“I Didn’t Know Cheating Would Destroy My Family!” 🤦🏾‍♂️| Love & Marriage: Huntsville | OWN

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 235

  • @Butterflovely
    @Butterflovely 3 месяца назад +600

    He probably thought she'd never leave

  • @plumppassion
    @plumppassion 2 месяца назад +289

    Martell thought he was Kirk😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but Melody deuced out ✌️

    • @lisalove395
      @lisalove395 2 месяца назад +3

      Martell doesn’t even have one earring though…😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sheilaahuggins4220
      @sheilaahuggins4220 2 месяца назад

      ​@@lisalove395& don't forget the adams 🍎 😅😂

    • @Kimatherapyshow
      @Kimatherapyshow 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheBlckPnther
    @TheBlckPnther 2 месяца назад +233

    This is the most accountability that I've seen Martell take.

    • @mspechez
      @mspechez 2 месяца назад +5

      Right! Sad thing though, him offering a sincere apology helps him begin his healing, accept accountability, and forgive himself. Yet, it makes her even more angry because she still needs to remind him of what he just apologized for. When we don't recognize it, it takes a long time to get on the right path.

    • @gcchair7634
      @gcchair7634 2 месяца назад +16

      He isn’t serious

    • @CWilliams578
      @CWilliams578 2 месяца назад +7

      @@gcchair7634and ain’t

    • @eyezlove153
      @eyezlove153 2 месяца назад +8

      ​@@mspechezbecause he not truly sorry

    • @037deejay
      @037deejay 2 месяца назад +6

      Right. I'm glad it's on tape, so he can't say he didn't say it.🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Gigi0408
    @Gigi0408 2 месяца назад +74

    It's not that he didn't realise cheating would destroy the family, he didn't realise this would be his portion. He's sorry for the consequences.

    • @meechee2too754
      @meechee2too754 12 дней назад +3

      Gone put the mic gently down, sis, cause you was preaching

  • @valzduzzit146
    @valzduzzit146 Месяц назад +17

    Martell thought he was worth keeping... Melody said "Get somebody else to do it" 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @ebonynicole2388
    @ebonynicole2388 2 месяца назад +460

    Martell thought Melody was going to be another Raasheeda!!!!!🤣🤣🤣

  • @angelac6405
    @angelac6405 2 месяца назад +32

    I love Melody, this women is smart, strong, and knows her worth. Rasheeda take note.

  • @BadGal-2002
    @BadGal-2002 2 месяца назад +16

    People seem to forget these episodes and so quick to gang up against Mel

  • @PamelaBates-op2qr
    @PamelaBates-op2qr 2 месяца назад +75

    Something wrong mentally with Martell.

    • @laquintarichardson4920
      @laquintarichardson4920 2 месяца назад +9

      It's called narcissistic behavior!

    • @w..j..2605
      @w..j..2605 Месяц назад

      @@laquintarichardson4920 No it ain’t 🙄

    • @BN-fn5oh
      @BN-fn5oh Месяц назад

      It’s called cheating, male-patterned behavior due to willingly, cheating female participants.

  • @yolandanance8205
    @yolandanance8205 2 месяца назад +132

    I relate to your story Mel. Martell never thought you would walk away.

    • @LataundriaHunt
      @LataundriaHunt 2 месяца назад +3

      My daughter is having issues with her husband. So she moved out. Normally she would go back but now she's not a
      He's confused

  • @blessingsmatter7259
    @blessingsmatter7259 2 месяца назад +10

    Melody I’m proud of you

  • @SaundraEHarris
    @SaundraEHarris 2 месяца назад +84

    The fact that he said it like he had no idea that his actions were going to have consequences...ninjas I swear🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @nyabuckley8973
    @nyabuckley8973 Месяц назад +11

    He wanted her to play dumb like Tisha 😂

  • @jberry978
    @jberry978 2 месяца назад +44

    She’s such a queen to me

  • @Littiaa
    @Littiaa 3 месяца назад +102

    He gaslighting big time he don’t even sound believable

  • @pgee6911
    @pgee6911 3 месяца назад +80

    He thght your love for him would out weight his love for infidelity.

  • @timballard7557
    @timballard7557 Месяц назад +2

    How he never thought things would come to this point, she checked him, and I love it

  • @ms.rockii6518
    @ms.rockii6518 3 месяца назад +66

    This is what happens when you make a decision and don't think about the consequences of your actions. The only thing he can do is get therapy and move on. Concentrate on your kids and let Mel move on.❤

  • @phoenixr6811
    @phoenixr6811 3 месяца назад +61

    He is exhausting just listening to him😞

  • @janethburnside3743
    @janethburnside3743 3 месяца назад +104

    He is sorry that he got caught. He. though Mel was not going to find out, he is still a lier.If he would have known the cost He just don't want to pay for the pain he has caused you..

    • @keitarouse468
      @keitarouse468 2 месяца назад

      Not even that because she found out years before, he just got a baby. So, he's not sorry that he got caught he's sorry that she left him!

  • @nicoleallen9491
    @nicoleallen9491 3 месяца назад +81

    He didn't think she would leave.

    • @danniedallas8909
      @danniedallas8909 2 месяца назад +4

      Absolutely.. the other times she stayed however getting another woman pregnant was the straw that broke the camel back

    • @MeshunnaSiggers
      @MeshunnaSiggers 2 месяца назад +4

      I was glad when she left because I guess he thought she had to stay. Some men do too much!

  • @ms.kiddy.forever9577
    @ms.kiddy.forever9577 2 месяца назад +65

    IT'S THE STUTTERIN FOR ME...COME ON NIE🙄🙄🙄

  • @michelemobley6749
    @michelemobley6749 2 месяца назад +38

    He thought she’s put up with it forever , because she put up with it for a good while. In that time that she put up with it was the time to have remorse . But he’s actually mad that she left . SMH

    • @kathylampkin177
      @kathylampkin177 2 месяца назад +4

      And there's nothing he can do about it. She's CLEARLY NOT coming back

    • @aliciaspringflower3426
      @aliciaspringflower3426 2 месяца назад

      Mel I love you daily one. Honey, you should have walked away from this Table Talk. I have every faith that you are completely happy now. But if for some strange d*** reason you end up back with this man. I promise you. I'm gonna be done I will be so disappointed in such a strong focused woman giving into this cracked. Empty rhetoric... Don.
      't even consider it mel, not one thought.

    • @aliciaspringflower3426
      @aliciaspringflower3426 2 месяца назад +2

      Lol If he knew what he did and it was gonna be like it is. But what the hell did you think it was gonna be like 1965? When women just let men do what the hell they wanted to do and still accepted them. Not today brah not today.

  • @CherieButler
    @CherieButler 3 месяца назад +147

    "Repeatedly!!!". That part

    • @keitarouse468
      @keitarouse468 2 месяца назад +1

      For about five years to be exact!

  • @EstherYlee-jy8mn
    @EstherYlee-jy8mn 19 дней назад +3

    This man bet the whole Farm that he could cheat and then manipulate blackmail, and force her to stay with him... His normal tactics didn't work, that's what he's sorry about not about cheating

  • @Dawn-jq1rp
    @Dawn-jq1rp 3 месяца назад +62

    He thought he was the prize😂😂😂😂

    • @tybryga86
      @tybryga86 2 месяца назад +6

      1000000000000.

    • @elizabethholmes3375
      @elizabethholmes3375 2 месяца назад +6

      SAY IT LOUDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @NewGalaxy317
      @NewGalaxy317 23 дня назад +2

      Period!! Cause you know he was the dominant parent 🙄

  • @happiness5665
    @happiness5665 2 месяца назад +9

    80/20 rule strikes again! Coleslaw will never measure up

  • @chickychic4644
    @chickychic4644 3 месяца назад +77

    He is full of sugar honey ice tea!

    • @CWilliams578
      @CWilliams578 2 месяца назад +1

      Double helping of SUGAR lol

    • @blackbox1911
      @blackbox1911 Месяц назад

      Yall so lame always calling someone gay

  • @OlvestaBaughns
    @OlvestaBaughns 2 месяца назад +4

    Boy please. She told you you was destroying the family. What we had. Put us at odds. If I knew you wasn't going to play the fool .......Boy bye

  • @tiffanysmith4389
    @tiffanysmith4389 2 месяца назад +3

    I like melody.. she like how would u not no that cheating would destroy his family. He already knew. Duh, she called him out. He messes up.. he realized he had good. It's too late now. New chapter

  • @thembalihleradebe6242
    @thembalihleradebe6242 Месяц назад +4

    Martell reasoning capacity is of a toddler

  • @Chosenone111
    @Chosenone111 3 месяца назад +38

    Big Boy, and not a man! That part!👍💯

  • @bobbibso100
    @bobbibso100 21 день назад +1

    Somebody send this to his SP!!

  • @Shellygrant2773
    @Shellygrant2773 2 месяца назад +9

    Martell Holt has been convicted of domestic violence. And @own is aware of that fact that Martell has been convicted on DV with communications. Yet they insist on allowing Martell to still be on the show. Why doesn’t Own support black women?

  • @Pebbledixon
    @Pebbledixon 3 месяца назад +34

    You never know what you have until your well run dry but I also believe that he does have some remorse and he beating himself up some of the decision he made the grass was not greener on the other side

    • @blkgm7005
      @blkgm7005 3 месяца назад +10

      I don’t think he has remorse for what he’s done or he wud have BEEN take accountability and grwn frm it by now. He regrets the consequences but does not want to sit in the discomfort for his choices. It wud be good if he REALLY started to do that…it will take him so much further in life. Don’t see that happening soon, if ever bc there will always be ppl to coddle him

    • @abiyah3176
      @abiyah3176 2 месяца назад +4

      He was never remorseful and never stopped cheating. He told Mel that no one would want her with 4 kids. He stole her money and dissolved their businesses to purposefully bankrupt her. In his words: so that she would have no choice, but to come crawling back to him. Everything he’s done since then has shown that he’s not sorry.

    • @elizabethholmes3375
      @elizabethholmes3375 2 месяца назад +1

      ĤE WAS COLOR BLIND BC WHEN HE GOT ON THE OTHER SIDE THE GRASS WAS ORDERED FROM HOME DEPOT 😂😂

    • @Pebbledixon
      @Pebbledixon 2 месяца назад

      Lol

  • @joannaknight3692
    @joannaknight3692 3 месяца назад +27

    He sounds stupid

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 3 месяца назад +6

      And yet he thinks he’s so smart.

  • @mrsmio07
    @mrsmio07 2 месяца назад +4

    I never understand that stmt…… how could it NOT affect the family

    • @kitoni37
      @kitoni37 Месяц назад +1

      Bc it never affected the family before. She came back. Had 2 kids with him. AFTER CATCHING HIM MULTIPLE TIMES. It didn't affect the family until it became public and he had a baby on her publicly. So to save face she HAD to leave. That's why he didn't know his cheating would cause problems. IT DIDN'T BEFORE.
      She was STILL FINE with Martell. Invited him to Destin vacation. She didn't get DONE DONE Until it went viral that he was dating Sheree, so she got mad and went and changed her last name.

    • @LELE2113-c8q
      @LELE2113-c8q 29 дней назад +1

      ​@kttja37 She left, get over it. He's selfish. Even if Mrl stayed hus cheating would affect how their family functioned. I can't stand women that victim blame and protect NARCs that's why these BANs do not take accountability cuz there's always a pick me there to explain their poor decisions away. Mels smart to change her last name for business purposes and to reclaim herself. She's healing and ur in the comment section feeling 😂

  • @Tony-om2yi
    @Tony-om2yi 2 месяца назад +5

    Martel is a true Narcissist

  • @laquintarichardson4920
    @laquintarichardson4920 2 месяца назад +2

    He did imply she cheated at the couples Texas trip, that Nell planned!

  • @shonclay38
    @shonclay38 2 месяца назад +7

    He thought he had a fool that should tell you how good she treated him and loved him he took it for granted

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 2 месяца назад +5

    He should have regretted it enough to stop but I guess his regrets didn’t kick in until he loss his family

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 3 месяца назад +33

    He thought you wouldn't leave. Don't prove him right

  • @MZAWESOMEFORLIFERID
    @MZAWESOMEFORLIFERID 2 месяца назад +2

    😂😂😂😂 The way Melody checked them lies..... I'm looking for to her check more liar's to their face (Madea voice), Okay!!

  • @yvettewright4462
    @yvettewright4462 2 месяца назад +3

    He is a true narcissist just go on with your life. Let it go. You no longer control her.

  • @moni7754
    @moni7754 2 месяца назад +6

    MARTELL STOPPPP IT!!!! SMMFH!!!!!!!

  • @tammylewis1057
    @tammylewis1057 2 месяца назад +2

    He never thought Mel would leave him. Mel knew her WORTH. All caps.

  • @shannonthetherapist
    @shannonthetherapist 2 месяца назад +3

    Self centered way of thinking… glad she left he had no intention of stopping. Sick 😢

  • @shirlgbme
    @shirlgbme 2 месяца назад +4

    He a pile of foolishness

  • @patriciataylor2661
    @patriciataylor2661 2 месяца назад +4

    Sir, how could you NOT KNOW? 🤔🤔

  • @fadvcorp8529
    @fadvcorp8529 Месяц назад +2

    Let it go, your kids are watching

  • @christyjordan7962
    @christyjordan7962 Месяц назад +8

    This man is from another world

  • @marianbell9416
    @marianbell9416 3 месяца назад +16

    I can't wait until he goes to jail!

  • @HarlemsWorld19
    @HarlemsWorld19 2 месяца назад +26

    He thought she would continue, because she did, to allow him to cheat in peace.

  • @laquenciastigler-mcneil8608
    @laquenciastigler-mcneil8608 2 месяца назад +2

    A person thinks you're cheating because they are cheating & why would you stay w/him. That's what's so confusing to him. He hates his life & he's miserable cause Mel ain't missed a beat!

  • @Teee100
    @Teee100 2 месяца назад +3

    You could have had it all😮

  • @dallasbad89ify
    @dallasbad89ify 2 месяца назад +4

    How do you regret messing up your family and still was messing with the same woman and got her pregnant

  • @eboneyboswell4328
    @eboneyboswell4328 2 месяца назад +7

    These wigs omg

  • @ramondbarnes8572
    @ramondbarnes8572 Месяц назад +1

    Men think she will never leave lol

  • @phylliscoley2187
    @phylliscoley2187 2 месяца назад +4

    Montel is delusional 😮😮

  • @nazzijo1345
    @nazzijo1345 3 месяца назад +10

    Mel 😂 should have walked away real quick 😅 he wants to feed of energy 😅

  • @offendedcitizen4075
    @offendedcitizen4075 3 месяца назад +7

    live your life people gone hurt you fail you not like you disappoint you lie to you talk about you the rest of your life✨️

  • @YanceyBee
    @YanceyBee 2 месяца назад +1

    One thing about Melody she ain’t Rasheeda 😂

  • @AntoinetteZellars
    @AntoinetteZellars 3 месяца назад +3

    Something is really mentally wrong with Martell

  • @francesevans2112
    @francesevans2112 3 месяца назад +15

    Old news🤦

  • @kynellerbee4381
    @kynellerbee4381 2 месяца назад +2

    Destiny lied 😂😂😂😂

  • @1313babinski
    @1313babinski 2 месяца назад +1

    He thought cheating was gonna do. That’s such a sorry excuse

  • @whitneym54321wm
    @whitneym54321wm 2 месяца назад +3

    That mf is delu-lu 😂

  • @tiffanyholland4204
    @tiffanyholland4204 3 месяца назад +4

    He still gaslighting boy bye

  • @antheadonaldson2088
    @antheadonaldson2088 3 месяца назад +4

    The smirk & then "repeatedly" is a well healed scorpio vibe. If you know, you know.
    Martel is a walk red flag with inner child issues.

  • @dejanaemcgauley945
    @dejanaemcgauley945 Месяц назад +1

    He's delulu

  • @shawandap9070
    @shawandap9070 2 месяца назад +4

    He sound Goofy asf 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

  • @janicekeitt9787
    @janicekeitt9787 2 месяца назад +4

    Now hes broke🎉😂

  • @realmommee8093
    @realmommee8093 2 месяца назад +1

    Well, he still sounds like a fool!

  • @manningjrkenneth
    @manningjrkenneth 3 месяца назад +4

    It wasn’t the cheating why Mel left, it was the baby. I can guarantee you that’s why Mel left

  • @iwillsucceed2602
    @iwillsucceed2602 3 месяца назад +10

    That's narcissist behavior

  • @towanamj011
    @towanamj011 3 месяца назад +3

    That hemmin and hawwin I...I....I 😂

  • @shanell9732
    @shanell9732 2 месяца назад +2

    Martell seems like he’s growing with this whole situation..

  • @dejabutler5879
    @dejabutler5879 2 месяца назад +2

    A pure mental case

  • @Generational_Wealth
    @Generational_Wealth 3 месяца назад +10

    Hell naw.

  • @yvetteleak9334
    @yvetteleak9334 2 месяца назад +2

    Boy Bye...

  • @genakenjackson8706
    @genakenjackson8706 Месяц назад +1

    Martel is off!!!!

  • @ladytalwaysbeingalady6762
    @ladytalwaysbeingalady6762 2 месяца назад +3

    I wish. He stop talking

  • @feliciarowser308
    @feliciarowser308 3 месяца назад +3

    Well we know you were cheating Bro !

  • @kimberlyrichardson1992
    @kimberlyrichardson1992 2 месяца назад +4

    He sounds like heis owning it

  • @GlendaKRose88_
    @GlendaKRose88_ 2 месяца назад +2

    move on

  • @angeliajohnson1228
    @angeliajohnson1228 23 дня назад +1

    Silly Fool

  • @DianeMouton
    @DianeMouton 2 месяца назад +2

    He do not sound right there is somthing wrong here

  • @karmelmey8
    @karmelmey8 2 месяца назад +4

    I appreciate him so much in this moment I wish he had more grace

  • @ChrissyGotTheCoils
    @ChrissyGotTheCoils 2 месяца назад +1

    I wish he would take accountability and ownership. I bet she would've took him back if he sincerely changed SMH but he doesn't understand what change means.

  • @candyb2625
    @candyb2625 2 месяца назад

    Finally a apology and accountability!! Was that so hard martel

  • @SusanCQ
    @SusanCQ 3 месяца назад +2

    Digging a hole 😂

  • @stacyswoope7110
    @stacyswoope7110 2 месяца назад +1

    Really 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @drealuvsboo
    @drealuvsboo 2 месяца назад

    He thought he had a green one bless hid heart

  • @lizadosithee6046
    @lizadosithee6046 3 месяца назад +3

    Delusion 😮

  • @Tpainlilbro
    @Tpainlilbro Месяц назад +1

    Why is they still talking about this

  • @dawnbarrett7017
    @dawnbarrett7017 3 месяца назад +1

    I pray 🙏🙏🙏 for y'all could get pass these mistakes at some point in y'all life for the children sake as well y'all God's forgive us before we ever ask for forgiveness we need to learn to do the same it's over why keep living the same mistakes please stop.🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @marshaliah7676
    @marshaliah7676 3 месяца назад +1

    He still hurts

  • @janetwilliams495
    @janetwilliams495 2 месяца назад

    I love y'all together...I hate he cheated...

  • @m.lewizz3297
    @m.lewizz3297 2 месяца назад +2

    He got yo be slow slow

  • @mylesperkins8006
    @mylesperkins8006 2 месяца назад +1

    To men: what do you think it would do?