411: Self-confidence, self-acceptance and self-esteem... what's the difference?

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024

Комментарии • 20

  • @onfraysponville
    @onfraysponville 15 дней назад

    Thank you again for giving us that mix of therapeutic talent, compassion and wisdom.

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  10 дней назад

      You're very welcome and you make the effort worthwhile! best, david

  • @snakedogman
    @snakedogman 18 дней назад +3

    When will the app be available outside of the US? Any timeline on that?

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  17 дней назад +1

      Don't know yet. We are still working on the initial release in the US and working out the bugs. best, david

  • @bulletinvid
    @bulletinvid 18 дней назад +3

    Welcome to you guys, too ❤❤❤

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  17 дней назад +1

      Right back at you! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @bulletinvid
      @bulletinvid 17 дней назад

      @@daviddbmd I am feeling great 👍 ❤️

  • @ShreyafromIndia
    @ShreyafromIndia 18 дней назад +2

    Much needed topic...Thank you for marking the chapters in description.. Waiting for feeling great app to be available in India.. I appreciate your honesty Matt.. I too have based my worth on love, approval and validation of others.

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  17 дней назад +3

      Thanks for the kind words. Self-love beats needing the love and approval of others. Kudos to you! david

  • @snakedogman
    @snakedogman 18 дней назад +2

    Guys, for future group conversations like this, can I suggest people who are not talking mute their microphones? There's so much noise in the sound now with five open mics, it's borderline unlistenable at points.
    And it sounds like Matt May's mic on his headphone is not working at all. It sounds like he's inside a bathtub and a mic like that shouldn't sound like that.
    I'm not sure what's going on.
    I don't want to be negative, because I love the podcast so much! I just don't want people to be put off by the sound issues which could easily be fixed or avoided.

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  17 дней назад

      Thanks! Sound is #1 in importance when you're listening. I'm pretty sure he has purchased a new set of headphones and microphone. We will keep our eyes and ears on the sound and will try to do better today. best, david

  • @josephsestito9204
    @josephsestito9204 6 дней назад

    Dr Burns I heard a bit on one of your programs about a group for the feeling great app starting. But I can't remember exactly what episode it was on, and if you would point me in the right direction to get signed up for it that would be great. I adore your podcasts and it's especially nice to see the images of you and your team members and guests. Keep doing what you are doing. Helps me quite a lot in remaining in one piece. This could be roughly described by the word, sanity ! Lots of love from Joseph, and Joseph's mother, Laverne.

  • @shubhankarsharma8705
    @shubhankarsharma8705 11 дней назад

    Best wishes from India, David I pray good health to you. I wonuld want to ask a question for the podcast. Where can I do that?

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  10 дней назад

      Send your questions to: david@feelinggood.com
      Thanks! david

  • @supersmart671
    @supersmart671 16 дней назад

    Your book Feeling Good was so influential... second one Feeling Great is scandalous, it does not fit my worldview 😢😢😢😢😢😢 Regarding the App I am not able to find the Google Play Store 😢

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  10 дней назад +1

      Fascinating! Tell us more about your awesome thinking. And the App is only available in the U.S. so far. david

  • @courtneyleeds
    @courtneyleeds 18 дней назад

    Great topic!
    I have read the book Feeling Good inside and out and, though I am quite familiar with things like ACT and DBT, I don't remember ever hearing the phrase "paradoxical agenda setting."
    Until today's video I wasn't a fan of advocating for self-esteem, because I hadn't heard it said that we should get rid of self-esteem as soon as we achieve it. Acquire it so you can lose it is a paradox I can get behind! In the language of Kegan's constructive developmental model, it sounds like going from Level 4 to Level 5.
    Cheers!

    P.S. Kudos to Dr. May for discussing what might be called the collecting rejections exercise (see 53:45)

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  17 дней назад +1

      Thanks for your fascinating comments! I do use a lot of paradox and sometimes that's the easiest way to convey certain concepts and ideas that can be liberating and enlightening. But yes, paradoxical agenda setting came into existence following the publication of Feeling Good and it's all about reducing resistance and boosting motivation. It has led to considerable acceleration in the rate of recovery for a great many people. thanks, david

  • @supersmart671
    @supersmart671 16 дней назад

    Where can I download the App?

    • @daviddbmd
      @daviddbmd  10 дней назад

      It is available in both app stores in the U.S. only. Thanks and let us know how you like it! warmly, david