"Men don't give a F*CK if women are funny OR smart" - FUNNY & SMART WOMAN REACTS TO WHATEVER PODCAST
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- Yes, I am funny AND smart and also a 5. BUT thats ok because that shows that hot men DO IN FACT care if you have a good personality and are funny, as evidenced by my 18 year relationship and 13 year marriage to a 10.
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“Mellow, calm, submissive, demure”, it’s giving…. Blow up doll.
My thought exactly! The one with the blue wig in a chair hahaha!
I just LOLed 😂😂😂
Them:"Women's expectations for men are too high"
Women:"I just want a guy who is nice to me and doesn't treat me like shit."
Also them:
"Men want women who just don't have a personality, be boring, don't funny, be quiet, don't talk at all, be submissive, just don't think for yourself at all, let me tell you how to think and also be hot and pretty but then again don't do that either. Women sleep around too much but also you're not worth my time if i dont get to f**k you on the first date."
"I'm not asking for that much."
😂
Yes and boring.
Men like him don’t actually like women, period, so of course it doesn’t matter to him if a woman’s smart, funny, attractive, etc.
Well said, and I would add that men like him don't think much of themselves, either.
Someone to take care of the home while he gets his “entertainment” from the guys, and then comes home to a warm hole.
Yep.
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You're right, Men like him are also uninterested if you have an orgasm or not so who cares what he actually wants. He's a complete fool. And to pretend that he speaks for all men? What an embarrassment!
My husband told me almost 10 years into our relationship that I'm one of the funniest people he knows and it's one of the biggest reasons he married me.
Are you sure he thinks that? Cuz according to this guy he is wrong lol.
Yeah, and I’m sure he told you that you look good in a dress that actually made you look fat.
Oh and my husband just piped up while listening to say “the ONLY dudes who think like this have no personality themselves” 🎯
We call ppl like you and your husband echo chambers .
I refuse to be a mindless woman, regardless of my relationship status. This is wild.
Say it again for the people in the back! 🙌🏼
NEVER! I got divorced I 2005. I was with him since I was 16-30 years old. I didn't even KNOW how to date! It took me a long time get over it. I'm 50 now and single! ❤
A smart, witty woman will call weak men on their shit and maybe even outshine them. That’s why they villainize them.
“I’d challenge you to a battle of wits, but I see that you are unarmed.”
~Shakespeare
😂😂😂😂 Right
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I have, on more than one occasion, pissed off a guy simply by having intelligence, humor and an unwillingness to cater to his ego. I just laugh at the bullet whizzing by my head that’s just been dodged. 😂
Absolutely 😂
If you are saying shit like you better be a 10 and he is a 4 on a good day
I love that there's one guy talking with 6 women and he's like "I know what MEN (i.e. all men) want. We don't CARE if you're funny."
Sir, you might change your tune if all these (funny and hot) women said what they're feeling at their core - "Yeeaahhh... we don't CARE what YOU want."
What I heard him say is: “I don’t want to deal with conflict and I don’t want to be challenged.” Qualities like strength, intelligence, and wit would likely be too much of a challenge for him, unfortunately.
PERFECTLY stated.
That host is giving incel… laughter, confidence, and mutual respect is the base of my thirteen year relationship with my husband.
He IS incel. Period. He is an apprentice of Andrew tate who actively believes we should subjugate women. It's disturbing that people can't pick he is an incel and watch him :/
Too bad “incel” was the most creative insult your whole 70 IQ points could come up with
Are any of them even married? This looks like a high school debate class, lol.
Ha! Exactly 😂😂😂
This was my question, are they married, in long term relationships? If not then I definitely wouldn't be taking advice from them. I also think these are immature views and as you age you have a better understanding of what's really important in a partner.
Seriously! Have people there who have been in long term healthy relationships or have been married for years. I bet the entire podcast would change instantly. 😂
The one in the yellow is married to an older man. She's said before that she does the "trad wife" life. But she's modern trad, not old school trad. These people don't understand the difference,
They want these things until someone with a personality comes around and bomb… they are cheating.
My bf and I have been together for 13 years. He has been listening to these podcasts for the last few years and has been trying so hard to get me to conform…we are basically on the way out. I WILL NOT become a puppet.
Oooomph I’m so sorry that’s not cool
Proud of you for standing up for yourself!
DUMP HIM
RUN
You know it’s over
Even the terms "high-value man" and "high-value woman" make my skin crawl. It's giving incel, tradwife, Andrew Tate, pickup-artist, eugenics. To all the young people out there, real people worth knowing would never describe someone as high-value. People are humans with nuance and character, not prize-winning livestock. It's just so gross. And even is this is just rage bait, the middle schoolers online absorbing this information aren't developed enough to realize that!
What’s wrong with being a trad wife?
Absolutely. It makes me sad and terrified for any young child that gets manipulated into this way of thinking.
The livestock part though!!!!
How many women actually wants this guy??? Seriously, good luck to him and his future spouse. He wants that kind of person for a reason. Has controlling vibes written all over it.
Love you Kristi ❤❤❤
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This this this
I hope that no one's daughter has to endure being with him.
To go down to his level, but also say what no one would say aloud - I would not want that guy with his pasty tiny little hands. (I said what I said) 😁😁😁
I’d take 20 cats over him any day.
His perfect woman is sitting at the table with the blue hair 😂
Also. Wanting someone “Boring” tells me “I’m too insecure to have a girl with a personality that is attractive to other men I feel I need to compete with” 🙄
I was dating a man like this for 10 years and he was RUINING MY LIFE. I moved across the country to be with him and slowly but surely he started to control everything about me. I started drinking to cope and had many near death experiences. It took everything I had (and my supportive younger sister who reminded me about feminism and misogyny...called my situation what it was) to fight my way back to myself and leave this man. Yes, he wanted me demure, quiet, boring, calm, submissive. If I ever showed signs that I was anything else he made sure I knew that it turned him off. I had been a writer my whole life and for the 10 years I was with him I stopped writing almost completely, stopped painting, stopped drawing, barely read any books (my favorite past time). Now that I've left him I am currently publishing my first book of poetry...MY LIFE'S DREAM. I feel fully realized and independent...HAPPY. It makes me SO SAD and ANGRY, full of rage even, that the "pendulum" is swinging this direction AT ALL for Gen Z. It is NOT "click bait," it is not "funny," it is not "just for views"....IT IS DANGEROUS FOR WOMEN. This type of podcast makes me so f-ing sick. If even ONE WOMAN takes this seriously and begins to modify her behavior IT IS TOO MANY.
yeah fuck that guy. I hope he's happy with his new wife, WoW Classic
@@echasketchers2092 hahaha, riiiight? 🤣
I 100% agree. It's so dangerous for men to think this way and will create abusive partners. No matter if it's clickbait or not, the men who view this content agree with him and it's scary as hell.
Being an 18-year-old currently who is on the internet, this "genre" of podcast invades my timeline and just fills me with a sense of existential dread that I cannot begin to describe. It makes me so depressed that dating has come down to a matter of who has money and who has beauty and youth, that we cannot even sit down to form any sort of connection with a person without this toxic misogynistic nonsense in the back of our minds.
It's all for likes and reactions. None of this is real life. Rest assured knowing the world is full of pick me women and men know that. You'll be okay. ❤
Let's not conveniently leave out the toxic feminism. They are both fueled by one another.
Ugh. I'm so sorry they're making you feel this way. This is NOT reality. I promise you. This is not at all how human interaction works.
Take it from your older internet sister(me lol). This is NOT new. Are there great men out there? Of course. They are in the minority. Never forget that. The only difference between this podcast host and our grandfathers’ generation is our generation has the internet and podcasts where you can now get a peak into a man’s unbridled mind. Most men want what he is saying. NEVER let men tell you otherwise. That is how you get trapped young and waste YEARS of your life. Most men don’t think of women as people. You are a mother, housekeeper, s** worker, and cheerleader. That’s all. The more you expose yourself to these kind of men via the internet the more likely you are to not get trapped. I think of it as shock therapy lol. Painful but necessary. Take care out there ❤
Take it from your older internet sister(me lol). This is MOST men. Are there some great men out there? Of course but they are in the MINORITY. Never forget that. The only difference between this podcast host and our grandfathers is the internet is now giving women an unbridled view into most men’s minds. Most men do not look at women as people. You are a mother, housekeeper, personal chef, s** worker and cheerleader and that’s it. You don’t have thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams. I understand that is hard to hear but it is better for you to know this now rather than learning this later while you are TRAPPED with the wrong man and god forbid a child in that sort of relationship. I think of these men as shock therapy lol. Painful but necessary. Stay safe out there ❤
Imagine being the woman in his life and he says “I like boring chicks” lol
It’s because he lacks substance.
Lmfaooo right? Like fuckin thanks lol
A healthy relationship consists of being submissive to each other, as in being able to listen to the other person, and how they feel what their desires are. I truly believe compromise is so healthy in a relationship, not just the woman submitting to the man. I also believe, that grace, compassion, patience, and a willingness to listen are also so important. What I don’t like is the feeling that it’s just the women having to submit, when in reality, it really needs to be a mutual respect for each other
Youre reading his opinion as "we dont care if youre funny or smart" and not "we dont care if youre funny or smart, we still love you". Women dont NEED to be funny or smart they just need to act feminine etc.
A lot of guys are like that now. A lot of guys want foreign women because they find them more convenient.
The thing is, men like that say they want a boring demure calm woman, then fall for or go after the firecracker that lights up the room, then if he doesnt get her is bitter, and if he does, he makes it his mission to tear her spirit apart piece by piece.
100%
Even if they are doing this for clicks and views and don’t believe what they are saying, they’re still putting that energy out, you know? A good man who is a feminist and respects women wouldn’t even think of doing something like this even as a joke or for clickbait
Honestly we need to stop letting a small group of people with extreme opinions to speak for an entire group of people. It’s very harmful tbh because then young girls and boys think they need to be a certain way even though there is a wide range of people with a wide range of opinions and likes/dislikes and if you’re not actually crazy you’ll find someone who will love you for ALL of you
PREACH!
Agreed! I don’t think the majority of people have these extreme opinions. They just get all the views and attention because they say extreme over the top opinions.
Yes. Agreed. But the more I’m exposed to this, the more I’m concerned for women today but mostly future generations. I’m not a mom, nor do I want to be, but I care soooo deeply about women and men also and how their futures may be skewed. It scares me. I’m 40 and I simply am not affected by this. But I feel commrodery with all women and I hate to think about any that have been brainwashed or gaslit etc
Woah. As I keep listening I sorta wanna puke
People are allowed to think what they like. You aren't allowed to dictate what others think or feel. That's why parents are responsible for raising smart children who know what is right and wrong.
the only thing that whole "men are the funny ones" portion just told me was that while women are actually looking for a sense of humor, men are looking for a woman to validate how funny they are
I'm 40 and single by choice since 2018. After 12 year relationship I started seeing someone for about 2 years, and it was terrible. I tried dating again and it was absolutely awful and I just can't take part in it. I'm so much happier single than dealing with what's out there.
I have no experience in dating, what it is that you think is wrong with it or that you wish that would be better? Asking just out of curiosity🙂
I just remembered... once this guy I went on a first date with, said to me, listen... I like you so mich, but I never pictured myself with a single mom in my life. He alrealdy knew I was a single mom before we went on a date. I responded to him, that was awesome and I'm relieved, because I would never date a man who thinks and feels that way. I wish everyone all the best, may we all find what we are looking for ❤
I see Kristi and I clicky
Same lmao
Omg love this and same 😂
Same.
samie
Literally
Just started, but here's advice from a woman who's been married for 27 years. My husband likes that I'm funny. You know why? Because he's not an insecure, weak minded little man boy who needs approval from other men. I'll be back again at the end.
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Amen sister…25 hears here and we crack each other up…if you don’t have someone you can laugh with you are screwed
What’s insecure about bravely voicing your preferences even though you know outraged women will pile on you?
What?! Laughter is the key to a great relationship. We've been together for 24 years and we laugh ALLthe time. My husband thinks I hysterical!
Love that you tackled this topic! Great video!
As a 30 year old on the dating scene…I’m scared to watch this 😂
Edit: I’ll stay single if the options are men like this jerk
Same 😅🥴 I got out of a relationship 7 months ago.
I’m currently taking my time getting back on the dating scene bc of this bs right here. I’m scared!!
Same!!!
I found my gem of a man at 32 (am now 43).... Don't give up! I will say that he's a "library kid" so you might have to figure out a way to meet introverts!
@@pcla.94 omg same! 5 months out of a relationship plus engagement. Stll healing so I'm not interested in dating (yet?), but this shit scares me! D:
Right??? 34, single and dudes like that are why I'm not sure if I'm ready to mingle 😬
As a 51-year-old in a 30-year-long relationship, I find this absolutely alarming. You need to find a partner who loves you for you (warts and all). If you are pretending to be someone or something you are not truly deep down, the relationship will be built on lies and doomed to fail.
Almost exactly the same situation here. I can't fathom being with someone who didn't want me to be on their level. A big part of the fun in our relationship is witty banter. Another big part is talking about life and philosophical stuff. If either of us weren't on the other's level, it would just feel like teacher/student all the time, and neither role is good for what should be a partnership.
While I was listening, my husband repeatedly said he hates that guy and that he's a big "toolio" LOL
Love this vid Kristi, really helpful to hear your perspective!
I'm hilarious. I will never dumb myself down.
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The traits that man is saying he wants = ZERO conflict. He wants someone who will never show real emotions and never share differing opinions, because he probably can’t tolerate his own negative or difficult emotions and doesn’t know how to regulate himself if he encounters real emotions. I would assume he grew up with very little emotional intelligence in his household.
You hit the nail on the head with this one. That guy is a joke
Love this kind of commentary content Kristie!❤❤❤
I love you Kristi! I love how beautifully you communicate thoughts and emotions. You think through issues from so many sides and bring so many viewpoints to the table. I’m not a makeup girl, so I’m fairly new to your channel and I love when you come on and chat with us!
Dude wants the human equivalent of plain turkey sandwich, no condiments, hold the bread, and a thigh gap. I swear these dating podcasts are all be hosted by that guy who brought a date to prom, but you’d never know it because he ignored them the whole time.
This guy isn’t speaking for anyone he is literally just exposing his own insecurities 😂
Seriously he gives off the air of needing to be the most interesting person in the room hence his preference
He absolutely told on himself.
It’s called having standards hun. It’s easy to imagine any man who deals with you doesn’t have any of those tho.
So well said Kristi, I totally agree. 🙌🏻
Had she said “because I’m hot” they would have told her she’s conceited.
He wants a “boring chick” because he probably lacks the personality to keep someone who does have a sense of humor or whatever is “low on the totem pole” interested long enough to even go on a date.
My gosh my brain cells died listening to them speak 😂
On my lunch break and lost my last brain cell watching this 😂😂😂
Well said Kristi ! BRAVO to you !❤
Love your comentary on this, it was on POINT and funny❤
As an old woman, hearing these young ones is so disturbing…
Hey, don’t put this type of thinking onto the “young ones” - this way of thinking has been around for centuries…I’m sad we can’t seem to shake it off from previous generations.
He won’t let any of those girls finish a single thought. Like he’s just coming in and shutting them down when they’re saying something smart and wanting to have an intellectual conversation. That’s also a major red flag.
All he really did was repeatedly ask if women think men want them to be funny. Over and over again. He could not get past that one offhand comment. Pretty pathetic tbh
this content is gold Kristi! love it
Totally agree 🤌that’s what I love about you, Kristi, that raw genuine energy 💜
They say they want a boring woman until they're with her for a few years then suddenly, they want spice they want fun they want a woman who can make them laugh. It's total BS. And I'm sorry to any girl that actually dates a boy like that.
then they cheat & blame the woman lol
@@MSheaBaby exactly!!
Check back with this dude in 12 years when he’s finally been dumped by the one who got away and he changes his mind 180 degrees on what makes an amazing woman
Unfortunately he’d probably just double down on his disdain for women as a whole
There’s a reason he’s like this and it’s partially due to INSANE insecurity. Everything he speaks is dripping w insecurity. I bet he’s been bullied and rejected a lot and turned into an angry sad man who bullies back
I'm thinking more along the lines, he'll end up realizing he's probably going to be single for the rest of his miserable life because he was like this while trying to date.
I love this content from you… love to see your reactions and opinions to these kinds of podcasts!!
SING QUEEN!! love this new content from you! I can see your light back. You know I'm here for life!!
I would love for some REAL MEN to guest on that podcast to give women some hope out there. Nothing sexier than a man with wisdom!
They’ve had men as guests
I think the reality is that the young women now are so entitled. They think they are entitled to a man who makes 150k+++ is 6ft tall and will pay all house bills.
It’s very different from years ago when women believed in more equal arrangements.
He has men on the show all the time. He’s had liberal men, who believe their victims in every aspect of the world and he’s had conservative men who think sex work devalues women. Maybe if you watched the show you’d see that (but it’s clear you don’t since your comment makes no sense, seeing how he regularly has men on the show).
@@kehenschenI can clearly see who side you're on.
@@plumdutchess I’m not hiding the fact that I’m conservative, but nice attempt at a comeback 😂
It's unfortunate that ANYONE can start a podcast now.
Nah. We should all have an opinion. And we should all be able to use discernment. Wrong think is the beginning of the end of all societies
@@garbagegirlglam8783 that’s assuming that people don’t start podcasts just to rage bait others which happens A LOT, simply for views and clicks. Think of how many people have been negatively affected by the likes of Andrew Tate. People drinking the koolaid and Andrew Tate doesn’t even believe half the things he says.
I think it’s more so unfortunate that the most incel podcasts get the most attention lol
My thoughts. In this case - crap wrapped in one fancy word podcast - empty talking.
Kristi, I love and value your point of view and everything you have to say. The direction your content is taking is wonderful. Please keep doing whatever comes to your mind because it’s gold. ❤
Please make more of these videos! I love them!
There is a new category of podcasts like Whatever or Fresh and Fit that are primarily watched by men who hate women. It's really sad, yet kind of fascinating.
The women who prop them up are infinitely more fascinating to me
Love both these comments. I treat these podcasts as opportunities to learn about sociology/psychology/anthropology/how to not choose a guy that might murder me on our first date. This shit is wild. But also 1950 was not that long ago…
Btw Kristi, you're a 10. You're kind, compassionate, empathetic and tell your truth. You actually said you like America which i know sounds like a weird thing to say, but that right there shows that you have integrity in yourself and tell the truth. You're very very smart, very compassionate and kind and i can tell. Your husband and son are infatuated with them because you're the sun in their world. And you're freaking gorgeous, so yes you're a 10! TEN!!
I couldn’t agree more!
This is exactly why women can be terrible friends. You don't tell the truth. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being average looking. I happen to think Kristi is an amazing person, but a 10, no. And you're doing all women a disservice by lying like this. You're the typical 'women are all powerful and men are nothing,' kind of person.
I’ve enjoyed your content for years, always loved your voice, and like hearing your opinions. I’m so here for more commentary vids!
I love these commentary style videos from you Kristi. You’re looking great 💗
You know why we shouldn't take this podcast guy seriously... "because you're not my real dad" there, i said it
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LMAO!!!!
Best comment!
The reason is that he’s incredibly insecure and built his personality and ideas based on being rejected and bullied in school. That’s it. As a nerdy girl who was in a friend group with boys like this, I can read guys like this like a book. He chose to take his history of bullying and use it against others instead of accepting it and learning a lesson.
I think this is what he meant "Men [WHO ARE NOT FUNNY OR SMART] don't give a F*CK if women are funny OR smart" ooops, he left a little detail out :D
I genuinely love the way you speak Kristi and the points you hit. I couldn’t agree more with what you said.
Your reactions were so fun to watch in this😆 thanks girlieeee
when you said 18 years, i was gagged. gooped. snatched. holy shit. can you imagine being in a relationship for 18 years and looking so damn young
They are young 😭 they met when they were kids lol
I wanna say they were like 15 when they started dating? There are adorable pictures of them as little scene kid mall goth teenagers 🥺 I'm pretty sure Kristi is in her early to mid 30s.
@@table4glasses MALL GOTH KRISTI MALL GOTH KRISTI MALL GOTH KRISTI !!!! !!!
that guy is 40 going on 16, can't stand him
I love your brain Kristi. Thank god for your commentary 👏
This is why I freaking love you and you just said everything I've been thinking and I cannot wait to make my own videos on this I have I just got my camera
I didn’t know he represented all men
HAHAHAA!!!
My gut is telling me that this is one of those “rage baiting” things. That these convos are designed to make people angry and talk about them. But then I worry that I’m wrong.
You aren’t. That’s exactly what it is
It is but a lot of young boys are watching it and taking it to heart. The number of teenage boys complaining about “high value” women and gold diggers is embarrassing. Honey, you get an allowance. Be quiet.
Fun to listen to your thought! Also love how much you love your hubby!!
I LOVE your commentary videos!!!🤩
Omggggg dating is not that difficult. You like me or you don't. You appreciate my qualities or you don't. That's it, really.
Oh no, Kristi found the red pill manosphere rabbit hole 😆
This content is everything. I agree 100%
I LOVE this video and your outlook! I've heard some of the bullshit spewed on that podcast & asked the men in my life also, and they didn't agree with it either. Like you said, he can think how he wants, but i hate that he speaks for all men.
I’m in my 20’s and have lots of dating experiences and have literally had so many men compliment how funny they think I am (unprovoked) and how they like me because of it……he’s tripping lol
I'm in my 30s and just had a guy tell me on a date the other day that he thought I was pretty from the start but what reeled him in was the way my face lights up when I talk about music. Men absolutely can (and should!) appreciate our humor and passions and personality.
I attracted a lot of guys bc I’m funny and lively,because it makes the atmosphere relaxed and lets a man know they can have fun too. It also adds to me being my husbands favorite person. A lady on Reddit asked this question if men like funny women and one man jokingly said “ no, I hate laughing”. These podcast bros are ruining young men/boys
Never heard of this podcast. Based on just this clip you played I don’t need to hear anything else from those people for the rest of my life. I’m all set
I love your raw opinion on literally everything. You da best
I would love to hear more of your thoughts on internet topics. Do more of these videos!
What has always got me about that podcast is that the other side of the table is typically much younger women. I know the conversation would be completely different if there were older women there who challenged their ideas.
But yeah, that's all according to plan. It is rage-bait. I do still worry about the ripple effect it can have.
Upon looking further into these podcasts, I think they purposely get sex workers from OF to join these podcasts. These girls do it for exposure, also I feel like it is easy for their audience to dismiss their opinion because misogyny.
My stepdad listens to this podcast in the living room on max volume, in front of my mom. I started searching Drew Afualo on their RUclips so it would recommend her vids and I told her to play her vids on max volume from now on. My stepdad sucks btw lol.
So instead of asking him to wear headphones, or just having a rational conversation with him about the podcast, you are trying to destroy your mother’s marriage?
@@dr.philmcbill3931 my mom’s marriage was destroyed a long time ago. He is an awful person and it’s hard to watch. She doesn’t stand up for herself. We have all talked to him about it, he doesn’t care and continues to preach that women are made to please men. So, this was to give my mom a little bit of a win in her own home. Plus, she likes Drew! So that’s a plus. 😊
Immediate rage when those clips played. I've watched your channel for years and loved your commentary.
They are rage bait, it gets clicks and we all fall for it!
Kristy I’ve been loving the impromptu-feeling filming style. I love hearing your thoughts at a time like this when everyone is afraid to share and hiding behind the opinions of those with bigger platforms. Thanks for continuing to be a critical thinker and posting it on your platform!
This podcast makes me so thankful that I'm happily married. Holy shit.
I have been in a relationship for two years with my best friend of seven years. He wouldn’t be my best friend nor my boyfriend if he didn’t appreciate my being funny, outspoken, and assertive. He has helped me be more understanding and I have helped him become more assertive. We both brought our personal traits to the table and that enriched us both as individuals and as a couple. A man who is afraid of a woman’s strength is a man not worth the time nor the effort.
Thank you for this video.
This is such a weird, archaic, transactional way to view relationships. Who would want to date someone who’s not funny?? I understand caring about “what people bring to the table” bc I don’t wanna be with someone who’s broke and doesn’t try and expects me to take care of them. But it’s not about money. It’s about effort. Human connection. I’m HEATED listening to these people talk about women like they’re cattle being sold
Kristi, thank you for speaking up! These people on that podcast are kids...and it's sad because they're trying to teach other kids they're sick toxic views. The young lady in the white top who knows her value--high five to her.
This video was so needed and helpful. Even if just a few younger-skewing people stumble upon your video and it shifts and corrects their perspective, then that’s a good thing. We need videos like this to exist on the platform to provide counterpoints to podcasts like that.
That said, your relationship of 18 years is indeed incredible and impressive. It would be great to see a video where you detail your relationship ship journey, how you met, how things evolved and developed, the bumps in the road along the way, how you got through major challenges… I’d love to see photos of y’all from your earliest days, it would be so inspiring to see them versus now. You’ve made so many honest and blunt videos about the realities of childbirth, raising a child, mental health, “what men want versus women”… so it would be nice to have a video out there that speaks honestly about a successful long-term relationship, especially with all the garbage out there these days that is affecting the minds of young men who stumble upon that content.
Obviously this is all just a suggestion if you’re comfortable with sharing these things. Totally get it if you’re not. ❤
Kristi, I love you!!! Been watching for what must be a decade now. I totally get your points in this video!!! The hosts did a terrible job articulating their values. This makes me wonder if you and I would agree on most things. Super interesting take, keep these coming!
Have you seen the video of the two people on a podcast where the guy says something along the lines of "a woman should weigh 2/3 or less than their boyfriend so he can feel like he can kill her" and the other host, a woman, just has to blink passively at him while he's spewing that garbage?? It turned my stomach, truly
That’s terrifying and disgusting!
I've actually seen guys commenting this on Instagram now I know where it came from, absolutely disgusting
It is mind-blowing that men can say sick and twisted shit like that online and get praise for it.
WHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAATTTT link please
@@mo_nicole if I can find it again, I'll definitely link it. It was in a Facebook group I'm in, but I didn't save it!
KRISTI you are a SOLID 1️⃣0️⃣ baby girl! 😊❤ And that’s facts! and yes a good man wants a great personality and humor in their partner, absolutely great video!
Stop lying. This movement to tell all women they are 10's, is tiresome. I'm a 7 on a good day, are you saying there is something wrong with being average? Or is this where you try to tell me i can date someone like Brad Pitt, or a billionaire?
Naw my dear. She’s a solid 5 like said. This rating is just based on looks . But her personality absolutely makes up for it.
Humor and intelligence are what make a long (or any) relationship worthwhile. I've also watched you Kristi because you embody both! Also, I've been with my very funny(like pee your pants funny), wildly intelligent husband for 20 years and I still love being with him in every way. I hope younger people understand how important things like intelligence & humor are.
Exactly girl I couldn't agree more ❤
What a great topic choice! I always love your "controversial" takes, so im buckled in and ready 😎
he dont want women, partner or lover. he wants someone to boss around.
As someone who struggles with self-worth in general, thank you for speaking out about this. ❤
Everything you said!!!❤❤❤
Hell. Yes. I would LOOOOVE to see more of your reactions and breakdowns of podcast bits (especially male podcasters) on the internet.
The only reason my husband and I survived 2022 was because I had some brains when he got let go🤨 and back when, when we were dating, intelligent was on both of our lists