🔴 The REAL REASON Why Independent Women Fail To Keep A Man 😫😫😫

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  • The REAL REASON Why Independent Women Fail To Keep A Man 😫😫😫

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  • @LiveLeveLeviL
    @LiveLeveLeviL Год назад +74

    “How come the men who meet your standards aren’t seeking you out?” -The Million Dollar Modern Wmn Question

    • @earlhampton1313
      @earlhampton1313 Год назад +2

      Facts

    • @inyourkitchenwithchefmike7652
      @inyourkitchenwithchefmike7652 Год назад +3

      Cook!!!

    • @diamondmaker425
      @diamondmaker425 Год назад +5

      That is something that they dont realize. And unfortunately Black women fall prey more than any other race. It's really sad

    • @keenansmith7176
      @keenansmith7176 Год назад +5

      Respectfully, Kevin Samuel's was the one that introduced that question into this space. He doesn't own the logic behind it, so every man that makes a channel with this kind of content should pose the question. Point is, it isn't his question.

  • @theuntouchablegirlkysieisc599
    @theuntouchablegirlkysieisc599 Год назад +10

    Some men & women are not built like the ones were back in the day when morals, values, responsibility, self respect, self love, discipline were taught by both parents in the home!

    • @bria2luv305
      @bria2luv305 Год назад

      True about 2 parents in the household.

  • @lawrencejenkins8103
    @lawrencejenkins8103 Год назад +11

    Women think that earning more money increases their value and IT DOES NOT!!! To get a more physically, financially, and mentally attractive man ladies, learn home making skills, submission, and cooperation. Either give men what they want or get out of the way.

  • @srobearl
    @srobearl Год назад +4

    Most men making powerful salaries aren't bothering with these medias. They are busy making things happen in the world.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq Год назад +2

      So while a man making powerful moves and working through something, doesn’t have time to listen to a podcast?
      Some of the most powerful women, still have time to be mothers, get on social media and time to shop but you don’t think these men have time to listen to men talking about men things?🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @srobearl
      @srobearl Год назад

      @PD-qu8dq It's a lot of entertainment, but I don't see these media being that relevant as I travel and interact in the real world.

  • @CurserTV
    @CurserTV Год назад +2

    Fellas leave these BW alone

  • @thebossman4875
    @thebossman4875 Год назад +2

    Why is it that it's mostly BW on the Internet spreading false negative stereotypes about BM?

  • @d.blaze901
    @d.blaze901 Год назад +2

    Mindset!... Say it again my brother!

  • @reginaldrountree6891
    @reginaldrountree6891 Год назад +4

    Mr. Letgo you are on point you keep it going you keep it book

  • @michaelvanhorn9984
    @michaelvanhorn9984 Год назад +4

    She speaks like a man. She is supposed to add to him not vice versa

  • @KrisIsHere4040
    @KrisIsHere4040 Год назад +1

    They usually curb the type of black men they say they want. A six figure black man is not a pookie type. They don't find em attractive but then complain after rejecting them.

  • @miracleinprogress392
    @miracleinprogress392 Год назад

    I also live in the A…..the guys that cut grass make 80 plus and they are millions everywhere in Atlanta……these females do need to be reprogrammed. I can go on for days about this BS…………Thanks Brother

  • @acethefloridianforever
    @acethefloridianforever Год назад +1

    It sounds like she's allergic to statistics!😂🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @oneone3983
    @oneone3983 Год назад +1

    This is why a woman shouldn't get half a man money after a divorce

  • @marlenahawkins7098
    @marlenahawkins7098 Год назад +1

    In the Bible women are only supposed to be helpmates to their visionary husband not their boyfriends!

  • @RecklessOne411
    @RecklessOne411 Год назад

    Why is it... that I've never seen a man describe himself as "educated" but many women do?

  • @tonygogogomez5800
    @tonygogogomez5800 Год назад +2

    Amen to that speak the truth facts

  • @WinWinRealtorsTV
    @WinWinRealtorsTV Год назад

    you figured it all out chief.

  • @debrannkaye861
    @debrannkaye861 Год назад +2

    You are absolutely right there are plenty of men out here dysfunctional mothers too; just like the guy said the other day a woman raises her daughter and coddles her son. So you got plenty of men out here live up on you, eat your food,use your utilities and spend your money, if you let him. Yes I can have a bad relationship without bringing them in my house

  • @wayneblack4085
    @wayneblack4085 Год назад +1

    Bw aren't even making 6 figures like that 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BS-hx5rj
    @BS-hx5rj Год назад +3

    Some great points but his argument about the money black men make is just no accurate. As KS always pointed out, the percentage of men let alone blacks men that earn a certain amount is small. Remove married men and that number is even smaller.

  • @zay1521
    @zay1521 Год назад +1

    majority of these chicks r broke they just dress nice..i’m tired of os many of them acting above the men in there class

  • @moe808
    @moe808 Год назад +2

    There are many women that make at or above their level, and I would not deal with them under no circumstances, in fact I go out my way to avoid them. As a woman, your status, income, or education are not the primary things. Your appearance, attitude, and femininity are what get a man to take you seriously.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq Год назад

      Facts!!! Their need to uphold a status will have you broke.

  • @simonlawrence1234
    @simonlawrence1234 Год назад +1

    Hyena mentality. Everything is backwards.

  • @Jo-jackson
    @Jo-jackson Год назад

    they never admit the truth. The men that do meet the criteria are not my type.

  • @tdamond2
    @tdamond2 Год назад

    Woman are the helpmate. This society has it all backwards.

  • @kbrandolph09
    @kbrandolph09 Год назад +1

    Or turn the good man bad when he treating her good run from accountability

  • @wyattb856
    @wyattb856 Год назад +2

    Mr.Letgo your wrong bro,it’s not a lot of Blackman making over 300,000a year bro..your dead wrong, just because you used Nebraska in your rubbish doesn’t make it right.

  • @mrweh937
    @mrweh937 Год назад

    Cincinnati is a big city with plenty millionaires!

  • @harbertmoore2663
    @harbertmoore2663 Год назад +1

    👩🏿 need to specify where they're getting these quotes from! 🤦🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @kristijones5325
    @kristijones5325 Год назад

    A man will date down but a women thinks she is not suppose too. But then they can't find love. Women have it all twisted

  • @uncannytheos2454
    @uncannytheos2454 Год назад

    .........they keep talking long enough to just tell us that they want to be men. Glad passport bros is a thing

  • @H2Otodafullest
    @H2Otodafullest Год назад +2

    Walking contradictions

  • @phatgirl5334
    @phatgirl5334 Год назад

    Another few key words are integrity and honesty

  • @ananmai8700
    @ananmai8700 Год назад +1

    There is NOTHING NEW under the SUN Period, in the 80's-90's when I was in my teens & 20's, it used to happen ALL the Time.

  • @savdmoody3086
    @savdmoody3086 11 месяцев назад

    Preach Brother

  • @theprettythriftymusicteach5130

    The men in the first segment where ignorant. WOMEN SHOULD NOT OUT EDUCATE, OUT EARN, AND OUT CLASS THEIR MEN! And No! WHY should she as a HARD WORKING successful person have to settle for less? THE MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO LEAD AND BE THE HEROS!

  • @Iamladeeharmony
    @Iamladeeharmony Год назад

    I feel you should mirror each other in a positive way period 💫

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel Год назад

    Success is reprogramming our women!! Successful men aren't trying to marry someone they'll have to compete with in the relationship. Successful women are seeing us as their peers and not their potential mates. What happens when your money runs out? There are thousands of men and women. Someone should be getting married every day!!!

  • @1nkredibeHunk
    @1nkredibeHunk Год назад

    We’re not keke palmering ourselves? So what would the top men be doing?

  • @tonyb9930
    @tonyb9930 Год назад

    Listen, statics show Mr. Let ho is a darn lie!

  • @delanomartin6640
    @delanomartin6640 Год назад

    I agree for the most part

  • @QueenClearview
    @QueenClearview Год назад

    Hmmm … trauma ..

  • @LOVENONE357
    @LOVENONE357 Год назад

    SMH

  • @ProducerStr8kdt
    @ProducerStr8kdt 11 месяцев назад

    All facts

  • @leofranken7225
    @leofranken7225 Год назад

    The Eboni K. Williams Syndrome🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @freemax178greg
    @freemax178greg Год назад

    I didn't know much but I knew I didn't want to be the other guy so I asked my wife what happened between her and her first two marriages what did those two guys do now why would somebody ask a woman that clearly I wanted to know what those two Knuckleheads did to lose her so I would make sure that I didn't make the same mistake Cadillac when your job asks you why you left your last employer you have to treat a relationship like a job interview these people where do you work how long have you work there how long have you lived in your house or apartment why did your last girlfriend and you break up do they have a car are they still on their exes cell phone plan is there any dysfunctionality or retardation in your family a relationship is like a job and if you want a good mate you should basically interview that person for the position and there should also be a probationary. Before they are put on bills get alarm code cell phone passwords they're driving your car life is serious if you act like it's serious you won't make all these stupid Pitfall mistakes and end up with an abusive knucklehead broke lazy man or female with daddy issues that's a fire-breathing bitch from hell

  • @dburnette6723
    @dburnette6723 Год назад +1

    sorry.... statistically and percentage wise,... meaning overall...there aren't that many Black men making over 100k and single

  • @freemax178greg
    @freemax178greg Год назад

    And as far as bills she pays her cell phone bill I pay my cell phone bill we split everything else so I'm not taking advantage of her and she's not taking advantage of me there is no advantage in this scenario we together are a unified front against the world we are teammates not adversaries are not a liability in either direction if I don't have it she's got me if she don't have it I got her and if we don't have it we're broke together but we're never broke because we're both professionals we knew how to manage and invest our money and investing ourselves before we met each other

  • @TheRob07108
    @TheRob07108 Год назад +1

    Facts🙌🏽 thanks

  • @freemax178greg
    @freemax178greg Год назад

    I swore I would never use online dating but I met my third wife on Plenty of Fish I was only there two days and in that 2 days I got tons of hits from older women whose hips were going out we're taking care of their daughters kids because her and her old man we're hooked on meth and the woman herself was 4 months behind on her house payment

  • @freemax178greg
    @freemax178greg Год назад

    I found the thing about finding a good mate is like finding a good car hear me out you notice when you have a car that you love and it doesn't have any mechanical problems you're not looking for another car but when your car is a money pit and its nickel Diamond you to death and your boss is threatened you from being late and missing work you become desperate and make bad decisions ended up buying a lemon but if you buy another car when you have a perfectly running mechanical car you didn't buy it because it was a necessity or need you bought it because it was another fine running mechanical backup to the backup and you come to treated just as well as the first car you were driving in when you decided to buy that one

    • @davidorlin3499
      @davidorlin3499 Год назад

      Buy only one car!
      If it breaks down call a Uber ride and put your car in the shop.
      You will save on your car insurance and maintenance on the 2rd car.

  • @chiirababy
    @chiirababy Год назад +1

    I thought what she meant with wanting a man that can help her, that she meant she wants a man to provide and protect her to make her life easier. Cause that’s what i mean when i say something like that, but i understand your point of view. Good video tho

    • @jamesjones9355
      @jamesjones9355 Год назад

      She didn't say that

    • @bubbajr19
      @bubbajr19 Год назад

      She wants someone that makes more money.
      She said that within the first minute.

  • @chilochilotamuduru4479
    @chilochilotamuduru4479 Год назад

    Truth

  • @harbertmoore2663
    @harbertmoore2663 Год назад

    Us 👨🏿 feel the same way about y'all 👩🏿; who not on our level!

  • @brendasmith6729
    @brendasmith6729 Год назад

    And don’t care!

  • @rayhouse4704
    @rayhouse4704 Год назад +3

    You are dead wrong about the men that make money. Majority of black men are making less than 50k

  • @jaymufasa1484
    @jaymufasa1484 Год назад +1

    You should always date someone who's on your level/ match or hire. That goes for men's and women's. Dating down his one-way to stay in poverty.

  • @J.P_INC.
    @J.P_INC. Год назад

    Men and women should be independent even in relationships. If you have to depend on the other person for everything,then what are you good for? A woman that has independence and doesnt have to depend on her man for every single thing will make a better wife and even better mother. A woman that is dependent on her man for everything will cause that man more problems because he now has to worry about the home and children while he's making money to support them which leads to more stress because he has to worry about his wife constantly needing help with responsibilities. Only weak men want women to be dependent on them because then thry eill feel they have all power iver what happens in teh relationship while a woman who is independent could leave knowing she will be just fine financially and physically.

  • @tonyb9930
    @tonyb9930 Год назад

    Who's trying to keep a man???? Not I. My life is more peaceful most of all I'm free!!!!

  • @young5395
    @young5395 Год назад +32

    It's wild because men don't even expect the same back

  • @clarencewilliams7648
    @clarencewilliams7648 Год назад +40

    If a man has built himself and a life for himself, he’s almost always likely to pay most if not all bills and start a family wit you no matter your money or career

  • @charlesislaw
    @charlesislaw Год назад +13

    They dont want a man..they want a Lifestyle.

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Год назад +23

    The question is is she willing to be the women that the man she wants is looking for? By the way she's talking the answer is more than likely no.

  • @jasonhill6975
    @jasonhill6975 Год назад +26

    God bless you someone has finally said as it is Women were put here to help man not the other way around and thats why this world mainly in the west is so mess up keep up the good work

  • @C2Different
    @C2Different Год назад +24

    Thank You 🙏Finally
    The Key Word is Character!

  • @smallbusinessdreams
    @smallbusinessdreams Год назад +8

    The more money they make they want more control. It doesn't work that way.

  • @royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229
    @royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229 Год назад +9

    OUR WOMEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE OUR HELP NOT OUR COMPETITION.🕎👸🏽🇲🇽🇨🇺🇯🇲🇩🇴🇭🇹🇵🇷 Genesis 2:18
    “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
    🕎 Ecclesiasticus 7:25
    “Marry thy daughter, and so shalt thou have performed a weighty matter: but give her to a man of understanding.”
    🕎 Micah 7:10
    “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, and shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy God? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.”
    🕎 Ecclesiasticus 36:24
    “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession(Property), a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.”
    🕎🤴🏾 Lamentations 4:2
    “The precious sons of Zion, comparable to fine gold, how are they esteemed as earthen pitchers, the work of the hands of the potter!”

  • @michaelvanhorn9984
    @michaelvanhorn9984 Год назад +13

    Not one lie told bro....spot on.✊🏾

  • @rasheldodaran8297
    @rasheldodaran8297 Год назад +8

    As a married man married to a black woman...money isn't even a big issue when it comes to love. Me and my wife are building together. Character, communication, and loyalty go a longggg way. Looking for love in the bag is foolish. I know people that don't earn much that are top notch people. I also know high earners that are horrible. Plus she's looking for top earners...what's the reason he would choose you sis? He has a ton of options that he can choose from. Maybe the problem is you.

    • @hotrocks4312
      @hotrocks4312 Год назад

      There are levels, you do have to be on the same page. What each is making I would say it would have to be equivalent. As an independent woman to not need from a man to do more could always be brought up in arguments of saying well I paid for this ...I paid for that,it definitely wouldn't be fair if a woman made less than a man for him to say such,which is y so many women are comfortable with being independent and single all because she's focus and distracted. If a man is not on my level or trying to build then what are we doing besides love. It is vice versa so it's not just women. In other words a "Lawyer wouldn't date a waitress /stripper at night" ...just saying

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Год назад +11

    Our characters and Mindsets and what comes out our mouth determines what kind of man you will attract. It is true what Momma and Grandma raise us with thinking about men plays a role also.❤

    • @uncannytheos2454
      @uncannytheos2454 Год назад +1

      They might have screwed that up cuz everytime they open there mouths they create more passport bros.

    • @joelrodriguez2152
      @joelrodriguez2152 10 месяцев назад

      I ain’t playing no traditional role get out here with that I don’t believe in being traditional sorry traditional man created the entitlement n never would pay a woman bills

  • @Brookyo222
    @Brookyo222 Год назад +8

    Truth Truth Truth !!!

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Год назад +6

    Let them tell it they're all rich and no men are "on their level."

    • @StopSelfDoubting
      @StopSelfDoubting Год назад +2

      The fact that they think a man making more money makes him a highly qualified candidate to be in her life is hilarious. 😂

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Год назад +3

      @@StopSelfDoubting ...Right.bTgry don't even consider w man's character. Then they don't consider the fact that high earning men will probably have standards of their own that they may not meet.

  • @calvindenzmorejr3088
    @calvindenzmorejr3088 Год назад +4

    It's funny how these women think doing well only has to do with money. Not a good godly partner not God not raising children and a good happy healthy successful family just money.

  • @nathanrrrphillips2803
    @nathanrrrphillips2803 Год назад +4

    A lot of Men also come with and additional set of skills that benefit the family

  • @chilochilotamuduru4479
    @chilochilotamuduru4479 Год назад +4

    Shes gonna die alone shes combative not feminine and certainly not cooperative

  • @izzo2998
    @izzo2998 Год назад +6

    Yeah I live in Texas, and there are a ton of brothers down here getting PAID. The idea that there aren't a lot of black men making $80k if false. He probably said that based on Kevin Samuels talking point that the AVERAGE salary for black men is like $50k.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq Год назад

      That’s not a talking point, that’s from the irs stats. It’s actually like 38k and the average for white men is like 45k

    • @lewislee9905
      @lewislee9905 Год назад

      The average is less than that and that's for the majority of men no matter what race.

    • @jerrygreen3796
      @jerrygreen3796 Год назад

      Zhitbwe in tx baby getting money 💰

    • @Zwill35
      @Zwill35 Год назад

      U know that it is a fluid statistic, men make more money later on in life . Those dudes die off and it’s the next man up . Smart men know that you have to trust in the process and gain profitable skills throughout life.

  • @blackmatt78
    @blackmatt78 Год назад +6

    Straight facts here. 🔥

  • @bootsbooy
    @bootsbooy Год назад +4

    How can you keep what you claim you don’t need? Better question, why would you keep what you claim you don’t need? The problem is, they are not independent, they never have been independent, and they never will be independent. The only group of people who claim independence yet require help from the world. How can you be independent but you’re relying on a man’s money to take care of the child that y’all have together? how can you claim to be independent but the minute things don’t work out, you’re looking for help? How can you be independent when you’re constantly seeking help a.k.a. being a dependent? This is why, for the rest of my life, I will never take peoples words serious. I follow their actions.

  • @langstonbailey1632
    @langstonbailey1632 Год назад +2

    Jelled up , weaved up, your hair…! Project Pat! Whoop Whoop!

  • @MeMe-i2p8r
    @MeMe-i2p8r Год назад +2

    That’s her opinion and not ALL Women. That’s how u miss ur King because u so up in the clouds.

  • @Demrks
    @Demrks Год назад +2

    Women can't find a man no matter what they make. Meanwhile, men can find a woman no matter what

  • @Demrks
    @Demrks Год назад +2

    Some women are driven by the root of evil.

  • @sloprost74
    @sloprost74 Год назад +3

    Wise words were spoken. Salute brother

  • @Mimispeaks05
    @Mimispeaks05 Год назад +2

    You just told me bout myself…I been doing this very thing and I feel ashamed I was doing this.

    • @travisjones1919
      @travisjones1919 Год назад +1

      Accountability is the first step... Reconstruction comes next... I did the Pookie shit from like 21 til 23 until I was called out on my shit... 37 now... Own everything... Prosperous and building my business... That reflection in the mirror is a mf... You've finally accepted your faults... Time to reconstruct... U got it... 💯

  • @jxflex7307
    @jxflex7307 Год назад +2

    Everything she say is what a man requires not the other way around.

  • @EricGarrett-s5s
    @EricGarrett-s5s Год назад +1

    Women like these have many opportunities to be with men with good intentions and charter that are responsible assertive stable structured leaders. after getting older manipulated with emotional damage they'll be making excuses for making foolish choices messing with the jerk's pookys and F@#$boy. Another reason is women feel they're strong and independent to complete with men and they're incurred attitude with men making a effort to be in a relationship with them.

  • @quietstormtarot1111
    @quietstormtarot1111 Год назад +1

    I am search of a good man.. Money doesn’t make a good man..
    So many other moving pieces to make a man a good man besides money

  • @YogiDGamer2
    @YogiDGamer2 Год назад +2

    Commentary was dead on point!
    This woman deep down knows that she is the problem in her relationship woes, but her ego will not let her say that. She refuses to admit in front of the sisterhood that she has failed in the relationship market. So she uses her income as a shield or cope in order to try and say that the problem is men. “I need a man who makes more, or I need a man “who adds to me”. When by its very nature that particular statement shows the failure in her mindset. A man who is more productive a on a higher “level” than her isn’t looking for someone they can add to. A highly successful man is looking for a helpmate, and a woman who has this twisted mindset isn’t what he wants. She is looking for a “partner” and by true definition a husband IS NOT a partner, he is a leader. That is also why many of these women can’t find the kind of man they say they want, because we don’t look for partners we look for wives, and a wife isn’t a partner. A wife is valued council and an aid to a husband.

  • @royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229
    @royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229 Год назад +2

    EVERYTHING YOU STATED IS ON POINT PRINCE.🔥🎯🕎🤴🏾

  • @313kam313
    @313kam313 Год назад +1

    Money will never get you a real relationship.

  • @clayslaton9068
    @clayslaton9068 Год назад +1

    Spot on... 💯

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel Год назад +1

    Great content!

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 Год назад

    My Friend and Author JAI DUVAL uses the term "EMOTIONAL LIABILITY" for these types of Women.

  • @Tmrolln
    @Tmrolln Год назад +1

    PREACH ❤

  • @scrbroadcast
    @scrbroadcast Год назад

    0:53 I feel, I feel, I feel... when are they ever going to think?
    7:26 🎯🎯 it's always been the mindset & conditioning of wanting the worst
    8:49 it's just more pandering, if people stopped lying on these shows & pulled up stats! These lies would stop

  • @patrickpeter7499
    @patrickpeter7499 Год назад

    Truth brother..might be the biggest issue....the type of guy they desire is looking for someone that's gon get on his program.....not usually looking for a woman to get with her and bow down to her program

  • @shalundashackelford9248
    @shalundashackelford9248 Год назад

    Men that make real money usually don’t want a woman that works just as much as he does. He wants a woman that can turn his house to a home and take care of his family. He wants home cooked meals when he get home. If she is working 14 plus hours a day then it’s like being single. Ordering take out food, hiring cleaners, etc. I think very successful women want a man that’s just as successful but not the other way around.

  • @carlaricks9143
    @carlaricks9143 Год назад

    STOP TRYING FINED A MAN TRY THE MAN HOLY SPIRIT. JEHOVAH GOD HAS MADE HIM AVAILABLE FOR YOU WHEN SALVATION JESUS IS ANSWER HOLY SPIRIT WILL GUIDE YOU TO THE MAN CHOSEN FOR YOU ❤

  • @joelrodriguez2152
    @joelrodriguez2152 11 месяцев назад

    Relationship with a independent woman will not last they have a hard time n the odds are very low 0.01 percent wish mean independent women. Are undateable

  • @lamierthaxter2748
    @lamierthaxter2748 Год назад

    That’s FACTS he break that down to the T. Mr let go you on point brother that’s 100% True what you said in its entirety.