts at contacting them. Otherwise, the burden is on the FH to make the decision to hand cremated remains over to medical examiner-coroner for disposition. Abandoned cremated remains is becoming commonplace & a headache for FH's. Shipping cremated remains to a residence without the family's knowledge would appear somewhat immoral & insensitive.
thank you
Cremating and burying my mothers ashes a couple years ago I was surprised they only bury 2-3 feet below the surface and not below the frost line. Is this due to not having to worry about a casket breaching or exploding? It seems it should be buried 6 feet down to prevent it lifting to the surface or being exposed in heavy rains or floods. Recently a lot of caskets were washed away off a hill after long rains caused mud slides after prolonged rains.
Yes they do not need to go as deep because animals will not dig for them
So Kari is this a law? Because I just packed up my dad's urn very securely and mailed it to Florida. No problem. I understand if there was a problem it might have gotten messy but... thanks for the information
Yes, this is the law and the only way to ship them
@@KaritheMortician woops..😳
This is awful to say, but my mom said, take the gold caps out of my mouth befor they cremate me. If that a thing??
It costs more to pay the dentist to come remove the gold than the gold costs
How does it work when you're traveling with cremated remains
I will do another video on that
@@KaritheMortician ok thanks
I actually know of someone, who has done this. The person was mailed to Georgia, from Pennsylvania.
thank you
If the loved one doesn't fit in that box.....
larger box and use cremated remains labels
@@KaritheMortician I mean that box is huge and I can't imagine someone not fitting in most urns. One temporary plastic container doesn't always hold a client.
Is that true also to animal remains
My dog Rocky's AKA Rock-N-Roll's box had no signature.😡
I wasn't given a phone 📱 call, an E-mail 📩, or text!😡
So I had no idea he was coming & obviously had no tracking number for the package 📦!😡
I've always euthanized my pets at my regular vet & the crematory ALWAYS sent them to my vet & then notified me by phone 📱 when they were ready for me to pick up at the vets office.
With Rocky the box they shipped him in did have an red sticker on ONE SIDE that said "remains".
I can't believe they left the box on my front porch.😳
They didn't knock & didn't put it in a protective plastic bag (it was raining)!
I was so upset 😭💔 about what could have happened & so glad my boy was back home 🏡 where he belonged.
💖
🤘
Yes
@@KaritheMortician Well then the vet & cremation facility I used did not 🚫 follow the rules then!😡
I'm just lucky 🍀 I have what's left of my boy's shell of a body.
It's not much but, he'll be with me till I pass & then they can toss my pets in the casket (really want a coffin) when no one is looking.😁
💖
🤘
i wonder how often ppl use this to ship drugs
Um....
Do animal cremated remains have to be shipped that way as well, or just human?
great question. all CR should be shipped this way
@@KaritheMortician good to know! Thanks!
Hello
hi!
@@KaritheMortician how are you
How much does the packaging kit cost?
it is free
The last time I had one of my animals cremated was about this time last year.
His name was Rocky AKA Rock-N-Roll 🌈💔🕊️.
I was VERY upset that the vets office/cremation facility (it was a mobile vet not 🚫 our regular one) shipped my best friend though the mail & the person who delivered it did not knock!
Just left him on my front porch!
ANYONE could have taken the package!😱
The contents would be worthless to the person who stole it but, soul crushing for me if lost.
It was also raining & the box got wet!
They didn't even care to put it in a plastic bag.😡
From now on I will INSIST that my pet be delivered to the vet where I KNOW there will be someone there to receive them.
💖
🤘
that would be hard
@@KaritheMortician Even though I got him back it was hard thinking of what COULD have happened.😬
Just added stress to an already seemingly unbearable situation.💔😞
😡
🤘
You have lovely hands. You happen to play piano?!?
i played for a while back in the day
My grandmother died a few weeks ago and We had her cremated and sent off in one of those special USPS boxes.
We think that's what killed her.
:)
USPS, the most unreliable of all shipping services. 😂🤣😂🤣
:)
Terrible presentation not sensitive !!!!! 😪
@anng320 There was NOTHING insensitive about it and Kari was very thorough on her presentation!! She didn’t have actual cremains. 🤦♀️
How would you propose it could have been more sensitive?
Will they add ashes in asphalt millings?⛷️
I have heard someone do this