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  • @wanjiruolive
    @wanjiruolive 2 года назад +167

    I love this men talk section, we want men to be vulnerable and share their stories cause they're human, and they should know we feel their pain, and that they can share their stories in a safe space like this show....

    • @emmahmaepa7071
      @emmahmaepa7071 2 года назад +4

      For sure

    • @safinatonui5708
      @safinatonui5708 2 года назад

      Lack words to say,but let the love of God be enough.So inspiring .

    • @casey4662
      @casey4662 Год назад

      000000000900000000000000000000000000 mppmwas 8 ite,

    • @anthonygreenfield123
      @anthonygreenfield123 Год назад

      Im not sure if I trust your agenda Lynn

  • @sallywahito
    @sallywahito 2 года назад +125

    This show has inspired me in ways I can't explain. Being brought up by a single mum of 8,an orphan herself and widowed at a very young age then remarried my dad but separated due to his drinking wasn't easy. My mum was bitter with life and her frustration got to us, couldn't take us beyond class 8 ...seeing my dad get lost in alcohol and couldn't help us and my mum's ill treatment towards me especially coz am named after my dad's mum and seemed I reminded her of her issues with my father made me hate all of them together. The day he died at his drinking den,I remember going to see his body at KU mortuary and felt nothing...but thank am healed,at some point mourned and released him,forgave my mum even though we don't have the best of relationships but we are good. Since then,I've experienced immense peace,got back to high school (Ngumbaro) and later graduated last year with a bachelor's. I believe forgiveness released me to my blessings that had stalled for years

    • @estherkibe
      @estherkibe 2 года назад +2

      Yes dear forgiveness is very important, no matter what just forgive and go ur own.. u make ur doors open and all the blessing which GOD has kept for u zinacome immediately.
      Chears

    • @gracedavid2650
      @gracedavid2650 2 года назад +1

      True you heal by forgiving my mum is still the most weaked human being I know....when I see people wish there mother's were alive I questioned God why? Mamangu amekataa kumchange Wala kutubu ..I choz me and my son and moved on....let me love her from a distance but Mungu tu atafanya nimkaribishe in my li
      fe am just done.and funny enough she is so un apologetic ... Narssist and a habitual liar. Selfish and money minded😭🥺

    • @mercyk2672
      @mercyk2672 2 года назад +2

      I'm so sorry to hear that. As a mom of a 12 year old daughter, I want to sincerely apologize for your mom. Sometimes its just a lack of wisdom.

    • @penzi1065
      @penzi1065 2 года назад

      @@gracedavid2650 we are many. Choose you above all. Be intentional in your life-taking action on the thoughts and feelings that are most important to you. You got your son🫶

    • @annewamaitha1147
      @annewamaitha1147 2 года назад

      Wow.. very inspiring. A parent is not supposed to say sorry, you are the one to look for a way to reconcile. Like the (kamweretho) and keep on visiting her regularly.

  • @MillyAmtana
    @MillyAmtana 2 года назад +67

    I almost lost my son because of the church and i can tell you it's very terrible. Theirs this day day my son was beaten terribly untill today i still cry. Thank God i got cervical cancer i was chased away from the church and that's when i knew my kids are the only thing that i need to fight for untill today i still beg for the forgiveness from my kids.
    My advice is that dont let anybody to tell you how to love your children.

    • @faithakinyi6015
      @faithakinyi6015 2 года назад +1

      No I can't be a prisoner of church

    • @sharonnm4556
      @sharonnm4556 2 года назад +1

      God first, family second then the rest. Church is not God

    • @olgaachieng4672
      @olgaachieng4672 2 года назад +3

      Yee.same boat.some religion separated children from parents.me have not seen mine face to face because of church teachings.

  • @margiekamande4795
    @margiekamande4795 2 года назад +95

    Seeing my schoolmate here brings joy to my heart, Josh talking is healing. Wow

  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi 2 года назад +26

    Good morning team LN:)
    What message do you have for Joshua Kakai?
    Do you think some religious leaders tend to brainwash their congregants?
    You can contact Joshua through thekakaisfamily@gmail.com.
    To share your story with us, send a summary to info@Lnn.digital
    or joshua.karanja@Lnn.digital
    for consideration
    Thank you so much for watching:)

    • @kisoimunyithya3009
      @kisoimunyithya3009 2 года назад

      We learn a lot through these stories...Thank you so much Lynn

    • @charlesmwikali3419
      @charlesmwikali3419 2 года назад +1

      Joshua was my course mate at Kirinyaga university,I loved his zeal for God and didn't know all this happened to Him,hugs bro

    • @loisewaithiru5681
      @loisewaithiru5681 2 года назад

      grandma you are great

    • @eunicemaingi5418
      @eunicemaingi5418 2 года назад +1

      My dear sister was brain washed by a pastor .she hate her family and later died with a lot of bitterness

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +101

    You take the power back by speaking up😍❤️there's soo much abuse in Church and it's never talked about & when one speaks up you are shaming the Church.
    Glad we are having these conversations now!

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi 2 года назад +13

      We are so glad people are opening up now:)

    • @janemwangi6932
      @janemwangi6932 2 года назад

      @@LynnNgugi True. Whistle blowers are looked like are judging these false preachers. Unfortunately there's so much falsehood, brainwash and manuplation in many churches. The reason is, many followers dnt study their bibles bt instead they rely on everything their spiritual leaders tell them without confirming in the holy scriptures. Spiritual illiteracy is so dangerous. Better be academically illiterate than be spiritually illiterate. A PhD graduate is reduced to a slave due spiritual illiteracy. What we don't know is bigger than us. Spiritual illiterate is the cause of all this manuplating, brainwash and religion slavery. If the gospel is not about christ and the risen christ alone and His finished work of redemption the gospel preached by the apostles , then it's another gospel and cursed is the one who preaches another gospel Romans 3 explains everything. True gospel is about christ alone. Gospel of money is the root of all deception. It's not gospel but families businesses in the name of churches. They use their members as their slaves in the name of they're serving God bt little do they know that they are serving their so called spiritual fathers and mami's.

    • @hawarajabu4130
      @hawarajabu4130 2 года назад +1

      Mij

    • @hawarajabu4130
      @hawarajabu4130 2 года назад +1

      Mi

    • @UhuruFrontier
      @UhuruFrontier 2 года назад

      The church will never be a part of my life. I refuse to give in to that Roman pedophile organization. That WS organization.

  • @Mr.Stingy
    @Mr.Stingy 2 года назад +66

    This show has continuously taught me that am not alone…Being rejected by a mother is painful. When my mom got fed up with marriage, I was 17 and with two siblings, I was the middle one in form 4 🥹🥹💔
    My mom chose to get married to another man immediately she left home and demanded that we join her in her new home if we ever needed her support. (Dad had already disappeared from home for years)
    We declined to leave our home. I remember one day my mom telling us that she will assume we are dead and she will go forth and birth other kids 💔💔😭😭 that hit us so hard.
    The story is that betrayal from a loved one is painful.
    Today both my parents are back home, we have a sister who happens to be the only child now at home, am happy and I hope one day my story will inspire someone.
    May God heal those who are hurting. There is life for those who seek God.

    • @patricianduta3478
      @patricianduta3478 2 года назад +2

      We have the same case ,due to separation of my parents mum became vry bitter towards us ,she even went ahead na kusema asiwai zaliwa ,😭😭😭😭long story short no one goes where she lives without her consent to date and we are ok with that infact I always say sina kwetu and am ok with that ,coz I too I need piece of mind ,😭😭😭but it's ok ni life

    • @Mr.Stingy
      @Mr.Stingy 2 года назад +2

      @@patricianduta3478 it will be well 🫂

    • @patricianduta3478
      @patricianduta3478 2 года назад

      @@Mr.Stingy thanks am good

    • @darkskingal4565
      @darkskingal4565 2 года назад +1

      @@patricianduta3478 hugs dear

    • @nyamburajude7126
      @nyamburajude7126 2 года назад

      @@patricianduta3478 hugs mummy❤️

  • @davidgakoru2356
    @davidgakoru2356 2 года назад +60

    How I love when men are giving their experiences of life ...what they have been through...meeeen it takes courage to do so.

  • @jacdez3520
    @jacdez3520 2 года назад +35

    This guy was sending out a very important message. He needed to go through his emotions to come out healed. His grandma is lovely. My grandmother was the true love I received.

  • @pastoresthermburu-cffkiten8469
    @pastoresthermburu-cffkiten8469 2 года назад +65

    The talk section started by first reading the WORD!!! Glory to God

    • @mmo3205
      @mmo3205 2 года назад

      Yaaani ni watch hii story mara nyingi thank you so much for bringing this platform for men also to speak out am relating this story to my story forgiveness is the key word here ukisamehe naye God anakupea grace ya kuheal na kumove on

    • @sylviaagutu2528
      @sylviaagutu2528 2 года назад

      It takes courage,wisdom and grace to speak out,,may everyone going through the same situation in silence receive healing in the name of God🙏🙏.May God guide every woman planning to have kids with Love,, patient and a forgiving heart . Incase of a breakup,,heal before moving on for the Sake of the Kids

    • @harrietkamau6710
      @harrietkamau6710 2 года назад +1

      Out of interest how did the older siblings handle mother's rejection. I have a feeling Joshua was the worst affected because of his age. Very young. He reacted by taking revenge over innocent people especially women. The transformation was God's way of healing the innocent child.

  • @wangarimunyingi3451
    @wangarimunyingi3451 2 года назад +30

    This guy is a great interviewer. The pain Joshua has been through I feel it may God use him in a mighty way.

  • @kibsmuhanguzi6071
    @kibsmuhanguzi6071 2 года назад +8

    Joshua, Thank you for sharing your story. Out of the tears i shed as you progressed in your tale, allow me say this: first, your grandmum is your father. She has made you through school in the absense of your mum. Number two. I thank God that all these things happened to you so that you may come and share with us. Many lessons learn from your story. Number three. Probably, you would not be what you are now if these things never happened to you. We say that an African man is made from the hardships he endures. Comment from here Entebbe Uganda.

  • @teresiawachira1034
    @teresiawachira1034 2 года назад +11

    The trauma that affects children, no one understands. It's only God who can heal. I understand him.

  • @margiemargie5435
    @margiemargie5435 2 года назад +13

    this why we are encouraged to develop the habit of reading the bible by ourselves and pray for the holy spirit to give us divine understanding, kudos to bro kakai for forgiving mommy and may God bless you abundantly

  • @angies.8912
    @angies.8912 2 года назад +137

    I can relate, this is a kamba thing called "iweto"
    If a woman is married and for some reason she can't bear children, she is allowed to find a young lady or say just a lady who would come with her permission to bear children for her. In this case, she will allow that lady to be intimate with her own husband or be granted permission to get kids from whoever man....but the full responsibility of taking care of the children is entirely on this woman who "married"her....
    If I got right, the husband "munywoki" had passed on..thay why the grandmum of Joshua "married" a lady(the mum of Joshua) meaning she was allowed to get kids from whoever but the responsibility is taken by the grandma....the reason why Joshua can't tell who the father is...
    This is tough and can be tough even growing up and things to do with assets...
    We should ask God for alot of wisdom...and grace
    Some people have grown through hell growing up and judging them is the least we need to do...
    And these cultures, then So called Men of God and church misleading....it can be tough.
    I believe in God and Jesus Christ that gives grace and power to discern and actually transformation of mind that creates a new bring all together.

    • @angies.8912
      @angies.8912 2 года назад +1

      New being*

    • @duduzilesibanda6789
      @duduzilesibanda6789 2 года назад +7

      Thanks ,you have explained well I was not understanding it ..... In our culture we don't have such ,, pastors pray for wisdom

    • @angies.8912
      @angies.8912 2 года назад +6

      @@duduzilesibanda6789 Sure,
      Cultures will be there, religion will be, church will be ..
      But it narrows down to an individual knowing the truth of Jesus, seeking the right guidance...and when you learn you are a victim....you need to brace up to do things right, act right and wear a mentality of transformation.... believing in Jesus more for wisdom n grace...n seeking genuine guidance if you can

    • @afriqueus1
      @afriqueus1 2 года назад +5

      Thanks for explaining this. I have relatives who did this and I have never understood why and the relationships

    • @angies.8912
      @angies.8912 2 года назад +6

      @@afriqueus1 Thanks.
      Am not sure about other tribes but hey, it's more in kamba tribe...and not shocking that it's still being embraced by some until today.
      Another tough one here, you find a man had say three wives...for some reason the young wife..ama one of the wives has just given birth to girls....like no male child ...
      Now for reasons of assets," I hope you get what I mean* this woman agrees with the husband that she will *marry* another lady so that she can get her male child...
      Imagine, that *married lady* will either go out there and get children from man...seeking male child...
      The responsibility of bringing up the children is on this older lady( who had girls only) together with the husband....
      The surname of these children take the name of the husband..
      Now, see the setup here a mix of siblings and step siblings and these others from *the married woman*.and issue to do with say land or assets.
      According to culture,they have right to inheritance...
      It can be such a mix and crazy conflicts say when the husband and wife( who married)... Passes on...
      I tell you alot of wisdom is required on handling such a situation when some people never chose to be in...they found themselves....

  • @Diana-Andi
    @Diana-Andi 2 года назад +7

    No one knows what the future holds.....mapito huenda yakakuzidi but trust in God hata kama imani imepungua ikabaki kadogo kama casterd seed it will re-direct you to your destiny hallelujah
    Thanks LNS 4 this Mens Table🙏

  • @peterkym7054
    @peterkym7054 2 года назад +6

    Thanks lynn Ngugi for featuring this strong man. Men go through shit and no one cares. Keep looking featuring them. I would actually advise you uache kwanza na story za wanawake for a while

  • @janechomba2113
    @janechomba2113 2 года назад +6

    Lynn you have trained Njosh/interviewer to just be like you. You have God's great favour. I know you are a prayerful woman. You are humble, loving and caring. You have a golden heart. I know you even don't take any Glory when praised but gives it to God who you know has been your aid. Believe me Lynn, God is taking you far!! 🙏 I love you! 💞 ✨ When i saw your interviewer, i guessed he's the one who takes your video, and you are the one now taking it.... ☺ I heard your voice laughing 😂. Good work Lynn. Thumbs up for Lynn wetu. God bless you all.... 🙏

  • @Sandy-pv3ch
    @Sandy-pv3ch 2 года назад +12

    I normally don’t comment on social media but this has really touched me and it is going to change my life.
    “The love I missed ,I will show it to somebody”
    Thank you so much Lynn &Josh kwa hiyi show 🙏🏻
    your big fan from Rwanda 🇷🇼

    • @Latifahti
      @Latifahti 2 года назад +1

      Always talk to someone when ure at your lowest dear, Kandi urakundwa.

  • @queenesther7578
    @queenesther7578 2 года назад +11

    Josh, I am so sorry for what you went through, there’s nothing like mother’s love. She was brainwashed and taken advantage to manipulate you guys leave alone abandoning you. Thank God you had a strong grandmother

  • @IamGodsfavourite6518
    @IamGodsfavourite6518 2 года назад +29

    I havent even watched all but lemmi say this to the guest as the Lord puts it in my heart.You have an Apostolic &prophetic voice.A voice of Command.
    I dont know if you have ever been told but if you havent then Find your purpose

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi 2 года назад +3

      Amen and Amen:)

    • @lydiakisseih5546
      @lydiakisseih5546 2 года назад

      I just love your grandma. Thanks for also showing her live and respecting her. I wish you well and thanks for sharing your experience.

    • @4Waridi
      @4Waridi 2 года назад

      True. He said he has the Mwaki of the Holy Spirit

  • @marymwololo9450
    @marymwololo9450 2 года назад +56

    We need to have more of these conversations. Many people have been hurt and broken by different churches and church leaders. It is not an attack on the church, the body of Christ, but rather, providing a space for people to speak up about these things.

    • @stargate356
      @stargate356 2 года назад +3

      You are not attacking the church Mary Mwololo , the human created churches we have in this world have caused alot of pain and destruction to so many people.
      You are the church yourself ,just pray for yourself and others. This pastors ,prophets ,prophetesses ,evangelists are worse than Lucifer himself.
      If you can read your Bible yourself ,just ask the HOLY SPIRIT to grant you wisdom and knowledge of understanding.

    • @betty541
      @betty541 2 года назад +1

      @@stargate356 I hear you, and agree too. I would also add that churches, being essentially a creation of human beings, are not beyond reproach, and the mistakes they make and sins they commit should absolutely be called out. They seem to cause a lot of strife..and for that reason alone, they should be scrutinized as they have a lot of power over a lot of people. Churches and preachers, as much as some may believe so, do not have monopoly over truth and righteousness at all. Infact they have been known to lead a lot of people astray, because they are abusive and toxic to their congregation. How does a church leader advise a mum to abandon her children? How is that godly?

    • @penninahnjambi4770
      @penninahnjambi4770 2 года назад +4

      Our family that was so strong broke up in pieces because of church manenooos

    • @stargate356
      @stargate356 2 года назад

      @@betty541 it's time people should come out and tell the truth about what they go through in do called church buildings l. The church is you and me not that building, those buildings and denominations were created by luciferians to bring confusion and weaked manipulations against children of GOD.

    • @florencekariuki6232
      @florencekariuki6232 2 года назад +1

      Go to kameme Njanjo ya muturire they will helps you get your dad all the best destiny is determined by God with God every thing is possible

  • @ruecarey2036
    @ruecarey2036 2 года назад +18

    Joshua whatever you are going through it's exactly what I went through despite my mum was married but when dad died that when I studied poverty and struggles management I graduated with the first class honour in the one of the worst university called bitterness,unforgiveness, envy,hate and violence 🤦‍♀️as the firstborn we prayed for our much to die and she died 👌we celebrate indeed when others mourned her death 😭😭we got peace and breakthrough when she died and we thank God 🙏 and we still love her and the course I studied 😂😂 will never be used in my life again we healed 🙏and despite given the names as orphans tushazoea kuita yesu dad and mom 10yrs down the line that when we all healed am the happiest lady 😌 ever and always
    Healing process is the longest way one can ever walk alone coz no one will ever understand you👌

    • @doriswanjugu3157
      @doriswanjugu3157 2 года назад

      Ggh

    • @nadinendayiziga2740
      @nadinendayiziga2740 2 года назад

      I don’t understand how you can say u have celebrated on your Mum’s death and pretending you love her just I just wish you to recognize that you made a mistake to hate her

    • @maggiendeto6570
      @maggiendeto6570 2 года назад

      Oooh Ghosh realy

    • @ruecarey2036
      @ruecarey2036 2 года назад +1

      @@nadinendayiziga2740 ata niongee in tongues huezi elewa my mum couldn't heal and her condition wasn't good hosi tulienda zote maombi tukafanya but even her own family disowned her na tulikuwa wadogo so we told God to take her since we were suffering celebration was she rested in peace rather than suffering

  • @ajjruu5390
    @ajjruu5390 2 года назад +7

    Life is a u turn, today u are the most poor tomorrow ur the boss.... God of miracles. I will live to proclaim your Holy name

  • @lyn254
    @lyn254 2 года назад +32

    There are people who have gone through tough times you can not imagine, you can feel like an orphan and yet you have a parent/ parents.I am so sorry for Mr Joshua and his siblings for all that they went through. Congrats to the Interviewee for asking the right questions.

    • @rosethumbi40
      @rosethumbi40 2 года назад +1

      So true.i grew up feeling so rejected,neglect and abandoned. I decided to embark on healing in life

    • @lyn254
      @lyn254 2 года назад

      @@rosethumbi40 sorry for that

    • @rosethumbi40
      @rosethumbi40 2 года назад +1

      @@lyn254 asante .healing is powerful.it doesn't having both parents makes your childhood journey easy.i had both and lost connection with both..am reparenting myself so that I regain myself and become fully productive

    • @BMboss108
      @BMboss108 Год назад +1

      Very true..so sad aki

  • @violetwaswa5340
    @violetwaswa5340 2 года назад +10

    Your grandmother is a hero;my God!till all of you have a life? A big up for her greatly. May God keep her for long for you and your children. Hugs to your queen.

  • @beatricebolger9824
    @beatricebolger9824 2 года назад +14

    This is the most encouraging discussion coming from the deep of the gentleman’s heart. Forgiveness brings peace. Excellent content.

  • @Ndubi254
    @Ndubi254 2 года назад +11

    I love this men desk and Joshua is doing a very good job! This will make more men come out because they talking with their fellow man! Most times we’ve thought ladies are the ones who are abused or neglected but now through this we all are understanding why some husbands behave the way they do! Thanks Joshua and Lynn for this network

  • @soniamatthews3267
    @soniamatthews3267 2 года назад +7

    Great idea fr a show Lynn. I admire your skill at Journalism. Talking about men and letting a man host the show. Great job Joshua. Good team work. Keep it up. Love this video. Very interesting and inspiring..

  • @annsarahwambui5479
    @annsarahwambui5479 2 года назад +6

    Joshua has come from far and he si going far...seeing him on the throwbacks and here now...woooow🥰🥰🥰 product of Grace🙏🙏

  • @hellenmwendwa8129
    @hellenmwendwa8129 2 года назад +5

    Joshua is a ministry friend. I thank the Lord for His healing.

  • @carolinemanyonge6697
    @carolinemanyonge6697 2 года назад +9

    This has made me miss my late husband may his beautiful soul rest in peace.Its been 7 years of grief down the line but the pain of loosing him is extreme when my last born (twins) who were 1 year when their dad died ask me about their dad.They never felt the love of their late dad.They as if there brother is there acting dad and when will they have the real dad😭😭😭Meaning they truly miss their dad.He left me with 6children and I have promised them love and be there for them whenever they need me.
    It's my prayer that they see their dad in me.

    • @evelydia
      @evelydia Год назад

      May the Lord Jesus visit you, heal your pain, wipe your tears and mend your wound. I felt I should send this word to you Caroline.

  • @florenceojowa7706
    @florenceojowa7706 2 года назад +5

    Our God is amazing. He was able to change the pain this young man had to an awesome loving husband and daughter. May the Lord forgive people who use the Bible in a wrong way to confuse vulnerable individuals like Joshua’s mother. I love happy endings, and this one was a great one. Kudos

  • @martinthesource
    @martinthesource 2 года назад +17

    Im man enough but i found myself shedding tears uncontrollably. Joshua God proctect you all through .i become your subscriber instantly.

  • @Ruthie-K
    @Ruthie-K 2 года назад +6

    Alot of people including myself have gone through church hurt & it's a topic that no one is actually addressing. I think we all need to talk about it. Some of these churches are destroying lives, some of them are cults, they don't deserve to be called a church of christ & an example of such a church is international churches of christ (ICOC)

  • @shaniquepaul
    @shaniquepaul 2 года назад +39

    Your grandma is a hero 🙏🏿

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 2 года назад +1

      With Turning with his grandchildren to be heros and useful leaders

  • @lucykinyua9140
    @lucykinyua9140 2 года назад +7

    My God my Lord if there is a story that has made me feel it it's this, May God continue holding joshua and protect him from his enemies, he never deserved to go through this

  • @elizabethkoech2496
    @elizabethkoech2496 2 года назад +4

    Joshua I can imagine the pain you've gone through. Thank you for allowing yourself to heal and moving on. Nothing is permanent in this life. Taking one step at a time is healthy and signs of growth. God has not finished with you Joshua. Keep staying strong

  • @chosenstella7937
    @chosenstella7937 2 года назад +11

    Respect to the strong mothers who never abandoned their children no matter what! A mother to a child must be a strongest relationship that doesn't suppose to be brocken by any thing.

  • @pastryshack551
    @pastryshack551 2 года назад +25

    This family looks so beautifully dress in every picture, one would never know they were living in poverty. I love the grandma with the 2 boys

  • @janetmbogo5264
    @janetmbogo5264 2 года назад +10

    I love the genuineness in Joshua that he is not ashamed if how they were born. The end of the matter is better. The lord has great things for you as he heals your heart.

  • @pendofamily9347
    @pendofamily9347 2 года назад +2

    Wow I just loved the preaching of J.B MASINDE he came to our church on Sunday AIC MILIMANI,,he is on another level 👌 👏

  • @evelynenduta205
    @evelynenduta205 2 года назад +3

    I pray that we could have more men fighting for their families not against as the society has taught us.
    Men are still vulnerable and we ought to pray n support, love them

  • @anngateri2015
    @anngateri2015 2 года назад +3

    Joshua, everything happens for a reason and for a gold to shine, it has to pass through fire. May God continue shining on your family,s life 🔥🔥. In Jesus mighty Name

  • @elinduku5178
    @elinduku5178 2 года назад +8

    Joshua, you are destined for greatness!!!
    May God bless your grandma with a long life, she's a rare gem🙏🙏🙏

  • @kiplangathesborn8064
    @kiplangathesborn8064 2 года назад +12

    Joshua, comrade back in Kirinyaga university.......you are a strong man

  • @eunicewangeci2380
    @eunicewangeci2380 2 года назад +8

    One day i will tell my story too. Going through the same and i tell you its the hardest place to be in life. The confusion, anger that comes with this is just unbelieveable

  • @bishopkallen2807
    @bishopkallen2807 2 года назад +11

    There is No illegitimate child on earth.pastors should have full knowledge of word of God.

  • @jlmchannel5579
    @jlmchannel5579 2 года назад +35

    I'm glad to see men come out and talk their hearts out.
    Good work Lynn❤️

  • @berylleakeycreationshandma1930
    @berylleakeycreationshandma1930 2 года назад +10

    Lyn laughing behind the scenes 🤣🤣🤣 wewe!!!! Josh J karanja and LNN is doing a good job creating a safe space for men to speak up coz they suffer alot in silence...am always looking forward to seeing your videos LNN💜💜💜💜💜💜lots of love from Mwea

  • @masaiwangaa1216
    @masaiwangaa1216 2 года назад +19

    "Actually not all churches they feel so happy when they see the greatness future of our children" people should note that
    Most especially these churches which they laying hands on our heads, most of them may cause alot of uncountable situation

    • @elleyonaspg9580
      @elleyonaspg9580 2 года назад +1

      When they lay their hands on your head, and pray in strange tongues, they are sometimes praying curses on you by confusing your "ori."
      Ori; your place of discernment, your site of connection to the divine; the residence of your organ of intelligence. DO NOT LET ANYONE PLACE THEIR HANDS ON YOUR ORI OR YOU CHILDREN'S ORI, MORE IMPORTANTLY, BECAUSE IT IS STILL IN A PHASE OF DEVELOPMENT.

    • @masaiwangaa1216
      @masaiwangaa1216 2 года назад

      @@elleyonaspg9580 exactly

    • @Gemhaul1911
      @Gemhaul1911 2 года назад +1

      Exactly, why the heck would anyone anyway let someone place hands on them for prayer? Learn to create your own relationship with God. Pray to God directly by yourself. Have a one one one talk just you and God. You don’t need someone else pray on your behalf but your parents and siblings. To pray for you, not putting hands on you.

  • @nancymugera5971
    @nancymugera5971 2 года назад +4

    The LORD is faithful. I love the transformation coming out of a painful past. Joshua, you are a great inspiration to many who have faced rejection from people who should have protected them.
    Keep ministering the good news of forgiveness and restoration. God bless you

  • @CK-ps7sm
    @CK-ps7sm 2 года назад +5

    I feel for you Kakai,its so painful to be rejected by loved ones over flimsy reasons it's a pain that lasts a long time.

  • @sharonliana5631
    @sharonliana5631 2 года назад +13

    First time I'm watching the host and I already love his style of hosting and interviewing: good to see LNS grow

  • @lucywanjiru1427
    @lucywanjiru1427 2 года назад +3

    You were chosen from the beginning my brother and I'm so glad that you found the path of truth. Much grace to you and your family.

  • @mercykamau1251
    @mercykamau1251 2 года назад +5

    I love the way Karanja started with the word of God

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +18

    What i love about this platform is that we learn something new about different traditions 😍Wow!!!!

  • @wangowalydia2128
    @wangowalydia2128 2 года назад +35

    Hugs to everyone who feels rejected by their loved ones,I think it's the most painful thing one can go through

  • @irenepeter248
    @irenepeter248 2 года назад +7

    This story is so breaking i just remember how 2years ago my husband got into a certain church and he completely changed, ended up leaving me and the kids for another woman and the worst part is he has never been bothered by his own blood.. it really pains to see men reject their own. so many people have been brainwashed in the name of church.. may God help his people.

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 2 года назад +3

    Waaa.. Very strange.. The guy is very mature. He has gone thru difficulty but God has been always in control.

  • @jnjugu10
    @jnjugu10 2 года назад +43

    what I have come to learn is that abandonment and rejection from a mother hurts deeper more than anything else.

    • @stargate356
      @stargate356 2 года назад +1

      Very true

    • @evelynbrenda7373
      @evelynbrenda7373 2 года назад

      This can be mended..but it still hurts deeply. Thumbs up Joshua

    • @phionahmbugua2168
      @phionahmbugua2168 2 года назад +5

      We are used to be abandoned by dads, coz you can get as many dads in life, but a mum never.

    • @phionahmbugua2168
      @phionahmbugua2168 2 года назад

      Mermaid gown, did you hear that , she is sent from the sea.

    • @marcykageha5413
      @marcykageha5413 2 года назад

      True

  • @alicekogi5109
    @alicekogi5109 2 года назад +2

    On behalf of all mothers...children kindly forgive us.Joshua you are God's chosen

  • @rogamediakenya4832
    @rogamediakenya4832 2 года назад +11

    “There should be no boundaries to human endeavor. We are all different. However bad life may seem, there is always something you can do, and succeed at. While there’s life, there is hope.”

  • @Ndubi254
    @Ndubi254 2 года назад +4

    Men please open up and share that’s how you will heal and help someone! I was watching a clip about a kisii man at Keroka area who was going through “depression” Haki akapelekwa hos and the dr gave medication and released him home after the wife worked so hard to take him there! It didn’t take long before he almost killed the wife but managed to burn the house with him and kids inside! Maybe this man was going through a lot and didn’t open up to anyone.

  • @shishrembo5251
    @shishrembo5251 2 года назад +5

    selena gomez said..we used to be close but people can go from people you know to people you dont and what hurt the most those people can go from people you know to people you dont...many of us know that feeling

  • @janewerikhe9528
    @janewerikhe9528 2 года назад +4

    Heal your own way Joshua, its painful to get rejection from your own mother

  • @normaexlore
    @normaexlore 2 года назад +7

    Listening to his story, his mother was vulnerable but because they were children they never saw that side, she was brainwashed by the pastor and his cult , sadly the whole family suffered

  • @daughterofzion4157
    @daughterofzion4157 2 года назад +3

    Awesome!! This story is the True Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. Christ came to call the broken hearted to the light of Yeshua Hamashiah.

  • @collettumbo8972
    @collettumbo8972 2 года назад +2

    Thanks Joshua for such a powerful message. May the lords favour be with you. unfortunately there are some dad's who are irresponsible no matter how hard you try to link them with their kid's they are ever on the run.

  • @tokozanimazvimbakupa5450
    @tokozanimazvimbakupa5450 2 года назад +3

    Joshua you are a blessing to this generation. May God continue to guide you and your family

  • @ednakabuna1457
    @ednakabuna1457 2 года назад +7

    It's so painful facing rejection from a parent especially a mom

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 года назад +13

    You can't convince a believer of anything, for their belief is not based on evidence, it's based on a deep seated need to believe.

  • @robertodundo2269
    @robertodundo2269 2 года назад +2

    Joshua is a strong person. He survived lack of mum's love trauma. Some people do not survive or recover from such a trauma.

  • @esternghipondoka5686
    @esternghipondoka5686 2 года назад +4

    I'm proud of you Joshua. You are blessed. Keep that positive strong spirit and maintain that Christ like character.

  • @gladysosoro8775
    @gladysosoro8775 2 года назад +6

    Its his voice for me ...may God grant you peace.and prosperity

  • @elizabethnjeri5650
    @elizabethnjeri5650 2 года назад +6

    Yes it's about time we speak up,,this churches this men women of clothes 😔 my story I was left in church 4years without going to my home,,I was turned to a slave in that church,,the woman said I don't go school 🙄 because holy spirit said so,,, story for another day 😭😭
    That's why we are here to speaketh

    • @marynjenga6378
      @marynjenga6378 2 года назад +1

      What! Hii ni church kweli ?

    • @elizabethnjeri5650
      @elizabethnjeri5650 2 года назад

      @@marynjenga6378
      Yes it was back in 90's
      Ilisha yote Thu story il narrate one day

    • @eunicewangeci2380
      @eunicewangeci2380 2 года назад

      Hiyo story ya holy spirit said weeh. What my family is going through juu aliambiwa holy spirit imesema wawachane na my dad and that he is a wich and we should also avoid him.

  • @annemaina8141
    @annemaina8141 2 года назад +12

    One day I will share my story too. How the church messed up our lives. I'm yet to heal and pray one day to gather the courage to talk it out. For now my tears and the pain in my heart are all I have.

    • @zaweriahchege6480
      @zaweriahchege6480 2 года назад +1

      May you heal in Jesus name.Amen.

    • @tinamukami5509
      @tinamukami5509 2 года назад

      🫂

    • @annwahome1427
      @annwahome1427 2 года назад

      I'm sorry dear and may the LORD GOD heal you in JESUS NAME

    • @annemaina8141
      @annemaina8141 2 года назад +1

      @@annwahome1427 thanks you Ann.

    • @Josephine-q4z
      @Josephine-q4z 2 года назад

      Anne.........it's unfortunate dat what shud hv brot healing caused pain.....reach out.....speak up....trade ua tears & pain for joy & wellness.....🙏

  • @africanawang2674
    @africanawang2674 2 года назад +7

    Unfortunately, it's like the devil is mostly found in church. To abandon and reject your own flesh and blood is devilish. Watu wa Mungu chunganeni na manabii was uongo wenye wamejaa kanisani wakijiita mapasta

  • @esthermutua4033
    @esthermutua4033 2 года назад +1

    Joshua is a strong man.i know how it feels to be rejected by your own mother.Have been trying so hard to creat good relationship with my mother but all is in vain. She is always talking ill about me,she says my kind Is a trash in her homestead,trying to get over it doesn't work.My father is always on my side and I appreciate that though still there is a gap when there is no mother's love.Joshua you are a strong man.

  • @el_bethelcreations.
    @el_bethelcreations. 2 года назад +9

    Your grandmother was wise ❤️

  • @jeniffermbatha7010
    @jeniffermbatha7010 Год назад +1

    That grandma was a wise woman, Joshua you passed through pain and neglect from a very tender age when you needed the love of your mum, forgive her and may her soul continue resting in peace

  • @felistusfrancis2353
    @felistusfrancis2353 2 года назад +15

    In our language they call that marriage IWETO.The lady marries another lady to bare children for her.

    • @immaculatendinda3900
      @immaculatendinda3900 2 года назад

      @@duduzilesibanda6789 th woman married to this barren woman is allowed to sleep with anyone provided she brings kids inth house...ataulizwa ametoa wapi watoto...

    • @bujake956
      @bujake956 2 года назад

      Jesu! How now? I have never seen a woman paying dowry for another woman

    • @janekamondo1991
      @janekamondo1991 2 года назад +2

      @@bujake956
      This was very common in almost all tribes in Africa . Even among the kikuyus.When a married woman was barren.She was traditionally allowed to "marry" another woman to bear children for her .The tricky thing is that the children were not allowed to know their father officially.The woman who "married" their mother was refered to by the children as "grand mother" but she played the role of their father in terms of providing for them.I also hear she sometimes dictated the man who would sire the children with" her wife"
      This man/men would not claim the children cos they belonged to the one who paid the dowry ;their "grandmother".
      When Joshua talks about two grandmothers,he is referring to the maternal grandmother and the one who paid dowry for their mother and provided for their needs and is still alive.
      This is one of the many African traditions that has silently died with modernity.

    • @janekamondo1991
      @janekamondo1991 2 года назад

      See my reply below

  • @bridgettkariuki9056
    @bridgettkariuki9056 2 года назад +3

    This is heart breaking. Looks like he is still hurting from the past.

  • @MY-uf9ws
    @MY-uf9ws 2 года назад +3

    You are a great man!! God bless you
    Thank God that is healing you. These false pastors must be confronted and tell him how much he had hunted you and children
    Your mom loved you and we can see it.

    • @mama-pace2454
      @mama-pace2454 2 года назад

      I really don't understand how bad many so called men of God has mislead people and still doing today. It's possible all the misleading led to her early death....

  • @kevinchirchir9713
    @kevinchirchir9713 2 года назад +2

    This is inspiring, 360 degrees transformation, everything is possible and God is faithful when you abide by Him. Amen

  • @hotnews7053
    @hotnews7053 2 года назад +7

    Joshua munyoki, we went in the same university. You are blessed

  • @paulineotinga3364
    @paulineotinga3364 2 года назад +29

    The pastor was right to say that the set up of the marriage for the Mum wasn't according to the will of GOD but he failed when he told. Her to abandon the children. The right thing or way to lead someone who has fallen short of the glory of THE LORD is through repentance. You help the sheep of CHRIST to understand that sin is sin but if they choose repent THE LORD is willing to Forgive. The pastor could. Have then directed the mother to now lead her children in The ways of THE LORD. Everyone needs JESUS.

    • @nissichloe8517
      @nissichloe8517 2 года назад

      True

    • @monicawangari4405
      @monicawangari4405 2 года назад

      Sure.

    • @estherpat4227
      @estherpat4227 2 года назад

      People have a culture and you don't go telling people to hate their past. If one turns to follow christianity, you don't fight them with their past. God loves us from where we are. Teach the new converts the ways of the Lord and ask them not to go back to their old ways. The children were innocent if anyone was to be blamed is the mature or adults in the family

    • @olgaachieng4672
      @olgaachieng4672 2 года назад

      Wrong interpretation of Bible.When Jesus came all those lawswere abolished.Jesus accepts everyone .No one is cursed in Christ.If parents rejects child what will happen when the parents gets old and need those same children to help them?I have seen many asks for forgiveness in old age.Very interesting Indeed.

    • @paulineotinga3364
      @paulineotinga3364 2 года назад

      @@olgaachieng4672 Jesus came to fulfill the law.

  • @iswinfred8631
    @iswinfred8631 2 года назад +3

    Great interviewer keep it up 👏👏👏Am so sorry for what you went through Joshua

  • @nonoechibs2775
    @nonoechibs2775 2 года назад +3

    What a testimony 🙌👏Josh may the Lord continue to use yu and bless your family

  • @irinemugambi2048
    @irinemugambi2048 2 года назад +2

    I love this strong and loving grand mother,from heart she see these are really her blessed grand children

  • @luyigairene9271
    @luyigairene9271 2 года назад +8

    Much love from Uganda.....am learning alot from your platform....God bless you guys!

  • @evamunde517
    @evamunde517 2 года назад +1

    Joshua you are a Gentleman. I very much admire you ❤ . You are a Great inspiring Hubby and a daddy to yr daughter .
    Thank JK ON BEHAVE OF LN SHOW for hosting Pro Joshua. You are a Legend 👍

  • @Lee_Stanley
    @Lee_Stanley 2 года назад +52

    Me having been raised by a toxic mother,I know what it feels like. Even sharing it to people in the society only welcomes judgements because they both know no mother mistreats her own child. Nowadays I live for such toxic mother tales,atlist I feel I ain't the only one. God bless you Lynn.

    • @hawarajabu4130
      @hawarajabu4130 2 года назад +1

      Mi

    • @gracemutheu178
      @gracemutheu178 2 года назад +12

      My experience was worse but I thank God for my life.Many people don’t know that not all biological mums are mothers,,

    • @lornaatamba7928
      @lornaatamba7928 2 года назад +2

      Exactly Kwanza mm Aki

    • @wanjiku28
      @wanjiku28 2 года назад +1

      Pole sana munyuauki ,May God Comfort You and All those Who have undergo trauma through their family members. May God give them peace that surpasses every human understanding. May they Never lack and may God heal their minds and hearts. May God wipe their tears in Jesus Almighty Name 🙏. And for those in loving families, Always remember to thank God.

    • @wanjiku28
      @wanjiku28 2 года назад +2

      For those lacking parental love, May God continue holding your hands and never let it go. And may reconciliation be your portion in Jesus Almighty Name 🙏

  • @chef.harmonyharmonious4442
    @chef.harmonyharmonious4442 2 года назад +1

    Wow,kakai Joshua,I can testify this,we used to go for missions, and even those Kesha's. Even at githurai i was there,Big salute

  • @salomemueni100
    @salomemueni100 2 года назад +1

    Interviewer I love you for free...you are so very good listener and keenly on what to ask...no interruption as quest talks...thank you and keep going higher...
    🙏

  • @nirvana2073
    @nirvana2073 2 года назад +5

    When pain rises as power and grace. 🕊️

  • @lydiahnduta
    @lydiahnduta 2 года назад +5

    Waah deep in life he makes life beautiful no situation is permanent The God i serve is faithful Jesus Christ....

  • @dianakinyasi7487
    @dianakinyasi7487 2 года назад +2

    Big Up Joshua for sharing your story ,what kind of a mother was she ? Leaving your kids Mothrless? and no one sent her packing?But your grandma was a Hero..💪

  • @pwanja
    @pwanja 2 года назад +2

    Oh wow love the sweet message to his cucu & to his baby gal Shekinah 😭❤

  • @listeronyancha5115
    @listeronyancha5115 Год назад

    You have made me cry my son and May my good Lord continue giving you strength with family. It is all about forgiveness. Good health. I bless you as a single Mum.