Simon was DIABOLICAL! Triggering the FL's trauma and impregnating her against her will just for a reaction is INSANE! With all the money and resources he had available to him, that's what he came up with to try to get "Closer" to his wife!?!? It wasn't about love or getting her attention, he just wanted to control her and bring her to her knees.
another stupid ML. he knew FL's past and yet he deliberately brought in the very trauma responsible for her emotional distance. from the start FL was very clear with ML, he agreed to their situation, yet he rubbed salt to injury again and again.
We are all missing the point they had an understanding that the male lead violated, Simon had said he didn't want children because of Sophia considering her past FL agreed it naturally made sense. Problems started when he went back on his word, the sex was there, the r/ship was moving until he let so many things get between them and thought his wife was understanding not know he gave her a reason to emphasize the rift between them
Tbh i don't think so she ever aborted the child if he doesn't cheat okk he doesn't kiss or sleep with her step sister but he knows she hate her , still without reason he treats her like his wife even she is his wife's step evil sister........ He never deserve FL bec people who put salt on your wounds without any hesitation are enemy he never loves her all is he just miss the perfect house she made where he doesn't need to take any responsibility
So basically this whole story was due to generational trauma form FL's father. Husband was was just as bad but honestly, the marriage was doomed from the start and was never going to end differently. FL didn't want to find someone she could emotionally open up to and heal with due to trauma so the marriage lacked trust and warmth. Instead, she looked for someone she knew she would never fall in love with so she'd never be hurt like her mum. Of course you'd feel that your spouse doesn't really love you. She didn't let the adopted daughter call her mum because she never wanted to call another woman mum and assumed it must be the same for all step-children so her relationship with the step-daughter was never loving either.
Watched a lot of C drama got tired moved on to these short stories.there all the same tire .of cheating idiotic spouses first love,brazen mistresses ,abortion ,terminal illness and the spouses .doesn’t know until death happen phew…… my brain needs a break.but it’s good entertainment enjoyed it all
FL was traumatised from childhood and didn't address that in proper way. Her mother shouldn't force her to marry before she healed herself and be ready for any healthy, normal relationship. Her mother plagued her dother's life, too. She left her with father and she probably knew she was abused but didn't save her from that family but rised a stepdaughter instead. And then she had an audacity to emotionally blackmail her into marriage. Yet FL still trusted her and seeked asylum with her. Obviously mother also did her quite a lot of harm, not only her step family. A really hard burden and she actually wasn't aware to which extent she was broken.. And then she married a man, who expected from her to give love while she had no love inside her. Using stupid means like bringing her nemessis between them. What kind of logic is that? Toxic one, ye. It was better for all of them to never meet again and for FL to stay single unless she would solve her mental problems.
The FL is a horrible person. As she tells her mom, she intentionally shared some vulnerability with the ML while keeping a distance, to draw him in, keep his attention, and make him think he had a chance at gaining her full trust and love. He was smart enough to realize what she was doing after 6 yrs, and tried to use a baby and revenge to trap her. The ML is toxic too, trying to use a child and revenge against the vile dad and skank to keep her. He should have just divorced her and she should never have an actual relationship, but stick with a male mistress/sex worker.
The FL is so consumed with her trauma. The ML only responded that way bcoz his wife was cold as statue. It's not normal for a wife. She should not have married in the first place. Imagine she didn't want to sleep with. He had to resort to trickery. She wanted a loveless marriage and he wanted a normal family life. The FL either had to see a shrink or live single all her life.
True! FL had serious traumas from childhood and she shouldn't enter any relationship before she would solve that. With help of therapy or self healing by learning to love herself first. We can't give others what we don't have inside us. ML simply expected too much from her, wanted something she wasn't able to give. Forcing to marry is beyond what should parents do if they love their children. And this case was so very ucalled for, her mother should know better.
@@zdem8259I think the Fl loved herself , she just didn’t love her husband. She never truly opened her heart to her husband and step daughter due to her past.
@@dolphinkz85 As she confined all her feelings and tried to live like sort of zombie, she definitelly didn't love herself. Being on defense all the time, rejecting closeness and not wanting to talk about it - that isn't sign of mature and happy perrson. She was all in wounds that weren't healed and wherever she was aproached it would hurt like returning to hell. Consequently that's why she couldn't love anybody else because the love we give comes from inside us. You can't give what you don't have, simple as that.
@@zdem8259 some people just aren’t affectionate by nature. There are many ways to show love , for some it’s affection. others it’s spending time with that person and others it’s gift buying. She loved herself. She just didn’t want to take a chance to open her heart to her husband because of what her mother and herself went thought in the past. What her husband did, she was right not open herself to him. The fl husband didn’t communicate his feelings , he just played the victim and lashed out at her, plus tried to control her.
Okay Simon was jerk but FL isn't Saint either, not letting your husband touch you because you want to live in loveless marriage then why don't you tell your partner beforehand!? You are deciding for both of you without consent of others, how is it not toxic!? Using someone for your own insecurities. Simon should have divorced her instead of cheating on her but his actions don't need excuses. If your physical needs aren't fulfilled, just leave the marriage instead of disrespecting your marriage and partner. Same goes to FL too. She's toxic and ML is jerk.
Simon was DIABOLICAL! Triggering the FL's trauma and impregnating her against her will just for a reaction is INSANE! With all the money and resources he had available to him, that's what he came up with to try to get "Closer" to his wife!?!? It wasn't about love or getting her attention, he just wanted to control her and bring her to her knees.
True; it makes me ashamed that he is even a man or a human being like us.
Yeah he is kind of disgusting guy
another stupid ML. he knew FL's past and yet he deliberately brought in the very trauma responsible for her emotional distance. from the start FL was very clear with ML, he agreed to their situation, yet he rubbed salt to injury again and again.
We are all missing the point they had an understanding that the male lead violated, Simon had said he didn't want children because of Sophia considering her past FL agreed it naturally made sense.
Problems started when he went back on his word, the sex was there, the r/ship was moving until he let so many things get between them and thought his wife was understanding not know he gave her a reason to emphasize the rift between them
Tbh i don't think so she ever aborted the child if he doesn't cheat okk he doesn't kiss or sleep with her step sister but he knows she hate her , still without reason he treats her like his wife even she is his wife's step evil sister........
He never deserve FL bec people who put salt on your wounds without any hesitation are enemy he never loves her all is he just miss the perfect house she made where he doesn't need to take any responsibility
Frankly can’t understand the separation or the abortion these women are evil to abort just because they are separated that’s nonsense
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So basically this whole story was due to generational trauma form FL's father. Husband was was just as bad but honestly, the marriage was doomed from the start and was never going to end differently. FL didn't want to find someone she could emotionally open up to and heal with due to trauma so the marriage lacked trust and warmth. Instead, she looked for someone she knew she would never fall in love with so she'd never be hurt like her mum. Of course you'd feel that your spouse doesn't really love you. She didn't let the adopted daughter call her mum because she never wanted to call another woman mum and assumed it must be the same for all step-children so her relationship with the step-daughter was never loving either.
She never gave the relationship a chance. He used Joana to get a reaction out of her. She let her parents relationship dictate her future.
Once again really love the dual POV, I just wish they would have different AI voices so we can tell the difference
Watched a lot of C drama got tired moved on to these short stories.there all the same tire .of cheating idiotic spouses first love,brazen mistresses ,abortion ,terminal illness and the spouses .doesn’t know until death happen phew…… my brain needs a break.but it’s good entertainment enjoyed it all
This one felt very sad. So much dysfunction.
FL was traumatised from childhood and didn't address that in proper way. Her mother shouldn't force her to marry before she healed herself and be ready for any healthy, normal relationship. Her mother plagued her dother's life, too. She left her with father and she probably knew she was abused but didn't save her from that family but rised a stepdaughter instead. And then she had an audacity to emotionally blackmail her into marriage. Yet FL still trusted her and seeked asylum with her. Obviously mother also did her quite a lot of harm, not only her step family. A really hard burden and she actually wasn't aware to which extent she was broken.. And then she married a man, who expected from her to give love while she had no love inside her. Using stupid means like bringing her nemessis between them. What kind of logic is that? Toxic one, ye. It was better for all of them to never meet again and for FL to stay single unless she would solve her mental problems.
The FL is a horrible person. As she tells her mom, she intentionally shared some vulnerability with the ML while keeping a distance, to draw him in, keep his attention, and make him think he had a chance at gaining her full trust and love. He was smart enough to realize what she was doing after 6 yrs, and tried to use a baby and revenge to trap her. The ML is toxic too, trying to use a child and revenge against the vile dad and skank to keep her. He should have just divorced her and she should never have an actual relationship, but stick with a male mistress/sex worker.
The FL is so consumed with her trauma. The ML only responded that way bcoz his wife was cold as statue. It's not normal for a wife. She should not have married in the first place. Imagine she didn't want to sleep with. He had to resort to trickery. She wanted a loveless marriage and he wanted a normal family life. The FL either had to see a shrink or live single all her life.
Yep. Even with the FL mother going to die, marriage should never drag people into her problem
True! FL had serious traumas from childhood and she shouldn't enter any relationship before she would solve that. With help of therapy or self healing by learning to love herself first. We can't give others what we don't have inside us. ML simply expected too much from her, wanted something she wasn't able to give. Forcing to marry is beyond what should parents do if they love their children. And this case was so very ucalled for, her mother should know better.
@@zdem8259I think the Fl loved herself , she just didn’t love her husband. She never truly opened her heart to her husband and step daughter due to her past.
@@dolphinkz85 As she confined all her feelings and tried to live like sort of zombie, she definitelly didn't love herself. Being on defense all the time, rejecting closeness and not wanting to talk about it - that isn't sign of mature and happy perrson. She was all in wounds that weren't healed and wherever she was aproached it would hurt like returning to hell. Consequently that's why she couldn't love anybody else because the love we give comes from inside us. You can't give what you don't have, simple as that.
@@zdem8259 some people just aren’t affectionate by nature. There are many ways to show love , for some it’s affection. others it’s spending time with that person and others it’s gift buying. She loved herself. She just didn’t want to take a chance to open her heart to her husband because of what her mother and herself went thought in the past. What her husband did, she was right not open herself to him. The fl husband didn’t communicate his feelings , he just played the victim and lashed out at her, plus tried to control her.
Okay Simon was jerk but FL isn't Saint either, not letting your husband touch you because you want to live in loveless marriage then why don't you tell your partner beforehand!? You are deciding for both of you without consent of others, how is it not toxic!? Using someone for your own insecurities. Simon should have divorced her instead of cheating on her but his actions don't need excuses. If your physical needs aren't fulfilled, just leave the marriage instead of disrespecting your marriage and partner. Same goes to FL too. She's toxic and ML is jerk.
You misheard. They were physical. She didnt like deep kisses and she didnt want to get pregnant but outside of that they were intimate.
He did not want kids he protected the other kid. Simon was an ass
They had sex regularly and often, the FL just didn't let him kiss her passionately.
So… its ok to not kiss after 6 years😅
@@azwarriorm2617She said "deep kisses". And deep kisses are not a thing in Asian countries either.